All Episodes

66 Who Started It? The Decision to Open Up

65 Relationship Agreement Skills - Shared Values & Relationship Purpose

64 Trust: Building and Rebuilding

63 Relationship Sabotage

62 Wounds & Apologies

61 Relational Individuation: On becoming your Self

60 Making FUN happen in long term relationships

59 What do I do with unrequited hots?

58 Anxiety when you are consensually non-monogamous

57 Affection and Non-sexual Intimacy

56 Creative Monogamy

55 Parenting While Polyamorous

54 Where do we learn the skills of adult friendships?

53 How to be happier when big changes threaten your marriage

52 Sex parties? Yes, sex parties.

51 Let's optimize our sex lives!

50 Where is envy secretly kicking your ass?

49 Using love languages to make the gift-giving season more pleasurable

48 Keeping sex hot over the long term

47 Nuanced Conversations in Polyamory: Secondaries, Solos, and Couple's Privilege

46 How, when, and why to CELEBRATE!

45 Silent agreement - One person's perspective on a sexless marriage

44 Three ways porn has brought us closer together

43 The missing ingredient in boundary work with guest Melissa Hite

42 It's normal to be a messy human in messy relationships. Really, it is.

41 Emotional regulation and co-regulation

40 How to have a productive consensual non-monogamy conversation

39 I want to be consensually non-monogamous: how do I talk to my partner?

38 How jealousy was the best thing that ever happened to me

37 Summer's over... negotiating how we handle getting back to the grind

36 Vacation sex at home

35 How not to let your relationship agreement screw up your relationship

34 Three ways masturbation improves your relationship

33 Individuation Accelerator: What if we don't keep the same beat in our relationship?

32 What do I do when my partner's family is driving me crazy?

31 Threesomes... what to consider before the fun

30 How to go from off-the-rack to custom-designed relationship

29 Letting your partner grow at their own pace

28 Showing up for your partner during heartbreak & grief

27 Relationship agreements in the wild

26 Doesn't this person ever leave?

25 No, really, who IS this person I love?

24 Do I really want my lover to see me?

23 Magic marriage ingredient: Play

22 Relationship flags - red, green, and otherwise

21 A secret weapon for relationship satisfaction

20 What an open relationship *might* look like

19 The shame of a messy beginning

18 Shame & secrecy (and sex!)

17 Sexual Fantasies

16 Relationship agreements and polyamory (or monogamy!)

15 What does intimacy look like if you are non-monogamous?

14 Why polyamory?

13 Celebrating and still learning

12 Feel like a failure when a relationship ends? 3 tools to help ease life's big transitions

11 Making money talk-aboutable

10 Navigating drastically different communication styles

9 Fighting with love...how we relearned how to argue

8 Sex reimagined...with one question

7 How to get what you want for the holiday (or any day!)

6 The courage to want

5 Relationship resilience for the holidays

4 Who the heck IS this person I love?

3 Boundaries at the holidays

2 Empowered relating & holiday stress

1 Wanting more in love (even at the holidays!)