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SOFT x SAVAGE — 236 episodes

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Your Container Is Your Ceiling, Fear Is Just Unfamiliarity & Why Self Judgment Is Self Abuse in a Smarter Outfit w/ Janelle Moore

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Working 12 Hours a Week, Soft Girl Energy & Why Hustle Is Not the Flex You Think It Is

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Why the Woman You're Becoming Needs a Different Room Than the One You're In

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The Lindsay Clancy Trial, What Moms Aren't Saying Out Loud & Why the System Keeps Failing Us

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Why You Keep Getting the Same Results — And What Has to Change Before Anything Else Does

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Why Your Brain Never Fully Relaxes After Having a Baby, What Matrescence Actually Does to You & How to Build Around It

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How to Crash Out, Stay Hot & Keep Building: The Real Routine That Actually Keeps You Functional in Hard Seasons

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Why I Was Putting on a Show, The Veil That Lifts After Birth & What It Actually Feels Like to Build from Expression Not Performance

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The Visibility Trap, Why Most Creators Never Get Paid & The 3 Bridges That Actually Make You Money as a Mom

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Why Most Working Moms Can't Make It to the Second Shift, Nervous System Overload & Why You're Not Lazy

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Why Your Personal Brand Isn't Working, How AI Changed My Content Strategy & What Actually Builds Authority as a Mom

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Coaching to Luxury Jewelry, Trusting Your Inner Nudges & The Art of the Pivot w/ Stefanie Elsperman

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Jessi Jean's $1.2M Launch, The Joy Over Strategy Shift & Why I'm Done Building for the Goal

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Starting Over at 33, Building Hot Girl Wealth as a Mom & Why Blowing Up Your Life Is a Power Move

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Why My Content Got Boring, Breaking My Own Rules & How to Find Your Heartbeat Again

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More Isn't It: Why Volume Is Not the Answer, The Influential Code & What Actually Converts After Motherhood Changes You

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Motherhood as a Filter, Why You're Not Behind & The Real Hot Mom Business Era

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Comparing to Your Old Capacity, Naive Conviction & Why You Can't Go Back to Her

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Why You're Flattening Your Power, Breaking the Good Girl Voice & The Influential Code Explained

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5 Things I Wish I Knew Before Scaling a Business and Having a Baby

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Ep. 216: the justin bieber coachella moment nobody is talking about — and what it means if your content feels "too much"

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Ep 215: you can just decide to turn your energy on and that be that

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Ep. 214: Your "It Factor", Manifesting in a Bad Mood & Why Certainty is the Real Strategy w/ Mikayla Jai

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Ep. 213: 5 unconventional strategies that are quietly making me more money (& way happier)

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Ep. 212: stop faking it, it's not working

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Healing Trauma Bonds, Queen Energy & Why You Keep Attracting the Same Person w/ Andrea Crowder

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Ep. 210: You Can't Build a Movement While Playing Small in Private

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Ep. 209: What's The Point?! Getting Out of a Funk Without Toxic Positivity

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Ep. 208: Stop Trying to Be Relatable, Why Being Digestible Is Killing Your Influence

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Why People Ignore Your Content (Even When You're Doing Everything Right) — And How to Fix It

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Ep. 206: Ways Visibility Reveals Your Attachment Style, How To Be Seen More, & Why Showing Up Feels Dangerous

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Ep: 205: Want More Visibility? Master Your Relationships First

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Ep. 204: You Don’t Need More Visibility... You Need To Better Mental Health

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Time Management & Boundaries for Women in Business: The Systems That Actually Get You Results Without Burning Out

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2026 Ins & Outs: What to Leave Behind & What to Embrace to Get Hotter, Richer & More Powerful This Year

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Ep. 201: 2025 Wrapped: The Most Defining Podcast Moments

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Ep. 200: How to Stay Mentally in the Game When You’re Not Seeing Results

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EP. 199: UNPLUGGED: Motherhood, Wedding Planning, Scaling Companies, And Trying to Keep It All Together With Stefanie Elsperman

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Ep. 198: Becoming Her Again Series: 10 Things I’m Doing to Become *Her* Before 2026 (And How You Can Too)

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Ep. 197: Becoming Her Again Series: Routines That Make You Feel Hot, Whole & In Command Again

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Ep. 196: Becoming Her Again Series: The 4 Identity Shifts *That* Makes You That Woman Again

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Ep. 195: Becoming Her Again Series: The Moment I Realized I Lost Myself… And What It Took to Come Back

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Ep. 194: Why “10x” Energy Is Keeping You Broke — Get Rich as F*ck by Going Deeper, Not Harder With Megan Hatfield

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Ep. 193: Motherhood Exposed My Marriage Strengths… and My Weak Spots

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Ep. 192: Is Modern Femininity Making Motherhood and Marriage Harder Than It Needs to Be? With Monica Yates

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Ep. 191: Spilling the Tea on My Backend Systems (That Everyone Pretends Don’t Exist)

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The Unhinged Things I Did to Build a Multi-Six-Figure Business, Get Pregnant & Create My Dream Life as a Woman

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Ep. 189: The 5 Daily Actions I Take to Feel Wealthy and Magnetic

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Ep. 188: How to Stop Rushing Through Life and Actually Feel Safe Where You Are

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Ep. 187: Quitting Corporate America to Chase Love in Spain, Build a 7-Figure Brand… and Make Sh*t Happen with Samantha Daily

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Ep. 186: The Season No One Actually Prepares You For: Balancing Postpartum, Marriage & Multi-6 Figures

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Ep. 185: Build a Brand That Funds the Life You Want

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Ep. 184: Soft Won’t Sell: The Psychology of Why Customers Buy from the Bold

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Ep. 183: Stealing Hormozi’s $100M Playbook for My $100K Soft x Savage Launch: Here’s the Cliffnotes

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Ep. 182: Staring at a Blank Screen? How to Break Creative Blocks and Start Making Bank

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Ep. 181: Freedom, Fortune, & the Savage Season No One Talks About

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Ep. 180: 5 Unhinged Things That Make People Completely Obsessed With You (That You’re Probably Not Doing)

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Ep. 179: This One Belief Almost Killed My Business… and My Relationship

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Ep. 178: Authenticity Series #9— Be Her Now: How to Build a Brand That Breathes You

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Ep. 177: Authenticity Series #8— How Discipline Builds Authority: The Secret to Consistent, Magnetic Authenticity

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Ep. 176: Authenticity Series #7— Stop Trying to Be Someone New: Double Down on What Already Works

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Ep. 175: Authenticity Series #6— The #1 Thing Holding Back Your Income in 2025 (And How to Fix It Fast)

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Ep. 174: Authenticity Series #5— The Energetic Shift That Makes Your Content Land With Power + Ease

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Ep. 173: Authenticity Series #4: What Empowered Authenticity Really Means (And Why Your Vulnerability Isn’t Landing)

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Ep. 172: Authenticity Series #3 — The Most Common Authenticity Mistakes

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Ep. 171: Authenticity Series #2 — 3 Ways to Show Up Authentically Without Losing Authority

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Ep. 170: Authenticity Series #1: How to Build an Authentic Brand That Converts in 2025

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Ep. 169: Busy But Not Productive? Body Talk, Womb Wisdom, and Real Feminine Power w/ Sheina Raskin

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Ep. 168: The Secret to Scaling Without Burning Out or Starting Over

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Ep. 167: Reigniting Your Spark When Business Feels Off

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Ep. 166: Stop Trying to Be Who You Were: The Identity Shift That Prepares You for More

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Ep. 165: How to Stay Soft While Leading Like a Savage: Feminine Balance for Type-A High-Achieving Women

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Ep 164: Stop Feeling Icky About Sales: How to Build Systems That Feel Like You

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Ep. 163: The Part of You That’s Resisting Is the Part That’s About to Die

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Ep 162: This Is What Saved My Business When I Ended Up in the Hospital at 26 Weeks Pregnant on Bedrest

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Ep. 161: The Brutal Truth About Why You’re Stuck (And 4 Ways to Get Your Savage Momentum Back)

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Ep. 160: 0 to Married (and Pregnant) in Under a Year: The Unfiltered Tea You Didn’t Know You Needed With My Hubby Eduardo Gomez Del Casal

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3 Things You Can Do Today to Manifest Your Dream Life (Without Waiting on Perfect Conditions)

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Ep. 158: The Pre-Motherhood Structure That Made Me A Multi-6 Figure CEO

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Ep. 157: 3 Years Ago I Hit Record... Now I Make Money In My Sleep (Here’s What It Took)

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Ep. 156: You’re Doing Everything Right… So Why Aren’t You at $100K Yet?

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Ep. 155: The Feminine Edge—Commanding Influence Without Losing Your Softness

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Ep. 154: God as Your Guide in Business & Building a Million-Dollar Movement with Bridget James Ling

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Ep. 153: How I’m Scaling My Business for Motherhood & Still Hitting $1M

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Ep. 152: #UNPLUGGED: I'm PREGNANT!! And Stef is now the COO of Deep River Jewelry... Spilling the Tea on the BTS

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Ep. 150: Why Your Content Isn’t Pulling in the Clients You Actually Want

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Ep. 151: I Got in the Room With Tony Robbins—This Was His Biggest Advice

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Ep. 149: Creating a Luxury Brand Before You "Have It All"

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Ep. 148: How I Can Think of an Offer at 9 AM and Make 4 Figures by Noon

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Ep. 147: Creating an Online Brand That's In A League Of It's Own in 2025

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Ep. 146: Stop Handing Your Magic Over to ChatGPT (And Unlock Your True Creative Power Instead)

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Ep. 145: #UNPLUGGED: We’re Back and Doing Our Year in Review: Magic, Lessons & Bold Intentions for 2025 with Stef Elsperman

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Ep. 144: Reigniting Your Spark: How to Break Out of a Rut and Step Into Your Power

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Ep. 143: Branding Trends to Leave Behind in 2024: Mistakes You Can’t Afford

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Ep. 142: Why You’re Blocking Your Wealth (and How to Fix It) with Hayley Lloyd

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Ep. 141: How to Overcome Impostor Syndrome When You're in Rooms with People More Successful Than You

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Ep. 140: The Identity Shift To Being “That Girl” in 2025

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Ep. 139: Attracting Buyers Who Don’t Need a Discount: Premium Strategies for Black Friday and Beyond

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Ep. 138: From 10th Grade Drop Out to 7 Figures: The Power of Choice Points with Ryann Halo

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Grief, Growth & Grace: What Losing My Mother to Addiction Taught Me About Life, Business & Becoming

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How I Made $170K in 10 Months: The 5 Business Areas That Actually Moved the Needle

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How to Show Up in Your Business When Life Is Falling Apart: Resilience, Mindset & Keeping the Momentum

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Ep. 134: Unplugged: Life Updates // Navigating Identity Shifts, Leaving the Coaching Bubble, Stef's Engagement, & I'm Moving to CT?!

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Ep. 133: How to Become a Showstopper in Business And Build a Scalable Brand That Thrives Offline With Kara Fillion

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Ep. 132: The Secrets Behind Crushing Business and Love in the Same Year

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The #1 Personal Branding Mistake Keeping Women Small in Business (And Exactly How to Fix It)

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Ep. 130: Rebuilding Your Marriage and Inspiring His Leadership With Julie Tran

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How Authenticity Attracts High Ticket Clients & High Quality Love: The Identity Shift That Changes Everything

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Ep. 128: Separation Season: Stop Hiding and Chase Your Dreams

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Feminine & Masculine Energy in Relationships: How High Achieving Women Can Thrive in Love Without Losing Their Edge in Business

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Ep. 126: #Unplugged: Releasing Control, Ego Deaths, and Surrendering to the Unknown in Business & Relationships With Stef Elsperman

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Ep. 125: How Support Your Nervous System During A Transition Season

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Ep. 124: The KEY to Your Money Expansion With Lauren Plante

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The Personal Brand Mistakes That Are Killing Your Growth (And How to Fix Them) — Part 3

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The BOLD Method: How to Elevate Your Personal Brand & Stand Out as a Woman in Business — Part 2

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How to Position Yourself as an Industry Leader: The Energetic & Identity Shift That Changes Everything — Part 1

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Ep. 120: #UNPLUGGED: When To Rest Vs. 'Power Through' As An Entrepreneur With Stef

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Ep. 119: Be The CEO of Your Body With Emily Bostin

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High Performance Habits for Women: The Ultimate Summer Glow Up for Your Body, Business & Identity

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Ep. 117: THROUGH THE MALE LENS: What Men Really Look For When Committing with Michael Perez

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Ep. 116: The 2 Things I Did This Year That Completely Shifted My Dating Life & My Bank Account

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Ep. 115: #Unplugged: What No One Tells You About Being A High-Performing Woman Dating a Purpose-Driven Man With Stef Elsperman

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Ep. 114: The Key To Your Next Level of Success Lies in Building Your Personal Brand. Here’s Where To Start

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Ep: 113: THE MALE LENS: The Male Perspective on Becoming More Feminine to Attract a Masculine Partner with Zane Foy

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Ep. 112: The SOFT x SAVAGE: The Key To Attracting Leaders Into Your Life

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Ep. 111: UNPLUGGED: LIES About Friendships As A CEO And The Truth You Need To Hear With Laura & Stef

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Ep. 110: Rewiring Romance: The Power of NLP in Your Love Life with Brenda Amiel

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Ep. 109: Why “If He Wanted To He Would” Is Sh*tty Dating Advice

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Ep. 108: Accessing Your Akashic Records To Turn Up The Heat In Your Dating Life With Mari Leigh

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Ep. 107: Is That 10 Point Checklist Of Your “Dream Man” Keeping You From Actually Attracting Him?

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Ep. 106: The Power Of Female Friendships with Theadora Vosse

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Ep. 105: 5 Ways You’re Repelling Masculine Men

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Ep. 104: #UNPLUGGED: Being Too Much Is Your Super Power With Stefanie Elsperman

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Ep. 103: The Missing Link in Your Dating Life: What Every High-Value Woman Needs to Know

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Ep. 102: Male Perspective: Navigating Purpose, Faith, and Dating With Colton Daly

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Ep. 101: How To Show Up Consistently To Avoid Burn Out

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Ep. 100: Celebrating 100 Episodes with Stef Interviewing Laura on Her Journey Through Heartbreak, Depression, 19k Debt to the Rich Life

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Ep. 99: Build Your Personal Brand Like Your Dating Profile To Attract High-Value Leads (And Men)

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EP. 98: Reclaiming Your Sense of Self After Sexual Violence With Alreen Haeggquis

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Ep. 97: Sexual Confidence: How to Build It & How to Show It

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Ep. 96: #UNPLUGGED: Prepare For What You’re Praying For With Stef Elsperman

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Ep. 95: Why You Aren’t Getting Results When You’ve Been “Doing The Work”

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Ep. 94: Overcoming Grief & Finding Yourself After Loss With Whitney Allen

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Dating With Past Trauma: How to Stop Self-Sabotaging & Attract Healthy Love After Being Hurt

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Ep. 92: Claiming Your Sexual Liberation in 2024 with Nikki Fielding

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Ep. 91: My 2023 Biggest Dating Mistakes & What They Taught Me

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Ep. 90: #Unplugged & Unhinged: Laura & Stef Tell ALL For This 2023 Recap

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How to Heal Your Fear of Being Seen: Visibility, Vulnerability & Showing Up Fully in Life and Business

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Ep. 88: Calling In Your Conscious Relationship with Taylor Tosczak

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Ep: 87: How to Start Trusting Men

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Ep. 86: Steps to Take Before Finding Lasting Love With Whitney Eve

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6 Things Every High Quality Masculine Man Actually Wants in a Woman (That Nobody Talks About)

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Ep. 84: #UNPLUGGED: Finding Your X-Factor in Love & Business With Stef Elsperman

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Ep. 83: Do You Invest Too Early in Dating? Here's How to Stop

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Ep. 82: Mastering Manifestation and Play With Marie Reginato

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Ep. 81: Life Update: My Break Up, Moving, And Navigating The Dating World Again

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Ep. 80: Psychic Insights into My Dating Journey with Jaque

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Ep. 79: Why So Many Self-Sabotage In Dating (& How To Stop Doing It)

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Ep. 78: #UNPLUGGED: How to Have TRUE Confidence in Dating & Business With Stef Elsperman

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Ep. 77: How To Get High-Quality Men To Approach You

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Episode 76: Navigating Miscarriage and Rekindling Relationship Bonds with Erika

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Healing From Heartbreak as a High Achieving Woman: How to Grieve, Rebuild & Come Back Stronger

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Ep. 74: What to Do BEFORE Reaching Out to an Ex

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Ep 73: #UNPLUGGED: Chat With My Long Time BFF On What 13 Years Of Friendship REALLY Looks Like

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Ep. 72: Why Female Friendships Are Key To Having Success In Dating

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Ep. 71: Embracing Your Multi-Passionate Self With Regina O Silva

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Ep 70: When You Thought You Would Be Further Along In Life By Now Than You Are

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Ep. 69: 4 Pillars of Self-Love With Meaghan Moran

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Ep. 68: The Key to Calling in a Masculine Partner & Unlocking the #PreHousewifeEra

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Ep. 67 #UNPLUGGED: Healing Hearts, Unexpected Moments, and the Power of Play With Stef Elsperman

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Ep. 66: High Standards or Self-Sabotage? Unveiling the Secrets to Dating Success!

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Ep. 65: Amplifying Your True Self in Relationships and Business With Human Design Expert Morgan Whiteley

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Ep. 64: Unveiling the Mystery: 3 Reasons Why He's Pulling Away and How to Respond

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Ep. 63: UNPLUGGED: Embracing the Shadows of Success With Stef Elsperman

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Unbroken: How to Alchemize Pain, Trauma & Heartbreak Into Your Greatest Power

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Ep. 61: Raising Your Standard: Healing the Father Wound for Authentic Relationships with Nastassia Cornett

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Ep. 60: Navigating Modern Dating Challenges: Ghosting, Communication, and Vulnerability

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Ep. 59: The Raw Truth of Going From Burnout To Thriving with Lindsey

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Ep. 58: 3 Ways to Attract the Love You Deserve by Liberating Yourself from Unavailable Men

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Ep. 57: Embrace Your Authenticity: Breaking Stigmas, Awakening Sexuality, and Reclaiming Personal Power With Jess Bax

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Ep. 56: Growing Pains: Navigating the Fear of Outgrowing Those Around You

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Ep. 55: Tantra as The Key to You Becoming Free To Be All That You Are With Liz Punya

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Ep. 54: Eliminating Self-Sabotage & Coming Home to Yourself

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Ep. 53: Healing From Narcissistic Abuse With Mary Saunders

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Ep. 52: ONE YEAR Anniversary Episode!!: 12 lessons over the last 12 months

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Ep. 51: Finding Your Sex Drive, Overcoming People Pleasing, and Conscious Uncoupling

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Ep. 50. Letting Go Of The Need To Be Perfection

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Ep. 49: Healing Trauma Bonds To Business, Creating More Rest, And Finding Acceptance In Relationship

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Ep. 48: Making $600k And Leading With A Tender Heart With Reese Hilburn

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Ep. 47: How to build trust with the people in your life & not project your insecurities

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Ep. 46: Holding Your Power When You’re Being Tested With Shoshanna Raven

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Ep. 45: How To Create Safety When All You've Experienced Are Toxic Relationships

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Ep. 44: How to Soften & Rest Without The Guilt As A CEO With Giulia Guerrieri

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Ep. 43: 3 Ways Your Negative Body Image Is Keeping You From Having The Relationship You Crave

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Ep. 42: Moving From Your Head & Back Into Your Body As A High-Achiever With Stef Elsperman

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Ep. 41: 9 Reflections from 2022 + What You Can Do For 2023 To Create An Iconic Life

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Ep. 40: MovTHRU Grief With Emily Bingham

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Ep. 39: When Trying To Heal PTSD In A New Relationship

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Ep. 38: What Happens To Your Body After A Breakup With The Gut Goddess, Jamie Trevathan

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Ep. 37: The Mistakes High-Level Women Make in Modern Dating

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Ep. 36. What to Do When You Question Yourself & Your Leadership With Thomas Renner

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Ep. 35: WWLD: Vulnerability in Dating When You Can Easily Do It In Friendships

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Ep. 34: Finding God in the good, not the rock bottom with Victoria Washington

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Ep. 33: How To Quantum Leap Your Healing Heart

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Ep. 32. Navigating Life As An Empath And Reconnected To Your Authenticity With Hannah Joyce

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Ep. 31. Transitioning From Breakup to Dating

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Ep. 30. Sacred Surrender Of Rest As A Catalyst For Business & Motherhood With Kady Taylor

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Ep. 29. Why Has Dating Gotten So Complicated

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Ep. 28. Overcoming Perfectionism So You Can Heal Your Health With Kathlyn & Melissa from Connecting The Dots

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E. 27. Finding The Sacredness In Your Singlehood

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Ep. 26. Trusting & Manifesting Your Dream Life And Creating An Intuitively-Led Business With Rave Reid

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Ep. 25. Ignoring the signs the relationship needed to end

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Ep. 24. Gene Keys and Finding Your Purpose With Sue of Alma Rose

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Ep. 23. Why Do We Repeat the Same Dysfunctional Relationship Patterns Over and Over?

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Ep. 22. Overcoming Social Anxiety Post Pandemic And Creative Expression For Trauma With Michalla Bohon

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Ep. 21. Getting Over Your Ex

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Ep. 20. Setting Boundaries While Working Corporate With Kira-Friederike Brüxkes

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Ep. 19. Stop Making Dating So Hard On Yourself

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Ep. 18. Get Your Life Together Girl with Danielle A. Vann

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Ep. 17. Becoming The Artist Of Your Life

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Ep. 16. Entrepreneurship As A Spiritual Initiation with Hannah Jean of Rewild The Soul

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Ep. 15. From Survivor To CEO: Overcoming Trauma And Building A Global Brand

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Ep. 14. Finding Safety In The Softness And Shifting The Shadow With Jessi Galvin

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Ep. 13: How can you tell if they're manipulating you?

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Ep. 12. Living Fully And Returning To Your Life’s Purpose With Sue Allen

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Ep. 11. The methodology that took me from addicted and manic to Unbreakably Bold

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Ep. 10: Tapping into Your Luxurious Feminine Power with Sheila Ramsay

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Ep.9: Break Ups Don’t Have To Break You

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Ep. 8. Intentionally Designing Your Life and Business as Sacred with Tanya Lopez

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Ep. 7: Releasing the need of getting it perfect & taking aligned action

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Ep. 6. Sitting in grief after a breakup & what’s on the other side w/ Julia Panchkowry, The Banana Warrior

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Ep. 5. Why We Broke Up And Leading With A Healing Heart

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Ep. 4. 3 Areas of life that are impacted when you heal your nervous system

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Ep. 3: What to do when you’re scared they’ll leave you

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EP. 2: Why you keep going back and/or attactracting the same people that stress you the F out

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Feeling the Fear and Doing It Anyway: How to Stop Letting Fear Run Your Life, Your Relationships & Your Business