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The Estranged Heart, 290 episodes. Page 2 of 3.

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EP187: You Think That’s Abuse? C-PTSD & The Dangerous Legacy of Trauma Comparison

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EP186: Unseen Wounds - How C-PTSD May Be Shaping Your Story (Without You Knowing)

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EP185: Echo Chambers

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EP184: Dear Estranged Heart - Too Little, Too Late?

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EP183: This Past Mother's Day Wasn't Easy (for adult children)

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EP182: Dear Estranged Heart - How To Navigate Family Conversations About EAC

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EP181: This Past Mother’s Day Really Hurt (for estranged moms)

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EP180: Our Collective Pain Can Become Our Collective Power

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EP179: Dear Estranged Heart - How Do I Get Through Mother's Day?

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EP178: When “Happy, Happy, Joy, Joy” Hurts More Than It Helps

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EP177: Dear Estranged Heart - New Beginnings or False Hope

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EP176: When Pain Speaks Loudest: Why Divisive Language Isn’t the Answer

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EP175: An Estranged Son Speaks Out

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EP174: Another Fracture (part III) - Kreed's Second Story of Loss & Change

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EP173: Another Fracture (part II) - Kreed's Second Story of Loss & Change

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EP172: Another Fracture (part I) - Kreed's Second Story of Loss and Change

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EP171: Dear Estranged Heart - What Should I Say In A Follow Up To A Pause Letter?

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EP170: I Wasn't Willing or Able At The Time - Estranged Adult Child Interview, part II

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EP169: Dear Estranged Heart - Am I Just Repeating the Cycle?

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EP168: We Need To Heal This Family - Estranged Adult Child Interview - part I

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EP167: Dear Estranged Heart - But What If 'Their Version of Reality' Is NOT Real?

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EP166: Curiosity Be Damned!

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EP165: Dear Estranged Heart - Why Does My Child Insist On Hurting Me By Not Acknowledging My Birthday?

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EP164: Divorce & Estrangement: Understanding the Lasting Impact on Your Child

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EP163: Dear Estranged Heart - Why Isn't My Apology Enough? I've Apologized MANY Times. What Else Can I Do?

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EP162: Unshaming Motherhood in Estrangement

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EP161: Dear Estranged Heart - When Can I Share What Changes I've Made?

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EP160: Power and Choice: The Unique Dynamics That Shape Parent-Adult Child Relationships

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EP159: Dear Estranged Heart - Should I Choose To Remain Estranged If ... ?

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EP158: Reclaiming Curiosity In Estranged Relationships

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EP157: Why ‘Happy, Happy, Joy, Joy’ Culture Contributes to Estrangement - The Cost of Chasing Only the Light

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EP156: A Key to Healing Estranged Relationships: The Freedom of Letting Them Be

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EP155: Who Can You Turn To? Navigating the Pain of Estrangement Without Straining Your Closest Relationships

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EP153: When Traditions No Longer Fit: Grieving the Loss

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EP155: Damn If I Do, Damn If I Don't

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EP151: Make It Make Sense

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EP150: The Estranged Heart - three years later

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EP149: Pushing & Prodding are NOT Helping You!

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EP148: Why Is She Reconciled and I'm Still Estranged?

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EP147 - Is it Verbal Abuse or a Cry About an Unmet Need?

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EP146: I Would Have Been the Perfect Mother for Me, But Probably Not for Her

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EP145: Healing the Pain of Estrangement: Your Child’s Invitation

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EP144: Broken Trust - How To Rebuild It

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EP143: Expectations & Estrangement - the hidden dynamics

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EP142: Will They Reap What They Sow

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EP141: The Complexity of 'Choice' In Parent/Adult Child Estrangement

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EP: 140 - The GOOD Son, My SONshine - How favoritism can prohibit any chance of reconciliation

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EP139: How Can My Estranged Adult Child Be So Heartless?

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EP138: But We Were SO Close! I Don't Understand What Happened!

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EP137: Dear Estranged Mom - I see you, I hear you, I validate your feelings

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EP136: Sometimes I Wonder If They Even Miss Me - something every estranged parent asks

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EP135: Estranged Daughter / Estranged Dad - part II

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EP134: Estranged Daughter / Estranged Dad - part I

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EP133: Apology vs Amends - what's the difference?

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EP132: My Daughter-In-Law Has Broken Our Family - The Myth of the Gatekeeper

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EP131: Things Estranged Parents Grapple With

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EP130: Estranged Dads Hurt Too (Father's Day)

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EP129: Living With The Rejection & Separation

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EP128: Should I Keep Trying? Do I WANT To Keep Trying? - how a pause letter can help

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EP127: Road to Reconciliation

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EP126: Reconciliation IS Possible - even after 10 years of estrangement

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EP125: From Pain to Peace on Mother's Day - perspective is everything

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EP124: Still A Mother

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Why Do They Stay SO Angry & Resentful?

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EP122: When Change Comes Calling - transitions create opportunities

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EP121: Interview w/An Adult Daughter (part 4 of 4) - If I Could Just Get My Mom To See Me

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EP120: Interview w/An Adult Daughter (part 3 of 4) - If I Could Just Get My Mom To See Me

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EP119: Interview w/An Adult Daughter (part 2 of 4) - If I Could Just Get My Mom To See Me

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EP118: Interview w/An Adult Daughter (part 1 of 4) - If I Could Just Get My Mom To See Me

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We’ll Never Heal If They Won’t Do The Repair Work WITH Me!

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EP116: Emotional Triggers - Kreed's Recent Personal Triggering Experience with Her Mom

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EP115: Why Are They Holding A Grudge? Why Won't They Forgive Me?

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EP114: LACK OF APOLOGIES & CHANGED BEHAVIOR - Themes of Parent/Adult Child Estrangement

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EP113: RELIGION, POLITICS, IDENTITY ACCEPTANCE - Themes of Parent / Adult Child Estrangement

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EP112: NARCISSISM & EMOTIONAL IMMATURITY - Themes of Parent/Adult Child Estrangement

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EP111: Denial of Issues or Problems in Parent / Adult Child Estrangement

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EP110: BOUNDARIES - Themes of Parent/Adult Child Estrangement

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EP109: EMOTIONAL NEGLECT & ABUSE - Themes of Parent/Adult Child Estrangement

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EP108: Interview With An Estranged Mom

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EP107: Why Can’t Things Remain The Same? Navigating Change in Parent-Adult Child Estrangement

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EP106: Interview With An Estranged Adult Child - I Want My Mom To Love Me In A New Way (part III)

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EP105: Interview With An Estranged Adult Child - I Want My Mom To Love Me In A New Way (part II)

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EP104: Interview With An Estranged Adult Child - I Want My Mom To Love Me In A New Way

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EP103: I Want My Parents To Practice The Pause Instead of Reacting with "YOU'VE Done This To ME!"

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EP102: Interview With An Estranged Adult Daughter

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EP101 - Dear Estranged Mom: the grief, the anger - where does it go?

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EP100: To Reconcile or Remain Estranged

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EP99: Communication - Labels & Words

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EP98: Communication - empower self to prevent or declare estrangement

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EP97: Two Years With The Estranged Heart

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EP96: Are They Still The Same Person? Or are we living with outdated versions & assumptions of our estranged loved ones?

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EP95: Kreed & AC Answer Listener Questions

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EP94: I've Done The Work .... and they still won't give me the time of day.

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EP93: How Many Sides? How do we navigate conflict when there are so many sides to the story?

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EP92: Kreed & AC Answer Listener Questions

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EP91: Why Giving Your Children All The Things You Never Had Backfires

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EP90: HELP! My Adult Child Says They Don't Feel Safe With Me

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Bonus Episode: A Message on National Grandparent's Day

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EP89: Difficult Truths & Comforting Lies - Why do **I** have to work on myself when they aren't doing the same?!

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EP88: Kreed Answers Listener Questions