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#384: Exciting Changes And Opportunities For Recovery

#383 : I Feel Really Stuck And I Want To Figure It Out.

#382: I Don't Want A Divorce, But I Don't Know If I Can Stay Like It Is.

#381: I Feel Like I'm Safe, But My Partner Doesn't Think I Am. What Do We Do?

#380: There's No Physicality In Our Marriage With No End In Sight. What Do I Do?

#379: Do We Need To Completely Tear Down Our Relationship To Rebuild It?

#378: Do I Have To Do A Therapeutic Seperation To Not Be Codependent?

#377: What If My Faith Has Shifted And It Makes My Partner Uncomfortable ?

#376: Things Have Improved A Lot: Why Am I Still Unhappy?

#375: My Husband Has A Career With A Lot Of Opportunity To Act Out. How Do I Keep My Safety?

#374: I Feel Like I've Been Traumatized In My Marriage. What Now?

#373: Why Is Emotional Resilience Important?

#372: How Long Should I Wait For True Change To Happen In My Partner?

#371: Let's Tackle Some More Of Your Tough Questions

#370: Let's Talk Through Some Interesting Questions

#369: How Do I Stay Transparent After The Disclosure?

#368: Is It Wrong Of Me To Want My Partner To Be Sexually Attracted To Me?

#367: How Can I Be Fully Authentic And Rebuild Trust With My Spouse?

#366: Why Won't Men Seek Help Or Help Each Other When They Have Been Betrayed?

#365: As A Betrayed Partner, Why Would I Sabotage Real Recovery?

#364: When Should We Work On "Us" In The Recovery Process?

#363: I Want To Be A Therapist. Is That Okay If I'm Still Working On My Recovery?

#362: How Do I Actually Discover Who I Really Am?

#361: Sobriety Alone Is Not Recovery, And Codependency Is Not Empathy

#360: We've Hit A New Rock Bottom. Where Do We Go From Here?

#359: How Do I Accept God's Love Despite All Of My Defects?

#358: What Is Real Integrity?

#357: I've Been In Recovery For 5 Years Now, Does The Work Ever Lighten Up Or End?

#356: I've Tried Everything To Overcome My Anxiety, Now What?

#355: Help Me Navigate This Difficult Family Situation

#354: How Do I Develop A Growth Mindset In Recovery?

#353: Should I Continue To Fight For My Relationship?

#352: How Do I Move My Recovery From My Head To My Heart?

#351: What Is The Difference Between Consumption And Connection?

#350: How Do I Find Good Therapy?

#349: Four Principles Of Recovery That I Learned From A 50 Mile Race

#348: What Is A Warrior Heart?

#347: Do My Expectations Get In My Way For Consistent Self-Care?

#346: Is It Apathy Or Healthy Boundaries?

#345: Let's Talk About Anxiety, Scrupulosity, And Sexuality

#344: How Can Sex Be A Benefit Or A Detriment To Healing After Betrayal

#343: Is My Partner Gaslighting Me?

#342: As I Get Back Into The Dating World Should I Look For Somebody Without A Porn Problem?

#341: Can You Actually Rebuild Trust?

#340: Let's Talk About All Things Sex in Recovery

#339: What Are Some Of The Breakthroughs In Recovery?

#338: How Do I Process My Pain Without Impeding Empathy For My Partner ?

#337: I Hate My Personal Character Flaws. How Do I Work On Changing Them?

#336: I Want To Be True To Myself In Recovery And I Also Want To Be Empathetic To My Family.

#335: I Realize That I Struggle With Dishonesty For Self-Protection: Help

#334: We Are Stuck In An In-House Separation. How Do We Move Forward?

#333: How Do I Create Lasting Change?

#332: Let's Tackle Some Tough Questions

#331: What Is Recovery And What Is Not Recovery?

#330: I'm Married To "Mr. Nice Guy". How Do I Do This?

#329: Is There Any Way Out Of Feeling Hopeless?

#328: Is Recovery "One Size Fits All" ?

#327: Can I Set A Boundary Around My Spouse's Lying?

#326: Let's Talk About The Difference Between Limerence And Love

#325: I've Done All I Can And I Still Feel Like I'm Not Enough. Am I Good Enough For God?

#324: How Can I Find Peace No Matter What

#323: How Do I Know When My Spouse Has Forgiven Me?

#322: How Do I Navigate Rebuilding Trust And Showing Up Authentically After Relapse?

#321: My Partner's Done A Little Bit Of Recovery Work. Should I Just Be Okay Now?

#320: What Is Required To Heal?

#319: Why Should I Work On Me Before I Worry About We?

#318: Why Is It So Difficult To Make Amends

#317: Let's Talk About The Cornerstones Of Recovery

#316: What Does It Actually Mean To Not Take Your Partner's Pain Personally?

#315: Why Do I Struggle When Things Are Going Well?

#314: When Do I Know Enough Is Enough?

#313: When Should I Put Myself Out There To Give Trust A Chance Again?

#312: How Safe Is Safe Enough To Re-engage Fully In My Relationship

#311: What Is One Of The Most Important Recovery Tools?

#310: I Blew Up My Family For My Affair Partner- Now What?

#309: Why Do You Have To Feel It To Heal It?

#308: Let's Tackle Some Tough Questions ( Part 2)

#307: Let's Tackle Some Tough Questions (Part 1)

#306: I Feel Like I'm Working A Great Recovery, But My Partner Feels Different. How Do I Not Get Defensive?

#305: Let's Give Some Rapid Fire Answers To Tough Questions

#304: The More Active I Get In My Religion, The Harder It Is To Avoid Pornography

#303: How Do I Make Deep, Real Friendships During Recovery ?

#302: Why Is Feeding The Fear Cycle So Damaging

#301: There's A Big Part Of Me Telling Me To Go, And A Piece Of Me That Wants To Stay. What Should I Do?

#300: My Husband Is Enmeshed With His Mom. What Do I Do ?

#299: We're Going Through The Disclosure Process And I Have A Lot Of Questions.

#298: Why Is Prioritizing And Understanding Women's Sexuality Important?

#297: I'm Finally Finding Traction In Recovery, But My Family Is A Mess. What Can I Do?

#296: How Do I Find My Heart In The Mess Of Recovery?

#295: How Can Getting A Change Of Environment Awaken You?

#294: How Do I Move From Drama To Empowerment?

#293: To All Men, I'm Not Calling You Out, I'm Calling You Up.

#292: Is God The Father A Protector?

#291: Am I Consuming Women, And Should I Stop Dating ?

#290: What Is Porn And Is There Good Porn?

#289: I Worry That My Boundaries Are Ruining My Marriage, And My Partner Agrees

#288: Why Is Vulnerability Awesome For Some And Terrifying For Others

#287: Is There A Way To Rebuild Our Relationship Or Is There Just Too Much Trauma?

#286: The Bomb Just Dropped. Can The Relationship Really Heal?

#285: I Feel Shame About The Things I Avoided and Didn't Pay Attention To