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It’s springtime, the sun is out, and the "BFFs" are back for a conversation that is as refreshing as the season. In this episode, Heather Pettey, CPC, and Dr. Carol Lynn dive into the "beauty treatments" of midlife—from the glamorous style of Mad Men to the practical (and often unspoken) medical solutions for bladder health. Whether you’re curious about the "tampon trick" for exercise-induced leaking, wondering about the recovery time for a bladder sling, or just looking for a bargain on a new layered necklace set, this episode covers it all. Heather and Carol Lynn remind us that thriving in midlife means taking care of ourselves from the inside out—and maybe doing it in a very cute wide-leg jogger set.  In This Episode, We Discuss: Pop Culture Pursuits: Why Dr. Carol Lynn is officially obsessed with Mad Men and the timeless "Betty Draper" aesthetic. Springtime Beauty Checklists: The duo’s personal lists for the season, including laser hair removal, Botox timing, and the "au naturel" nail trend. The "Leaky Bladder" Conversation: Dr. Carol Lynn breaks down the difference between urge incontinence and stress incontinence. Medical Solutions for Midlife: * ThermiVa: An in-office, non-surgical treatment for vaginal dryness and bladder control. The Urethral Sling: What the "bladder tack" surgery actually is and what to expect during recovery. The Tampon Trick: A simple hack for women who experience leaking specifically during exercise. Midlife Fashion & Bargains: Heather shares her favorite "retro" wide-leg jogger set and Carol Lynn reveals a $15 layered necklace find. Featured Resources & Links: Skincare Favorites: Obagi Tinted Moisturizer with SPF 50. Home Tech: Michael Todd Dermaplaning Tool. Heather’s Look: Retro wide-leg jogger set. Podcast Connection: Don’t forget to tap the (+) in the top right corner to subscribe! Memorable Quotes: "Midlife isn't about slowing down; it's about living fully." — Heather Pettey "If it’s not bothering you, it certainly doesn’t bother me—but when you can't stand or cough without leaking, it’s time to do something." — Dr. Carol Lynn Connect With Us: Subscribe: Tap the plus sign (+) in the top right corner of your screen on Apple Podcasts so you never miss an episode. Connect with Your Life Coach BFFs: Join the Midlife Moxie Newsletter: Don't miss out on fun items, exclusive updates, and the best life ever! The link is right in the show notes. Sign Up and Get the latest MOXIE news! Follow on Social Media: All our community connection is on our Our Midlife Moxie Facebook Page! (Yes, the podcast is Life Coach BFF Show, but our social is under Our Midlife Moxie – we hope to see you there!). @ourmidlifemoxie The Journal: Grab your My Midlife Moxie Journal on Amazon and register it on page two. Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal Connect with us: Sign Up and Get the latest MOXIE news!   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Host Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be taken as medical advice. Always consult with your personal physician regarding your health needs.

In this episode, Heather and Dr. Carol Lynn catch up after a brief hiatus to discuss what they’ve been watching during their downtime. From the high-society drama of The Madison to the cigarette-smoke-filled rooms of 1960s Mad Men, the BFFs dive deep into the nostalgia of the past and the "glitz and glam" they're craving today. They also swap "boy mom" stories about the unique challenges of middle school hygiene and share a few book-to-movie recommendations. In This Episode, We Discuss: Current TV Obsessions: * The Madison: Heather and Carol Lynn discuss the beautiful setting and the "ageless" Michelle Pfeiffer. Mad Men: Deep dive into the 1960s—the furniture, the fashion, and the shocking (by today's standards) cultural norms like littering and drinking at the office. The Love Story: The uncanny resemblance of the actor playing JFK Jr. and the fascination with Martha’s Vineyard real estate prices from 1979. A Man on the Inside: Dr. Carol Lynn’s recommendation featuring Ted Danson as a spy in a retirement community. The Nostalgia Factor: Why watching shows set in the 60s and 70s feels like a trip back to childhood, and Heather’s attempt to introduce her kids to classics like Gilligan's Island and I Dream of Jeannie (with hilarious results). Life with Teenage Boys: The "Do Not Care Club" of middle school hygiene. From the struggle to get them to bathe to the overpowering scent of AXE body spray, the struggle is real! Book Talk: Heather shares her love for The Housemaid series by Freida McFadden and compares the reading experience to the film adaptation. Moxie Style: Why the older we get, the more we need sparkles, fringe, and feathers. Dr. Lynn reveals her latest "Megan from Mad Men" inspired purchase. Mentioned in This Episode: TV Shows: The Madison (Apple TV+), Mad Men, The Love Story (JFK Jr. & Carolyn Bessette), A Man on the Inside (Netflix), Gilligan’s Island, Family Affair. Books: The Housemaid by Freida McFadden. Fashion: Trina Turk (for those fabulous fringe pants!). Connect with Us: Follow the Show: Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode! Join the Community: Check out the Moxie Journal Club for more inspiration. Socials: Tag us with your latest TV binge or your favorite "glam" find! Connect with Us: Subscribe: Tap the plus sign (+) in the top right corner of your screen on Apple Podcasts so you never miss an episode. Connect with Your Life Coach BFFs: Join the Midlife Moxie Newsletter: Don't miss out on fun items, exclusive updates, and the best life ever! The link is right in the show notes. Sign Up and Get the latest MOXIE news! Follow on Social Media: All our community connection is on our Our Midlife Moxie Facebook Page! (Yes, the podcast is Life Coach BFF Show, but our social is under Our Midlife Moxie – we hope to see you there!). @ourmidlifemoxie The Journal: Grab your My Midlife Moxie Journal on Amazon and register it on page two. Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal Connect with us: Keep up with the Moxie community and don't forget to put your lip gloss on and smile! We are cheering for you every step of the way. Sign Up and Get the latest MOXIE news!   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Host Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice! Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. Heather Pettey is a certified coach, Dr. Carol Lynn is a licensed physician, and our guests share their own expertise. Nothing you hear here should be taken as medical advice. Always talk with your own doctor about your personal health or medical needs.

Episode 271 BONUS: Celebrate World Hormone Day, Doggy Drama, and Making time for Micro-Adventures Hosts: Heather Pettey & Dr. Carol Lynn 📍 "hello there, gorgeous. Welcome back..." In this fun and fast-paced bonus episode, Heather Pettey and Dr. Carol Lynn dive into a delightful mix of life's everyday moments, practical health advice, and insightful observations about modern trends. This episode is the perfect blend of girlfriends chatting and expert advice, just in time to celebrate World Hormone Day. Dr. Carol Lynn and Heather share laughs, personal anecdotes, and valuable information every woman in midlife needs to hear. What's in this Episode: Parenthood & Pets: Heather and Dr. Carol Lynn share hilarious and relatable stories about their dogs, Kendall and "Kitty Cat." They tackle the common (and often mistaken) perception of how people view their pets versus their children, and who really sits at the top of the hierarchy (spoiler: it’s the grandchildren!). The Infertility Incline: Dr. Carol Lynn addresses the rising concern of infertility in the U.S. She discusses potential contributing factors, including the trend of starting families later, anxiety in younger generations, and silent health issues like chlamydia and endometriosis. Preventing Teen Pregnancy vs. Military Size: In a surprising twist, Heather and Carol Lynn discuss an unexpected consequence of the successful push to reduce teen pregnancies and what it might mean for the future of the military. Celebrating World Hormone Day: The main event! The hosts dive into all things hormones, from the immediate and life-changing benefits of testosterone pellets to the sudden shortage of estrogen patches. Dr. Carol Lynn explains the science behind the shift from pills to patches and what women need to know. The Protein Panic: Are you getting enough protein? The hosts break down the recent buzz about massive protein intake, how it contributes to muscle mass and bone density, and give you practical tips (like their two-egg-a-day rule!) to boost your numbers. Fighting Digital Fatigue with Micro-Adventures: Are you sick of scrolling? Heather and Carol Lynn talk about why we're all feeling "digital fatigue" and the importance of taking "micro-adventures"—small, affordable, and refreshing getaways—to reset our vagus nerves. The Midlife Maintenance Battle: In one of the episode's funniest moments, Heather and Dr. Carol Lynn bond over the never-ending maintenance of midlife—from the dreaded magnifying mirror to tweezing chin hairs in the car. It’s the kind of real talk you can only have with your best girlfriends. Fairness in Healthcare: To wrap up, Dr. Carol Lynn leaves listeners with a thought-provoking final point about the vast discrepancy in pricing between necessary medications for women and those for men. Key Takeaways & Mentions: Book a Micro-Adventure: Take a cue from Heather and Dr. Carol Lynn and plan a small escape. It doesn't have to be big; it just needs to be a reset! Count Your Plants: Aim for 30 different plants a week for gut health. (It's easier than you think—just look at your dinner plate!). Hormone Maintenance: Get your testosterone checked and don't be afraid to maintain your physical well-being. Two Eggs a Day: A simple way to start your day with a solid dose of protein. Join the Community: Don't navigate midlife alone! Join our vibrant private Facebook group, Midlife Moxie, for more tips, favorite things, and support. This bonus episode is a testament to the fact that conversation between girlfriends can cover everything from the mundane to the life-changing—all with a hearty dose of humor and heart. Happy World Hormone Day! Remember to put your lip gloss on and smile! Connect with Us: Subscribe: Tap the plus sign (+) in the top right corner of your screen on Apple Podcasts so you never miss an episode. Connect with Your Life Coach BFFs: Join the Midlife Moxie Newsletter: Don't miss out on fun items, exclusive updates, and the best life ever! The link is right in the show notes. Sign Up and Get the latest MOXIE news! Follow on Social Media: All our community connection is on our Our Midlife Moxie Facebook Page! (Yes, the podcast is Life Coach BFF Show, but our social is under Our Midlife Moxie – we hope to see you there!). @ourmidlifemoxie The Journal: Grab your My Midlife Moxie Journal on Amazon and register it on page two. Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal Connect with us: Keep up with the Moxie community and don't forget to put your lip gloss on and smile! We are cheering for you every step of the way. Sign Up and Get the latest MOXIE news!   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Host Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice! Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. Heather Pettey is a certified coach. Dr. Carol Lynn is a licensed physician, and our guests share their own expertise. Nothing you hear here should be taken as medical advice. Always talk with your own doctor about your personal health or medical needs.

Spring Fling & The Micro-Rest Revolution: Episode 270 with Heather Pettey, CPC & Dr. Carol Lynn It’s a beautiful April, and that means it's time for some spring refreshing with your favorite Life Coach BFFs! Join host Heather Pettey, CPC, and the fabulous Dr. Carol Lynn as they celebrate the vibrant start of spring and discuss tangible ways to reorganize, re-energize, and step into your power. This week, the "dynamic duo" dives into the allergy struggles common this time of year—and correct etiquette for dealing with them in public!—before tackling the main event: the "Micro-Rest Revolution." Heather and Carol explain why finding just 60 to 90 seconds of intentional peace (what they call a "micro-rest") can be more effective for lowering cortisol and resetting your nervous system than a long nap. You'll get practical advice on somatic grounding, breathing exercises like box breathing, and even the simple restorative power of laughter. And you don’t want to miss an impromptu "Show and Tell" where Heather shares her latest uplifting finds (on a budget!). In this episode, we chat about: April Refresh: Feeling the seasonal itch to reorganize, clear out the clutter, and step into your personal power. Allergy SOS: Experiencing one of the worst allergy seasons in years, and why dabbing is always better than blowing at the table. The Micro-Rest Revolution: How specific 60 to 90-second nervous system resets can lower cortisol more effectively than long breaks. Breathwork & Grounding: Dr. Carol Lynn’s tips for box breathing and restoring your vagus nerve with humming, gargling, and somatic exercises. Sensory Therapy: Why scents and fragrances promotes memories and resets your environment (and how they helped Heather with COVID recovery!). Show & Tell! Heather’s restful trip to Walmart (at 8:30 AM!) and the fabulous items she found to unstick her: The adorable beaded strawberry wristlet handbag (perfect for your essentials!). Grab here! The comfortable, stylish mint green slide shoes (and a peek into future Masters Party plans!). Her first waterless, cordless diffuser—and the Amazon fragrance that makes her home smell like the Ritz Carlton. Check-Out Chaos: A hilarious debate on the stress of shopping high peak times at big-box stores, self-checkout woes, and the "Great Walmart Pricing Mystery." Memory Lane: A fun trip back to the Humboldt, Tennessee Strawberry Festival, complete with floats, "Little Miss" royalty, snaps, and invisible dogs! Connect with Your Life Coach BFFs: Join the Midlife Moxie Newsletter: Don't miss out on fun items, exclusive updates, and the best life ever! The link is right in the show notes. Sign Up and Get the latest MOXIE news! Follow on Social Media: All our community connection is on our Our Midlife Moxie Facebook Page! (Yes, the podcast is Life Coach BFF Show, but our social is under Our Midlife Moxie – we hope to see you there!). @ourmidlifemoxie The Journal: Grab your My Midlife Moxie Journal on Amazon and register it on page two. Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal Book Recommendation: Boundaries by Henry Cloud. Beauty Hack: Doo Nails (Press-on nails). Connect with us: Keep up with the Moxie community and don't forget to put your lip gloss on and smile! We are cheering for you every step of the way. Sign Up and Get the latest MOXIE news!   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Host Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice! Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. Heather Pettey is a certified coach, Dr. Carol Lynn is a licensed physician, and our guests share their own expertise. Nothing you hear here should be taken as medical advice. Always talk with your own doctor about your personal health or medical needs.

In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, Heather Pettey and Dr. Carol Lynn dive into the beauty—and occasional messiness—of growth and change. From hilarious stories of lost rings to profound insights on evolving into new versions of ourselves, this conversation is a reminder that outgrowing your past isn't a betrayal; it’s progress. In this episode, we discuss: The "No-Musical" Rule: Why Heather is officially burned out on musical theater and the hilarious reason she can’t take singing suitors seriously. The Case of the Swallowed Ring: A wild story involving a standard poodle, a metal detector, and two weeks of digging through "evidence" to find a missing sparkler. Misinterpreting Emotions: How we often misread the people we love (like mistaking a desire for a heated blanket for sadness!) and why communication is key. Outgrowing Yourself: A deep dive into a powerful quote by Henry Cloud. We talk about shedding old versions of ourselves to make room for new habits, deeper character, and our 2026 word of the year: FREE. Professional Evolutions: Dr. Carol Lynn shares how her medical practice is shifting from delivering babies to supporting women through the emotional and hormonal transitions of midlife. Self-Care Life Hacks: Dr. Carol Lynn shares her new 10-minute manicure secret (Doo Nails) for the busy woman who wants to look polished without the time commitment of a salon. "Outgrowing old versions of yourself isn’t betrayal. It’s progress. Every 'yes' to growth may feel like a 'no' to comfort, but it is a resounding 'yes' to freedom." Links & Resources Mentioned: Moxie Journal Club: Join us Thursday, March 12th at 7:00 PM! The Journal: Grab your My Midlife Moxie Journal on Amazon and register it on page two. Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal Book Recommendation: Boundaries by Henry Cloud. Beauty Hack: Doo Nails (Press-on nails). Connect with us: Keep up with the Moxie community and don't forget to put your lip gloss on and smile! We are cheering for you every step of the way. Sign Up and Get the latest MOXIE news!   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Host Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice! Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. Please consult with your own physician for any medical advice or personal health needs.  

Have you ever looked at your to-do list and just felt... stuck? Like you’re starring in a reboot of Groundhog Day? Even as life coaches, we hit that wall. In this episode, Heather Pettey and Dr. Carol Lynn get raw about the "autopilot trap" and share the exact tools they use to reset their nervous systems and get their joy back. We’re breaking down the core sections of the My Midlife Moxie 90-Day Mindset Journal—from the "Mind Dump" (taking out the mental trash) to "Vision Casting" and staying organized with the "Health Record" section. Whether you’ve never journaled before or couldn't make it stick, this 5-to-10-minute practice is designed to help you eat the elephant one bite at a time. In This Episode, We Discuss: The Hard Reset: Realizing when you’re coaching everyone else but ignoring your own soul. The Mind Dump: Why clearing the "swirling thoughts" is a game-changer for anxiety and sleep. Vision Casting vs. Control: A biblical perspective on Habakkuk 2 and why "praying big" honors God. The Practical Side of Moxie: How tracking your health records (mammograms, dental, etc.) creates emotional freedom and impresses your doctor! Small Wins, Big Momentum: Shifting your mindset from "overwhelmed" to "achieving." Join the Circle! Don't do midlife alone. You are officially invited to the Midlife Moxie Journal Club. When: 2nd Thursday of every month Time: 7:00 PM CST (30 minutes of high-vibe connection!) Where: Live on Zoom Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal   Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal   Sign Up and Get the latest MOXIE news!   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Host Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice! Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. Always consult your own physician for personal medical advice.  

Episode 267: From Tap Shoes to Tattoos: Navigating Midlife with Moxie Are you still hauling around a wedding dress from 1995? Or perhaps you're wondering if that cute hip tattoo is eventually going to look more like Ursula the Sea Witch than the Little Mermaid? You are not alone! In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettey, CPC, and the fabulous Dr. Carol Lynn dive into the hilarious (and sometimes stressful) realities of midlife. From the "million-dollar wedding" industrial complex to the literal shifts in our skin, we’re talking about how to simplify, repurpose, and bring back some classic Southern vocabulary. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: The Midlife Revival: Why tap dancing, the triangle, and the tambourine are the creative outlets you didn't know you needed. The Wedding Dress Dilemma: Creative ways to reuse your gown (hello, rehearsal dinner restyling!) and an incredible charity called the Angel Gown Foundation that turns gowns into bereavement suits for NICU families. Weddings: Then vs. Now: A nostalgic look at cake-and-punch receptions versus today’s "drive a Tesla off a cliff" price tags. The Public Service Announcement on Tattoos: What happens to that hummingbird tattoo when gravity takes over, and the medical "ink-sights" Dr. Carol Lynn has seen in the OR. Word of the Week: Why we are officially bringing back the word "Reckon" and how to use it in your daily life (even if you’re listening from Singapore!). Key Moments & Midlife Realities [02:15] Forming the "Life Coach BFF Band" (Tambourine, Triangle, and Tap Shoes). [08:42] The 1990s wedding experience vs. the modern "Milan for a dress" production. [12:30] What our Facebook community is actually doing with their old wedding dresses. [16:15] The "Angel Gown" project: A beautiful way to donate your gown for a higher purpose. [21:00] Why midlife balance makes wearing high heels a contact sport. [25:10] The "Hummingbird" Warning: A cautionary tale about aging skin and ink. Connect With Us! We want to see your "big hair" wedding photos! Instagram: @OurMidlifeMoxie Facebook: Join our private Midlife Moxie group to join the conversation and tell us: Do you still have your dress? Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. Heather Pettey is a certified coach; Dr. Carol Lynn is a licensed physician. Please consult your own doctor for personal medical advice.

Heather Pettey is feeling a little "lighter" today—literally! After months of Dr. Carol Lynn’s gentle (and not-so-gentle) medical nudging, Heather finally tackled her colonoscopy screening this morning. Fresh off the procedure and still feeling the peace of mind, she’s joined by Dr. Carol Lynn to pull back the curtain on an appointment most women in midlife love to cancel. In this episode, your BFFs get up close and personal about why this screening is a total game-changer for your health. With the recent news of actors like James Van Der Beek facing colorectal cancer at a young age, the conversation has never been more urgent. We’re stripping away the awkwardness to discuss the "why," the "how," and the "holy grail" of tips to make your prep night as painless—and glamorous—as possible. In This Episode, We Discuss: The "Why" Behind the Screening: Dr. Lynn shares heartbreaking stories of friends diagnosed at 45 and 51, and why the screening age has officially been lowered. Denial vs. Detection: Why we justify changes in our bodies and how to overcome the fear of "finding something." The BFF Survival Guide: Heather and Dr. Lynn’s personal hacks for the prep process (yes, including the "Straw Trick"). Bathroom Spa Essentials: From the "barrier method" to the specific toilet paper that will save your skin. The Liquid Diet Masterclass: The savory savior of Chick-fil-A broth and the mystery of the elusive banana popsicle. Our Top Prep "Hacks": The Straw Trick: Use a wide straw, place it at the back of your tongue, and bypass those salty/medicinal taste buds entirely. The "Savory" Savior: Don’t just stick to sweet popsicles. Strain the broth from Chick-fil-A chicken noodle soup for a flavorful, salty alternative to plain store-bought broth. The Wardrobe Choice: Skip the long nightgown (it’s a hazard!) and opt for soft, oversized pajamas with an easy waistband. The "Barrier Method": Apply Vaseline or diaper rash cream before the prep starts to prevent irritation. The "Grown-Up" Treat: If your doctor allows, a cup of black coffee on the morning of the procedure (before the cutoff) can be the energy boost you need to get through the finish line. Key Takeaways for Your Health: "Your health is your greatest wealth. If you’ve been staring at that referral on your fridge for six months—this is your sign to call." — Dr. Carol Lynn Early Detection Saves Lives: Most insurance covers 100% of screening colonoscopies because they are preventive. Don’t Go It Alone: Ensure you have someone with you to prevent falls or fainting due to dehydration or volume loss. Be Your Own Advocate: If your bathroom habits change, don't ignore it. Talk to your doctor immediately. Resources Mentioned: The "Throne" Station: Medicated wipes (Tucks), flushable wipes (use with caution!), and the "barrier" cream of your choice. Clear Liquid Favorites: Lemon and Banana popsicles (if you can find them!), clear bone broth, and black coffee. Connect with your BFFs! If you have a "prep hack" of your own or just need a little encouragement before your appointment, find us on social media @OurMidlifeMoxie Don't forget to leave us a review and share this episode with a sister, mother, or friend who needs to hear this important message! Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal   Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal   Sign Up and Get the latest MOXIE news!   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Host Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice! Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. Always consult your own physician for personal medical advice.

265 | Phantom Smells, Thinning Hair, and Palm Beach Rules: The Midlife Truths You Need to Know Have you ever smelled cigarette smoke when no one is lighting up? Or wondered why your favorite 70-year-old socialite looks exactly like a 40-year-old? In this "Post-Ice Edition" of the Life Coach BFF Show, Heather Pettey and Dr. Carol Lynn are back to catch you up on everything you missed while hunkered down in the winter storms. From the strange "phantom smells" of menopause to the strict fashion rules of Palm Beach high society, this episode is a whirlwind of laughter, medical insights, and midlife realizations. Whether you're navigating a "choke and poke" (the medical term will surprise you!), setting boundaries, or realizing that menopause actually happens to everyone, this episode is the ultimate catch-up with your best friends. In this episode, we discuss: The "Name Game": The professional and personal hurdles of changing names after marriage and remarriage. Strange Menopause Symptoms: Why phantom smells (like cigarette smoke or worse) happen during hormonal shifts and post-COVID. Palm Beach Etiquette: What the show Palm Royale (and real-life society) teaches us about boobs, knees, and "Old Palm Beach." Life-Changing Shifts: Real feedback from our community on how divorce, pellets, retirement, and saying "no" improved their lives. Expectation Management: The freedom that comes with releasing expectations of others.   Resources Mentioned in This Episode: Join the Community: Our Midlife Moxie Private Facebook Group TV Shows: Members Only: Palm Beach (Netflix discussion), Schitt’s Creek, and Mad Men. Health: Discussion on Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) and Pellets. Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal   Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal   Sign Up and Get the latest MOXIE news!   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Host Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. Always consult your own physician for personal medical advice.

Episode 264: The Best Kept Secret in Midlife Vision with Ramon Gomez Are you tired of the "long-arm game?" In this episode, Heather Pettey pulls back the curtain on a life-changing procedure that most women in midlife don't even know exists. If you’ve been told you aren’t a candidate for LASIK, or if you’re tired of your contacts drying out and your readers disappearing when you need them most, this conversation is for you. Heather is joined by Ramon Gomez from the Eye Specialty Group in Memphis to discuss Refractive Lens Exchange (RLE)—the "best-kept secret" that gave Heather 20/20 vision and the freedom to finally donate her glasses to Costco. In this episode, we cover: The LASIK Reality Check: Why LASIK isn't always the answer for those of us over 50. The "iPhone" Analogy: How your natural lens loses its "auto-zoom" (accommodation) as we age. Refractive Lens Exchange vs. Cataract Surgery: Why waiting for cataracts might be costing you years of visual freedom. The Procedure & Recovery: Does it hurt? (Spoiler: No!) And how fast can you get back to your active lifestyle? Investment in Self: Shifting the mindset from investing in our children to finally investing in our own quality of life. Key Highlights: [08:12] Why Ramon had to "hurt Heather's feelings" regarding her LASIK candidacy. [14:45] Understanding the PanOptix Pro lens and how the "Rings of Power" technology works. [22:30] The 20-minute procedure: What to expect from "Twilight Anesthesia." [31:10] Why you will never need cataract surgery after this procedure. Connect with Our Guest: Guest: Ramon Gomez, Eye Specialty Group Location: Memphis & Collierville, TN Contact: Ramon Gomez email Website: Eye Specialty Group Schedule a Consultation: Mention the Life Coach BFF Show when you call to inquire about your free consultation! Resources Mentioned: Heather’s Word of the Year: FREE Brand: Our Midlife Moxie Community: Join @OurMidlifeMoxie Connect with Heather & Dr. Carol Lynn: Follow on Instagram @OurMidlifeMoxie Subscribe: Never miss an episode! Hit that follow button on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. The Journal: Grab your copy of My Midlife Moxie on Amazon! Join the Club: Order your journal, turn to Page 2, and register to receive your invitation to our Thursday night Zoom Journaling Sessions (7:00–7:30 PM CST).     Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal   Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal   Sign Up and Get the latest MOXIE news!   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. Heather Pettey is a certified coach. Dr. Carol Lynn is a licensed physician, and our guests share their own expertise. Nothing you hear here should be taken as medical advice. Always talk with your own doctor about your personal health or medical needs. We are not responsible for any decisions you make based on what you hear today.

Show Notes: Reclaiming Your Energy & Healing Past Hurts In this episode, Heather and Dr. Carol Lynn dive deep into the power of "cleaning out the temple." We explore how carrying emotional baggage from decades ago—even as far back as middle school—drains the energy we need for our lives today. From hilarious stories about homeschooling "mommy voices" to the profound act of giving our hurts to God, this session is a guided journey toward midlife freedom. Whether you're struggling with self-forgiveness or still reeling from a comment made to you in the sixth grade, it’s time to join the "We Do Not Care Club" and start healing. In This Episode, We Discuss: The Power of the "Brain Dump": Why writing it down on four lines of paper is better than letting it consume your entire brain at 3:00 AM. The Hormone Connection: How dropping progesterone in midlife can lead to increased rumination and "looping" thoughts. Naming the Weight: Identifying the "unpaid emotional bills" we’ve been carrying and learning how to finally settle the debt. Box Breathing for Stress: A simple, Navy SEAL-approved technique to reset your nervous system (and why you shouldn't do it if you're pregnant!). The "We Do Not Care Club": Embracing the freedom of your 50s and refusing to let other people’s opinions define God’s creation. Stewardship of the Soul: How letting go of the past allows us to be fully present for what God has for us in this season. Guided Journaling Steps: Name the Weight: Identify one specific hurt you’ve been carrying. Expose the Lie: What is that old wound telling you? (e.g., "I'm not enough," "I'm forgotten"). Reclaim the Energy: Consciously decide where that energy is going instead—to your family, your joy, or your future. Circle Your Word: Choose one powerful word (like Joy or Free) to focus on this week. Episode Resources: Bible Verse: “Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past.” — Isaiah 43:18 The Journal: Grab your copy of My Midlife Moxie on Amazon! Join the Club: Order your journal, turn to Page 2, and register to receive your invitation to our Thursday night Zoom Journaling Sessions (7:00–7:30 PM CST).     Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal   Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal   Sign Up and Get the latest MOXIE news!   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide.          

n this episode of Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettey shares exciting news about new cover art featuring co-host Dr. Carol Lynn, a renowned gynecologist. Heather discusses her word for the year, 'free,' and the changes she's making in 2026 including saying no to overcommitting, honoring her need for rest, and avoiding the screen time trap. She encourages listeners to reflect on what they're leaving behind in the new year and offers practical advice on decluttering both physical and emotional baggage. Tune in for inspiration to start the year with a fresh, freedom-focused perspective.   Listen to episode 261   Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal   Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal   Sign Up and Get the latest MOXIE news!   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide.                   00:00 Welcome Back to Life Coach BFF Show 00:23 Exciting News: New Cover Art and Co-Host 02:04 Embracing Grace and Setting Intentions for 2026 02:46 Things I'm Leaving Behind in 2026 08:30 Practical Steps for a Fresh Start 09:29 Join Our Community and Final Thoughts  

In this episode of the Life Coach, BFF Show, Heather Pettey encourages listeners to take a pause between Christmas and New Year's for a personal year-end audit.   Heather guides you through reflecting on 2025's moments of growth, challenges, and joy, emphasizing the importance of honesty and intention.   She suggests journaling with specific prompts to gain clarity, acknowledge blessings, and set meaningful goals for 2026.   This episode aims to help you align your life with your values, embrace spiritual grounding, and enter the new year with renewed purpose and midlife moxie.   Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal   Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal   Sign Up and Get the latest MOXIE news!   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide.       00:00 Welcome to the Life Coach, BFF Show 00:12 The Holiday Hustle and Finding Pause 00:49 Reflecting on Your Year with Intention 03:18 The Importance of a Personal Year-End Audit 06:43 Questions for Your Personal Audit 07:33 Setting Boundaries and Learning from Challenges 08:23 Recognizing Positive Influences and Unexpected Blessings 13:11 Themes and Patterns for a Joyful 2026 14:18 Your Year-End Heart Check Homework 15:26 Final Encouragement and Connection  

In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, Heather Pettey shares her joyful Thanksgiving experience in Seaside, Florida, and reflects on her favorite holiday moments.   She discusses the ongoing debate of stuffing vs. dressing and shares a family tradition of making Turkey nuggets.   Heather also talks about the SEC football drama, her reevaluation of owning boats or vacation homes, and emphasizes lessening holiday stress.   She provides practical advice for holiday preparation, including tips on gift wrapping, planning menus, and managing cortisol levels through breathing exercises, bilateral stimulation sounds, and engaging the vagus nerve. Heather encourages listeners to prioritize simplicity and ease during the holiday season for better mental and physical health.   EMDR Bilateral Sounds   Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal   Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal   Sign Up and Get the latest MOXIE news!   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide.                   00:00 Welcome and Thanksgiving Reflections 00:52 Stuffing vs. Dressing Debate 02:18 Family Debates and Decisions 05:20 Holiday Stress Management 05:49 Practical Holiday Tips 08:12 Understanding and Managing Cortisol 10:19 Calming Techniques and Bilateral Stimulation 11:44 The Importance of the Vagus Nerve 16:28 Simplifying the Holidays 18:14 Final Thoughts and Encouragement  

In this episode, the Heather Pettey expresses gratitude for the listeners and reflects on the blessings the show has brought into her life.   She addresses Cheryl from Lexington's concern about blending families for the first time during Thanksgiving, providing practical, empathetic advice on creating a harmonious holiday environment.   The episode also includes a detailed recipe for a delicious pumpkin bourbon bread pudding and shares intriguing historical Thanksgiving facts. The key message revolves around joy, togetherness, and the importance of setting realistic expectations for the holiday season.   Pumpkin Bourbon Bread Pudding 1 loaf challah or brioche, cubed 2 cups half-and-half 1 cup canned pumpkin 3 large eggs 1 cup brown sugar 1 tablespoon vanilla 2 teaspoons cinnamon 1 teaspoon pumpkin pie spice Pinch salt 1/4 cup bourbon (optional, but oh-so-good) 1/2 cup pecans, chopped Mix pumpkin, half-and-half, eggs, sugar, vanilla, spices, salt, and bourbon. Toss in bread cubes and pecans. Let it soak for 30 minutes, then bake at 350°F for 45-55 minutes. Serve warm, with ice cream or whipped cream. Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal   Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal   Sign Up and Get the latest MOXIE news!   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide.   00:00 Welcome and Gratitude 01:35 Listener's Thanksgiving Dilemma 02:37 Advice for Blending Families 09:01 Thanksgiving History and Fun Facts 10:02 Delicious Pumpkin Bourbon Bread Pudding Recipe 11:13 Final Thoughts and Thanksgiving Wishes 12:27 Podcast Disclaimer  

In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, hosted by Heather Petty, joined by Dr. Carol Lynn, the conversation centers around preparations for the holidays, with humorous and practical advice on how to manage self-care amidst the festive rush. Topics covered include the importance of scheduling beauty appointments early, avoiding major changes like new hairstyles before holiday photos, and the merits of getting medical procedures done at specific times. The hosts also discuss the rising costs of pet grooming, the challenges and joys of sending Christmas cards, and the significance of vision casting and journaling for personal growth. The episode concludes with a reminder to prioritize self-care and connection during the busy holiday season.   Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal   Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal   Sign Up and Get the latest MOXIE news!   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide.                     00:00 Welcome and Introductions 00:11 Holiday Preparations and Surgery Talk 01:04 Self-Care Tips for the Holidays 03:12 Pet Grooming and Complaints 05:27 Christmas Cards and Corporate Gifts 08:28 Introducing the Midlife Moxie Journal 10:28 Journal Benefits and Personal Stories 15:57 Vision Casting and Feeling Stuck 18:27 Conclusion and Community Invitation 19:38 Disclaimer and Final Notes  

In this episode of Life Coach BFF Show, hosts Heather Pettey and Dr. Carol Lynn welcome women in midlife to join their uplifting discussions about thriving during this life stage.   They cover a range of topics from simple life systems, midlife health, wellness, and menopause, to fun aspects like travel, fashion, and cooking.   They dive into an engaging discussion about Target's new policy requiring employees to smile and how that compares to experiences at Chick-fil-A.   They also touch on the importance of dermatologist visits, toddler skincare trends, and effective holiday preparation tips. The episode wraps up with updated vaccine recommendations for adults in their fifties, emphasizing the shingles and flu vaccines, and highlights the new 'My Midlife Moxie Journal', specially designed for midlife women, available on Amazon. Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide.   00:00 Welcome to Life Coach VFF Show 00:12 Midlife Thriving: Encouragement and Fun 01:33 Delicious Moments: Cinnamon Chip Muffins 02:29 Target's New Smile Policy 05:03 Skincare Talk: From Dermatologist Visits to Toddler Trends 11:38 Holiday Prep: Getting Ready for the Festivities 13:16 Holiday Deadlines: Christmas vs. Thanksgiving 13:27 Giving and Serving During the Holidays 15:27 Organizing and Cleaning for the Holidays 16:45 Christmas Tree Decorating Tips 20:15 Updated Vaccine Recommendations for 2025 23:43 Introducing the My Midlife Moxie Journal  

In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettey introduces Heike Yates, a midlife fitness expert with over 35 years of experience, an Iron Man triathlete, ultra marathon runner, author, and podcast host.   Heike shares her journey from Germany to the United States, her love for travel, and how she evolved her fitness career to focus on midlife women. The discussion covers maintaining fitness and health through midlife changes, including the importance of nutrition, stress management, and listening to one's body.   Heike emphasizes the need for realistic, sustainable changes in fitness routines and shares insights from her book and podcast, 'Pursue Your Spark.' The episode also touches on personal anecdotes, like Heike adjusting her fitness regime due to arthritis and the importance of a supportive and positive community.   Contact Heike Yates Website Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pursueyourspark Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heikeyates/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heike-yates/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQIeOesGLGAOD5RhI2KYjcA Podcast - Pursue Your Spark: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pursue-your-spark-midlife-fitness-nutrition-mindset/id1231586317 Book - Pursue Your Spark   Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide.           00:00 Introduction to Midlife Fitness 00:38 Welcome to Life Coach VFF Show 01:41 Meet Haika Yates: Midlife Fitness Expert 03:33 Haika's Journey from Germany to the US 06:18 The Evolution of Haika's Fitness Journey 08:37 Realistic Fitness Goals for Midlife Women 11:56 Implementing Sustainable Fitness Changes 15:51 Haika's Personal Fitness and Nutrition Strategies 17:19 Embracing New Activities Beyond Running 17:46 Finding Joy in New Hobbies 18:30 Empowering Clients with Choices 18:46 Healthy Eating and Lifestyle Adjustments 19:07 Managing Health Conditions Through Exercise 20:21 Listening to Your Body's Needs 21:36 Dealing with Stress and Energy Levels 25:09 Daily Routine and Intermittent Fasting 30:08 Importance of Nutrient Variety 30:41 Eliminating Negative Influences 31:20 Conclusion and Final Thoughts    

In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, Heather Pettey provides valuable tips on how to manage holiday stress and anxiety, focusing on planning ahead with calendars and mind dumps. She encourages blocking out important events and family traditions to ensure nothing interferes with cherished moments. Heather also shares a personal tradition of exchanging thoughtful seasonal gifts with a friend, which enhances the joy of each season.   Additionally, the episode touches on the latest buzz involving Kim Kardashian's Skims brand launching a controversial thong with faux hair.   Heather promotes her midlife moxie journal and emphasizes the importance of reviews to help other women find this supportive community. Mentioned on the show: Mystic Fall Blanket   Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide.               00:00 Introduction and Disclaimer 00:27 Welcome and Episode Overview 01:15 Holiday Prep Tips 04:17 Mind Dump for Stress Relief 06:43 Seasonal Traditions and Gift Ideas 08:54 Kim Kardashian's Skims Controversy 10:57 Conclusion and Call to Action  

In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, hosts Heather Pettey and Dr. Carol Lynn discuss a variety of topics aimed at helping women thrive in midlife.   They introduce the show and share the amusing scenario of filming from their office break room. Heather and Dr. Lynn delve into practical tips and cheerful conversations about household items like mason jars and their creative uses, from salads to terrariums and charcuterie.   They emphasize the importance of health checks like mammograms, flu shots, and discuss supplements for longevity like vitamin C, vitamin E, and CoQ10. The episode also teases future discussions on NAD and metformin. Tune in for an engaging mix of health tips, personal anecdotes, and fun project ideas.   Mentioned on the show: Mason Jar Salads   Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide.     00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:30 Show Overview and Topics 01:30 Grammar Fun and Personal Stories 02:47 Favorite Household Products 05:05 Mason Jar Ideas and Crafts 10:12 Health and Longevity Tips 15:16 Health Tracker and Reminders 18:49 Conclusion and Farewell  

From CEO to Spiritual Awakening: Dr. Yoshi Amram's Journey In this episode of Life Coach BFF Show, Heather Pettey welcomes Dr. Yossi Amram, a distinguished leader, author, and psychologist. Dr. Amram shares his compelling journey from being a science-focused CEO who drifted away from spirituality to undergoing a transformative spiritual awakening. This shift led him to pursue a Ph.D. in transpersonal psychology, exploring the integration of psychology with spirituality through the concept of spiritual intelligence. The discussion delves into Dr. Amram's personal experiences, his grandfather's inspiring resilience, the impact of spiritual intelligence on leadership and relationships, and practical steps to cultivate spiritual intelligence in daily life. He also touches on managing life's transitions, particularly in midlife, and how spiritual intelligence can offer clarity and peace during such times.   Connect with Dr. Yosi Amram Website: https://yosiamram.net & https://yamram.com/ Book: https://yosiamram.net/books-spiritually-intelligent-leadership/ Non-profit: https://awakeningsi.org/ SILeadership: http://spirituallyintelligentleadership.com Youtube.com: https://www.youtube.com/ @awakeningspiritualintelligence LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/yosiamram/ Free SI Assessment: https://intelligensi.com/ Psychology Today Blog: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/spiritual-intelligence IG: https://www.instagram.com/awakeningspiritualintelligence/   Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide.         00:00 Introduction and Personal Journey 00:23 Welcoming Dr. Yossi Amram 01:25 Yossi's Early Life and Family Influence 03:02 Spiritual Awakening and Career Shift 05:19 Understanding Spiritual Intelligence 07:36 Applying Spiritual Intelligence in Daily Life 14:47 Navigating Midlife Transitions 17:29 Advice for Women Seeking Purpose 19:46 Daily Practices for Spiritual Grounding 22:01 About the Book and Staying Connected 24:47 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Heather Pettey shares a personal wake-up moment and emphasizes the importance of living intentionally. She discusses creating a list of life lessons and values, reflecting on them, and making conscious life choices.   Heather shares what she would tell her younger self and encourages listeners to do the same for a more meaningful midlife journey. Additionally, she promotes her journal, 'My Midlife Moxie,' to help in this reflective process and reminds listeners to remain aligned with their core values. Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide.   00:00 Wake-Up Moment and Introduction 00:52 The Importance of Life Lessons 02:19 A Personal Story on Values 04:26 Creating Your Own List 04:59 Advice to My Younger Self 07:06 Reflecting and Growing 08:56 Conclusion and Encouragement  

In episode 251 of the Life Coach BFF Show,  Dr. Carol Lynn discusses the critical aspects of maintaining energy levels during midlife.   Heather shares her personal experience with energy depletion and the rejuvenating effects of hormone replacement therapy.   Dr. Lynn delves into the science of sustainable energy, covering the importance of sleep, nutrition, hormone balance, and cellular health. She offers practical tips for improving sleep quality, dietary choices, and hydration.   Additionally, Heather introduces the 'My Midlife Moxie Journal,' a tool designed to help women in midlife rediscover their energy and focus. The episode wraps up with encouragement for listeners to join the new journaling club for community support and transformation.   Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide.       00:00 Introduction and Personal Update 01:37 Welcome to Life Coach BFF Show 02:39 Midlife Energy Reset with Dr. Carol Lynn 03:38 The Importance of Sleep 05:02 Nutrition and Hydration Tips 06:11 Understanding NAD and Supplements 07:34 Hormone Balance and Energy 08:23 Mental and Emotional Energy 09:11 Summary and Key Takeaways 10:22 Exciting News: My Midlife Moxie Journal 13:51 Conclusion and Farewell  

In this heartwarming episode, we sit down with Jan Smith, a culinary expert with 17 years of professional test kitchen experience, who is launching her own food lab and studio, 'Square Biscuit.' Jan shares her journey of resilience, overcoming personal challenges, and her passion for Southern cooking.   Our conversation delves into her career at Southern Living, memorable cooking experiences, and her inspirations behind Square Biscuit. Join us as we celebrate Jan's courage and creative spirit, and get ready to be inspired by her stories and delicious wisdom.   Mentioned in this episode:   https://www.squarebiscuitstudio.com/ https://www.tiktok.com/@squarebiscuitstudio https://www.instagram.com/squarebiscuitstudio https://www.facebook.com/squarebiscuitstudio     Hermit Bars The Story: Y’all, this is my most-requested recipe! I do not know how many times I have shared it with others. My mom started making these years and years ago and they are easy and have that perfect blend of bright spiciness! Ingredients: ¾ cup butter, softened ½ cup sugar ½ cup firmly packed brown sugar 1 large egg, beaten ¼ cup molasses 2 cups plus 2 tablespoons all-purpose flour 2 teaspoons baking soda 1 ½ teaspoons ground cinnamon 1 teaspoon ground ginger ¾ teaspoon ground cloves ¼ teaspoon salt ½ cup raisins Vegetable cooking spray Additional sugar   Instructions: Preheat oven to 350°. Beat butter at high speed of an electric mixer in a medium bowl until creamy; gradually add sugars beating well. Add egg and molasses; beat well. Combine flour and next 5 ingredients in a medium bowl; stir well. Gradually add to butter mixture, mixing well. Stir in raisins. Coat fingers with vegetable cooking spray. Press mixture into an UNGREASED 15-x10-x1-inch baking pan. (Recoat fingers with cooking spray as needed.) Sprinkle top with additional sugar. Bake at 350’ for 11-14 minutes or until very golden. Let cool. Cut into bars. Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide.               00:00 Welcome and Introduction 00:49 Meet Jan Smith: A Journey of Resilience 02:20 Jan's Culinary Adventures and Inspirations 13:44 The Birth of Square Biscuit 15:31 Challenges and Triumphs 26:25 Future Aspirations and Final Thoughts 28:17 Closing Remarks and Disclaimers  

In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettey discusses the challenges and opportunities that come with change, especially in midlife. Heather reflects on a recent wedding trip and shares stories from friends navigating transitions like kids leaving for college, moving across the country, and dealing with menopause.   She emphasizes the importance of community, self-discovery, and embracing new possibilities. Heather also introduces the My Midlife Moxie Journal as a tool for processing emotions and offers insights into the concept of 'gray divorce.'   Tune in for practical support, encouragement, and to learn how to thrive through life’s many seasons.   Mentioned in this episode: Purchase My Midlife Moxie Journal Purchase chase Digital Version of My Midlife Moxie Journal: https://payhip.com/OurMidlifeMoxie Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide.     00:00 Welcome to Life Coach BFF Show 02:09 Embracing Change in Midlife 02:16 Personal Stories of Change 07:41 Navigating Change with Tools and Community 09:09 The Impact of Menopause and Unchosen Changes 11:06 Finding Opportunities in Change 11:52 Conclusion and Encouragement  

In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, Heather Pettey, your host and life coach, delves into the importance of food in our lives, especially during midlife. She shares tips on what foods can help alleviate menopause symptoms according to a study and personal anecdotes that many can relate to.   The episode includes exciting announcements like the upcoming Midlife Moxie Friendsgiving feast in Memphis and the launch of the My Midlife Moxie 90-Day Health, Wellness, and Mindset Journal. Join the Midlife Moxie community, and together, make midlife the time to thrive, not just survive.   Mentioned in this episode: Warm Fall Salad with Apple and Prosciutto   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Purchase My Midlife Moxie Journal   Purchase chase Digital Version of My Midlife Moxie Journal: https://payhip.com/OurMidlifeMoxie     Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide.           00:00 Welcome to Life Coach BFF Show 00:33 Today's Topic: Food and Friendship 00:52 Navigating Midlife Challenges 02:18 Trader Joe's Adventures 04:17 Foods to Ease Menopause Symptoms 05:42 Foods to Avoid During Menopause 07:51 Delicious Fall Salad Recipe 08:29 Additional Tips for Midlife Wellness 09:03 Exciting Community Announcements 10:55 Final Thoughts and Farewell  

Heather Pettey, host of the Life Coach BFF Show, addresses the pervasive issue of procrastination during this episode. She explains how procrastination, rooted in various fears and anxieties, negatively affects our lives.   Heather shares practical strategies to combat procrastination, such as breaking tasks into smaller parts, prioritizing, using timers, and forgiving oneself for slip-ups.   She emphasizes the importance of taking action and not waiting for the perfect moment, while also highlighting the new My Midlife Moxie Journal as a tool to help listeners set and achieve their top three goals each day.     Mentioned in this episode: Purchase My Midlife Moxie Journal: https://amzn.to/46kav8r Purchase chase Digital Version of My Midlife Moxie Journal: https://payhip.com/OurMidlifeMoxie Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie     Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide.     00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:41 The Problem of Procrastination 01:51 Understanding the Root Causes 07:35 Overcoming Procrastination 10:28 Final Thoughts and Encouragement  

Welcome back to Life Coach BFF Show with your host Heather Pettey and co-host, Dr. Carol Lynn.   In this episode, Dr. Carol Lynn offers insights into hormone therapy and its relationship with weight loss, particularly during perimenopause and menopause. The discussion underscores how lifestyle changes, proper sleep, movement, and hormone management can affect weight and overall health in midlife.   Listeners are also introduced to the My Midlife Moxie Health, Wellness, and Mindset 90 Day Journal and invited to join the Moxie Journal Club for guided journaling sessions on Facebook. Tune in for valuable advice and encouragement to thrive in midlife.   Mentioned in this episode: Purchase My Midlife Moxie Journal: https://amzn.to/46kav8r Purchase chase Digital Version of My Midlife Moxie Journal: https://payhip.com/OurMidlifeMoxie Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Listen to episode 245   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide.     00:00 Welcome to Life Coach BFF Show 00:23 Introduction to Midlife Thriving 01:23 Hormone Therapy for Weight Loss 03:04 Lifestyle Modifications for Weight Management 05:45 The Role of Hormones in Weight Distribution 11:39 Metabolic Changes and Health Risks 13:48 Wrapping Up and Final Thoughts  

In episode 245 of the Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather dives into the critical topic of sleep, especially for midlife women. As a certified life coach, author, speaker, wife, and mom, Heather shares her personal journey and the effective strategies she has discovered to improve her sleep quality.   Listeners will learn about the benefits of daily walks, journaling before bed, taking magnesium glycinate, maintaining a consistent sleep schedule, and utilizing amber bulbs and air filters.   Heather answers an email from Jess in Texas, discusses the challenges of midlife, and provides resources and recommendations aimed at fostering better sleep and overall well-being.   Don't miss out on these practical, life-changing insights. Join the Midlife Moxie Facebook group and check out upcoming retreats at ourmidlifemoxie.com.   Mentioned in this episode: Journal: https://amzn.to/46kav8r Magnesium Glycinate:https://amzn.to/46kav8r Magnesium Spray: https://amzn.to/47R7sqV Amber Light Bulbs:https://amzn.to/46kav8r Air Filter: https://amzn.to/46kav8r   Purchase My Midlife Moxie Journal: https://amzn.to/46kav8r Purchase chase Digital Version of My Midlife Moxie Journal: https://payhip.com/OurMidlifeMoxie Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide.     00:00 Welcome to Life Coach BFF Show 02:02 Listener's Letter: Sleep Struggles 03:53 Heather's Sleep Game Changers 03:57 Daily Walks for Better Sleep 05:50 Journaling Before Bed 07:38 Magnesium Glycinate for Relaxation 08:30 Consistent Sleep Routine 09:47 Final Tips and Encouragement  

Introducing My Midlife Moxie Journal: Your Ultimate Companion for Midlife Transformation Heather Petty announces the launch of the My Midlife Moxie Journal, created in collaboration with menopause mentor Dr. Carol Lynn.   This journal is designed specifically for women in midlife to help them rediscover their spark, reclaim their energy, and enter this life season with clarity and confidence. It features dedicated morning and evening pages that take less than a minute to complete, making it convenient even for those with busy schedules. The journal also offers scientifically proven benefits such as reducing stress, improving mood, and deepening self-awareness. Buyers can join a weekly journaling club with live guided sessions every Thursday evening. Heather invites everyone to the first session on October 9th for growth and connection.     Purchase My Midlife Moxie Journal: https://amzn.to/46kav8r Purchase chase Digital Version of My Midlife Moxie Journal: https://payhip.com/OurMidlifeMoxie Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.               00:00 Introduction and Exciting News 00:24 Why This Journal is Unique 00:50 Daily Balance and Ease of Use 01:52 Join Our Journaling Club 02:40 The Power of Journaling 03:29 Final Invitation and Closing Remarks  

In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettey delves into the power and significance of saying Jesus' name. Addressing midlife women, she provides practical support across various facets of life, including wellness, parenting, and career transitions.   Heather discusses how faith plays a crucial role in navigating life’s challenges, encourages listeners to let God use them, and highlights the importance of boldness in their faith journey.   She also reflects on Charlie Kirk's impactful life and shares personal anecdotes about her own faith-led initiatives. Tune in for heartfelt advice and a challenge to speak Jesus' name boldly in your daily life. 28 | Amy Howard - Find Out How a Faith Led Global Company Was Born: Passion, Purpose, and Paint   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.               00:00 Welcome to Life Coach BFF Show 00:27 Navigating Midlife Challenges 01:52 The Power of Saying His Name 03:20 God's Plan and Your Willingness 06:39 A Challenge for the Week  

Welcome to Life Coach BFF Show! Join Heather Pettey and her co-host, Dr. Carol Lynn, as they provide encouragement and practical advice for women in midlife who are ready to thrive.   In this episode, they discuss the benefits of hormone replacement therapy (HRT), address common questions about its necessity, and offer holistic alternatives for managing menopause symptoms.   Learn about the importance of diet, exercise, and mental wellness in maintaining a healthy lifestyle during midlife. Tune in for real conversations, laughter, and support. Grab your coffee, pop in your earbuds, and let's thrive together!   Follow for more encouragement and connect through private coaching via show notes. Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.   00:00 Welcome to Life Coach VFF Show 01:00 Catch Up with Heather and Dr. Carol Lynn 01:29 Childhood Memories and Parenting Differences 03:11 The Impact of Social Media on Parenting 04:25 Hot Topic: Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) 11:42 Holistic Alternatives to HRT 16:00 Dr. Lynn's Telehealth Services 17:25 Final Thoughts and Encouragement  

In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, Heather Pettey discusses a surprising encounter with her son at a high school football game that sparked reflections on our relationship with God.   She draws parallels between how teenagers seek their parents in times of need and how we often turn to God only when we face challenges.   Heather shares insights from Dr. Lisa De Moore's book 'Untangled' and emphasizes the importance of keeping God at the center of our lives, even during good times. Practical tips for maintaining a daily connection with God, such as starting the day with prayer, listening to worship music, and practicing gratitude, are also highlighted.   Follow for more encouragement and connect through private coaching via show notes. Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.       00:00 Welcome to Life Coach, BFF Show! 00:44 A Surprising Encounter at the Football Game 02:45 Reflecting on Our Relationship with God 03:22 Insights from Dr. Lisa De Moore's Book 06:10 Practical Ways to Keep God First 07:57 Final Thoughts and Encouragement  

Welcome back to the Life Coach BFF Show with Heather Pettey. This episode dives into the top three things you need to know for the week, including hot holiday gift picks for every generation, a fresh corn avocado salad recipe, and the latest in fall fashion.   Heather also addresses a letter from a listener dealing with her husband's drinking habits, offering compassionate and practical advice. Join our Midlife Moxie Facebook group. Remember, you're not alone; your midlife starts now!   Mentioned in this episode: Avocado Corn Salad Recipe Flared Denim Midi Skirt   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.   00:00 Welcome to Life Coach BFF Show 00:16 Top Three Things You Need to Know 01:53 Today Show's Hot Gift Picks 04:40 Delicious Corn Avocado Salad Recipe 05:30 Fall Fashion Trends 2025 07:00 Listener Letter: Navigating Midlife Challenges 13:04 Encouragement and Final Thoughts  

In episode 239 of the Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettey welcomes new and returning listeners to an engaging discussion about midlife wellness, personal growth, and community support. The episode takes listeners behind the scenes of the private Facebook group, Our Midlife Moxie, curated by Heather and Dr. Carol Lynn.   They discuss the upcoming launch of the My Midlife Moxie Mindset and Wellness 90 Day Journal on September 4th, which aims to aid women in navigating midlife transitions through journaling. The show emphasizes the benefits of journaling for stress reduction and emotional clarity, and highlights the journal's features, including daily prompts, wellness tracking, and a guided journaling group.   Additionally, Heather and Dr. Carol Lynn share their experiences, insights, and fun anecdotes from their live chat in the Facebook group. The episode encourages participation in the upcoming Friendsgiving event and the My Midlife Moxie Journal Club, providing a comprehensive support system for women in midlife.   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.                     00:00 Welcome and Introduction 00:35 Behind the Scenes: Our Midlife Moxie Facebook Group 01:29 Special Announcement: My Midlife Moxie Journal 03:02 Live Chat with Dr. Lynn 03:19 Casual Conversations and Personal Stories 06:12 Project Updates and Exciting News 08:26 Journal Features and Benefits 16:38 Upcoming Events and Community Engagement 18:24 Unexpected Surprises and Gossip 19:28 Friendsgiving Plans and Invitations 19:54 Moxie Journal Club and Vision Casting 20:46 The Power of Writing Down Goals 23:10 Invisible Workload and Delegation 27:11 Community Interaction and Upcoming Events 30:46 Final Thoughts and Farewell  

In episode 238 of Life Coach BFF Show, hosts Heather Pettey and Dr. Carol Lynn discuss their summer experiences, including the challenges of managing teenagers' screen time. They then introduce Misty Ivy, a dermatology-certified nurse practitioner, who shares her expertise on skincare routines, effective treatments, and products.   The conversation covers essential daily skincare steps, the benefits of procedures like Morpheus 8 and Botox, and practical advice for maintaining youthful skin. Misty emphasizes the importance of sunscreen and a consistent skincare regimen.   The episode highlights realistic beauty routines and offers actionable tips for listeners to enhance their skincare practices.   Misty's Tips: 1. Daily skincare routine I never skip 👉 “Cleanser, retinol at night, and sunscreen every single morning — non-negotiable.” 2. Three products I’d keep forever 👉 “Sunscreen, retinol, and a good moisturizer — those three cover protection, repair, and hydration.” 3. Top concern for women over 45 👉 “Most worry about firmness, wrinkles, and uneven tone — they want to look refreshed, not different.” 4. Two procedures I’d choose this month 👉 “Botox for lines, and microneedling or laser for collagen and glow.” 5. When someone’s “overdone it” 👉 “When I can’t see their natural expressions anymore — my goal is enhancement, not erasing who you are.” 6. Diet’s role in skin 👉 “Food matters. A Mediterranean-style diet with fish, veggies, and olive oil is skin-friendly. Sugar? Not so much.” 7. Menopause and skin 👉 “Estrogen drops mean drier, thinner skin. Every woman should moisturize more, use sunscreen daily, and treat skin gently.” 8. Collagen hype 👉 “Creams don’t work. Supplements may help a little. But retinoids and treatments like microneedling are the real collagen boosters.” And preventing collagen loss with sun protection. 9. Best vitamins/supplements 👉 “Vitamin D if you’re low, omega-3s for inflammation, and maybe collagen peptides. But food is still the best source.” 10. Dryness solutions 👉 “Moisturize right after showering, use a humidifier in winter, and look for ceramides or hyaluronic acid in products.” 11. Overrated skincare trend 👉 “Luxury creams that cost hundreds of dollars. Sunscreen and retinol do more than any $300 jar.” 12. Vitamin D vs sunscreen 👉 “I don’t recommend skipping sunscreen. Get vitamin D through food or supplements — it’s safer for your skin long term.” 13. Best treatments for sun damage & spots 👉 “Prescription creams, chemical peels, IPL, or laser — paired with strict sunscreen to keep results.” 14. Entry-level procedures 👉 “Botox, light chemical peels, or microneedling — natural, effective, and not overdone.” 15. A 5-minute routine 👉 “Cleanser, vitamin C, moisturizer, and sunscreen. Quick and powerful.” Tretinoin every night! 16. What excites me in dermatology 👉 “Regenerative treatments — using your own platelets or energy-based devices to rebuild collagen naturally. That’s the future.” My next treatment ellacore !! Connect with Misty Ivy: https://advanceddermatologymemphis.com/ Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.     00:00 Welcome to Life Coach, BFF Show 00:11 Summer Break Stories 01:34 Vision Changes and Self-Improvement Plans 02:56 Special Guest Introduction: Misty Ivy 07:22 Daily Skincare Routine Tips 08:54 Effective Treatments for Aging Skin 11:29 Diet and Skincare 14:28 Hydration and Moisturizing Tips 15:53 Debunking Skincare Myths 16:41 Sun Exposure and Vitamin D 17:35 Age Spots and IPL Treatments 19:37 Quick Morning Skincare Routine 19:55 Future Skincare Treatments 21:27 Conclusion and Final Tips  

In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettey kicks off with a 'Did You Know' segment, sharing insights about the importance of protein for emotional regulation, not taking things personally, and the benefits of the yoga bridge pose.   Heather also provides a quick and delicious shrimp and grits recipe. She then shares an inspiring listener story from Kit, who took a sign language class to rediscover herself during a tough season of empty nesting. Heather encourages listeners to pursue new interests and emphasizes the importance of self-care and community. T   he episode ends with an introduction to the My Midlife Moxie 90 Day Mindset and Wellness Journal and Heather’s life transitions and purpose coaching.   Mentioned in this episode: Shrimp and Grits Recipe https://www.bowlofdelicious.com/easy-classic-shrimp-and-grits/ Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.             00:00 Welcome to Life Coach BFF Show 00:28 Did You Know? Fun Facts and Tips 04:25 Listener Story: Kit's Journey 09:59 Empowerment and Rediscovery 12:14 Conclusion and Community  

In episode 236 of Life Coach BFF Show, Heather Pettey shares her top summer lessons, including avoiding large tubs of cheese dip and celebrating wedding anniversaries. She emphasizes moving for joy rather than fitting into smaller clothes and offers a unique anxiety relief tip involving sour candy.   Alongside her co-host, Dr. Carol Lynn, they explore the concept of 'functional freeze'—a state where women in midlife may go through the motions of daily life while feeling stuck or overwhelmed. They offer practical steps to overcome this, including breaking tasks into smaller parts, moving your body, talking to someone, adding joy back into your life, and giving yourself permission to rest.   They also announce the launch of 'My Midlife Moxie: The Ultimate Mindset and Wellness 90 Day Journal,' designed to help women navigate midlife transitions with guided prompts and inspirational content. The journal is set to release on September 4th on Amazon.   Thanks for listening!   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.   00:00 Unforgettable Summer Lessons 00:57 Celebrating Milestones and Moving for Joy 02:09 Bonus Tip: Calming Anxiety with Sour Candy 02:53 Welcome to the Life Coach BFF Show 04:35 Understanding Functional Freeze 08:08 Practical Steps to Unfreeze and Thrive 10:41 Introducing My Midlife Moxie Journal 12:16 Final Thoughts and Encouragement  

In episode 234 of Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettey reflects on the passing of Hulk Hogan, highlighting the beauty and peace found in his recent baptism. Heather offers encouragement for navigating life's valleys and victories by sharing a poignant story about fearing the Lord.   Addressing a letter from listener Tammy, Heather provides actionable advice for reclaiming excitement and purpose during the transition to an empty nest. She emphasizes the importance of planning joyful activities and connecting with others, offering personal anecdotes and practical steps to create hope and excitement for the future. Join Heather as she reminds us that the best years are yet to come and encourages us to keep dreaming and planning.   Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.     00:00 Welcome and Introduction 00:25 Reflecting on Hulk Hogan's Passing 02:14 Facing and Overcoming Fear 03:50 Letter from Tammy: Feeling Stuck 05:52 Creating a Plan for the Future 12:40 Personal Updates and Exciting News 15:36 Final Thoughts and Encouragement  

In this episode of Life Coach BFF Show, Heather Pettey, your host and fellow moxie Maker, discusses the importance of momentum in tackling life’s challenges, inspired by President Trump's speech at West Point.   Heather shares her personal experiences with overwhelming projects and emphasizes the significance of small steps and celebrating small wins. She introduces her latest project, a 90-day Wellness and Mindset Journal, co-authored with Dr. Carol Lynn, and the new 'Moxie Makers' group for guided journaling sessions.   Heather also offers a special coaching opportunity as part of her birthday month celebration. Join the Midlife Moxie community for support and encouragement. Thanks for listening!   Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Facebook Group: @midlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.   00:00 Welcome and Introduction 00:32 Understanding Momentum 02:27 Personal Projects and Challenges 04:38 Maintaining Motivation 09:51 The Power of Journaling 12:00 Exciting Announcements 12:59 Final Thoughts and Encouragement  

Welcome back! In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettey and co-host / menopause expert Dr. Carol Lynn discuss the importance of annual exams, pap smears, and taking charge of women's wellness with confidence.   They talk about common misconceptions, practical tips, and why regular checkups are crucial. The discussion also covers personal anecdotes, including Heather's watermelon-picking experience and Dr. Lynn's insights into pet care and women's health during midlife and beyond.   Whether it's checking for melanomas, addressing vaginal dryness, or understanding the benefits of vaginal estrogens, this episode offers valuable information for midlife women seeking community and health empowerment.   Thanks for listening! Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Facebook Group: @midlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!   *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.     00:00 Welcome to the Life Coach BFF Show 01:26 Funny Watermelon Story 04:01 Veterinarian Visit and Pet Care 05:58 Importance of Annual Exams 07:21 Understanding Pap Smears and GYN Visits 11:28 Vulvar Health and Self-Examination 16:55 Managing Vaginal Dryness and Itching 23:12 Sexual Health in Older Women 24:46 4th of July Plans and Final Thoughts  

In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettey delves into the world of 'Grandma Hobbies'—activities like knitting, gardening, baking, and birdwatching—that are being recognized for their mental health benefits.   Heather discusses the scientific support for these hobbies in reducing stress, improving self-confidence, and protecting brain function. She provides practical tips for integrating these activities into busy lives and highlights the social aspects and community-building potential of hobbies like birdwatching in New York City's Central Park.   The episode encourages listeners to slow down, savor life, and find joy in nostalgic activities.   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Shop Items Mentioned Learn More About Private Coaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Facebook Group: @midlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice! *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com             00:00 Welcome to Life Coach, BFF Show 00:48 The Benefits of Grandma Hobbies 01:27 Fitting Hobbies into a Busy Schedule 03:27 Modern Twist on Birdwatching 05:23 Quick List of Grandma Approved Activities 07:49 Conclusion and Call to Action

 In this episode of Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettey addresses a letter from a listener, Michelle in Florida. Michelle shares her difficulty in connecting with her adult son, prompting Heather to provide empathetic advice on how to navigate this challenging transition. Heather discusses the importance of letting go of worry, unsolicited advice, guilt, and expectations while fostering a respectful and supportive relationship with adult children. She also encourages reaching out without pressure and celebrating their independence. Heather invites listeners to share their thoughts and seek further support through her various social media platforms and one-on-one coaching sessions. Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Shop Items Mentioned Learn More About Private Coaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Facebook Group: @midlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice! *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com     00:00 Welcome to Life Coach, BFF Show 00:25 Listener's Letter: Struggling to Connect with Adult Son 01:49 Letting Go of Worry 02:57 Letting Go of Advice 04:11 Letting Go of Guilt Tripping 04:53 Letting Go of Expectations 05:46 Practical Tips for Reconnecting 07:28 Final Thoughts and Encouragement 08:58 Stay Connected and Get Support 1 0:07 Closing Remarks

----more----In episode 230 of the Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettey shares her insights on midlife, reflecting on the changes and important lessons learned since the first episode in 2019. She introduces herself, her family, and her passion for helping women thrive in midlife. She discusses what it means to prioritize what truly matters, giving practical advice on saying no to activities that no longer bring joy, and highlights the impact of stress in midlife.   The episode also features updates about her co-host Dr. Carol Lynn, their TikTok group WDNC, C, and the Our Midlife Moxie Facebook group. Te offers five strategies for politely declining unwanted invitations, emphasizing the importance of setting healthy boundaries.   She concludes with a book recommendation, 'The Summer Pack' by Emily Giffin, encouraging listeners to make positive changes and reminding them that their best days are still ahead. product recommendations, and a humorous take on daily life.   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Shop Items Mentioned Learn More About Private Coaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Facebook Group: @midlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice! *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.     00:00 Welcome and Introduction 01:22 Exciting Updates and New Ventures 02:24 The Joys and Challenges of Midlife 03:11 Learning to Say No 06:53 The Impact of Stress in Midlife 09:09 Practical Tips for Setting Boundaries 12:07 Final Thoughts and Book

In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, host Dr. Carol Lynn and her co-host dive into an engaging discussion on menopause, hot flashes, and self-care routines.   They explore the causes of hot flashes, the implications of hormone levels, and the potential benefits of various treatments. The show also highlights creative ways to celebrate menopause with humor and light-heartedness, including ideas for a menopause party with fun games and signature drinks.   Listeners are treated to a blend of informative advice and Southern charm, complete with personal anecdotes, self-care product recommendations, and a humorous take on daily life.   Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Facebook Group: @midlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice! *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.               00:00 Welcome to Life Coach, BFF Show! 00:50 Hot Flashes and Hormone Talk 03:48 Menopause Party Ideas 07:39 Cooling Down Tips 10:34 Hotel Stays and Pet Stories 14:38 Transitioning to Nostalgia: Childhood Memories 15:08 Classic TV Shows We Loved 16:03 Aging Icons: Then and Now 17:41 Summer Porch Chats and Self-Care 18:13 Favorite Self-Care Products 25:30 Memphis Musings: The Peabody Hotel 27:32 Concluding Thoughts and Farewell  

In episode 228 of the Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettey addresses a letter from Lisa, a mother of three navigating the stormy seas of raising a teenage daughter.   Heather provides compassionate and practical advice on how to stay soft and loving despite the challenges posed by teenage mood swings and conflicts. She emphasizes the importance of kindness, empathy, setting boundaries with love, and practicing self-care.   Heather also shares an inspiring quote and draws parallels to the compassionate legacy of Princess Diana.   Listeners are encouraged to join the show's supportive community and stay tuned for upcoming episodes.   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Facebook Group: @midlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice! *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.                 00:00 Welcome to Life Coach BFF Show 00:03 Letter from Lisa: Teen Troubles 02:02 Staying Soft: A Mother's Challenge 04:07 Practical Tips for Staying Soft 05:35 Inspirational Quotes and Examples 06:51 Final Thoughts and Encouragement 07:53 Community and Closing Remarks  

In this episode of Life Coach BFF Show, hosts Heather Pettey and Dr. Carol Lynn discuss various aspects of midlife, marriage, menopause, and making the most of every moment.     They delve into the unique traits and challenges of Generation X, from practicing self-care to navigating the expectations set by previous generations. They reminisce about their favorite ice cream flavors, vacation experiences, and thoughts on comfortable travel.   The episode is filled with humor and practical advice for those looking to embrace self-care and comfort in this season of life.   Thanks for listening!     Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Facebook Group: @midlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice! *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.   00:00 Welcome to Life Coach BFF Show 00:35 Embracing Our Generation X Roots 02:39 The Evolution of Self-Care 05:48 Ice Cream and Self-Care 08:14 Dollywood vs. Disney World 11:29 Crowds and Airports: Gen X Perspectives 12:24 Airplane Etiquette and Fines 13:15 Comfort Over Adventure: Travel Preferences 13:51 Cabin Disappointments and Pac-Man Machines 15:23 Resort Experiences and Temperature Control 16:46 St. Croix: A Hidden Gem 19:00 Vacation Mishaps and Fire Alarms 21:54 Bird Nests and Fake Snakes 22:44 Wrapping Up: Subscribe and Share  

Hey Friend, today we are overcoming summer Ssumps and embracing joyful habits! In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettye offers guidance to midlife women on how to thrive through the seasons, especially during summer.   Addressing a letter from Jamie, a college professor dealing with summer laziness and menopause, Heather provides practical advice on balancing rest and productivity. Key strategies include embracing rest, defining goals with a deeper 'why,' using time-blocking methods, and creating small, joyful steps towards big goals.   Listeners are encouraged to join the show's community for additional support and are reminded to embrace progress over perfection. Heather also recommends 'The Garden of Small Beginnings' by Abby Waxman and the movie 'Julie and Julia' for summer inspiration.   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Facebook Group: @OurMidlifeMoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice! *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.     00:00 Welcome to the Life Coach, BFF Show! 01:12 Listener Letter: Jamie's Summer Struggles 02:08 Understanding and Embracing Menopause 04:01 Time Blocking: Your Summer Superpower 06:52 Breaking Down Goals into Joyful Steps 08:31 Recap and Final Encouragement 10:06 Join Our Community and Get Support 11:01 Closing Thoughts and Farewell  

In this episode of Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettey discusses the empowering 'We Do Not Care' (WDNC) trend on TikTok, encouraging women to let go of societal pressures and embrace their authentic selves.   Heather shares ten empowering principles to live by, such as valuing your worth through faith and embracing midlife with confidence. She also recounts a rejuvenating weekend getaway to Lake Martin with friends, stressing the importance of maintaining strong friendships in midlife.   Lastly, Heather asks for creative anniversary gift ideas for her upcoming 30th wedding anniversary.   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Facebook Group: @midlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice! *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.       00:00 Welcome to Life Coach, BFF Show 01:01 Embracing the 'We Do Not Care' Trend 03:01 Top 10 Things We Do Not Care About 05:47 Weekend Getaway to Lake Martin 07:15 Personal Confession and Anniversary Dilemma 08:37 Recap and Final Thoughts  

We're setting the stage for joy and purpose In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettey, along with co-host Dr. Carol Lynn, explores the transformative power of setting daily intentions. The discussion covers the distinction between intentions and goals, the benefits of intentional living, and practical steps to incorporate this practice into daily routines. They share personal anecdotes and tips on how to align actions with values, fostering a life filled with purpose, joy, and self-awareness. Listeners are encouraged to write down their intentions and celebrate small achievements, aiming for progress rather than perfection.   Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com   Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: [email protected] Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Facebook Group: @midlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice! *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.       00:00 Welcome to the Coach BFF Show! 01:38 Setting Intentions: The Basics 02:46 Daily Intention Practices 05:38 The Power of Writing Down Intentions 07:56 Practical Steps for Setting Intentions 15:36 Embracing Change and Nurturing Friendships 18:48 Living with Intention: Final Thoughts 20:44 Closing Remarks and Encouragement