The Willetts Podcast

In this episode, we unpack one of the most common phrases we hear: "I know what to do, I just won't do it." The truth is, lasting transformation isn't about learning another strategy. It's about closing the gap between what you know and how you consistently show up. We explore why knowledge alone rarely changes behavior, how trying to follow too many "rules" can leave you overwhelmed, and why every person's journey requires a different approach. We also discuss the importance of acting in alignment with the person you want to become, letting go of all-or-nothing thinking, and finding peace in a process that is sustainable for life. Whether you're navigating perimenopause or simply feeling stuck, this episode will help you shift from knowing to doing.We talk about:-the gap between knowing and doing-what transformation actually takes-every situation is different-doing something for yourself-be willing to let go-stop living in the extremes-finding peace and freedomTime Stamps: 0:00 Introduction5:20 considering the nuance of “the rules”9:02 it doesn’t have to be hard16:09 your to do list is too long20:01 acting in alignment with who you want to be25:55 getting results in perimenopause28:55 why this is importantCONNECT WITH KAIT & MAV:Get 1:1 coaching here: https://go.elev8coaching.net/weight-loss-journeyGet our weekly emails: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-listEbook: https://go.elev8coaching.net/consistency-book Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we discuss some of the biggest contradictions and misconceptions we see in the fitness industry. From the growing conversation around GLP-1 medications to the habits that quietly sabotage progress, we explore why so many people struggle to turn knowledge into action. We also talk about the importance of nutritional literacy, the role of shame and accountability, and why lasting change requires honesty paired with compassion. If you've ever felt overwhelmed by conflicting advice or found yourself repeatedly breaking promises to yourself, this episode will help you think more critically about your health and the choices that support it.We talk about:-Who can truly benefit from GLP-1 medicationsMuscle loss and the importance of resistance trainingBuilding a long-term plan instead of relying on quick fixesDeveloping nutritional literacyWhy we keep breaking promises to ourselvesThe difference between shame and accountabilitySpeaking the truth with compassionMoving from knowledge to meaningful actionTime Stamps: 0:00 Introduction1:30 who can actually benefit from GLP-1s?9:00 long-term plan after GLP-112:41 shame and accountability18:44 identifying with behaviors through shame22:19 are you actually in a calorie deficit?26:45 where you may be falling short30:59 moving past knowledge and into action36:25 can you still with yourself?CONNECT WITH KAIT & MAV:Get 1:1 coaching here: https://go.elev8coaching.net/weight-loss-journeyGet our weekly emails: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-listEbook: https://go.elev8coaching.net/consistency-book Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this special client interview, we sit down with Becky to hear the story behind her transformation and the mindset shifts that finally helped her break free from years of yo-yo dieting. Like so many women, Becky spent years searching for the "secret" diet while putting everyone else's needs ahead of her own. She shares what made this experience different, how learning to accept support changed everything, and why lasting transformation had far more to do with changing her beliefs than changing her meal plan. If you've ever felt invisible, struggled to see your own progress, or wondered if it's too late to become the person you want to be, Becky's story will remind you that real change is possible.We talk about:-the search for the diet “secret”-never putting yourself first-feeling invisible-fear is holding you back-quitting when you don’t get fast results-learning to love yourselfTime Stamps: 0:00 Introduction5:01 the history of yo-yo dieting8:42 realizing this was different 11:26 being fully supported12:38 the change that made this time stick16:15 the compassionate side of coaching18:15 not being able to see your own progress21:53 a message to other womenCONNECT WITH KAIT & MAV:Get 1:1 coaching here: https://go.elev8coaching.net/weight-loss-journeyGet our weekly emails: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-listEbook: https://go.elev8coaching.net/consistency-book Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we break down some of the most common thinking errors and logical fallacies we see holding people back from reaching their goals. Many people believe their biggest challenge is a lack of information, but more often, the problem is how they think about themselves, their habits, and the process of change. We discuss why the "Monday reset" keeps people stuck, how all-or-nothing thinking sabotages progress, and why knowledge alone doesn't create transformation. If you've ever felt trapped in a cycle of starting over, lowering your standards, or questioning whether you're capable of lasting change, this episode will help you identify the mental patterns standing in your way.We talk about:-The trap of the Monday reset-Confusing information with transformation-Current behavior versus permanent identity-The value of tracking macros and collecting data-Lowering your standards instead of raising your actions-Creating a fear-based identity-The dangers of all-or-nothing thinking-Why knowledge doesn't automatically lead to results-Overcoming imposter syndrome and self-limiting beliefsTime Stamps: 0:00 Introduction4:09 the all-or-nothing mindset12:15 but is it sustainable?20:39 knowledge does not equal results25:45 changing your behaviors31:14 struggling with identity fallacy44:09 feeling like an imposterCONNECT WITH KAIT & MAV:Get 1:1 coaching here: https://go.elev8coaching.net/weight-loss-journeyGet our weekly emails: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-listEbook: https://go.elev8coaching.net/consistency-book Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we answer your questions in a live Q&A covering some of the most common topics in fat loss, muscle building, and long-term health. From the truth about menopause belly and calorie deficits to creatine, body recomposition, and weekend overeating, we cut through the confusion and focus on what actually matters. If you've ever wondered whether you're eating too little, how often you should strength train, or if popular diets like carnivore are worth it, this episode is packed with practical, evidence-based answers.We talk about:-The truth about menopause belly and fat loss after 40-How the body adapts over time-Whether you can be eating too little and still struggle with weight loss-Progressive overload and muscle growth-The benefits of tracking macros-Creatine, body recomposition, and strength training-The role of NEAT in fat loss-Popular nutrition trends and whether they're worth itTime Stamps: 0:00 Introduction1:24 losing fat during menopause6:50 are you actually in a calorie deficit?13:13 what’s the deal with creatine?14:43 strength training frequency19:05 is starvation mode real?22:49 handling exercise on a long vacation25:01 building muscle after big weight loss26:09 growing your glutes27:13 thoughts on Liquid IV31:01 is carnivore worth it?36:32 how much does NEAT matter?40:55 is body recomp possible?45:02 gym etiquette question47:08 does IIFYM work?CONNECT WITH KAIT & MAV:Get 1:1 coaching here: https://go.elev8coaching.net/weight-loss-journeyGet our weekly emails: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-listEbook: https://go.elev8coaching.net/consistency-book Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this special client interview, we sit down with Iva to talk about the mindset shifts, habits, and decisions that helped her create lasting change. After years of trying different approaches and feeling stuck in the cycle of starting over, Iva realized that the real transformation had very little to do with finding the perfect diet. She shares how living with lupus, navigating grief, and overcoming all-or-nothing thinking forced her to approach health differently. This conversation is about closing the gap between who you are and who you want to be, learning to ask for help, and building a life that feels aligned with your values instead of driven by fear.We talk about:-The lies we tell ourselves that keep us stuck-Why achievement alone doesn't create happiness-How she knew this time was different-Fear-based versus love-based decision making-Navigating health challenges while living with lupus-Learning to ask for help-Closing the integrity gap-Letting go of perfection and embracing progressTime Stamps: 0:00 Introduction2:20 deciding something had to change4:25 trying everything and nothing working6:56 overcoming the all-or-nothing mindset10:13 dealing with your inner critic11:58 dealing with grief16:55 showing up differently in life18:55 feeling safe to not be perfect20:38 the real changesCONNECT WITH KAIT & MAV:Get 1:1 coaching here: https://go.elev8coaching.net/weight-loss-journeyGet our weekly emails: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-listEbook: https://go.elev8coaching.net/consistency-book Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we talk about the standards and commitments that shape every area of your life, from your health and relationships to your career and personal growth. Many people say they have goals, but their daily actions reflect a different set of standards. We break down the difference between preferences and true standards, why ego can keep you stuck, and how perfectionism often disguises itself as productivity. If you've ever wondered why you're not making the progress you want despite having good intentions, this conversation will help you identify the gap between what you say you want and what you're actually committed to.We talk about:-standards versus preferences-open minds for productive conversations-how ego keeps you stuck-communicating your standards-how perfectionism derails progress-are you missing what actually matters?-learning from your mistakesTime Stamps: 0:00 Introduction2:59 standards are personal10:45 having realistic standards13:53 clarity from standards19:35 having a vision for your life22:32 how standards affect your health26:26 you’re currently living the dream32:55 when is enough enough?37:11 seeing standards in othersCONNECT WITH KAIT & MAV:Get 1:1 coaching here: https://go.elev8coaching.net/weight-loss-journeyGet our weekly emails: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-listEbook: https://go.elev8coaching.net/consistency-book Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we talk about one of the most damaging beliefs keeping people stuck in their 30s, 40s, and 50s: “I should have this figured out by now.” That mindset creates shame, avoidance, and the pressure to pretend you know more than you do. The truth is, many people were never taught the foundational skills around nutrition, health, self-awareness, or emotional resilience in the first place. We break down why protecting your ego keeps you from growing, how to define what you actually want, and why asking for help is a sign of self-awareness, not weakness. This conversation is about meeting yourself where you are and recognizing that your future is still shaped by the choices you make today.We talk about:-Missing foundational skills around health and nutrition-Defining what you actually want-The gap between professional and personal success-Why protecting your ego keeps you stuck-Asking for help without shame-Meeting yourself where you are-Taking ownership of your journey-Choosing yourself for the people you loveTime Stamps: 0:00 Introduction3:40 you never learned basic skills around nutrition5:30 replace “should” with “want”12:40 you get what you choose13:55 struggling on the personal side18:41 meeting yourself where you are21:40 you have the power over your journey24:25 choosing yourself for your familyCONNECT WITH KAIT & MAV:Get 1:1 coaching here: https://go.elev8coaching.net/weight-loss-journeyGet our weekly emails: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-listEbook: https://go.elev8coaching.net/consistency-book Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we switch things up and ask each other questions we have not prepared for ahead of time. The conversation ranges from relationships and personal growth to funny hypotheticals and deeper reflections on marriage, identity, and what we value most. We talk about the importance of empathy, believing you are worthy of the life you want, and appreciating the small moments that often matter the most. This episode is a mix of humor, honesty, and real conversation about life and relationships.We talk about:-Believing you are worthy-Having empathy in relationships-What we love most about each other-Living what you teach-Appreciating small moments and memories-Lessons learned from past relationships-Choosing what is right over what is popular-Pride, growth, and partnership in marriageTime Stamps: 0:00 Introduction1:07 what causes you to yo-yo diet4:50 Kait’s most likely crime6:31 biggest personal challenges8:01 learning from relationships20:47 surprises about Maverick22:59 surprises about Kait27:50 pursuing what is right over what’s popular31:20 biggest role models32:34 what would you change about your spouse?35:14 pride in your marriage42:12 best memories or marriage CONNECT WITH KAIT & MAV:Get 1:1 coaching here: https://go.elev8coaching.net/weight-loss-journeyGet our weekly emails: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-listEbook: https://go.elev8coaching.net/consistency-book Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we talk about navigating the different seasons of life and how to maintain your health when life inevitably gets hard. So many people feel like they were “doing great” until stress, grief, work, relationships, or unexpected challenges knocked them off track. We break down why health should complement your life instead of consume it, how to adjust your approach without completely derailing, and why compassion for yourself matters just as much as discipline. This conversation is about learning to stay grounded, living according to your values, and continuing to move forward even when life doesn’t go according to plan.We talk about:-Getting back on track without starting over-Navigating stressful seasons of life-Using fitness to support your life, not control it-Altering course instead of fully derailing-Living in alignment with your values-Letting go of the need to control everything-Having compassion for yourself without becoming complacent-Building peace of mind through consistencyTime Stamps: 1:00 Introduction6:08 fitness as a lifestyle12:55 imagining a life with peace of mind15:45 dealing with discouragement19:13 your values should support your vision24:50 deciding to be better30:50 having conviction in your beliefs37:45 compassion versus complacency41:15 seasons don’t lastCONNECT WITH KAIT & MAV:Get 1:1 coaching here: https://go.elev8coaching.net/weight-loss-journeyGet our weekly emails: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-listEbook: https://go.elev8coaching.net/consistency-book Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we cut through the noise around peptides, supplements, and GLP-1s to talk about what actually matters, what might help, and what could be a waste of money or even risky. With so much marketing promising fast results, it’s easy to get pulled into solutions that don’t address the root problem. We break down the difference between real outcomes and perceived ones, what happens when you stop using these interventions, and why shortcuts often create longer delays. This conversation is about thinking critically, considering long-term impact, and taking ownership of your health instead of outsourcing it.We talk about:-looking past the marketing-starting with the end in mind-considering the long term impact-online anti-aging clinics-peptides and the misinformation-short cuts make long delays-it’s not “this or that”Time Stamps: 1:00 Introduction2:35 “growth hormone” peptides versus growth hormone7:22 predatory marketing14:10 Are the results actually from peptides?18:14 what happens when you stop?24:43 do healing peptides work?29:50 are GLP-1s for life?38:33 optimizing your health is your job41:58 GLP-1s in menopause45:29 choosing yourself in the hard timesCONNECT WITH KAIT & MAV:Get 1:1 coaching here: https://app.iclosed.io/e/elev8/1-1-strategy-call-podcastGet our weekly emails: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-listEbook: https://go.elev8coaching.net/consistency-book Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.