PODCAST · health
You're Working Too Hard
by Maria Stoyadinova, Burnout and Stress Management Coach | Founder of Rest Over Grind, LLC
Why Perfectionism, People Pleasing and Procrastination Have Us Doing Too Much & Feeling Exhausted!
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Why "just stop" does not work with procrastination
Send us Fan MailIf you struggle with procrastination, you know how tough it can be to break the habit. That's because most of us try to do it by just forcing ourselves to stop. Not only is that the wrong approach, but this often exacerbates the problem. What actually works is figuring out what is behind your procrastination and, from there, addressing the root cause instead of just trying to skip right over it. Want to learn more about how to do that? Register for the "Too Perfect, Too Nice, Too Tired" webinar next Thursday, June 25th at noon ET by going to restovergrind.com/webinarBook a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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The mental math of people pleasing
Send us Fan MailWe don't think about this a lot, but people pleasing often comes with a lot of mental math. We try to figure out the exact right "threshold" at which it's OK to say "no" to a new request. At what number of overtime hours can we legitimately say we're too busy to turn down a project? At what level of stress? That fear of just saying you are at capacity without having an ironclad proof that you deserve it leads to a lot of overworking, stress, and burnout. During the "Too Perfect, Too Nice, Too Tired" webinar on June 25th, I will teach you how to step away from that mental math and start feeling more confident in your instincts of when there is too much on your plate. To register, go to restovergrind.com/webinar.Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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Overworking as insurance against feeling bad
Send us Fan MailDo you ever end up editing the same document 20 times before sending it out, because you think "if something is wrong in it, I can at least tell myself I did everything possible to avoid that?"That's overworking as an insurance against feeling bad. And, sadly - it doesn't really work. Listen to this week's ep where I explain why (and what to do instead). To register for the "Too Perfect, Too Nice, Too Tired" webinar, go to restovergrind.com/webinar. Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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The different types of overfunctioning (and what we can do about them)
Send us Fan MailThis week's episode delves into the different forms of overfunctioning - overthinking, overworking, overcommitting, living in overwhelm. I talk about what lies behind those patterns and what we can do to get ourselves out of them! Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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How I took care of myself during a tough time period
Send us Fan MailThis week, I am sharing a very vulnerable story about how I showed up for myself during an intense health scare. I am hoping this gives you some ideas of things you can do for yourself or someone else in your life who is also having a rough time right now. If you want to talk about anything or have any questions for me, please send me an email: [email protected] a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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Why stress management strategies are not always successful
Send us Fan MailThe two main coping strategies I see most often when it comes to managing stress are: 1) ignore the thoughts creating the stress or the feelings associated with it and keep powering through your work for as long as possible or 2) have some coping strategies, but never know if/when they would work. Sadly, neither of those strategies is sustainable or particularly effective. So what works instead? Getting to know the thought patterns that fuel your stress and the way stress shows up in your body. And then learning how to manage both of these in a way that is customized specifically for you!Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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Heated Rivalry, calling yourself lazy, and the origins of your inner critic
Send us Fan MailIf you've ever called yourself lazy, you have something in common with Ilya Rozanov. Did I find a convenient angle tied to my work in "Heated Rivalry" just so I can talk about this show that has been consuming my brain? Absolutely! But does the show have a lot to teach us about the origins of our own inner critics and the impact of how we talk to ourselves? Also absolutely! Join me this week as I fangirl really hard about this show, and also (hopefully) provide some insights into what happens when we find ourselves repeating toxic stories that were passed down to us. I also share my thoughts about the representation of Eastern European culture and family dynamics on the show. And also a bunch of other thoughts on why I think this show is just the best! Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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Working vs. panicking about work
Send us Fan MailHow much time do you spend doing your work vs. panicking about your work? And when you feel overwhelmed, is it because there is actually too much to do, or because you know you will end up spinning and distracting yourself for hours on end (and will THEN have very little time left for anything else)? Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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Introducing "You're Working Too Hard"
Send us Fan MailTune in to learn about some recent podcast updates this week!Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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How perfectionism and people pleasing affect our relationship with food & our bodies
Send us Fan MailIf you are worried about body and diet talk during family gatherings around the holidays or are struggling to set boundaries, listen up! In this episode, Maria shares a presentation on people pleasing and perfectionism, and how these tendencies affect our relationships with food and our bodies. To book 1-1 coaching with Maria, either 1) send her an email at [email protected] or 2) book a free 30-min consult call at restovergrind.com.If you want access to the slides behind the presentation in this episode, send Maria an email!Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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Are you harming your health by trying to be too self-sufficient?
Send us Fan MailWe have been taught that admitting we can't do everything on our own is equivalent to failing. And this intense focus on self sufficiency is really harming us. In this episode, Maria talks about the cultural roots of the self-sufficiency lessons we've learned. And how to move away from them and actually start taking care of ourselves. To learn more info and apply for The Fall Reset, 6 weeks of 1:1 coaching and continuous support with Maria, starting Oct. 13th, click here. Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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Why is it so hard to do the things that we know will help?
Send us Fan MailDo you nod to content about setting boundaries and giving yourself a break? But when the time comes to actually apply that you just default back to saying "yes" and working late? That's the application gap - that gap between knowing and doing, where fear, default beliefs, and nervous system activation get in the way. This week, Maria talks about why that happens and how to fix it!To learn more info and apply for The Fall Reset, 6 weeks of 1:1 coaching and continuous support with Maria, starting Oct. 13th, click here. Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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Are you bullying yourself into a rigid work schedule?
Send us Fan MailIf you have a tendency to make work rigid and unpleasant for yourself (because you've been taught that's how work is supposed to be), this episode is for you. This week, Maria talks about how to actually add more fun and flexibility to your work, regardless of whether you work for yourself or someone else. To apply to The Fall Reset, 6 weeks of 1:1 coaching and continuous support with Maria, starting Oct. 13th, click here. To schedule a consult call with Maria, go to restovergrind.com/work-with-meHave thoughts, questions, suggestions? Email [email protected] a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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Find your flow at work (a conversation with Pooja Venkatraman)
Send us Fan MailJoin Maria in a conversation with Pooja Venkatraman, an executive coach for high-stress high achievers. Pooja and Maria talk all things stress, how to harness that high-achiever energy in a way that's not overwhelming, and in general how to work in a way that's actually fun, rather than exhausting. To get in touch with Pooja:Website: https://poojavcoaching.com/IG: https://www.instagram.com/poojav.coaching/Substack: https://poojav.substack.com/LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/vpoojaPodcast on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4115SuxkOtcIAXhVblhi4qPodcast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/less-stress-more-flow-with-pooja-v/id1591272309Schedule a consult call to discuss working together in a full coaching engagement: https://poojavcoaching.com/contactSchedule a coffee chat for some one-off coaching and brainstorming about your situation, no strings attached: https://calendly.com/pooja-venkatraman/coffee-chatBook a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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Managing stress and keeping it all together (a conversation w/ Regan Bashara)
Send us Fan MailThis week, Maria has a conversation with Regan Bashara on all things related to work stress: not absorbing other people's stress, finding things that help you regulate both short-term and long-term, overcoming perfectionism as it relates to stress management, and so much more. Regan Bashara is an Elite QuickBooks Online Level 2 ProAdvisor. She's making small business finances less stressful for her clients. To get in touch with Regan:Set up a free account in her community by visiting her website https://alleaseaccounting.com/. Follow her on social media: TikTok: @rayrayhammer and Instagram: @alleaseaccountingBook a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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How Procrastination Affects Our Work (And What to Do About It)
Send us Fan MailThis week, Maria talks about procrastination - the different ways in which it shows up (passive vs. active), how it affects us, and what we can do about it! To download the "Getting out of Procrastination" video, which has a quick exercise to help you tackle that frozen state you often find ourself in, go to restovergrind.com/free-videos.Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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How Perfectionism Shows up in the Workplace
Send us Fan MailThis week, Maria talks about how the fear of making mistakes or getting negative feedback at work can turn into perfectionism, overworking, and overcomplicating things!To download the "Getting out of Perfectionism" video, which has a quick exercise to help you tackle that fear of mistakes and tendency to overwork, go to restovergrind.com/free-videos.Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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How People Pleasing Shows up in the Workplace
Send us Fan MailThis week, Maria dives into all the ways in which people pleasing can show up in the workplace, the social context in which we develop these people pleasing tendencies (and the reasons they are so common), and how we can start getting out of people pleasing most effectively. To download the "Getting out of People Pleasing" video, which has a quick exercise to help you start tackling people pleasing at work, go to restovergrind.com/free-videos. Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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The 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Procrastination, and Perfectionism)
Send us Fan MailThis week, Maria talks about how people pleasing, procrastination, and perfectionism show up in our work (often intersecting with each other) and how they lead to exhaustion and, over time, burnout. To download the 3Ps of exhaustion videos, which have quick exercises to help you get out of these patterns, go to restovergrind.com/free-videos.Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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How to organize your time
Send us Fan MailThis week, Maria talks about how to effectively organize your time, whether your job is predictable or full of unexpected requests, meetings, and emergencies. Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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Procrastination Series Week 5 - Putting It All Together
Send us Fan MailOn the final episode of the procrastination series, Maria talks about how to move forward and implement all the procrastination strategies in a way that is sustainable and that you'll be able to rely on for the long haul. Share what you have learned during the series, or what you are still struggling with: [email protected] a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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Procrastination Series Week 4 - Using self-coaching to procrastinate less
Send us Fan MailOn today's episode, Maria talks about how to put the previous 3 steps together to finally cut down on procrastination in your life. And she discusses some of her favorite practical strategies to use when it comes to productivity and focus.To finally stop procrastination and start getting your stuff done regularly, book a consult call with Maria or email her using the links below. Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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Procrastination Series: Week 3 – How do we get to those motivating thoughts?
Send us Fan MailThis week on the procrastination series, Maria explains how we can bridge the gap between our current thoughts (from week 1) and those fantasy thoughts that would be super motivating, but that are just not believable yet (from week 2).To get guidance and support in your work on procrastination, book a consult call with Maria or email her (using the links below).Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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Bonus Episode: Practical strategies for getting out of burnout (with Katie Bonarrigo)
Send us Fan MailIn this bonus episode, Maria talks to Katie Bonarrigo, a certified holistic health and burnout coach. Maria and Katie talk about practical tips and strategies for shifting out of burnout, along with mindset blocks that get in the way of healing. More about Katie: Katie Bonarrigo is a certified holistic health and burnout coach dedicated to helping burnt out, overwhelmed women reclaim their energy and find ease. With a focus on nervous system regulation and sustainable habit formation, Katie empowers her clients to break free from the burnout cycle and create balanced, fulfilling lives. To get in touch with Katie or follow her work:Website: https://www.shiftwellnesscollective.com/burnout-to-balanceInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/shiftwithkatie/?hl=enBook a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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Procrastination Series: Week 2 – What thoughts would help you get started?
Send us Fan MailIn the second episode of the Procrastination Series, we’re exploring what thoughts would help you get started on the task you want to do (even if you don't believe them yet)? If you want to share and get support on the things that are coming up for you as you listen, book a consult call with Maria or email her (using the links below).Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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Procrastination Series: Week 1 – Figure out what’s happening in your brain
Send us Fan MailIn the first episode of the Procrastination Series, we’re exploring what is happening in our brains that is coming in the way of doing the things we want to (or have to) do. If you want to share and get support on the things that are coming up for you as you listen, book a consult call with Maria or email her (using the links below). Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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Saving Time: How to stop taking forever to make decisions
Send us Fan MailIn the last episode of the "Saving Time" series, Maria talks about how we can stop taking up so much time trying to make decisions (both big and small), so we can actually finish our work faster and have the free time we've been dreaming of! Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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Saving Time: How to stop overcommitting
Send us Fan MailIf you struggle with saying "yes" to too many things or have a hard time setting boundaries, this episode is for you! This week, Maria talks about why we have such a hard time turning things down. And explains why we have more options than forcing ourselves to say "no" and just trying to be OK with the possibility of people being upset with us or saying "yes" and feeling overwhelmed and overworked. Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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Saving Time: How to stop overcomplicating and overworking
Send us Fan MailThis week Maria delves into why we overcomplicate things and overwork as a result. And, more importantly, how do we stop and regain our time and sanity! Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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Saving Time: How to stop trying to do everything
Send us Fan MailFor the next 4 weeks, Maria will be talking about how to change our relationship to time, and how we can save time and feel less overwhelmed and exhausted, even when we have an overflowing to-do list. This week, the series kicks off with a discussion on how to stop trying to do everything! Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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...by navigating compensation conversations in purpose-driven careers (w/ Dr. Janny Chang)
Send us Fan MailIn this week's episode, Natasha speaks with Dr. Janny Chang about how women can navigate purpose, passion and mission driven careers while earning money. Tune in to learn about how to navigate tricky compensation topics in purpose-driven industries. About Dr. Janny Chang: Janny Chang, PhD is a career coach for mission-driven women who want to level up their careers without guilt or burnout while living a life full of purpose, meaning, joy, and rest. Her clients come to her when they’re at a crossroads, trying to figure out what to do next or they are feeling burned out. While her clients come from a variety of industries, including education, academia, NGO, and nonprofit work, they are united by their shared values of justice and equity and the desire for greater meaning in their work. Dr Chang is committed to reducing the burnout and attrition rate in these industries by helping women use their personal agency and power to lead and not just survive, but thrive in their career and in life. She believes that this is one of the most effective ways to create change - through ensuring the well being of the individuals who are leading and working in these organizations. Here are some links that you may find helpful if you are interested in working with her:Website: www.jannychang.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/drjannychangcoach/Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/drjannycoachTik Tok: @drjannycoach1Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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...by understanding what causes procrastination
Send us Fan MailThis week, Maria pops in to talk about a topic we all seem to be struggling with - procrastination! To join the "Using Coaching to Ditch Procrastination" FB group, go to: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/14ro8B25ju/Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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...by being deliberate with your time (w/ Laura Roeder)
Send us Fan MailThis week, join Natasha & Laura Roeder as they talk about building a business on part-time hours and being intentional with your time. About Laura: Laura Roeder is a lifelong entrepreneur and founder of several multi-million dollar bootstrapped companies. She is a founder of Paperbell, CoachCompare, MeetEdgar, Marie Forleo’s B-School, and LKR Social Media.Laura was named one of the top 100 entrepreneurs under 30 and has spoken about entrepreneurship at the White House.Laura believes in supporting entrepreneurship around the globe. She has travelled to South Africa as part of the Virgin Unites Branson Centre of Entrepreneurship where she offered guidance to budding entrepreneurs, and has spoken to students at the University of Southern California and Loyola Marymount University.You can reach Laura here: https://lauraroeder.com/In this Episode: Laura's Productivity System: https://lauraroeder.com/my-top-to-bottom-system-for-running-a-7-figure-bootstrapped-business-part-time-14d4bf577d33Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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Getting Unstuck: How to support yourself when you start to feel regret about your decision
Send us Fan MailOn this week's episode Natasha & Maria are wrapping up the mini-series on getting unstuck. They share some helpful tips and tools for how you can support yourself once you've made a decision and you start to feel regret coming up. We hope you enjoy this week's conversation! Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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Getting Unstuck: How to take action to achieve your goals
Send us Fan MailTaking action is often the hardest part of achieving something - sometimes, it can feel so easy to decide what you want, and to dream about the end result, but forget about the steps you need to take to get there. Those steps can be daunting and intimidating and prevent you from hitting your end result! On this week's episode, Maria & Natasha share practical tips and tools to help get started on taking action towards your goals right now. Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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Getting Unstuck: Making research feel manageable
Send us Fan MailStarting to do research on any topic can feel overwhelming because of the sheer volume of information and options out there. This is especially true when the research pertains to a life change such as looking for a new job, researching ways to grow at your current job, or looking for new hobbies to take on outside of your job. This week Maria & Natasha talk about how to do that research in a way that feels manageable and digestible, so you can actually jump into it without fear or resistance. Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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Getting Unstuck: Intentional vs. inertia-based decisions
Send us Fan MailKicking off the first mini series of the year, Maria & Natasha delve into the topic of getting unstuck. This week, the conversation is about how to make decisions with intention vs. based on inertia, and how to support yourself if an honest evaluation of what you want feels scary. Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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Stuck between wanting to resist & wanting to dissociate?
Send us Fan MailA lot of us are stuck between wanting to resist/help everyone's who's suffering right now/contribute to all the causes we care about and feeling frozen by the sheer magnitude of what's happening/feeling unable to start anywhere. This week, Maria breaks down how we can get out of that frozen state, why it's so important to not overwhelm ourselves further and why we should not be ignoring our own joy in the middle of all the chaos. If you need ideas for place to donate right now, here are some places you can get started: Funding a local abortion fund The American Civil Liberties UnionThe NAACP Legal Defense FundNational Resources Defense CouncilThe National Immigration Law CenterMovimiento Cosecha (supporting immigrant rights) Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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...by slowing everything down
Send us Fan MailEverything feels like a lot right now. So we are coming in with some thoughts on how to best get through your days when everything can feel exhausting and overwhelming. Regular podcast programming is resuming on Monday, Jan. 27th!Places to donate to help with the LA fires:LA Fire Department: supportlafd.orgCalifornia Fire Foundation for assistance of victims: cafirefoundation.orgBaby2baby.org for essential items to children and familiesPasadena Humane Society for injured animals: give.pasadenahumane.orgBook a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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...by pausing and checking in at the start of the New Year
Send us Fan MailHappy New Year 2025! Join Maria & Natasha this week for a New Year's episode as they chat about the importance of pausing and checking in with yourself at the start of this new year. They share examples of how pausing and making intentional shifts have helped them be more intentional in their day. Enjoy the conversation! Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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A conversation about human design (w/ Marina Clavet)
Send us Fan MailThis week Maria talks to fellow coach and human design expert Marina Clavet about how the human design framework can be helpful in understanding ourselves, our own work styles, and how to shift the way we work to better fit our own needs. To get in touch with Marina:Website: https://marina-clavet-coaching.com/en/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marina-clavet-coach-certifi%C3%A9e-mindset-et-carri%C3%A8re-676bb7219/Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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...by communicating confidently at work (w/ Erin Roberts)
Send us Fan MailOn this week's episode, Natasha interviews Erin Roberts, Communication Coach. Erin shares her best tips and strategies for learning how to become a confident communicator at work and in your personal life! Enjoy the conversations!Here's how you can connect with Erin: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alignedwitherinYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@erinrobertscoWebsite: https://www.erinroberts.co/Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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A conversation about coaching and abortion work (w/ Amanda Kingsley)
Send us Fan MailJoin Maria and special guest Amanda Kingsley for an honest and nuanced conversation about the intersection between coaching and abortion work. Other topics include self-compassion, having your own back, and embracing the full spectrum of human emotions. To get in touch with Amanda:Website: https://www.amandastarkingsley.com/Instagram and TikTok: @amandastarkingsley Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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Checking in and regrouping
Send us Fan MailThis week Maria is on to check in with everyone and share some thoughts on how to take care of ourselves and our communities right now and moving forward. Our regular podcast episodes will resume starting next week. If you need support or resources right now, please don't hesitate to reach out to us in any form (contact information below). Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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...by negotiating your salary
Send us Fan MailOn this week's episode, Natasha talks with Linda Street, Career Coach and Negotiation expert, all about salary negotiation. They share tips and tricks to support you in your salary negation conversations. You don't want to miss this episode!You can find out more about Linda Street here: https://www.simplystreetmd.com/ Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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Special Episode: 5 Strategies for Coping with Election Stress
Send us Fan Mail5 Strategies for Coping with Election Stress A lot of us are experiencing a lot of election anxiety right now, while also being expected to keep showing up in our lives and our work. So how do you cope with that? In this episode, I offer 5 strategies on coping with election anxiety, being able to show up to your life even with lower energy and an overwhelmed nervous system, and being able to connect with others during this stressful time. To summarize, the five strategies are: 1. Not blaming yourself for feeling frozen or less productive right now 2. Developing some grounding practices3. Applying triage to your schedule and doing your work with a lot less intensity than usual4. Focusing on the parts of the election you can control - voting, talking to others about voting, volunteering5. Developing and leaning on your communityIf you need additional support with stress relief right now, I am offering 30-min 1-on-1 stress-relief calls, and offering the first call for free. To book your call, go to restovergrind.com/work-with-meBook a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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...by understanding and navigating ADHD (w/ Kristen Carder)
Send us Fan MailThis week, Maria talks to Kristen Carder, an ADHD expert, top podcast host, and certified coach, about understanding and navigating ADHD. Some of the questions Kristen and Maria address include the danger of toxic positivity in the ADHD world, masking and when it is productive vs. maladaptive, the concept of safe vs. unsafe people, and places where social media is helpful vs. not so helpful when it comes to understanding ADHD.To get in touch with Kristen:Website: https://ihaveadhd.com/Podcast: I Have ADHDInstagram: @i.have.adhd.podcastBook a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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...celebrating 100 podcast episodes!
Send us Fan MailJoin Maria & Natasha this week as they celebrate 100 episodes of the Making Work Fun Podcast. In this episode, they share their takeaways from recording 100 podcast episodes - and doing so while prioritizing the fun! Book a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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...by befriending your nervous system pt. 2 (w/ Leah Davidson)
Send us Fan MailBefore we can utilize all of our mindset strategies, we need to go through the nervous system. And when our nervous system is activated, we actually cannot think straight. So if you've ever found that mindset work is super helpful to you in some areas, but you hit a wall with it in other areas - you might be ignoring your nervous system! Tune in to learn more about this in this week's part 2 of the nervous system regulation conversation with Leah Davidson.About Leah:Leah Davidson holds a Master of Science (Applied) from McGill University (Speech Language Pathology) and is also a Certified Life Coach (through the Life Coach School) and Professional Resilience Coach and Consultant (through the Forward Facing Trauma Institute). As a registered Speech Language Pathologist, she has spent over two decades working in the area of Traumatic Brain Injury. She is also certified in Pain Reprocessing Therapy, EFT, and Breathwork. As the host of the Building Resilience Podcast and the creator of the Advanced Training for Nervous System Resilience, Leah focuses on helping people learn to befriend their nervous system, manage their mindset and cultivate resilience. She is passionate about teaching others how to resolve and prevent burnout, stress, and compassion fatigue. Leah lives in Toronto, Ontario, Canada with her husband Rob and they have a blended family with 5 children. She loves to learn, grow, hike, read, travel and spend time with friends and family.Connect with Leah here:Website: www.leahdavidsonlifecoaching.comInstagram:@leahdavidsonlifecoachingFacebook: @leahdavidsonlifecoachingBook a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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...by befriending your nervous system (w/ Leah Davidson)
Send us Fan MailOn this week's episode Natasha talks with Leah Davidson all about befriending and regulating the nervous system. Make sure you tune in next week for Part 2 of this conversation! About Leah:Leah Davidson holds a Master of Science (Applied) from McGill University (Speech Language Pathology) and is also a Certified Life Coach (through the Life Coach School) and Professional Resilience Coach and Consultant (through the Forward Facing Trauma Institute). As a registered Speech Language Pathologist, she has spent over two decades working in the area of Traumatic Brain Injury. She is also certified in Pain Reprocessing Therapy, EFT, and Breathwork. As the host of the Building Resilience Podcast and the creator of the Advanced Training for Nervous System Resilience, Leah focuses on helping people learn to befriend their nervous system, manage their mindset and cultivate resilience. She is passionate about teaching others how to resolve and prevent burnout, stress, and compassion fatigue. Leah lives in Toronto, Ontario, Canada with her husband Rob and they have a blended family with 5 children. She loves to learn, grow, hike, read, travel and spend time with friends and family.Connect with Leah here: Website: www.leahdavidsonlifecoaching.comInstagram:@leahdavidsonlifecoachingFacebook: @leahdavidsonlifecoachingBook a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: [email protected] my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova
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