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You're Working Too Hard — 147 episodes

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Why "just stop" does not work with procrastination

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The mental math of people pleasing

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Overworking as insurance against feeling bad

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The different types of overfunctioning (and what we can do about them)

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How I took care of myself during a tough time period

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Why stress management strategies are not always successful

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Heated Rivalry, calling yourself lazy, and the origins of your inner critic

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Working vs. panicking about work

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Introducing "You're Working Too Hard"

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How perfectionism and people pleasing affect our relationship with food & our bodies

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Are you harming your health by trying to be too self-sufficient?

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Why is it so hard to do the things that we know will help?

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Are you bullying yourself into a rigid work schedule?

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Find your flow at work (a conversation with Pooja Venkatraman)

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Managing stress and keeping it all together (a conversation w/ Regan Bashara)

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How Procrastination Affects Our Work (And What to Do About It)

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How Perfectionism Shows up in the Workplace

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How People Pleasing Shows up in the Workplace

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The 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Procrastination, and Perfectionism)

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How to organize your time

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Procrastination Series Week 5 - Putting It All Together

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Procrastination Series Week 4 - Using self-coaching to procrastinate less

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Procrastination Series: Week 3 – How do we get to those motivating thoughts?

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Bonus Episode: Practical strategies for getting out of burnout (with Katie Bonarrigo)

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Procrastination Series: Week 2 – What thoughts would help you get started?

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Procrastination Series: Week 1 – Figure out what’s happening in your brain

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Saving Time: How to stop taking forever to make decisions

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Saving Time: How to stop overcommitting

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Saving Time: How to stop overcomplicating and overworking

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Saving Time: How to stop trying to do everything

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...by navigating compensation conversations in purpose-driven careers (w/ Dr. Janny Chang)

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...by understanding what causes procrastination

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...by being deliberate with your time (w/ Laura Roeder)

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Getting Unstuck: How to support yourself when you start to feel regret about your decision

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Getting Unstuck: How to take action to achieve your goals

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Getting Unstuck: Making research feel manageable

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Getting Unstuck: Intentional vs. inertia-based decisions

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Stuck between wanting to resist & wanting to dissociate?

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...by slowing everything down

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...by pausing and checking in at the start of the New Year

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A conversation about human design (w/ Marina Clavet)

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...by communicating confidently at work (w/ Erin Roberts)

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A conversation about coaching and abortion work (w/ Amanda Kingsley)

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Checking in and regrouping

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...by negotiating your salary

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Special Episode: 5 Strategies for Coping with Election Stress

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...by understanding and navigating ADHD (w/ Kristen Carder)

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...celebrating 100 podcast episodes!

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...by befriending your nervous system pt. 2 (w/ Leah Davidson)

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...by befriending your nervous system (w/ Leah Davidson)

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...by learning sustainable productivity (w/ Dele Kooley)

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...by being your own best boss

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...by working smarter instead of harder

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...by making sales fun (w/ Keli Lyn Jewel)

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...by managing the sunk cost fallacy in your decision making

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...by discovering what nourishes vs. what depletes your energy (w/ Jess Kaskov)

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...by learning how to cultivate courage (w/ Lynn Grogan)

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...by remembering that stressful times are not forever

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...by finding joy in dating and relationships

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...by holding kind boundaries at work

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...by learning how to create internal safety with Brig Johnson

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...by learning how to create connection through play

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...we're celebrating 2 years of the podcast!

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...by navigating discomfort and change as a high achiever (w/ Sharon Kiely)

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Answering listener questions about burnout (w/ Marissa McKool)

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...what women are taught about money (special interview)

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BONUS episode - actions and strategies to actually get stuff done

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...by learning how to create satisfaction in your life (w/ Kori Linn)

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...by unpacking shame in parenting (Parenting Series Week 3 of 3)

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...by embracing imperfection and self-compassion in parenting (Parenting Series Week 2 of 3)

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...by finding your joy in parenting (Parenting Series Week 1 of 3)

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...by being kind to yourself (special interview)

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BONUS episode - re-introducing making work fun!

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...by challenging your limiting beliefs around money (special interview)

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...by embracing transitions (w/ Sindy Warren)

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...by making it easier to express your needs (w/ Ana Lopez)

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...by approaching pain recovery and work challenges joyfully (w/ Deb Malkin)

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...by broadening your horizons

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...by learning how to be a good manager (with Nikolay Filchev)

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...by exploring the benefits of travel hacking with special guest Nikolay Filchev

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...by exploring the opportunity cost of staying in a job that has more negatives than positives

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...by welcoming the new year the way you want! (with or without resolutions)

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...by planning your meaningful holiday

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Work on TV Mini Series (with Rob Tuerke): Our favorite TV work moments, characters, conflicts, and more

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Work on TV Mini Series (with Rob Tuerke): Who gets to be likeable on TV, even when they are terrible?

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Work on TV Mini Series (with Rob Tuerke): Work and trauma + dreams vs. goals

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Work on TV Mini Series (with Rob Tuerke): The beauty in the mundane + the portrayal of success on TV

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Celebrating Indigenous Peoples' Day: Interview with Prof. Barbara Creel

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...by navigating unplanned work interruptions during your time off

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...by unpacking what it means to be good at your job

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...by coping with decision fatigue

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...by tackling people pleasing

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...by doing things for now (even if they don't work for the future!)

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...by finding your flow

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...by exploring your relationship to sleep

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...by holding onto your own authority

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...by switching things up

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...by doing nothing (sometimes)

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...by choosing your attitude when things don't go as planned

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...by noticing how many things are made up

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Maria's interview series: ...by exploring guided meditation and stress management (w/ Aakruti Vakharia)

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...by unpacking discipline

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...by exploring your resistance to certain tasks

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...by setting your future self up for success

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...by celebrating teamwork

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...by prioritizing your wants

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...by expanding your definition of rest

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...by basking in self-pride

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...by not ignoring your burnout

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...by taking a deep breath

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...by emotionally budgeting for the negative and the unexpected

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...through trial and error

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...by creating flexibility in your life and schedule (while still getting everything done)

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...by loving who you are

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Maria's interview series: ...by discovering your own resilience (w/ Jane Elliott)

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Maria's interview series: …by honoring your reactions & needs around triggers, microagressions, and unsafe situations (w/ Cheyne Scott)

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Maria's interview series: ...by noticing nature's lessons about rest and recovery (w/ Rosa Goodman)

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...by knowing and trusting your limits

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Maria's interview series: ...by taking charge of your money (w/ Rachelle Siebke)

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Maria's interview series: ...by escaping the mental grind of your job (w/ Amelia Noel)

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Maria's interview series: ...by discovering opportunities where you are (w/ Amanda Malaney)

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Maria's interview series: ...by tapping into your creativity (w/ Vanessa Hardy)

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Maria's interview series: ...by not suppressing your emotions (w/ Laura Jurgens)

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Maria's interview series: ...by cultivating self-trust (w/ Siobhán Friel)

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Maria's interview series: ...by tackling burnout from the inside (w/ Michelle Kevill)

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Maria's interview series: ...by understanding boundaries (w/ Rosanna Gill)

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...by taking a break

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...by asking for help

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...by honoring seasonal changes pt 2

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...by honoring seasonal changes pt 1

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...by learning the difference between challenging yourself for fun vs. in order to feel better

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...by resisting the urge to assign blame

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...by questioning the idea that "you should know better"

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...by resisting the made-up rules at work

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...by not giving up on what you want

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...by putting less pressure on yourself about your job

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…by letting yourself be grateful for the things that you’re actually grateful for

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…by questioning the idea that you *should* be grateful for your job

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...by not creating unpleasant experiences in advance

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...by redefining self-care

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...by questioning your assessment of your own work

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…by focusing on what’s going right

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...by eliminating "busy" work

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...by cutting yourself some slack (part 2)

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...by cutting yourself some slack (part 1)

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...by figuring out what fun is

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...by figuring out what work is