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CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT — 229 episodes

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1

What to Do if You Inherit an Estrangement

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"Your Parents Were Children Too" Has Been Weaponized

3

The Court Gave My Estranged Mother-in-Law Access to My Kids

4

We Tried to Set One Boundary and Lost 40 Family Members with Jon and Ashley Lefrandt

5

Why I'm Stepping Back From Instagram

6

Myth of the Bad Seed: The Dangerous Belief That Some Children Are Just Broken

7

Radical Acceptance in Families That Won't Meet You Halfway

8

When Your Family Runs On Blame

9

My Sister Didn't Survive Our Family

10

How to Raise An Emotionally Mature Child with Dr. Lindsay Gibson

11

My Mom Chose Her Marriage with My Cheating Dad Over Me

12

Can You Be Brainwashed Into Estrangement?

13

When is it Time to Accept That Your Parents Were Not Who You Needed Them to Be?

14

When Your Family Doesn’t Know How to Listen (And Maybe You Don’t Either)

15

The Parent Who Never Changes and the Parent Who Just Might

16

Is Estrangement a Luxury for People with Money?

17

When You Love Your Family But Can't Keep Doing This

18

I Said I Was Sorry. What More Do You Want From Me?

19

Should I Explain Myself to Family I Cut Off?

20

Are Adult Children Really Cutting Off Parents for Normal Mistakes?

21

Q&A: Why Your Boundaries Keep Getting Ignored

22

He Was There But He Wasn't: The Emotionally Absent Father

23

Estrangement vs. Distance | Why You're Pulling Away From Someone You Love

24

When Parents Don't Show Curiosity About Your Life

25

Neglectful, Rejecting, and Cruel Mothers

26

Are Therapist Influencers Doing More Harm Than Good?

27

The Distant Parent

28

The Perpetually Estranged Parent

29

Life After Estrangement: Grief, Doubt, and Building What's Next

30

Therapists React to Shameless and What the Show Gets Right About Parentification

31

Choosing Not to Reconcile with a Family Member

32

Therapists React to Succession and What the Show Gets Right About Narcissistic Parents

33

When Your Parent Denies Your Memories

34

"I'm Glad My Mom Died" By Jeanette McCurdy, Emotionally Immature Moms, Boundary-Ignoring Gifts

35

Toxic Mothers with Patrick Teahan | Therapists React to Animal Kingdom

36

Are Therapists Biased Against Estranged Parents?

37

How Not to Apologize

38

Estranged Parents Keep Threatening to Report Me

39

Enmeshed Parents: What You Can Do About It

40

Q&A: Pregnancy During Estrangement, Emotionally Unavailable Parents, and the Viral Chinese App “Are You Dead?”

41

I Have a Confession

42

Boundary Violations During Crisis and Parents Who Refuse Therapy

43

How Parental Rejection Embeds Into Your Nervous System

44

College Students Going No Contact With Their Parents

45

Why Parenting Has Changed and Isn't Going Back

46

Reacting to Real Letters from Estranged Parents to Their Children

47

Surface Level Relationships Might Actually Be a Good Idea

48

Q&A: The Authoritarian Parenting Style

49

Therapists React to Gilmore Girls: Mother-in-Laws, Enmeshment, and Money

50

Stop Waiting for Your Family to Change

51

Oprah’s Estrangement Podcast and the Mel Robbins’ NYT Article

52

Therapists React to Television’s Most Dysfunctional Holiday Dinner

53

Q&A: All Her Fault Analysis, Why Therapy Speak Backfires, and Mothers Who Compete with Daughters

54

Choosing Your Own Life and Letting Go of Guilt

55

A Holiday Pep Talk

56

Reacting to The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives with Samantha Dalton

57

Q&A: Sister Wives' Kody Brown, The Necessary Conversation Podcast, In-Laws Rejecting Adopted Child

58

Unfollowing Mom with Harriet Shearsmith

59

The Truth About IFS: Analyzing the New York Magazine Article "The Therapy That Can Break You"

60

Analyzing Family Dysfunction in the Netflix Series "Nobody Wants This"

61

Q&A: Reconnecting After No Contact

62

For Everyone Who Had to Grow Up Too Fast

63

Are Therapists Encouraging Estrangement?

64

Love the Teen You Have with Dr. Ann-Louise Lockhart

65

Parenting Doesn't End

66

You, Your Husband, and His Mother with Dr. Tracy Dalgleish

67

The Real Housewives Scene That Should Be Shown in Graduate School

68

Hallmarks of a Functional Family

69

Parentification and the Price of Being the Problem Solver

70

How to Parent Differently Without Overcorrecting with Dr. Juli Fraga

71

Q&A: Becoming Like Your Parent

72

Analyzing Prime Video's The Girlfriend | Mother-Son Enmeshment and Emotional Incest

73

Break Up with the Rage Economy

74

Therapists Analyze the Viral Estranged Parents Video

75

The Enabling Parent Dilemma

76

How the Fawn Response Outsmarts Danger with Dr. Ingrid Clayton

77

The Psychology Behind Netflix's Documentary: Unknown Number

78

The Divorce Myth: What Actually Harms Children vs. What Helps Them Heal with Michelle Dempsey-Multack

79

How to Grow Up

80

The Guilt of Calling Out Your Parents

81

Can Estranged Families Reconcile?

82

Q&A: Always the Scapegoat, Never the Golden Child

83

Dear Estranged Parents

84

Q&A: When Your Family Wants You as Their Human Shield

85

Can Emotionally Mature Parents Raise Immature Kids?

86

Q&A: All or Nothing Relationships with Emotionally Immature Parents

87

Sibling Estrangement in Families with an Emotionally Immature Parent

88

Q&A: AI Therapists, Reality TV, and Sibling Estrangement

89

The Emotionally Immature Parent Assessment

90

Q&A: Co-parenting with a Narcissist

91

The Betrayal of the Enabling Parent

92

Q&A: My Mom Doesn't Want a Relationship

93

The Family You Create with Sahil Bloom

94

Q&A: Self-Diagnosis and Toxic Grandparents

95

How to Recognize a Narcissistic Family System

96

Q&A: Intent vs. Impact and Forget Them Kids

97

Is "Therapy Speak" Out of Control? with Jacquelyn Tenaglia

98

How to Develop Emotional Closeness

99

Q&A: My In-Laws Say They'll Help But They Never Do

100

How to Take Care of Estranged and Distant Parents as They Age

101

Q&A: A Family Secret Revealed & Boundaries with Mom

102

How to Talk to Your Parents About Money with Etinosa Agbonlahor

103

Is There a Link Between Therapy Culture and Childlessness?

104

The Necessary Conversation: How To Talk To Family With Different Political Beliefs

105

Q&A: I Told My Sister The Truth About Our Abusive Parents

106

Is This Why Young People Are Cutting Off Their Parents?

107

Q&A: Our Abusive Dad Died. My Sister Only Has Positive Memories.

108

Grieving The Childhood You Never Had: How To Let Go And Grow Up

109

Q&A: Should My Homophobic Parents Be Grandparents?

110

Grieving a Parent Who Wasn’t Really There: How to Mourn the Relationship You Never Got

111

Q&A: I Answer Your Mother's Day Questions

112

Trauma From A Survivor's POV with Nate Postlethwait

113

Q&A: My Twin Brother Must Hate Me (UPDATED!)

114

The Power of Apologizing: How to Repair When You React

115

Q&A: "I'm Just A Rest Stop."

116

The Power of Parting With Eamon Dolan

117

Q&A: My Sibling Keeps Sharing Info With My Estranged Parent

118

Parenting Without a Map: Raising Kids Without Role Models

119

Q&A:Does My Dad Have Autism Or Is He A Narcissist?

120

How To Grieve: Young Grievers, Ambiguous Loss, and Support After The Door Dash Gift Card Phase with Carla Fernandez.

121

Q&A: My MIL Is Passive Aggressive And No One Else Notices

122

Will You Regret Having Children? with Amanda White

123

Q&A: I'm Estranged From My Parents and My Sister Has Cancer

124

You Don't Stop Estrangement Just By Saying It's Bad: How To Actually Prevent Family Estrangement

125

Q&A: My MIL Crosses Every Boundary

126

Can Adults Abandon Their Parents?

127

Q&A: The Pain of Parental Rejection. Why Can They Show Up for Others and Not Me?

128

I Can't Fix This with Kirstina Kuzmič

129

Q&A: My Dad Kicked Me Out At 16, Now He Wants To Have Lunch

130

All Women Lie, All Men Cheat?: Gender and The Family

131

No One Wants To Be The One From A Dysfunctional Family

132

Parentification: There Are No Mini Adults

133

Q&A: I Don't Want To Invite My Family To My Wedding

134

Love Is Blind and Attachment Styles

135

Q&A: My Parents Have A Horrible Marriage, What Do I Do?

136

Q&A: Grandpa is Dating Someone New

137

Part 1: Nuance Needed About Adult Child and Parent Estrangement

138

Q&A: My Parent Is Distant. Should I Cut Them Off?

139

Do You Have An Uncle Marvin? With Marc Brackett

140

Q&A: Ask Me Anything About Emotional Immaturity

141

Can My Parent Become More Emotionally Mature?

142

Q&A: His Parents Are Totally Different In Public

143

How To Deal With Emotionally Immature People

144

Q&A: God Told His Parents Not To Speak To Us

145

How To Be More Emotionally Mature

146

Q&A: My Estranged Parent Keeps Buying My Kids Gifts. What Do I Do?

147

No Thanks, Santa: How to Handle Unwanted Gifts and Set Boundaries

148

Q&A: Estrangement During The Holidays and Accepting Your Parents

149

Reparenting Yourself While Parenting Your Children

150

Listen To This Before Thanksgiving

151

Q&A: My Parents Are Politicians

152

How To Balance The Needs Of Your In-Laws, Your Parents, and Your Own Family

153

Q&A: My Mom Didn't Protect Me From My Dad

154

My Family and I Don't Agree Politically, Should I Cut Them Off?

155

Q&A: You Don't Have An In-Law Problem, You Have A Partner Problem

156

Toxic Mother-In-Law Or Brainwashing Daughter In-Law? with Janelle Marie

157

Q&A: I'm Not Inviting My Dad To My Wedding

158

My Parents Hit Me And I Turned Out Fine with Gabriel Hannan

159

What To Do When You Have A Narcissistic Family Member with Dr. Ramani

160

Part 3: What We Know About Adult Child and Parent Estrangement

161

Part 2: Adult Children Share Their Perspective

162

Part 1: Estranged Parents Share Their Perspective

163

Q&A: It's Not About Childhood. It's About How They Treat Me Now

164

Family Estrangement and Going No Contact with Patrick Teahan

165

Q&A: My Mom Snuck Alcohol Around My Child

166

Who Gets To Be In The Delivery Room?

167

Q&A: When My Dad Texts Me, It Makes Me Sick To My Stomach

168

The Golden Child with Vienna Pharaon

169

Q&A: Empathy, Boundaries, and Healing

170

How To Support A Partner Who Has Issues With Their Parents

171

Q&A: I'm Tired Of Being My Parent's Parent

172

Family Dynamics and Romantic Relationships with Todd Baratz

173

Q&A: Narcissist In The Family

174

What's Going On With All The #BoyMoms?

175

Q&A: Navigating Estrangement During Family Events and Holidays

176

Enmeshment in Family Relationships with Nedra Tawwab

177

Q&A: Spouse Doesn’t Understand Going No Contact; Being the Family Scapegoat

178

Emotional Incest

179

Q&A: Grandparent Relationships

180

Emotionally Immature Parents with Lindsay C. Gibson

181

Q&A: Guilty Over Going No Contact; Parents That Lack Emotional Maturity

182

How To Set Boundaries With Grandparents

183

Q&A: Finding and Respecting Boundaries in a Sister Relationship

184

Setting Boundaries Within Immigrant Families with Sahaj Kaur Kohli

185

Q&A: Mother’s Day Edition

186

Grandchildren Are Not A Do-Over For Parents Of Adult Children

187

Q&A: Chaotic Upbringings and Setting Boundaries

188

Unresolved Childhood Trauma with Andrea Ashley

189

Q&A: Emotionally Distant Parents and a Good Grandma But a Not-So-Good Mom

190

Grieving The Apology You Never Got

191

Q&A: Working With Family And Searching For Understanding From Fiance

192

Breaking the Pattern of Dysfunction with Kelly U

193

Q&A: Siblings with Emotional Baggage; Generational Trauma

194

Toxic Positivity

195

Q&A: Estranged Father Seeking Reconciliation, Family Choosing Ex-Husband

196

When Parents Give You The Silent Treatment with Abbey Williams

197

Changing Your Parent’s Expectations with Mindhappy Founder Darshita Raval

198

Blending Families

199

Q&A: Parents Accepting Adult Child’s ADHD, Handling Estrangement and Pregnancy Announcements

200

Emotionally Immature Parents with Morgan Pommells

201

Co-Parenting with Dysfunctional Parents, Parents with Undiagnosed Mental Disorders

202

Going No Contact

203

Q&A: Sibling Relationships After Divorce, Caring For Aging Parents and Supporting No Contact

204

Introducing New Episodes Coming Every Thursday

205

Growing Up In Chaos

206

Parent and Adult Child Relationships with Minaa B

207

The Missing, Missing Reasons

208

How Parents Can Navigate Their Relationship with Adult Children with Dr. Laurence Steinburg

209

Ambiguous Loss and Grief

210

Adult Sibling Relationships with Dr. Geoffrey Greif

211

Estrangement Between Adult Children and Their Parents

212

Navigating Sibling Estrangement with Fern Schumer Chapman

213

Mother Daughter Relationships

214

WHERE CULTURE AND PARENTING MEET with Leslie Priscilla

215

Reconciliation In Relationships

216

SURVIVING IN-LAWS with Elizabeth Earnshaw

217

Bonus Episode: Surviving Thanksgiving

218

Navigating Emotionally Immature Parents

219

Holly Whitaker

220

Special Events and Community

221

Bradi Nathan

222

Family Dynamics, Religious Changes, And Parents Who Didn't Do Their Best

223

Sarah Adams

224

Substance Abuse, Abandonment, and Reconnection

225

Dr. Josh Coleman

226

Eve Rodsky

227

Accountability, Boundaries, and That Person You Don't Want To See

228

Who is Whitney Goodman? What is CALLING HOME?

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CALLING HOME with Whitney Goodman, LMFT