All episodes
Do Marriage Intensives Work? [215]
Understanding Reactive Abuse and Reabuse [214]
Won't Abusers Get Away With Everything if We Believe God's Love is Unconditional? [213]
Setting Boundaries with Adult Children [212]
An Adult Child of Divorce Answers Survivor Questions [211]
A Man Who Admits to Being Abusive Asks "How Do I Fight For My Wife?" [210]
A Groundbreaking Therapy that Fosters Healing and Connection with Self, God, and Others [209]
Nine Codependency Behaviors Religious Communities Reward in Christian Women [208]
Help! My Husband Twists Words to Confuse Me, and I Feel Guilty and Full of Shame [206]
Where Does My Help Come From? [205]
Why We Get Stuck and How to Unstick Ourselves [204]
Celebrating the Holidays When Life Is Blowing Up - Part Two [202]
Celebrating the Holidays When Life Is Blowing Up - Part One [201]
200th Episode Celebration: The State of the Christian Survivor and Advocate Community [200]
How Many Years Does a Christian Wife Owe Her Abusive Husband? [199]
Why Don't I Feel Close to God? [198]
A Story About a Family, a Bus, and a Food Fight [197]
How Far Should I Go to Give My Emotionally Abusive Husband a Chance to Change? [196]
My Abusive Husband Says I’m Unbiblical Unless I Reconcile with Him [195]
What Role Does Fear Play in Our Religion and Our Relationships? [194]
Stop Waiting for Your Husband to Die so You Can Live [193]
Confronting Religious Trauma and Reconstructing Faith [192]
Why Self-Leadership is More Effective Than Being Held Accountable [191]
What if I Want a Divorce but My Abusive Husband Doesn't? [190]
I’m Afraid of My Christian Husband’s Criticism and Disapproval [189]
When Your Ex-Husband Tries to Use Your Kids to Control You After the Divorce [188]
Will Divorce Ruin My Kids and Their Opportunities in Life? [187]
Why Being Rejected by Your Church and Family Hurts So Bad [186]
How to Know If Your Christian Dating Relationship is Toxic [185]
BONUS Episode: Stop Using the Word "Alienation" (Here's Why)
The Wife with Boundaries: Changing the Conversation on Biblical Submission [184]
12 Life-Changing Beliefs That Will Unhook You From Abuse Part Three [183]
12 Life-Changing Beliefs That Will Unhook You From Abuse Part Two [182]
12 Life-Changing Beliefs That Will Unhook You From Abuse Part One [181]
Understanding Three Sources of Anger (and why the source matters) [180]
We Need a Sexual Reformation in the Church [179]
Does the Bible Say I Can't Take My Abuser to Court in 1 Corinthians 6:1-10? [178]
How You and Your Faith Community Got Hoodwinked by an Abuser [177]
Using Art to Heal from Narcissistic Abuse [176]
I Don’t Want to Look Like a Bad Christian if I Leave My Abusive Marriage [175]
Are Christian Abuse Victims Supposed to Be Like Job and Just Suffer? [174]
What Does It Mean to Find Yourself After Getting Out of an Abusive Relationship? [173]
Protect Yourself From Financial Abuse with Attorney Lisa Zeiderman [172]
We Are Like the God We Worship [171]
Does the Bible Say I Have to Give My Abusive Husband Sex on Demand? [170]
Different Ways Emotional Abusers Don't Take Responsibility for Their Behavior [169]
The Worst Things People Say to Justify, Minimize, and Excuse the Abuse You’ve Experienced [168]
Am I Responsible for Fixing My Husband? [167]
How Churches Can Help Abuse Victims (And How They Often Hurt Them Instead) [166]
How Do I Know What Is Real or True When My Husband Gaslights Me? [165]
How Not to Be an Ass [164]
The One About God and Religion and Hell [163]
What If I Had an Affair While I Was Married to My Abusive Husband? [162]
The Woman They Could Not Silence [161]
An Emotional Recovery Tool That Changes Everything [160]
Ten Thoughts Confident Women Think When Their Husbands Act Like Jerks [159]
How Will I Know When Enough Is Enough and I Can Walk Away? [158]
How Do You Break the Cycle of Emotional and Spiritual Abuse? [157]
What Are the Biblical Grounds for Divorce? (And Other Questions!) [156]
When Wolves Play Dress Up [154]
Rediscovering Your True Self After Toxic Relationships and Emotional Abuse [153]
Making Health and Fitness Easier for Survivors [151]
A Teen's Perspective on Divorce During the Holidays [150]
How Do I Get My Kids to Believe and Understand That I'm a Victim of Emotional Abuse? [149]
Managing the Holiday Blues [148]
Changing Your Role (Chapter Eight of Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage) Part Two [147]
Changing Your Role (Chapter Eight of Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage) Part One [146]
Dealing with Difficult People During the Holidays [145]
Doing Deep Internal Healing Through Spiritual Process Groups [144]
Three False Beliefs My Abusive Relationship Gave to Me [143]
Four Barriers That Keep Women From Leaving Abusive Relationships [142]
When All Your Thoughts Are Despairing and Hopeless [141]
How to Achieve Financial Independence After Abuse [140]
But Didn't I Promise to Stay in Sickness and in Health? What about Mental Illness?m [139]
Finding Joy Even When Life Hurts [138]
Does God Love You Less Because Your Marriage is Bad? [137]
How Do I Make an Exit Plan? [136]
Is the Bible Against Women? [135]
What You Can Do When Your Christian Husband Bullies You Part Two [134]
What You Can Do When Your Christian Husband Bullies You Part One [133]
Survivor Story: Marie [132]
What I Would Preach to the Modern Day Preachers (if they would listen...) [131]
What You Need to Know When You Leave [130]
Why Hanging on to Hope in an Emotionally Abusive Relationship Doesn't Work [129]
Is the Cost to Leave an Abusive Marriage Worth It? [128]
My Three Biggest Mistakes When Getting Away From Emotional Abuse Part Two [127]
My Three Biggest Mistakes When Getting Away From Emotional Abuse Part One [126]
How Pretending and Fear Keep You Stuck in abuse cycles (and what sets you free) [125]
Emotional Abuse Survivor Q&A [124]
The Big Problem with Christian Marriage Counseling [123]
Is it Possible to Stay Well in an Abusive Marriage? [122]
Finding Your Personal Style After Years of Emotional Abuse [121]
Finding a Healthy Partner After Divorce [120]
How I Encouraged an Abusive System with My Silence and Submission [119]
Why Relationships Are Complicated for Survivors and How to Unhook from Relationship Drama [118]
Consent in Christian Marriage: Why Your "No" Feels Confusing [117]
Can Emotionally Abusive Marriages Be Restored? [116]
How to Become Toxic Person Proof [115]
Staying Connected to Our Kids Post-Divorce [114]
Building Resilience in Children Who Have Experienced Coercive Control [113]