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Life Examined — 331 episodes

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What does the city of death teach us about the nature of grief?

2

The paradox of love: it begins with you

3

What I’ll miss about the single life

4

Is “Wild Geese” by Mary Oliver the best grief poem ever written?

5

Some dreamers of the Caribbean dream

6

"Moby-Dick" remains a psychedelic enigma

7

The Japanese Art of Happiness

8

Is "Lonesome Dove" an answer to modern male loneliness?

9

In praise of quiet kindness, when the world is asking us to be loud

10

The Two Quotes I Think of — and Lean on — Every Day

11

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12

Robert Macfarlane: "Is a River Alive?"

13

When to medicate the mind with Laura Delano

14

Yale happiness guru Laurie Santos on the power of time off and modern parenting traps

15

Ocean Vuong: "The Emperor of Gladness"

16

“He showed us what simplicity could offer:” Pico Iyer and Paul Elie remember Pope Francis

17

Midweek Reset: Life: less itinerary - more flow

18

Brainwashing; the history and complexity of coercive persuasion

19

Midweek Reset: The Myths of Meritocracy

20

Fred Luskin: ‘forgiveness is being at peace with your life.’

21

Midweek Reset: Super communicators

22

Jillian Turecki; ‘when it comes to love, it begins with you.’

23

Midweek Reset: The Gift Economy

24

Are we wired for discovery? Alex Hutchinson on the Explorer’s Gene.

25

Midweek Reset: On having kids

26

Unlocking the teen brain: Lisa Damour’s guide to raising emotionally balanced kids

27

Midweek Reset: On Mind over Body

28

What it’s like to be an alcoholic: a renowned philosopher’s struggle with addiction

29

Midweek Reset: On failure

30

Life lessons from history’s greatest explorers

31

Midweek Reset: Connecting with teens

32

Poet David David Whyte on death, anxiety, and MDMA

33

Midweek Reset: Marriage Actually

34

Understanding anxiety — and its surprising upside

35

Midweek Reset: Toxic Positivity

36

Baratunde Thurston: how black communities are reclaiming their connection to nature

37

Midweek Reset: Sleep

38

The Black Utopians; vision, history, and legacy

39

Midweek Reset: On Attachment Styles

40

Dan Winter’s End; dementia and the controversial decision to accelerate one’s death.

41

Midweek Reset: On The Cosmos

42

Learning from Silence; Pico Iyer on the Transformative Power of Solitude & Monastic Life

43

Midweek Reset: On Arrival Fallacy

44

L.A. on Fire: trauma and the psychology of loss

45

Midweek Reset: On Trauma and Resiliency

46

Endurance and the edge of death: unraveling the mysteries of human resilience

47

Midweek Reset: On Variety

48

Exploring the cosmos: Astronomer Kelsey Johnson helps unravel the mysteries of the universe

49

The Japanese art of happiness: From ikigai, to ritual, to embracing old age

50

Winter wisdom: Katherine May on grief, loss, and the power of celebration

51

Tragic optimism and the male identity crisis with Brad Stulberg

52

Is digital addiction fuelling a teen suicide crisis?

53

Midweek Reset: Finding a way (or path)

54

Renowned psychologist Tara Brach on the power of Buddhism in modern therapy

55

Midweek Reset: On legacy letters

56

‘The Serviceberry’: Robin Wall Kimmerer’s guide to the gift economy

57

Midweek Reset: On Awe

58

Food, Farming, Faith and Hip Hop; Black earth wisdom and the fight for environmental and racial justice

59

Midweek Reset: On Resilience

60

Ryan Holiday: A Stoics guide to doing the right thing

61

Breaking beyond tribalism and apathy: The brighter side of politics

62

Midweek Reset: The Art of the Imperfect

63

Oliver Burkeman and the art of imperfectionism

64

Midweek Reset: On Friendship

65

The senses: A philosophical and sensual exploration of sound, taste, and touch

66

Midweek Reset: On Anxiety

67

Here’s what ‘Wild Rituals’ author Caitlin O’Connell learned from the elephants

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Midweek Reset: On Trees

69

What does boredom do for us… and to us?

70

Midweek Reset: Rebranding Hope

71

Autism “it’s not a disease, it’s a different way of being”

72

Leading a good life doesn’t always mean leading an easy one

73

Midweek Reset: Sexual Recession

74

Positivity and hope: How to navigate society away from cynicism

75

Midweek Reset: Gaslight

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Rediscovering sexual desire and eroticism with Esther Perel

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In search of happiness: The secrets and science behind leading a good life

78

Midweek Reset: Life: less itinerary - more flow

79

Can contemplating death inform a better life

80

Midweek Reset: On boredom and kids

81

‘What do we want in a partner?’ Relationships and how to foster deeper connections

82

Could your friend be your life partner? The history and shifting nature of friendship

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Midweek Reset: On Meditation

84

The art of conversation: Charles Duhigg on how to be a super communicator

85

Midweek Reset: Power practices

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Wild Sorrow: Poet Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer on losing her son and finding her way forward

87

Midweek Reset: On self curation

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Can birth control mess with the mind? Navigating pregnancy with mental disorders

89

Midweek Reset: Family trauma

90

Are you being gaslit? How to navigate and stop the gaslighting in your relationship

91

Robert Macfarlane on nature, language, and music

92

Midweek Reset: On Relationships

93

The art of travel: A vagabond’s joys, essence, and philosophy

94

Relationship skills: Couples counselor Terry Real on building a lasting partnership

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Empathy: The superpower of human connection

96

Midweek Reset: Perfectionism

97

It’s all in her head: Gender bias in healthcare and reproductive rights

98

Midweek Reset: On not giving advice

99

Bittersweet: Susan Cain on the joy of sweet sorrow

100

Midweek Reset: On Discipline

101

‘The Perfectionist’s Guide’: Learning to control our quest for the ideal

102

‘The Sympathizer’ author Viet Thanh Nguyen on new memoir ‘A Man of Two Faces’

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Midweek Reset: Cultivating Attention

104

Scott Galloway: Can the youth still make it in America?

105

Midweek Reset: Kieran Setiya on failure + process

106

Uprooted: Climate migration and scientist activism

107

KCRW’s “How’s Your Sex Life” discusses falling in love and falling apart with Jonathan Bastian

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Midweek Reset: Scott Galloway on Blessings

109

Border Crossings: Navigating identity, language, and belonging

110

Midweek Reset: Michael Pollan on psychedelics

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Michael Pollan’s long and strange trip: shifting perspectives on food and psychedelics

112

Midweek Reset: The lesson of Costa Rica

113

Laughter, leadership, and Improv: navigating the unscripted parts of your life

114

Midweek Reset: Mood follows action

115

Are you in a relationship with a narcissist?

116

Midweek Reset: Peaceful protest

117

Freud: What he said, why he matters

118

Midweek Reset: Authenticity trap

119

Mapping the darkness; the science behind sleep

120

Midweek Reset: When to Quit

121

Splintering: When a divorce and first child arrive together

122

Midweek Reset: The Retirement Myth

123

How to build community in an age of isolation

124

Midweek Reset: The wisdom of moss

125

‘Re-sparkling’: The science behind embracing variety and rejecting habituation

126

Midweek Reset: Are you addicted?

127

Inciting joy: Poet Ross Gay on gardening, grief, and basketball

128

Heartbreak and divorce: reflections on endings, healing, and self-discovery

129

Midweek Reset: The Art of Love

130

Addicted to distraction: How our world is robbing our ability to pay attention

131

Midweek Reset: Negativity bias

132

Facing death without God: Spiritual care in the final hours of a death row inmate

133

Midweek Reset: Why we hate

134

Why allergies and gut health are getting worse

135

Midweek Reset: Ikigai

136

God is a verb: The mystical, existential poetry of Christian Wiman

137

Midweek Reset: Radical Truth Telling

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Robert Sapolsky on life without free will

139

Midweek Reset: The Future Happiness Trap

140

The wonder of water — and why we love to swim

141

Midweek Reset: Savoring the ordinary

142

Can pain and suffering sweeten our lives?

143

Wintering and enchantment: A pathway to healing and happiness

144

Midweek Reset: Tech Sabbath

145

Owls: What they know and what humans believe

146

Antarctic expedition: A treatise on climate change and motherhood

147

Midweek Reset: Wintering

148

Distilling life on the page: The beauty of storytelling with Yiyun Li

149

Midweek Reset: Toxic positivity

150

Dopamine Nation: Living in an addicted world

151

The science of spirituality — and why it’s good for our mental health

152

Midweek Reset: The Power of Subtraction

153

Time management: A guide to more sanity and less anxiety

154

Midweek Reset: Why relational conflict is good

155

Living in reciprocity with nature, with Indigenous ecologist Robin Wall Kimmerer

156

Midweek Reset: Creativity has no age

157

The process of dying: From hospice care to meditating monks

158

Midweek Reset: Life: less itinerary - more flow

159

Conflict, resolution, and the human need to get along, with Peter Coleman

160

Midweek Reset: Better listening

161

The agents of change: How women are altering the power paradigm

162

Midweek Reset: Sharon Salzberg and emotional balance

163

A 1000 mile trek: Lessons in fortitude and healing from distance walker Raynor Winn

164

The art of quitting: Is there wisdom in walking away?

165

Big life decisions and uncertainty: a toolkit

166

Trauma, PTSD, and human resilience, with George Bonanno

167

The language of grief, with writers Ross Gay and Chloe Honum

168

The art and science of change, with author Brad Stulberg

169

A guide to self discipline and the science behind habits, good and bad

170

Attachment styles: How knowing ourselves can lead to better, more lasting relationships

171

‘What do we want in a partner?’ Relationships and how to foster deeper connections

172

On blindness: Andrew Leland explores how losing his sight has expanded his world view

173

ADHD in an era of distraction: Why are more adults getting diagnosed?

174

The Japanese art of happiness: From ikigai, to ritual, to embracing old age

175

The secret lives of cats, past and present

176

’Til death do us part’: Hard truths on marriage and divorce with Tracy McMillan

177

Biology’s new era: How mRNA and AI are impacting vaccines, medicine, and reproduction

178

Becoming a Buddhist: Two renowned teachers, two stories of transformation

179

Estrangement: Why are adult children cutting off their parents?

180

Why minimalism: A history, practice and industry

181

Effective altruism and our collective human heritage

182

A perfect childhood, an elite education, and the horror of schizophrenia

183

The science, language, and many dimensions of pain

184

MDMA, Ecstasy, Molly: Coming soon to a therapist near you

185

‘There is life after diagnosis’: Navigating the challenges of dementia care and support

186

The future of AI: Its impact on creativity, humanity, and well being

187

The long reach of grief: How one death on 9/11 reverberates today

188

Say the right thing: DEI and the pathway to positive and constructive dialogue

189

Spiritual language for the non-believer: Jennifer Michael Hecht’s search for wonder

190

Raising minors: Prioritizing our children’s future and well being

191

Nature’s gifts: The hidden life of trees and the joy of animals

192

Understanding success — and why talent and ability are not always key

193

Defining life and personhood: What science, philosophy, and religion have to say

194

Wintering and enchantment: A pathway to healing and happiness

195

The beauty of games and the dark side of gamification

196

Black poetry and the unearthing of forgotten histories

197

Author Brad Stulberg on peak performance strategies and overcoming OCD

198

The miracle and mystery of awe: Why it’s good for mind and body

199

In search of happiness: The secrets and science behind leading a good life

200

In search of paradise—and why travel writer Pico Iyer says it may be within

201

The art of travel: A vagabond’s joys, essence, and philosophy

202

Why humans are kinder than at you think: The philosophy of Rutger Bregman

203

Poet David Whyte; on writing the unspeakable

204

Playing the status game, and why we can’t hide from it

205

The science of friendship and the value of listening

206

‘It’s just part of my identity’: Narratives and misconceptions surrounding disability

207

What’s meditation really about? Specialist Sharon Salzberg explains.

208

Autism “it’s not a disease, it’s a different way of being”

209

Where does our individuality come from?

210

Inciting joy: Poet Ross Gay on gardening, grief, and basketball

211

Carl Safina: Wolves, whales and the wonders of nature

212

Dopamine Nation: Living in an addicted world

213

Nutrition and mental health: Exploring the surprising science of food and emotion

214

Kieran Setiya: A philosopher’s guide to life’s hardships

215

Alain de Botton on the complexity of modern love

216

Effective altruism and our collective human heritage

217

How to find a therapist — and why it can be so hard

218

Big life decisions and uncertainty: a toolkit

219

How culture creates emotions — and how technology decodes them

220

The search for our psyches: A new path forward in treating mental disorders

221

How animal senses reveal the hidden world around us

222

Global loneliness and the wonders of human touch

223

The philosophy of middle age: From projects to process

224

Predicting the future: The true story of the Premonitions Bureau

225

Behind the front lines of drug legalization and harm reduction

226

Robert Macfarlane on nature, language, and music

227

The weaponization of shame

228

Is gender innate?

229

Dogs: The science behind their success

230

Understanding anxiety —and its surprising upside

231

Rabbi Steve Leder: Uvalde shooting, navigating grief, and ‘ethical wills’

232

Schizophrenia: A new day in diagnosis and treatment

233

Bittersweet: Susan Cain on the joy of sweet sorrow

234

The science behind heartbreak: How to move on, and is there a cure?

235

Interrupted and distracted: Johann Hari wants you to regain your attention

236

Psychedelic spirituality: Ketamine and the future of mental health

237

Accidental gods and our desire to deify

238

Silent suffering: Living with long COVID and mystery illnesses

239

Less is more: The science and skills behind saying ‘no’

240

Looking for happiness in all the wrong places

241

Xenophobia and why people love to hate

242

Why do we war?

243

Bringing Buddhism to the therapist’s couch

244

Why minimalism: A history, practice and industry

245

Alain de Botton and the complexity of modern day love

246

Jack Kornfield and Katy Butler remember Thich Nhat Hanh

247

Addiction: disease or choice?

248

Outside in: Voyages beneath the skin

249

Prospects for optimism, with Pico Iyer and Vrajaprana

250

COVID: A booster shot for medicine and science

251

Awestruck: Why a daily dose of wonder might benefit your mental and physical health

252

The simple wisdom of doing nothing

253

The most impactful ways to give back this holiday season

254

Can pain and suffering sweeten our lives?

255

Language, style, and Machiavelli for women

256

Why humans love, use, and abuse animals

257

Natural healing: Plant-based medicines and supplement skepticism

258

Poet David Whyte; on writing the unspeakable

259

Workplace burnout and the Great Resignation

260

Racism and the Great White Outdoors

261

How extreme distance running can heal the mind

262

Vaccination status: How to have hard conversations with loved ones

263

The role of reason in a ‘post-truth’ world

264

Why good listening matters — and how to get better at it

265

The science and benefits of deep sleep and vivid dreams

266

‘Who needs God when we’ve got Google?’: Blurring the lines between technology and faith

267

Human intelligence: Behind the brains of babies, children, and the elderly

268

Searching for Utopia, Part 2: Utopian societies, sects, and cults in America

269

Searching for Utopia, Part 1: The freedoms and failures of of an intentional community in India

270

‘Taken against our will’: the damaging legacy of ‘tough love’ boot camps

271

From club drug to love potion, how MDMA might help build a successful relationship

272

Why getting old may be a thing of the past

273

The mental and physical benefits of healthy breathing

274

Why is everyone reading the stoics?

275

Renowned psychologist Tara Brach on the power of Buddhism in modern therapy

276

The art and historical legacy of Juneteenth

277

The human history and relationship to music

278

The science of friendship and its lessons for post-pandemic life

279

What trees teach us about community and collaboration

280

Does having children really make us happier?

281

MDMA, Ecstasy, Molly: Coming soon to a therapist near you

282

What prison writing teaches us about US justice system and each other

283

Preparing for the apocalypse

284

What does it mean to be authentic?

285

The failings and malleability of memory

286

In a year of grief and stress, one writer discovers that her pen is her most valuable tool

287

Food: The history, addiction, and ritual

288

Moments of Serenity: Calm in Chaos

289

Moments of Serenity: Gratitude

290

Moments of Serenity: Pets

291

Moments of Serenity: Stretch

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Moments of Serenity: Ocean

293

Moments of Serenity: Music

294

Moments of Serenity: Sleep

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Moments of Serenity: Tea

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Moments of Serenity: Do Nothing

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How to stop worrying and learn to break the anxiety loop

298

Death with Dignity legislation offers compassion and control

299

The role of land and landownership in shaping our history

300

How the work world will change post the pandemic?

301

The history of marriage and other forms of intimate relationships

302

What octopus and shrimp can tell us about workings of the animal mind

303

How the Church views a woman’s place in society

304

Making sense of an unpeaceful transition of power

305

Finding meaning in an impermanent world

306

‘Death reveals the depths of our love.’ Rabbi Steve Leder on dying and grieving

307

Indoor spaces; are they good for our health and creativity

308

Vaccines and the history behind their discovery

309

What’s driving the rise in atheism?

310

‘Manhood has never been more beleaguered or more challenged’ says author Nicole Krauss

311

The myth and dark side of meritocracy

312

What makes men, men?

313

Building bridges across America’s political divide

314

The rich history and promising future of psychedelic therapy

315

Politics, religion and the role of public discourse in our democracy.

316

Astrology and our relationship to the cosmos

317

Why the climate emergency is rapidly shifting emotional and physical landscape

318

A place for religion whether we believe or not

319

Unlocking the mysteries of the brain

320

Technology’s impact on human relationships

321

How surfer Britt Merrick found his ‘spiritual home’ among the waves

322

Is there a way to prepare for a good death?

323

Theology and Black Lives Matter

324

A pilgrim’s journey: Reconnecting with faith through the pilgrimage

325

Finding strength, hope, and truth through poetry

326

How the global pandemic has impacted our dreams?

327

How the global pandemic has impacted our dreams?

328

Grieving the loss of the world we once knew

329

Finding meaning in an impermanent world

330

Trauma and healing during COVID-19

331

Contemplation in isolation