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All Episodes

Single (not spiraling) — 115 episodes

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1

Now That You've Decentered Men, Whimsy The F*ck Out Of Your Life | EP. 112

2

Dating a Woman Who Has Decentered Men: A Man's Perspective | EP. 111

3

Does Your Life Actually Suck Or Are You Just On Social Media Too Much | EP. 110

4

Is It Rational to Be Afraid of Men? Fear, Dating, and Discernment |EP. 109

5

Why Women Who Hold Space For Everyone Burn Out The Hardest | EP. 108

6

I Have Some Feelings And You're Going To Hear Them (Sorry Not Sorry) |EP 107

7

Why The F*ck Does It Feel So Abnormal To Decenter Men (& What To Do About It) | EP. 106

8

Decentering Romance Step By Step: How To Date Without Losing Yourself | EP. 105

9

The First Step to Decentering Men? Decentering Romance| EP. 104

10

What Would a Matriarchal World Look Like? How Women Are Reimagining Power, Care, and Community Beyond Patriarchy| EP. 103

11

Stuck Between Wanting Love and Loving Being Single in Your 30s | EP. 102

12

Self-Trust, Standards, and Not Settling for Mediocre Love | EP.101

13

Internal vs External Validation: Why You Don’t Trust Yourself Yet | EP. 100

14

Healing Isn’t the End Goal. Living Is | EP. 99

15

What Do You No Longer Tolerate That You Once Normalized? Dating, Boundaries & Self-Trust. | EP. 98

16

Can You Date and Decenter Men at the Same Time? Here’s What It Actually Looks Like | Ep. 97

17

Am I Single Because My Standards Are Too High? | EP.96

18

Choosing an Intentional Life in 2026 as a Single Woman (with out burning out) | EP. 95

19

If You’re a Single Woman, Let Me De-Influence You About the New Year & January Pressure | EP.94

20

Feeling Invisible During the Holidays as a Single Woman: When Traditions Change & Heartache Hits | EP. 94

21

A Lover Girl’s Guide to Surviving the Holidays as a Single Woman | EP. 93

22

Decentering Men, Healing Yourself, and Building a Life That’s Actually Yours | EP. 92

23

Did I Heal Too Much? What Happens When You Outgrow Dysfunction | EP. 91

24

Grief, Single Girl Edition |EP. 90

25

10 Things Every Single Woman Needs (And It’s Not a Relationship) | EP. 89

26

Single Girl Finances: Unpacking the Shame Around Debt (Without Hating Yourself) | EP. 88

27

Would You Date You? Pt.3 Define Your Non Negotiables Or Keep Settling |EP. 87

28

Would You Date You? Pt. 2: Stop Starving Your Needs to Seem Desirable | EP. 86

29

Would You Date You? Pt 1: Are You Becoming The Partner You Crave EP| 85

30

What If Nothing’s Wrong With You? But You Still Need to Change Some Sh*t! (Welcome to Single Not Spiraling)| Ep. 84

31

The End of Pleasure Pathways (And the Beginning of Something New) EP.83

32

The History of Pleasure: How We Lost It—and What It Takes to Get It Back | EP. 82

33

The Body Comments That Stick With Us—and How to Shake Them Off | EP. 81

34

If IUD Pain Is “So Common,” Why Don’t Doctors Take It Seriously? | EP. 80

35

Is It Bad to Feel Good Right Now? | EP. 79

36

Still Single After Doing ‘The Work’? You’re Not Alone | EP. 78

37

Fairy Smut and Why We’re Hooked | EP. 77

38

No Children By Choice Episode | EP. 76

39

The Vacation Episode | EP. 75

40

The Truth About TMI: Why Women Feel Gross for Being Human | EP. 74

41

Secrets Are a Form of Control. So Why Are We Still Protecting Everyone But Ourselves? | EP.73

42

Self-Worship vs. Self-Care: One Will Change You, One Will Exhaust You |EP. 72

43

How to Know If You’re Healing… or Just Avoiding | EP. 71

44

Not your typical episode because Lauren is burnt the f out! |EP. 70

45

Why Men Need Marriage More Than Women Do | EP. 69

46

Comparison Is a Thief—Here’s How to Take Your Power Back | EP. 68

47

How Creativity, Pleasure, and Play Heal Your Relationship with Yourself | EP. 67

48

Staying Grounded When Life Won’t Slow Down (Especially When You’re Single and Doing It All) | EP. 66

49

How to Romanticize Your Life Through Your 5 Senses (No Partner Required) | EP. 65

50

Permission to Bloom: How to Let Spring Move You Instead of Forcing Change | EP. 64

51

How to Create a Sex Bucket List with Jenay Lambert: Exploring Desire, Dating & Solo Pleasure | EP. 63

52

What It Really Means to Commit to Yourself (It’s Not What You Think) | EP.62

53

Exploring Open Relationships: Expert Advice from Jennifer | EP. 61

54

The Best Relationship of Your Life Might Be Your Best Friends | EP.60

55

How Your Attachment Style Shapes Love, Sex & Dating W/ Samantha Deribin | EP. 59

56

What If You Never Find ‘The One’? A 28-Day Journey to Self-Love | EP. 58

57

How Choosing Pleasure Over Burnout Helps You Rewrite the Rules and Take Up Space | EP.57

58

Embracing Your Vulva: The Power of Self-Love and Acceptance with Catherine Drysdale | EP.56

59

Having Your Own Back in a World That Won’t: How to Build Self-Trust| EP.55

60

WTF Is Snail Trailing and How It Transforms Your Relationships | EP.54

61

Confidence In and Out of the Bedroom: Lessons from Erika Eileen | EP. 53

62

The Top Pleasure Predictions for 2025 You Need to Know | EP. 52

63

Navigating Shame in the Bedroom and Relationships W/ Sex Therapist Monique Gomez | EP. 51

64

Wild Woman Wisdom: A Guide to Feminine and Masculine Energy in Relationships W/ Amy | EP. 50

65

How to Schedule Sex Without Killing the Spark | EP. 49

66

Keep The Spark Alive: How To Thrive In long Term Relationships W/ Shay | EP. 48

67

How to Choose Relationship Advice That’s Right for You | EP. 47

68

The Honest Truth About Sex After Kids: Finding Your Sensuality Again W/ Kristina | EP.46

69

The Hidden Emotional Labor Women Do in Relationships And How It Imapact's Your Relationship | EP. 45

70

The Hidden Impact of Patriarchy on Love and Relationships W/ Frankie |EP.44

71

Not Everything is a Red Flag: Unpacking Misunderstandings in Modern Dating | EP. 43

72

Mindfulness in the Bedroom: How to Elevate Pleasure and Connection W/ Dr. Jennifer Gunsaullus | EP 42

73

How to Stay Hopeful in Dating: Why Your Dream Partner is Still Out There | EP.41

74

Dating The Wild CONTINUED!! |EP.40

75

Dating in the Wild: How to Master In-Person Connections W/ Date Columbus’s Mercedes| EP. 40

76

Craving Connection: Battling Intimacy Starvation in Modern Dating | EP.39

77

Why We Take Things Personally and How to Heal Those Deep Wounds | EP 38

78

Intimacy In The Strip Club W/ Cynthia Cee| EP. 37

79

Shedding Shame & Hitting The Restart Button On My Life | EP. 36

80

Rituals for Romantic Abundance W/ Kiki | EP. 35

81

F***ing & Frolicing W/ Jordan D'Nelle| EP. 34

82

What Does "Doing The Work" Even Mean? | EP.33

83

Talking Money Will Make Or Break Your Relationship W/ Lindsey | EP.32

84

Turn Your Self On W/ Bella | EP.31

85

The Benefits of Reading Erotica W/ The Spicy Minstrel | EP. 30

86

Reclaim Your Sex Life From Religion W/ Sister Shannon| EP. 29

87

A Man's Perspective on Intimacy & Emotional Intelligence W/ Courtney Brame | EP. 28

88

Master Your Nervous System For Deeper Connections | EP.27

89

Magnetic Communication: Transform Your Dating Life and Relationships! | EP.26

90

Avoid Dating Burnout: My Go-To List | EP.25

91

How Your Brain Impacts Your Dating Choices | EP.24

92

Unresolved Trauma: How It Impacts Your Relationships | EP.23

93

I Don't Need No Man | EP.22

94

Vulnerable and intimate | EP.21

95

Expectations that break your heart | EP.20

96

Next Level You/Life Update | EP.19

97

How to Tell Your Partner About Your Kinks | EP.18

98

The Disturbing Truth About Abstinence-Only Sex Ed | EP.17

99

Why Sparks Might Be the New Red Flag in Dating | EP.16

100

Women-Only Intimacy and Empowerment Tips | EP.15

101

What's Your FAN-TA-TA-SY | EP.14

102

From Tatted Daddy to Douche Daddy: What to Watch For | EP.13

103

The Secrets of Intimacy You’ve Never Heard | EP.12

104

The Power of Seeking Help: Transforming Your Relationships | EP.11

105

Empowered Women Take Responsiblity For Their Pleasure | EP.10

106

Escaping Codependency: A Bonus Guide | EP.09

107

Breaking Free from Codependency in Relationships | EP.08

108

You Don't Know What You Don't Know | EP.07

109

10X Your Libido: Secrets to More Passion | EP.06

110

Sex Positivity Essentials: What You Need to Know | EP.05

111

Out of F's To Give | EP.04

112

Unlock Your Brain’s Power for Better Intimacy | EP.03

113

Why Your Sex Life Isn't Working (And How to Fix It) | EP.02

114

The Untold Story of Lauren: Intimacy Coach Revealed | EP.01

115

Pleasure Pathways | EP.00