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All Episodes

Single (not spiraling) — 128 episodes

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1

Staying Off the Apps When You Want Attention | EP. 125

2

How to Get Out of Your Single Girl Slump Era | EP. 124

3

How to Make Friends as an Adult While You're Single and Decentering Men | EP. 123

4

The Sunk Cost Fallacy: Why You Stay Long After You Know | EP.122

5

The Fear of Aging Is a Lie. Here's What Getting Older Actually Gives You | EP.121

6

The Relationship You're Already In (Whether You Notice It or Not) | EP. 120

7

Information Overload and the Single Woman: When Self-Help Stops Helping | EP. 119

8

Putting Yourself First: Codependency, Conditioning, and Learning to Make Yourself the Priority | EP.118

9

Why You Keep Spiraling Over Men And How the Empowerment Dynamic Finally Stops It | EP. 117

10

Why a Secure Man Won't Be Threatened By You Being a Man Hater | EP: 116

11

Your Relationship Just Ended. Here's Exactly What to Do. | EP. 115

12

Single in Your 30s and 40s: What It Really Takes to Stop Spiraling and Come Home to Yourself | EP: 114

13

Decentering Men Q&A: Your Biggest Questions, Answered | EP. 113

14

Now That You've Decentered Men, Whimsy The F*ck Out Of Your Life | EP. 112

15

Dating a Woman Who Has Decentered Men: A Man's Perspective | EP. 111

16

Does Your Life Actually Suck Or Are You Just On Social Media Too Much | EP. 110

17

Is It Rational to Be Afraid of Men? Fear, Dating, and Discernment |EP. 109

18

Why Women Who Hold Space For Everyone Burn Out The Hardest | EP. 108

19

I Have Some Feelings And You're Going To Hear Them (Sorry Not Sorry) |EP 107

20

Why The F*ck Does It Feel So Abnormal To Decenter Men (& What To Do About It) | EP. 106

21

Decentering Romance Step By Step: How To Date Without Losing Yourself | EP. 105

22

The First Step to Decentering Men? Decentering Romance| EP. 104

23

What Would a Matriarchal World Look Like? How Women Are Reimagining Power, Care, and Community Beyond Patriarchy| EP. 103

24

Stuck Between Wanting Love and Loving Being Single in Your 30s | EP. 102

25

Self-Trust, Standards, and Not Settling for Mediocre Love | EP.101

26

Internal vs External Validation: Why You Don’t Trust Yourself Yet | EP. 100

27

Healing Isn’t the End Goal. Living Is | EP. 99

28

What Do You No Longer Tolerate That You Once Normalized? Dating, Boundaries & Self-Trust. | EP. 98

29

Can You Date and Decenter Men at the Same Time? Here’s What It Actually Looks Like | Ep. 97

30

Am I Single Because My Standards Are Too High? | EP.96

31

Choosing an Intentional Life in 2026 as a Single Woman (with out burning out) | EP. 95

32

If You’re a Single Woman, Let Me De-Influence You About the New Year & January Pressure | EP.94

33

Feeling Invisible During the Holidays as a Single Woman: When Traditions Change & Heartache Hits | EP. 94

34

A Lover Girl’s Guide to Surviving the Holidays as a Single Woman | EP. 93

35

Decentering Men, Healing Yourself, and Building a Life That’s Actually Yours | EP. 92

36

Did I Heal Too Much? What Happens When You Outgrow Dysfunction | EP. 91

37

Grief, Single Girl Edition |EP. 90

38

10 Things Every Single Woman Needs (And It’s Not a Relationship) | EP. 89

39

Single Girl Finances: Unpacking the Shame Around Debt (Without Hating Yourself) | EP. 88

40

Would You Date You? Pt.3 Define Your Non Negotiables Or Keep Settling |EP. 87

41

Would You Date You? Pt. 2: Stop Starving Your Needs to Seem Desirable | EP. 86

42

Would You Date You? Pt 1: Are You Becoming The Partner You Crave EP| 85

43

What If Nothing’s Wrong With You? But You Still Need to Change Some Sh*t! (Welcome to Single Not Spiraling)| Ep. 84

44

The End of Pleasure Pathways (And the Beginning of Something New) EP.83

45

The History of Pleasure: How We Lost It—and What It Takes to Get It Back | EP. 82

46

The Body Comments That Stick With Us—and How to Shake Them Off | EP. 81

47

If IUD Pain Is “So Common,” Why Don’t Doctors Take It Seriously? | EP. 80

48

Is It Bad to Feel Good Right Now? | EP. 79

49

Still Single After Doing ‘The Work’? You’re Not Alone | EP. 78

50

Fairy Smut and Why We’re Hooked | EP. 77

51

No Children By Choice Episode | EP. 76

52

The Vacation Episode | EP. 75

53

The Truth About TMI: Why Women Feel Gross for Being Human | EP. 74

54

Secrets Are a Form of Control. So Why Are We Still Protecting Everyone But Ourselves? | EP.73

55

Self-Worship vs. Self-Care: One Will Change You, One Will Exhaust You |EP. 72

56

How to Know If You’re Healing… or Just Avoiding | EP. 71

57

Not your typical episode because Lauren is burnt the f out! |EP. 70

58

Why Men Need Marriage More Than Women Do | EP. 69

59

Comparison Is a Thief—Here’s How to Take Your Power Back | EP. 68

60

How Creativity, Pleasure, and Play Heal Your Relationship with Yourself | EP. 67

61

Staying Grounded When Life Won’t Slow Down (Especially When You’re Single and Doing It All) | EP. 66

62

How to Romanticize Your Life Through Your 5 Senses (No Partner Required) | EP. 65

63

Permission to Bloom: How to Let Spring Move You Instead of Forcing Change | EP. 64

64

How to Create a Sex Bucket List with Jenay Lambert: Exploring Desire, Dating & Solo Pleasure | EP. 63

65

What It Really Means to Commit to Yourself (It’s Not What You Think) | EP.62

66

Exploring Open Relationships: Expert Advice from Jennifer | EP. 61

67

The Best Relationship of Your Life Might Be Your Best Friends | EP.60

68

How Your Attachment Style Shapes Love, Sex & Dating W/ Samantha Deribin | EP. 59

69

What If You Never Find ‘The One’? A 28-Day Journey to Self-Love | EP. 58

70

How Choosing Pleasure Over Burnout Helps You Rewrite the Rules and Take Up Space | EP.57

71

Embracing Your Vulva: The Power of Self-Love and Acceptance with Catherine Drysdale | EP.56

72

Having Your Own Back in a World That Won’t: How to Build Self-Trust| EP.55

73

WTF Is Snail Trailing and How It Transforms Your Relationships | EP.54

74

Confidence In and Out of the Bedroom: Lessons from Erika Eileen | EP. 53

75

The Top Pleasure Predictions for 2025 You Need to Know | EP. 52

76

Navigating Shame in the Bedroom and Relationships W/ Sex Therapist Monique Gomez | EP. 51

77

Wild Woman Wisdom: A Guide to Feminine and Masculine Energy in Relationships W/ Amy | EP. 50

78

How to Schedule Sex Without Killing the Spark | EP. 49

79

Keep The Spark Alive: How To Thrive In long Term Relationships W/ Shay | EP. 48

80

How to Choose Relationship Advice That’s Right for You | EP. 47

81

The Honest Truth About Sex After Kids: Finding Your Sensuality Again W/ Kristina | EP.46

82

The Hidden Emotional Labor Women Do in Relationships And How It Imapact's Your Relationship | EP. 45

83

The Hidden Impact of Patriarchy on Love and Relationships W/ Frankie |EP.44

84

Not Everything is a Red Flag: Unpacking Misunderstandings in Modern Dating | EP. 43

85

Mindfulness in the Bedroom: How to Elevate Pleasure and Connection W/ Dr. Jennifer Gunsaullus | EP 42

86

How to Stay Hopeful in Dating: Why Your Dream Partner is Still Out There | EP.41

87

Dating The Wild CONTINUED!! |EP.40

88

Dating in the Wild: How to Master In-Person Connections W/ Date Columbus’s Mercedes| EP. 40

89

Craving Connection: Battling Intimacy Starvation in Modern Dating | EP.39

90

Why We Take Things Personally and How to Heal Those Deep Wounds | EP 38

91

Intimacy In The Strip Club W/ Cynthia Cee| EP. 37

92

Shedding Shame & Hitting The Restart Button On My Life | EP. 36

93

Rituals for Romantic Abundance W/ Kiki | EP. 35

94

F***ing & Frolicing W/ Jordan D'Nelle| EP. 34

95

What Does "Doing The Work" Even Mean? | EP.33

96

Talking Money Will Make Or Break Your Relationship W/ Lindsey | EP.32

97

Turn Your Self On W/ Bella | EP.31

98

The Benefits of Reading Erotica W/ The Spicy Minstrel | EP. 30

99

Reclaim Your Sex Life From Religion W/ Sister Shannon| EP. 29

100

A Man's Perspective on Intimacy & Emotional Intelligence W/ Courtney Brame | EP. 28

101

Master Your Nervous System For Deeper Connections | EP.27

102

Magnetic Communication: Transform Your Dating Life and Relationships! | EP.26

103

Avoid Dating Burnout: My Go-To List | EP.25

104

How Your Brain Impacts Your Dating Choices | EP.24

105

Unresolved Trauma: How It Impacts Your Relationships | EP.23

106

I Don't Need No Man | EP.22

107

Vulnerable and intimate | EP.21

108

Expectations that break your heart | EP.20

109

Next Level You/Life Update | EP.19

110

How to Tell Your Partner About Your Kinks | EP.18

111

The Disturbing Truth About Abstinence-Only Sex Ed | EP.17

112

Why Sparks Might Be the New Red Flag in Dating | EP.16

113

Women-Only Intimacy and Empowerment Tips | EP.15

114

What's Your FAN-TA-TA-SY | EP.14

115

From Tatted Daddy to Douche Daddy: What to Watch For | EP.13

116

The Secrets of Intimacy You’ve Never Heard | EP.12

117

The Power of Seeking Help: Transforming Your Relationships | EP.11

118

Empowered Women Take Responsiblity For Their Pleasure | EP.10

119

Escaping Codependency: A Bonus Guide | EP.09

120

Breaking Free from Codependency in Relationships | EP.08

121

You Don't Know What You Don't Know | EP.07

122

10X Your Libido: Secrets to More Passion | EP.06

123

Sex Positivity Essentials: What You Need to Know | EP.05

124

Out of F's To Give | EP.04

125

Unlock Your Brain’s Power for Better Intimacy | EP.03

126

Why Your Sex Life Isn't Working (And How to Fix It) | EP.02

127

The Untold Story of Lauren: Intimacy Coach Revealed | EP.01

128

Pleasure Pathways | EP.00