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Single (not spiraling) — 123 episodes

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1

The Relationship You're Already In (Whether You Notice It or Not) | EP. 120

2

Information Overload and the Single Woman: When Self-Help Stops Helping | EP. 119

3

Putting Yourself First: Codependency, Conditioning, and Learning to Make Yourself the Priority | EP.118

4

Why You Keep Spiraling Over Men And How the Empowerment Dynamic Finally Stops It | EP. 117

5

Why a Secure Man Won't Be Threatened By You Being a Man Hater | EP: 116

6

Your Relationship Just Ended. Here's Exactly What to Do. | EP. 115

7

Single in Your 30s and 40s: What It Really Takes to Stop Spiraling and Come Home to Yourself | EP: 114

8

Decentering Men Q&A: Your Biggest Questions, Answered | EP. 113

9

Now That You've Decentered Men, Whimsy The F*ck Out Of Your Life | EP. 112

10

Dating a Woman Who Has Decentered Men: A Man's Perspective | EP. 111

11

Does Your Life Actually Suck Or Are You Just On Social Media Too Much | EP. 110

12

Is It Rational to Be Afraid of Men? Fear, Dating, and Discernment |EP. 109

13

Why Women Who Hold Space For Everyone Burn Out The Hardest | EP. 108

14

I Have Some Feelings And You're Going To Hear Them (Sorry Not Sorry) |EP 107

15

Why The F*ck Does It Feel So Abnormal To Decenter Men (& What To Do About It) | EP. 106

16

Decentering Romance Step By Step: How To Date Without Losing Yourself | EP. 105

17

The First Step to Decentering Men? Decentering Romance| EP. 104

18

What Would a Matriarchal World Look Like? How Women Are Reimagining Power, Care, and Community Beyond Patriarchy| EP. 103

19

Stuck Between Wanting Love and Loving Being Single in Your 30s | EP. 102

20

Self-Trust, Standards, and Not Settling for Mediocre Love | EP.101

21

Internal vs External Validation: Why You Don’t Trust Yourself Yet | EP. 100

22

Healing Isn’t the End Goal. Living Is | EP. 99

23

What Do You No Longer Tolerate That You Once Normalized? Dating, Boundaries & Self-Trust. | EP. 98

24

Can You Date and Decenter Men at the Same Time? Here’s What It Actually Looks Like | Ep. 97

25

Am I Single Because My Standards Are Too High? | EP.96

26

Choosing an Intentional Life in 2026 as a Single Woman (with out burning out) | EP. 95

27

If You’re a Single Woman, Let Me De-Influence You About the New Year & January Pressure | EP.94

28

Feeling Invisible During the Holidays as a Single Woman: When Traditions Change & Heartache Hits | EP. 94

29

A Lover Girl’s Guide to Surviving the Holidays as a Single Woman | EP. 93

30

Decentering Men, Healing Yourself, and Building a Life That’s Actually Yours | EP. 92

31

Did I Heal Too Much? What Happens When You Outgrow Dysfunction | EP. 91

32

Grief, Single Girl Edition |EP. 90

33

10 Things Every Single Woman Needs (And It’s Not a Relationship) | EP. 89

34

Single Girl Finances: Unpacking the Shame Around Debt (Without Hating Yourself) | EP. 88

35

Would You Date You? Pt.3 Define Your Non Negotiables Or Keep Settling |EP. 87

36

Would You Date You? Pt. 2: Stop Starving Your Needs to Seem Desirable | EP. 86

37

Would You Date You? Pt 1: Are You Becoming The Partner You Crave EP| 85

38

What If Nothing’s Wrong With You? But You Still Need to Change Some Sh*t! (Welcome to Single Not Spiraling)| Ep. 84

39

The End of Pleasure Pathways (And the Beginning of Something New) EP.83

40

The History of Pleasure: How We Lost It—and What It Takes to Get It Back | EP. 82

41

The Body Comments That Stick With Us—and How to Shake Them Off | EP. 81

42

If IUD Pain Is “So Common,” Why Don’t Doctors Take It Seriously? | EP. 80

43

Is It Bad to Feel Good Right Now? | EP. 79

44

Still Single After Doing ‘The Work’? You’re Not Alone | EP. 78

45

Fairy Smut and Why We’re Hooked | EP. 77

46

No Children By Choice Episode | EP. 76

47

The Vacation Episode | EP. 75

48

The Truth About TMI: Why Women Feel Gross for Being Human | EP. 74

49

Secrets Are a Form of Control. So Why Are We Still Protecting Everyone But Ourselves? | EP.73

50

Self-Worship vs. Self-Care: One Will Change You, One Will Exhaust You |EP. 72

51

How to Know If You’re Healing… or Just Avoiding | EP. 71

52

Not your typical episode because Lauren is burnt the f out! |EP. 70

53

Why Men Need Marriage More Than Women Do | EP. 69

54

Comparison Is a Thief—Here’s How to Take Your Power Back | EP. 68

55

How Creativity, Pleasure, and Play Heal Your Relationship with Yourself | EP. 67

56

Staying Grounded When Life Won’t Slow Down (Especially When You’re Single and Doing It All) | EP. 66

57

How to Romanticize Your Life Through Your 5 Senses (No Partner Required) | EP. 65

58

Permission to Bloom: How to Let Spring Move You Instead of Forcing Change | EP. 64

59

How to Create a Sex Bucket List with Jenay Lambert: Exploring Desire, Dating & Solo Pleasure | EP. 63

60

What It Really Means to Commit to Yourself (It’s Not What You Think) | EP.62

61

Exploring Open Relationships: Expert Advice from Jennifer | EP. 61

62

The Best Relationship of Your Life Might Be Your Best Friends | EP.60

63

How Your Attachment Style Shapes Love, Sex & Dating W/ Samantha Deribin | EP. 59

64

What If You Never Find ‘The One’? A 28-Day Journey to Self-Love | EP. 58

65

How Choosing Pleasure Over Burnout Helps You Rewrite the Rules and Take Up Space | EP.57

66

Embracing Your Vulva: The Power of Self-Love and Acceptance with Catherine Drysdale | EP.56

67

Having Your Own Back in a World That Won’t: How to Build Self-Trust| EP.55

68

WTF Is Snail Trailing and How It Transforms Your Relationships | EP.54

69

Confidence In and Out of the Bedroom: Lessons from Erika Eileen | EP. 53

70

The Top Pleasure Predictions for 2025 You Need to Know | EP. 52

71

Navigating Shame in the Bedroom and Relationships W/ Sex Therapist Monique Gomez | EP. 51

72

Wild Woman Wisdom: A Guide to Feminine and Masculine Energy in Relationships W/ Amy | EP. 50

73

How to Schedule Sex Without Killing the Spark | EP. 49

74

Keep The Spark Alive: How To Thrive In long Term Relationships W/ Shay | EP. 48

75

How to Choose Relationship Advice That’s Right for You | EP. 47

76

The Honest Truth About Sex After Kids: Finding Your Sensuality Again W/ Kristina | EP.46

77

The Hidden Emotional Labor Women Do in Relationships And How It Imapact's Your Relationship | EP. 45

78

The Hidden Impact of Patriarchy on Love and Relationships W/ Frankie |EP.44

79

Not Everything is a Red Flag: Unpacking Misunderstandings in Modern Dating | EP. 43

80

Mindfulness in the Bedroom: How to Elevate Pleasure and Connection W/ Dr. Jennifer Gunsaullus | EP 42

81

How to Stay Hopeful in Dating: Why Your Dream Partner is Still Out There | EP.41

82

Dating The Wild CONTINUED!! |EP.40

83

Dating in the Wild: How to Master In-Person Connections W/ Date Columbus’s Mercedes| EP. 40

84

Craving Connection: Battling Intimacy Starvation in Modern Dating | EP.39

85

Why We Take Things Personally and How to Heal Those Deep Wounds | EP 38

86

Intimacy In The Strip Club W/ Cynthia Cee| EP. 37

87

Shedding Shame & Hitting The Restart Button On My Life | EP. 36

88

Rituals for Romantic Abundance W/ Kiki | EP. 35

89

F***ing & Frolicing W/ Jordan D'Nelle| EP. 34

90

What Does "Doing The Work" Even Mean? | EP.33

91

Talking Money Will Make Or Break Your Relationship W/ Lindsey | EP.32

92

Turn Your Self On W/ Bella | EP.31

93

The Benefits of Reading Erotica W/ The Spicy Minstrel | EP. 30

94

Reclaim Your Sex Life From Religion W/ Sister Shannon| EP. 29

95

A Man's Perspective on Intimacy & Emotional Intelligence W/ Courtney Brame | EP. 28

96

Master Your Nervous System For Deeper Connections | EP.27

97

Magnetic Communication: Transform Your Dating Life and Relationships! | EP.26

98

Avoid Dating Burnout: My Go-To List | EP.25

99

How Your Brain Impacts Your Dating Choices | EP.24

100

Unresolved Trauma: How It Impacts Your Relationships | EP.23

101

I Don't Need No Man | EP.22

102

Vulnerable and intimate | EP.21

103

Expectations that break your heart | EP.20

104

Next Level You/Life Update | EP.19

105

How to Tell Your Partner About Your Kinks | EP.18

106

The Disturbing Truth About Abstinence-Only Sex Ed | EP.17

107

Why Sparks Might Be the New Red Flag in Dating | EP.16

108

Women-Only Intimacy and Empowerment Tips | EP.15

109

What's Your FAN-TA-TA-SY | EP.14

110

From Tatted Daddy to Douche Daddy: What to Watch For | EP.13

111

The Secrets of Intimacy You’ve Never Heard | EP.12

112

The Power of Seeking Help: Transforming Your Relationships | EP.11

113

Empowered Women Take Responsiblity For Their Pleasure | EP.10

114

Escaping Codependency: A Bonus Guide | EP.09

115

Breaking Free from Codependency in Relationships | EP.08

116

You Don't Know What You Don't Know | EP.07

117

10X Your Libido: Secrets to More Passion | EP.06

118

Sex Positivity Essentials: What You Need to Know | EP.05

119

Out of F's To Give | EP.04

120

Unlock Your Brain’s Power for Better Intimacy | EP.03

121

Why Your Sex Life Isn't Working (And How to Fix It) | EP.02

122

The Untold Story of Lauren: Intimacy Coach Revealed | EP.01

123

Pleasure Pathways | EP.00