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That Hoarder: Overcome Compulsive Hoarding — 232 episodes

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I'm ok

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REMIX: Why we over-shop and compulsively acquire, and how to stop, with Dr Jan Eppingstall

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REMIX: OCD and hoarding disorder with Jenna Overbaugh

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REMIX: Therapy and hoarding disorder - what are the options? With Dr Jan Eppingstall

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REMIX: ADHD and hoarding disorder with Professor Sharon Morein

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#207 13 actionable pieces of mental health advice from six former podcast guests

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#206 Finding connection and community when hoarding feels isolating

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#205 How to recover without burning out: using pacing to find your dehoarding rhythm

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#204 Am I my things? When possessions define us: the psychological connection between identity, self-concept and hoarding with Dr Jan Eppingstall

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#203 How to declutter when you can't reach your shelves

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#202 "Acting as if" for hoarding disorder

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REMIX: Hoarding disorder, Diogenes syndrome or squalor? With Dr Jan Eppingstall

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#201 The myth of being prepared for every eventuality: how hoarding can make us less ready for emergencies

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REMIX: Overcome overspending and compulsive shopping with Paige Pritchard

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#200 Things I wish I'd known: a letter to Episode One Me

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#199 Layers on layers: the many layers of hoarding disorder, from stuff to shame to identity

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#198 Intentionality and hoarding: how to move from reactive to purposeful decision making and action

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#197 Holding our nerve: navigating urges and building tenacity in breaking hoarding behaviours

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#196 Trusting our future selves to be resourceful with Dr Jan Eppingstall

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REMIX: Executive dysfunction and hoarding disorder with Dr Jan Eppingstall

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REMIX: 23 dehoarding tasks you can get done in a weekend

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REMIX: Tracy McCubbin on having a parent who hoards and becoming a professional organising superstar

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REMIX: Grief, loss and hoarding disorder with Dr Jan Eppingstall

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REMIX: Chronic disorganisation and hoarding disorder with Jo Cooke from Hoarding Disorders UK

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#195 Why is it so hard to deal with uncertainty in hoarding disorder? With Dr Jan Eppingstall

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REMIX: 31 things you can dehoard today if you don't know where to start

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#194 Transformation and comfort do not live in the same house: rethinking comfort zones, familiarity, and change

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#193 Laziness is a myth. Here's what's actually going on

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#192 What if we make mistakes on purpose? The unlikely freedom of doing things badly and letting yourself run out

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#191 How to dehoard when you feel defeated

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#190 What if we forgive ourselves, but now we know better, we do better? Choosing compassion over shame in hoarding disorder

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#189 Emotional, practical and motivational scaffolding - what it is and how to get it, with Dr Jan Eppingstall

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#188 12 ways to make decision-making easier (and why people who hoard find it so hard to make decisions in the first place!)

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#187 What if we focused less on self-care and more on self-nurture to progress our hoarding recovery?

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#186 10 executive dysfunction tips and tricks to help people who hoard, whether we have ADHD or are neurodivergent or not - Hoarding Awareness Week 2025

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#185 Engaging with our stuff: why we keep things but don’t use them, with Dr Jan Eppingstall

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#184 What if we actually felt the feelings? An honest conversation about trauma, hoarding, and allowing yourself to feel

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REMIX: How to declutter when you're really busy: dehoarding in tiny time slots and other tips

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REMIX: The little-known Hummingbird Method for tackling avoidance in dehoarding

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#183 ADHD, executive dysfunction and creating hacks and systems to reduce clutter chaos, with Carrie Lagerstedt

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REMIX: The emotional impact of emergency dehoarding

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#182 What are "towards and away moves" and what on earth do they have to do with hoarding recovery? With Dr Jan Eppingstall

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#181 Past influences and future possibilities: cause and effect and hoarding disorder (plus Podcasthon)

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#180 Arts and crafts and pretty, pretty things: artists, aesthetics and hoarding with Dr Jan Eppingstall

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#179 How hoarding behaviours develop and early intervention for hoarding disorder, with Dr Victoria Ruby-Granger

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#178 Growing up in a hoarded home: Sam’s story as the child of a Mum who hoards

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#177 11 unexpected things this podcast has taught me about mistakes, life, perfectionism and progress

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#176 What to do with clothes when we lose or gain weight (with absolutely NO diet-culture talk!): practical tips for dealing with size fluctuations without clutter

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#175 Taking the scary first steps: the courage to call a professional organiser, with Jasmine Sleigh

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#174 How to feel grounded when we're overwhelmed or dysregulated using ventral vagal spaces and touchstones, with Dr Jan Eppingstall

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#173 9 things that are working for me when tackling hoarding and over-acquiring right now

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#172 Harriet Impey on clearing out her parents’ very full home, through family belongings and personal growth, in the film Where Dragons Live

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#171 Hi Ren: How a song dramatically changed my approach to my inner critic

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REMIX: The Art of Letting Go: Navigating emotional clutter blocks with Tracy McCubbin

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REMIX: ADHD, depression, autism, OCD, OCPD and more: Things that look like hoarding but aren't, with Dr Jan Eppingstall

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#170 Impermanence: radical acceptance in a world of change with Dr Jan Eppingstall

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#169 Compassion-focused therapy for grief and hoarding with Dr Chia-Ying Chou

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#168 Hoarding, healing, and the art of kintsugi with Dr Jan Eppingstall of Stuffology

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#167 10 experiments to customise your dehoarding habits so they suit YOU

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#166 "Just-in-time shopping": Overcome fear-driven purchases, save money and space, and spend mindfully

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#165 Distraction-free idea capture: Transforming chaotic thought streams into actionable to-do lists

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#164 Digital hoarding and digital clutter with Dr Jan Eppingstall

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#163 The Lazy Genius approach to planning, productivity and prioritising, with Kendra Adachi

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#162 From Fibble to Focus: Defibble your executive dysfunction with Jo Cavalot

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#161 Addressing shame with creativity: dancing with your inner critic with artist Steve Chapman

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#160 Dehoarding with the seasons: get inspired by nature when everything is overwhelming

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#159 Just because we want it doesn't mean we have to have it

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#158 What does "trauma-informed" mean when it comes to hoarding? With Dr Jan Eppingstall

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#157 Dehoarding dilemmas: Swallow the frog or save the worst til last?

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#156 Identifying the shopping triggers that create our urge to impulse buy

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#155 Self-stigma and hoarding with Dr Jan Eppingstall

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#154 We don't need to love it. We just need to do it.

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#153 Making a noticeable difference: Master the 80/20 rule to tame your hoarding habits

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#152 Unpacking Aesop: Misunderstood lessons from The Tortoise and the Hare on hoarding

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#151 An amnesty on discarding guilt - is it possible? With Dr Jan Eppingstall

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#150 13 pieces of terrible hoarding advice you're sick of hearing

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#149 ADHD, hoarding and clutter with Susie Boutal, ADHD and Declutter Coach

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#148 The woman who sold every item of clothing she owned

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#147 Habituation, "clutter blindness", and hoarding with Dr Jan Eppingstall of Stuffology

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Remix: How to dehoard when you're drowning with KC Davis of Struggle Care and Domestic Blisters

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#146 Where Dragons Live and what we leave behind

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#145 Understanding stigma and hoarding using Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and compassion, with Dr Jennifer Krafft

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#144 Breaking through analysis paralysis: 13 tools and techniques for making progress when you have hoarding disorder

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#143 Letting go of coping mechanisms that no longer serve us

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#142 Physical disability, chronic illness, chronic pain and hoarding with Dr Jan Eppingstall

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#141 Micro trends are ruining our lives. Here's what to do

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#140 How to cope with - or help - a partner who hoards, with Laura Silverstein, Certified Gottman Couples Therapist

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#139 Chronic disorganisation with Jo Cooke of Hoarding Disorders UK

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#138 The Accountability Effect: Accountability, encouragement and mutual support when tackling hoarding and dehoarding

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#137 How to tackle a laundry backlog - or how to summit Mount Washmore

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#136 The lies, contradictions and justifications we tell ourselves about our stuff - I dissect and debunk 19 of them!

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#135 Don't know where to start? 31 things you can dehoard today

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#134 What therapists and mental health professionals need to know about working with hoarders, with Dr Jan Eppingstall

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#133 What to prioritise when you can only do the absolute basics

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#132 How to dehoard when you’re really, really busy: tackling clutter in tiny time slots

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#131 Compassionate productivity with Meg Kissack of the Daily Pep: Challenging the Cult of Productivity, Rethinking Self-Care and Embracing Vulnerability

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#130 Loneliness and hoarding with Vassia Sarantopoulou: build human connections and combat hoarding-related shame

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#129 Is this the hill you want to die on? Psychological flexibility, rigidity and hoarding with Dr Jan Eppingstall

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REMIX: Couples and hoarding: An interview with relationship therapist Laura Silverstein

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#128 Time management and hoarding: How living in a hoard impacts your time, stress and productivity

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#127 Overcoming overspending with Paige Pritchard, Money Coach

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#126 Insight and hoarding with Dr Jan Eppingstall: Unravelling anosognosia, clutter blindness, denial, psychological reactance and overvalued ideation

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#125 Clearing hoarding hurdles: Anticipating and overcoming roadblocks in the dehoarding process

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#124 How the little-known Hummingbird Method can help you to dehoard the areas you’ve been avoiding

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#123 The emotional impact of emergency dehoarding: confronting paralysis, shame, terror, panic and exhaustion

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#122 From ’it’ll do’ to ’make do’

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Remix: When you need to declutter urgently

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Remix: Dehoarding: where to start

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#121 Can virtual reality help to treat hoarding disorder? With Dr Hannah Raila

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#120 What a crooked church spire can tell us about failure and flaws and weirdness

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#119 Homelessness and hoarding with Dr Jan Eppingstall of Stuffology

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#118 Can we use AI to help us dehoard? Is it just hype or a promising solution?

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REMIX: Perfectionism and hoarding with Dr Jan Eppingstall of Stuffology

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#117 The dark side of conscious consumerism: when shopping feels like activism, can you save the world and promote your values by acquiring stuff?

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#116 Hoarding vs squalor vs Diogenes Syndrome with Dr Jan Eppingstall

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#115 Is selling your stuff worth it? The pros and cons of selling your clutter: a hoarder’s perspective

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#114 What if I regret dehoarding? Overcoming the fear of regret and letting go

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#113 Batching: the pathway to tangible results and motivation for hoarders

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#112 Executive function, executive dysfunction and hoarding with Dr Jan Eppingstall

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#111 Do you have spares of your spares? Do you have backups of your backups?

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#110 Do you own your stuff or does it own you? Freeing yourself and your home with Jasmine Sleigh, author of Being Owned

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#109 When you feel like giving up: dehoarding when it’s really hard

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#108 From indecisiveness to empowered choices: 27 practical tips for overcoming decision-making challenges in hoarding

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#107 Things that look like hoarding but aren’t: ADHD, depression, autism, OCD, OCPD and more

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#106 The Art of Letting Go: Navigating emotional clutter blocks with Tracy McCubbin

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#105 Embracing the path of least resistance: finding ease in the journey when overcoming hoarding

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#104 From sticky substances to mouldy messes: tackling the really gross bits when dehoarding

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#103 Scarcity and hoarding with Dr Jan Eppingstall

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#102 Turn your chair around: beginner’s mind and the power of perspective in hoarding

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#101 Wishcycling, the 5 Rs, and hoarding - what you need to know

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#100 19 things I’ve learned about hoarding - and the gas man came

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#99 Why stuff? From Blankies to Belongings: understanding the connections between hoarding, attachment styles and excessive attachment to possessions with...

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#98 The power and potential of curiosity in hoarding

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#97 What to do with bits and bobs - how to organise miscellaneous items when dehoarding your home

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#96 15 common (and annoying) myths and misconceptions about hoarding disorder

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#95 Shame and hoarding with Professor Luna Dolezal

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#94 Sunk Cost Fallacy and hoarding with Dr Jan Eppingstall of Stuffology

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#93 Animal hoarding with Dr Mary Dozier

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#92 How to resist freebies (and why we love them) as people who hoard

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#91 National Hoarding Awareness Week with Heather Matuozzo of Clouds End

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#90 23 dehoarding tasks you can achieve in a weekend

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#89 Trauma, empathy, environmentalism and hoarding with Dr Jan Eppingstall

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#88 The myth of tough love: why self-hate isn’t a sustainable motivator for hoarders

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#87 Papering over the cracks - when short-term fixes get in the way of long-term progress

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#86 14 hoarders from history from a US president to a multitude of artists

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#85 How to ask for help - professional organisers and hoarding with Declutter Hub’s Lesley Spellman

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#84 Cognitive dissonance and hoarding with Dr Jan Eppingstall of Stuffology

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#83 Instant gratification vs delayed gratification and hoarding

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#82 Dehoarding when you’re drowning with KC Davis of Struggle Care

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#81 14 things to never, ever do when dehoarding

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#80 4 teeny tiny things that actually help with dehoarding

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#79 Parents who hoard, how hoarding affects children with Dr Jan Eppingstall

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#78 From child of a hoarder to professional organiser - an interview with Tracy McCubbin

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#77 Stop demonising hoarders for clicks and views

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#76 Vicious cycles, virtuous cycles and hoarding

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#75 Anthropomorphism and hoarding with Dr Jan Eppingstall of Stuffology

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#74 Couples and hoarding: An interview with Laura Silverstein, Certified Gottman Couples Therapist

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#73 Subverting the word of the year

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Remix: Trauma and hoarding: an interview with Dr Jan Eppingstall of Stuffology

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Remix 2-in-1: Giving gifts, getting gifts, and what to do with unwanted gifts

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#72 A deeper kind of end-of-year review

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#71 Dehoarding: where to start

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#70 Resilience and hoarding with Dr Jan Eppingstall of Stuffology

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#69 Negative self-talk, cognitive restructuring and hoarding

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#68 Money and hoarding and money hoarding

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#67 What a trip away from home taught me about hoarding

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#66 Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and hoarding - a deep dive with Dr Jan Eppingstall of Stuffology

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#65 Breaking bad habits in hoarding and acquiring

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#64 What you can do for Future You

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#63 Grief and loss and hoarding with Dr Jan Eppingstall of Stuffology

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#62 Poverty, minimalism and hoarding

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#61 Embracing imperfect solutions and partial remedies when dealing with hoarding

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#60 Cognitive behavioural therapy and hoarding with Sarah Rees, CBT therapist

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#59 What OHIO and DOOM have to do with hoarding

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#58 Self-sabotage and hoarding with Dr Jan Eppingstall

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#57 Are hoarders lazy? I think you’d be surprised...

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#56 OCD and hoarding with Jenna Overbaugh, OCD therapist (who also has OCD)

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#55 My experience of hiring a hoarding clearance firm - the good, the bad and the terrifyingly ugly

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#54 Compulsive acquiring and hoarding: how to stop with Dr Jan Eppingstall

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#53 The Endowment Effect and hoarding

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#52 When you need to declutter urgently

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#51 6 dehoarding facts that aren’t discussed enough

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#50 Compulsive acquiring and hoarding: why we acquire with Dr Jan Eppingstall

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#49 Sitting with discomfort: distress tolerance and hoarding

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#48 Routines: oppressive limitations or helpful structures?

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#47 Shopping your own stuff: what does it mean and how can it help people who hoard?

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#46 Tiny habits and micro-movements with Dr Jan Eppingstall of Stuffology

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#45 The gas man came AGAIN plus did CBT have a long-term impact?

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#44 How hoarders can use the Fear Ladder to approach dehoarding with more confidence and trust

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#43 Questions to ask yourself when making decluttering and dehoarding decisions

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#42 Motivation and hoarding with Dr Jan Eppingstall

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#41 Q&A: I answer listeners’ burning questions about hoarding, dehoarding and my own experiences

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#40 ADHD and hoarding with Dr Sharon Morein

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#39 Fear of making mistakes and its impact on hoarding

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#38 Procrastination and hoarding, with Dr Jan Eppingstall

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#37 What to do with clothes that don’t fit when dehoarding your home

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#36 Sometimes it’s ok to be wasteful. Sometimes it even helps

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#35 The power of the quick win when dehoarding your home

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#34 On giving your stuff to people who don’t want it

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#33 Different types of therapy for hoarding disorder with Dr Jan Eppingstall

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#32 How to stop getting distracted when dehoarding your home

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#31 You can’t save everything

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#30 Create new habits and make them stick

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#29 Perfectionism and hoarding with Dr Jan Eppingstall of Stuffology

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#28 Avoid analysis paralysis by having ’systems’

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#27 Make it easy for yourself by eliminating barriers

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#26 Putting like with like

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#25 Trauma and hoarding: an interview with Dr Jan Eppingstall of Stuffology

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#24 We’re looking but we don’t see

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#23 Shame is toxic

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#22 What if I need it? Defeating objections to dehoarding

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#21 The arguments AGAINST setting goals for your new year’s resolutions

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#20 What to do with unwanted gifts

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#19 Giving gifts, getting gifts: hoarders at Christmastime

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#18 Keeping things within reach

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#17 Being the child of a hoarder: an interview with Elizabeth Nelson

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#16 Dealing with overwhelm

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#15 Is digital clutter really that bad?

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#14 Why do I keep buying stuff?

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#13 A weird motivation for hoarders: death?

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#12 ”But throwing it away would be a waste of money”: defeating objections to dehoarding

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#11 Does hoarding really have a 97% recidivism rate?

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#10 The gas man came

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#9 Panic, panic, panic

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#8 One of my worst nightmares just happened

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#7 Resisting the lure of pretty boxes - or stop buying storage to store your junk

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#6 So do we just pick a room and start?

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#5 A moment of despair in the middle of the night

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#4 Why hoarding TV shows are a disaster

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#3 My experience of having CBT for hoarding disorder

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#2 The stigma that surrounds hoarding disorder | Overcome Compulsive Hoarding with That Hoarder

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#1 How I Got Here | Overcome Compulsive Hoarding with That Hoarder