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The Partnership Podcast — 177 episodes
What if Male Vulnerability Is Actually the Ultimate Turn-On? Unpacking Patriarchy, Repair, and Relational Safety
Intimacy vs. Eroticism: Defining Safety, Sexual Fantasy, & Unpacking Childhood Shadow Contracts
Is Your Ego Ruining Your Sex Life? Unpacking Male Insecurity, Erotic Imagination, and Past Encounters
Male Friendship in Your 40s: Navigating Conflict, Separation, and Radical Accountability
The Invite (Part 3): When Is it More Loving to Break Up Than to Stay Together?
The Invite (Part 2): Why Caretaking Kills Sexual Desire
What A24’s The Invite Teaches Us About Fading Marital Desire: Deconstructing Esther Perel’s Concepts & Why Partners Lie to Stay Chosen
How to Support Your Partner Through Stress (Without Trying to Fix It)
Why You Aren’t Entitled to Sex in Your Marriage (and How to Actually Build Desire)
Healthy Communication Secrets for Couples: Dismantling Our On-Air Conflict, Accountability, and Why We Stay
Why Sex Stops After You Get Married (And What Happened When We Fought On-Air About It)
Off Campus: The Responsive Desire Hack: Navigating Boundaries, The Illusion of "Wholeness," & Erotic Materials (Part 2)
Off Campus: What a Hockey Romance Show Taught Us About Safety, Vulnerability, and Mutual Masturbation (Part 1)
What a Small Lie Taught Us About Attachment Cycles and Generational Trauma and How to Hold Space for Your Partner's Triggers Without Defending Your Ego
How to Travel with Your Partner Without Fighting: Logistics, Strengths, and Erotic Adventure
How Sickness and Injury Impact Relationship Dynamics and Desire and How to Navigate it Together
The Art of the "F*ck": Negotiating Desire and Intentional Taking in Partnership
Why It’s Harder to "F*ck" Your Spouse (and How to Fix It)
Intent vs. Impact: Navigating the "Bossy" Trigger and the Power of Taking the High Road
Panic Attacks & Partnership: Finding Safety When Panic Hits
Why Your Spouse is the Hardest Person to F*ck | Deconstructing Long-Term Desire
The Anatomy of a High-Level Repair: Moving From Shadow Stories to 11/10 Connection
Is the Manosphere the New Purity Culture? | A Reaction to Louis Theroux’s Latest Documentary
The Art of Giving and Receiving Without the Guilt Using The Wheel of Consent
Responsive Desire Explained: The Secret to Mismatched Sex Drives
High Desire vs. Low Desire: Navigating the Dynamics of Your Relationship
When Your Partner Wounds You (PART 4): Pleasure as a Healing Modality
When Your Partner Wounds You (PART 3): The Power of Community and Boundaries
When Your Partner Wounds You (PART 2): The Middle of Repair
When Your Partner Wounds You: A Real-Time Story of Repair
Projections, Repair, and Rage: When Growth Feels Uncomfortable in Partnership
Standing in Your Domain: Partnership, Boundaries, and the Fear of Disappointing Others
HEATED RIVALRY: Masculinity, Family Trauma & Are We Ever “Ready” for Love?
HEATED RIVALRY: Our Take on the Finale and Why Safety Changes Everything
HEATED RIVALRY: Our Take on Why Obstacles & Forbidden Desire Are So Hot
Willing vs. Wanting: Consent, Gifts & the Space Between
Admiration, Desire & Why It’s Good to Want: Understanding the HDP & LDP in Your Partnership
Why Admiration Fuels Desire: The Overlooked Key to Long-Term Sexual Intimacy
Exes, Ego & Earning Power: Owning Our Messy Moments in Love
The Truth About Women Dating Shorter Men: Heels, Height & Hidden Bias
Sexual Currency: How Tiny Investments Create Better Sex in Long-Term Relationships
Shadowboxing Through Conflict: How We Avoided Fusion, Isolation & Old Patterns
Breaking Down “Nobody Wants This”: Archetypes, Jealousy, & Getting Aroused by Big Words
When You’re Craving Sex and Your Partner’s on Their Period
Two Weeks, One Partnership: What We Learned From 14 Days Together
Grief, Relief, and the Complexity of Losing a Parent
Partnership & Body Changes: What Not to Do (and Better Ways to Support Each Other)
Why Career-Focused Women Struggle to Find Love (and What Men Miss About Partnership)
Stop Asking “Are You OK?”: Why Partners Need Better Questions
How We Built a Sex Ritual (and Why It Works!)
Is Masturbation OK in Long-Term Relationships?
How Men Can Build the Emotional & Relational Tools Women Really Desire in Dating & Relationships
How to Become the Man She’s Looking For | Why Women Are Evolving Faster & What Men Can Do Now
How to Heal Wounds in Relationship | Trey’s Memory from 1994, Adam Sandler & Active Imagination
Separating Love from Criticism | Roles, Repair & Repatterning After the Wound
What If Touch Didn’t Mean Sex? Exploring the 3-Minute Game Without Arousal
Shadow Boxing & Success Hangovers: When Celebration Triggers the Past
Can Angry Sex Be Healthy? Rage, Repair & the Psychology of the "Hot F*ck"
Why Is Hotel Sex So Hot? Exploring the Psychology Behind the Passion
When Love Turns Into Caretaking: How We Fall Into Unhealthy Patterns in Partnership
"What If We Opened Our Relationship?”: The Conversation We’ve Never Shared—Until Now
We’re Breaking Up (With Old Patterns) | Marriage, Dreams & Attachment Styles
How to Handle Your Partner’s Ego (Can Great Sex Trigger an Emotional Crash?)
How to Say "No" to Sex Without Leaving Your Partner Feeling Rejected
She Wanted to Change Him. He Needed Freedom. | Relationship Repair & Personal Growth (Part 2)
She Got Triggered. He Got Scared. What Happened Next Might Surprise You (Emergency Episode - Part 1)
Hairgate — How to Argue with Love (When He Doesn't Feel Heard & She Feels Insecure)
Launches & Landings: How To Strengthen Your Relationship Through Daily Rituals
What If I Just Don’t Want To? Sexual Boundaries & Consent
How to Talk About Sex in Long-Term Relationships
What Is Grapefruiting? How to Ask for More in the Bedroom with Respect
When They Walk In… How To Keep the Passion Alive as Parents
Blake Lively vs. Justin Baldoni: The Stories We Tell Ourselves (Part 2)
Blake Lively vs. Justin Baldoni: Power, Gender, and the Stories We Tell (Part 1)
How to Prioritize Sex & Negotiate Desire Without Pressure or Rejection
🎙️ Season Finale: Answering Your Questions on Sex, Dishes & Conservative Town Life
Erotic Self-Focus & an On-Camera Conflict
Too Busy for Sex? Rebuilding Intimacy After a Stressful Week
How Holiday Stress Can Build Sexual Arousal: Anxiety, Surprise & Sneaky Tricks
Ethical Casual Dating, Spicy Confessions, and Lessons from the Slut Era
Relational Sex vs. Recreational Sex: Trey Reflects on His Dating Past
Sleepy Side Sex & The Art of Offers, Requests, and Invitations
The Truth About Fancy Sex Positions & How Parentified Sons Affect Relationships
Do You Want Your Partner to Be Your Perfect Parent?
Special Vacation Episode
What Does It Really Mean to Love Someone? Reclaiming a Vacation Gone Wrong
Can a Married Man Have Female Friends?
How to Set Emotional Boundaries in Relationships
The Wheel of Consent Explained: Lauren & Trey’s 'Like a Pro' Training Review
Preparing for DC: Wheel of Consent, Emotional Growth & Trey's First Training Experience
Projection, Gaslighting & The Wheel of Consent: How to Handle Relational Conflicts
How to build anticipation in long-term partnership: Why we don't text when we're apart.
What is Sex? Exploring New Perspectives & Roadmaps to Pleasure
How to Attune to Your Partner's Needs: Balancing Autonomy and Connection in Relationships
How to Break Taboos and Have Amazing Period Sex
How to Build Secure Connections vs. Secure Attachments & Learning Together with OMGYES!
How to be curious instead of frustrated with family!
Relationship Issues Explained: Smartphone Drama & Post-Traumatic Growth
Bedtime Smartphone Drama: Trey and Lauren's Real Talk
Navigating Stepparent Frustrations & Enhancing Sexual Relationships
How to Have Healthy Disagreements in Partnerships: Overcoming Disappointment
Sex isn't Everything, It's Just a Part of Everything: Navigating Money Conversations in Partnership
How to Recover From a Traumatic Event - Our Tantra Event Nightmare and Healing Journey
Bad Orgasms: How to Discuss Disappointing Sex with Your Partner
How to Center Pleasure and Prioritize Space for Sex
How to stay sexually connected while apart!
How to have age-appropriate conversations about sex!
How to get out of your head during sex! (A true story...)
Laughter, Coffee, and Honeymoon Effects
A Week of Revelations & Integrations
Communication Breakdowns: or the most uncomfortable conversation we’ve ever had on camera
Coaching a Partner During Sex
Overcoming Old Patterns, Money Matters, and Adventures in Intimacy!
How to Initiate Sex!
Fairways, Mansplaining, and Unwanted Attention
Sex outside the Bedroom: The Living Room Adventure
Female Centered Orgasms: How to give great oral sex to a vulva!
Why do Heterosexual Men Still Fear Therapy?
4 Ways to Use the Cornerstones of Eroticism!
Categorizing the Types of Sex we Have
Taking Accountability for the Roles we Play in Conflict
Sexual Turn-Ons and Turn-Offs in Partnership
Sexual Arousal in Partnership
Building Bridges and Growing our Support Team
Healing in Real-Time
When Vacation Goes Wrong
Guardrails in Partnership
Finding our Way Back
Is this the beginning of the end?
Individual Discomfort & Public Partnerships
Vasectomy Update & Partnership Burnout
Trey’s Vasectomy Play-by-Play!
Finding a partner and navigating disaster!
Renegotiating Trauma through Play
Non-Sexual Foreplay & The Sex You WANT to Have
Rebuilding Trust in Partnership
Holding Space for Grief in Partnership
Our Thoughts on the Barbie Movie: Pink, Patriarchy, and Polarity
Problems vs. Conflict
How do you repair, restore, and re-negotiate in partnership?
Real-Time Conflict: Revealing our patterns, conditioning, and juvenile responses.
Forming a Sexual Game Plan with the Wheel of Consent
Stressful road trips and little wins!
Substances in Partnership: Habits and Boundaries
Shiny Happy People: Thoughts From One Who Got Out
Navigating the Possibility of Bad News
Hillsong Documentary (Part 2) & Surprise Bonus Content on Love Bombing
Our Thoughts on the Hillsong Documentary (Part 1)
The Greatest Turn-Ons: and never before shared pieces of our story...
Is it love or cathexis?
Who comes first? Communicating our way to better sex.
Interdependence in Partnership: What if goals don’t align?
Porn in Partnership: Pleasure, Panic, Pain & Patience
Taking Responsibility for Feelings in Sex
Taking Responsibility for Feelings in Conflict
Asking for the Sex You Want
Individual Growth: Inside of Partnerships
Periods in Partnerships! The Messy Truth
Is curiosity the key to intimacy?
The Three Minute Game!
Monogamy and the Erotic Mind
"Dishgate" Resolved?
In conflict! Silencing vs. Submission
Goals or Fears for 2023
Holiday traditions or obligations?
Partnership as a Human Design Projector and Generator
Scared Stiff: When sexual initiation goes wrong!
Money & Porn - Recent events that have us talking!
The Falwell Documentary: Our honest thoughts on the sexual behaviors of our neighbors
How we got married without a wedding!
Qualifying & Disqualifying: The story of how we met!
Our Relationship Agreement!
In Conflict (Part 2)
In Conflict! (Part 1)
Bonus Content: Tingle Time!
When attraction levels drop!
Partnership Podcast "WHY"