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Trying Not to Care — 222 episodes

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If They Want You, You Won’t Have to Question It

2

Stop Feeling Bad for Being Young - The Pressure to Be Perfect in Your 20s

3

How I Became My Own Boss - Influencing, Podcasts, Working for Myself

4

For the Brides 💍 - Planning a Wedding, Real or Fake Flowers, Being a Non Traditional Bride, Family Drama, and Is He the One? ADVICE SESSION #17

5

Let People Be Weird and Move On With Your Life

6

Why Your Friendships Make You Feel Anxious

7

How to Not Get Attached to Your Summer Fling

8

Friendship Breakups, Jealousy in Friendships, Getting Back With Your Ex, and Feeling Unheard - Advice Session #16

9

Why You Care So Much What People Think (The Real Reasons)

10

Friendship Red Flags You Need to Stop Ignoring

11

75 Hard Bridal - Glowing up for My Wedding

12

Summer 2026 Ins and Outs

13

A Lot of People Become Unattractive When You Realize How They Think

14

How to Detach From Toxic People

15

No Revenge Because I Like the Person I Became After You

16

Stop Living for the Weekend: How to Actually Enjoy Your Week

17

Life Rewards Action Not Intelligence

18

Advice for the Anxious Girls - ADVICE SESSION #15

19

It’s Better to Be Alone Than Surrounded by ”Friends” Who Make You Feel Lonely

20

Aging Is Sexy (Don’t Let Society Scare You About Getting Older)

21

Choose Peace Over Proving a Point

22

It's a Blessing to Be Misunderstood

23

First You're Weird, Then You're the Blueprint

24

Mindset, Magic, and Manifestation with Mikayla Jai

25

The Year of the Fire Horse

26

You Don't Miss Them, You’re Just Lonely

27

How to Have the Best Valentine's Day EVER 💕

28

Flirting With Yourself - How to Bring Back Playfulness, Confidence, and Fun Into Your Life

29

You're Not Healed, You're Just Not Surrounded By The Thing That Triggers You

30

There’s More to Life Than Doomscrolling: How to ACTUALLY Break Your Phone Addiction

31

Stop Playing Small: The Year You Step into Your Power

32

HOW TO BUILD YOUR DREAM GIRL MINDSET FOR 2026 - mindset reframes, affirmations, identity shifting

33

WHAT I'M LEAVING IN 2025 - habits, people, and mindsets

34

HOLIDAY SOCIAL ANXIETY SURVIVAL GUIDE - going back to your hometown, mastering small talk, navigating conversations about your body, and overstimulating environments

35

DECEMBER MEDIA OF THE MONTH ☃️podcast recs, holiday movies, favorite creators, and music you MUST listen to!!!

36

WHY YOU AREN'T LEARNING FROM YOUR MISTAKES

37

ROMANTICIZING WINTER ❄️ how to enjoy the holiday season and love your life

38

DATING DURING THE HOLIDAYS: reaching out to your ex, breakups, bringing your bf/gf home, and gift guide - ADVICE SESSION #14

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HOW TO DECENTER MEN - reclaiming your power and focusing on yourself

40

MAYBE YOU DON'T REALIZE HOW GOOD YOU'RE DOING BECAUSE YOU KEEP RAISING THE BAR

41

THIS IS WHY YOU'RE AFRAID OF ABANDONMENT

42

ENEMIES TO LOVERS BUT IT'S WITH MYSELF

43

OCTOBER MEDIA OF THE MONTH - the BEST halloween movies/shows, music, books, and online creators

44

NEW SEASON, NEW YOU: the art of not caring, internet stalking, how to stop talking badly about other people & more - ADVICE SESSION #13

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MISERY LOVES COMPANY - they don't see the wrong in their actions because they surround themselves with people who normalize it

46

YOU'LL NEVER KNOW THIS VERSION OF ME

47

NIGHT TIME ROUTINE FOR THE GIRLS WITH ANXIETY AND BAD SLEEP HABITS

48

OVERCOMING YOUR EGO AND HOW TO BE A MORE ENJOYABLE PERSON

49

HOW TO BE HOT, HAPPY, AND SUCCESSFUL THIS FALL

50

START THE WEEK OFF RIGHT (feel good episode) - affirmations, journal prompts, comfort movies/shows, playlists, and making a hope box

51

TIME PASSING IS NOT AN APOLOGY

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YOU'VE CHANGED....yeah I'd hope so

53

FEMALE FRIENDSHIPS - why community is so important, how to make genuine friendships, and being the friend you want to have

54

MANIFESTATION FOR BEGINNERS - getting what you want doesn’t have to be hard

55

THREE YEAR HEALING RULE - processing, adjusting, living (don't rush the healing process)

56

DECENTER WHAT YOU DON'T WANT - what you speak about, you bring about

57

THE ART OF DETACHMENT

58

REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD GO FOR IT

59

ACCEPTING WHO YOU ARE

60

HOW TO PROTECT YOUR PEACE

61

HOT GIRL SUMMER GLOW UP: hair and skincare advice, glowing up naturally on a budget, FOMO, bikini confidence, and food guilt - ADVICE SESSION #12

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DID YOU BURN A BRIDGE OR CLEAR A PATH?

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A REALISTIC GUIDE TO CONFIDENCE: how to ACTUALLY be confident

64

THINGS WON'T WORK UNLESS YOU DO

65

STOP EXPECTING YOU FROM OTHERS

66

LACKING CREATIVITY AND INSPIRATION - how to get inspired and enjoy the creative process

67

SKINNYTOK AND TOXIC DIET CULTURE

68

FOR THE THOUGHT DAUGHTERS: how to stop caring what people think, comparison and setting boundaries - ADVICE SESSION #11

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BIRTHDAY BLUES - why does my birthday make me sad?

70

THE GRASS IS GREENER WHERE YOU WATER IT

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SPRING RESET: reinventing yourself and how to glow up mentally and physically

72

THE REALITY OF HEALING

73

IF YOU WANTED TO YOU WOULD

74

A FRIEND TO ALL IS A FRIEND TO NONE

75

LET GO OR BE DRAGGED - letting go of what no longer serves you

76

"Do They Like Me?" DO YOU LIKE THEM?

77

I’m Amazing, but I’m Not for Everybody

78

The Power of Dream Interpretation with Natasha Dreamseer

79

2025 INS AND OUTS

80

2025 Mindset - Important Things to Remember in the New Year

81

What I Learned in 2024

82

Holiday Reminders

83

I'M ENGAGED

84

Building a Dopamine Menu

85

To Be Cringe Is to Be Free

86

Things Get Messy Before They Get Better

87

The Answer to Your Question About Someone Is in Their Actions

88

Keeping Quiet Keeps the Peace

89

Seasonal Depression, Cuffing Season, Finishing the Year Strong, Food Guilt, Holiday Spending, Skin Breakouts and Fall Fashion Tips - ADVICE SESSION #10

90

It’s Time to Start Checking Yourself

91

Thank You for Leaving My Life!!!!!

92

Overthinking Is OUT, Letting Things Be Is IN

93

Fall Glow Up: A New Season of Life for You

94

In My Saying No Era

95

Your Direction Is More Important Than Your Speed

96

Listen When a Bad Day Hits

97

What Your Life Feels Like Versus What It Looks Like

98

Big Sister Advice (Juicy and Unfiltered) - ADVICE SESSION #9

99

Be the Most Interesting Woman in the Room

100

I Don’t Want to Be Around What I Had to Heal From

101

Girl Therapy and Free Self Care

102

Breaking to Reinvent Yourself (Hitting Rock Bottom Is a Blessing)

103

Confusing Control for Love

104

Romanticizing Your Summer on a Budget

105

Fear of Being Perceived: Life Is About Experiencing, Not Being Perceived

106

DO IT FOR HER (Her Being You)

107

Being the Backup Friend, Moving on After a Friendship Breakup, Being Single and How to Stop Thinking About Your Ex - ADVICE SESSION #8

108

Your Body Isn’t the Problem, Your Mindset Is

109

What I Can Control vs What I Can’t

110

Summer Favorites and Maintenance Routine

111

Moving on Without an Apology

112

Things I'm Letting Go Of

113

3 Daily Wins

114

Rest Is Productive

115

I’m Struggling With Imposter Syndrome

116

Why Girl Friendships Are So Difficult

117

How to ACTUALLY Be Supportive of Others

118

Celebrating Yourself - MY BIRTHDAY EPISODE

119

Why Are We So Afraid of Aging?

120

Stop Being Subtle About What You Want

121

Learning to Become Unbothered

122

Questions to Ask Yourself Next Time You’re in a Funk

123

Going Back to an Ex, Dealing with Rejection, Being Okay With Being Alone and the Journey to Self Love - ADVICE SESSION #7

124

Ways to Say I Love You Without Saying It

125

10 Steps to Self Care

126

You Lost Them but You Found Yourself - Getting Over a Breakup and Learning to Love Yourself

127

Standing Up for Yourself Doesn’t Make You a Bad Person

128

Why Being Delusional Actually Works

129

For the Girls With No Friends

130

Getting Out of Your Own Way

131

Your Glow up Guide for 2024

132

Perspective Is Everything

133

Reminders for Hard Days

134

Stop Being Desperate

135

The Reality of Being in Your 20s

136

Understanding Your Triggers

137

Getting Over a Crush, Codependency, Facing Failures, Growing Up Too Fast and Social Anxiety - ADVICE SESSION #6

138

30 Day Glow up Challenge

139

Your Value Doesn’t Decrease Based on Someone’s Inability to See Your Worth

140

84: Hot Girls Have Seasonal Depression

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83: Working With Your Cycle: Cycle Syncing to Make Your Life Easier

142

82: How to Be Irresistible, Attractive and Magnetic (Part 1)

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81: Getting to Know Myself Better - 26 Questions to Discover Who You Are

144

80: Your Only Competition Is Yourself

145

79: Trying Isn’t Embarrassing. Why You Should Go After What You Want, Regardless of What Others Think.

146

78: My Morning and Night Routine, Non-Negotiables and How to Build Your Own Perfect Routine

147

77: Why I Like Being Like “Other Girls”

148

76: Things I’ve Been Doing to Make Life More Enjoyable

149

75: Listen When You Want to Feel Motivated or Inspired - Advice Session #5

150

74: Get Better Not Bitter. Breaking the Cycle of Hurt People Hurt People

151

73: Things to Stop Saying to Yourself. Why Your Affirmations Aren’t Working

152

72: Discovering Your Purpose

153

71: Forgiving Yourself. Turning ”I Should Have Known Better” to ”Now I Know Better”

154

70: The Pressure to Drink and Managing Hangxiety

155

69: 5 Things That Are Making You Unattractive

156

68: Healed Girl Summer

157

66: Finding Joy in the Little Things

158

65: Navigating Your 20s: Strict Timelines, Living on Your Own, Saving Money, Loving Your Body and Balancing Alone Time and Friendships - ADVICE SESSION #4

159

64: You’re Not Crazy for Expecting Respect: Setting Boundaries, Knowing When Enough Is Enough and Knowing What You Want

160

63: Change Your Lifestyle to Change Your Life: From Envisioning Your Dream Life to Actually Living It

161

62: Getting Yourself Out of a Funk, Finding Balance and Allowing Yourself to Rest

162

61: 6 Ways to Better Your Mental Health

163

60: The Truth About Fear of Missing Out: Turning FOMO Into Joy of Missing Out

164

59: For the Girlies Who Can’t Stop Oversharing

165

58: Hot Girls Cry on Their Birthday - Friendship Struggles, Disappointment and Getting Older

166

57: Moving on From an Ex, Hookups, Relationships and First Loves - ADVICE SESSION #3

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56: Overthinking Is Ruining My Life - Why We Overthink, the Damage Overthinking Does and How to Stop Doing It

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55: Maybe I'm Too Emotional

169

54: Your Hometown and High School Aren’t Forever

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53: HOT GIRL ADVICE/Q&A: Mental Health, How to Be Confident, Body Image, Routines and Self Care - ADVICE SESSION #2

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52: Why You Can't Change Your Life - Creating New Habits, Visualizing Your Higher Self and Leaving Your Comfort Zone

172

51: Listen if You’re Heartbroken - Breakups and Rejection, Having Love for Someone Who No Longer Deserves It and Moving On

173

50: How to Date Yourself - Self Love, Past Relationships, Self Worth, Love Languages and Ways to Love Yourself

174

Toxic Friends, Outgrowing Friendships, Letting Go and Making New Friends - ADVICE SESSION #1

175

48: Lucky Girl Syndrome

176

47: In My Flop Era

177

46: The Art of Not Caring

178

45: New Year New Me

179

44: I'm My Biggest Hater

180

43: Holiday Struggles

181

42: Am I the Problem?

182

41: Things I'd Tell My Younger Self

183

40: Changing the Narrative and Proving People Wrong

184

39: Learning to Let Go and Welcoming Change

185

38: It's Cool to Not Be Cool

186

37: Backstabbers

187

36: In My Selfish Era

188

35: Being Delusional Is Fun

189

34: Situationships

190

33: Cool Girl Fall + New Beginnings

191

32: Hot Girl Mindset

192

31: The Bare Minimum + Higher Standards

193

30: Intuition vs Anxiety

194

Being Okay With Being Alone

195

28: Getting Over a Breakup

196

Friendship Struggles

197

26: How to Be Successful & Why You Sabotage Success

198

25: Anxiety About Aging

199

24: Being in Your 20s

200

23: Being the Main Character and Romanticizing Your Life

201

22: Being Who You Are and Not What Others Want You to Be

202

21: Pick Mes and Girls Girls

203

20: No One Cares More Than You

204

I Have No Friends

205

18: HOT GIRL SUMMER

206

17: Owning Who You Are

207

16: Mental Illness Isn’t Quirky

208

15: Body Image and Embracing Yourself

209

14: Their Win Is Not Your Loss

210

13: You Are Not Your Mistakes

211

12: People Pleasing

212

11: Your Comfort Zone

213

10: Manifesting 101

214

9: The Truth Behind Influencing

215

8: Trusting the Process

216

7: Imposter Syndrome

217

6: I Feel Like Everyone Hates Me

218

5: Self Love

219

4: Toxic Relationships and Breakups

220

3: WTF am I doing????

221

2: Are We Even Friends?

222

1: Let’s ACTUALLY Do This Thing