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Trying Not to Care — 214 episodes

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1

Why You Care So Much What People Think (The Real Reasons)

2

Friendship Red Flags You Need to Stop Ignoring

3

75 Hard Bridal - Glowing up for My Wedding

4

Summer 2026 Ins and Outs

5

A Lot of People Become Unattractive When You Realize How They Think

6

How to Detach From Toxic People

7

No Revenge Because I Like the Person I Became After You

8

Stop Living for the Weekend: How to Actually Enjoy Your Week

9

Life Rewards Action Not Intelligence

10

Advice for the Anxious Girls - ADVICE SESSION #15

11

It’s Better to Be Alone Than Surrounded by ”Friends” Who Make You Feel Lonely

12

Aging Is Sexy (Don’t Let Society Scare You About Getting Older)

13

Choose Peace Over Proving a Point

14

It's a Blessing to Be Misunderstood

15

First You're Weird, Then You're the Blueprint

16

Mindset, Magic, and Manifestation with Mikayla Jai

17

The Year of the Fire Horse

18

You Don't Miss Them, You’re Just Lonely

19

How to Have the Best Valentine's Day EVER 💕

20

Flirting With Yourself - How to Bring Back Playfulness, Confidence, and Fun Into Your Life

21

You're Not Healed, You're Just Not Surrounded By The Thing That Triggers You

22

There’s More to Life Than Doomscrolling: How to ACTUALLY Break Your Phone Addiction

23

Stop Playing Small: The Year You Step into Your Power

24

HOW TO BUILD YOUR DREAM GIRL MINDSET FOR 2026 - mindset reframes, affirmations, identity shifting

25

WHAT I'M LEAVING IN 2025 - habits, people, and mindsets

26

HOLIDAY SOCIAL ANXIETY SURVIVAL GUIDE - going back to your hometown, mastering small talk, navigating conversations about your body, and overstimulating environments

27

DECEMBER MEDIA OF THE MONTH ☃️podcast recs, holiday movies, favorite creators, and music you MUST listen to!!!

28

WHY YOU AREN'T LEARNING FROM YOUR MISTAKES

29

ROMANTICIZING WINTER ❄️ how to enjoy the holiday season and love your life

30

DATING DURING THE HOLIDAYS: reaching out to your ex, breakups, bringing your bf/gf home, and gift guide - ADVICE SESSION #14

31

HOW TO DECENTER MEN - reclaiming your power and focusing on yourself

32

MAYBE YOU DON'T REALIZE HOW GOOD YOU'RE DOING BECAUSE YOU KEEP RAISING THE BAR

33

THIS IS WHY YOU'RE AFRAID OF ABANDONMENT

34

ENEMIES TO LOVERS BUT IT'S WITH MYSELF

35

OCTOBER MEDIA OF THE MONTH - the BEST halloween movies/shows, music, books, and online creators

36

NEW SEASON, NEW YOU: the art of not caring, internet stalking, how to stop talking badly about other people & more - ADVICE SESSION #13

37

MISERY LOVES COMPANY - they don't see the wrong in their actions because they surround themselves with people who normalize it

38

YOU'LL NEVER KNOW THIS VERSION OF ME

39

NIGHT TIME ROUTINE FOR THE GIRLS WITH ANXIETY AND BAD SLEEP HABITS

40

OVERCOMING YOUR EGO AND HOW TO BE A MORE ENJOYABLE PERSON

41

HOW TO BE HOT, HAPPY, AND SUCCESSFUL THIS FALL

42

START THE WEEK OFF RIGHT (feel good episode) - affirmations, journal prompts, comfort movies/shows, playlists, and making a hope box

43

TIME PASSING IS NOT AN APOLOGY

44

YOU'VE CHANGED....yeah I'd hope so

45

FEMALE FRIENDSHIPS - why community is so important, how to make genuine friendships, and being the friend you want to have

46

MANIFESTATION FOR BEGINNERS - getting what you want doesn’t have to be hard

47

THREE YEAR HEALING RULE - processing, adjusting, living (don't rush the healing process)

48

DECENTER WHAT YOU DON'T WANT - what you speak about, you bring about

49

THE ART OF DETACHMENT

50

REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD GO FOR IT

51

ACCEPTING WHO YOU ARE

52

HOW TO PROTECT YOUR PEACE

53

HOT GIRL SUMMER GLOW UP: hair and skincare advice, glowing up naturally on a budget, FOMO, bikini confidence, and food guilt - ADVICE SESSION #12

54

DID YOU BURN A BRIDGE OR CLEAR A PATH?

55

A REALISTIC GUIDE TO CONFIDENCE: how to ACTUALLY be confident

56

THINGS WON'T WORK UNLESS YOU DO

57

STOP EXPECTING YOU FROM OTHERS

58

LACKING CREATIVITY AND INSPIRATION - how to get inspired and enjoy the creative process

59

SKINNYTOK AND TOXIC DIET CULTURE

60

FOR THE THOUGHT DAUGHTERS: how to stop caring what people think, comparison and setting boundaries - ADVICE SESSION #11

61

BIRTHDAY BLUES - why does my birthday make me sad?

62

THE GRASS IS GREENER WHERE YOU WATER IT

63

SPRING RESET: reinventing yourself and how to glow up mentally and physically

64

THE REALITY OF HEALING

65

IF YOU WANTED TO YOU WOULD

66

A FRIEND TO ALL IS A FRIEND TO NONE

67

LET GO OR BE DRAGGED - letting go of what no longer serves you

68

"Do They Like Me?" DO YOU LIKE THEM?

69

I’m Amazing, but I’m Not for Everybody

70

The Power of Dream Interpretation with Natasha Dreamseer

71

2025 INS AND OUTS

72

2025 Mindset - Important Things to Remember in the New Year

73

What I Learned in 2024

74

Holiday Reminders

75

I'M ENGAGED

76

Building a Dopamine Menu

77

To Be Cringe Is to Be Free

78

Things Get Messy Before They Get Better

79

The Answer to Your Question About Someone Is in Their Actions

80

Keeping Quiet Keeps the Peace

81

Seasonal Depression, Cuffing Season, Finishing the Year Strong, Food Guilt, Holiday Spending, Skin Breakouts and Fall Fashion Tips - ADVICE SESSION #10

82

It’s Time to Start Checking Yourself

83

Thank You for Leaving My Life!!!!!

84

Overthinking Is OUT, Letting Things Be Is IN

85

Fall Glow Up: A New Season of Life for You

86

In My Saying No Era

87

Your Direction Is More Important Than Your Speed

88

Listen When a Bad Day Hits

89

What Your Life Feels Like Versus What It Looks Like

90

Big Sister Advice (Juicy and Unfiltered) - ADVICE SESSION #9

91

Be the Most Interesting Woman in the Room

92

I Don’t Want to Be Around What I Had to Heal From

93

Girl Therapy and Free Self Care

94

Breaking to Reinvent Yourself (Hitting Rock Bottom Is a Blessing)

95

Confusing Control for Love

96

Romanticizing Your Summer on a Budget

97

Fear of Being Perceived: Life Is About Experiencing, Not Being Perceived

98

DO IT FOR HER (Her Being You)

99

Being the Backup Friend, Moving on After a Friendship Breakup, Being Single and How to Stop Thinking About Your Ex - ADVICE SESSION #8

100

Your Body Isn’t the Problem, Your Mindset Is

101

What I Can Control vs What I Can’t

102

Summer Favorites and Maintenance Routine

103

Moving on Without an Apology

104

Things I'm Letting Go Of

105

3 Daily Wins

106

Rest Is Productive

107

I’m Struggling With Imposter Syndrome

108

Why Girl Friendships Are So Difficult

109

How to ACTUALLY Be Supportive of Others

110

Celebrating Yourself - MY BIRTHDAY EPISODE

111

Why Are We So Afraid of Aging?

112

Stop Being Subtle About What You Want

113

Learning to Become Unbothered

114

Questions to Ask Yourself Next Time You’re in a Funk

115

Going Back to an Ex, Dealing with Rejection, Being Okay With Being Alone and the Journey to Self Love - ADVICE SESSION #7

116

Ways to Say I Love You Without Saying It

117

10 Steps to Self Care

118

You Lost Them but You Found Yourself - Getting Over a Breakup and Learning to Love Yourself

119

Standing Up for Yourself Doesn’t Make You a Bad Person

120

Why Being Delusional Actually Works

121

For the Girls With No Friends

122

Getting Out of Your Own Way

123

Your Glow up Guide for 2024

124

Perspective Is Everything

125

Reminders for Hard Days

126

Stop Being Desperate

127

The Reality of Being in Your 20s

128

Understanding Your Triggers

129

Getting Over a Crush, Codependency, Facing Failures, Growing Up Too Fast and Social Anxiety - ADVICE SESSION #6

130

30 Day Glow up Challenge

131

Your Value Doesn’t Decrease Based on Someone’s Inability to See Your Worth

132

84: Hot Girls Have Seasonal Depression

133

83: Working With Your Cycle: Cycle Syncing to Make Your Life Easier

134

82: How to Be Irresistible, Attractive and Magnetic (Part 1)

135

81: Getting to Know Myself Better - 26 Questions to Discover Who You Are

136

80: Your Only Competition Is Yourself

137

79: Trying Isn’t Embarrassing. Why You Should Go After What You Want, Regardless of What Others Think.

138

78: My Morning and Night Routine, Non-Negotiables and How to Build Your Own Perfect Routine

139

77: Why I Like Being Like “Other Girls”

140

76: Things I’ve Been Doing to Make Life More Enjoyable

141

75: Listen When You Want to Feel Motivated or Inspired - Advice Session #5

142

74: Get Better Not Bitter. Breaking the Cycle of Hurt People Hurt People

143

73: Things to Stop Saying to Yourself. Why Your Affirmations Aren’t Working

144

72: Discovering Your Purpose

145

71: Forgiving Yourself. Turning ”I Should Have Known Better” to ”Now I Know Better”

146

70: The Pressure to Drink and Managing Hangxiety

147

69: 5 Things That Are Making You Unattractive

148

68: Healed Girl Summer

149

66: Finding Joy in the Little Things

150

65: Navigating Your 20s: Strict Timelines, Living on Your Own, Saving Money, Loving Your Body and Balancing Alone Time and Friendships - ADVICE SESSION #4

151

64: You’re Not Crazy for Expecting Respect: Setting Boundaries, Knowing When Enough Is Enough and Knowing What You Want

152

63: Change Your Lifestyle to Change Your Life: From Envisioning Your Dream Life to Actually Living It

153

62: Getting Yourself Out of a Funk, Finding Balance and Allowing Yourself to Rest

154

61: 6 Ways to Better Your Mental Health

155

60: The Truth About Fear of Missing Out: Turning FOMO Into Joy of Missing Out

156

59: For the Girlies Who Can’t Stop Oversharing

157

58: Hot Girls Cry on Their Birthday - Friendship Struggles, Disappointment and Getting Older

158

57: Moving on From an Ex, Hookups, Relationships and First Loves - ADVICE SESSION #3

159

56: Overthinking Is Ruining My Life - Why We Overthink, the Damage Overthinking Does and How to Stop Doing It

160

55: Maybe I'm Too Emotional

161

54: Your Hometown and High School Aren’t Forever

162

53: HOT GIRL ADVICE/Q&A: Mental Health, How to Be Confident, Body Image, Routines and Self Care - ADVICE SESSION #2

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52: Why You Can't Change Your Life - Creating New Habits, Visualizing Your Higher Self and Leaving Your Comfort Zone

164

51: Listen if You’re Heartbroken - Breakups and Rejection, Having Love for Someone Who No Longer Deserves It and Moving On

165

50: How to Date Yourself - Self Love, Past Relationships, Self Worth, Love Languages and Ways to Love Yourself

166

Toxic Friends, Outgrowing Friendships, Letting Go and Making New Friends - ADVICE SESSION #1

167

48: Lucky Girl Syndrome

168

47: In My Flop Era

169

46: The Art of Not Caring

170

45: New Year New Me

171

44: I'm My Biggest Hater

172

43: Holiday Struggles

173

42: Am I the Problem?

174

41: Things I'd Tell My Younger Self

175

40: Changing the Narrative and Proving People Wrong

176

39: Learning to Let Go and Welcoming Change

177

38: It's Cool to Not Be Cool

178

37: Backstabbers

179

36: In My Selfish Era

180

35: Being Delusional Is Fun

181

34: Situationships

182

33: Cool Girl Fall + New Beginnings

183

32: Hot Girl Mindset

184

31: The Bare Minimum + Higher Standards

185

30: Intuition vs Anxiety

186

Being Okay With Being Alone

187

28: Getting Over a Breakup

188

Friendship Struggles

189

26: How to Be Successful & Why You Sabotage Success

190

25: Anxiety About Aging

191

24: Being in Your 20s

192

23: Being the Main Character and Romanticizing Your Life

193

22: Being Who You Are and Not What Others Want You to Be

194

21: Pick Mes and Girls Girls

195

20: No One Cares More Than You

196

I Have No Friends

197

18: HOT GIRL SUMMER

198

17: Owning Who You Are

199

16: Mental Illness Isn’t Quirky

200

15: Body Image and Embracing Yourself

201

14: Their Win Is Not Your Loss

202

13: You Are Not Your Mistakes

203

12: People Pleasing

204

11: Your Comfort Zone

205

10: Manifesting 101

206

9: The Truth Behind Influencing

207

8: Trusting the Process

208

7: Imposter Syndrome

209

6: I Feel Like Everyone Hates Me

210

5: Self Love

211

4: Toxic Relationships and Breakups

212

3: WTF am I doing????

213

2: Are We Even Friends?

214

1: Let’s ACTUALLY Do This Thing