PODCAST · health
Coffee With Dudes
by Alex Wojciechowski and Matt DeJesus
Welcome to Coffee With Dudes with Matt DeJesus and Alex Wojciechowski! Every single Tuesday and Thursday we pop on, enjoy some coffee, catch up about what's going on in our lives and explore our experiences and the science behind interesting topics related to health & fitness, relationships, mindset, nutrition and much, much more. We hope you enjoy!
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Top 5 Easiest States to Stay in Shape
Alex puts Matt on the spot to guess the top 5 easiest states to stay in shape. We break down why certain states make fitness easier—and which ones surprised us the most.
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Expectations: The Silent Mood Killer
In this episode of Coffee With Dudes, Alex and I break down how expectations shape our mindset, influence our reactions, and can either motivate us or mess with our peace.
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How My Diet Went Off the Rails (and the Simple Plan to Fix It)
This weekend got a little chaotic with family in town, and my diet definitely went off the rails. In this solo episode, I break down what happened, what I could’ve done differently, and the exact plan I’m using to reset fast without overcomplicating it. If you’ve ever had a weekend throw you off track, this one’s for you.
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The Workout You’ll Actually Stick To (It’s Not What You Think)
What if getting in shape didn’t feel like a chore? We’re breaking down a completely different approach to fitness that makes consistency almost effortless. If you’ve ever struggled to stay motivated, this episode might change everything.
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Bet on Yourself or Play It Safe? The Real Money Talk
In this episode of Coffee With Dudes, Alex and I dive into the big money and career questions everyone’s thinking about—but not always saying out loud.Is college still worth it in 2026? Should you chase job security or take the risk and bet on yourself? Is grinding in your 20s actually the move—or overrated? And do you really need to love what you do… or just get paid well?We also get into whether money is actually the best way to measure success—or if that mindset misses the bigger picture.
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Comfort vs Ambition: Are We Getting Too Comfortable?
In this episode of Coffee With Dudes, Alex and I get into some real-life conversations that don’t have easy answers. We dive into whether comfort is quietly killing ambition, if passion is overrated compared to discipline, and whether work-life balance is actually real—or just something we tell ourselves.We go back and forth on both sides, challenge each other’s perspectives, and try to figure out what actually holds up in the real world.
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Taco Ultra: Running 25+ Miles for Tacos
We dive into the wild world of the Taco Ultra, a 25+ mile run hitting multiple Taco Bell stops. Do you really have to eat a taco at every stop? Can your legs survive the nacho-fueled miles? We share our thoughts, laughs, and questionable strategies for this slightly insane challenge.
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Setbacks & Combacks
In this episode of Coffee with Dudes, we talk about how to handle setbacks, injuries, unexpected life hits, and momentum killers, and the mindset it takes to come back stronger. Real conversation on resilience, perspective, and rebuilding the right way.
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When You Want to Quit (But Don’t)
This weekend at HYROX in Las Vegas, I hit a moment where I wanted to quit. The limiting beliefs were loud — doubt, fatigue, excuses.In this episode, I break down how I pushed through and how you can apply the same mindset shift to fitness, business, or any challenge you’re facing.If you’ve ever felt like tapping out — this one’s for you.
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If You Want to Live Longer, Start Here
The science on longevity is surprisingly clear — but most people focus on the wrong things. In today’s episode, I’m sharing five evidence-backed shifts that dramatically impact lifespan and long-term health. No hype. No gimmicks. Just what actually moves the needle according to decades of research.
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Is This Food Good or Bad for Weight Loss?
In today’s solo episode of Coffee with Dudes, I’m answering a question I get all the time:“Is this food good or bad if my goal is to lose weight?”We break down why this question might be the wrong place to start—and what actually matters if fat loss is your goal. I’ll cover:Why labeling foods as “good” or “bad” can slow your progress
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Belief Change Isn’t Mindset Work (Science Explains Why)
Affirmations don’t work. Thinking harder doesn’t work. And forcing belief almost always backfires. In this episode, we unpack what decades of neuroscience and psychology show about how beliefs really shift—and how to use that knowledge to break patterns that have felt permanent.
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Coffee, Pre-Workout, and the Bare Minimum
We tackle the everyday fitness questions everyone’s thinking about — pre-workout vs coffee, how many rest days is too many, whether showing up beats the perfect workout, if walking the dog counts as cardio, the minimum it takes to stay in shape, and what we’re actually listening to in the gym. Real talk, no hype, just fitness that fits real life.
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Let’s Talk About the Fitness Advice That Confuses Everyone
Coffee with Dudes explores the gray areas of fitness — body image, confidence, trends, and conflicting advice — with honest dialogue and real-world experience. No preaching. No perfection. Just practical insights for building a healthier, stronger life.
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Hot Takes, Hard Lessons, and Stuff We’re Still Figuring Out
We’re keeping this one loose and honest. From advice everyone repeats but doesn’t always work, to things social media makes look way easier than they are, to the mistakes and near-quit moments that shaped us the most. If you like real conversations over polished highlight reels, this one’s for you.
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Setting Goals That Actually Stick in 2026
In this episode of Coffee with Dudes, Alex and Matt sit down to talk through how we’re setting our goals heading into 2026 — what we’re focused on, what we’re cutting out, and how we’re staying intentional. We also break down practical ways you can set goals that aren’t just ideas on paper, but ones you actually follow through on in the new year.
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Discipline, Weight Loss, and the Jelly Roll Story
In this episode, we break down Jelly Roll’s conversation with Joe Rogan and his 300 pound transformation. We talk about the mental shift, habits, and self accountability behind the change, plus our honest take on what makes long term success stick.
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Confidence From Scratch: The Science of Becoming Unstoppable
Confidence isn’t something you’re born with—it’s something you build.And most people build it the wrong way.In this episode, we dive deep into the psychology and neuroscience behind true self-confidence and break down why it feels so hard to build when you’re starting from scratch. You’ll learn what actually creates lasting confidence, why motivation isn’t the answer, and the science-backed principles that turn self-doubt into real, grounded self-belief.Whether you’ve struggled with negative self-talk, low confidence, or feeling like you’re “not ready,” this episode gives you the framework you need to finally break that cycle. These aren’t fluffy affirmations—they’re powerful, research-backed foundations you can start using today.If you’re ready to understand confidence on a deeper level—and start building the version of yourself you know you’re capable of becoming—this one’s for you.
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Unpopular Fitness Opinions: Stuff Nobody Wants to Hear
In this episode, I break down some of the most unpopular (but honest) fitness opinions — from overhyped supplements to pointless workout trends. It’s a straight-shooting conversation about what actually matters, what doesn’t, and why the basics still win every time.
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Caffeine, Coffee, and Chaos
Matt and Alex dive into why espresso hits different, how caffeine actually affects your sleep, weekend coffee walks, hike-fueled brews, and whether pre-workout is just coffee’s loud cousin. A chill convo about the stuff we sip and the reasons we love it.
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Raise a Glass, Not the Scale: The Science of Drinking Without Backtracking
In this episode, we’re tackling one of the most common questions in health and fitness: Can you actually enjoy alcohol and still make progress toward your goals? The answer is yes—but only if you understand the science behind how drinking affects your body and how to navigate it strategically.I’m breaking down five of the most effective, research-backed hacks for drinking smarter—not less—and how to integrate them into your lifestyle without feeling restricted. Plus, I’m sharing a bonus tip that most people overlook, but it can make all the difference in staying consistent year-round.
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Survive the Holidays Without Starting Over: Your Game Plan for Thanksgiving + Christmas
The holiday season is here — which means big meals, packed schedules, family chaos, and the annual battle between wanting to enjoy yourself and wanting to stay on track with your goals. In this episode, we break down a simple, realistic strategy for navigating Thanksgiving and Christmas so you don’t feel restricted, guilty, or like you’re “starting over” on January 1st.You’ll learn how to approach holiday food with confidence, set the right expectations, reduce stress, and keep your momentum strong — all while actually enjoying your favorite traditions. If you want to make real progress this season without missing out, this one’s for you.
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The 3 Lessons That Changed Everything for Me
Over the last few years, I’ve completely shifted how I think, work, and live — and it came down to just three powerful mindset shifts. In this episode, I break down the top three life lessons that had the biggest impact on my growth, happiness, and direction. These aren’t cliché quotes you’ve heard a thousand times — they’re real, tested, and reshaped how I show up every day.If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or just ready for your next level in life, health, or career, this conversation might be the mindset reset you need. Tune in, hear the lessons, and see which one speaks directly to where you are right now.
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My Step Slump + The Simple Reset
This month my steps tanked, and I finally had to face it. In this episode, I break down how I’m resetting my routine and the small tactics that are helping me get back on track — from hourly movement breaks to habit-anchored walks. If you’re in the same boat, this one’s for you.
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If I Wasn’t in Fitness… (Matt’s Top 3 Alternate Realities)
In this solo episode, Matt kicks back and gets real about life outside the gym — from bass fishing and lifted trucks to ice cream runs and sports talk. Ever wonder what he’d be doing if fitness wasn’t the path? Tune in for his top 3 alternate careers, a few laughs, and a glimpse at what fuels the “dude” side of Coffee with Dudes.
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Why Change Feels Impossible — and How to Finally Make It Stick
Ever wonder why it’s so hard to change — even when you really want to? In this episode, we break down the brain science behind why we resist change (hint: it’s not laziness) and reveal 5 research-backed strategies that make transformation way easier. From rewiring habits to lowering mental friction and finding real motivation, you’ll learn how to finally follow through on the goals you keep setting — in your health, career, or everyday life.Whether you’re trying to lose weight, build a new routine, or simply show up for yourself more consistently, this episode will help you make change feel doable, sustainable, and even exciting.
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Top 5 Proven Fat-Loss Hacks — Can Matt Guess Them?
Alex puts Matt on the spot to see if he can name the top 5 science-backed ways to lose fat fast. From diet myths to metabolism tricks, the guys break it all down with laughs, surprises, and some real talk you can actually use. Tune in and see if you can guess them before Matt does!
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AI Gains: How Tech Is Rewriting Fitness
Matt and Alex dive into how AI is changing the fitness world — from smart meal plans and adaptive workouts to wearables that know you better than you do. Real talk on what’s hype, what’s helpful, and what’s next.
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Sweet or Scary? Guessing the Top 5 Halloween Candies
In this episode of Coffee with Dudes, Matt and Alex put their sweet tooth to the test — guessing the top five most popular Halloween candies in America. From the eternal Reese’s vs. Snickers debate to the dark horse picks that sneak into your trick-or-treat bag, the guys break down their personal favorites, share some hilarious candy hot takes, and try to settle once and for all which treat deserves the crown.
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Should You Stress About Metals and Dyes in Your Food?
Matt and Alex sit down to unpack the hype around heavy metals, dyes, and additives in food. Are they really something to worry about, or just another internet scare? The guys break it down in plain English — what’s real, what’s overblown, and how to stay healthy without losing your mind over every ingredient label.
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Home Workouts: The Good, The Bad, and The Honest Truth
Today, I’m diving into the real deal behind home workouts—the pros that make them awesome and the cons that no one likes to admit. Whether you’re all-in on home fitness or just thinking about skipping the gym, I’ll help you figure out what works best for your goals and lifestyle.
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Lessons From Atlanta: Growing With My Team and Myself
On this solo episode of Coffee with Dudes, I share my biggest takeaways from a recent business trip to Atlanta. Spending time in person with my normally remote team opened my eyes not only to how we can grow together but also to how I can keep leveling up personally. From leadership lessons to self-discovery, I break down what I learned and how I plan to put it into action moving forward.
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Finding the Sweet Spot: Grace Without Excuses
In health, fitness, and life, we’re told to “give ourselves grace.” But what does that actually mean? Too little grace leads to burnout and self-criticism, while too much can turn into excuses that derail progress. In this episode, we explore what no grace looks like, what too much grace looks like, and how to discover the balance that helps you recover, grow, and keep moving forward toward your goals. Whether you’re chasing fitness gains, career milestones, or personal growth, learning to strike this balance could be the key to long-term success.
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The Expectation Trap: Why Wins Feel Empty and Failures Cut Deep
Have you ever crushed a goal only to feel underwhelmed — or missed by just a little and felt devastated? It’s not the result itself that shapes how we feel, it’s the expectations we set beforehand. In this episode, we unpack the psychology of expectations: why unrealistic ones sabotage us, how the same outcome can feel like triumph or failure, and the simple mindset shifts that can turn expectations into fuel for success. Whether in your career, health, or personal life, learning to set expectations differently could change the way you experience every win and setback.
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Fear Doesn't Clock In - Stop Stressing About Monday
In this solo episode, Matt breaks down the pointless cycle of Sunday fear and Monday dread. If you’re spending your weekend worrying about the workweek, this one’s for you. Fear doesn’t change outcomes — it just steals your peace. Tune in for a no-fluff mindset reset, practical tips to stay grounded, and a reminder that you’ve already got what it takes to handle whatever comes your way.
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Breaking Free from the Comparison Trap
We’ve all felt it — that sinking feeling when we measure our lives against someone else’s highlight reel. But what if comparison didn’t have to steal your confidence, energy, and joy? In this episode, we dive into the psychology of why we compare ourselves and uncover practical, research-backed ways to shift out of the comparison spiral. You’ll walk away with simple, actionable tools to help you feel lighter, more focused, and more grounded in your own journey.
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3 Rules for Getting Stronger at Any Age
In this episode of Coffee with Dudes, Alex and Matt break down three timeless rules for building strength that apply whether you’re in your 20s, 40s, or beyond. No fads, no fluff — just simple, proven tips to help you stay strong for life.
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Top 5 Fitness Trends: Our Hot Takes
On this episode of Coffee With Dudes, Alex and Matt break down the top 5 fitness trends making waves right now — from wearable tech to the latest in gym memberships. Tune in for our takes, laughs, and what’s actually worth your time (and what’s just hype).
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Pivoting in Fitness: Our Journey & The State of Online Coaching
Alex and Matt get real about their personal experiences in the fitness industry, sharing what led them to pivot while still keeping a hand in coaching. From the rise of online training to the realities of running a business in today’s fitness landscape, this episode dives into lessons learned, industry shifts, and why passion for helping people never really goes away.
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Would You Rather: Fitness, Coffee, and Everyday Life
Alex and Matt dive into a hilarious round of “Would You Rather,” tackling everything from gym struggles and fitness myths to coffee habits and everyday choices. Expect laughs, debates, and maybe a few tough decisions along the way.
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Bouncing Back & Breaking the Mold: Finding What You Really Want
In this episode of Coffee with Dudes, we’re diving into what it really takes to get back on your feet after sickness, why it’s not just okay—but necessary—to challenge the norm, and how to finally get clear on what you truly want in life.We’ll talk about:- Getting past sickness- How setbacks can actually fuel your growth- Why changing your direction isn’t weakness—it’s wisdom- Simple ways to cut the noise and figure out your next moveIf you’ve been feeling stuck, drained, or unsure of your path, this one’s for you. Grab your coffee, take a deep breath, and let’s chart a new course—one that’s yours.
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Turning Missed Steps Into Forward Momentum
In this episode of Coffee with Dudes, I share how I completely missed my 10k step goal—ending the day at just 1,500 steps—and what that slip-up taught me. Instead of letting it derail progress, I turned the mishap into a chance to reset, refocus, and keep moving forward. Tune in to hear how you can use setbacks as fuel for growth in your own health and fitness journey.
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Reset & Recharge: Mindset Lessons from the Outdoors
In this episode, I share how a weekend of hiking, fishing, and time in nature helped me reset my mind and recharge for the week ahead. I’ll walk you through the mindset strategies I used during my getaway and how you can apply these same approaches to your own health and fitness journey. If you’ve been feeling stuck, stressed, or in need of a mental reset, this episode will give you practical tools and inspiration to get back on track.
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My 3-Step Game Plan to Get Back In Great Shape
In this episode of Coffee with Dudes, Alex is pulling back the curtain and sharing the 3 big moves he's making to level up his fitness over the next few months.No fluff, no crash diets—just the real strategies he's using to build momentum, stay consistent, and finally push past the plateaus.If you’ve been wanting to reset your own health and fitness routine, this episode might give you the nudge (and a few ideas) you’ve been looking for. Grab your coffee, tune in, and let’s break it down.
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Getting in shape FAST!
In this solo episode of Coffee with Dudes, Matt breaks down the fastest, science-backed ways to get in shape. No gimmicks, no fluff — just 3 proven strategies that actually work, supported by real data. Whether you’re restarting your fitness journey or looking for an edge, these tips will help you see results quicker. Grab your coffee and let’s dive in.
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Gut Check: 5 Science-Backed Secrets to Better Digestion
In this episode of Coffee with Dudes, Alex is diving into what it really takes to improve your digestion—not gimmicks, not quick fixes, just proven strategies backed by science.Alex shares what’s been working, what most people overlook, and how a few simple shifts can make a massive difference in how you feel every day.If you’ve been dealing with bloating, sluggish digestion, or just want your gut to run like a well-oiled machine, this one’s for you. Grab your coffee and tune in—your stomach will thank you later.
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Goals That Stick: How I’m Finally Hitting What I Set Out to Do
In this episode of Coffee with Dudes, Alex shares what’s really been working for him lately when it comes to setting goals—and actually achieving them.He breaks down:- Why most goals fail (and how to avoid the trap)- The simple shifts I’ve made that keep me moving forward- How to set goals that fit your real life instead of fighting it- Practical steps you can start using today to gain momentumGrab your coffee, tune in, and let’s talk about how to stop setting empty goals—and start creating real, lasting progress.
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5 Science-Backed Mental Health Hacks That Actually Work
Alex and Matt break down five research-supported mental health tips that are simple, practical, and proven to boost your well-being—no fluff, just facts (and coffee).
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Kindness Over Coffee
Alex and Matt sip zevia and culture pop swap stories about small acts of kindness, how they ripple outward, and why giving value to others matters more than ever.
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Gym Gripes & Gains: The Do's, Don'ts, and WTFs of the Fitness World
This week on Coffee with Dudes, Alex and Matt spill the pre-workout tea on their biggest gym pet peeves—from the guy doing bicep curls in the squat rack to the forgotten towel crimes. We’re also breaking down our personal do's and don'ts to keep your fitness game strong (and not annoying). Come for the rants, stay for the real talk.
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Welcome to Coffee With Dudes with Matt DeJesus and Alex Wojciechowski! Every single Tuesday and Thursday we pop on, enjoy some coffee, catch up about what's going on in our lives and explore our experiences and the science behind interesting topics related to health & fitness, relationships, mindset, nutrition and much, much more. We hope you enjoy!
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