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It is okay for you to set a goal and to not reach the goal due to the lack of consistency and discipline. Instead of thinking that you're lazy and or unproductive, what if you thought, "Maybe I should just re-evaluate my goal and make it more realistic?" Do you think you would be more consistent and have discipline? I guess we have to find out after you're done listening to the episode. If you're a brand that is interested in partnering with us, please reach out to [email protected] Join the Garden  Submit your Confessions Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright Music by Hotham Stream: https://linktr.ee/hothammusic

Dating should be fun or that’s what they tell us. How many talking stages can I go through? Is this anxiety or a red-flag? In this episode, Lydia shares questions she has asked herself to feel more confident in the dating pool. Are you ready to see how you can plays the “game” of love. If you're a brand that is interested in partnering with us, please reach out to [email protected] Join the Garden  Submit your Confessions Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright Music by Hotham Stream: https://linktr.ee/hothammusic

Damn! It’s the middle of the year and the last time you thought about your goals were on January 1st, let’s change that! In this episode, you will take a moment to reflect on how far you’ve come this year through a series of questions. By the end, you will feel inspired to go after your goals, make that pivot you’ve been avoiding, and feel proud of your accomplishments. If you're a brand that is interested in partnering with us, please reach out to [email protected] Join the Garden  Submit your Confessions Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright Music by Hotham Stream: https://linktr.ee/hothammusic

I’ve heard you want to be honest with the person that hurt your feelings, but you’re afraid that once you tell them, they will dislike you.  Does this sound like you? “I want to be honest with them. I just don’t want them to dislike me.” If so, grab your notepad and a pen. Class is in session and we are discussing how to be honest with the people who’ve hurt our feelings.  If you're a brand that is interested in partnering with us, please reach out to [email protected] Join the Garden  Submit your Confessions Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright Music by Hotham Stream: https://linktr.ee/hothammusic Free Download: https://hypeddit.com/hotham/tranquilt... Free Download: https://hypeddit.com/hotham/latenight...

Being self-aware is great, until it not. How do you know when your self-awareness is helping you versus when it’s harming you? This question and others that are explored in this episode will help you check your own self-awareness, so you can feel empowered as you learn more about yourself.  If you're a brand that is interested in partnering with us, please reach out to [email protected] Join the Garden  Submit your Confessions Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright Ordinary Runners - Durham Run Club Music by Hotham Stream: https://linktr.ee/hothammusic

Sometimes getting back at someone can feel good, but is it worth it?  If you're a brand that is interested in partnering with us, please reach out to [email protected] Join the Garden  Submit your Confessions Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright Music by Hotham Stream: https://linktr.ee/hothammusic Free Download: https://hypeddit.com/hotham/tranquilt... Free Download: https://hypeddit.com/hotham/latenight.

What do the thoughts of wanting to be good enough, embracing the feeling of limbos in your late 20s, and giving yourself more credit all have in common? They’re all experiences that we feel, but rarely share out publicly today, we’re normalizing sharing what we would write in a private journal to a public forum. You ready? If you're a brand that is interested in partnering with us, please reach out to [email protected] Join the Garden  Submit your Confessions Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright Music by Hotham Stream: https://linktr.ee/hothammusic Free Download: https://hypeddit.com/hotham/tranquilt... Free Download: https://hypeddit.com/hotham/latenight..

Would you want other people to hear your inner voice? If your answer to that question was no, then that means you need to change how to speak to yourself. How does that change happen? We explore that question and more within this weeks episode. Bring your shovel and some gloves, we are putting your inner critic to rest.  If you're a brand that is interested in partnering with us, please reach out to [email protected] Join the Garden  Submit your Confessions Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright Music by Hotham Stream: https://linktr.ee/hothammusic Free Download: https://hypeddit.com/hotham/tranquilt... Free Download: https://hypeddit.com/hotham/latenight...

How do you tell your perfectionism and overthinking ways to simply fxxk off? It's simple and begins with you saying, "I am okay if something is just good enough". If you can't say that without cringing, you're in the right place. Let's embrace mistakes, together. If you're a brand that is interested in partnering with us, please reach out to [email protected] Join the Garden  Submit your Confessions Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright Music by Hotham Stream: https://linktr.ee/hothammusic

Why do most of us feel uncomfortable when were by ourselves? Is it the fear of being alone, is it the fear of not being wanted, or is it simply the desire to feel excitement in doing something? I know for certain that you already have the answer to your questions, you just need to explore it. So, lets explore them together, shall we. Connect with Lydia If you're a brand that is interested in partnering with us, please reach out to [email protected] Join the Garden  Submit your Confessions Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright Music by Hotham Stream: https://linktr.ee/hothammusic Free Download: https://hypeddit.com/hotham/tranquilt... Free Download: https://hypeddit.com/hotham/latenight...

What if I told you, your life could be easier and happier by simply focusing on small changes and not the big changes? Would you believe me? I guess you have the tune into the episode and try out the strategies I shared to see if your life does indeed become easier and happier. *hint hint* it will If you're a brand that is interested in partnering with us, please reach out to [email protected] Join the Garden  Submit your Confessions Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright Music by Hotham Stream: https://linktr.ee/hothammusic

What's more embarrassing, you allowing someone to disrespect you because you feel uncomfortable saying no or just simply saying no to that person? This episode is all about boundaries. What are boundaries, what are boundaries not, and how do you set them? By the end of the episode, you will be ready to have tough conversations to create healthier relationships with yourself and others. If you're a brand that is interested in partnering with us, please reach out to [email protected] Join the Garden  Submit your Confessions Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright Music 1. Chill With Me by tubebackr is licensed under a Creative Commons License. 2. Sunset Drive by Hotham is licensed under a Creative Commons License.

Trauma can make you feel angry, helpless, and hopeless. But, what if I told you that you still have power after experiencing a traumatizing experience? Let's unlock this power together as I share strategies that I am using to process my own trauma and humanize myself, again. If you're a brand that is interested in partnering with us, please reach out to [email protected] Join the Garden  Submit your Confessions Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright

We hear all the time about how to make a friend, but what if you’re trying to end a friendship? How do you do that? In this episode, Lydia shares the most obvious to the less obvious signs that your friend is not really your friend  and how can you end the friendship with confidence? Through personal stories, reflection questions, and some jokes in between, you’ll be sure to look at your friend circle differently after this conversation. Social Content If you're a brand that is interested in partnering with us, please reach out to [email protected] Join the Garden  Submit your Confessions Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalrightInstagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright

Have you taken time this week to ask yourself, "How am I feeling?" If not, take this moment to disconnect from the chaos of the world and reflect with me. I share 3 reflection questions that center around your goals and your emotions. So are you ready to sit down and start reflecting? Join the Garden  Submit your Confessions Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright

"People do not care as much as you think they do" - said someone who does not have the fear of being perceived How do you stop caring about people's opinions, where did this fear come from, and how do you quiet it? All of these questions will be answered and by the end of the episode, you will ask yourself: Do I dare to be seen? If you're a brand that is interested in collaborating, email us at [email protected] Join the Garden  Submit your Confessions Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright

Adult friendships. When you read those two words, did you sigh right after? *BIG SIGH* The question we need to ask ourselves is, is it really difficult to make friends as an adult or am I just unclear about what I want in an adult friendship? From putting yourself out there, to finding a balance between your romantic relationship and your platonic relationships, to finding your ideal friend and nurturing that relationship: it is a lot to juggle and think about. And yet, making friends as an adult is worth it. Why? Well, friend to friend, let's chat and tell me your opinion after this conversation. Join the Garden  Submit your Confessions Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright If you're a brand that is interested in working with us, reach out to [email protected]

You are not far behind in life, you are right where you need to be. If you don't believe it, ask yourself, "Where do I expect myself to be?" This question and more are explored in this episode to remind you to refocus, reflect, and recognize that you're right where you need to be. Join the Garden  Submit your Confessions Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright

You have to speak up for yourself. It is no longer an option to stay quiet. When we use our voice, we discover so much about ourselves and others. I know it can be nerve-wrecking to speak up and I know how empowering it feels to use your voice. Are you ready to use your voice or will you stay silent? Join the Garden ⁠Submit your Confessions⁠ Tiktok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright⁠ Instagram:⁠ https://instagram.com/letstalkalright⁠ Mindfulness can reduce pain by 50% Don't believe me? Try a 7-day free trial below. https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/R5OJER

It's not that you don't know how to be yourself; It's the fact that you're pretending to be someone you are not, to be liked by others. To be yourself is to be honest and accept all parts of yourself, even when it is changing. So, instead of searching for articles on Google titled, "Ways to discover how to be yourself", what if you tried to search from within? I wonder what you would find there. Connect with Lydia: Ask Your Questions Here! Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright Become More Mindful + Find Peace  https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/R5OJER Brands, are you interested in partnering with me? Please email [email protected]

In this very short episode, I remind myself and my listeners that you get to decide what the end of the year means to you. Yes, the holidays are here and yes, you may feel pressure to act or do certain things. I am challenging you to stop, reflect, and ask yourself, "What does the end of the year mean to me?" Thank you all for tuning in this 2023. It has been great to grow an audience of listeners who love the podcast. If you have any suggestions, please be sure to send me a message on my socials. Thank you for allowing me to be myself and I appreciate you all for wanting better for yourself. We are a community of learners and folks who want to feel proud of their lives. I am proud of you and I am so happy you are here. Thank you for being you. Until 2024, ciao! Join the Garden  Submit your Confessions Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright

Does this statement ring a bell? "You should be grateful for this, because other people do not have that". In this episode, we are defining what gratitude is for ourselves and not the traditional way that gratitude has been explained to us. If you struggle with identifying why you are grateful or you simply want to redefine what gratitude looks like for you, we will explore that and more in this episode. By the end of the episode, you will feel empowered, feel ready to live within your values, and have a different perspective on gratitude. Join the Garden  Submit your Confessions Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright

I need you to show yourself kindness and compassion this year! You have made it to the end of 2023 and that should be celebrated. In this episode, I share reasons why you should be proud of yourself so that by the end of the episode, you are ready to reflect, proud love into yourself and others who have helped you have an amazing year. Join the Garden Submit your Confessions Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright

The holidays are right around the corner. Instead of forcing yourself to go to an event, instead of pushing down how you feel to maintain the peace for others, this holiday season will be about you. How? Because, by the end of this episode, you will have a strategy, a talk track, and an intentional goal on how you will maintain your peace. Are you ready to be in charge of your emotions and not hand them over to others?

When I used to think of self-love, I thought I had to spend money. I thought I could dislike my past self and only like my present self. Until I realized that, that is not self-love. Self-love is being reflective. Self-love is being intentional. Self-love is about discovering who I am as a person and my values. Let's be intentional together and define what self-love means to use by answering a few questions from WNRS: Self-Love deck. By the end of this episode, you might even want to kiss yourself Links Submit your Confessions Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright WNRS: Self-Love Kit

When I thought about the past, I would cringe. I felt embarrassed and that led me to avoid my past; however, I could no longer avoid the past when destructive patterns kept showing up in my relationships, in my communication style, and in how I viewed myself. In this episode, I share how we can take our power back when we think about the past. Why do we avoid the past? What are we missing when we do not explore the past? These two questions and more are explored within the episode. Links for Podcast Submit your Confessions Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright

We always hear people say "Mind your Business", but we never talk about the consequences of not minding your business. In this episode, I explore the reason why most of us do not mind our business and the consequences that arise from this behavior. At the end of the episode, you get to make the choice. Do you want to continue to be nosy or do you want to change?

Do you ever feel like you never have enough time? Do you ever rush your decision-making because you feel like the decision has to be made RIGHT now? I have felt like this for years and I can finally say, I have been freed from the mindset that I do not have enough time. In this episode, I share strategies and mindset tips and shifts into how to view time as a currency, so you can invest your time into things that you value, that help you reach your goals, and that push you to where you want to be. So are you ready to take your power and time back? Links Submit your Confessions Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright

The question, “How to be yourself” seems simple to answer; and yet, most of us go through our lives wearing a mask and never showcasing others what is underneath.  In this episode, I share how I was able to take parts of my mask off so that you can take off your mask and come back to yourself. Within the conversation, we will explore how compassion, forgiveness, and simply having a hobby can help you learn how to be yourself. So, instead of searching for the answers on Google, you start searching for the answers within yourself. (You have all the answers you need <3) Links Submit your Confessions Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright

What can you do when you are experiencing imposter syndrome? In this episode, your favorite homegirl Lydia explores the feelings that cause us to feel like imposters, poses questions to reframe your mindset on imposter syndrome, and shares a strategy that has helped her overcome her own imposter syndrome. At the end of this episode, you will walk away feeling loved, validated, and confident in tackling imposter syndrome. Are you ready to try something new? Submit your Confession: Click here Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright Tiktok: tiktok.com/@letstalkalright If you are a sponsor interested in supporting the podcast, reach out to [email protected]

I have been having a rough few weeks, mentally and emotionally. My usual pattern is to feed the chaos and anxiety. Instead, I am taking a moment to reflect and ground myself. Come ground yourself with me! In this episode, I share 3 reflection questions that center around love, affirmations, and acceptance. At the end of the episode, I am confident that you will feel empowered, more connected to yourself, and ready to be more intentional about your actions. Send in your confessions 1. https://forms.gle/GzuQFXrEiHKyYtuA6 Follow Lydia Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright IG: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright We Are Not Really Strangers 1. https://www.werenotreallystrangers.com/products/self-reflection-kit If you are a sponsor interested in supporting the podcast, email [email protected]

The ability to believe that you can change your life is critical for personal growth and healing and yet, when we are posed with different information, some of us close up and will not listen. In this bonus episode, your favorite homegirl Lydia talks about the process of believing you can change your life. She provides 3 examples that have helped her manage her anxiety and combat fears in communication. The question is, Do you want change or do you want attention? LINKS BJ FOGG Free 5-day Program to create a new habit https://tinyhabits.com/join/ Instagram https://instagram.com/letstalkalright Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright

Forgiving others is difficult when we are unable to forgive ourselves. So how do we start the journey to forgiveness? In this episode, your favorite homegirl Lydia explores why we hold grudges, and why holding grudges can be detrimental to our emotional well-being and personal growth. She ends the episode by discussing the transformative power of forgiveness, in not just forgiving others but also forgiving ourselves. SUBMIT YOUR CONFESSION https://forms.gle/F1r2FVUx6EgmJxuE7 JOIN THE COMMUNITY Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright

In a world consumed by thoughts of the future, we often find ourselves trapped in the cycle of anxiety and disappointment. How do we get out of the future trap? In this episode, your favorite homegirl Lydia explores the detrimental effects of fixating on the future, offering insights into how such thinking patterns can rob us of the joy and experiences available to us right now. At the end of the episode, Lydia shares mindfulness practices and cognitive strategies that will help you cultivate a sense of gratitude for the present. Remember, your path to a more content and fulfilled life begins with being present – right here, right now. SUBMIT YOUR CONFESSIONS/QUESTIONS https://forms.gle/uW2AV6QBtLE7Pcec8 JOIN THE COMMUNITY Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright

How do you feel about your birthday? This question can make some of us feel anxious or excited. My question is why? In this episode, your favorite homegirl Lydia gets real about why we can feel disappointed on our birthdays and how we can change our mindset to have the best birthday ever. If you're not going to celebrate yourself, then who will? SUBMIT YOUR CONFESSIONS HERE https://forms.gle/gzQc5UzfRBfRFA1C9 Socials: JOIN THE COMMUNITY Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright

Why are adults so miserable? This question has been wondered by children, teenagers, and adults for years on end. In this episode, your favorite homegirl Lydia gets real about why getting out of your comfort zone as an adult is agonizing, why temporary discomfort is better than long-term dissatisfaction, and how we can use our discomfort as a guide to success. Through personal stories and humor, Lydia ends the episode with a question, so that once the podcast is done, the work begins. SUBMIT YOUR CONFESSIONS OR QUESTIONS HERE https://forms.gle/G2MUirWm7UX6S5Pe6 Join the Community Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright

When you are resting, how do you feel and what do you think about yourself? For most of us, when we are resting, we may experience guilt. Why do we feel guilty when we relax and how can we eliminate this guilty so rest can become enjoyable? Of course, it all starts from within. In this episode, your homegirl Lydia shares how she is challenging herself to no longer feel guilty while she relaxing. She explores the root cause of our guilt and how we can challenge our own beliefs to create more balanced ones. At the end of the episode, Lydia poses the listener with a question so that once the episode ends, the work can begin.  Start your 7-day free trial to train your mind, and change your life.   https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/R5OJER Join the Community 1. Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright 2. Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright

In the last three years, we have seen a rise in mental health advocates sharing the joys and wonders of therapy. Even with the media's acceptance of therapy, does that change how you view therapy? Do you want to go to therapy and you are not sure where to start? In this episode, your homegirl Lydia shares her experience with two different therapies and the reality of therapy. She explores what therapy is and what it is not, why everyone should go to therapy, and how cognitive behavioral and dialectical behavioral therapy has transformed her life for the better. As Lydia peels back the layers of therapy, she realizes that therapy can be the engine to change. The question is, are you ready for that change in your world? Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/letstalkalright/

We have all heard the saying; Assumptions make an ASS out of U and ME, so why do we continue to make them and how are they impacting the relationships we have with ourselves and with others? In this episode, your homegirl Lydia unpacks why we make assumptions, how they can help and harm our intimate relationships, and how making assumptions are an indicator of us trying to maintain control in situations that are not in our control. As Lydia shares her challenges in breaking out of the cycle of assuming, she realizes that to end the cycle of assuming, it starts a new cycle. The cycle of self-awareness and self-love. Join the Community Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/letstalkalright/ Community Shoutout https://www.depop.com/shophardwear/

Most of us value being honest with our friends and families, but sometimes our honesty can do more harm than good. So, how can you communicate your honesty with the people around you? In this episode, your homegirl Lydia gets brutal with brutal honesty. Have you said or have heard someone say, "I am just being brutally honest" or "You just can't handle the truth"? Lydia explores how being brutally honest gives us insight into who we are as individuals and how we treat ourselves. Lydia shares her own stories and questions to combat being brutally honest so that once the episode is done, the work begins. Join the Community Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/letstalkalright/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright

On this episode, your homegirl Lydia gets real about ruminating thoughts. Do you get fixated on what could've, should've, would've happened? Do you replay situations in your head? Lydia shares her personal stories on how she got out of her head and started to live in the present. Throughout the episode, Lydia shares reflective questions, so that the community can begin the work once the episode is done. Join the community and tune in every Thursday to laugh and learn more ways to live an intentional life. Lets Connect IG: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Email: [email protected] Community Shout-Out Psalm Olivia 1. IG: https://www.instagram.com/psalmsolivia_/ 2. Go Fund Me: https://www.gofundme.com/f/pursuing-my-dreams-of-becoming-a-backup-dancer

Most of us put a lot of effort into our intimate relationships, but how many of us put effort into the relationship that we have with ourselves? On this episode, your homegirl Lydia gets real about her self-love journey through singleness! Are you a chronic-dater? Do you struggle with being alone? Do you have a critical self-voice? Lydia shares 3 lessons that she has learned by being single, along with personal stories to provide the community with self-reflective questions, so that once the episode is done, the work begins. Join the community and tune in every Thursday to laugh and learn more ways to live an intentional life! Let's connect Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/letstalkalright/ Shout-Out Hall of Fame 1. Be Bakery: Vegan Bakery in Durham/Raleigh, North Carolina Follow on instagram @https://www.instagram.com/bebakery.llc/

Hey y'all! Welcome to the trailer episode of Rewriting the Narrative. Rewriting the Narrative is a brave space for black men and women who are ready to embrace change and may not know where to start or may need encouragement to know they are moving in the right direction. My goal is to provide emotional support and a non-judgment approach on topics that may have caused us to shut down if discussed with our family and friends. These topics are self-worth, healthy relationships, setting boundaries, self-love, and living an intentional and authentic life. If you are ready to join a community of people who are reflective, who are intentional, and who are brave enough to say, "I am ready for change", then join the party and don't leave! We are here for a good time AND a long time. Let's chat! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/letstalkalright/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright Join the Spotify Party: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2WV3wfWDIWvOrC33XLajnV?si=24a5b0992db64253

When you are experiencing emotions other than happiness, what do you do with those emotions? Do you ignore those emotions? Do those emotions bring you shame or guilt? If you are used to people in your life telling you, "Just think positivity, everything will work out" or you tell yourself, "I shouldn't be angry, I should be happy", you are engaging in toxic positivity. In this episode, your homegirl Lydia shares her experience in suppressing her emotions through toxic positivity. She explores what toxic positivity is, how it can suppress our ability to feel other emotions, and why feeling emotions that are not positive is needed to have a deeper relationship with ourselves and others. At the end of the episode, Lydia poses the listener with a question so that once the episode ends, the work can begin. Start your 7-day free trial to train your mind, and change your life.  https://mindfulnesscom-partner-program.pxf.io/R5OJER Join the Community 1. Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@letstalkalright 2. Instagram: https://instagram.com/letstalkalright