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Show Notes Are you coming to the 2026 Pray Without Ceasing Conference? I would love to see you! Grab your tickets here: 2026 Pray Without Ceasing Conference in Buena Park, CA Episode Overview What if the reason you feel distant from God, depleted, and off-center as a leader has nothing to do with your faith — and everything to do with your first hour? In this episode, we are talking about something that sounds simple but changes everything: establishing a routine of quietness. Not a productivity hack. Not a five-step morning checklist. A deliberate, daily practice of slowing down so you can actually hear God speak. Because here is the truth: if you want to know what to do with your life, with your leadership, with your family — slow down. God will tell you. But you have to make the space to hear Him. And most of us aren't doing that. God is not optional. He is not a last resort you call on when things fall apart. He is a Father who wants to be in a relationship with you every single day — starting with the first moments of your morning. The 2020 Wake-Up Call In 2020, I had a seven-month-old and a three-year-old. I remember standing in the store staring at an empty shelf — no diapers, no wipes — holding my baby and feeling like I couldn't breathe. Full panic. That moment showed me something: I had been professing faith but not building it. I had only been going to God when I needed rescuing — not in the quiet, ordinary seasons. Don't wait for a crisis to build the relationship. Start now. God Is Not Like Your Earthly Father He knew you before you were born. (Jeremiah 1:5) You don't have to earn His love. He chose you before you did anything. He gives good gifts — freely. "How much more will your heavenly Father give good gifts to those who ask him." — Matthew 7:11 (NLT) And if your father left — God adopts. "Although my father and my mother have abandoned me, yet the Lord will take me up." — Psalms 27:10 (AMP) "Father to the fatherless — this is God, whose dwelling is holy." — Psalms 68:5 (NLT) "Fear not, for I am with you… I will strengthen you, I will help you." — Isaiah 41:10 (NKJV) Come to Him with your whole heart — wounds and all. He can hold all of it. Write the Vision First Before you build a routine, get clear on what you're building toward. "Write the vision and make it plain." — Habakkuk 2:2 (NKJV) Ask yourself: If your routine was already established, what does tomorrow look like? What is different about you? Then ask God to give you the strategy. He knows your season better than your calendar does. Just Start  Can you give God 15 focused minutes? Then start there. Don't fall for all-or-nothing thinking — "If I can't give God an hour it's not worth it." That is a lie that keeps you from starting at all. "Those who seek me early and diligently will find me." — Proverbs 8:17 (AMP) He is not hard to find. If you seek Him, you will find Him.  My Morning Routine Deep breathing to slow down and arrive Prayer — honest and conversational Bible reading and a book Highlighting and journaling as I go Worship music in the background to welcome God into the atmosphere Build yours around what works for your season. Ask God what it should look like. Routine Is Order — Order Takes Discipline "If you reject discipline, you only harm yourself; but if you listen to correction, you grow in understanding." — Proverbs 15:32 (NLT) A morning routine is not a productivity habit. It is  spiritual order. It is saying: God, You are first — before my phone, my to-do list, and the noise of the day. That decision, made consistently, will change who you are. "I love those who love me; and those who seek me early and diligently will find me." — Proverbs 8:17 (AMP) This Week's Challenge Pick your start time — what is actually realistic for your life right now? Write down what 15–30 minutes with God looks like for you. Show up tomorrow and let it begin. Resources: Ep 11 | The Neurodivergent Leader Connect With Us 2026 Pray Without Ceasing Conference Merch: www.praywithoutceasingmerch.com  Email: [email protected] Instagram: @AudreyTShelby

Episode Overview Want to continue this conversation in person? We would love to have you join us at the 2026 Pray Without Ceasing Conference on August 15th in Buena Park, CA. It's a beautiful day set aside just for women who are ready to grow deeper in prayer, faith, and purpose. We hope to see you there. Register today! In this episode, we are taking a hard, honest look at one of the most talked-about topics in leadership today: burnout. But we are not going to hand you a five-step productivity plan or tell you to book a vacation. We are going deeper than that. Because if you feel out of balance, the first question to ask is not "what do I need to cut from my schedule?" It is "Am I out of order?" Balance is not something that happens to you. It is something you build — intentionally, daily — by putting the things of God first. And when that order gets disrupted, it can feel chaotic. Key Scriptures Matthew 6:33 (NKJV) "But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you." James 5:7–11 (AMP) Be patient, then, brothers and sisters, until the Lord’s coming. See how the farmer waits for the land to yield its valuable crop, patiently waiting for the autumn and spring rains. You too, be patient and stand firm, because the Lord’s coming is near.  Don’t grumble against one another, brothers and sisters, or you will be judged. The Judge is standing at the door! Brothers and sisters, as an example of patience in the face of suffering, take the prophets who spoke in the name of the Lord. As you know, we count as blessed those who have persevered. You have heard of Job’s perseverance and have seen what the Lord finally brought about. The Lord is full of compassion and mercy. John 15:5 (NLT) "Yes, I am the vine; you are the branches. Those who remain in me, and I in them, will produce much fruit. For apart from me you can do nothing." The Reality: Burnout Is a Leadership Crisis The data is sobering — and we are not going to look away from it: 56–70% of C-suite executives are experiencing burnout or are at serious risk of it ~40% are considering quitting their role because of it 47% report that burnout has negatively impacted their personal relationships Most cite 60–80+ hour workweeks as the primary driver of their collapse This is not just a corporate problem. It is happening in ministries, churches, nonprofits, and faith-based organizations, too.  But here is where this conversation goes in a different direction than most: the solution is not just rest, boundaries, or a better morning routine. Those things matter. But if God has been quietly squeezed out of your daily life by the sheer busyness of your commitments as a leader — you are not just burned out. You are out of order. And that requires a different kind of fix. The Truth About Balance Balance is intentional. It does not happen by accident. If you feel out of balance, before you reorganize your calendar — check your order. The sequence matters more than the schedule. Endurance Is Not Just Physical The opposite of endurance is not rest. It is burnout. When we hear the word endurance, most of us think of the physical — eating right, exercising, getting enough sleep. And those things matter deeply. Your body is the vessel God uses to carry out His work in the world. Steward it well. But real endurance operates on three levels: Physical Endurance Eat right. Exercise. Rest. You cannot lead well from a place of depletion. You cannot pour what is not in you. Physical stewardship is not vanity — it is obedience. Spiritual Endurance This is the one most leaders sacrifice first — and it costs the most. Remain in the vine (John 15:5). Apart from God, you can do nothing — and that includes leading your family, your team, and your organization well. When you cut your time with God to make more time for other things, you have confused the trunk for the branches.  Mental Endurance: Renew your mind daily. Guard your thoughts intentionally. Be selective about what you read, who you listen to, and what voices get the most access to your inner world. Your mind is a battlefield — and neglecting it is not neutral. The Warning We Cannot Ignore "We cannot let the busyness of our commitments as leaders squeeze God out of our lives. If we do, we will look up one day and be completely off track — out of alignment with the very God we are trying to serve." Job endured. The prophets endured. And the Lord was kind to Job at the end — because the Lord is full of tenderness and mercy (James 5:11). Your season of endurance is not punishment. It is preparation. The harvest is coming. But you have to stay in the vine long enough to see it. This Week's Challenge — Audit Your Order, Not Your Schedule Before you change what you are doing, change the sequence in which you are doing it. Write down your actual daily routine — then ask honestly: where does God appear in it? Is He first, or is He what is left after everything else is done? Identify one specific thing God has been asking you to do that you keep pushing to the end of the day, delaying, or avoiding. Do that thing first tomorrow. Before email. Before meetings. Before social media. Before everything else. Remain in the vine. Abide. Produce fruit from a place of rest and connection — not hustle and depletion. Balance will follow order. Fruit will follow abiding. Endurance will follow trust. Stop calling it burnout and start asking what got out of order. The answer might change everything. Connect with Us Email: [email protected] Instagram: @AudreyTShelby W: www.praywithoutceasingministries.com  

Show Notes Episode Overview Join us for the 2026 Pray Without Ceasing Conference in Buena Park, CA Healing doesn't just happen — it takes intentional work, attention, effort, and time. In this episode, we challenge you to take one brave step toward wholeness today. Using Philippians 2:12 as our anchor, we explore what it looks like to actively pursue healing across every area of your life — spiritually, emotionally, mentally, and physically. Key Scripture Philippians 2:12 (AMP) "So then, my dear ones, just as you have always obeyed [my instructions with enthusiasm], not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence, continue to work out your salvation [that is, cultivate it, bring it to full effect, actively pursue spiritual maturity] with awe-inspired fear and trembling [using serious caution and critical self-evaluation to avoid anything that might offend God or discredit the name of Christ]." Matthew 4:4 "Man shall not live by bread alone." What We Cover in This Episode Healing takes intentional work. We're resisting the thought that says "I don't have time for this" or "I'll start when I'm ready." What does readiness actually look like? If not being ready means continuing to walk around broken, is that really the alternative you want? We encourage you to be brave and start one thing today. God wants us whole. Healing isn't optional maintenance — it's God's desire for every area of your life. Where should I start? Start where you struggle the most. Ask yourself honestly: Are you struggling with submitting to authority, frustrated with leadership, and resistant to direction? Are you battling depression, wanting the abundant life Jesus speaks of, but feeling stuck in the same dark pit? Are you dealing with low self-worth, allowing poor boundaries, and undervaluing yourself? The Investment Framework: Learn · Practice · Grow Just as you go to school or learn a trade to grow in your career, invest the same intentionality into your healing. Learn — Seek out resources, voices, and wisdom that speak to your specific areas of struggle. Practice — The more you learn and practice, the stronger your skills will be. Grow — Personal and spiritual growth don't happen by accident. You have to focus on them. Working out your salvation (Philippians 2:12) is the same principle. The more you invest in your healing, the stronger and more secure you will be — spiritually, emotionally, and mentally. This Week's Challenge Take a moment this week to ask God: "What do You want me to focus on right now?" "What do You want me to read?" "Who do You want me to listen to?" "Where are You calling me to grow?" Then — listen, obey, and invest in your healing. Here's to the journey. Don't worry about the destination — just enjoy the trip.    Connect With Us Have a question or want to share how this episode spoke to you? We'd love to hear from you. Reach out at [email protected] and follow us on social media for more encouragement for the whole woman @AudreyTShelby 

SHOW NOTES   Episode Overview Have you ever found yourself redoing someone else's work because it just wasn't done your way? Or maybe you're the leader who needs to be copied on every email, approve every decision, and stay five steps ahead of everything — just to feel okay? We need to talk. In this episode, we're getting honest about one of the most common — and most unexamined — patterns in leadership: the need to control. We're pulling back the curtain on where it really comes from, what it costs us and the people we lead, and how God is inviting us into something so much better than white-knuckling our way through. Anchor Scripture "Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life… But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well." Matthew 6:25-34 (NIV) What We Cover in This Episode The root of control — Spoiler: it's not strength. At its core, controlling behavior is fear and anxiety dressed up in a power suit. We mask it as confidence or "knowing what we want," but underneath, something else is driving the bus. We break down three root causes: fear of exposure, anxiety management, and a deep trust deficit.  Control as a coping mechanism — For many of us, the need to control everything around us didn't start at work. It started much earlier. Control creates predictability when life has been unpredictable. It gives us a sense of power when we've felt powerless. Understanding this doesn't excuse it — but it does open the door to healing. How to know if you're a controlling leader — We walk through the key signs: difficulty delegating, constant monitoring, caring more about your process than the actual results, a team that can't make a move without your approval, and low morale that nobody seems to be able to explain. Do you trust God with your job? — This might be the question that stops you in your tracks. We get vulnerable about what it looks like when things get hard and we start running — and what God might actually be doing in the pressure instead. Scriptures Referenced Matthew 6:25-34 — Do Not Worry (anchor scripture) Romans 8:6 (NLT) — "Letting the Spirit control your mind leads to life and peace." Proverbs 21:1 — God directs the steps of leaders Key Takeaways Control is not a leadership style — it's a fear response. You can be in charge without being in control. Those are two very different things. If you're controlling at work, it's showing up at home too. It's worth asking God to reveal every area where this pattern lives. Healing is not optional for leaders — it's the work. Not perfection. Wholeness. God has not forgotten you, your team, your ministry, or your future. Rest in that. Reflection Questions Where in my leadership am I trying to control outcomes that belong to God? Is there a hard season I've been running from instead of leaning into? Who on my team have I not trusted enough — and what would it look like to change that? What coping mechanisms did I develop long before I ever had a leadership title? Connect With Us Have a question or want to share how this episode spoke to you? We'd love to hear from you. Reach out at [email protected] and follow us on social media for more encouragement for the whole leader @AudreyTShelby   

Show Notes Episode Overview What does it actually look like to lead with God at the center? In this episode, we get real about what it means to honor God in your role as a leader — not just in theory, but in the hard, messy, everyday moments. Because how you lead is a reflection of who you belong to.   In This Episode, We Cover: Integrity as a Foundation Your faith isn’t just personal — it shows up in how you handle responsibility, resources, and the trust people place in you. Integrity isn’t optional for the God-honoring leader. When you’re connected to God, you have access to wisdom and creativity that goes beyond your own understanding. Your spiritual growth directly benefits the organization you serve. Discretion & Discernment ∙ People will confide in you. Be someone who can be trusted with that. ∙ Not everything you know needs to be said. Stop the information leaks that cause strife and panic. ∙ Gossiping — being a part of it or just a witness to it — is off the table. Apart from God, We Can Do Nothing We close out with a reminder that’s both humbling and freeing: our fruitfulness as leaders isn’t self-produced. We are branches. He is the vine.   Scriptures Referenced: “Work willingly at whatever you do, as though you were working for the Lord rather than for people.” — Colossians 3:23 NLT “Yes, I am the vine; you are the branches. Those who remain in me, and I in them, will produce much fruit. For apart from me you can do nothing.” — John 15:5 NLT  "When it was time for the harvest, Cain presented some of his crops as a gift to the Lord. Abel also brought a gift—the best portions of the firstborn lambs from his flock. The Lord accepted Abel and his gift, but he did not accept Cain and his gift. This made Cain very angry, and he looked dejected.  “Why are you so angry?” the Lord asked Cain. “Why do you look so dejected?  You will be accepted if you do what is right. But if you refuse to do what is right, then watch out! Sin is crouching at the door, eager to control you. But you must subdue it and be its master.” — Genesis 4:3-7 Key Takeaway God-honoring leadership isn’t a title or a style — it’s a daily surrender. When your spiritual life is growing, the people around you benefit. Your team, your organization, your community all get the overflow of a leader who is rooted in Christ. Want to continue this conversation in person? We would love to have you join us at the 2026 Pray Without Ceasing Conference on August 15th in Buena Park, CA. It's a beautiful day set aside just for women who are ready to grow deeper in prayer, faith, and purpose. We hope to see you there. Register today!   Connect with Us: Website: www.praywithoutceasingministries.com Instagram | @AudreyTShelby Email: [email protected] If this episode blessed you, share it with a leader in your life — and don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review!

SHOW NOTES Join us for the 2026 Pray Without Ceasing Conference in Buena Park, CA Episode Overview In this episode, we dive deep into what it truly means to seek God — not casually or occasionally, but wholeheartedly. Whether you're a leader navigating tough decisions, someone feeling distant from God, or simply looking to grow in your faith, this episode is your reminder that God is near. We explore practical ways to pursue God daily and why staying focused on His presence changes everything. Key Topics Covered Seeking God with Your Whole Heart — What does it actually mean to seek God, and what does Scripture promise to those who do? Drawing Near to God — If we prioritize Him, He will prioritize us. The relationship is mutual. Practical Ways to Seek Him — Prayer, fasting, and reading your Bible aren't just religious habits — they're lifelines. The Power of Paying Attention — Are you watching for God daily? Listening for His instruction? We break down why attentiveness to God leads to life and favor. Quieting Yourself Before God — Especially for leaders: not every challenge has a quick fix. Some situations require stillness, surrender, and waiting on the Lord. Stop Getting Distracted, Stay Focused — In a noisy world, focus is a spiritual discipline. Scriptures Referenced 📖 Jeremiah 29:13 — "You will seek me and find me, when you seek me with all your heart." — Read it here 📖 Lamentations 3:25 — "The Lord is good to those who wait for him, to the soul who seeks him." — Read it here 📖 1 Chronicles 16:11 — "Seek the Lord and his strength; seek his presence continually!" — Read it here 📖 Psalm 145:18 — "The Lord is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." — Read it here 📖 Proverbs 8:33–36 — "Listen to my instruction and be wise. Don't ignore it. Joyful are those who listen to me, watching for me daily at my gates, waiting for me outside my home! For whoever finds me finds life and receives favor from the Lord. But those who miss me injure themselves. All who hate me love death." — Read it here Key Takeaway To whom much is given, much is required. As a leader — in your home, your workplace, your community — you will face situations that keep you up at night. The answer isn't always found in strategy or hustle. Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is be still, seek God, and wait. He is faithful to those who watch for Him. Want More? Listen to Ep 2| Leading at Full Capacity: Inviting God into Your Leadership If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who needs the reminder to seek God today. Don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and come back next week for more. Email: [email protected] 📱 Instagram:@AudreyTShelby 🌐 Website: www.praywithoutceasingministries.com 🎙️ Leave a Review: Apple Podcasts

Join us for the 2026 Pray Without Ceasing Conference in Buena Park, CA Episode Overview Peace sounds simple — until life gets loud. In this episode, we dig into a comforting promise Jesus made: "Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid." (John 14:27) But if that promise is real, why do so many of us still feel anxious, drained, and restless? The problem isn't the promise — it's the barriers we build (often without realizing it) that keep us from receiving it.  In This Episode Barrier #1 — Guilt About Needing Alone Time We live in a culture that rewards busyness and equates constant availability with love and loyalty. But what happens when your soul desperately needs to be still and you feel selfish for wanting that? We explore why rest isn't a spiritual weakness — it's a necessity — and how guilt can quietly rob you of the very space where peace is found. Barrier #2 — Our Relationships With Other People Sometimes the people closest to us are the greatest source of our unrest. Conflict, unmet expectations, people-pleasing, and broken trust can make peace feel completely out of reach. We talk about what it looks like to hold onto God's peace even when our relationships are messy and unresolved. Barrier #3 — Not Being Able to Rest in Jesus' Peace This one is subtle but powerful: we can know the peace of Christ exists and still not fully receive it. Whether it's perfectionism, control, or just not knowing how to let go — we walk through why surrendering to peace can feel harder than it sounds, and what it practically looks like to stop striving and start trusting. Key Takeaway The peace Jesus offers isn't the absence of hard circumstances — it's a settled confidence in the middle of them. Fear doesn't have to have the final word. Reflection Questions Where in your life are you feeling the least at peace right now? Which of the three barriers resonates most with you? Are you carrying guilt about rest or quiet time? What would it look like to give yourself permission to slow down? Is there a relationship in your life that's disrupting your peace? How might you bring that before God this week? What's one small step you can take to practice resting in Jesus' peace — not just believing it exists, but actually receiving it? Scripture to Sit With This Week John 14:27 — "Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you..." Romans 12:18 — "If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone." Philippians 4:6-7 — "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition..." Matthew 11:28 — "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." Isaiah 26:3 — "You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you." Connect & Share If this episode spoke to you, share it with someone who needs a reminder that God's peace is for them — right now, exactly as they are. Don't forget to follow, leave a review, and reach out — we love hearing how these conversations are landing with you.   📧 Email: [email protected] 📱 Instagram:@AudreyTShelby 🌐 Website: www.praywithoutceasingministries.com 🎙️ Leave a Review: Apple Podcasts  

Episode Overview In this episode, we dive deep into the connection between unhealed trauma and the difficulty of setting healthy boundaries. If you've ever found yourself saying "yes" when you meant "no," over-extending for others at your own expense, or needing people's approval just to feel okay — this episode is for you. Join us for the 2026 Pray Without Ceasing Conference in Buena Park, CA   Key Topics Covered What Is a Trigger? A trigger is a signal pointing to unhealed trauma within you. Learning to recognize your triggers is the first step toward setting boundaries that protect your peace. People Pleasing & the Need for Validation There's a big difference between *wanting* to be liked and "needing" to be liked. One is a normal part of human connection — the other points to an unmet identity need that we're trying to fill through external sources. When we perform for acceptance, we block ourselves from the blessing of an authentic relationship. "No" Is a Full Sentence Every "yes" costs you something — your time, your energy, your family, your health. Before you commit, count the cost. If you're willing to invest, say yes wholeheartedly. If you're not, say no confidently — without fear. God will protect you. Examining Your Priorities Ask yourself honestly: What's at the center of your life? Where does God rank on your list? If He's third or fourth, don't be ashamed — acknowledge it and adjust. Ask God what needs to change and be open to what is revealed. Guard Your Heart You cannot perpetually step into someone else's job. There is other work for you to do — and when we're consumed with fixing things for others, it can distract us from what God is calling us toward. Scripture References - Proverbs 4:23 — Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life. - Matthew 6:33 — Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and He will give you everything you need. - 1 Thessalonians 4:11 — Make it your goal to live a quiet life, minding your own business and working with your hands. - Deuteronomy 32:8 — God established the boundaries of the peoples. *(See episode for commentary.) - Matthew 5:37 — Let your yes be yes and your no be no. - Psalm 18:2 — The Lord is my rock, my fortress, and my savior; my God is my rock, in whom I find protection. Reflection Questions - What is currently at the center of my life? - What's getting in the way of putting God first? - What takes up the majority of my attention? - What's on my plate that doesn't belong to me? - What would I let go of right now if I knew it wouldn't hurt anyone's feelings? Key Takeaways - Saying yes out of obligation chips away at your sense of self-worth. - You are just as important as everyone else. Your needs matter. - God is a God of order. Healthy boundaries honor that order in your life. - Chaos around you is often a sign that boundaries are missing or broken. - People-pleasing can be a symptom of a deeper fear. If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who needs it. Connect with Us Website: https://www.praywithoutceasingministries.com/  Merch: www.praywithoutceasingmerch.com  Questions? [email protected] Instagram: @AudreyTShelby

SHOW NOTES Episode Overview What does it mean to be neurodivergent — and how do you reconcile a diagnosis with your faith? In this episode, we sit down with Opal for an honest, encouraging conversation about navigating neurodiversity in the workplace, in leadership, and in your walk with God. Whether you've recently received a diagnosis, have been managing one for years, or simply want to better understand and support those around you — this episode is for you. What You'll Learn in This Episode What neurodiversity is and the most common types How to reconcile a neurodivergent diagnosis with your faith How to navigate conversations about neurodiversity with supervisors and in the workplace Practical systems and processes that actually help How to lead effectively when your brain works differently How prayer can be a powerful tool in this journey What Is Neurodiversity? Neurodiversity refers to the different ways a person's brain processes information. Common types include: Autism / Autism Spectrum Conditions ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) Dyscalculia Dyslexia Developmental Coordination Disorder (DCD) Scripture Reference Psalms 139:13-18 (NLT) "You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother's womb. Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex!..." https://bible.com/bible/116/psa.139.13-18.NLT Resources Mentioned ADHD Procrastination Tools That Actually Work: https://www.adhdspace.ca/blog/adhd-procrastination-tools-that-actually-work-why-chunking-helps-and-when-it-doesnt   Our Guest: Opal Wade-Allen Instagram: @opalescenteventdesign  Instagram: @msopaldoris Connect With Us 2026 Pray Without Ceasing Conference Merch: www.praywithoutceasingmerch.com  Email: [email protected] Instagram: @AudreyTShelby   If this episode blessed you, share it with someone who needs to hear it — and leave us a review!

Show Notes Perfection isn’t the goal — freedom is. In this episode, we unpack how perfectionism disguises itself as spiritual maturity while quietly pulling us away from our true identity in Christ. God never called us to perform for His love. Through Jesus, we are already made whole, redeemed, and complete. When we stop striving and start trusting, we discover joy, contentment, and the power of praying Scripture over our lives. Key Themes from This Episode Perfectionism vs. Redemption Perfectionism says: Do more. Don’t mess up. Try harder. Don’t let anyone see weakness. But Scripture says something radically different: “For by that one offering he forever made perfect those who are being made holy.” — Hebrews 10:12–14 (NLT) Through Christ’s finished work, we are perfected positionally even while we are being sanctified daily. Jesus already paid the price. We don’t add to the cross with our striving. You Are Complete in Christ “He has brought you into his own presence, and you are holy and blameless…” — Colossians 1:22 “You are complete through your union with Christ…” — Colossians 2:10 “God made you alive with Christ, for he forgave all our sins.” — Colossians 2:13 Our identity is not based on performance — it’s rooted in reconciliation. Faith pleases God — not flawlessness. “It is impossible to please God without faith…” — Hebrews 11:6 God rewards those who sincerely seek Him, not those who perform perfectly.        3.The Power of Praying Scripture Sometimes we don’t know what to pray. That’s when Scripture becomes our guide. Colossians 1:9–12 models powerful prayer: Ask for knowledge of God’s will. Ask for spiritual wisdom and understanding. Ask for strength and endurance. Ask for joy. Give thanks. Praying Scripture aligns our hearts with God’s will and shifts our focus from performance to partnership. If you loved this episode, try out Episode 08| How the Anxious Leader Finds Peace  Connect With Us We'd love to hear from you!  📧 Email: [email protected] 📱 Instagram:@AudreyTShelby 🌐 Website: www.praywithoutceasingministries.com 🎙️ Leave a Review: Apple Podcasts

Show Notes: Your inner circle can make or break you. Proverbs 11:14 says, "Without wise leadership, a nation falls; there is safety in having many advisers." But who's speaking into your leadership? In this episode, discover how to build your inner circle with people of faith and integrity, why you need a mentor outside your organization, and three practical steps to hear from God when you need direction most. Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek His will in all you do, and He will show you which path to take. What You'll Learn The 8 characteristics to look for in your inner circle Why external mentorship can be more effective than internal How Joshua led without his mentor Moses—and succeeded Three steps to hear from God: slow down, silence voices, rest Key Scripture Proverbs 11:14 (NLT) "Without wise leadership, a nation falls; there is safety in having many advisers." Proverbs 3:5-6 (NLT) Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek His will in all you do, and He will show you which path to take. Episode Highlights The Unexpected Mentorship Advice Why seeking a mentor outside your organization might be the best decision you make Building Your Inner Circle John Maxwell's 8 characteristics: creative, loyal, vision-aligned, wise, complementary gifts, influential, faithful, integrity-driven What Pleases the Lord? Joshua 1:8 and the three keys: constant meditation, actionable obedience, success through wisdom How to Hear From God Slow down - Take a day alone with God Silence other voices - Turn off the noise Rest - Sleep is a performance tool, not a luxury Key Takeaways ✅ Ask God to reveal who your true friends and trusted advisers are ✅ Seek a mentor who's been where you want to go ✅ You cannot do what God called you to do without God ✅ Rest isn't weakness—it's wisdom ✅ The call on your life is too great to be casual about relationships Action Steps Audit your inner circle - Are they leading you toward God or away? Find a mentor - Look for formal programs or pray for God's guidance Schedule a day alone - Slow down to hear from God Prioritize sleep - 81% of executives say it's underutilized Scripture References Proverbs 11:14, 15:22, 3:5-6 Joshua 1:8 James 1:22 Upcoming Event Pray Without Ceasing 2026 Conference 📅 August 15, 2026 📍 DoubleTree Hotel, Buena Park, CA 🎟️ Get Tickets Connect 📧 [email protected] 🌐 praywithoutceasingministries.com Share this episode with a leader who needs to hear it! #WiseCounsel #ChristianLeadership #Mentorship #BiblicalLeadership #PrayWithoutCeasing

Show Notes Are you leading while anxious? You're not alone. One in five adults battles anxiety, and as Christian women leaders, the weight of responsibility can feel crushing. In this episode, we're breaking down Philippians 4:4-9 into a practical, biblical prescription for finding peace in leadership: Prayer, Proper Thinking, and Proper Response. Plus, hear why the challenge you're facing might be exactly where God wants to meet you. The Executive Reality: 84% of executives say mental health impacts the bottom line Sleep and well-being are now recognized as core leadership tools Question: How are YOU protecting your bottom line? PART 1: PRAYER – Bring the Worry to God Why Prayer Works: Prayer isn't informing God (He already knows)—it's inviting Him into your day-to-day. Like catching up with your best friend, this step alone releases worry. Be Specific (Philippians 4:6): "Tell God what you need"—not just "God help me," but detailed, specific prayers. Tool: Mindful Journaling When you're too perplexed to pray: Write what's coming up in the moment Notice physical sensations (racing heart, sweating, fidgeting, breathing difficulty) Write without judgment—just observe PART 2: PROPER THINKING – Reality Testing Key Scriptures: Proverbs 23:7: As a person thinks, so they are Matthew 6:27: "Can worrying add a single hour to your life?" Galatians 6:9: Don't grow weary—you'll reap if you don't give up Sometimes the Prayer Changes: "God, if You won't remove this, help me bear it with grace and perseverance." The 8 Virtues Framework (Philippians 4:8): Paul tells us to fix our thoughts on what is: True – Ground yourself in reality, not catastrophizing Honorable Just Pure Lovely Commendable Excellent Praiseworthy Tool: Reality Testing (CBT Technique) When anxiety rises, ask yourself: What feelings are coming up right now? What's the actual worst-case scenario? What's the likelihood of this happening? What evidence supports this perspective? What's another way to look at this? PART 3: PROPER RESPONSE – Thanksgiving & Trust The Reframe: This Is an Opportunity God is trusting YOU with this problem. It's: An opportunity to practice faith A chance to apply what you've learned A way to reveal God's goodness to others A path to growth and spiritual maturity "Maybe you resonate with what I shared today. Maybe you lead a team member who does. Either way, anxiety doesn't have to be the boss. God is trusting you with this problem—not to crush you, but to grow you, to reveal His goodness through you, and to deepen your faith. The very thing you're anxious about might be the exact place God wants to meet you." Scripture References Philippians 4:4-9 (Main passage) Romans 5:3-5 (Trials build strength) Galatians 6:9 (Don't grow weary) Matthew 6:27 (Worrying adds nothing) Proverbs 3:6 (Seek His will) John 14:27 (My peace I leave with you) Resources Calm App Executive Survey Therapy: Psychology Today, BetterHelp, your insurance provider David Jeremiah Study Bible  Join us for the 2026 Pray Without Ceasing Conference, August 15, 2026 in Buena Park, Ca. Grab your tickets today  Connect with Us Website: https://www.praywithoutceasingministries.com/  Merch: www.praywithoutceasingmerch.com  Email: [email protected] Instagram: @AudreyTShelby

Show Notes In this powerful episode, host Audrey Shelby takes listeners on a journey to uncover their true identity beyond titles, roles, and achievements. If you've ever struggled with imposter syndrome, self-doubt, or felt like you're constantly chasing the next accomplishment to feel worthy, this episode is for you. Join us for the 2026 Pray Without Ceasing Conference, August 15, 2026 in Buena Park, Ca. Grab your tickets today  What You'll Learn Your Core Identity: Why understanding yourself as God's workmanship (Ephesians 2:10) changes everything Recognizing Imposter Syndrome: Common symptoms including self-doubt, perfectionism, fear of exposure, and negative self-talk The Battle for Your Mind: How to recognize that not every thought is your own and why the enemy targets your faith The CBT-Scripture Connection: How Cognitive Behavioral Therapy principles align with biblical truth about renewing your mind Finding Your Purpose: The simple but profound answer to "Why am I here?" Identifying Your Thieves: What's stealing your peace, joy, and confidence—and how to stop it Key Scriptures Referenced Ephesians 1 & 2 - Who we are in Christ and our spiritual blessings Ephesians 2:10 - We are His workmanship, created for good works John 10:10 - The thief comes to steal, kill, and destroy; Jesus came to give abundant life 2 Thessalonians 3:3 - The Lord is faithful and will protect you from the evil one Romans 12:2 - Be transformed by the renewing of your mind Psalm 91:4-7 - God's protection and promises 2 Corinthians 10:5 - Taking every thought captive to Christ Ecclesiastes 10:19 - Money answers all things (context on stewardship vs. worship) Practical Action Steps This Week Exercise: Identify Your Thieves Take a sheet of paper and draw a line down the middle Left side: List everything that steals from you—negative thoughts, worries, circumstances, attitudes, even specific people. Don't overthink it, just write. Right side: Write a scripture that speaks truth against each thief Daily Practice Focus on ONE thing from your list this week Pray about it daily When the thought arises or you encounter that person/situation, read your chosen scripture aloud Use your notebook or phone's notes app to keep scriptures accessible Understanding Imposter Syndrome Imposter syndrome is the persistent feeling that your achievements are undeserved, stemming from self-doubt and the fear of being exposed as a fraud—despite evidence of competence. Common symptoms include: Inability to internalize success (attributing it to luck) Fear of being "found out" as a fraud Perfectionism and overworking Feeling uncomfortable with compliments Procrastination due to fear of failure Believing others are smarter or more capable Connect with Leading from Wholeness If this episode resonated with you, we'd love to hear from you! Share your insights and breakthroughs as you work through this week's exercise. Remember: You are not defined by your achievements, your job title, or your past mistakes. You are a child of God, created with purpose, redeemed by Christ's blood, and called to live abundantly. Website: https://www.praywithoutceasingministries.com/  Merch: www.praywithoutceasingmerch.com  Email: [email protected] Instagram: @AudreyTShelby

SHOW NOTES Episode Overview In this powerful episode, we sit down with Brandon Shelby to explore what it truly means to walk in obedience to God, especially in leadership. We dive deep into the emotions that arise when God calls us to obey—reluctance, fear, and trepidation—and discover how surrender and trust transform our relationship with Him. Join us for the 2026 Pray Without Ceasing Conference, August 15, 2026 in Buena Park, Ca. Grab your tickets today  Guest Brandon Shelby - @mr_brandondjshelby ; website: https://www.corporatefreeagency.com/  Key Topics Discussed What Does Obedience Mean? Understanding obedience beyond simple compliance Our natural reactions to God's commands The heart behind our obedience The Struggle with Obedience Reluctance - Brandon shares a personal story of being reluctant to obey God and what happened as a result Fear - The paralysis of not wanting to make mistakes and second-guessing what we've heard from God Trepidation - Wrestling with uncertainty when God requires something we don't understand Biblical Perspective: Doubting Thomas We explore the story of Thomas (John 20:24-29) and discover that asking questions doesn't disqualify us from God's calling. Brandon encourages listeners to explore their feelings when God requires something they don't understand. Key Lessons on Obedience What Brandon has learned through his journey Common places where we get tripped up Obedience is surrender - and it's something we must do over and over again Being inside God's will is the best place to be Featured Scripture Hebrews 5:7-9 (NLT) "While Jesus was here on earth, he offered prayers and pleadings, with a loud cry and tears, to the one who could rescue him from death. And God heard his prayers because of his deep reverence for God. Even though Jesus was God's Son, he learned obedience from the things he suffered. In this way, God qualified him as a perfect High Priest, and he became the source of eternal salvation for all those who obey him." Philippians 4:6-9 (NLT) “Always be full of joy in the Lord. I say it again—rejoice!  Let everyone see that you are considerate in all you do. Remember, the Lord is coming soon.  Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.  And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise. Keep putting into practice all you learned and received from me—everything you heard from me and saw me doing. Then the God of peace will be with you.” Deuteronomy 8:11-18 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Deuteronomy%208%3A11-18&version=NKJV  Hebrews 5:7-9 - https://bible.com/bible/116/heb.5.7-9.NLT Psalms 25:12 - https://bible.com/bible/116/psa.25.12.NLT Key Quote John Bevere - "Holy fear keeps us connected to the wisdom of our Creator—the only One who knows what enhances us and what undoes us." From: The Awe of God Practical Application: How Do We Hear from God? Spend intentional time with Him in prayer Read and study your Bible regularly Do it afraid. Resources Mentioned Book: The Awe of God by John Bevere https://johnbevere.com/aweofgod/  Book: The Garden Withing by Dr. Anita Phillips https://www.anitaphillips.com/book  Episode Takeaways ✓ Asking questions doesn't disqualify you from God's calling  ✓ Obedience is about surrender, not perfection  ✓ Even Jesus learned obedience through what He suffered  ✓ Fear of the Lord connects us to divine wisdom  ✓ Being in God's will is always the best place to be Connect with Us Website: https://www.praywithoutceasingministries.com/  Merch: www.praywithoutceasingmerch.com  Email: [email protected] Instagram: @AudreyTShelby

SHOW NOTES Episode Overview In this powerful episode, we sit down with Brandon Shelby to explore what it truly means to walk in obedience to God, especially in leadership. We dive deep into the emotions that arise when God calls us to obey—reluctance, fear, and trepidation—and discover how surrender and trust transform our relationship with Him. Guest Brandon Shelby - @mr_brandondjshelby ; website: https://www.corporatefreeagency.com/  Key Topics Discussed What Does Obedience Mean? Understanding obedience beyond simple compliance Our natural reactions to God's commands The heart behind our obedience The Struggle with Obedience Reluctance - Brandon shares a personal story of being reluctant to obey God and what happened as a result Fear - The paralysis of not wanting to make mistakes and second-guessing what we've heard from God Trepidation - Wrestling with uncertainty when God requires something we don't understand Biblical Perspective: Doubting Thomas We explore the story of Thomas (John 20:24-29) and discover that asking questions doesn't disqualify us from God's calling. Brandon encourages listeners to explore their feelings when God requires something they don't understand. Key Lessons on Obedience What Brandon has learned through his journey Common places where we get tripped up Obedience is surrender - and it's something we must do over and over again Being inside God's will is the best place to be Featured Scripture Hebrews 5:7-9 (NLT) "While Jesus was here on earth, he offered prayers and pleadings, with a loud cry and tears, to the one who could rescue him from death. And God heard his prayers because of his deep reverence for God. Even though Jesus was God's Son, he learned obedience from the things he suffered. In this way, God qualified him as a perfect High Priest, and he became the source of eternal salvation for all those who obey him." Psalms 25:12 (NLT) "Who are those who fear the Lord? He will show them the path they should choose." Key Quote John Bevere - "Holy fear keeps us connected to the wisdom of our Creator—the only One who knows what enhances us and what undoes us." From: The Awe of God Practical Application: How Do We Hear from God? Spend intentional time with Him in prayer Read and study your Bible regularly Cultivate a lifestyle of listening Resources Mentioned Bible passage: John 20:24-29 (Doubting Thomas) Book: The Awe of God by John Bevere https://johnbevere.com/aweofgod/  Deuteronomy 8:11-18 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Deuteronomy%208%3A11-18&version=NKJV  Hebrews 5:7-9 - https://bible.com/bible/116/heb.5.7-9.NLT Psalms 25:12 - https://bible.com/bible/116/psa.25.12.NLT Episode Takeaways ✓ Asking questions doesn't disqualify you from God's calling  ✓ Obedience is about surrender, not perfection  ✓ Even Jesus learned obedience through what He suffered  ✓ Fear of the Lord connects us to divine wisdom  ✓ Being in God's will is always the best place to be Connect with Us Website: https://www.praywithoutceasingministries.com/  Merch: www.praywithoutceasingmerch.com  Email: [email protected] Instagram: @AudreyTShelby

Have you ever made a costly mistake as a leader? One that made you question your worth or whether you were cut out for leadership? In this episode, I'm getting real about the fear of making mistakes and the pressure to be perfect. I share a personal story about a costly mistake that could have cost me my job, and the biblical lessons God taught me through it. If you've been beating yourself up over a mistake or carrying the weight of perfection, this episode is for you. Biblical Wisdom on Mistakes Ecclesiastes 10:4 - A quiet spirit overcomes great mistakes 2 Timothy 3:16-17 - Scripture equips us through correction Why God's Word doesn't shame us for mistakes What True Leadership Looks Like Authentic leadership embraces vulnerability and accountability The shift from proving worth to showing trustworthiness  Extending Grace to Yourself How to forgive yourself and remember you are God's workmanship "I don't have to be perfect. I have to be faithful." Practical Steps Forward 5 steps for leading through and after mistakes KEY SCRIPTURES Colossians 3:23-24 - Work as for the Lord, not for men 1 John 3:16 - Real love requires sacrifice Read it here Ecclesiastes 10:4 - "A quiet spirit can overcome even great mistakes" Read it here  Timothy 3:16-17 - Scripture corrects us with purpose to equip us Read it here SHARE THIS EPISODE Know a leader who needs to hear this? Share it with them! Remember: You don't have to be perfect to be a great leader. You just have to be willing to learn, grow, and keep showing up. CONNECT WITH US Website: https://www.praywithoutceasingministries.com/ Shop: Christian apparel designed to inspire prayer and intentional living  praywithoutceasingmerch.com Email: [email protected]  

Show Notes Episode Description Have you ever felt attacked, undermined, or disrespected by someone on your team? Do you dread going to work because of one difficult colleague? You're not alone—and as a Christian leader, you don't have to choose between holding boundaries and showing grace. In this episode, we dive into three biblical strategies that will transform how you lead difficult people. You'll discover why empathy doesn't mean agreement, how refusing to take offense protects your leadership, and why forgiveness is actually about YOUR freedom, not theirs. Whether you're managing someone who openly opposes you or navigating a toxic team dynamic, this episode will equip you with practical, Christ-centered tools to lead with integrity while protecting your peace. What You'll Learn ✅ How to use Psychological First Aid principles to support distressed colleagues in the workplace ✅ Why "What happened to you?" is more powerful than "What's wrong with you?" when dealing with difficult behavior The biblical truth about taking offense - and how it blocks your ability to lead with empathy Why forgiveness is the key to personal healing How to do your work "as unto the Lord" even when people don't deserve your best effort Key Scriptures Referenced Colossians 3:23-24 - "Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men."  Proverbs 19:11 - "A person's wisdom yields patience; it is to one's glory to overlook an offense." 1 Peter 4:8 - "Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins." Matthew 6:14 - "For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you."  1 Corinthians 13:7 (AMP) - Love "bears all things, hopes all things, endures all things." Galatians 6:2 (ESV) - "Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ." Three Biblical Strategies to Lead Difficult People EMPATHY: Approach with Curiosity, Not Judgment Shift from "What's wrong with you?" to "What happened to you?" Create psychological safety using the 5 principles of Psychological First Aid Remember: Empathy doesn't mean agreement DON'T TAKE OFFENSE: Protect Your Peace Taking offense is a choice that blocks empathy Let God be your vindicator instead of fighting your own battles Bear one another's burdens without letting bitterness take root LOVE & FORGIVENESS: Kill Them with Kindness Show Agape love even when it's not reciprocated Forgive for YOUR healing, not just theirs This Week's Challenge Identify one difficult person or situation you're facing at work Choose ONE strategy to implement: Empathy, Not Taking Offense, or Love & Forgiveness Pray for that person daily this week Remember: Do your work as unto the Lord, not unto people Reflection Questions Where have I been holding offense? Who do I need to forgive? How can I be a safer space for my team? Am I doing my work for people's approval or for God's glory? Resources Mentioned Psychological First Aid Principles for workplace distress Biblical principles on forgiveness and loving your enemies Leadership mindset: Teammate vs. Subordinate Connect With Us 📧 Email: [email protected] 📱 Instagram: @AudreyTShelby 🌐 Website: www.praywithoutceasingministries.com 💬 Leave a Review: If this episode helped you, please leave a 5-star review and share it with another Christian leader who needs to hear this message!

Do you feel the weight of leadership responsibility? Struggling to lead effectively while honoring God? You're not alone. In this powerful episode, we explore what it means to lead at full capacity—not by relying on your own strength, but by inviting God into every aspect of your leadership journey. Whether you're leading in ministry, business, community organizations, or your own family, this episode will transform how you view and practice leadership. You'll discover that leadership isn't about titles or positions—it's about influence. And if you're a follower of Jesus Christ, you're called to influence others, which means you're called to lead. In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why leadership is influence and what that means for you The dangerous mindset that keeps leaders stuck in self-focused performance Three practical, biblical ways to invite God into your daily leadership How to shift from "What do I want?" to "What does God want through me?" The one question that changed everything about how the host approaches leadership Practical steps to move from wherever you are to leading more effectively Stop carrying the weight alone. Stop performing and start partnering with God. This episode will help you understand that when you seek God first, pray without ceasing, and walk in obedience, everything changes. Perfect For: Christian leaders, ministry workers, business professionals, emerging leaders, parents, church volunteers, small group leaders, entrepreneurs, and anyone who wants to honor God in their leadership role. Featured Scripture: Romans 12:8, Matthew 6:33, James 1:22, Deuteronomy 30:11, Proverbs 8:12, 1 Thessalonians 5:17 Featured Scripture References Romans 12:8 (NLT) "If your gift is to encourage others, be encouraging. If it is giving, give generously. If God has given you leadership ability, take the responsibility seriously. And if you have a gift for showing kindness to others, do it gladly." 📖 Read Full Chapter Application: Whatever gifts God has given you, use them seriously AND gladly. Leadership is a gift to be stewarded, not a burden to carry alone. Matthew 6:33 (NLT) "Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need." 📖 Read Full Chapter Application: When we prioritize God first—before our leadership, before our success, before our programs—He promises to provide everything we need. This is the foundation of leading at full capacity. James 1:22 (NLT) "But don't just listen to God's word. You must do what it says. Otherwise, you are only fooling yourselves." 📖 Read Full Chapter Application: Effective Christian leadership requires obedience, not just knowledge. Hearing God's voice is important, but acting on what He says is what transforms our leadership. 1 Thessalonians 5:17 (NLT) "Never stop praying." 📖 Read Full Chapter Application: Prayer isn't just a morning or evening activity—it's an ongoing conversation with God throughout your day. Every decision, challenge, and opportunity is an invitation to pray. Deuteronomy 30:11 (NLT) "This command I am giving you today is not too difficult for you, and it is not beyond your reach." 📖 Read Full Chapter Application: What God is calling you to do as a leader isn't too hard for you. He equips those He calls. Step out in obedience with confidence. Proverbs 8:12 (NLT) "I, Wisdom, live together with good judgment. I know where to discover knowledge and discernment." 📖 Read Full Chapter Application: When we seek God's wisdom, He gives us creative solutions and "witty inventions"—innovative ideas that only come from Him. Books Mentioned: Pray Without Ceasing: 31 Days in Prayer by Audrey Shelby. https://www.praywithoutceasingministries.com/books Spiritual Leadership by J. Oswald Sanders The Maxwell Leadership Bible by John C. Maxwell Connect With Us We'd love to hear from you! 📧 Email: [email protected] 📱 Instagram:@AudreyTShelby 🌐 Website: www.praywithoutceasingministries.com 🎙️ Leave a Review: Apple Podcasts  

In this episode, I open up about my early days in leadership and the struggles I faced when fear and anxiety were driving my decisions. I reflect on what it was like to lead from that place, the impact it had on my team and myself, and the lessons I learned along the way. Whether you're a new leader finding your footing or a seasoned one looking back on your journey, this honest conversation about the messy reality of leadership might resonate with your own experience. Resources mentioned https://stefaniegass.com/  Connect With Us We'd love to hear from you! 📧 Email: [email protected] 📱 Instagram:@AudreyTShelby 🌐 Website: www.praywithoutceasingministries.com 🎙️ Leave a Review: Apple Podcasts