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Leads slow down. Proposals stall. And we start convincing ourselves that our whole strategy is broken. In the first ever episode recorded at TSC Studios, I'm unpacking what's really happening when business feels quiet, and why our instinct to scroll social media for answers usually makes it worse.In this episode we'll chat through:Why turning to social media in tough moments turns into comparison, not inspirationThe difference between an actual strategy problem and a confidence problemWhy the "highlight reel" we're comparing ourselves to is hiding a much messier realityWhat to do instead when things feel toughIf you've ever panicked when the leads went quiet, this one's for you.🎧 Listen now and follow along for more from inside our brand new studio.Have a question? Click here to send it to me!Links:Join the WhatsApp communityFollow on Instagram: @coffeesandcontentpodFind Loren on LinkedIn: Loren TomlinsonVisit us at: www.thesocialcollective.co.nzLoved this episode? Leave a review - it would mean the world!

Every founder and marketing manager I talk to hits the same wall eventually. It's not budget. It's not trust. It's not even whether outsourcing is the right call. It's simply not knowing what's actually missing before they go and hire.In this episode, I'm unpacking:Why "should I get help" is the wrong question, and what the real one isThe difference between needing strategy and needing execution, and why most people can't tell which one they're short onWhy hiring one person to do it all almost never works, and what to look for insteadA real story from my own business, including the hire that taught me the hard way why senior and junior support need to be separatedA simple gut-check for figuring out what your business needs before you write the next job adIf you've ever felt like you have too much on your plate but couldn't put your finger on exactly what to hand off, press play.Follow @coffeesandcontentpod for more, and find me at @loren.thesocialcollective.Have a question? Click here to send it to me!Links:Join the WhatsApp communityFollow on Instagram: @coffeesandcontentpodFind Loren on LinkedIn: Loren TomlinsonVisit us at: www.thesocialcollective.co.nzLoved this episode? Leave a review - it would mean the world!

We opened the floor at our Cocktails and Conversations event and let a room full of business owners ask the panel anything. What came out was way more honest than we expected.This week's episode is that Q&A, in full.What's covered:Choosing between Claude, Gemini, ChatGPT and CopilotWhat actually happens once a client's face or product photo goes into AIHandling clients who think a $40 plan replaces a marketing teamSkill poisoning, and why that free download isn't as free as it looksGetting your business found and recognised by AI, not just GoogleBuilding an AI policy that doesn't need rewriting every monthProtecting creative work from screenshot plagiarismStaying a critical thinker when AI is doing more of the thinkingHave a question? Click here to send it to me!Links:Join the WhatsApp communityFollow on Instagram: @coffeesandcontentpodFind Loren on LinkedIn: Loren TomlinsonVisit us at: www.thesocialcollective.co.nzLoved this episode? Leave a review - it would mean the world!

It's finally here. The Cocktails & Conversations panel, live and recorded, is Part 1 of a two part drop, and it's everything you were in the room for or heard about after.Karrina Mountfort (The AI Assembly) and Angela March (Brainchild) join me for the full panel conversation. We got into the AI mistake that can wipe your business in seconds, why your brand now needs to be visible and credible to AI systems, not just to people, and where each of us still refuses to let AI anywhere near the decision.This one covers:The full live panel from Cocktails & Conversations, finally on the feedThe AI mistake that can wipe your business in seconds, and how to protect yourselfWhy AI visibility and credibility now matter as much as SEO ever didWhere each of us draws the line on human judgmentPart 2 drops next week: the audience Q&A from the same night.Listen to Part 1 now.This episode is proudly sponsored by Frankly Podcasting, helping female founders, entrepreneurs and creatives launch, grow and manage their podcasts. Head to franklypodcasting.co.nz to find out more.Have a question? Click here to send it to me!Links:Join the WhatsApp communityFollow on Instagram: @coffeesandcontentpodFind Loren on LinkedIn: Loren TomlinsonVisit us at: www.thesocialcollective.co.nzLoved this episode? Leave a review - it would mean the world!

Fresh off hosting our own event this week, I'm talking through something I think gets dismissed way too often: showing up in person. In this episode:Why in-person is having a real comeback, and why that's not nostalgiaThe four ways we personally get in the room - hosting, sponsoring, speaking and attending - and what each one is actually forWhy the look and feel of your event is the difference between people scrolling past and people sharing itA first look at what's coming with TSC StudiosHave a question? Click here to send it to me!Links:Join the WhatsApp communityFollow on Instagram: @coffeesandcontentpodFind Loren on LinkedIn: Loren TomlinsonVisit us at: www.thesocialcollective.co.nzLoved this episode? Leave a review - it would mean the world!

We're back on the mic after a couple of weeks away, and there's a reason for the hiatus, plus a name change we need to talk about. This episode is the full story behind why the show has gone back to Coffees & Content, and what's actually different this time.In this episode:Why the podcast is going back to its original name, and what changed to make it fit againThe one brand decision that reset everything at The Social CollectiveWhat "the TSC world" means and why the agency, Studios, Academy and podcast now work as one connected thingAn update on TSC Studios opening this September, plus what's happening with private bookings in AugustWhy this show is now built for marketing managers, marketing assistants and founders who want to understand marketing at its coreThe advice Loren keeps coming back to: don't stay stuck in something that no longer fitsHit play now and follow along for what's coming next.Have a question? Click here to send it to me!Links:Join the WhatsApp communityFollow on Instagram: @coffeesandcontentpodFind Loren on LinkedIn: Loren TomlinsonVisit us at: www.thesocialcollective.co.nzLoved this episode? Leave a review - it would mean the world!

In this episode, Loren shares the talk she gave at the NZ Winter Gift Fairs in Christchurch on how to keep sales coming in after customers walk away from your stall. She breaks down the three things your marketing needs (visibility, nurturing and conversion), why your email database is your biggest hidden asset, and how she uses AI to create authentic content that still sounds like you.Grab the free 20-minute content system workbook mentioned in this episode here: https://thesocialco.myflodesk.com/20-minute-system"The businesses that are thriving don't have to have the biggest budgets. You just need to show up consistently."Have a question? Click here to send it to me!Links:Join the WhatsApp communityFollow on Instagram: @coffeesandcontentpodFind Loren on LinkedIn: Loren TomlinsonVisit us at: www.thesocialcollective.co.nzLoved this episode? Leave a review - it would mean the world!

I was recently asked to come back and speak to a room of NZIE students about AI marketing, and I didn't hold back. This one's a proper look inside how we actually use AI at The Social Collective, not the highlight reel version.What's covered:Why treating AI like a vending machine instead of a thinking partner is the real reason content turns into "AI slop"How our Senior Account Manager went from spending an entire week on client reporting each month to half a day, and what that freed her up to do insteadThe three places AI really earns its keep in an agency: content creation, reporting and analysis, and campaign optimisationReal examples from client pitch decks, training rollouts, and our weekly "thought anchor" processWhy I never treat AI as anything more senior than our most junior team member, and what that mindset protectsIf you're in business and wondering where AI actually fits versus where it's just noise, this is a practical, no-fluff look at what's worked for us.Have a question? Click here to send it to me!Links:Join the WhatsApp communityFollow on Instagram: @coffeesandcontentpodFind Loren on LinkedIn: Loren TomlinsonVisit us at: www.thesocialcollective.co.nzLoved this episode? Leave a review - it would mean the world!

The secret's finally out, TSC Studios is open. But this episode isn't really about the studio. It's about the problem it solved, and why that same problem is probably quietly stalling your marketing too.I walk through the real decision behind opening a content and podcast studio three minutes from our office, and why it came down to one realisation: most of us don't have a discipline problem when it comes to showing up consistently, we have a friction problem. The gap between "I know I should post" and actually doing it is almost always logistics, not motivation.In this episode:Why I stopped blaming myself for inconsistency and started looking at my systems insteadThe habit stacking approach I use every single morning (and why it works)How to spot where friction is quietly costing you momentum in your own content and marketingOne question to ask yourself that changes everythingPress play, then go find your own friction point.Have a question? Click here to send it to me!Links:Join the WhatsApp communityFollow on Instagram: @coffeesandcontentpodFind Loren on LinkedIn: Loren TomlinsonVisit us at: www.thesocialcollective.co.nzLoved this episode? Leave a review - it would mean the world!

Quick one this week, besties.There's no new In Her Empire Era episode today, but don't panic, it's for a good reason. I've been sitting on some exciting news that deserves its own full episode next week, and I didn't want to rush it.In the meantime, the news is dropping on social media first. Head to the @inherempireerapod Instagram or my personal account (@loren.thesocialcollective) to find out what's coming.Full breakdown, all the details, next week's episode. See you then.Where to find the news:@inherempireerapod on [email protected] on InstagramHave a question? Click here to send it to me!Links:Join the WhatsApp communityFollow on Instagram: @coffeesandcontentpodFind Loren on LinkedIn: Loren TomlinsonVisit us at: www.thesocialcollective.co.nzLoved this episode? Leave a review - it would mean the world!

This week's episode is a quick but important one - recorded from the car on a busy Monday morning because some updates genuinely can't wait.We're covering what AI is actually doing to how people find businesses right now, why your LinkedIn personal profile has become one of the most powerful visibility tools you're probably underusing, and a few rapid fire updates from the past week you need on your radar.What's covered:How LinkedIn personal profiles are now being cited by AI tools like ChatGPT, Gemini and Perplexity for business queries68% of Google searches ending without a click - and what that means for your visibilityThe simple self-audit: keywords, email marketing, website accuracy and paid adsRapid fire: Google's Gemini Spark, Meta's AI creative tools for ads, and the big conversation at Cannes LionsGet your tickets for our next event (13th August): https://events.humanitix.com/in-her-empire-era-presents-cocktails-and-conversationsHave a question? Click here to send it to me!Links:Join the WhatsApp communityFollow on Instagram: @coffeesandcontentpodFind Loren on LinkedIn: Loren TomlinsonVisit us at: www.thesocialcollective.co.nzLoved this episode? Leave a review - it would mean the world!

This week I'm sharing a piece of feedback that stopped me in my tracks - a brand new client who not only loved the content my team delivered in their very first month, but was equally impressed by the systems and processes behind how it was delivered. That feedback sparked a conversation I've been wanting to have on the mic for a while.Because here's the truth: you can have the best content strategy in the world, but if the infrastructure behind it isn't there, your marketing will always feel harder than it needs to.In this episode I cover:Why the infrastructure behind how you deliver is part of the impression you makeThe real reason founders stop marketing when business gets busy — and how to break that cycleWhy content without systems is just noise (and what to do instead)The simple four-part framework I use to build a marketing system that's actually scalableWhat good marketing infrastructure looks like - a practical checklist you can action todayHow my team and I rebuilt TSC's entire backend over nine months and why that's directly driving our best growth yetWhy AI is your best friend when you're starting from scratch with systemsThe mindset shift that changes everything: marketing is a mandatory business function, not a task you do when you have timeMentioned in this episode: Cocktails & Conversations - my next In Her Empire Era live panel event, Thursday 13 August, Tada Studios Auckland CBD. Early bird tickets are almost gone - grab them right here: https://events.humanitix.com/in-her-empire-era-presents-cocktails-and-conversations Have a question? Click here to send it to me!Links:Join the WhatsApp communityFollow on Instagram: @coffeesandcontentpodFind Loren on LinkedIn: Loren TomlinsonVisit us at: www.thesocialcollective.co.nzLoved this episode? Leave a review - it would mean the world!

Instagram just changed something that sounds small but changes everything for anyone creating content on the platform. And once you hear what it actually means, you'll realise this isn't just an Instagram update - it's a signal about where every platform is heading.Here's what's covered:The new Instagram "Your Algorithm" update - what it is and why topic clarity now directly affects your reachWhy every platform is starting to reward human, specific, real content - and penalise the generic stuffThe difference between using AI well and letting AI think for youWhy founders in particular need to be showing up as a person with a point of viewWhat kind of content is going to cut through in feeds that people have now curated themselvesHave a question? Click here to send it to me!Links:Join the WhatsApp communityFollow on Instagram: @coffeesandcontentpodFind Loren on LinkedIn: Loren TomlinsonVisit us at: www.thesocialcollective.co.nzLoved this episode? Leave a review - it would mean the world!

Two of our clients had some of the biggest wins of their businesses this week. And it got my team and I thinking hard about one of the biggest gaps I see in service businesses: what happens to your marketing the moment a lead arrives.What we cover:Why ecommerce and service marketing are fundamentally differentThe customer journey moment most service businesses completely ignoreWhat TSC actually does from the moment an enquiry landsThe one question every service business owner needs to ask themselvesEvent announcement: Cocktails and Conversations, Thursday 13 August, Auckland CBDHave a question? Click here to send it to me!Links:Join the WhatsApp communityFollow on Instagram: @coffeesandcontentpodFind Loren on LinkedIn: Loren TomlinsonVisit us at: www.thesocialcollective.co.nzLoved this episode? Leave a review - it would mean the world!

This week's episode came out on a Tuesday ... and I promise it was worth the wait.I've just come off the back of speaking at the Christchurch Winter NZ Gift Fairs (more on that very soon), and I'm recording this before heading into an Auckland content shoot — so we're keeping it sharp. Three updates that all connect to one bigger idea: the platforms are rewarding people who show up with a clear point of view, consistently, and every post needs to earn its place on its own.This week we cover:LinkedIn's new Creator Marketplace - what it actually means for your personal brand and how TSC is already running it for clientsSocial commerce crossing $1 trillion, and why the behaviour behind that number matters more than the number itself for service-based businessesInstagram's grid reorder feature — and an honest take on whether it's actually worth your timeA big announcement at the end of the episode you won't want to missHave a question? Click here to send it to me!Links:Join the WhatsApp communityFollow on Instagram: @coffeesandcontentpodFind Loren on LinkedIn: Loren TomlinsonVisit us at: www.thesocialcollective.co.nzLoved this episode? Leave a review - it would mean the world!

Hot off a conversation with my senior account manager Morgan over lunch - we keep noticing the same thing with business owners we meet. Growing off referrals, feeling comfortable, and not building anything underneath it.I wanted to get honest on the podcast this week about how TSC actually started. Because it wasn't referrals.In this episode:The real story of how TSC began (it was messy and scrappy)Why a referral-based business is a privilege and a risk at the same timeWhat actually happens to every word of mouth lead if you're not nurturing themWhat a resilient pipeline looks like … and it's simpler than you thinkThe levers to pull when referrals go quietHave a question? Click here to send it to me!Links:Join the WhatsApp communityFollow on Instagram: @coffeesandcontentpodFind Loren on LinkedIn: Loren TomlinsonVisit us at: www.thesocialcollective.co.nzLoved this episode? Leave a review - it would mean the world!

This week something quietly shifted in the algorithm - and it might already be affecting your reach without you knowing.I'm covering three updates this week that every business owner needs to understand right now, across Instagram, LinkedIn, and the broader digital landscape.What's covered:- Instagram's new primary success metric (it's not likes or comments anymore)- LinkedIn's 360 Brew AI system and why engagement bait is finally getting penalised- Why Meta is projected to overtake Google in global ad spend in 2026 - and what that means for your strategyHit play and bring your coffee.Have a question? Click here to send it to me!Links:Join the WhatsApp communityFollow on Instagram: @coffeesandcontentpodFind Loren on LinkedIn: Loren TomlinsonVisit us at: www.thesocialcollective.co.nzLoved this episode? Leave a review - it would mean the world!

If you've been sleeping on LinkedIn, this episode is your wake-up call.This week I'm sharing a conversation I had with a potential client last week that perfectly illustrates why LinkedIn is the most underrated tool in your marketing stack - especially if you're out there doing the hard work in person and wondering why it isn't converting faster.I break down the difference between your personal profile and your business page, why you need both, and how the two working together can keep you in someone's mind long after you've walked out of the room.Plus I share something that happened the morning this episode dropped that is the perfect example of LinkedIn working exactly the way it should.Connect with me on LinkedIn: Loren TomlinsonFree marketing audit: thesocialcollective.co.nz/marketing-auditInterested in sponsoring an IHEE event or the podcast? Email [email protected] a question? Click here to send it to me!Links:Join the WhatsApp communityFollow on Instagram: @coffeesandcontentpodFind Loren on LinkedIn: Loren TomlinsonVisit us at: www.thesocialcollective.co.nzLoved this episode? Leave a review - it would mean the world!

Welcome back to another Coffees & Content Monday. This week I'm breaking down three things happening in the marketing world right now - including one we're already testing inside The Social Collective.OpenAI has quietly opened the door for everyday businesses to advertise through ChatGPT and the early adopter window won't stay open forever. I share what I'm seeing, what the limitations are, and whether it's worth your time right now.I'm also chatting through the Instagram reach drop that's affecting accounts across the board, why it's only going to get harder, and what that should mean for where you're putting your energy.Plus, a teaser for what's coming next from In Her Empire Era. Sponsorship opportunities for the next Auckland event are open now.Links:Sponsor enquiries: inherempireera.comInstagram: @inhererampireerapodWhatsApp community: Join hereHave a question? Click here to send it to me!Links:Join the WhatsApp communityFollow on Instagram: @coffeesandcontentpodFind Loren on LinkedIn: Loren TomlinsonVisit us at: www.thesocialcollective.co.nzLoved this episode? Leave a review - it would mean the world!

Recorded from a hotel room in Sydney at 9pm ... because sometimes building your empire looks like getting cozy in a robe and showing up anyway.This episode is a candid, unfiltered conversation about one of the most important marketing questions every business owner needs to be asking: are you focused on finding new audiences, or are you sitting on a goldmine you haven't tapped yet?In this episode:The difference between awareness marketing and conversion marketing - and why most businesses only focus on oneWhy your email list is your most under-utilised business asset and how to actually use itThe social media to email pipeline - how TSC builds it for clients and why it matters more than follower countLead magnets, pop-ups and quizzes - how to pull people from your socials into a database you actually ownWhy most ideal clients sit in your pipeline for 6-12 months before they're ready ... and how to stay front of mind until they areThe free TSC marketing audit tool that tells you exactly which levers to pull right nowLinks:Free marketing audit: www.thesocialcollective.co.nz/marketing-auditHave a question? Click here to send it to me!Links:Join the WhatsApp communityFollow on Instagram: @coffeesandcontentpodFind Loren on LinkedIn: Loren TomlinsonVisit us at: www.thesocialcollective.co.nzLoved this episode? Leave a review - it would mean the world!

Things are changing fast in the social media world. This episode cuts through the noise so you can stay ahead without spending hours keeping up yourself.This is the very first Coffees & Content episode under the new In Her Empire Era name, and we're kicking it off exactly how we mean to go on. Quick, no-fluff, and actually useful.In this episode:The Instagram hashtag shakeup - what's changing, why it's been coming for a long time, and what three hashtags you'd actually keepWhy caption quality now matters more than any hashtag strategy ever didLinkedIn's biggest update for business owners - and why ignoring this platform is closing the door on revenue before you've even triedWhy your LinkedIn profile needs to work like a landing pageHow to show up on LinkedIn with a point of view that builds real authority over timeHave a question? Click here to send it to me!Links:Join the WhatsApp communityFollow on Instagram: @coffeesandcontentpodFind Loren on LinkedIn: Loren TomlinsonVisit us at: www.thesocialcollective.co.nzLoved this episode? Leave a review - it would mean the world!

After almost four years of the Coffees & Content newsletter and over a year of this podcast, something had to change. Not because it wasn't working, but because it was time for something bigger.In this episode, I'm sharing what's been happening behind the scenes at The Social Collective over the last six to eight months, why the In Her Empire Era launch event changed everything, and what you can expect from this platform going forward.This is a space for the intersection of business and marketing - for founders, for women in business, and for anyone who wants to grow and scale something they're proud of.Links mentioned:Join the IHEE WhatsApp community: https://chat.whatsapp.com/KOvue6XT1HhDHPE7lpgoFC?mode=gi_t Follow on Instagram: www.instagram.com/coffeesandcontentSubscribe on Substack: Have a question? Click here to send it to me!Links:Join the WhatsApp communityFollow on Instagram: @coffeesandcontentpodFind Loren on LinkedIn: Loren TomlinsonVisit us at: www.thesocialcollective.co.nzLoved this episode? Leave a review - it would mean the world!

In this episode, I'm sharing my candid reflections on the challenges of podcasting in the age of video content, platform pressure, and the importance of authentic engagement. I'm chatting through my journey of balancing quality with authenticity, the impact of platform choices on content creation, and practical advice for marketers and creators.Key TopicsThe impact of platform pressure on content creatorsThe shift from traditional podcasting to video and social mediaAuthentic engagement versus performative contentStrategies for sustainable content creationThe importance of focusing on platforms that align with your brandResources:The Social Collective Marketing Audit - https://www.thesocialcollective.co.nz/marketing-auditHave a question? Click here to send it to me!Links:Join the WhatsApp communityFollow on Instagram: @coffeesandcontentpodFind Loren on LinkedIn: Loren TomlinsonVisit us at: www.thesocialcollective.co.nzLoved this episode? Leave a review - it would mean the world!

I'm recording this one from my hotel room in Melbourne with about 20 minutes before I have to catch a flight - so this is a bite-size one, but it's a good one.I just wrapped up a few days at the Social Summit and I'm leaving feeling so incredibly inspired that I had to hit record before I left. I had the privilege of hosting the final panel of the day alongside Monica Upton from Vestirsi, Lizzie Waley from Sunday Body, and former Aussie Bachelor Sam Wood - and the conversations that came out of that room are ones I'm still thinking about.So I wanted to share a few of the biggest takeaways with you before they left my brain.We got into the difference between having an audience and having a community, and why that distinction matters more than most people realise. We talked about what it actually looks like behind the scenes of building a business that's built to last. And I got really honest about something I said to my own team recently — that the only reason I know how to handle hard situations is because I've fallen on my face more times than I can count. You just don't always see it online.This episode is equal parts recap, pep talk, and reminder to be really proud of what you are building.In this episode I cover:The real difference between an audience and a community and why it mattersWhat every panelist at the Social Summit had in commonWhy the toughest moments in business are where the best entrepreneurs are madeWhy I'm doubling down on community this year across everything I doA reminder to slow down and celebrate how far you've comeHave a question? Click here to send it to me!Links:Join the WhatsApp communityFollow on Instagram: @coffeesandcontentpodFind Loren on LinkedIn: Loren TomlinsonVisit us at: www.thesocialcollective.co.nzLoved this episode? Leave a review - it would mean the world!