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Self Obsessed
by Tam Kaur
Tam Kaur’s Self-Obsessed is the ultimate guide to everything society didn’t want you to learn. In a world where women are criticised for wanting and being ‘too much’ it's time to change the narrative. Join our host Tam in learning how to be self-obsessed. After all, it’s only about prioritising your self-love, self-care, self-confidence, self-worth and self-growth.‘Self-Obsessed’ simplifies the process of closing the gap between your current self and your desired self. Every episode is a straight-to-the-point carefully curated guide to help women everywhere fall in love with themselves. Each episode will provide actionable advice while navigating topics such as building confidence, embracing authenticity, setting boundaries, cultivating healthy relationships, and pursuing your passions.So, consider this your safest space on the internet as Tam gives you the life secrets no-one else ever shared. It’s time to be your own idol.
Episodes
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5 steps to Manifest Your Dream Partner in a Self-Obsessed Way
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watch this before you go back to school for confidence [pep talk]
going back to school or university can feel like the perfect opportunity to reinvent yourself, but real confidence starts with changing how you see yourself. in this video, i’m sharing 8 mindset shifts that will help you stop living through other people’s opinions and start making choices based…
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watch this when you feel behind in life | comparison, self-doubt, and finding your own path
feeling like everyone else is moving forward while you’re falling behind in life? i’ve been there. in this video, i’m sharing 10 reassuring facts and mindset shifts to help you stop comparing yourself to others and trust your own timeline. we’ll talk about navigating self-doubt, letting go of the...
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MID YEAR RESET 2026: the 1% plan to become unrecognisable in 6 months
if you've been waiting for a sign to reset your life, let this be it. the middle of the year is one of the most powerful times to pause and reflect because you still have enough time to completely change how this year ends. in this video, we'll talk about what a true mid-year reset actually looks...
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mastering your self-concept is the answer to your desires
if you've ever felt invisible, believed you were "just shy," or convinced yourself that confidence was something other people were born with, this conversation is for you. we explore why your self-concept is the foundation of every change you want to make, and how the identity you've carried for...
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why are women getting dumber on purpose?
if you've ever caught yourself saying "i'm just a girl," embracing girl math or girl dinner, or believing that helplessness is part of being feminine, this conversation is for you. we explore how the identities you repeat shape your self-concept, confidence, and self-worth, and why social media...
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why undeserving people always seem to succeed
if they could do it without the credentials, the only thing standing between you and that outcome is not capability, it is belief. if you've ever wondered why people with less experience or fewer qualifications are achieving the success you want, this video is for you. we explore how your...
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why quitting man hating was the most feminist thing i ever did
this video is for the woman who believes that hating men is the same thing as healing. somewhere along the way, man-hating became synonymous with female empowerment. it became the proof that you had healed, evolved, and finally de-centered men. but what if true feminism requires something…
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REALITY CHECK: why you still don't have the love you want
if you’re constantly overthinking texts, stuck in situationships, comparing yourself to girls in relationships, or feeling like everyone else finds love so easily except you...this reality check is for you ❤️ in today's video, we’re talking about self concept, attachment styles, manifestation,...
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how to transform your life before summer (you have one month)
this is your mid-year reminder that you do not need to wait until january to become the woman you said you wanted to be. in this video, we reset your space, your phone, your mind, and your habits so you can stop avoiding your goals and start rebuilding discipline, self-trust, and momentum before...
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how to finally silence your inner critic (for the women who have already done the work)
this one is for the woman who has already done the work. who knows the tools. who has grown and who keeps hitting the same wall every time she tries to go higher. your inner critic does not disappear when you evolve. it evolves with you. it gets quieter, subtler, and far more dangerous. it stops...
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how to be a b*tch — why being nice is sabotaging your entire life
you already know how to be a b*tch. parts one, two, and three gave you the tools. part four goes somewhere the others never did. this one is about the bigger picture. why being nice is quietly sabotaging your goals, your self-esteem, your energy, and the company you keep. why your body is paying…
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why women who put themselves first win every time
for the woman who has always been the reliable one. the one who shows up, gives everything, and somehow still ends up last on her own list — without being able to explain why. this video is the explanation. and the way out. there is a system built into friendships, families, relationships, and...
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how to ACTUALLY be yourself (when you've forgotten who that is)
feeling disconnected from yourself and tired of second-guessing everything you say, do, and want? in this video, i’m talking about how people-pleasing, fear of rejection, and old survival patterns can quietly pull you away from who you really are, until you barely recognize your own voice. we’re...
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the ULTIMATE guide to becoming your own version of an "it girl"
hey girlies, i lost the outro clip during filming, so that’s why the ending is a little abrupt 😭 but i hope you guys still enjoyed the video. let me know your favorite part in the comments 💌 becoming the IT girl starts with realizing you were never missing “it” you just needed to stop searching...
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watch this when you want to give up
watch this when you want to give up and need a reminder that this difficult season of your life is not where your story ends. in this episode, we’re talking about feeling stuck, unmotivated, behind, or like nothing is working even though you’re trying your best. this is for the girl in a slump or...
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the ULTIMATE guide to fake friends | subtle signs to watch out for & friendship advice
hi girlies! guess what... it’s my 400th video! 🎉 i’m so grateful for your continued support and love through the years ❤️ and since you have also come a long way in your self-love journey, give yourself a pat on the back for your consistency because that’s a big deal. to celebrate my 400th…
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8 harsh truths you need to hear to achieve REAL growth
Sign up today for your $1 a month trial with Shopify and start selling today at http://shopify.com/AU 💐 LAST CHANCE TO ORDER MY LIMITED EDITION BOOK: “Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers” — with 2 new chapters! AMZ if you’ve been feeling stuck, here are 8 harsh truths i wish someone told me sooner. in...
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GIRL TALK: juicy dating dilemmas, relationship & self-love advice (VALENTINES EDITION)
Sign up today for your $1 a month trial with Shopify and start selling today at http://shopify.com/AU 💐 LAST CHANCE TO ORDER MY LIMITED EDITION BOOK: “Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers” — with 2 new chapters! AMZ it’s that time again, girlies!!! 💌✨ girl talk: valentine’s edition!!! in today’s...
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how to date once you realize you don't need a man
Sign up today for your £1 a month trial with Shopify and start selling today at http://shopify.co.uk/ Sign up today for your $1 a month trial with Shopify and start selling today at http://shopify.com/AU 💐 ORDER MY LIMITED EDITION BOOK: “Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers” — with 2 new chapters! WTS…
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how to be self-obsessed | become confident, magnetic, and emotionally unbothered in 2026
Sign up today for your $1 a month trial with Shopify and start selling today at http://shopify.com/AU 💐 PRE-ORDER MY LIMITED EDITION BOOK: “Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers” — with 2 new chapters! WTS | AMZ self-obsession isn’t selfish— it’s the foundation of confidence, self-love, and emotional...
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REALITY CHECK: let 2026 be the year you become untouchable
Shopify UK: Sign up today for your £1 a month trial with Shopify and start selling today for at shopify.co.uk Shopify AU: Sign up today for your $1 a month trial with Shopify and start selling today for at shopify.com/AU 💐 PRE-ORDER MY LIMITED EDITION BOOK: “Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers” —...
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10 “normal” habits that will secretly keep you stuck all 2026
Learn a new language and get up to 60% off your subscription at http://babbel.com/SELFOBSESSED Shopify UK: Sign up today for your £1 a month trial with Shopify and start selling today for at shopify.co.uk Shopify AU: Sign up today for your $1 a month trial with Shopify and start selling today…
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the self-obsessed girl’s blueprint for january
Find out your Hype Type with the Hype Type Revealer on the FCA InvestSmart website. Become a smarter investor today: https://www.fca.org.uk/investsmart 💐 PRE-ORDER MY LIMITED EDITION BOOK: “Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers” — with 2 new chapters! WTS | AMZ the 2026 january reset that helps you stay...
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how to rebrand for 2026 like the ceo of your empire
Find out your Hype Type with the Hype Type Revealer on the FCA InvestSmart website. Become a smarter investor today: https://www.fca.org.uk/investsmart 💐 PRE-ORDER MY LIMITED EDITION BOOK: “Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers” — with 2 new chapters! WTS | AMZ it’s time to level up in 2026 and rebrand...
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your 30 day glow up plan for 2026
Find out your Hype Type with the Hype Type Revealer on the FCA InvestSmart website. Become a smarter investor today: https://www.fca.org.uk/investsmart 💐 PRE-ORDER MY LIMITED EDITION BOOK: “Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers” — with 2 new chapters! WTS | AMZ 2026 is right around the corner, and in...
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2026 vision board that ACTUALLY works [2025 goals came true] | manifest tips, goals & becoming her
Find out your Hype Type with the Hype Type Revealer on the FCA InvestSmart website. Become a smarter investor today: https://www.fca.org.uk/investsmart 💐 PRE-ORDER MY LIMITED EDITION BOOK: “Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers” — with 2 new chapters! WTS AMZ i’m showing you exactly how i made my 2026...
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GIRL TALK Q&A: dating advice, friendship jealousy, self-worth & feeling behind in your 20s
feeling behind in your 20s? comparing yourself to friends? struggling with dating or confidence? in this girl talk q&a, i’m answering your real dilemmas — from friendship jealousy and dating rejection to self-worth, glow-ups, and navigating your own timeline. whether you’re dealing with…
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how i became the woman of my dreams and how you can too
how i became the woman of my dreams 💫 — after years of chasing validation, overworking, and holding onto past versions of myself, i realized true growth begins when you stop waiting for permission and start becoming her — the version of you who chooses herself daily. in this video, i open up…
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25 life lessons I learnt at 25 | self-care, success & the mindset glow-up that changed everything
[ad] This is a paid advertisement by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/selfobsessed and get on your way to being your best self. 25 life lessons I learned at 25 🎂— this video is a reflection on everything the past year has taught me about growth, mindset, and becoming the...
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how to find REAL HAPPINESS | stop burnout, people pleasing & quick dopamine
[ad] This is a paid advertisement by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/selfobsessed and get on your way to being your best self. the happiness trap 💭— in this podcast, i’m sharing the mindset shifts that helped me break free from the constant chase for success and finally...
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10 STEPS TO LOCK IN BEFORE 2026 | goal-setting, realigning, building habits & glow up secrets
10 steps to lock in before 2026 ❄️ — this is your chance to reset, realign, and transform before the new year begins. in this podcast, i’m sharing how to design a winter arc routine that’s tailored to your lifestyle and goals. from goal-setting and identity shifts to dopamine detox strategies and...
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how to heal your INNER CHILD & reinvent yourself | self love, trauma release + mindset shifts
the ultimate guide to inner child healing ✨ if you struggle with people-pleasing, over-apologizing, or low self-worth, it often comes from unmet childhood needs. in this video, i’ll show you how to heal your inner child through re-parenting routines, journaling, and neuroplasticity to rewire old...
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the ULTIMATE back to school guide | mindset glow up, friendships, routines + study hacks
[ad] This is a paid advertisement by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/selfobsessed and get on your way to being your best self. this isn’t your average back-to-school advice video — this is the ULTIMATE Back-to-School Guide 2025 to help you glow up your mindset, routines…
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Obsessed With Manifesting | the easiest way to manifest your dream reality
my new obsessed with manifesting journal is out! 🪄. this isn’t just another manifestation journal you forget about in a week. it’s designed to actually help you rewire your beliefs and step into your dream reality using neuroscience, self-concept work, and powerful manifestation techniques....
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the ULTIMATE guide to friendships | advice I WISH I knew earlier to build lasting friendships
friendships are harder than relationships sometimes… and no one talks about it. this is the ✨ULTIMATE ✨guide to friendships — the advice i wish i knew earlier to build real, aligned, and lasting connections. we’re diving into red flags, green flags, setting boundaries, and why so many of us…
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how to MASTER self-love while dating | detachment, boundaries, & self-worth no one talks about
mastering self-love while dating isn’t always easy — especially when no one talks about the detachment, boundaries, confidence, and self-worth it really takes. if you’ve ever felt like you start shrinking in relationships, this video is for you. i’m sharing the exact mindset shifts that helped me...
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the 5 laws of self-obsession | how to build unshakable confidence & start choosing YOU
the 5 laws of self-obsession aren’t about being selfish — they’re about how to build unshakable confidence, protect your peace, and start choosing you. in this episode, i share the mindset shifts that helped me heal, stop people pleasing, and finally become the most confident, grounded version of...
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watch this when you're in a slump
feeling stuck or in a slump? here’s your sign to reset and realign 🫶 i’ve been there. in this video, i’m sharing 7 reminders and mindset shifts that helped me break out of low-energy phases and reconnect with my higher self. we’ll talk about how to stop spiraling, reconnect with your...
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relationship RED flags that are actually GREEN | 10 healthy dating signs every woman needs to know
💚 you might be pushing away healthy love without even realizing it. in today’s episode, we’re talking about the 10 “red flags” in men that are actually signs of emotional maturity — and why your past might be making you miss them. from taking time to reply, moving slow, having female friends,...
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it’s time YOU became the center of your own universe | detachment, inner peace & true confidence
tired of people-pleasing, overthinking, and chasing validation? it’s time to detach, reclaim your confidence, and become the center of your own universe. ✨ we’re talking detachment, self-trust, and the quiet kind of confidence that comes from within. i’ll take you through the exact mindset shifts...
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MID YEAR RESET: you have 6 months LEFT to make 2025 the BEST year yet. This is how.
we’re halfway through 2025, which means it’s time for a mid year reset. in this video, i’m sharing the 6-step process to help you get back on track with your goals, upgrade your routines, and shift into your highest self. whether you’re feeling behind or just need a fresh perspective, this is…
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GIRL TALK Q&A: toxic friends, dating drama, healthy relationships, goals and self love [PART 7]
ITS THAT TIME AGAIN GIRLIES! I'm answering all of your juicy dilemmas and sharing real advice you can actually use. from calling out red flags in relationships, dealing with toxic friendships, and setting boundaries, to healing your self-esteem, building confidence, and learning how to stop...
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REALITY CHECK: Why Your Life Still Hasn’t Changed (Even After All Your Effort)
REALITY CHECK: Why Your Life Still Hasn’t Changed (Even After All Your Effort) — if you’ve been doing the journaling, the meditations, the affirmations… but still feel stuck, this video is your wake-up call. we’re unpacking why effort alone isn’t enough — and how real transformation starts at the...
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how to become UNRECOGNIZABLE by summer 2025 | daily habits, beauty hacks, mindset shifts & glow up
this is your ultimate "that girl" summer glow-up guide 🌞 to become unrecognizable by summer 2025. from beauty rituals that’ll have you feeling like her, to mindset shifts that level you up from the inside out—i’m sharing everything that helped me step into my hottest, most confident self. we’re...
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life is a movie & you’re the STAR so ACT like it | the ultimate guide to being the main character
This is the ultimate guide to becoming the main character of your life—because life is a movie, and it’s time to step into the spotlight. In this video, we’re diving into the mindset shifts and reality checks that helped me stop waiting for permission and start writing my own plotline. From...
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the ULTIMATE energy protection guide | stop draining yourself & start aligning
Protecting your energy is the ultimate form of self-care 🫶 In this video, we’re talking about the quiet habits that can shift everything—from avoiding draining conversations to being intentional with the content you consume. I’m sharing the small mindset shifts that helped me stay grounded,...
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10 lessons to LEVEL UP your 20s | mindset, self-growth & confidence tips
navigating your 20s can feel overwhelming—so here are 10 life lessons that helped me find clarity, confidence, and purpose ✨ from building self-worth and mastering your mindset, to creating financial flow and embracing failure, these are the tips I wish I had when I was starting out. this video…
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10 tips and habits to MASTER your mental health | break the cycle and start healing
trying to prioritize your mental health without getting overwhelmed? in this video, i’m breaking down 10 simple habits and tips that can help you feel more grounded, balanced, and in control. from journaling and setting boundaries to creating joy lists and resetting your mindset—it’s all about...
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S4 EP10: The 10 laws of self obsession | How to become self obsessed
Shopify free trial: http://shopify.com/selfobsessed SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL: https://tamkaur.com/products/growthjournal?_pos=1&_sid=e42fa6aa8&_ss=r See you in spring 2025 for season 5! xoxo PODCAST INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/selfobsessedpodcast/?hl=en LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS:...
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Tam Kaur’s Self-Obsessed is the ultimate guide to everything society didn’t want you to learn. In a world where women are criticised for wanting and being ‘too much’ it's time to change the narrative. Join our host Tam in learning how to be self-obsessed. After all, it’s only about prioritising your self-love, self-care, self-confidence, self-worth and self-growth.‘Self-Obsessed’ simplifies the process of closing the gap between your current self and your desired self. Every episode is a straight-to-the-point carefully curated guide to help women everywhere fall in love with themselves. Each episode will provide actionable advice while navigating topics such as building confidence, embracing authenticity, setting boundaries, cultivating healthy relationships, and pursuing your passions.So, consider this your safest space on the internet as Tam gives you the life secrets no-one else ever shared. It’s time to be your own idol.
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