Wildly Appropriate w/ Krissy Marsh

How do you spot a liar? A private investigator spent six months and found nothing. Krissy caught him with one $25 bank transaction.Krissy has trusted her gut her whole life. She calls it her smoke detector... where there's smoke, there's fire. It pulled her out of a taxi in Bali before the meter even started, and it is the same instinct that told her girlfriend something was off in her marriage long before there was any proof.This one is all about liars, and how to spot a liar when they are good at it. Because the frightening truth is that a good liar tells a lot of truth. Her friend's husband really was going to Canada. He really did need a break. He just never mentioned he was taking his girlfriend. A private investigator came back after six months with nothing. Then one $25 transaction to an unusual name, one Google search, and one phone call to a bar in Brisbane unravelled the whole thing.Krissy also gets into the small-lie test she raised her kids on (if someone lies about being at their mum's house, they can lie about anything!!), why decades of trust make us silence our own smoke detector, the friends who lie about the stupid stuff, double lives that DNA tests keep exposing, and the one rule that holds her family together: you get one chance to tell the truth.And she is about to play the ultimate lying game on The Traitors... consider this her warm up. Is she a good liar? You will have to watch and find out.⏱️ Chapters00:00 The smoke detector gut feel00:49 Two taxis I escaped03:55 Catching a cheating husband07:07 Why we suppress the gut feel10:20 Small lies, big liars13:03 Double lives and DNA tests16:13 The Traitors and moving on🔗 LinksWant the deeper cut? Join the newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @wildlyappropriatepod (https://www.youtube.com/@wildlyappropriatepod?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43S#WildlyAppropriate #TheTraitors #HowToSpotALiarProduced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

Do you say yes when you mean no? That is not kindness, it is fear.Krissy on the signs you are a people pleaser, why it comes from fear, and the response nobody warns you about. Everyone knows fight and flight... the people-pleasing one is fawn.One topic. One opinion. No filter. People pleasing in relationships, fawning over your kids, the friend who drains you, saying yes at work, and how to stop saying yes on the spot.What you'll get:Why saying yes can be fear, not kindnessHow fawning shows up with partners and kidsThe friend dynamic that quietly drains youHow to say no without the guiltChapters:(00:00) The signs you're a people pleaser(02:14) Putting your partner first(06:35) Fight, flight, or fawn(07:54) When you fawn over your kids(09:28) Why I call people out(12:49) The knife-and-fork lesson(16:44) People-pleasing at work(19:29) Stop saying yes on the spot(22:31) What people-pleasing costs you(30:37) Don't fight, flee, fear or fawnRecognise yourself in this one? Krissy wants to hear it. DM the show on Instagram and tell her where you people please.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @wildlyappropriatepod (https://www.youtube.com/@wildlyappropriatepod?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SThis is one woman's opinion and lived experience, not professional or psychological advice.Produced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

Did Michael Jackson get away with it? Krissy's unfiltered opinion on power, money and fame.A table of twenty-somethings told Krissy he was great. Her book club calls him a monster. Same man, two verdicts.One topic. One opinion. No filter. Why she believes fame and money bought decades of silence, how abusers groom the parents and not just the kids, and why a whole generation still refuses to believe it.What you'll get:Why young fans still defend himHow grooming targets parents tooWhat power and money really buyThe art vs the artist questionChapters:(00:00) The dinner table debate(00:53) The Brisbane boy and a starstruck mum(02:14) Grooming the kids and the parents(04:10) The cheque that bought silence(05:15) The O.J. parallel and the jury(07:39) My opinion, and the acquittal(09:53) Why victims stay silent(10:34) The Jackson family and Neverland(12:42) His legacyKrissy wants YOUR take. DM the show on Instagram and tell her where you land.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @wildlyappropriatepod (https://www.youtube.com/@wildlyappropriatepod?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SA note on this one. These are Krissy's personal opinions, not statements of fact. Michael Jackson was acquitted in 2005 and denied all allegations. This episode discusses child sexual abuse and may be distressing. If it brings something up for you, please reach out to someone you trust or a local support service.

MasterChef's Alvin Quah on lying, cheating and the betrayal that taught him what loyalty really costs.Krissy and her friend Alvin Quah, the MasterChef fan favourite and former scientist, get into the one thing neither of them can forgive. A lie. He has been lied to in the worst way, and he has told the hardest lie there is about himself. This is where they agree, and the bit where they really do not.What you'll get:- How to tell a white lie from a real betrayal- What years of being lied to teaches you about loyalty- Why coming out can be the hardest lie to undo- The Scorpio rule: forgive, never forgetChapters:(00:00) Meeting on The Traitors(01:26) Malaysia and a laksa obsession(04:51) The mum who taught herself to read(06:25) Disowned, and a lost love(09:49) Coming out at 29(13:14) From the lab to MasterChef(18:34) Are you a good liar?(19:21) The betrayal that broke him(22:34) No degrees of lying(25:54) Traitors, Housewives, MasterChef(27:58) White lies vs deception(30:00) Rapid fire: who lies more?(34:06) No room for surface friends(37:21) How marriage changed loyalty(39:31) The laksa promiseAlvin Quah: MasterChef Australia fan favourite (2010 and 2022), former medical scientist, and a proud home cook writing his first cookbook.Instagram: @alvinquah_ (https://www.instagram.com/alvinquah_)Website: alvinquah.com.au (https://alvinquah.com.au)Where is your line between a white lie and a betrayal? DM the show on Instagram... Krissy wants the ones that still sting!!Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SThis is a candid chat between friends about relationships, sexuality and trust. It is for entertainment, not advice.Produced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

20 years. No red flags. Then he was gone... and the clue was in the money.Krissy just finished Strangers, the true story of a woman blindsided by her husband's affair after 20 years, and it sent her straight into her own marriage. The thing that scared her most was not the cheating. It was how easily a smart woman gave away all of her financial independence and never saw it go.What you'll get:- Why money is the truest telltale sign- Why hiding debt counts as cheating- How to keep a part of yourself for yourselfChapters:(00:00) The Phone Call(01:56) He Handled The Money(04:36) Never Hand It Over(08:00) Wealthy, Then Powerless(11:39) The Trailing Spouse(13:42) If He Dropped Dead(16:43) Heart Or Wallet(17:33) One In Four Hide Debt(18:40) The Secret Second Wallet(20:54) Living With A StrangerThe financial independence deep dive is coming soon, so follow Wildly Appropriate now so you don't miss it.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SThis is one woman's opinion and lived experience, not financial, legal or relationship advice. If money or a relationship has you worried, talk to a professional you trust.Produced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

Claudia Bonifazio's first boyfriend cheated for months in the supermarket freezer. Everyone knew. No one told her.Krissy met the Love Island Australia winner on The Traitors, and this chat goes everywhere... the ex who altered her brain chemistry, the girl group who hid him at their house, and the villa bombshell story nobody believes. Every single one of her exes said yes to Love Island.What you'll get:- The red flags everyone else can see before you do- What happens when producers fly your ex into the villa- Why "if there's smoke, there's fire" is the only rule- The lies you tell a strict Italian family, and which ones they forgiveChapters:(00:00) Meeting on The Traitors(01:30) The petite jeans dream(03:07) Adelaide, Italian family, Love Island(08:47) Lying to Italian parents(11:24) The girl group betrayal(13:38) Damn Daniel and the freezer(18:58) Love Island flew in her ex(21:06) Reinvention vs evolution(24:23) Rapid fire: lies and loyalty(27:09) Your deception storiesClaudia Bonifazio: Love Island Australia 2022 winner turned full time comedy creator.TikTok: @claudiabonifazio (https://www.tiktok.com/@claudiabonifazio)Instagram: @claudiabonifazio (https://www.instagram.com/claudiabonifazio)Got a deception story of your own, or a big lie you need to get off your chest? DM the show on Instagram... Krissy wants the messy ones!!Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SProduced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

Jacob Elordi vs Harry Styles, Ryan Gosling, every leading man alive... and he wins every round.Krissy gets dragged through the celebrity-crush firing line and won't budge. Harry Styles is sex on legs. Austin Butler is too trapped in Elvis. Chris Hemsworth is too Brad Pitt. It's Jacob, every time, until she stops dead... "I'm starting to sound like a cougar stalker." Then the dating round lands: red flag or green flag on the men worth keeping and the ones to run from.What you'll get:• The Jacob Elordi clean sweep• Husband energy vs ruin-your-life energy• Why Madonna stole Coachella• Red flag or green flag, called fastChapters:(00:00) Celebrity crush firing line(00:44) Jacob Elordi wins everything(02:30) The Kardashian dating lineup(05:13) Most overrated crush(06:40) Good husband energy(07:49) Reality TV vs Kardashians(11:11) Movies, tours, hot takes(14:30) Defending Bieber and Hailey(15:32) Madonna was smoking(16:54) Red flag or green flagGot a dating dilemma you want Krissy to call? DM the show.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SProduced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

You can give your kid every label, every PlayStation... and still hand them anxiety by 11.Krissy goes off on the thing she sees every day. The toddler screaming on the supermarket floor while the parent caves. The Gucci shoes on Mufti day. The kids handed a tap-and-go card who then have zero drive.Here is the real secret to a happier, more secure child, and it is not toys. It is boundaries, consistency, and the one thing she did even when stretched to the max... 10 minutes of proper time with each kid, every night.What you'll get:• Why overindulgence breeds anxiety, not happiness• The 10-minute-a-night habit that actually works• How a bit of struggle builds resilience• Why consistency is the kindest thing you can doChapters:(00:00) Screaming in the supermarket(03:46) Boundaries make kids secure(05:38) Why struggle motivates(07:53) What Julia Gillard said(08:47) Give them your time(13:38) Kindness is learned(16:01) The lay-by jeans(18:04) Facing the bank manager(21:53) It is never too late(23:38) Raise kind kidsGot a parenting situation you are stuck on? Send Krissy your dilemma by DM on Instagram @wildlyappropriatepodcast and it might get unpacked on the show.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SThis conversation is one parent's opinion and is not a substitute for professional medical or psychological advice.Produced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

You wake up at 40 and don't recognise yourself... and Krissy says that's not the disaster everyone tells you it is."I don't know who I am anymore" doesn't have to be a crisis. Krissy gets honest about losing pieces of herself with every baby, why Real Housewives was her Harley Davidson, and the small things that pull you back to yourself.What you'll get:• Why losing your identity isn't the end• The guilt no man seems to carry• How to start finding yourself againChapters:(00:00) Losing yourself as a mum(02:11) Housewives was my crisis(06:08) Reinvent at any age(10:51) The 30, 40, 50 milestones(15:15) No such thing as father's guilt(17:34) Unhappy marriages, real crisis(23:07) Wanting your life back(27:23) Start small, mix it up(30:58) Connection keeps your identitySend your own dilemma to the show. DM the podcast on Instagram and Krissy might unpack it on air.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SThis conversation is personal reflection, not professional mental health advice. If you're struggling, please reach out to a qualified professional.Produced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

One person marries in, shows up, comes along... and the whole family is never the same. Here's how to protect your peace.The new partner who rearranges everything. The second wife who erases the first family. The relative who drives a wedge and calls it boundaries.Krissy uses the messiest example going, Harry and Meghan, the fake royal tour, the Ukraine trip timed right as his dad heads to the US. But it's really about the person in your own family who disrupts the lot, and what you do about it.What you'll get:• Why one person can split a whole family• The second-wife move that erases the older kids• How feuds quietly rob children of cousins• Krissy's family rule... forgive, forget, stay closeChapters:(00:00) The fake royal tour(01:24) Harry's Ukraine trip(02:22) It happens everywhere(04:13) You suck it up(05:55) Robbing kids of cousins(06:19) The second wife move(08:03) Don't punish the children(11:03) Privacy or fame(11:41) Be authenticKnow someone living a double life? Send them this one.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SProduced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

Lending money to friends is just stupid, full stop. Krissy in the hot seat, no soft answers.Producer puts her on the spot with rapid-fire money and marriage questions. $250k lands overnight... what do you do. A friend asks for $30k... what do you say. She lent money twice, never saw it again, and now she has a rule.Then the honest stuff. 23 years married. Why a one-night thing is more forgivable to her than an emotional affair. And why she hates the word "rich".What you'll get:• Her hard rule on lending money• When to turn down a paycheck• Physical vs emotional cheating, rankedChapters:(00:00) In the hot seat(00:51) The money moves(05:49) Never lend money(09:24) Money vs marriage(14:09) Judging what people earn(17:25) Money or relevance(18:32) Disciplined or obsessed(24:05) Rebuilding from zero(28:32) Answer or expose(30:58) Cheating, ranked(42:08) The moral dilemmas(49:55) Spotting a narcissist(53:36) Little white liesGot a messy money or relationship dilemma. DM Krissy and it might get answered on the next episode.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SThis chat is honest opinion and personal experience, not financial advice. Do your own homework before any money decision.Produced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

You will never be able to afford your first home... and that is exactly why you can buy one in 2026.Krissy has never once been able to afford the property she was buying. The trick is buying the profit in upfront, so you are already ahead the day you sign. Here is the whole step by step for a first home buyer in Australia.What you'll get:• Why nobody can "afford" their first home• How to buy with profit already built in• What a bank will really lend on a 100k wage• The negotiation moves that win the place cheaperChapters:(00:00) You can't afford it(01:13) Then vs now(05:38) How to buy well(08:35) Finance and buffers(13:13) The 100k example(17:31) Strata and inspections(22:00) Your non-negotiables(24:57) Be flexible, get creativeDM Krissy the area you want covered in the next property episode. @wildlyappropriatepodcastFollow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SThis is general information, not financial advice. Get your own advice before you buy.Produced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

She was 16, 140kg, and hated everyone... including herself. One barbecue changed it.A disinterested teenager who hated school and her body met Krissy at a casual barbecue. One tiny shift later, stop saying "I will," start saying "I am," she was on a six-year turnaround. Now she's 24, engaged, and thriving.What you'll get:• The "I am" not "I will" reframe that actually sticks• How five tiny goals beat one big resolution• PCOS, weight, and learning to advocate for your own health• Why only you can make you unhappyChapters:(00:00) The barbecue that started it(01:34) The mindset shift(04:25) "I am" not "I will"(06:50) Finding faith at her lowest(08:51) PCOS and the beauty path(18:21) Who you surround yourself with(20:26) Advice if you feel stuck(21:50) The weight and the diagnosis(29:42) Unrecognisable nowTia Alexia Danis - skin and dermal therapist, engaged, and the 16-year-old Krissy mentored into a six-year turnaround.If you know someone stuck or stalling on themselves right now, send them this one.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SThis conversation covers mental health, weight and a medical condition. It's one woman's story, not medical advice. If you're struggling, please speak to a professional.Produced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

Someone on $350k a year, always broke. Someone on $80k, already owns their home. The gap isn't the salary.This is the plain version of how Krissy built wealth from nothing, the same way since she was 13. Assets, liabilities, cash flow. And the mindset flip that changes everything... stop renting the flex, buy the asset.What you'll get:• Why $80k beats $350k done wrong• Assets vs liabilities, finally clear• The 10% rule that runs on autopilot• The exact steps to start todayChapters:(00:00) What rich really means(01:31) Saving since thirteen(04:01) Buy assets, not depreciation(10:26) Cash flow explained(13:22) Long game over flex(16:17) The exact steps(17:24) Boosting your income(20:36) Debt, crying, getting freeGot a money win, big or small? DM me. I want to hear how you started.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SThis is one woman's experience, not financial advice. Do your own research and speak to a licensed professional before making money decisions.Produced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

Money won't fix you. It just turns the volume up on who you already are.Krissy has been broke and she's been rich, and the values never moved an inch. The Gucci cap with no coffee money. The kids handed everything who never learn to want a thing. Here's what actually built her... and the tiny habits that still give her a thrill.What you'll get:• The Gucci cap test for spotting broke• Why giving kids everything ruins them• The buy-it-when-it's-empty rule• How debt taught her the most• A ten-minute-a-day money resetChapters:(00:00) Money is a personality(00:52) The Gucci cap test(02:19) Don't buy till empty(03:48) The first couch(04:54) Struggle builds you(07:44) Grotesque waste(08:59) Debt taught everything(11:06) Ten minutes a daySpend ten minutes a day on your money relationship... but start with the newsletter for the deeper cut.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SThis episode is general information about money and habits, not financial advice. For decisions about your own situation, talk to a licensed professional.Produced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

Ten small health habits you can actually keep in 2026. No perfection, no guilt.Everyone says the same thing... no time, can't commit, I'll start Monday. The problem isn't time. It's chasing perfection instead of stacking tiny things that add up.So here's what I actually do. 30 years of lemon water. Spirulina for energy. Celery juice most days. Thyme tea when a cold's coming. Glass over plastic. Quit the microwave 15 years ago. And no, I'm no saint... ex-chain smoker, and I still drink too much.What you'll get:• The tiny habits that actually stack• Why you ditch the microwave and seed oils• 10 tips, do one or do all tenChapters:(00:00) Stop chasing perfection(00:57) Lemon water ritual(01:49) Going organic on a budget(04:23) Never eat farmed fish(05:37) Spirulina and vitamins(07:10) Thyme teas, anti-plastic(09:18) Meal prep, no microwave(10:54) Quitting a 15-year habit(11:40) Drinking in moderation(13:04) The 10 tips(15:52) Glass over plastic(18:00) DIY cleaning, candles(19:43) Baby food and olive oilTell me what you're starting and what you're stopping. DM me at @wildlyappropriatepodcast.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SThis episode shares personal habits and opinions, not medical or dietary advice. Talk to your doctor before changing your diet, supplements or any habit, and seek professional help for anything you're struggling with.Produced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

He cheated, she left, and she's still a broken bird... 7 steps to survive any breakup.Krissy went in for a beauty treatment and walked out having talked a heartbroken stranger through her own breakup playbook. The woman had been cheated on in September and was still mourning a man who never deserved her. So Krissy gave her her mum Dee Dee's line ... "only you can make you unhappy" ... and a 7 step plan you can start the day it ends.What you'll get:• Why no contact for 30 days is step one• The pros and cons list to write while it's fresh• How to reinvent yourself and know your worthChapters:(00:00) The broken bird(01:04) He cheated in September(02:34) Only you can make you unhappy(04:40) Write the pros and cons(06:09) Never settle for less(08:10) Step one: no contact(09:01) Step two: stop talking(09:16) Step three: the list(10:20) Steps four and five(11:14) Reinvention and worth(13:13) Fly like an eagleGot a breakup or a toxic situation you want Krissy's take on? Send your dilemma to @wildlyappropriatepodcast on Instagram.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SThis conversation is for information and is not a substitute for professional mental health support.Produced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

Someone told me to lay off the filler. It wasn't filler. It was a disease I didn't even know I had.I'm celiac. Diagnosed about a year ago. The puffy face people kept commenting on was swelling, not a syringe. And that's what made me sit down and list every procedure I've actually had. No lying, no green-juice excuses.What you'll get:• Every procedure, in order, no hiding• Why I started Botox at 28• The implants story nobody tells you• Why lying about work makes it worseChapters:(00:00) The comment that started it(01:27) First nose job at 18(03:58) Botox at 28(05:36) Implants and capsule contraction(07:47) The eye lift nobody hides(11:13) The third nose job(15:59) It's my body, my choiceThis is one woman's experience, not medical advice. Talk to a qualified professional before any cosmetic procedure.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SGot a procedure you've never told anyone about? DM me. I want to know your take... is it your body, your choice?Produced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

Everyone's writing a to-do list for 2026. The one that changes your year is the to-don't list.The Year of the Horse starts on the 17th of Feb, and this is a fire horse... once every 60 years. Setting goals is easy. The hard part is naming what you'll stop doing. People pleasing. The commitment that drains you. Baggage that was never yours.What you'll get:• Why a to-don't list beats a to-do list• The five things to leave behind in 2026• Gut over head, every timeChapters:(00:00) Year of the horse(01:38) Stop giving away time(04:46) Budget but still live(07:02) What to leave behind(09:48) Gut versus headThis conversation is for general information and isn't financial, medical, or mental-health advice.Send this to the friend who keeps saying yes when she means no.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SProduced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

Nicola Peltz is running the Meghan Markle playbook on Brooklyn Beckham. Here is why he crawls back.Spoilt brat. Rumoured million-dollar allowance. Suddenly a Beckham. You look at a family falling apart and there is almost always one person who caused it.The dress war, the "ruined" dance, the renewed vows, and the slow drag away from his whole family... to me it is the same script Meghan ran on Harry. They should sit and swap notes. And my prediction? A little too little too late.What you'll get:• My unfiltered take on Nicola• The identical Meghan and Harry playbook• My prediction for Brooklyn• How to handle a family feud the right wayChapters:(00:00) Spoilt brat behaviour(02:52) The Meghan playbook(05:37) My prediction(08:48) When money turns family(13:00) Build a bridgeSubscribe so you never miss a celebrity autopsy this brutal:Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SThis is one woman's opinion and commentary on public figures, not a statement of fact. Shared for general discussion, not professional advice.Produced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

17 years old, first day on a trading floor... 100 men, one other woman, no HR department to call.The Wolf of Wall Street, but real. Krissy walked in at 7am, got handed a nickname, and decided who she'd be in a man's world. The case against chasing "female equality"... and why quota hiring sets women back.What you'll get:• The three types of women in business• Why quota hiring backfires on everyone• How to handle the boys' club without playing the victimChapters:(00:00) Trading floor at 17(02:25) Three types of women(05:52) Best person, not quota(12:33) The cup of tea(17:55) Make personal connections(23:40) The China office(28:43) Calling out the boys' club(32:14) When women turn on youGet the deeper cut every week. Subscribe to the newsletter at https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SProduced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

Prisoners told a researcher the same thing... no boundaries growing up, and they never felt safe.That's from a book called Raising Boys, written by someone who spent years inside the New Zealand prison system. It changed how I raised my three. Boundaries aren't the opposite of love... they're how a kid feels secure. So yes, I smacked them, I put soap in their mouths, and they tell me now they needed every bit of it.What you'll get:• Why boundaries make kids feel safe• Discipline it in the moment, not later• Why bullying is learnt at homeChapters:(00:00) Soap and smacking(01:52) The prison book(04:08) Show them real life(05:46) No phones at night(08:50) Staying consistent(12:00) Where bullies come from(16:14) Teaching resilience(20:44) Don't be their friendSend Auntie Krissy your messiest parenting dilemma. DM the podcast on Instagram @wildlyappropriatepodcast and it might get unpacked on a future episode.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SThis is one mum's experience, not professional advice. If you or someone you know is struggling, please reach out to a qualified professional or a local support line.Produced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

22 years ago I was crippled with mum guilt. Here's what finally stopped it after 15 years.Guilty for working. Guilty for the gym. Guilty for five minutes in the shower without the baby on the floor. If you can't breathe without your newborn in the room, this is for you.I ran a business with ten staff while my kids were tiny and still felt like I was failing them daily. It took getting really sick to finally get it... without you and your health, your kids have nothing.What you'll get:• Why the guilt never switches off• The five minute rule that gives you your mind back• Permission to stop being a bad mum in your own headChapters:(00:00) Riddled with guilt(01:38) Fifteen years lost(03:02) Building a business(06:23) The wake-up call(07:14) You can't have it all(08:16) Mums as a superpower(11:32) Crying in the car(12:27) The five minute rule(14:19) A public service announcement(15:30) You're not a bad mum(19:30) Grieving your old life(23:09) Pass it onThis is one mum sharing what worked for her, not medical or mental health advice. If you're struggling after birth, please talk to your GP or midwife.Send this to a mum who needs to hear it today.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SProduced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

He knew at five. He came out at nineteen. And he carried his passport everywhere so he could run.This is a coming out story without the movie ending. Kyle, who produces this show, sits down with Krissy and tells the truth about those years. A secret boyfriend for five years. No one to follow. And the one therapist line that turned it around.What you'll get:• Why "I'm sad" was the only thing he could say• The Pinterest board that became a cry for help• What his mum, dad and nan actually saidChapters:(00:00) Kyle on the couch(01:06) Knowing in Catholic Ireland(02:24) Pretending and Britney(05:07) The secret boyfriend(11:04) Stuck and suicidal(13:33) Carrying his passport(16:04) Texting a friend(17:41) An eight week wait(19:26) The Pinterest board(28:41) The therapist's line(32:56) Telling his mum(42:23) Telling nan and granddad(50:13) Not their fault(56:03) Honest with yourself(01:01:13) You are still youIf this one sits heavy, please talk to someone you trust or a crisis line. Lifeline Australia is 13 11 14. This is a conversation, not professional advice.Save your dilemma for the inbox. DM the show and Krissy might cover it.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SProduced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

Seven losses in about three years. And the part nobody warns you about is not the grief... it is the paranoia.One in four pregnancies end in miscarriage. Krissy lived that seven times, one a set of twins, all before 20 weeks, and she is telling all of it. The losses, the surgeries, the husband who thought he was bad luck and stopped coming to scans, and the last pregnancy that finally held.What you'll get:• Why silence makes it harder• How loss hits the man too• What to actually say to someone• The hope on the other sideChapters:(00:00) Why we stay silent(00:49) The first loss(04:55) The twins(08:29) Loss after loss(11:21) The management clinic(16:00) Deciding on the last(21:18) How to show up(23:36) Johnny and the scans(27:51) Trust your body(30:31) What is coming nextIf this episode moved you, send it to the person you know who is quietly going through it.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SThis is one woman's experience, not medical advice. If you are navigating pregnancy loss or fertility, please reach out to your GP or a qualified specialist, and lean on the people around you.Produced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

A stranger on a boat asked me about foreign exchange at 17. That yes started a whole career... and taught me what a mentor really is.I never went looking for one. I just kept saying yes, and the right people kept turning up. The trading floor. The chef at the Ritz. The coffee that became a job. Then the GFC hit, I'd gone two years without a wage, and my husband walked into my business and started questioning my budgets the morning after I'd been up all night with the baby.What you'll get:• The chance meetings that built a career• How to survive your partner in your business• A simple way to take advice without losing yourselfChapters:(00:00) A stranger on a boat(04:41) The chef who taught me(07:11) A coffee that became a job(09:37) Learning industrial property(13:37) When the GFC hit(19:32) Breaking point at 25(25:53) My husband in my business(28:54) China and a new company(33:12) Spotting who needs a mentor(35:25) The colander methodStuck or struggling right now? Send me a DM and tell me where you're at. I read them.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SThis conversation is for general information and is not financial, business or career advice. Get advice that fits your own situation before making big decisions.Produced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

You do not need the credentials. You need to know how to sell yourself...Krissy started working at 12, talked her way into Ritz Carlton, became number nine in the world there, then rebuilt as a property agent. None of it was about qualifications. All of it was selling herself into the room.What you'll get:• How to get past the gatekeeper screening every call• Why "just start" beats waiting for the perfect time• The RAC rule for finding a mentor who actually moves youChapters:(00:00) Selling yourself at 12(02:22) What wildly appropriate means(04:40) Just start now(07:52) Respect gets you in(10:01) The gatekeeper phone trick(12:30) Finding the right mentor(15:58) Ritz Carlton to property(19:25) The male-dominated myth(23:32) Pink gumboots on site(26:45) Always wanting more(30:09) Your weekly wild moveThis week's challenge: find one mentor outside your field, ask for half an hour, and come tell her what you learned.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SProduced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

We are back with a brand new season and a rebrand. The Vodka Lectures you know and love has become Wildly Appropriate! Just like Krissy. Thank you for all the love and you patience as we prepared this new era.

Your last kid is about to leave and you have no plan for the empty nest. Here is how to reinvent yourself first.Next year Krissy's youngest finishes school. More time, fewer drop-offs, and one question every parent keeps asking... what now?? But this isn't only for mums and dads. A stroke overnight. A marriage that ends. A career you've outgrown. The change is coming. The only choice is whether you plan for it or get blindsided.What you'll get:• Why reinvention beats dreading the empty nest• The one thing linked to longevity... purpose• How to plan a year before the change lands• A ritual that kept the house from going quietChapters:(00:00) Reinvention, not empty nest(01:26) When change is sudden(02:19) Why I hate change(03:18) Purpose keeps you alive(05:24) Fill the time on purpose(09:09) The Tuesday night dinner(11:35) Don't stay in a rut(12:42) Who this is forSend this to the person dreading the empty nest... then follow so you never miss a week.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SProduced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

Everyone wanted to know why I'd do Real Housewives. The truth ... it was a job. And I quit.People love asking why you'd "degrade yourself" on reality TV. So here's what they never ask. The auditions. The psych tests. The 12-hour days cut down to 20 minutes. Season one was the most fun and the most traumatising. Season three was incredibly toxic. So I left. 150% done.What you'll get:• How casting really works• Whether it's actually scripted• Why season three broke me• Why you should never stay in a job you hateChapters:(00:00) Why would you do it(03:23) The Range Rover call(05:31) Auditions and psych tests(09:53) Watching it back(14:04) Why I'm done(18:55) Life is short(22:48) Was it scriptedThis is a personal take on work and stress, not medical advice.Send this to a friend who needs to leave their job, their rut, or their bad relationship.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SProduced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

Imposter syndrome is a woke excuse to fish for compliments... and two successful women just proved Krissy's point.One built a thriving food company. One sits on a pile of boards. Both told her they feel like frauds. So she dragged the whole dinner table into the debate, then laid out her own record... Ritz Carlton, zero sales experience, selling rooms to Princess Diana, never once feeling like she didn't belong.What you'll get:• Why "successful and scared" doesn't add up• Krissy's never-felt-like-a-fraud story• The fear hiding behind the labelChapters:(00:00) A morning that broke(02:16) The woman who floored me(04:11) Is it just woke(06:12) What the definition says(08:38) Never felt like a fraud(11:00) The fear underneath(13:00) Stop boxing yourself inStop labelling yourself. Want the deeper cut Krissy doesn't put on the feed? Get it in the newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SProduced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

The best day of my China life ended with my son hiding under a chair, waiting for a mum who forgot him.Part 2 of the China story. I'd finally cracked it... new language, new school, first day back at work, kicking goals. Then I got home and my daughter said "where's Billy."He was 13. School an hour away. Minus 22. Phone dead. Found under a chair to stay warm. And the first thing he said on the phone was "I thought you were dead."What you'll get:• The day "perfect mum" fell apart• Why I couldn't get out of bed• What living overseas really teaches youChapters:(00:00) Anything but together(02:36) Two hours in the car(03:14) My triumphant first day(04:13) Where's Billy(06:03) Found under a chair(07:11) You're dead(08:42) Couldn't get out of bed(11:14) The blind orphanage(13:30) What China gave us(15:32) Add oilGot a story like this? DM @wildlyappropriatepodcast and tell me your worst day as a parent.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SProduced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

He said we had to move for work... and within a week it wasn't Hong Kong, it was China.Three kids, a seven-bedroom house, a two month timeline. I rang my mum hysterically crying and she just went... Hong Kong, China, what's the difference!! So we went full steam train. One day to find a driver, the schools and the apartment. Then the furniture left and I ended up on a bare mattress, crying on the floor.This is Part 1... the decision, the pack up, and landing in Shanghai during Chinese New Year when you can't even buy milk.What you'll get:• Why one week changed everything• How to sell a hard move to your kids• The breakdown nobody saw• Surviving with zero MandarinChapters:(00:00) Hong Kong becomes China(02:36) Telling the kids(04:46) Packing up alone(06:54) Selling it to yourself(08:09) No milk, no Mandarin(11:02) Recreating home(14:50) Chinese traditionsSend your own messy decision to the podcast DMs... we read them.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SProduced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

A flatmate handed me one book when I was 23... and I've reread it six or seven times since.Before the book came the flatmates. The baked-beans thief. The toothpaste situation. The night I opened the wrong door at the worst possible moment. And then the book that genuinely changed how I think. Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl. A book about hope, grief, breakups, and what actually gets you up in the morning.What you'll get:• How to survive a freeloading flatmate• The book that reset my whole outlook• Why money means nothing once you've read it• How to find your own search for meaning• Getting through grief and real lossChapters:(00:00) Feeling chilled today(00:30) The crazy flatmate(01:21) Annoying flatmate habits(05:01) The door I shouldn't open(07:01) Whose space is whose(08:20) The book he gave me(09:50) Man's Search for Meaning(11:00) Finding your own meaning(13:00) Motherhood as meaning(18:24) Grief and rebuilding(21:00) Money means nothing(23:04) Pass it onRead the book, then tell me what it gave you... and follow so you never miss a week.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SThis episode touches on grief and loss. It's a personal story, not professional advice. If you're struggling, please reach out to a qualified professional.Produced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

She moved countries, had his baby... now she's sleeping with his brother. Two affair dilemmas, one verdict.Krissy reads two listener letters out loud and does not hold back. A woman two years into an affair with a married man at work, drowning in gifts and "I'll leave her soon." And a new mum who moved here from Italy, lost the spark, and is now sleeping with her partner's brother because "with him I feel seen."What you'll get:• Why the married man is never leaving• The truth about "I feel seen"• Love is a state of mind... choose itChapters:(00:00) Unpacking secret lives(00:55) The married man affair(02:47) He's not leaving(06:07) Use your power, get out(08:43) Italy, a baby, the brother(11:39) End it now(16:03) Love is a state of mind(18:51) Reignite your own relationship(21:57) Never shag the brotherGot a secret you can't say out loud? Send Auntie Krissy your dilemma. DM @wildlyappropriatepodcast and she might unpack it on the show.This is one woman's honest take, not therapy or relationship advice.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SProduced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

You put off the one call that matters and do everything else around it... here is the fix.Eat the toad. First thing every morning, do the ugliest task on your list. The hard call, the gym, the conversation you keep dodging.Krissy built a real estate company on it. She mastered the thing everyone hates, cold calling, and it brought 99% of her business.What you'll get:• The one rule that kills procrastination• Why hard tasks build careers fastest• How to spot the high-impact toadChapters:(00:00) One simple rule(00:38) What eating the toad means(02:23) Hard things built my business(04:43) The morning window(05:51) The ripple effect(07:36) The conversation you avoid(08:49) Make it routinePlan your week around the hard things first. Pick five, eat the toad, let the week flow. Deeper cut in the newsletter.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SProduced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

You don't have an overthinking problem. You have an action problem.A nation of doubters, stuck in their heads over the Instagram post, the invoice, the tough call, the "does he still love me." Krissy's fix is brutally simple... action. Get up, go for the walk, send the thing, have the conversation. The spiral only lives in your head.What you'll get:• Why action kills overthinking dead• Progress over perfection, every time• How to catch yourself mid-spiral• The goal list that quiets the noiseChapters:(00:00) Why you overthink(02:46) Action is the cure(05:45) Catch the spiral(08:20) Write it down(11:09) No time to overthink(14:08) Stop living in your headSend this to the overthinker in your life. Yes... that one.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SThis one's a pep talk, not therapy. If overthinking is really weighing on you, please talk to a professional.Produced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

A PI took six months and found nothing. I cracked her husband's affair over one dinner.The social pages. A call to a bar called Fridays. A $25 transfer with a weird surname. That is how I undid a dad-of-four who said he flew to Canada to see the bears.But here is the question that fires everyone up... if you knew your friend's partner was cheating, would you tell her? I never would. Here is why.What you'll get:• Why I would never tell a friend her partner cheated• The dinner-table detective work that cracked it• Why emotional affairs can hurt moreChapters:(00:00) The PI got nothing(00:50) Would you tell her?(05:24) My non-negotiable(08:23) Cracked it over dinner(11:55) Emotional affairs count(16:00) Forgive, never forget(20:12) Once a cheater, alwaysGot a cheating suspicion or a messy dilemma of your own? DM me on Instagram @wildlyappropriatepodcast and it could be the next episode.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SThis is one woman's take and a chat, not professional advice. If infidelity or a relationship is weighing on you, please reach out to someone you trust or a qualified counsellor.Produced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

She sells cosmetic work for a living... and still couldn't sit down for four months after her own butt lift.Matty Samaei is back and it goes everywhere. The butt lift she calls the most excruciating thing she's ever done. The dating-app age lie. And what really happens behind Real Housewives of Sydney.What you'll get:• The real recovery behind a butt lift• Why she lied about her age on the apps• What reality TV doesn't show you• Filters versus how you actually look• Why aging makes you freer, not smallerChapters:(00:00) Why she's back(02:54) Don't sweat the small stuff(06:36) People don't change(11:23) The butt lift nightmare(13:08) Facelifts and filters(17:34) Behind Real Housewives(21:24) A 50-plus BacheloretteMatty Samaei - original Real Housewives of Sydney cast member and cosmetic-industry insider.This chat covers cosmetic procedures from personal experience and is not medical advice. Talk to a qualified practitioner before any treatment.Send your dilemma. DM the show on Instagram @wildlyappropriatepodcast and it might get unpacked on a future episode.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SProduced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

She spilled red wine on him just to escape the date. Dating after divorce is brutal, and hilarious.Three months single felt like forever, so Matty Samaei got back on the apps and never looked back. The disaster stories are unreal, then it turns into something none of us saw coming.What you'll get:• Why three months single sent Matty straight back to the apps• The drunk date who cried in the first two minutes• The catfish who did cartoon voices... and the visa line that ended him• How a spilled glass of red became the perfect escape plan• Why money makes life easier but never saves a marriage• Banjo the rescue dog, losing her mum, and grief that makes nothing matterChapters:(00:00) Meet Matty(02:01) Back on the apps(06:31) The worst dates(14:51) The wine-spill escape(15:24) Money won't save it(21:31) Banjo and grief(24:54) Losing her mum(31:30) Don't get mad, get everythingMatty Samaei: Sydney businesswoman and original Real Housewives of Sydney cast member, on dating after divorce, grief, and getting back out there.Got a dilemma? Slide into the DMs at @wildlyappropriatepodcast.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SThis episode touches on grief, mental health and suicide. It's a conversation, not professional advice. If you're struggling, please reach out to a GP or a support service like Lifeline on 13 11 14.Produced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

You don't have anxiety. You have nervous energy ... and once you call it that, you can use it.That reframe sets up a no-filter take on parenting. You are a product of your environment, sure, but you get to decide what you keep and what you change. Krissy owns her old-school discipline, why boys need boundaries, and why she'd rather a straight-D report than a kid who's a bully.What you'll get:• The anxiety reframe that changes everything• Why boys feel safe with boundaries• How to stop blaming your mumChapters:(00:00) A product of your environment(00:55) Not about having kids(03:53) Stop the overthinking(06:54) Harness the nerves(08:23) Kindness over marks(11:53) Moodiness is learned(13:01) Boys need boundaries(16:52) The hardest job(18:08) Consistency wins(21:13) Expose them to the world(22:39) You can changeGot a parenting dilemma eating at you? Send it in. DM the show and Auntie Krissy might unpack yours next.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SThis conversation is one woman's view on parenting, not professional or psychological advice.Produced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

You'd treat a new partner like gold... so why does the one you've had for years get your leftovers?Krissy's 22 years in, her parents 60. The honeymoon phase doesn't have to die. It dies when someone gets comfortable and stops trying.The gut-check: imagine you got dumped tomorrow. You'd lose the weight, change the job, become interesting again. So why save all that effort for a relationship you don't even have yet?? Do it now.What you'll get:• The dumped-tomorrow gut-check• Why physical isn't only sex• Curiosity that keeps it alive• How to fight without going below the beltChapters:(00:00) The honeymoon phase myth(04:53) Nurture it like a plant(06:59) Physical isn't just sex(08:50) Do things you'd never do(11:29) Hold back the complaints(14:07) Imagine you got dumped(16:27) Fight wiselySend this one to the friend who needs to hear it.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SProduced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

Your $45 dishwashing tablets are zapping your energy, and the fix costs $2.75.No giant list of do's and don'ts. No guilt. Just a handful of tiny swaps you can make today that save your health AND your wealth... and free up the time and energy you keep saying you don't have.What you'll get:• A $2.75 cleaner that does the whole house• Why processed food costs more than fresh• The water bottle swap that saves $20 a weekChapters:(00:00) The energy obsession(03:31) Audit your week(05:01) Food and the organised home(08:27) The chemical cleaning trap(13:35) Stress, money and movement(16:07) Declutter and sell(18:17) The swaps that saveThis is general info from Krissy's own experience, not medical advice. Check with a professional before making health changes.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SWant the deeper cut? Get the newsletter at https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Produced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

54% met their partner online... still not on the apps? You might deserve to be single.Online dating isn't the last resort anymore. Everyone's doing it. The only thing holding you back is the fear of rejection and that endless ick list you keep adding to. Krissy's four mindset shifts will change who you actually give a chance to.What you'll get:• Why the stigma is dead and gone• How the ick list keeps you single• Curiosity beats criticism every time• Why vulnerability is the whole pointChapters:(00:00) The online dating stigma(05:01) Four mindset shifts(05:46) Stop being so judgy(11:34) The ick factor(16:16) How they make you feel(18:29) Get out thereGot a dating dilemma? Slide into the DMs on Instagram and Krissy might unpack it on the show.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SThis chat is one woman's opinion, not professional relationship advice.Produced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

Some people don't fight you... they just dim you. One jab at a time, until you don't recognise yourself.Krissy gets into the dimmer switch. The friend or partner who turns your light down so they can shine brighter. The "mmm, not sure about that" when you walk out dressed up. It started on Real Housewives of Sydney, the "don't blow out someone's candle" debate, and a woman quietly dulling herself down to fit the group. Here is how to spot it, call it out, and stop changing yourself for anyone.You are not everyone's cup of tea. Good. Go and drink coffee.What you'll get:• How to spot the dimmer switch• Pull someone up in the moment• Why people try to shrink you• A one-line rule that fixes itChapters:(00:00) The candle debate(02:02) Should you change(03:25) Accept the difference(04:52) Dimming to shine(06:42) The dimmer switch(09:31) Compliments cost nothing(11:02) Lift people upSend your dilemma: DM @wildlyappropriatepodcast and tell Krissy who is dimming your light right now.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SProduced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

Being late isn't a quirk. It's disrespect... and the fix starts on a Sunday night.Krissy says it flat out. Show up late and you're telling people your time matters more than theirs. But this isn't a punctuality lecture. It's the thing underneath it... you don't find time, you make time. So she walks you through how she actually runs her week, from Sunday night planning to the Tuesday night dinner that never moves.What you'll get:• Why lateness reads as disrespect• You make time, you don't find it• The Sunday night planning ritual• Tuesday night dinner that never movesChapters:(00:00) Time is the topic(01:43) Lateness is disrespect(04:41) Being present beats date night(09:43) Eat the toad(14:44) Tuesday night dinner(19:59) Stop the excuses(24:15) My weekly time hacks(30:09) Take the week by the ballsSend your dilemma or your time-saver: DM @wildlyappropriatepodcastFollow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SProduced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

Confidence is not a feeling you're born with. It's a skill you build.Anyone promising to take away all your doubt overnight is selling you something. You don't wake up confident. You build it, one uncomfortable rep at a time, and Krissy proves it with the auction she walked into terrified and won anyway.What you'll get:• Why instant confidence is a lie• The five-second rule to stop overthinking• How clarity and goals make you confidentChapters:(00:00) The confidence lie(03:03) Why am I confident(06:34) My first auction(10:01) Butterflies are adrenaline(13:18) Take action todaySave this one and send it to someone walking into a job interview this week.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SProduced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

Seven miscarriages, and Krissy survived them by refusing to dwell. The mental trick that got her through.She didn't even count them until years later. No heartbeat on the scan with her third... she'd already let her go. Two weeks later, a strong heartbeat. That's Milana.This one is a get-to-know-me. A rescue dog two vets wanted put down. A teenage boy stuck in his own head. And the one tool that carried her through all of it... stop thinking, box it up, get on with things.What you'll get:• How she survived seven losses• The power of not overthinking• Knowing when to keep goingChapters:(00:00) A new chapter(00:46) Meet the dogs(02:04) Frank, the rescue(03:54) Seven losses(05:25) The boy who overthinks(06:40) Why I never counted(07:49) No heartbeat, then one(09:59) After a breakup(12:01) Skipping the couch(13:23) Just be this weekThis week: stop analysing everything. Walk in confident even when you're not. Then just be.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SThis is Krissy sharing what worked for her, not professional advice. Pregnancy loss and grief hit everyone differently. If you're struggling, please reach out to your GP or a mental health professional.Produced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

You are the meanest person you know... to yourself. Here is the trick that breaks the loop.The most important relationship you'll ever have is with yourself. Get it wrong and nothing else sticks. Krissy gets honest about the voice in your head, the cancer wake-up call, and one weirdly simple habit you can start tonight.What you'll get:• Catch and rewrite the cruel self-talk• The permanent-marker mirror habit• Why you can't pour from empty• What she'd tell her 20 year old selfChapters:(00:00) Heads up first(01:10) Love yourself first(03:10) How you talk to you(06:31) What cancer taught me(11:04) If I knew this at 20(13:13) Wrapping season oneLoved this? The deeper cut lands in the newsletter. Subscribe: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SThis episode touches on cancer and suicide. It is one woman's story, not medical or mental-health advice. If you are struggling, please reach out to someone you trust or call Lifeline on 13 11 14.Produced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co

The perfect partner does not exist, and that fantasy is why you're still single.You're waiting for the 10 out of 10. Krissy is bursting that bubble... the perfectionism is the problem, not the people you keep rejecting.What you'll get:• Why the perfect partner is a myth• How one flaw makes you miss great people• The mirror test before you judge anyone• Why shared values beat the fairytaleChapters:(00:00) The perfect partner myth(01:11) Stop critiquing, start choosing(02:59) Find your same values(05:07) Johnny and me(07:41) The 2 out of 10 guy(10:30) Choose real over perfectionGot a dating dilemma like this one? Send it to @wildlyappropriatepodcast on Instagram and Krissy might unpack yours next.Follow:Newsletter: https://wildlyappropriate.substack.com/Instagram: @wildlyappropriatepodcast (https://www.instagram.com/wildlyappropriatepodcast)TikTok: @wildlyappropriate (https://www.tiktok.com/@wildlyappropriate)YouTube: @WildlyAppropriate (https://www.youtube.com/@WildlyAppropriate?sub_confirmation=1)Krissy on Instagram: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.instagram.com/realkrissymarsh)Krissy on TikTok: @realkrissymarsh (https://www.tiktok.com/@realkrissymarsh)Listen:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/wildly-appropriate-w-krissy-marsh/id1790057838Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1TIH5sHckXXmnh8qjMb43SProduced by Dreamers Mediawww.dreamersmedia.co