You Will Be OK

What if the life you've worked so hard to build isn't actually the life that's making you happy? In this episode, I sit down with therapist and former Hollywood producer Jane Garnett to explore the journey from external success to authentic fulfillment. Jane shares how she walked away from Hollywood to become a therapist and why so many of us spend our lives performing instead of truly living. We dive into attachment styles, childhood wounds, confidence, self-worth, healing fantasies, and the hidden patterns that keep us stuck in unhealthy relationships. If you've ever felt like you're doing everything "right" but still don't feel fulfilled, this conversation is for you. If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs this conversation. Follow Jane- @thebananajane Work with me: https://www.sabrinabendory.com Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice 00:00: The journey of self-discovery 05:25: Breaking free from societal expectations 11:06: Why Jane left Hollywood to become a therapist 16:45: Are you performing your life instead of living it? 22:29: How childhood shapes adult happiness 28:35: Childhood wounds, attachment, and emotional patterns 34:11: Healing fantasies and why we stay stuck in unhealthy relationships 46:31: Navigating relationship challenges with awareness 49:07: Living with authenticity and embracing your life fully #self-discovery #societalexpectations #Hollywood #therapist #authenticity #attachmentstyles #childhoodwounds #self-worth #healingfantasies #relationships See show notes: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

When I was single and heartbroken at 29, I never could have imagined that within a year I'd be engaged, married, and pregnant. If you are currently healing from a breakup, navigating the modern dating world, or feeling discouraged that everyone else is moving ahead while you’re standing still, this episode is for you. I'm sharing the raw, personal story of how my life completely transformed—and why it wasn't just luck or timing. It was a shift in identity, self-worth, and a commitment to healing past trauma. Your life can change faster than you ever imagined. Your story is not over. Join The Summer Of You Books: The Feminine Code Detached Follow me on Instagram - @sabrinabendory 00:00: From Single to Engaged: My raw timeline and personal transformation. 05:18: The Power of Mindset: The mental shifts required to attract a healthy relationship. 11:14: Healing the Past: Overcoming past trauma and breaking old relationship patterns. 14:27: The Summer of Me: Choosing a season of radical self-discovery and raising your standards. 21:21: Intentional Dating: How to spot consistency and choose the right partner without games. 27:39: Family & Reality: The fast-tracked journey to marriage and the beautiful, real shift into parenthood. 33:16: Mastering Your Circumstances: How to stop letting your current relationship status determine your self-worth. #single #engaged #married #pregnant #breakup #healing #moderndating #identityshift #self-worth #trauma #mindset #relationship #self-discovery See show notes: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dating can feel like a horror movie sometimes—and in this episode, we're embracing that idea in the best way possible. I'm joined by Rory Uphold, author of A Final Girl's Guide to the Horrors of Dating, for a conversation about heartbreak, healing, confidence, and what it really means to become the "final girl" in your own life. We explore how the horror movie archetype mirrors so many of the challenges women face in dating, from surviving toxic relationships to rebuilding trust in yourself after your heart has been broken. We also dive into the ways rom-coms, social media, and cultural expectations shape our beliefs about love, why so many women struggle to trust their intuition, and how to break free from the patterns that keep attracting the wrong people. I share practical strategies for reprogramming limiting beliefs, strengthening your self-worth, setting healthy boundaries, and creating relationships rooted in self-respect instead of fear. If you've ever struggled with heartbreak, anxious attachment, dating burnout, or wondering why you keep ending up in the same unhealthy relationship dynamics, this episode is for you. In this episode, we discuss: - The "Final Girl" mindset and how it applies to dating and relationships - How to heal after heartbreak and emotional trauma - Why we romanticize unhealthy relationships - The hidden influence of rom-coms and media on our expectations of love - How to rewire limiting beliefs and build lasting confidence - Learning to trust your intuition and set boundaries without guilt - What it really means to become the woman who chooses instead of chases If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs the reminder that healing is possible—and that the best love story starts with the relationship you have with yourself. Book: A Final Girl's Guide to teh Horrors of Dating - https://amzn.to/4eKH6c0 Follow Rory- @Icouldbeblonder https://www.instagram.com/icouldbeblonder/ Work with me: https://www.sabrinabendory.com Follow me Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #heartbreak #healing #confidence #finalgirl #toxicrelationships #self-worth #boundaries #intuition #rom-coms #mediainfluence See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/6a3e4df1f1954c3db1934a4d Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In today's episode, I'm celebrating the release of my new book, The Feminine Code: The Unspoken Laws of Power, Magnetism, and Self-Respect, and sharing the personal story that inspired it. I take you back to the relationship that broke me. The one that left me questioning my worth, doubting my reality, and completely disconnected from myself. It was also the relationship that became the foundation for everything I've spent the last two decades teaching women about love, self-worth, and healing. In this episode, I talk about why so many women confuse anxiety with chemistry, how toxic relationships scramble your perception of love, and the subconscious beliefs that keep us chasing validation, abandoning ourselves, and settling for less than we deserve. I also share what I call the Feminine Code — a new way of living rooted in self-respect, discernment, emotional regulation, and self-worth. We get into the dark feminine, why it's been so misunderstood, and how boundaries, standards, and self-trust are some of the most powerful tools a woman can develop. If you've ever struggled to let go, questioned your worth, repeated unhealthy patterns, or wondered why healthy love sometimes feels boring at first — this one is for you. In this episode I cover: - Why so many women mistake anxiety for chemistry - How toxic relationships distort your perception of love - The subconscious beliefs that drive people-pleasing and self-abandonment - What the dark feminine really means - Why boundaries are an act of self-respect - How to rebuild self-worth after heartbreak - The difference between healing and becoming someone new - How to become magnetic without playing games Thank you for being here and helping make this launch possible. I cannot wait for you to read the book. Get it here: The Feminine Code - https://amzn.to/3SfLYhF Work with me: https://www.sabrinabendory.com Follow me: Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ @youwillbeokpodcast https://www.instagram.com/youwillbeokpodcast/ #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #self-worth #toxicrelationships #FeminineCode #healing #self-respect #boundaries See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/6a33c1f20be0176341dfa187 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

If you've ever felt exhausted, discouraged, or strangely addicted to dating apps, you're not imagining it. In this episode, I take a deep dive into the psychology of dating apps and explain why so many people walk away feeling rejected, anxious, and emotionally drained. The problem isn't necessarily you—it's the environment you're operating in. I explore how dating apps gamify the search for love, turning dating into an experience driven by dopamine hits, intermittent reinforcement, and endless swiping. We talk about the subtle but powerful impact of "micro rejections"—the unanswered messages, ghosting, and matches that go nowhere—and how they can slowly chip away at your self-esteem without you even realizing it. I also discuss how dating apps have transformed modern dating into a marketplace where people are encouraged to brand, market, and compare themselves rather than form authentic connections. When dating starts to feel like a competition, it's easy to lose sight of your worth and start seeking validation from outcomes that were never designed to define you in the first place. Most importantly, I share practical ways to navigate dating apps without losing yourself in the process, so you can date from a place of confidence, self-respect, and emotional stability. In this episode, I discuss: -The psychology behind dating apps and how they're designed to keep us engaged - Why swiping creates a dopamine-driven feedback loop - The hidden emotional impact of micro rejections - How dating apps encourage a marketplace mentality - Why modern dating often feels more discouraging than ever - The connection between validation-seeking and unhealthy dating patterns - What many people get wrong about attraction and "dark feminine energy" - How to detach from outcomes and preserve your self-worth - Practical strategies for dating with confidence and intention Pre-order The Feminine Code Book a free call Learn more here: https://www.sabrinabendory.com Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory @youwillbeokpodcast #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #datingapps #psychology #microrejections #dopamine #self-esteem #emotionalstability See show notes: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this fascinating conversation, I sit down with Rabbi Manis Friedman, one of the world's most respected spiritual teachers, to discuss the deeper questions many of us struggle with: What gives life meaning? Why do so many people feel unfulfilled despite having everything they thought they wanted? And what does it take to build a truly lasting relationship? We explore the difference between happiness and fulfillment, the role of purpose in creating a meaningful life, and why modern dating culture may be leading people further away from the connection they seek. Rabbi Friedman shares timeless wisdom on love, marriage, commitment, and the spiritual principles that create strong relationships and a fulfilling life. Whether you're looking for love, navigating relationships, searching for greater purpose, or simply trying to understand what really matters, this conversation offers a refreshing perspective that challenges many of today's most common beliefs. In this episode, we discuss: • What gives life meaning and purpose • The difference between happiness and fulfillment • Why so many people feel disconnected and unfulfilled • What modern dating gets wrong about love and relationships • The spiritual purpose of marriage and commitment • How to build deeper, more meaningful connections • The role of responsibility, service, and contribution in a fulfilling life • Timeless wisdom for creating stronger relationships and a better life This is one of those conversations that has the power to change the way you think about love, purpose, happiness, and what it truly means to live a meaningful life. Rabbi Friedman's website- https://itsgoodtoknow.org/ Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/rabbimanisfriedman/ Work with me: https://www.sabrinabendory.com Follow me- Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ @youwillbeokpodcast https://www.instagram.com/youwillbeokpodcast/ #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #happiness #purpose #love #relationships #fulfillment #datingadvice #relationshipadvice #marriage #commitment #spiritualprinciples See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/6a214cf82efa1f79c5656071 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode of You Will Be OK, I’m talking about the father wound — the invisible emotional imprint left by an absent, emotionally unavailable, critical, inconsistent, or unsafe father figure, and how it shapes nearly every area of our lives long after childhood. I break down the different forms the father wound can take, how it impacts self-worth and attachment, and why so many people unknowingly recreate these dynamics in their adult relationships. In this episode, I cover: - The different types of father absence and how they affect us - How father wounds show up differently in women and men - Why women with father wounds often become drawn to emotionally unavailable partners - How father wounds in men can lead to emotional shutdown, anger, validation-seeking, avoidance, and fear of vulnerability - The difference between mother wounds and father wounds - How these wounds shape our nervous systems, self-esteem, and relationship patterns - What healing actually looks like - Why becoming your own bridge is one of the most powerful things you can do I also talk about the deeper grief underneath the father wound — grieving the protection, safety, validation, and emotional security you may not have received — and how to stop unconsciously seeking it through romantic relationships. If you’ve ever struggled with abandonment, people-pleasing, fear of rejection, emotionally unavailable partners, or feeling like you’re never fully enough, this episode will help you understand why. Pre-order my new book- The Feminine Code: The Unspoken Laws of Power, Magnetism, and Self-Respect - https://shopc.at/femcode Work with me: https://www.sabrinabendory.com Follow me: Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ @youwillbeokpodcast https://www.instagram.com/youwillbeokpodcast/ Tik Tok: @sabrinabendory - https://www.tiktok.com/@sabrinabendory #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #fatherwound #relationships #self-worth #attachment #healing #emotionallyunavailable See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/6a0f48ad4d8ff9e2bf6dd4f6 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Do you constantly seek validation or feel like you’re never enough no matter how much self-work you do? In this episode of You Will Be OK, I’m diving deep into the mother wound — the hidden root behind perfectionism, anxious attachment, people-pleasing, emotional dependency, and chronic self-criticism. I talk about how emotionally unavailable, critical, controlling, neglectful, or inconsistent parenting can shape the way we see ourselves and relationships long into adulthood. I also explore how childhood trauma and emotional wounds impact self-worth, emotional regulation, trust, dating patterns, and the voice inside your head that tells you you’re not good enough. We also get into the different ways the mother wound can show up in women versus men, why so many people stay stuck in toxic relationship cycles despite years of self-work, and what healing actually looks like. In this episode, I discuss: - What the mother wound actually is - How childhood emotional wounds shape adult relationships - The connection between the mother wound and anxious attachment - Why your inner critic sounds the way it does - Healing people-pleasing, perfectionism, and emotional dependency - Emotional regulation and nervous system healing - Inner child healing and rebuilding self-trust - Why you keep seeking validation in relationships - How to stop looking for someone else to finally make you feel worthy This is a deep, emotional, and incredibly important conversation for anyone struggling with self-worth, attachment issues, relationship patterns, or feeling trapped in cycles they can’t seem to break. And if this episode resonates with you, let me know in the comments what part hit hardest. Pre-order The Feminine Code - https://shopc.at/femcode Join my Inner Circle- https://sabrinabendory.com/membership-info Work with me: https://www.sabrinabendory.com Follow me- Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ @youwillbeokpodcast - https://www.instagram.com/youwillbeokpodcast/ Tik Tok: @sabrinabendory - https://www.tiktok.com/@sabrinabendory #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #motherwound #self-worth #emotionalwounds #attachmentissues #relationshippatterns #healing #validation #perfectionism #people-pleasing #emotionaldependency See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/6a06eef41126225e100534c4 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Most people think getting healthy is about willpower, restriction, or finally becoming “disciplined enough.” But real transformation usually starts somewhere much deeper. In this episode, I sit down with health coach and creator Ailin Salem to talk about fitness, confidence, mindset, and what it actually takes to create lasting change in your life without obsessing, burning out, or hating yourself in the process. We talk about Ailin's journey from working in PR to building a career in fitness and wellness, the pressure women feel around their bodies, and why self-love and discipline are not opposites — they actually need each other. We also get into: - Why motivation is unreliable - The habits that actually create long-term change - Building confidence through consistency - Stress, overwhelm, and managing chaos - How to stop the all-or-nothing mindset - Body image, self-worth, and sustainable health - Practical routines that make life feel more manageable This episode is honest, motivating, and full of practical mindset shifts that can genuinely change the way you approach your health and your life. Follow Ailin- @ailinsalem https://www.instagram.com/ailinsalem Buy my book: Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, & Become Irresistible https://amzn.to/4urEsOj Work with me: https://www.sabrinabendory.com Follow me: Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ Tik Tok: @sabrinabendory - https://www.tiktok.com/@sabrinabendory #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #discipline #confidence #health #fitness #self-love #mindset #AilinSalem #motivation #bodyimage #sustainablehealth See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/69fc62e2566c0ef9981b7e1a Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

If you feel exhausted all the time—even when you’re not doing that much—this episode will hit. I sat down with Kamini Wood, a human potential coach, to talk about what’s actually behind burnout, overthinking, and feeling like you’re never doing enough. We get into: - Why burnout is emotional, not just physical - How perfectionism keeps you stuck and drained - The impact of childhood conditioning and parenting patterns - How social media fuels comparison and low self-worth - Why boundaries feel so hard (and how to start) - What it really means to “reparent” yourself - How these patterns show up in dating and relationships If you’ve ever felt like you should be happy but something still feels off, this will explain why. Learn more about Kamini- https://www.kaminiwood.com/ Instgram- @itsauthenticme https://www.instagram.com/itsauthenticme/ Work with me: https://www.sabrinabendory.com Follow me: Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ Tik Tok: @sabrinabendory - https://www.tiktok.com/@sabrinabendory #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #exhausted #burnout #overthinking #happiness #KaminiWood #perfectionism #childhoodconditioning #parentingpatterns #socialmedia #boundaries #reparenting #dating #relationships #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/69f479db8642b1b9112958e9 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Being single isn't most women's end goal, but it's a chapter you'll never get back, and how you spend it shapes everything that comes next. In this episode, I'm making the case that genuinely loving your single life isn't a consolation prize. It's actually the energy that attracts a healthy partner in the first place. I break down the Law of Detachment from my book "Detached"— including what it actually looks like on a Tuesday when he hasn't texted back. I also tackle the elephant in the room most dating advice ignores: timeline pressure, fertility anxiety, and the friend who just posted another sonogram. The reframe? Worrying about your timeline does not change your timeline. Action does. Freeze the eggs, make the financial plan, get healthy, go to therapy, expand your network for life (not just for dating) — and then release everything beyond that. I also share the story behind the philosophy: my "Summer of Me," the last summer of my twenties, when I stopped chasing, started living, and ended up meeting my now-husband in the middle of it all. If you've been treating your single season like a waiting room, this one's for you. Join the Waitlist for "The Summer of You" - https://sabrinabendory.com/summer-of-me-purchase-page Learn more here: https://www.sabrinabendory.com Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory @youwillbeokpodcast #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #singlelife #LawofDetachment #timelinepressure #fertilityanxiety #SummerofMe See show notes: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

If you keep getting attached too fast, overthinking everything, or chasing someone’s attention… this is the episode you need. In this episode, I’m breaking down 10 powerful shifts to help you become a detached, high-value woman — not by playing games, but by changing your energy at the root. Because here’s the truth: Detachment isn’t about not caring… it’s about not needing a specific outcome to feel okay. And that’s what makes you magnetic. Inside, I talk about: - How to stop chasing and start choosing - The subtle ways desperation shows up (and repels people) - How to build a life that naturally creates confidence + detachment - Why being present is more attractive than being perfect - How to receive without overgiving or proving yourself - The mindset shift that instantly changes your dating energy - How to protect your energy and stop emotional burnout - And the core belief that changes everything: you are the prize If you’ve ever felt like you’re “too much,” “not enough,” or constantly stuck in your head while dating… this will shift you. Detachment isn’t something you fake. It’s something you practice... until it becomes who you are. If this episode hit for you, make sure to like, follow/subscribe and share it with a friend who needs this. And if you want to go deeper, check out my book "Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, & Become Irresistible"- https://amzn.to/4vPVnvN Learn more here: https://www.sabrinabendory.com Follow me on social: Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ @youwillbeokpodcast https://www.instagram.com/youwillbeokpodcast/?hl=en #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #detachment #confidence #mindset #energy #high-valuewoman #magnetic See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/69e0b361492001292ab6a00a Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, I’m sharing my nearly 50-pound weight loss journey—what actually worked, what didn’t, and what I wish I had understood sooner. I talk about my experience using GLP-1, how my body changed after pregnancy and breastfeeding, and the lifestyle shifts that finally made things click. But this isn’t just about weight loss—it’s about hormones, identity, mindset, and the patterns that were keeping me stuck for years. I also open up about my relationship with my body, the pressure to “bounce back,” and how I had to let go of all-or-nothing thinking to create real, sustainable change. If you’ve ever felt frustrated with your body or like nothing is working, this is the honest conversation I wish I had earlier. Get my Book "Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, & Become Irresistible"- https://amzn.to/4uRgbCh Learn more here: https://www.sabrinabendory.com Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ @youwillbeokpodcast https://www.instagram.com/youwillbeokpodcast/ Tik Tok: @sabrinabendory - https://www.tiktok.com/@sabrinabendory #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #weightloss #GLP-1 #pregnancy #breastfeeding #hormones #mindset #bodyimage #sustainablechange #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/69c503e1f82b77f3f5e504ae Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Why do you keep ending up in situationships — the kind of connection that almost feels like a relationship, but never fully becomes one? In this episode, I break down exactly what situationships are, why they’re so confusing and addictive, and the deeper patterns that keep you stuck in them. Because it’s not just about “bad luck” or the wrong people — there’s a reason this keeps happening, and once you see it, everything starts to shift. We’ll talk about: -Why Situationships hook you - The difference between a Situationship and Slow Burn Relationship - Why you keep choosing emotionally unavailable or inconsistent partners - How low self-worth and emotional patterns play into it - The difference between real connection and false hope - How to detach, rebuild your self-worth, and start attracting real commitment If you’ve ever felt confused, anxious, or stuck in something that never quite turns into a relationship — this episode will help you understand why, and more importantly, how to break the cycle. Get my book- Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, & Become Irresistible - https://amzn.to/4smPHHp Join my Inner Circle- https://sabrinabendory.com/membership-info Work With Me: https://www.sabrinabendory.com Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ @youwillbeokpodcast https://www.instagram.com/youwillbeokpodcast/ #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #Situationships #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionallyUnavailable #SelfWorth #Commitment See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/69bbc95d3b3e0a3c7e9fd675 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, we explore the psychology of self-sabotage and why we ruin things when they are finally going well. Have you ever wondered why you feel anxiety after success or why you self-sabotage relationships just as they get serious? You aren't "broken"—you’re likely hitting your Upper Limit Problem. This is a psychological ceiling that limits how much happiness, love, and success you allow yourself to experience. Your nervous system is wired for familiarity and safety, not necessarily for growth. When your life improves faster than your subconscious mind is ready for, it triggers a fear of success that leads to self-sabotaging behaviors like procrastination, picking fights, or losing motivation. In this episode, I break down: - What is the Upper Limit Problem? Defining the "happiness ceiling." - Nervous System Regulation: Why your body reacts negatively to positive change. - Signs of Self-Sabotage: How we subconsciously ruin love, career wins, and joy. - Expanding Your Capacity: Practical ways to feel safe while thriving. Recognizing this pattern is the first step to breaking the cycle of self-sabotage. The goal isn’t just achieving the life you want—it’s learning how to regulate your nervous system so you can actually enjoy it. Work with me: https://www.sabrinabendory.com Book: Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, & Become Irresistible Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory @youwillbeokpodcast Tik Tok: @sabrinabendory - #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #self-sabotage #UpperLimitProblem #psychology #anxiety #success #relationships #fearofsuccess #nervoussystem #happinessceiling #personalgrowth See show notes: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Modern dating can feel confusing, exhausting, and sometimes even hopeless — but does it actually have to be that way? In this episode, I sit down with Talia Koren from @Dating.Intentionally to talk about the reality of dating today. Talia started her podcast after realizing she was actually enjoying dating while so many people around her were miserable — and she wanted to understand why. We talk about the idea of a “dating recession,” how the pandemic shifted relationship expectations, and why women today are prioritizing emotional intelligence and connection more than ever before. We also dive into the difference between passive dating and intentional dating, how to spot emotional availability early, and why consistency is one of the most important green flags to look for. If dating has been feeling frustrating or discouraging, this episode will help you approach it with more clarity, self-awareness, and confidence. Get my book Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, & Become Irresistible Follow Talia - @datingintentionally Follow me: Instagram: @sabrinabendory Substack- https://sabrinabendory.substack.com/ #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #ModernDating #DatingRecession #EmotionalIntelligence #IntentionalDating #PassiveDating #EmotionalAvailability #Consistency #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice See show notes: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Why do the guys you really want never seem to want you back? And why do the ones who are consistent and kind sometimes feel… boring? In this episode, Sabrina Bendory breaks down the hidden psychology behind your dating patterns and why so many women find themselves attracted to emotionally unavailable men. She shares personal stories, real client examples, and powerful psychological insights into how childhood love models, subconscious beliefs, and attachment styles shape who you’re drawn to. You’ll learn why dopamine is the anticipation chemical — and how the thrill of the chase can trick your brain into confusing anxiety with chemistry. Sabrina explains how fantasy fills in the blanks when someone is inconsistent, why “potential” is often an illusion, and how your inner monologue may be ignoring red flags before your conscious mind catches up. Most importantly, this episode is about reclaiming your power. You’ll learn how to: • Recognize unhealthy attraction patterns • Rewire subconscious beliefs through neuroplasticity • Shift from chaos to calm in love • Build self-worth from the inside • Cultivate confidence that changes who you attract Get the Book- Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible - https://shopc.at/detached Join my Inner Circle- https://sabrinabendory.com/membership-info Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ @youwilbeokpodcast https://www.instagram.com/youwillbeokpodcast/ #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #emotionallyunavailablemen #datingpatterns #attachmentstyles #dopamine #fantasy #neuroplasticity See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/69a08a52c2f08b0d86d58f31 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode of the You Will Be OK Podcast, I talk about how to date without desperation — and why self-worth is the real key to attracting healthy love. I break down the difference between wanting a relationship and needing one, how comparison and envy sabotage your confidence, and why high standards should be rooted in values — not fear or avoidance. We also talk about pacing in early dating, emotional safety, ghosting, disappointment, and how to stop overinvesting too quickly. If you struggle with anxious attachment, overthinking, or feeling behind in your love life, this episode will help you shift from chasing validation to building a life that feels full — so love becomes an addition, not a rescue. Join my inner circle - Sabrina's Inner Circle Book: Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, & Become Irresistible Learn more here: https://www.sabrinabendory.com Follow me: Instagram: @sabrinabendory @youwillbeokpodcast Tik Tok: @sabrinabendory #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #self-worth #healthylove #anxiousattachment #confidence #emotionalsafety See show notes: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, I sit down with relationship coach Casey Caston to break down what actually makes relationships work — and why love alone is rarely enough. We talk about the biggest misconceptions around dating and long-term relationships, why trust (not chemistry) is the real foundation, and how personal growth, accountability, and repair determine whether a relationship thrives or falls apart. Casey also shares insights from his own relationship journey and the tools he teaches clients to build healthier, more secure connections. Key takeaways: -If you want a better relationship, you have to become a better you -Conflict is healthy and necessary when done well -Trust matters more than love -Unsolicited apologies change everything -Most relationships can be repaired with intention and effort Follow Marriage 365 @marriage365 Get the book: The Marriage Habit Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory - @youwillbeokpodcast #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #relationships #trust #personalgrowth #conflictresolution #CaseyCaston See show notes: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, I talk about something many of us go through but rarely have language for: the Dark Night of the Soul. It’s that period where everything feels like it’s falling apart—emotionally, spiritually, identity-wise—and you don’t recognize yourself or your life anymore. I break down where this concept comes from, what it actually feels like when you’re in it, and why it’s not a sign that you’re broken or doing life wrong. I share how the Dark Night is often a necessary collapse—an ending of old identities, coping mechanisms, and survival strategies that once protected you but no longer fit. We talk about grief, surrender, and the discomfort of sitting in the unknown instead of trying to fix or bypass it. I also explain why trying to “positive-think” your way out of this phase usually backfires, and why feeling the pain is often the doorway to real healing. Most importantly, I offer reassurance and perspective for anyone in the middle of it right now. This isn’t the end of your story—it’s a turning point. With self-care, support, and a willingness to let the process unfold, something new and more aligned is being born on the other side. The darkness has a purpose, and the dawn really does come. Work with me: sabrinabendory.com Get the book: "Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible." Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory - @youwillbeokpodcast #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #DarkNightoftheSoul #emotionalcollapse #spiritualtransformation #self-care #healingprocess #identitychange #copingmechanisms #grief #surrender #unknown #realhealing #personalgrowth See show notes: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, I sit down with Cole Zesiger, a breakup coach whose work was born from his own deeply painful heartbreak. Cole shares how that experience reshaped his understanding of love, loss, and healing—and ultimately led him to help others navigate the aftermath of breakups with more clarity and self-respect. We explore the emotional complexity of breakups, why so many people become consumed with the idea of getting their ex back, and how much of the online breakup advice focuses on strategy over actual healing. Cole breaks down the most common mistakes people make after a breakup, why staying in contact often keeps wounds open, and how rebuilding self-worth—not manipulation or timing—is what truly allows people to move forward. This conversation goes beyond surface-level advice and dives into emotional patterns, forgiveness, and the inner work required to trust again and build healthier relationships in the future. Follow Cole- @coachcolezesiger Get the book: Ex's and No's: The Breakup Advice You Don't Want to Hear Work with me: https://www.sabrinabendory.com Follow me Instagram: @sabrinabendory @youwillbeokpodcast #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #Breakups #NoContact #Self-Worth #ColeZesiger #Heartbreak #Healing #Love #Relationships #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice See show notes: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, I share my personal journey of healing a disorganized attachment style—the push-pull dynamic that kept showing up in my relationships for years. I talk about how my upbringing shaped the way I learned to attach, the coping mechanisms I developed to survive, and the moment I realized attachment styles aren’t fixed. I walk through what actually helped me heal: building self-awareness, creating emotional safety, confronting shame, and learning how to be vulnerable without abandoning myself. I also share practical tools that helped me reconnect with my emotions and rebuild my sense of self-worth. This episode is a reminder that healing is a process and with patience, commitment, and the right support, it’s possible to move toward secure, healthy love. Join my inner circle: Book: "Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible" Work with me: sabrinabendory.com Follow me: Instagram: @sabrinabendory @youwillbeokpodcast #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #disorganizedattachment #healingjourney #emotionalsafety #self-awareness #securerelationships See show notes: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ever feel like you're self-sabotaging just as life starts getting better? Or frustrated that you're not "further along" in your personal growth journey? In this reflective year-end episode of You Will Be Okay, I open up about the subtle but profound transformation I've experienced over the past year—and what true, sustainable change really looks like in real life. Key takeaways you'll get: - Why change doesn't have to start on January 1st (and why we often hit rock bottom right before breakthroughs) - The truth about self-sabotage and the hidden fears that arise when stability finally shows up - Navigating the "messy middle"—that unglamorous phase where real growth happens, even when it feels stagnant - How motivation fades fast, but consistency and building emotional resilience create lasting results - Why unrealistic expectations and old coping mechanisms hold us back—and how to break free - Practical ways to sit with discomfort and build the emotional capacity needed for change that sticks If you've ever backslid during progress, felt stuck in frustration, or wondered why growth feels so slow, this episode is your reminder: You're not alone, and pushing through anyway is the key to moving forward. Book- Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory @youwillbeokpodcast Substack #Change #Motivation #Self-sabotage #Personalgrowth #Emotionalresilience #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice See show notes: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, I break down anxious attachment—what it actually is, where it comes from, and why it can make love feel so overwhelming. I talk about how anxious attachment often forms in childhood, how it shows up as overthinking, fear of abandonment, and self-sabotage in relationships, and why so many people end up relying on others for reassurance instead of trusting themselves. More importantly, I walk you through how to heal it. I share practical tools for recognizing triggers, regulating your nervous system, challenging anxious thought patterns, and rebuilding self-esteem so your relationships stop feeling like emotional rollercoasters. If you’ve ever felt like you care “too much,” get attached too fast, or lose yourself in relationships, this episode will help you understand why—and show you that anxious attachment is not a life sentence. This conversation is about moving from fear to security, from chasing to choosing, and from anxiety to self-trust—so you can create healthier, calmer, more fulfilling connections. Book- Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible Instagram: @sabrinabendory @youwillbeokpodcast #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #anxiousattachment #love #overthinking #fearofabandonment #self-sabotage #reassurance #trust #triggers #nervoussystem #thoughtpatterns #self-esteem #emotionalrollercoasters #relationships #security #self-trust #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice See show notes: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, I sit down with writer and speaker Amanda McCracken, who shares her deeply personal journey as a late-in-life virgin — a story that’s so much more layered than people realize. We talk about how purity culture shaped her beliefs around sex and relationships, the misconceptions she had to untangle about virginity and self-worth, and how those early narratives followed her well into adulthood. Amanda also breaks down limerence — that intoxicating, obsessive pull toward unavailable partners — and explains the science behind longing and why dopamine can keep us hooked on fantasy instead of grounded, healthy love. We explore how she began healing through somatic work, how reconnecting with her body changed everything, and how her family dynamics influenced the kind of love she chased. Her story is such a powerful example of what happens when you start choosing yourself, building self-worth, and stepping out of old patterns. Follow Amanda- @amandajmccracken Get her book, "When Longing Becomes Your Lover" Follow me Instagram: @sabrinabendory @youwillbeokpodcast #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #limerence #self-worth #purityculture #AmandaMcCracken #dopamine #somaticwork See show notes: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, I break down why men pull away in relationships — and why it isn’t always a sign that something is wrong. I talk about the difference between healthy distance and avoidant attachment, and I share the psychological patterns behind withdrawal that most women never learn to recognize. I also get into the common mistakes women make when a man pulls back, including overanalyzing, seeking reassurance, or unknowingly creating pressure. Instead, I walk you through how to stay grounded, self-regulated, and confident while giving space in a way that actually strengthens the connection. Whether you're dating, in a relationship, or navigating anxious-avoidant dynamics, this episode will help you understand what’s really happening beneath the surface. Get "Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible" - https://shopc.at/detached Join my Inner Circle- https://sabrinabendory.com/membership-info Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ @youwillbeokpodcast - https://www.instagram.com/youwillbeokpodcast/?hl=en Tik Tok: @sabrinabendory - https://www.tiktok.com/@sabrinabendory #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #menpullaway #healthydistance #avoidantattachment #psychologicalpatterns #connection See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/69315bef7e91e2d11a1864e7 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into attachment styles — what they are, how they shape your relationships, and most importantly, how to heal them. If you’ve ever wondered why you keep attracting the same type of partner… why you get anxious when you really like someone… why vulnerability feels difficult… or why the people you date pull away just when things get close — this episode is going to make your entire romantic history make sense. We break down: - The 4 attachment styles: secure, anxious, avoidant, and fearful-avoidant - How childhood experiences shape your nervous system and your patterns in love - How attachment shows up in dating, communication, conflict, and intimacy - The difference between an avoidant partner and someone who simply isn’t that into you - Why anxious and avoidant partners are magnetically drawn to each other - And most importantly — how to build secure attachment, no matter where you’re starting from This isn’t about labels or blaming your past. This is about building the tools to feel safe in love, stop abandoning yourself for connection, and finally experience relationships that are stable, healthy, and fulfilling. Buy my book: https://shopc.at/detached Join my Inner Circle - https://sabrinabendory.com/membership-info Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ @youwillbeokpodcast - https://www.instagram.com/youwillbeokpodcast/?hl=en Tik Tok: @sabrinabendory - https://www.tiktok.com/@sabrinabendory #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #attachmentstyles #secureattachment #relationships #anxietyinlove #avoidantpartners See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/691ee6e5cb8b80ef4baaac2f Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, I sit down with dating coach Evan Marc Katz to talk about one of the most frustrating parts of being single — when the people you want don’t want you, and the ones who do just don’t feel like a match. Evan breaks down the paradox of modern dating and why attraction so often feels one-sided. We talk about the emotional challenges of being single, what this mismatch really reveals about our patterns, and how to start creating overlap between what you want and what wants you. If you’ve ever wondered why dating feels so unfair or why it seems impossible to find someone who actually aligns with you, this episode will help you see things differently. It’s real, honest, and surprisingly hopeful — because once you understand the game, you can start playing it on your terms. -- 10 Men You Should Not Date Follow Evan- @realevanmarckatz Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory Tik Tok: @sabrinabendory - #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #EvanMarcKatz #moderndating #emotionalchallenges #datingpatterns See show notes: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, I dive deep into the psychology of emotional unavailability — what’s really going on beneath the surface when someone pulls away just as things start to feel real. I talk about how emotionally unavailable people often operate from a state of dysregulation, not detachment. They’re not intentionally cold or manipulative — they’re usually in survival mode, reacting to intimacy as if it’s dangerous. When closeness triggers fear, their instinct is to withdraw, avoid, or shut down. Understanding this dynamic doesn’t excuse their behavior, but it helps you stop taking it personally and start seeing these patterns for what they are — unconscious defense mechanisms rooted in fear, not rejection. If you’ve ever dated someone who ran hot and cold or disappeared after things started getting deeper, this episode will help you make sense of it, stay grounded, and approach relationships with more awareness and compassion. Get my book- Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible Join my inner circle Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory @youwillbeokpodcast Tik Tok: @sabrinabendory #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalUnavailability #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #Intimacy #DefenseMechanisms See show notes: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, I talk about the real barriers that keep so many of us from finding love—and how, most of the time, what’s getting in our way is ourselves. I share how our fears, insecurities, and unhealed wounds quietly sabotage relationships and make love feel harder than it needs to be. I also break down why inner work and self-awareness are the most powerful tools for attracting and keeping meaningful love. Join my Inner Circle Get My Book- Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible Follow me Instagram: @sabrinabendory @youwillbeokpodcast #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #love #innerwork #self-awareness #fears #insecurities #meaningfulrelationships See show notes: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode of You Will Be OK, we’re diving deep into how to turn your pain into power — how to stop repeating the same patterns, break free from self-sabotage, and finally feel safe being your full, authentic self. We talk about what it really means to heal — not just intellectually understand your trauma, but actually rewire how you respond to it. You’ll learn how to recognize when you’re stuck in survival mode, how to create emotional safety within yourself, and how to blend spirituality and practicality to create real, lasting change. If you’ve ever felt like you keep getting in your own way, this conversation will show you how to shift from overthinking and self-blame into clarity, self-trust, and purpose. It’s about learning to see your story differently — and realizing that what you’ve been through isn’t your downfall, it’s your foundation. Follow Lewis- @lewishuckstep Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory Tik Tok: @sabrinabendory Work with me: sabrinabendory.com See show notes: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, I talk about the emotional chaos that comes with being ghosted—something almost everyone has experienced but no one really knows how to handle. Ghosting feels personal, but it’s not a reflection of your worth. It usually says more about the other person’s emotional immaturity than anything you did wrong. I also share practical steps for moving on, building inner safety, and finding closure within yourself—because peace doesn’t come from their explanation, it comes from your own self-understanding. And if this topic resonates with you, my new book Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible goes even deeper into overcoming attachment wounds and learning how to let go with confidence. Get the book- https://shopc.at/detached Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory -   / sabrinabendory   @youwillbeokpodcast -   / youwillbeokpodcast   Tik Tok: @sabrinabendory -   / sabrinabendory   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode of You Will Be OK, I sit down with Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick from the Datable podcast to unpack the truth about modern dating, self-worth, and what it really takes to find authentic love today. We talk about the biggest dating traps—like chasing validation, confusing chemistry for compatibility, and losing yourself in situationships—and how understanding your dating archetype can help you attract a healthy, lasting relationship. If you’ve ever felt burned out, overthinking, or discouraged by dating apps, this episode will remind you that you’re not alone—and that real connection starts with knowing and valuing yourself. Follow Dateable -   / dateablepodcast   Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory -   / sabrinabendory   Tik Tok: @sabrinabendory -   / sabrinabendory   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode of You Will Be OK, I sit down with life coach and author Andrea Owen to talk about confidence, resilience, and what it really means to heal. We explore how self-abandonment shows up, why surrender can be powerful, and the sneaky habits that hold us back. Andrea also shares how modern life and social media impact our mental health, and why the mind-body connection is essential for lasting growth. Follow Andrea- https://www.instagram.com/heyandreaowen/ Follow me: Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ Tik Tok: @sabrinabendory - https://www.tiktok.com/@sabrinabendory #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #Confidence #Resilience #Healing #Self-abandonment #Surrender #MentalHealth #Mind-BodyConnection #SocialMedia #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/68dcfc000516831cb6b12554 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, I dive into the 10 things every woman needs to know about men—truths that will change how you approach dating, love, and relationships. These aren’t tired clichés or games—they’re insights from my book 10 Things Every Woman Needs to Know About Men and years of coaching women through the ups and downs of love. We’ll talk about why appreciation matters so much to men, why rejection hits them harder than we realize, how they often live in the moment instead of planning ahead, and what commitment really means to them. I’ll also share why men need to feel like winners to thrive, why actions always speak louder than words, and how creating the right environment can inspire deeper connection and commitment. Most importantly, this conversation comes back to you: your self-worth, your happiness, and your ability to create the kind of love you deserve. When you understand men better, you stop overthinking, feel more confident, and attract relationships that truly work. Get my new book: Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible - https://shopc.at/detached Work with me: https://sabrinabendory.com/ Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ Tik Tok: @sabrinabendory - https://www.tiktok.com/@sabrinabendory #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #men #women #love #relationships #self-worth #confidence #commitment See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/68d5838af925e8f860b93e0c Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode of You Will Be OK, I sit down with fitness and mindset coach Jon Shetrit to talk about the deeper emotional struggles men face and how these challenges show up in fitness, relationships, and everyday life. Jon and I dive into why so many men quietly feel like they’re “not good enough,” why respect is such a powerful motivator, and what it really means for men to feel like winners in life. We also explore the emotional side of fitness, the stigma men experience when it comes to seeking help for mental health, and how creating a healthy home environment can set the stage for real change. This conversation is full of practical wisdom on communication, self-reflection, and breaking unhealthy cycles. If you want to better understand men, strengthen your relationships, and create more growth in your own life, this episode is for you. Follow Jon- @uproarwithjon - https://www.instagram.com/uproarwithjon Alpha Dad- https://alphadadtransformation.com/ Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ Tik Tok: @sabrinabendory - https://www.tiktok.com/@sabrinabendory #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #Men #Respect #Relationships #Fitness #Mindset #EmotionalStruggles #Communication #MentalHealth #Self-reflection #Growth See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/68ca86fff075d0eaaea10577 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, I dive into what it really means to be a high-value woman—and why detachment is the secret ingredient to lasting confidence and healthy relationships. Being “high value” isn’t about looks, status, or playing games—it’s a mindset rooted in self-worth. I break down ten key principles of becoming a detached woman, from getting clear on what you want to mastering the art of receiving and learning to create a life you genuinely love. I also share personal stories and practical tools to help you let go of anxiety, stop waiting for someone else to validate you, and finally recognize your own worth. Whether you’re navigating dating, relationships, or your own personal growth, this episode will give you actionable steps to shift your mindset and embrace your value. Buy the book: https://shopc.at/detached Work with me- https://sabrinabendory.com/ Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ Tik Tok: @sabrinabendory - https://www.tiktok.com/@sabrinabendory #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #high-valuewoman #self-worth #confidence #personalgrowth #detachment See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/68c14c7f8dac52b4e4d03de9 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode of You Will Be OK, I dive into the complex world of narcissism. I share what I’ve learned from my own experiences and my work as a relationship coach to unpack what narcissism really means, the different ways it shows up, and the impact it can have on us. I also give you a sneak peek into my upcoming book, Detached, where I talk about healing and rebuilding your self-worth after a relationship with a narcissist. This is an honest, eye-opening conversation that clears up misconceptions and shows you how to step into empowerment. Pre-order "Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible" https://shopc.at/detached Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ Tik Tok: @sabrinabendory - https://www.tiktok.com/@sabrinabendory #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #narcissist #reclaimpower #detach See show notes: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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In this episode of You Will Be Ok, I sit down with Ilana Dunn—host of Seeing Other People and former Hinge employee—to talk about the messy, hilarious, and often confusing world of modern dating. Ilana shares her inspiring journey from being laid off at Hinge to building her own platform, and the lessons she’s learned along the way about love, timing, and being authentic. We dive into: - How to optimize your dating profile so you actually attract the right people - The red flags (and green flags!) you need to pay attention to - Why vulnerability is the secret ingredient for connection - The role timing plays in relationships - How to take control of your dating life without losing yourself in the process Whether you’re single, dating, or just fascinated by how relationships are evolving in the app era, this conversation is full of refreshing honesty and practical takeaways. ✨ Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a friend who needs to hear it! Follow Ilana- @SeeingOtherPeople - https://www.instagram.com/seeingotherpeople/ Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ @youwillbeokpodcast - https://www.instagram.com/youwillbeokpodcast/ Tik Tok: @sabrinabendory - https://www.tiktok.com/@sabrinabendory #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #Dating #IlanaDunn #DatingApps #Timing #Love #Vulnerability #Relationships #DatingProfile #RedFlags #ModernDating See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/68a6ee7efb236390d1db0b51 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, I break down the messy, magnetic, and ultimately toxic relationship between Carrie Bradshaw and Mr. Big from Sex and the City. From the very first season, the red flags were impossible to ignore—yet Carrie (and let’s be honest, many of us watching) romanticized their on-again, off-again rollercoaster as “true love.” I share why I believe Carrie and Big’s relationship was never healthy, how Carrie’s insecurities and Big’s commitment preferences—not “fears”—kept them stuck in an exhausting cycle, and why Carrie was in love with the idea of Big, not the man himself. If you’ve ever been caught in a situationship, obsessed with someone who won’t commit, or stuck in a breakup/makeup loop, this episode will hit home. I also unpack the role of attachment styles in relationship dynamics so you can spot these patterns before they drain you. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The early red flags in Carrie and Big’s relationship Why Big’s “commitment issues” weren’t what they seemed How Carrie’s emotional reactions kept the cycle going The difference between loving someone and loving the idea of them How understanding attachment styles can save you heartache Learn more here: https://www.sabrinabendory.com Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ Tik Tok: @sabrinabendory - https://www.tiktok.com/@sabrinabendory #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #CarrieBradshaw #Mr.Big #SexandtheCity #toxicrelationship #commitmentissues #attachmentstyles #love #relationshipadvice #datingadvice #breakup See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/689c627bf3dd635ae0cfb0bd Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

What happens when everything falls apart—and the only way out is in? In this powerful episode, I sit down with Angie Hawkins, Inner Glow coach and author of Running in Slippers, to talk about her journey from emotional numbness, burnout, and self-loathing to radical self-love and healing. After hitting rock bottom and surviving a suicide attempt, Angie began the deep work of rebuilding her relationship with herself from the inside out. We dive into: – How childhood wounds shape your self-worth – Why numbing your feelings never truly protects you – The truth about emotional regulation and feminine/masculine balance – What self-love really looks like (hint: it’s not bubble baths and affirmations) – The role coaching plays in creating lasting transformation If you’ve ever felt broken, empty, or stuck in cycles that no longer serve you—this conversation is your permission slip to begin again. You are not broken. Your light can be relit. Follow Angie- https://www.instagram.com/angiehawkins808/ Pre-order my book- "Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible" -https://shopc.at/detached Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ Tik Tok: @sabrinabendory - https://www.tiktok.com/@sabrinabendory #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #AngieHawkins #self-love #emotionalhealing #InnerGlow #childhoodwounds #emotionalregulation #transformation #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/689479828bdb30994d410473 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, we delve into the psychology of infidelity to uncover the underlying reasons for cheating, which often aren't what you might expect. Cheating is frequently an escape, a way to feel alive and break free from feeling stuck or unseen. We explore emotional and psychological triggers, such as the 80/20 rule, and discuss differing motivations for men and women, the role of self-sabotage, and the impact of emotional affairs. I share personal experiences of betrayal and the journey of healing, emphasizing that your self-worth isn't defined by others' actions. This episode aids anyone affected by infidelity in processing, healing, and regaining their power. 🔍 Topics Covered: True reasons behind cheating Emotional damage and recovery The 80/20 trap Different needs and impacts for men and women Healing betrayal and rebuilding self-worth Communicating needs effectively 🎧 If you've questioned "Why wasn’t I enough?"—this episode is for you. 👉 Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share with those who need it. PRE-ORDER MY BOOK: Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendoryTik Tok: @sabrinabendory #psychologyofinfidelity #reasonsforcheating #emotionalaffairs #self-worth #healingfrombetrayal #80/20rule #relationshipadvice See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/688b3ef8ed27aafa94d7a805 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this insightful episode, we delve into the complexities of narcissism and relational trauma with licensed psychotherapist Chelsey Brooke Cole. We discuss the various types of narcissists, the subtle ways emotional manipulation manifests, and the damaging cycle of narcissistic abuse—from idealization to devaluation to discard. We also examine how these relationships impact your self-worth and how trauma bonds can keep you trapped. Most importantly, we highlight how to heal: empowering steps to reclaim your peace, rebuild confidence, and safeguard your emotional well-being. Takeaways: Identifying narcissistic traits and abuse cycles Understanding trauma bonds and their challenges Setting boundaries and overcoming self-blame Tools for healing, self-validation, and progressing forward If you've ever felt confused, manipulated, or broken in a relationship—this episode is a reminder: you're not crazy, and you're not alone. Follow me - @sabrinabendory Follow Chelsey - @chelseybrookecole #narcissisticabuse #ChelseyBrookeCole #emotionalmanipulation #traumabonds #healing #self-worth #boundaries See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/6880b2f3e07ae4dca3d545ec Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, we delve into the common struggle of feeling inadequate. We explore the origins of this belief, often rooted in childhood experiences, unmet emotional needs, and societal pressures for perfection. We discuss how these early wounds influence adult behaviors such as people-pleasing, imposter syndrome, and toxic relationships. The impact of social media and comparison culture is also examined, highlighting why it's challenging to feel 'enough' despite self-improvement efforts. Importantly, we provide steps for healing, including recognizing survival patterns, reparenting the inner child, and embracing self-compassion. If you've questioned your worth or felt the need to earn love, success, or validation, this episode is for you. Exciting news! My new book 'Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible' is available for pre-order now: https://shopc.at/detached Pre-order the book to receive a free bonus masterclass on detachment by emailing proof of purchase to [email protected]. Follow me on social media: Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ TikTok: @sabrinabendory - https://www.tiktok.com/@sabrinabendory #FeelingInadequate #Self-Worth #ChildhoodExperiences #People-Pleasing #ImposterSyndrome #Perfectionism #SocialMedia #Self-Compassion #Healing See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/686f8f7144ad22953d0dcc52 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, discover the true reasons you're not finding the love you want—it might surprise you. I share personal stories and hard-won lessons about beliefs and behaviors that kept me in unfulfilling relationships. Explore how low self-worth, unhealed trauma, and seeking external validation can sabotage your dating life, and learn what to do instead. You’ll gain insights on how to choose better, stop settling, and finally create the love story you deserve. If you’ve ever thought: “Why do I keep attracting the wrong people?” “Is something wrong with me?” “What if I’m the one getting in my own way?” — this episode is for you. Topics covered: What’s really blocking you from love How your patterns are shaped by past wounds Why love isn’t something that just “happens” How to build self-worth and attract healthy partners The most important mindset shift to make today The Summer of You Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory Tik Tok: @sabrinabendory #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #self-worth #unhealedtrauma #externalvalidation #healthypartners See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/68650374ed2989242c096f65 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, we delve into the true purpose of the no contact rule—spoiler: it's not about getting your ex back. Discover why no contact is a powerful healing tool after a breakup, particularly if you're trapped in an emotional cycle or can't stop dwelling on past mistakes. We explore the science of emotional addiction, how distance fosters clarity, and why space is crucial to break toxic patterns. Learn how no contact aids in rebuilding your identity, setting boundaries, and reclaiming your self-worth. If moving on feels challenging, this episode offers the insights and permission needed to let go and start anew. Check out The Detachment Blueprint: How to Stop Overthinking and Start Attracting Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory - Instagram TikTok: @sabrinabendory - TikTok #NoContactRule #Healing #Breakup #EmotionalAddiction #Self-worth #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #nocontact See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/685bc8ef2f42bb251ea5c253 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, I explore the chaotic reboot 'And Just Like That' — the continuation of 'Sex and the City' where iconic characters seem to have lost their essence. From Carrie's diminished spark to Miranda's identity struggles and Charlotte's exaggerated antics, I analyze the missteps and why fans, including myself, feel disconnected. I also delve into Carrie and Aidan's relationship — from their beginnings to their recent reunion — discussing attachment issues, emotional development, and why some romantic stories falter, regardless of time. What’s your take on this content style? Interested in more pop culture analyses through a relationship perspective? Leave a comment or email me at [email protected] — I’d love to hear your thoughts! Learn more here. Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ Tik Tok: @sabrinabendory - https://www.tiktok.com/@sabrinabendory #AndJustLikeThat #SexandtheCity #Carrie #Miranda #Charlotte #CarrieandAidan #popculture See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/68528e6fcff23cca0f16ad9e Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Join a heartfelt conversation with relationship coach Amy Young as she explores self-love, personal growth, and authentic relationships. Discover her shift from traditional dating advice to a holistic, soul-centered approach, highlighting the importance of self-healing for healthy love. Uncover how unhealed wounds impact attraction, the imperfections of personal growth, and the transformative power of self-responsibility and vulnerability in relationships. Perfect for anyone feeling stuck yet striving to become their fullest self. Whether single, dating, or healing, find empowerment and connection in this episode. Follow Amy on Instagram: @amyyoungcoWebsite: amyyoungcoaching.com Learn more: sabrinabendory.com Follow us on social media:Instagram: @sabrinabendoryTikTok: @sabrinabendory #self-love #personalgrowth #relationships #healing #vulnerability #AmyYoung #datingadvice #relationshipadvice See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/68490da1d5af6193bea73231 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Discover how I transformed my life in just eight weeks during my “Summer of Me.” I overcame self-doubt, boosted self-worth, and broke the cycle of self-sabotage. Learn about the decisive moment that sparked change, and explore the tools, habits, and mindset shifts that helped me become confident and grounded. This transformation involved improving my appearance and altering my self-talk, all grounded in honesty, purpose, and intentional action. If you feel stuck or lost, this episode is your sign to take charge. Learn what's possible when you strive to be your best self. The Summer of YOU Course: sabrinabendory.com/summer-of-you-course Follow me! Instagram: @sabrinabendory - instagram.com/sabrinabendory Tik Tok: @sabrinabendory - tiktok.com/@sabrinabendory #self-improvement #transformation #self-doubt #self-worth #mindsetshifts #confidence #personalgrowth #SummerofMe #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/68400b9291fcd08b49f83b80 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices