All Episodes

110. The Sex Addiction Relapse Rate is HIGH. Why Aren’t We Talking About This?

109. Healing Your Marriage After Infidelity: The 3 Phases Of Betrayal Recovery

108. Is Sex Addiction Real? What if You’re Just a Cheater?

107. What Is Complex Shame? And, Why Most Sex Addicts Are Unaware They Have It

106. Are You Being Honest With Your Wife? Your Therapist? Yourself?

105. Many Successful Men Have This Trait, And It May Be Harming Their Recovery

104. Why Some Men Act Out, & Others Don’t

103. What If Something Is Blocking You From Getting Into Good Recovery?

102. Is Porn Really That Bad?

101. Is Your Marriage Stuck?: How To Navigate Long-Term Relational Recovery Post Betrayal

100. How To Build a Recovery Plan That Works Long-term and Rebuilds Trust

99. Are You Using a Daily “Check-In” Post Betrayal? And, Is It Helping Your Marriage Or Resulting In Disconnect?

98. Is Recovery Working? What If Each Act Needs a Unique Treatment?

97. Sex Addiction and Narcissism: Are You A Narcissist?

96. Will Your Sex Addiction Recovery Plan Actually Prevent Relapse?

95. How to Help Betrayed Partners in Each Phase of Healing w/ Tammy Gustafson

94. The Men Who Are in Great Recovery Have This

93. How Can You Show a Betrayed Partner That You’re In Good Recovery?

92. Your Recovery Group is the Key to Long-Term Sobriety

91. How to Decrease Your Risk of Relapse: Back to The Basics of Sex Addiction Recovery

90. When Does Sex Addiction Recovery End?

89. Are Men Who Have Been Cheated on More Likely to Cheat on Their Partners?

88. Has Your Wife Asked You To Change Jobs? Or, Stop Traveling For Work as a Result of Your Sex Addiction?

87. Using Advanced Neuroscience Technology To Treat Men With Sex And Porn Addiction

86. How to Measure Your Sex Addiction Recovery: How Recovered Are You? How Do You Know?

85. Dr. Jake Porter: How Sex Addicts Can Restore Integrity And Avoid Relapse

84. 95% of Sex Addicts Say This When They Relapse, And It’s Not True

83. There Are Different Types Of Sex Addicts. Do You Understand Your Specific Sex Addiction?

82. It Sucks To Be a Sex Addict, As You Will Be Judged By Others

81. What is Gaslighting? And, How Betrayed Partners and Sex Addicts Can Navigate The Harm It Causes A Relationship

80. Are My Sex Addiction Groups Full Of Narcissists?

79. Her Story: How a Father’s Sex Addiction Impacted The Family

78. Entitlement, Narcissism, Grandiosity, and Superiority Complexes. Do These Traits Describe A Sex Addict?

76. Why Did You Become a Sex Addict? And How To Use Your “Why” To Recover

75. Long-term Sex Addiction Recovery with Marnie Ferree

74. SA and SAA Don’t Work For Everyone. There Are Other Options Besides 12-step

73. Customizing Your Sex Addiction Recovery with Cheryl Camarillo

72. Is Recovery Working? What If Each Act Has a Different Cause?

71. Finding The Way Through Sex Addiction with Jeanne Vattuone and Tim Stein

70. Roland’s 3 Circles Of Sexual Sobriety

69. The Most Effective Sex Addiction Treatment Strategy (And How To Use It)

68. How to Use Your Peer-Support Group to Achieve Lasting Recovery

67. How Betrayed Partners and Sex Addicts Can Communicate Effectively

66. What should you be checking in with your recovery group?

65. Dr. Jake Porter – Are Sex Addicts Being Defensive? Or, Do They Need Help?

64. Just Because You’re Financially Successful Does Not Mean You’re Going To Be Good At Recovery

63. WHY did you act out? And how do you make sure it doesn’t happen again

62. Have You Tried This Yet? Using IFS To Treat Sex Addiction

61. Addict or A-hole? Are You Actually a Sex/Porn Addict?

60. The Hard Truth About Sex Addiction and Betrayal Trauma Recovery

59. Why “Sex Addiction” Shouldn’t Be Called Sex Addiction

58. How Sex Addicts Can Avoid Burnout And Stay In The Fight For Multiple Years

57. Are You More Traumatized Than You Think? This May Be Limiting Your Recovery

56. Healing Your Marriage After Infidelity is Brutal. Would it be Better to Just Walk Away?

55. If You Were Born Before 2025… You Have Childhood Trauma

54. The 3-Second Rule and Your 3 Circle Sobriety Plan Redefined

53. Is There Such Thing As Being “Recover-ed”

52. How To Thrive After Infidelity feat. The Raabsmiths

51. This Checklist Will Help You Determine If You Are In Good Recovery

50. Why Sex Addiction Recovery Is Different For Successful Men

49. So, you avoided divorce. But, what’s next?

48. Is Sex Addiction Too Big To Recover From?: How To Navigate The Complexities

47. How to quit porn in 30 days? Sorry… that’s not a thing

46. Successful Men Experience a Different Kind of Shame When Struggling With Sex Addiction

45. Sex Addicts Need to Change Their Brains. This Is How It Actually Works.

44. Finally! Empathy Explained In a Way That Men Can Understand

43. Is it really that shocking that men are hiding their sexual behavior from their partners?

42. Can Meditation Cure Sex and Porn Addiction?

41. Is “Recovery” Preventing You From Recovering?

40. How to Handle Your Wife’s Triggers Post Sexual Betrayal

39. Can sex addicts be sober living in the US?

38. Full Therapeutic Disclosure with Dan Drake: Telling your wife about your sexual history before and after your marriage

37. Sex Addicts… Your Wife Needs You to Listen to This

36. Her Experience: Understanding Betrayal Trauma and The New Relationship After Infidelity

35. Sobriety and Recovery Are Two Different Things. So, Make Sure You’re Actually In Recovery

34. How to respond when your wife asks: “Are you in good recovery?”

33. The Perfect Sex Addiction Recovery Program: Why Is It So Hard To Set It Up?

32. Do Mindfulness and Self-Mastery Practices Treat Sex Addiction?

31. Does Abstinence-Based Treatment Work For Sex Addiction?

30. Is Sex Addiction a Christian Problem?

29. Why Sex Addicts Relapse and How to Avoid It

28. Getting Real about Sex Addiction: A Psychodynamic Approach to Treatment

27. Using Somatic Experiencing Therapy To Treat Sex Addiction

26. How To Achieve Long-Term Sobriety and Lasting Recovery (Getting To The Root Cause Of Your Sex Addiction)

25. Is This The Secret Driver Behind Your Sex Addiction?

24. “Surrender” is a dirty word for most successful men, but it’s important in sex addiction recovery

23. What is a “good” sex addiction recovery plan and how do you know if you have one?

22. Why do successful men struggle with sex addiction? And, how do they change?

21. Have You Been Looking At Triggers Wrong? What Actually Triggers Your Sex Addiction?

20. Sex addiction presents differently for successful men. Their addiction has a different motive.

19. High-achievers are expert shape shifters and people pleasers. While great traits in business, they can worsen your sex addiction.

18. How A Sex Addict Can Repair The Marriage (from the author of “Help Her Heal”)

17. Powerlessness is BS and It Keeps Sex Addicts Stuck

16. How To Save A Marriage After Infidelity: Authentically Using Empathy To Heal After Sexual Betrayal

15. Sex Addiction can’t be “stopped”… but, you can prevent it from happening

14. A Thriving Marriage After Sexual Betrayal. Is It Possible?

13. What Causes A Sex Addict To Relapse Or Act Out?

12. What Does Success and Money Have To Do With Sex Addiction and Infidelity?

11. Connecting with other Sex Addicts… Harder than it sounds

10. Does Sex Addiction Treatment Actually Work? How Does One Achieve Long-Term Sobriety?

9. Childhood Trauma and Sex/Porn Addiction

8. Sex Addiction Groups: Finding Your Tribe

7. I The 4 elements that explain why sex addicts do what they do

6. The Sex Addiction Road Map for Successful Men: Better Than Ever?

5. Can you be sober without being sober?

4. Are You Stuck On The Sex Addiction Plateau? Relapsing? Sober, But Not Recovered?

3. Understanding THIS will help you get sober (this addiction isn’t about sex and porn)

2. Is The Cure For Sex And Porn Addiction Feeling Your Feelings?

1. Sex and Porn Addiction is Different for High-achievers