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To All the Men I've Tolerated Before — 268 episodes
Summer Replay: Toxic Masculinity and Male Dating Priviledge
Summer Replay: Still Comdy? Freaky Friday
Summer Replay: Romantic Comedies
Summer Replay: America's Sweethearts and DCC
June 2026 Reminders
Summer Replay: Still Comfy? The Parent Trap
Summer Replay: Writing Sapphic Horror
Summer Replay: Entering Your Rom Com Era
May 2026 Reminders
The Movie Her
Comedy
Secret Lives of Mormon Wives
April 2026 Reminders
Still Comfy? Thelma and Louise
The Geena Davis Institute
Patriarchy Stress Disorder
Kesha
March 2026 Reminders
The Godfather
Sex and the City
Kat Sass
February 2026 End of Month Reminders
Heated Rivalry
Losing Interest in Men
Sailor Moon
End of Month Reminders
Revisiting Glinda
Dating tips from a Divorce Attorney
What is a Woman? With Sara Caplan
2026 Is the Year of The Patreon Lore Dumps
Still Comfy? The Hating Game
Replay: The Real Housewives
Still Comfy? Love, Actually
Replay: The Royal Family
Holiday Break 2025 Announcement
The Olsen Twins
Office Politics
Legislating Our Bodies
Still Comfy? The Addams Family
Parasocial Relationships
Female Friendships
The Men of Grey's Anatomy
End of the Month Replay: Romantic Comedies
Building Your Childfree Community
Expectations of Third-Culture Daughters
Prepping for Marriage Two
Summer Break: Fair Play and Weaponized Incompetence Replay
Summer Break: Still Comfy? Mamma Mia
Summer Break: Its Britney Spears, Babe! Replay
Summer Break: Still Comfy? Now and Then
Summer Break: The Woman in Me Patreon Drop
Summer Break: Still Comfy? The Sandlot
Summer Break: Sex and Love Addiction
Summer Break: Still Comfy? A League of Their Own
Summer Break: 100 First Online Dates
Summer Break: Still Comfy? Armageddon
Summer Break: Purity Culture and Sex Ed
Summer Break: The Parent Trap
Summer Break: Taylor Swift
Summer Break: Diversity in the Boardgame Industry
Summer Break: Women in Historical Film
Southern Charm
Anora
Classical Music
Flashback: The Barbie Movie
Queerness in a Religiously Devout Household
Writing Sapphic Horror
Eldest Daughter Capricorns
Flashback: Learning Your Truth and Trusting Yourself
Playboy
Owning a Small Business
It Ends with Us
Flashback Marginalized Joy
Intergenerational Trauma, Grief, and Impossible Beauty Standards
Chaotic Bi Joy
Cowboy Carter
Another Check-In on the Four Fear Responses
Witchcraft
Glinda the Good?
Wicked
Still Comfy? The Hating Game
Still Comfy? Love, Actually
Patreon Release: More Reality TV with Annie Sieg
Still Comfy? Practical Magic
Entering Your Rom Com Era
America's Sweethearts: The Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders
Tell Me Lies
Patreon Release: Lisa Frankenstein
Filmmakers and the Female Gaze
Red Flags
Gender Expression
Patreon Teaser: Mid Year Check-in with Julia Washington
Romantic Comedies
The Tortured Poets Department (Part 2)
The Tortured Poets Department (Part 1)
Still Comfy? Mermaids
Still Comfy? Jurassic Park
Still Comfy? Sleepless in Seattle
Still Comfy? Mrs. Doubtfire
Still Comfy? Return to Me
Guest Spot: Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous and the Hunchback of Notre Dame
Still Comfy? Addams Family
Still Comfy? Ever After
Still Comfy? Freaky Friday
Guest Spot: Fixing Famous People Shannon Doherty and Alyssa Milano
Vanderpump Rules S11
Young Adult Literature
Representing Sapphic Romance in Media
Patreon Teaser May 2024: Misogynistic Foolery
Thicc B* Punk Rock
The 7 Deady Sins
Raising a Son
Raising a Daughter
Patreon Teaser March 2024 The Feminist Icons and Lisa Frankenstein
Hormonal Birth Control
Love is Blind S6 (Part 2)
Love is Blind S6 (Part 1)
Patreon Teaser Feb 2024 Romance, Candles, Bachelor Nation, and Creative Burnout
The Royal Family
I'm The Gaming Industry Expert Here!
Dungeons and Dragons Lore
Patreon Teaser: Misogynist of the Year Awards
Incels
Diversity in the Board Game Industry
Nutrition Education Gaps
Making Space for Our Voices
Patreon Teaser- January Intention Setting
ADHD and Sexuality
Marginalized Joy
The Real Housewives
Still Comfy? The Parent Trap
Still Comfy? Love, Actually
Still Comfy? Armageddon
Still Comfy A Knight's Tale
Introducing Our Misogynist of the Year Nominees
PNW Haunts and Homicides: Richard Gilmore
Premiering DRAUMA DUMP
Female Celebrity Memoirs
Purity Culture and Sex Ed
Patreon Teaser: Round Two with Depp/Heard
Its Britney Spears, Babes!
Final Girls: The Strongest Women in Horror
Building Intentional Relationships
ADHD Diagnosing
Patreon Teaser: 2023 Check-in On Goals and Manifestations
Family Court and Divorcing Your Abuser
The Four Fear Responses
When Women Uphold Misogyny
Patreon Teaser: Vision Boards, Manifestations, and Goals
The Writers Strike
The Barbie Movie
Still Comfy? How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days
Still Comfy? The Sandlot
Still Comfy? A League of Their Own
Still Comfy? Clueless
Still Comfy? Titanic
Patreon Teaser: Just Having Fun About Taylor Swift
Demisexuality
Scandoval
Why Isn't 30 More Flirty?
Toxic Masculinity and Male Dating Privilege
Taylor Swift
Patreon Teaser: Vanderpump Scandals, Red Flags, and Annie!
Getting Your Sexy Back
Domestic Violence Reporting and Advocacy
Mindset Surrounding Divorce
Patreon Teaser: Nerding Out with JD
The Audacity is High and My Tolerance is Low
Women in STEM
Joining The Imposter Syndrome Club
Patreon Teaser: First Try at Reality Tv With Annie
Round Two of Women and Wrestling
Gatekeeping in the Art World
Negging Isn't Flirting
Loving Your Relationship With Food
Patreon Teaser: Natalie's Visit with Elizabeth Kyle
The Princess Syndrome
All or Nothing Thinking
A Single Mom's Experience
Patreon Teaser: Nat and Steph Deal with the Holidays
100 First Online Dates
Working Behind the Scenes of Hollywood
Love and Sex Addiction
Still Comfy? Practical Magic
Still Comfy? Thelma And Louise
Still Comfy? Don't Worry Darling
Still Comfy? Mamma Mia
Still Comfy? Now and Then
Hocus Pocus Still Comfy Teaser
Staying Safe
Women and Wealth
Presenting the News and Knowing Your Audience
Our First Birthday Bash
Fair Play and Weaponized Incompetence
Too Young To Be Taken Seriously
Learning Your Truth and Trusting Yourself
The Trial of Shawn Hunter and Dawson Leery
Healing After Your Worst Relationship
Representation Matters
Reality Tv is Valid and So Are You
Are You Sure You’re Enlightened?
Fireside Ep. 4: Dating App Romance Novels
Twilight Sucks Hard
Money Mental Olympics
Misogyny Crosses Cultures
Fireside Ep. 3: How Am I supposed to Date Now
The Men Wendi Cooper Tolerated
So Much Blame and Shame
You're Not Too Geeky to Gatekeep
Fireside Episode 2: Annie Sieg and Art Reflecting How We Feel
Introducing To All the Men I've Tolerated Before
Adult Friendships Get Tricky
Feeling Mid in the Midwest
Period Stigma Causes Period Poverty
Working for Ourselves
Live on Fireside: Meet Team Tolerator
Bold, Loud, and Trying to Date
Single and…Thriving?
Turns Out I Do Have Religious Trauma
A Deep Dive on Narcissism
Sing Me a Song so I Fall Hard
Millennial Dating Upheavals
90’s Male Protagonists Made Me Codependent
Being a Minimalist with Delanie Fischer
Orgasming (Or At Least Chatting about It) with Remy Kassimir
Behind the Scenes of Pandemic Nursing
Consent, Acroyoga, and Good Communication
Unemployment Broke my Brain
Childfree, Bold, and Proud
Relating After a Pandemic
Women and Wrestling
We Don't Talk About Generational Trauma
Episode 36: Writing Smut with Mimi Duncan
Writing to Heal with Lisa Pearson
Episode 34: Mommy Guilt with Amber and Stephanie
Episode 33: Introducing Partners to Our Toys with Ellen Moore is available now!
Episode 32: Making Bodies Art with Annie Sieg
Episode 31: Homesteading and the Armed Forces with The Mother Cluckers
Episode 30: Romantic Comedies and Us
Episode 29: Goin’ Hollywood about Men and Movies
Episode 28: Work Besties and Boos
Episode 27: Bosses and Toxic Work Environments
Episode 26: Women in Horror with Guest Caitlin Grant
Episode 25: I Need Attention!
Episode 24: Internet Fantasy Relationships
Episode 23: Our Relationships with our Bodies
Episode 22: Running a Small Business and a Household
Episode 21: The Best Dates
Episode 20: The Worst Dates
Episode 19: “But Do You Sport?”
Episode 18: And I Still Slept With Him After That!
Episode 17: Friendly or Friendzoned
Episode 16: Unintentional Thirsty Movies
Episode 15: Motherhood During a Pandemic
Episode 14: So You Want to Date Your Podcast Host
Episode 13: Valentine’s Day in July!
Episode 12: The Mama’s Boy
Episode 11: The Mansplainers and Know It Alls
Episode 10: We Have our First Guest, Mx. Regina Spade!
Episode 9: Simps and the Way They Fall Head Over Heels
Episode 8: The One Who Got Away
Episode 7: When Shame Enters the Relationship
Episode 6: Men Who Mentored Us
Episode 5: Dating During a Pandemic
Episode 4: Relationship Diagnostic: How We Feel About Dating
Episode 1: First Crushes and the Inability to Make a Move
Episode 2: The Awkward First Kiss
Episode 3: Our First Time Having Sex