The Living Loss: Navigating Life Transitions & Invisible Grief

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The Living Loss: Navigating Life Transitions & Invisible Grief

The Living Loss Podcast is hosted by Licensed Mental Health Counselors Daiana Bernard and Cassandra Harris-Towner. This podcast focuses on non-death grief, the profound, unacknowledged losses like the fading of a dream, a difficult diagnosis, or the loss of an identity. These hidden experiences impact our mental health and relationships, yet are often minimized.Through solo episodes and diverse guest interviews, Daiana and Cassandra validate these lived experiences and offer tangible ways to move toward healing. They are creating a community where no experience is too "small" or too "wild" to talk about, from the end of a favorite show to the loss of a former self. It’s time to acknowledge the weight of what you're carrying and rediscover your purpose through values, connection, and community.Connect With UsYour stories and questions are the heartbeat of this show—they help us all feel a little more seen. We’d love to

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    16 | Living with the Hidden Grief of Miscarriage with Shruti Trivedi

    In this heartfelt episode, Cassandra Harris-Towner interviews Shruti Trivedi about living with the complex grief of pregnancy and baby loss. They explore the nuances of ambiguous loss, delayed grief, and practical frameworks for healing, emphasizing the importance of validation, self-care, and community support.Connect With Us: We’re building a space where every loss is seen. Email us your story. If you have an experience you’d like us to share, let us know, we are always happy to share your stories anonymously to keep this a safe space for our community. Instagram: @thelivinglosspodcast  Email: [email protected] If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe, follow, share and leave a review. It helps us reach others who need to hear that their grief is valid.Connect with Shruti TrivediTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tulsihealslifecoachingInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/tulsiheals_life_coaching/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shruzeeSubstack: https://substack.com/@tulsihealslifecoachingYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEuJzTER4Lz2u42KQIg2X9wLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/shruti-trivedi-pmp-acc-8793671aLinktr.ee: https://linktr.ee/tulsiheals_lifecoachingBlinq: https://blinq.me/AAcAILQ5QK3kxylXUp3S?bs=iclComplimentary 60 mins breakthrough call: https://calendly.com/shruzee/60min If you’re interested in a consultation for individual therapy with Daiana Bernard: [email protected] Website: MeaningfulTherapyFL.com If you’re interested in a consultation with Cassandra Harris-Towner please reach out: Email: [email protected] Website: firststridezcounseling.comDisclaimer: While we are Licensed Mental Health Counselors, listening to this podcast or reaching out for a consultation does not replace professional therapy or establish a therapist-client relationship. This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. If you are experiencing a mental health emergency, please call or text 988 or head to your nearest emergency room.

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    15 | RP: Living with Grief Fog: Why Your Brain Feels This Way

    In this replay Daiana shares personal insights on grief brain, relationship dynamics, and practical coping strategies. She briefly explores navigating grief, emotional exhaustion, and the importance of self-compassion during difficult times.In this episode, Cassandra and Daiana delve into the complexities of grief, particularly focusing on the concept of 'grief brain' and its effects on mental clarity. They discuss empathy fatigue, a common experience among therapists and caregivers, and the importance of utilizing distress tolerance skills to manage emotional surges. The conversation shifts to the role of entertainment in coping with grief, highlighting how shows like 'The Good Place' can provide comfort and insight into the human experience of loss. The hosts emphasize the significance of creating meaning from grief and the ongoing journey of healing. ACCEPTS Skill: https://dbt.tools/distress_tolerance/accepts.phpConnect With Us: We’re building a space where every loss is seen. Have a 'Living Loss Lesson' or a topic you’d like us to explore? Email us your story. If you have an experience you’d like us to share, let us know, we are always happy to share your stories anonymously to keep this a safe space for our community. Instagram: @thelivinglosspodcast  Email: [email protected] the Show: If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe, follow, share and leave a review. It helps us reach others who need to hear that their grief is validWork with Daiana If you’re interested in a consultation for individual therapy, please reach out via email or visit the practice website below.Email: [email protected]: MeaningfulTherapyFL.comLocation: Riverview, FL, In-Person, and Telehealth serving clients throughout Florida.Work with Cassandra If you’re interested in a consultation, please reach out via email or visit the practice website below.Email: [email protected]: firststridezcounseling.comLocation: Ocala, FL, In-Person, and Telehealth serving clients throughout Florida.Disclaimer: While we are Licensed Mental Health Counselors, listening to this podcast or reaching out for a consultation does not replace professional therapy or establish a therapist-client relationship. This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. If you are experiencing a mental health emergency, please call or text 988 or head to your nearest emergency room.

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    14 | RP: Living with Hidden Grief: An Introduction and a personal update.

    Daiana shares a personal update about taking time off to grieve and be with family. She then delves into the psychology of grief, highlighting the cognitive reorganization and the different types of grief experiences. The conversation provides clarity and comfort to the audience.Replay: The Living Loss Podcast explores the complexities of non-death grief, shedding light on different types of non-death grief such as ambiguous loss, disenfranchised grief, anticipatory grief, delayed grief, and complicated grief. The hosts share personal experiences and insights, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging and validating non-death grief while finding meaning and seeking community support.Show notesConnect With Us:Join the Community: We’re building a space where every loss is seen. Have a 'Living Loss Lesson' or a topic you’d like us to explore? Email us your story. If you have an experience you’d like us to share on the air, let us know, we are always happy to share your stories anonymously to keep this a safe space for our community.Instagram: @thelivinglosspodcast Email: [email protected] the Show: If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe, follow, share and leave a review. It helps us reach others who need to hear that their grief is valid.If you’re interested in a consultation for individual therapy with Daiana Bernard, please reach out via email or visit the practice website below.Email: [email protected]: MeaningfulTherapyFL.comLocation: Riverview, FL, In-Person, and Telehealth serving clients throughout Florida.If you’re interested in a consultation with Cassandra Harris-Towner please reach out via email or visit the practice website below.Email: [email protected]: firststridezcounseling.comLocation: Ocala, FL, In-Person, and Telehealth serving clients throughout Florida.Disclaimer: While we are Licensed Mental Health Counselors, listening to this podcast or reaching out for a consultation does not replace professional therapy or establish a therapist-client relationship. This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. If you are experiencing a mental health emergency, please call or text 988 or head to your nearest emergency room.

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    13 | Living with Eating Disorder Loss: The Reality of Grief in Recovery with Briana Rogers, LMHC

    The Living Loss Podcast explores the complex grief experienced in eating disorders, addressing topics such as ambiguous loss, disenfranchised grief, shame, identity, and the impact on relationships. It delves into coping mechanisms, the recovery paradox, and the importance of supporting individuals with eating disorders. The podcast emphasizes the normalcy of grief in recovery and the need to honor the loss experienced.Connect With Us:Join the Community: We’re building a space where every loss is seen. Have a 'Living Loss Lesson' or a topic you’d like us to explore? Email us your story. If you have an experience you’d like us to share on the air, let us know, we are always happy to share your stories anonymously to keep this a safe space for our community. Instagram: @thelivinglosspodcast  Email: [email protected] the Show: If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe, follow, share and leave a review. It helps us reach others who need to hear that their grief is valid.If you’re interested in a consultation for individual therapy with Daiana Bernard, please reach out via email or visit the practice website below.Email: [email protected] Website: MeaningfulTherapyFL.com Location: Riverview, FL, In-Person, and Telehealth serving clients throughout Florida.If you’re interested in a consultation with Cassandra Harris-Towner please reach out via email or visit the practice website below. Email: [email protected] Website: firststridezcounseling.com Location: Ocala, FL, In-Person, and Telehealth serving clients throughout Florida.Our Guest: Briana Rogers, LMHC Website: naturallyyoucounseling.comInstagram: @naturallyyoucounselingDisclaimer: While we are Licensed Mental Health Counselors, listening to this podcast or reaching out for a consultation does not replace professional therapy or establish a therapist-client relationship. This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. If you are experiencing a mental health emergency, please call or text 988 or head to your nearest emergency room.

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    12 | Living with Family Estrangement: Navigating the Silent Break with Lee Horton-Carter

    Daiana and Cassandra, with special guest Lee Horton-Carter, retired psychotherapist, explore the concept of ambiguous loss and family estrangement, shedding light on the psychological and emotional impact of living with estrangement. We would like to mention that today’s conversation does touch on the subject of sexual abuse and could be triggering to some listeners. It is not the overall focus but we wanted to be mindful of everyone’s experiences.  The conversation delves into the experience of estrangement, the impact on identity, and the journey of finding belonging and healing outside of the family system. The conversation delves into the complexities of estrangement and its impact on relationships, identity, and resilience. Lee shares personal experiences and insights, highlighting the challenges and growth associated with estrangement from family.Connect With Us:Join the Community: We’re building a space where every loss is seen. Have a 'Living Loss Lesson' or a topic you’d like us to explore? Email us your story. If you have an experience you’d like us to share on the air, let us know, we are always happy to share your stories anonymously to keep this a safe space for our community. Lee would also love to hear from you if her story resonated with you!Instagram: @thelivinglosspodcast  Email: [email protected] the Show: If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe, follow, share and leave a review. It helps us reach others who need to hear that their grief is valid.If you’re interested in a consultation for individual therapy with Daiana Bernard, please reach out via email or visit the practice website below.Email: [email protected] Website: MeaningfulTherapyFL.com Location: Riverview, FL, In-Person, and Telehealth serving clients throughout Florida.If you’re interested in a consultation with Cassandra Harris-Towner please reach out via email or visit the practice website below.Email: [email protected] Website: firststridezcounseling.com Location: Ocala, FL, In-Person, and Telehealth serving clients throughout Florida.Disclaimer: While we are Licensed Mental Health Counselors, listening to this podcast or reaching out for a consultation does not replace professional therapy or establish a therapist-client relationship. This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. If you are experiencing a mental health emergency, please call or text 988 or head to your nearest emergency room.

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    11 | Living with the Weight we Never Put Down: Finding the Light with Author Joel Asencio, LMHC

    In this episode of The Living Loss, Daiana Bernard and Cassandra Harris-Towner sit down with author Joel Asensio for a deeply moving conversation about the types of grief that often go unacknowledged. We dive into the "unseen" side of suffering, from the heavy fog of depression to the complexities of loving someone through their darkest mental health struggles.Joel shares the heart behind his novella, How Much Could a Clementine Weigh?, and how storytelling serves as a vital bridge toward connection and hope. Whether you are navigating your own "quiet" loss or supporting someone else through theirs, this episode offers a gentle space to feel seen.Purchase “How Much Could A Clementine Weigh?" Anywhere books are sold. Follow Joel on Instagram @authorjoelasencio Connect With Us:Join the Community: We’re building a space where every loss is seen. Have a 'Living Loss Lesson' or a topic you’d like us to explore? Email us your story. If you have an experience you’d like us to share on the air, let us know, we are always happy to share your stories anonymously to keep this a safe space for our community. Instagram: @thelivinglosspodcast  Email: [email protected] the Show: If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe, follow, share and leave a review. It helps us reach others who need to hear that their grief is valid.If you’re interested in a consultation for individual therapy with Daiana Bernard, please reach out via email or visit the practice website below.Email: [email protected] Website: MeaningfulTherapyFL.com Location: Riverview, FL, In-Person, and Telehealth serving clients throughout Florida.If you’re interested in a consultation with Cassandra Harris-Towner please reach out via email or visit the practice website below. Email: [email protected] Website: firststridezcounseling.com Location: Ocala, FL, In-Person, and Telehealth serving clients throughout Florida.Disclaimer: While we are Licensed Mental Health Counselors, listening to this podcast or reaching out for a consultation does not replace professional therapy or establish a therapist-client relationship. This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. If you are experiencing a mental health emergency, please call or text 988 or head to your nearest emergency room.

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    10 | Living with the Stages of Parenting: Grieving the Versions of Our Kids w/ Christine Vega-Perez

    Parenting is a series of beautiful hellos and quiet, heavy goodbyes. In this episode, we’re diving into the "living losses" that come with raising children—the grief of outgrowing a stage, the shift in our own identities as they gain independence, and the bittersweet reality of watching the versions of our kids we once knew slip away to make room for who they are becoming.Join Daiana and Cassandra as they sit down with life coach and healthcare professional Christine Vega-Perez. Together, they explore how to process anticipatory grief, release "mom guilt," and build a foundation of calm amid the chaotic transitions of parenthood.Connect with Christine: www.instagram.com/@lifecoach.christinewww.facebook.com/lifesriskmanagementwww.linkedin.com/in/christine-vega-perez/Join the Community: We’re building a space where every loss is seen. Have a 'Living Loss Lesson' or a topic you’d like us to explore? Email us your story. If you have an experience you’d like us to share on the air, let us know, we are always happy to share your stories anonymously to keep this a safe space for our community.Instagram: @thelivinglosspodcast Email: [email protected] the Show: If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe, follow, share and leave a review. It helps us reach others who need to hear that their grief is valid.If you’re interested in a consultation for individual therapy with Daiana Bernard, please reach out via email or visit the practice website below.Email: [email protected]: MeaningfulTherapyFL.comLocation: Riverview, FL, In-Person, and Telehealth serving clients throughout Florida.If you’re interested in a consultation with Cassandra Harris-Towner please reach out via email or visit the practice website below.Email: [email protected]: firststridezcounseling.comLocation: Ocala, FL, In-Person, and Telehealth serving clients throughout Florida.Disclaimer: While we are Licensed Mental Health Counselors, listening to this podcast or reaching out for a consultation does not replace professional therapy or establish a therapist-client relationship. This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. If you are experiencing a mental health emergency, please call or text 988 or head to your nearest emergency room.

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    09 | Living with the Silence: Navigating the Loss of Friendships

    The Living Loss podcast explores the quiet, complex grief of friendship loss and the impact it has on identity, closure, and emotional trust. The conversation delves into the emotional impact of ambiguous loss, disenfranchised grief, and the challenge of finding closure in relationships. It also highlights the significance of friendship loss and the emotional flexibility it can provide, along with tangible takeaways for coping with loss and grief.Chapters00:00 Understanding Quiet Losses03:03 Navigating Friendship Loss06:02 The Impact of Closure and Rumination08:56 Attachment and Identity Disruption11:45 The Emotional Weight of Friendship Changes14:59 The Narrative of Loss17:46 Finding Meaning in Grief21:41 Integrating Loss and Grief24:55 The Evolution of Friendships29:00 Quality Over Quantity in Relationships35:15 Living Loss Lessons and Self-Discovery39:53 NEWCHAPTERWatch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/_p25phFIx94Resource: https://www.attachmentproject.com/Connect With Us:Join the Community: We’re building a space where every loss is seen. Have a 'Living Loss Lesson' or a topic you’d like us to explore? Email us your story. If you have an experience you’d like us to share on the air, let us know, we are always happy to share your stories anonymously to keep this a safe space for our community.Instagram: @thelivinglosspodcast Email: [email protected] the Show: If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe, follow, share and leave a review. It helps us reach others who need to hear that their grief is valid.If you’re interested in a consultation for individual therapy with Daiana Bernard, please reach out via email or visit the practice website below.Email: [email protected] Website: MeaningfulTherapyFL.com Location: Riverview, FL, In-Person, and Telehealth serving clients throughout Florida.If you’re interested in a consultation with Cassandra Harris-Towner please reach out via email or visit the practice website below. Email: [email protected] Website: firststridezcounseling.com Location: Ocala, FL, In-Person, and Telehealth serving clients throughout Florida.Disclaimer: While we are Licensed Mental Health Counselors, listening to this podcast or reaching out for a consultation does not replace professional therapy or establish a therapist-client relationship. This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. If you are experiencing a mental health emergency, please call or text 988 or head to your nearest emergency room.

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    08 | Living with Alopecia: Navigating the Hidden Grief with Bridgid

    In this episode of the Living Loss podcast, hosts Cassandra and Daiana explore the often-overlooked grief associated with alopecia, a condition that leads to hair loss and can profoundly impact identity and self-image. They are joined by Brigid, who shares her personal journey with alopecia, discussing the emotional toll of camouflaging her hair loss, the challenges of dating, and the journey towards self-acceptance. The conversation emphasizes the importance of empathy, connection, and the lessons learned through grief, ultimately highlighting the strength found in vulnerability and community support.Chapters00:00 Understanding Quiet Losses: The Impact of Alopecia02:55 Brigid's Journey: Navigating Identity and Hair Loss06:01 The Emotional Toll: Camouflaging and Dating Challenges09:00 Acceptance and Self-Expression: Embracing Baldness11:58 Empathy and Connection: Sharing the Alopecia Experience14:48 Living Loss Lessons: Strength and Purpose in GriefJoin the Community: "We’re building a space where every loss is seen. Have a 'Living Loss Lesson' or a topic you’d like us to explore? Email us your story. If you have an experience you’d like us to share on the air, let us know, we are always happy to share your stories anonymously to keep this a safe space for our community. Instagram: @thelivinglosspodcast  Email: [email protected] the Show: If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe, follow, share and leave a review. It helps us reach others who need to hear that their grief is valid.Work with Daiana If you’re interested in a consultation for individual therapy, please reach out via email or visit the practice website below.Email: [email protected]: MeaningfulTherapyFL.comLocation: Riverview, FL, In-Person, and Telehealth serving clients throughout Florida.Daiana is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) and the owner of Meaningful Therapy. She provides a supportive, neurodivergent and trauma-informed space for adults.Work with Cassandra If you’re interested in a consultation, please reach out via email or visit the practice website below.Email: [email protected]: firststridezcounseling.comLocation: Ocala, FL, In-Person, and Telehealth serving clients throughout Florida.Cassandra is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) at First Stridez Counseling. She provides a supportive, neurodivergent-affirming space for: Individuals & Couples: Supporting adolescents, young adults, and adults of all ages.Disclaimer: While we are Licensed Mental Health Counselors, listening to this podcast or reaching out for a consultation does not replace professional therapy or establish a therapist-client relationship. This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. If you are experiencing a mental health emergency, please call or text 988 or head to your nearest emergency room.

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    07 | Living with Grief Fog: Why Your Brain Feels This Way

    In this episode of the Living Loss Podcast, Cassandra and Daiana delve into the complexities of grief, particularly focusing on the concept of 'grief brain' and its effects on mental clarity. They discuss empathy fatigue, a common experience among therapists and caregivers, and the importance of utilizing distress tolerance skills to manage emotional surges. The conversation shifts to the role of entertainment in coping with grief, highlighting how shows like 'The Good Place' can provide comfort and insight into the human experience of loss. The hosts emphasize the significance of creating meaning from grief and the ongoing journey of healing.ACCEPTS Skill: https://dbt.tools/distress_tolerance/accepts.phpConnect With Us:Join the Community: "We’re building a space where every loss is seen. Have a 'Living Loss Lesson' or a topic you’d like us to explore? Email us your story. If you have an experience you’d like us to share on the air, let us know, we are always happy to share your stories anonymously to keep this a safe space for our community.Instagram: @thelivinglosspodcast  Email: [email protected] the Show: If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe, follow, share and leave a review. It helps us reach others who need to hear that their grief is validWork with DaianaIf you’re interested in a consultation for individual therapy, please reach out via email or visit the practice website below.Email: [email protected]: MeaningfulTherapyFL.comLocation: Riverview, FL, In-Person, and Telehealth serving clients throughout Florida.Work with CassandraIf you’re interested in a consultation, please reach out via email or visit the practice website below.Email: [email protected]: firststridezcounseling.comLocation: Ocala, FL, In-Person, and Telehealth serving clients throughout Florida.Disclaimer: While we are Licensed Mental Health Counselors, listening to this podcast or reaching out for a consultation does not replace professional therapy or establish a therapist-client relationship. This content is for educational and entertainment purposes only. If you are experiencing a mental health emergency, please call or text 988 or head to your nearest emergency room.

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    06 | Living with Sibling Disability: Unlearning Our Roles Suyapa Ulloa, LCSW

    In this episode, we explore the complex and often invisible grief experienced by siblings of loved ones with disabilities or chronic illnesses. Suyapa Ulloa shares her personal journey, cultural influences like Marianismo, and practical insights on unlearning caregiving roles to embrace self-care and authentic identity.Chapters00:00 Unpacking Ambiguous Loss05:47 The Unlearning Process11:54 The Experience of Siblings17:52 Radical Acceptance and Healing32:59 Final TakeawaysConnect with Suyapa UlloaTikToc and Instagram @SuyapaSuTherapistWebsite: SuyapaSuTherapist.comConnect With Us: We’re building a space where every loss is seen. Have a 'Living Loss Lesson' or a topic you’d like us to explore? Email us your story. If you have an experience you’d like us to share on the air, let us know, we are always happy to share your stories anonymously to keep this a safe space for our community.Instagram: @thelivinglosspodcast Email: [email protected] the Show: If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe, follow, share and leave a review. It helps us reach others who need to hear that their grief is valid.Work with DaianaIf you’re interested in a consultation for individual therapy, please reach out via email or visit the practice website below.Email: [email protected]: MeaningfulTherapyFL.comLocation: Riverview, FL, In-Person, and Telehealth serving clients throughout Florida.Daiana is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) and the owner of Meaningful Therapy. She provides a supportive, neurodivergent and trauma-informed space for adults navigating:Non-Death Loss & Grief: Validating and healing the "living losses" that often go unacknowledged.Trauma: Supporting individuals processing their own personal trauma as well as those experiencing vicarious trauma.Therapeutic Modalities: Integrating ACT, DBT, and Accelerated Resolution Therapy for a holistic approach to healing.Work with CassandraIf you’re interested in a consultation, please reach out via email or visit the practice website below.Email: [email protected]: firststridezcounseling.comLocation: Ocala, FL, In-Person, and Telehealth serving clients throughout Florida.Cassandra is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) at First Stridez Counseling. She provides a supportive, neurodivergent-affirming space for:Individuals & Couples: Supporting adolescents, young adults, and adults of all ages.Specialties: Neurodivergence, interpersonal relationships, and mood disorders.Therapeutic Modalities: Integrating CBT, DBT, Play & Art therapeutic interventions, and Person-Centered therapy.

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    05 | Living with the Grief of Belonging with Eliana Perez

    In this episode of the Living Loss Podcast, hosts Daiana and Cassandra engage in a heartfelt conversation with Eliana Perez about the unique grief of feeling like a permanent outsider. Eliana shares her journey from Brooklyn to the Dominican Republic and back to the United States, exploring the complexities of identity, culture shock, and the challenges of navigating dual identities. The discussion emphasizes the importance of acknowledging grief, embracing one's heritage, and finding balance in a new environment. Eliana's insights provide valuable lessons on personal growth and the significance of community support in overcoming feelings of loss and belonging.TakeawaysThe weight of grief often comes from unacknowledged feelings.Cultural transitions can lead to feelings of being an outsider.Language barriers can contribute to identity struggles.Change affects individuals regardless of age or circumstance.Support systems are crucial during major life transitions.Embracing both sides of one's identity can lead to personal growth.Navigating cultural differences requires patience and understanding.Finding a sense of belonging takes time and effort.It's important to advocate for one's own culture and identity.Personal goals may take longer to achieve, and that's okay.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Living Loss01:18 Eliana's Journey: From Brooklyn to the Dominican Republic06:23 Navigating Identity and Culture Shock12:39 The Transition Back to the United States19:36 Embracing Dual Identities26:31 Finding Balance in a New Environment27:14 Living Loss Lessons: Embracing Your JourneyConnect With Us:Instagram: @thelivinglosspodcastEmail: [email protected] the Community: Share your "Living Loss Lesson" with us on social media. What is one silent or lingering feeling you are finally giving yourself permission to name this week?Support the Show: If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe, follow, and leave a review. It helps us reach others who need to hear that their grief is valid.Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional therapy or mental health care.

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    04 | Living with Collective Grief: The 80s Baby Experience (Part 2)

    In this episode of the Living Loss podcast, hosts Cassandra and Daiana delve into the quiet, complex griefs experienced by a generation shaped by 9-11, the recession, and the global pandemic. The hosts explore the concept of widening the window of tolerance to find glimmers of joy amidst chaos, while also addressing the impact of collective trauma, delayed grief, radical honesty, and reducing shame. The conversation emphasizes bodily awareness, emotional responses, and the importance of understanding anxiety and the nervous system. It concludes with a focus on finding sensory moments and sharing glimmers with others, offering tangible takeaways for listeners.TakeawaystakeawaysThe cumulative grief of a generation has been shaped by significant events like 9/11 and the pandemic.Delayed grief can manifest long after traumatic events, affecting mental health.Radical honesty involves acknowledging the reality of our feelings rather than denying them.Anxiety is a natural response to real threats and should not be dismissed as irrational.Widening our window of tolerance allows us to experience both grief and joy simultaneously.Finding glimmers of joy can serve as a form of resistance against overwhelming grief.Community support is vital in managing grief and feeling less alone.Self-validation is crucial in reducing shame associated with anxiety and grief.Engaging in nostalgic activities can help reconnect us with joy.It's important to share our experiences and glimmers with others to foster connection.Chapters00:00 Navigating Collective Grief01:42 Understanding Delayed Grief06:48 Radical Honesty and Self-Validation14:45 Widening the Window of Tolerance20:25 Finding Glimmers of Joy27:29 Living Loss LessonsConnect With Us:Instagram: @thelivinglosspodcastEmail: [email protected] the Community: Share your "Living Loss Lesson" with us on social media. What is one silent or lingering feeling you are finally giving yourself permission to name this week?Support the Show: If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe, follow, and leave a review. It helps us reach others who need to hear that their grief is valid.Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional therapy or mental health care.

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    03 | Living with Collective Grief: The 80s Baby Experience (Part 1)

    The Living Loss Podcast hosts, Daiana and Cassandra, unpack the concepts of collective and cumulative grief, discussing the impact of global events on 80s babies and Millennials. They explore the window of tolerance, hyperarousal, and the challenges of parenting in the face of uncertainty and trauma. The conversation delves into the resilience and strength gained through decades of uncertainty, highlighting the need for radical honesty and the shift from surviving to living. Stay tuned for Part 2 next week.TakeawaysCollective and cumulative griefResilience and strength gained through decades of uncertaintyChapters00:00 Neurogrief and Parenting ChallengesConnect With Us:Instagram: @thelivinglosspodcastEmail: [email protected] the Community: Share your "Living Loss Lesson" with us on social media. What is one silent or lingering feeling you are finally giving yourself permission to name this week?Support the Show: If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe, follow, and leave a review. It helps us reach others who need to hear that their grief is valid.Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional therapy or mental health care.

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    02 | Living with the Complexity of "Coming Home"

    In this episode, licensed mental health counselors Daiana Bernard and Cassandra Harris-Towner explore the emotional complexity of the post-holiday season and the unique "heaviness" that remains once the decorations are put away. We dive into the post-holiday letdown and why the end of the season can feel like a heavy emotional drop, alongside "the ghost of who you were"—the phenomenon where returning to a childhood environment triggers old reactions and makes you feel like an "angsty teenager" all over again. The conversation also covers the "long-distance ache" of missing out on the daily lives of nieces, nephews, and siblings while living out of state, the tension between anticipatory grief and reality during major moves, and how being "removed" from your roots can actually make the time you do spend there more intentional and joyful.Key Takeaways:The Weight of Bracing: We often "brace for impact" when returning to old environments, guarding ourselves against emotional ghosts from decades ago.Dual Realities: It is possible to be eternally grateful for your current life while still grieving the version of "home" or the connections you left behind.Naming the Loss: Healing begins when we stop invalidating our quiet griefs and start acknowledging them as real.Connect With Us:Instagram: @thelivinglosspodcastJoin the Community: Share your "Living Loss Lesson" with us on social media. What is one non-death loss you are acknowledging this week?Support the Show: If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe, follow, and leave a review. It helps us reach others who need to hear that their grief is valid.Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional therapy or mental health care.

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    01 | Living with Hidden Grief: An Introduction

    The Living Loss Podcast explores the complexities of non-death grief, shedding light on different types of non-death grief such as ambiguous loss, disenfranchised grief, anticipatory grief, delayed grief, and complicated grief. The hosts share personal experiences and insights, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging and validating non-death grief while finding meaning and seeking community support.TakeawaysNon-death grief is a complex and nuanced experienceDifferent types of non-death grief include ambiguous loss, disenfranchised grief, anticipatory grief, delayed grief, and complicated grief.Connect With UsWe’d love to hear how these conversations are landing with you. Do you have a "Living Loss" story to share, a question about today’s topic, or a "Glimmer" that’s helping you through the week?Reach out to us at [email protected]:00 Introduction to Living Loss Podcast05:06 Acknowledging Non-Death Grief11:00 Toxic Positivity and Finding Meaning16:34 Impact of Ambiguous Loss23:02 Finding Meaning and Community Support

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    The Living Loss Trailer

    The Living Loss Podcast aims to shed light on unrecognized losses, including the loss of identity and fading dreams. It also explores the impact of grief and trauma, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging and understanding these experiences. The podcast encourages self-compassion and the pursuit of living authentically with purpose.TakeawaysLiving Loss PodcastGrief and TraumaCompassion and PurposeChapters00:00 Shining a Light on Unrecognized Losses

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

The Living Loss Podcast is hosted by Licensed Mental Health Counselors Daiana Bernard and Cassandra Harris-Towner. This podcast focuses on non-death grief, the profound, unacknowledged losses like the fading of a dream, a difficult diagnosis, or the loss of an identity. These hidden experiences impact our mental health and relationships, yet are often minimized.Through solo episodes and diverse guest interviews, Daiana and Cassandra validate these lived experiences and offer tangible ways to move toward healing. They are creating a community where no experience is too "small" or too "wild" to talk about, from the end of a favorite show to the loss of a former self. It’s time to acknowledge the weight of what you're carrying and rediscover your purpose through values, connection, and community.Connect With UsYour stories and questions are the heartbeat of this show—they help us all feel a little more seen. We’d love to

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Daiana Bernard, LMHC & Cassandra Harris-Towner, LMHC

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