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Be High-Performing — 251 episodes

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#251 – Emotions Are Contagious

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#250 – The "I Know How To" Exercise

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#249 – The Puzzle-Solving Mindset

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#248 – The Difference Between Perfectionism & Striving for Excellence

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#247 – Approach Your Pursuits With an Adventurous Spirit

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#246 – Talk TO People, Not ABOUT People

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#245 – Go 24 Hours Without Saying Anything Negative

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#244 – Find Reasons to KEEP Your Commitments Instead of Finding Reasons to Break Them

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#243 – Make Connecting with Your Team Members a Priority

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#242 – Get Advice from Your Future Self

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#241 – The Benefits of Sharing with Your Team Members the Good You See In Them

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#240 – Combining Intense Focus with Letting Go

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#239 – Trust That You Can Handle Difficult Emotions

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#238 – Stand In the Eye of the Storm

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#237 – Boost Performance & Passion by Aligning Team Roles & Responsibilities with Key Strengths & Interests

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#236 – Use This Trick to Stop Being So Hard on Yourself

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#235 – Gain Control by Not Trying to Control the Wrong Things

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#234 – You Must Allow Your Emotions to Rise In Order for Them to Fall

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#233 – How to Turn Social Comparison Into a Good Thing

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#232 – People Respect Leaders Who Admit Their Weaknesses

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#231 – George Mumford's 3 C's

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#230 – What Is Holding You Back?

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#229 – Constant Negative Feedback Destroys Morale

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#228 – Don't Just Work Hard - Work Intentionally

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#227 – Having Fun & Competing Hard Are Not Mutually Exclusive

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#226 – You Are Not Your Automatic Thoughts

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#225 – How Would Your Life Be Different If You Took Shame Out of It?

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#224 – When You Can't Stop Worrying

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#223 – After Action Review

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#222 – How to Accelerate Your Improvement

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#221 – How to Perform In Competition Like You Do In Practice

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#220 – Love Is A Mental Skill

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#219 – What Would the Confident Version of Yourself Do Right Now?

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#218 – Allow Yourself to Feel Proud of Yourself

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#217 – Gossip Is Poison for Team Culture

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#216 – The Present Moment Is Where Your Power Lies

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#215 – Your Brain Is Wired to Forget Your Why's

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#214 – Don't Keep Compliments In Your Head - Share Them!

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#213 – What Are You Giving Your Energy To?

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#212 – The Antidote to Overwhelm

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#211 – The M.V.P. Preparation Routine

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#210 – What To Do When You're Feeling Burnt Out

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#209 – What Would You Do If You Knew You Wouldn't Fail?

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#208 – You Can Care Without Worrying

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#207 – Consider How You Think About People Who Are Hard for You to Work With

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#206 – Break Through the Ceiling You've Given Yourself

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#205 – Question the Stories You're Telling Yourself

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#204 – Managing Your Thoughts Around Giving Your People Constructive Feedback

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#203 – Perfectionism Is Lying to You

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#202 – Your Opponents Are Your Friends

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#201 – Relation-Inferred Self-Efficacy

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#200 – Stop Stressing Yourself Out By Telling Yourself Things Are Crazy

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#199 – Trust Your Ability to Handle Whatever Each Moment Brings

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#198 – Common Counterproductive Responses to Mistakes

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#197 – Stop Focusing So Much on What Other People Think

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#196 – Don't React to Your Mistakes

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#195 – Care About the People You Lead, And Make Sure They Know It

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#194 – Are You Subconsciously Proving Your Limiting Beliefs True?

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#193 – Be Kind to Your Past Self, Serve Your Future Self

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#192 – Don't Solve Your People's Problems - Help Them Develop Solutions

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#191 – How to Stop Giving Your Negative Thoughts Power

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#190 – Do This to Discover & CRUSH Your Limiting Beliefs

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#189 – How to Own Your Mistakes Without Beating Yourself Up

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#188 – Inaccurate Negative Self-Perceptions

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#187 – Stable vs. Unstable Sources of Confidence

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#186 – 4 Tips for Building Habits that Stick

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#185 – Perfectionism, Exceptionalism, & Growthism

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#184 – 4 Tips for Approaching Challenges Effectively!

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#183 – Tackling Fear

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#182 – Approach vs. Avoidance: Focus On What You Want To DO!

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#181 – You Are SO Much More Capable Than You Realize

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#180 – The WONDER Mindset

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#179 – Use This Trick to Stop Being So Hard on Yourself

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#178 – Boost Your Vision of What You're Capable of Through the Power of Roleplay

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#177 – Decrease Your Suffering by Thinking In POWER

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#176 – Instead of Trying to Push Your Difficult Emotions Out, Do THIS

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#175 – 4 Tips for Getting the Most Out of Visualization

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#174 – From Impossible to Possible to PROBABLE: Building Empowering Beliefs to Fuel Success, with Jim Effner, Top Sales Leader & Renowned Author & Coach

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#173 – How to Stop Getting Thrown Off by Mistakes

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#172 – One Day of Pure Courage

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#171 – Don't Let Disempowering Thought Processes Control Your Actions

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#170 – Sami Layadi from "Survivor" Season 43 - You Can Do So Much More Than Your Brain Says You Can Do

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#169 – 2 Mental Skills for Improving Your End-of-Day Rest

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#168 – Define Daily Success in Controllable Terms

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#167 – 3 C's for Building Confidence

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#166 – The Pain of Going for It and Falling Short Is Better than the Pain of Not Trying

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#165 – The Neuroscience of the FUN Mindset

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#164 – Pathological Optimism & High-Performance Routines - with Jason Ferguson - D1 Athlete, Top Sales Leader, Author, & Speaker

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#163 – Change Everything by Changing One Thing

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#162 – BODYSET & The Power of GESTURE: Using Your Body to Understand Yourself & Your Emotions - with Jen Aks, Leadership Coach, Author, & Speaker

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#161 – Get Out of Your Own Way - Let Your Subconscious Mind Execute Your Ingrained Skills

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#160 – Trust That You're Doing the Right Things Even When the Outcomes Aren't Coming Yet

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#159 – How to Stop Choking Under Pressure

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#158 – Break Through Your Unrealistic Expectations by Talking to Your Inner Child

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#157 – Instead of Trying to Push Your Negative Thoughts Out, Do THIS

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#156 – How to Feel Proud of Yourself (& Why That's Important)

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#155 – Decrease Your Suffering by LEANING IN to Challenges

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#154 – You Have One Life. Live It Courageously! - with Addison LaBonte, Former D1 Athlete & Founder of Sweet Addison's

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#153 – How to Overcome the Mid-Afternoon Slump

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#152 – Don't Use Your Energy to Worry, Use Your Energy to Believe!

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#151 – Your Pains, Challenges, & Imperfections Unite You with All of Humanity

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#150 – If You Could Take a Peek at Your Full Potential, You Would Never Doubt Yourself Again

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#149 – The INSANE Power of Positive & Negative Beliefs (Shown by Research)

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#148 – This One Daily Decision Will Change Your Life

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#147 – Why Your Brain Has a Hard Time Noticing What You're Doing Well (& What to Do About It!)

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#146 – How Jeff Probst, Host of Survivor, Accelerated His Success by Embracing Mistakes

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#145 – How Rewards Can Undermine Our Inner Drive (And What to Do About It)

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#144 – Don't Underestimate the Simple Things

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#143 – Use FACTS to Drive Out FEAR

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#142 – Purposeful Procrastination

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#141 – How Seeing Everything as a Test Limits Performance

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#140 – How Would Your Life Be Different If You Took Shame Out of It?

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#139 – True Humility Involves Celebrating Your Gifts & Successes

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#138 – Break Through Your Limitations & Live in Balance, Peace, & Power – with Dallin Harmon, VidAngel Executive & Voice of Possibility

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#137 – Don't Analyze & Perform at the Same Time

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#136 – Enhance Your Fuel & Sense of Fulfillment by STACKING Your Why's

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#135 – From Burnout to Balance: How to Pursue High Performance without Losing Yourself, with Ellin Gurvitch, LMHC

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#134 – A 3-Step Process for Managing Difficult Emotions & Entering an Empowered State

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#133 – Feedback Is GOLD: How Angel Studios Harnesses the Power of Feedback for Record-Breaking Ratings

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#132 – How to Stay Motivated When Rewards Are Delayed & Uncertain

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#131 – The Power of Knowing You Can Handle Each Moment

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#130 – How to Feel Fear Without Letting It Control You

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#129 – Use This Trick to Overcome Procrastination

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#128 – Boost Your Performance by Having FUN

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#127 – Believe Boldly, Pursue Tenaciously

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#126 – Stable vs. Unstable Sources of Confidence

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#125 – Love Is a Mental Skill

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#124 – Take Time to Be Proud of Yourself

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#123 – The Learning Mindset

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#122 – Improve Your Performance by Focusing on Others

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#121 – Body Positivity & Healthy Relationships with Food - with Macie Thelin, Founder of Shape Co.

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#120 – 3 Mental Toughness Myths that Could Be Holding You Back

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#119 – Stop Getting 'Hooked' by Your Negative Thoughts

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#118 – Inside the Mind of a Champion - with Luke Van Orden, State Champion Wrestler

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#117 – Your Negative Thoughts Are Trying to Help You

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#116 – How to Effectively Invite Desired Emotions

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#115 – Managing Religious/Moral OCD for Healthier & Happier Spirituality - with PhD. Candidate and Researcher David Johnson

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#114 – How Being More Childlike Can Make Us Better

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#113 – Can Do Can Happen

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#112 – Peak Performance Tips for Sports, Sales, & Life – with Chris Pierce, The Sales Sport Psych

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#111 – Overcome Self-Doubt by Shifting Your Attention

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#110 – The Progress Principle

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#109 – Who You ARE Is More Important Than What You Achieve

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#108 – How to Start the Week with a Clear Mind

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#107 – Why You Can't Stop Shaming Yourself (And How to CHANGE That!)

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#106 – The Balance of Emotional Acceptance AND Emotional Intentionality

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#105 – Flow State Secrets: Unlocking Peak Performance on Demand

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#104 – The Beauty of Imperfection

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#103 – Forecasting Failure

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#102 – "I Have To" vs. "I Get To"

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#101 – Unintentional vs. Intentional Brain Wiring

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#100 – How to Combat Nighttime Anxiety

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#99 – What Third-Person Self-Talk Does for the Brain Under Stress

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#98 – What "Ego" Actually Means (And How We Can Use It to Our Advantage!)

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#97 – How to Feel More Meaning & Purpose in Your Life

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#96 – The Power of "And"

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#95 – SUBjective and OBjective Empowering Thoughts

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#94 – How to Overcome Jealousy

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#93 – A Science-Based Morning Routine (As Taught by Mel Robbins)

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#92 – How to Stop Being Controlled by Fear

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#91 – How to Overcome Decision Paralysis

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#90 – Choose Your Thoughts Beforehand

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#89 – Pointing Out Other People's Flaws to Cover Up Your Own

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#88 – The LITERAL Destructive Power of Negativity

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#87 – Friendly Competition with Unhelpful Thoughts

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#86 – Don't Try, Don't Look Foolish

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#85 – Emotional Intelligence

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#84 – The Power of Stillness

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#83 – Change Your Identity, Change Your Life

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#82 – 3 Things High-Performers Focus On

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#81 – How to Say "No"

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#80 – What's Been Good?

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#79 – Never Count Yourself Out

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#78 – The Difference Between Fearlessness & Courage

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#77 – What Will People Say At Your Funeral?

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#76 – When You Can't Stop Worrying

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#75 – Is Being Hard on Yourself Productive?

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#74 – The Grit Scale

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#73 – Pain Is Priceless

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#72 – The War for Talent

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#71 – This Moment Is AWESOME

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#70 – Why "Calm Down" Is Bad Advice

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#69 – 3 Affirmations for Managing Stress

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#68 – Be Kind to Your Past & Future Self

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#67 – How to Unleash the AWESOMENESS In Others

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#66 – How to Break Unhelpful Habits

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#65 – Be Proud of the Small Things

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#64 – The Importance of Feeling Your Feelings

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#63 – Positive vs. Negative Energy in the 2024 Olympics

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#62 – When Measurement Hinders Performance

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#61 – What Would You Do If You Had More CONFIDENCE?

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#60 – How to Overcome Destructive Social Comparison

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#59 – Perfectionism, Exceptionalism, & Growthism

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#58 – Black & White Thinking In Performance Evaluation

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#57 – Kobe's Mindset on Winning & Losing

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#56 – DOMINATE Your Temptations

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#55 – Fear Comes From Thoughts

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#54 – 6 Questions for Turning Failures Into Successes!

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#53 – Lessons From Pablo Picasso

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#52 – 3 Tips for Performing Under Pressure!

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#51 – Inccurate Negative Self-Perceptions

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#50 – Better vs. EVEN Better

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#49 – SO Many Teams Fall For This Trap!

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#48 – When A Door Closes... Celebrate!!

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#47 – Savor Each Moment

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#46 – The Service Mindset

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#45 – How Gratitude FUELS High Performance!

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#44 – Part 2: Your Caring But Overprotective Guardian

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#43 – Part 1: Your Caring But Overprotective Guardian

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#42 – How to OVERRIDE Your Brain's Negativity Bias!

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#41 – Self-Talk for Self-Empowerment

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#40 – How I TRANSFORMED from Benchwarmer to Starter in Less Than a Year!

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#39 – The Power of the Mind

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#38 – A Game-Changing Exercise for Enhancing Skill Development

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#37 – Common Mistakes When Responding to Mistakes

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#36 – 4 Tips for Approaching Challenges Effectively!

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#35 – How to Break Through Limiting Beliefs

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#34 – The Teddy Bear and The Scientist

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#33 – 4 Tips for Building Habits That Stick

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#32 – Train Your Brain to Believe!

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#31 – Start Small

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#30 – The Power of Optimism

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#29 – Psychological Safety - A Key for High-Performing Teams

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#28 – Coexisting Truths

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#27 – The Difference Between Achievement and Success

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#26 – After Action Review

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#25 – Proving Yourself vs. IMproving Yourself

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#24 – 4 Steps for Emotion Regulation

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#23 – Smile and W.I.N.

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#22 – Stop Placing Limits on Limitless Potential

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#21 – Focus on What You Have, Not on What You Lack

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#20 – Clarify Your Values, Then Live Them BOLDLY

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#19 – Validation - The Sweet Spot Between Condemnation and Justification

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#18 – The WONDER Mindset

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#17 – Crush Your Obstacles Before You Face Them!

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#16 – How to Take Charge of Your Mind

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#15 – Replace Judgment with Curiosity

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#14 – How to Accelerate Your Improvement

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#13 – The Paradox of Letting Go

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#12 – Be Bold Enough to Fail

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#11 – Thought Habits

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#10 – The "Feeling Bad For Feeling Bad" Trap

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#9 – Approach vs. Avoidance - Focus On What You Want To DO

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#8 – Be the Boss of Your Stress

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#7 – The Power of Value-Based Living

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#6 – You're Doing Better Than You Think

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#5 – Tackling Fear

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#4 – Cognitive Defusion: Take the Power Away From Your Negative Thoughts!

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#3 – 5 Tips for Generating Enduring Motivation

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#2 –⁠ How to Stop Getting Down on Yourself

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#1 –⁠ Peace, Power, and Productive Action