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101

Why We Ignore Our Own Needs—and How to Stop(139)

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Why Changing Beliefs Feels Hard (But Can Be Worth It)(138)

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Sex, Shame, and Society’s Messages to Men(137)

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From Purity Culture to Sexual Confidence(136)

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The Sex Talk Men Never Got with Sam Jolman(135)

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How Being Right Could Destroy Your Relationship is great(134)

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From Childhood Trauma to Adult Dysfunction: Breaking the Cycle(133)

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Are You Weaponizing Your Emotions? How to Avoid Emotional Harm in Parenting (132)

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He Wanted to Quit: The Key to Turning Our Marriage Around(131)

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Family, Trauma, and Survival: Why You Disassociate and How to Stop(130)

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Signs of Living in Emotional Pain (129)

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The Silent Killer of Your Productivity and Success(128)

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What safety in a relationship looks like-- and how to get it (127)

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The Truth About 'The One' - The Key to Lasting Relationships(126)

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How to Ask A Question Without Triggering Your Partner(125)

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Why Pain Management Is Not Enough(124)

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Is Forgiveness Enough?(123)

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Healing Childhood Trauma and Discovering Yourself(122)

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How Memories Shape Our Identity from Childhood to Adulthood(121)

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Understand Anxiety to Reduce it(120)

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Engaging Respectfully in Tough Conversations with Justin Jones-Fosu(119)

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Reaching Health Goals Starts Here with Elijah Runyan (118)

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The Shocking Benefits of Emotional Vulnerability with Jordan and Erika Koop(117)

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Navigating Love and Fear with Lydia and Sebastian Gerhardt(116)

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Overcoming Numbing pain & Addiction with Elijah Runyan(115)

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Dating with Intention with Bridgett Blood(114)

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Connection as Correction in Parenting with Echo Hill Vetter(113)

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Shaping a Compassionate Future for Our Children(112)

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Is sex a need or just a desire?(111)

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Opening Up About Sex through the Hard Conversations(110)

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Finding Joy in the Middle of Pain(109)

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When Internship Turns Into Family with Jordan and Erika Koop(108)

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When Faith Meets Psychology with Dr. Margaret Nagib(107)

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When Joy is Damaging(106)

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Anger in Depth: Exploring Its Role in Connection and Disconnection(105)

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An update we wish we didn't have to give (104)

137

Stop feeling what you are feeling (103)

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How to process childhood pain with parents with Echo Vetter (102)

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Shifting from burnout to energy with Echo Vetter (101)

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The Key to Sexual Liberation: Reclaiming Joy and Connection in the Bedroom (100)

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How to be a bold wife with Alisa DiLorenzo (099)

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The Role of Emotions in Sex (098)

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Slicing it thinner-- going deeper to get to the root (097)

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Pushing Through the Pain: Tools for Perseverance and Growth (096)

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How to actually achieve the goals you set (095)

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How to increase longevity in your life (094)

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How to stop creating massive blow ups in your relationship (093)

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How to connect when you don't feel like you "fit" (Episode 092)

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Processing holiday loneliness (Episode 91)

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090: Managing the Mental Load: Tools for a Successful Partnership with Zach Watson

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089: The Art of Listening: Insights from Connection Coders Fab and Claire

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088: Can we change our emotions? A Conversation with Josh Haas

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087: How we got here: Tera's story to the Connection Codes

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086: Finding Unity amidst Division: The Role of Identity in War

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085: How to talk to your kids about sexuality with Clint Davis

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084: Growing Together: A Conversation on Intimacy and Emotion

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083: Understanding the Purpose of Shame and How It Can Help Us Grow

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082: Strengthening Family Bonds with Connection Codes

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081: Below the Surface: The 90% We Hide from the World

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080: Finding Freedom: How Uncovering Childhood Pain Transforms Relationships

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078: Long term effects of criticisism

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077: Being weighed down by life & how to soften the load

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076: Flirting & sexual banter setting expectations for sex

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075: In-Session: Janet & Rich change the dance after 42 years

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074: Learning to process your emotions is the most important thing you can do this year-- but why?

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073: The Human Experience of Concealed Pain and the 'Happy Face' Mask

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072: How to spark joy when there are so many "negative" emotions

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071: Adding depth to your relationship & working with your partner, not against them...

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070: Increase learning capacity in kids with Mark & Teresa Lubovich

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068: Trauma, Natural Consequences, and Parenting with Echo Vetter

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067: Body Image and Intimacy

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066: In-Session: Emotional eating and processing joy

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065: In Session: Night Terrors, Separation, and Creating Safety

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064: How to transition from tension to fun in your relationship

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063: In session- Small Moments, Big Conflicts

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062: Q&A- Pressure in Sex, expectations in chores, and sharing the CC with friends

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061: In Session- How to connect when an emotion feels imbalanced

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060: Finding the right time to connect when you are balancing a lot

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059: Big ball of yukiness- the difference between guilt & shame

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058: Friendship and Feelings: Navigating Emotional Safety and Regulation Without a Co-Regulator

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057: He Said, She Said: Navigating Relationship Conflicts and Resolving Disagreements

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056: Emotional Intensity: Why Some Feelings Hit Harder Than Others

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055: Unpacking Anger: Navigating the Emotion and Finding Peace

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054: How to overcome decision fatigue

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053: Am I enough? And other question you ask after a big life change.

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052: How to move forward when your partner is shut down

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051: Defensiveness, Parenthood, and life after the Connection Codes with Chris Cruz

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050: (Part 2) Living with Narcissism & Psychological Disorders

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049: (Part 1) Living with Narcissism & Psychological Disorders

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048: Childhood trauma affecting who we are in relationships

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047: Physical touch-- What is happening under the skin?

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046: Obligation sex during a holiday

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045: Is experiencing fear & shame unbiblical?

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044: In Session: Elijah's Journey to Rediscovering Himself and His Family

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043: How to Human with Carlos Whittaker

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042: Am I proud of myself?

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041: How to create habits that will change your life

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040: Goal setting for 2024

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039: My partner doesn't want to talk about emotions...

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038: When your marriage hits a wall