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Growing with Sol — 176 episodes

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The Value of Boredom for Your Creativity and What It Means to Me

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Four Nonfiction Books I'm Actually Reading

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4 Books For a Cozy Girl Fall: My Must-Read Recommendations This Autumn

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You're Not Shy, They're Not Your People and That's Okay

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What It Really Means To Be a Quiet Person: The Science and Lived Experience

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There Was Nothing Wrong With Me: Being Introverted Isn't a Character Flaw

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Solo Dating Survival Guide for the Anxious Girlie

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The Most Impactful Books I've Read in 2026 (And Why I Can't Stop Thinking About Them)

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How to Center Yourself and Actually Achieve Your Goals This Year

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Healing Books That Changed My Life: A Reading Journey Through Recovery

11

Mid-Year Check-in: What I'm Keeping, What I'm Changing, What I'm Letting Go Of

12

6 Life Lessons I Wish I Knew at 26 About Self-Esteem, Friendship, and Love

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Poetry as Medicine: A Conversation With Poet Leisly Roman about her Latest Collection

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Breaking the Generational Curse: People Pleasing and Family Patterns

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People Pleasing at Work: How It Ruins Your Salary, Raises, and Career Growth

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People Pleasing in Your Love Life: How It's Sabotaging Your Relationships

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Stories that Shape Us: What A Magical Girl Retires Teaches About Radical Self-Acceptance and Choosing Yourself

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Embracing the Dichotomy: Holding Space for All of Yourself (Even the Parts That Don't Make Sense)

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Soft Life vs. Hustle Culture: Who Actually Gets to Opt Out?

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Single, Centered, and Whole: Decentering Men in 2026

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Hot Girl Walks & Wellness Trends: Is Your Wellness Practice Empowering or Just Expensive?

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Stories that Shape Us: Tower of Dawn and the Relationships That Shape Our Healing

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Don't Learn This the Hard Way: Jillian Turecki's It Begins with You

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Women & Anger: Why We're Told Not to Be Angry and What Happens When We Finally Let Ourselves Feel Rage

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Curating Your Feed: Being Intentional About Who and What You Follow Online

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Social Media Detoxes: Spring Cleaning Your Relationship With Technology

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The New American Dream: How Definitions of Success Are Shifting in 2026

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How Training Jiu Jitsu Helped Me Heal My Relationship With My Body

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Finding Yourself in Your 30s: Your Inner Child Has Been Your True Self All Along

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Love After Trauma: Healing From Toxic Relationships and Dating Again

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Why Female Friendships Matter More Than You Think: Galentine's Day Special

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Emotional Intimacy: Building Deeper Connections Through Vulnerability and Authentic Communication

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3 Tips to Step Into Your Power in 2026

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What I Read This Year: From the Good and the Great to the Spicy 🌶️

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Stories that Shape Us: Empire of Storms Pt. 2 - The Journey to "I Love You" and Self-Worth

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Year-End Reflection Practices: Guided Exercises for Reviewing 2025

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Rest as Revolution: Embracing Rest and Rejuvenation During the Holidays

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Stop Adding, Start Releasing: New Year Rituals That Actually Work

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The Unconventional Gratitude Practice: Being Thankful for Your Failures

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Being Single in Your 30s: Embracing Independence and Rewriting the Narrative

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Why Romance Novels Are Good for You: The Case for Reading Romance

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The Science Behind Emotional Support Animals: Why ESAs Matter for Mental Health

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Daily Happiness Hacks: How to Cultivate Gratitude in Everyday Life

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Building Self-Esteem Through Creative Expression: How Creativity Fosters Confidence

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What To Expect When You Set Boundaries with Family (Spoiler: It's Complicated)

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Surviving State Violence for the Anxious Girlie: Finding Safety in Uncertain Times

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Stop Proving Yourself Wrong: Breaking the Cycle of Self-Doubt

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Two Latine Poets To Read: Leisly Ann Roman and Jose Hernandez Diaz

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The Power and Beauty of Spanglish: Celebrating Our Linguistic Heritage

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Stories that Shape Us: Being Called to Our Purpose Through Love in Empire of Storms Pt. 1

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Stories that Shape Us: What Audiophile by Emerie Hart Teaches Us About Healing Through Connection

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Legacy of Change: How Healing Your Validation Addiction Impacts Future Generations

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Embracing Disapproval: How to Sit with the Discomfort of Not Being Liked

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Shape-Shifting to Please Others: Why You Don't Recognize Yourself

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The Hidden Cost of Yes: The Personal, Professional, and Emotional Prices We Pay When We Can't Say No

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The Self-Compassion Guide: Why Loving Yourself Is Harder Than You Think

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Why Your Friend Group is Shrinking: The Burnout and Relationship Connection

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Midyear Check-in: 3 Tips to Revitalize your 2025

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7 Healing Tips That Actually Work When You're Struggling

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How To Navigate Motherhood and Friendship: a Conversation with Mitzy Days

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How All About Love: New Visions by Bell Hooks Predicts Today's Social Issues

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Long-Distance Friendships: How to Stay Close When You're Far Apart

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How to Make Friends as an Adult: Practical Strategies That Actually Work

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Stories that Shape Us: The Painful Beauty of Character Development in Queen of Shadows Pt. 2

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How To Create Community in 2025

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How To Create a Low-Effort Self-Care Routine

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Sleep and Emotional Regulation: How quality sleep impacts mental health and emotional resilience

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The Mind-Body Connection: How Exercise Transforms Mental Health

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Present in Their Pain: How to Show Up for Someone Who Is Grieving

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Stories that Shape Us: How Queen of Shadows Teaches You To Step into Your Power Pt. 1

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Honoring the Dead: How Cultural Traditions Shape Grief Processing

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Understanding Grief: A Comprehensive Overview

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The Impact of Social Media on Self-Esteem: How digital validation affects our self-perception

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Stories that Shape Us: Assassin's Blade and (Not So) Healthy Relationships

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Mental Health at Work: Creating a Supportive Environment While Balancing Career & Well-Being

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Stories That Shape Us: Heir of Fire and the Power of Self-Acceptance

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100 Episodes Later: Lessons on Growth, Confidence & Letting Go of Perfection

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3 Simple Strategies to Achieve Your Goals in 2025

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The Glow-Up: How I'm Stepping Into My Shine

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Stories That Shape Us: Crown of Midnight and the Hero's Journey

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Bad Mexican, Bad American Book Review

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Throne of Glass: breaking it down with the bestie

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The Role of Compassion in Developing Self-Trust

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Poetry and Mental Health: A Conversation with Leisly Ann Roman

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Beyond Getting By Book Review

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Reading and My Mental Health Journey

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Starting From Scratch: Laying the Foundation for Success

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Self-love: Moving Beyond Self-loathing

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Mid-Year Reflection: How to have the best 2024!

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Diving into Prythian: Breaking down ACOWAR to ACOSF

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Mindset Shift: What to do when it isn't working

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Mindset Shifts: The Trick To Achieving Them

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Rhysand, Cassian, Azriel: A Bat Boy Deep Dive

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Brag Better Book Review: How To Hype Yourself Up!

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How Low Confidence Is Holding You Back

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Diving into Prythian: An ACOTAR + ACOMAF Deep Dive

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How To Be Happy When Life Keeps Throwing Curveballs

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A Mental Health Journey Through Entrepreneurship: A Conversation with Samantha Alvarez

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Was Frankenstein's Monster an Incel? Book Review

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How To Dismantle Old Standards: Work with Yourself To Create the Life of Your Dreams

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Are you a picky dater?

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Check Yourself: How To Be Honest with Yourself

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8 Things I Learned in 2023

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What Is Community Care?

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Healing through Sound: A Conversation with Laura Widney

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How To Navigate Family During the Holidays

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Family and Mental Health

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How Do You Define "Family?"

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Family, Mental Health, and Well-being in the Latine Community

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Pocho, No Sabo: Que M!erda

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What Is Mexican-American

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Entrepreneurship as a Latina: A Conversation with Kita Zuleta

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Hispanic Heritage Month: Why I Don't Like It

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How To Manage Emotional Eating

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The Benefits of Nature on Mental Health

116

Overcoming Fear: A Conversation with Richard Conner

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What Is the Foundation of Well-Being?

118

What Is Cycle Syncing and How Can It Help Me: A Conversation with Femke Verhulst

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How To Achieve your Goals: Overcoming Common Obstacles

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Somatic Movement and Why Pleasure Is Important: A Conversation with Jordana Che

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How To Boost Self-Esteem Through Self-Care

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How Self-Esteem Affects Decision Making

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How To Remain Consistent When Life Gets Difficult

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The Connection Between Mental Health and Community

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Giving Yourself Grace, Not Excuses

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Navigating Uncertainty with Grace: A Converstion with Donata Boston

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Healing from Depression and Processing Grief: A Conversation with Allison Frye

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Women's Empowerment and Financial Literacy

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Finances, Empowerment, and Muay Thai : A Discussion with Urmi Hossain

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Body Image and Brazilian Jiu Jitsu

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Are You Having Fun, Though?

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Why It's Hard To Say "No"

133

The Benefits of Emotional Support Animals

134

Next Level Self-Care: Self-Advocacy

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The Negative Effects of People Pleasing in the Workplace

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Race, Ethnicity, and the Kylie Jenner Effect

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The Powerful Benefits of Knowing Your Purpose

138

What Is Lovebombing?

139

Screw "Shoulds"

140

Feeling Like You're Not Deserving

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Time Doesn't Heal Everything

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Why Affirmations Don't Work

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Why Don't You Like Yourself?

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Self-Love Ain't Ish Without Radical Self-Acceptance

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Where Success Lies: The Tools To Step Out of Your Comfort Zone

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True Alignment and Reaching Your 2023 Goals

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How To Deal with Holiday Stress

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Knowing Your Context

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Imposter Syndrome: Feeling Like a Fraud

150

Quality of Life and Your Career

151

How To Maintain Friendships

152

Dating in Your Villain Era

153

On Friendship and Emotional Support

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How To Make Friends as an Adult

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How To Self-Prioritize

156

Breaking Down Self-Acceptance

157

The Power of Self-Forgiveness

158

Self-Abandonment and How To Heal It

159

The Components of Confidence

160

Reimagining Self-Care

161

Reimagining Self-Love

162

How To Build Self-esteem

163

How Dating Should Be

164

For My Anxiously Attached Girlies

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Dating and Limiting Beliefs

166

Picking vs Being Picked

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Standards and Deal Breakers

168

Dating Apps: A Hellscape

169

Another Failed Talking Stage

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Self-Worth and Putting Yourself First

171

People Pleasing and How It Hurts Us

172

Dealing with Boundary Backlash

173

Boundaries, More than Just Verbal

174

How To Say No

175

What Are Boundaries?

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