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Overcome Pornography for Good — 287 episodes

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286. How to Guarantee Success (Part 5)

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285. The Cost of Inaction

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284. What if I’m Single, Divorced, or in a Sexless Marriage? Can I Still Befriend My Sexuality? (Part 4)

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283. What's Possible When You Befriend Your Sexuality (Part 3 of 3)

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282. The Number One Thing Required to Befriend Your Sexuality (Part 2 of 3)

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281. What I Got Wrong About Quitting Porn (Part 1 of 3)

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280. What’s Possible with Sam

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279. Overcoming Sexual Shame While Quitting Porn

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278. Using the Rules of Improv in Quitting Porn with Kat

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277. How to Handle Slip-Ups Without Shame

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276. When It’s Really Difficult: Learning to Handle Discomfort

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275. What’s Possible with Logan

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274. Physiology vs Morality: Reframing Your Urges and Shame

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273. Building Self-Trust Even Through Slip-Ups with Hunter

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272. The Difference Between Sin and Weakness

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271. What’s Possible with Quinn

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270. The Impact of Fact vs. Story in Quitting Porn

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269. The Power of Surrendering to Urges

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268. 4 Questions to Get Unstuck with Kat

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267. What’s Possible with Cannon

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266. A New Way to Control Your Sexual Urges

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265. How to Handle Urges That Keep Coming Back

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264. Breaking the Cycle of Repetitive Thoughts

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263. The Beliefs That Keep You Stuck and How to Unlearn Them with Hunter

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262. The 50-50 Principle and Quitting Porn

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261. Understanding Urges and Why They're Not Dangerous

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260. What Progress Really Looks Like When Quitting Porn

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259. How to Finally Be Free from Porn

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258. Following Through with Your New Year's Goals

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257. One Indicator of Success with Kat

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256. Tools to Stay Committed During the Holiday Season with Hunter

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255. Neutralize Your Porn Habit and the Emotions Around Quitting

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254. Learning to Trust Your Own Spiritual Authority

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253. Playing a New “What If” Game with Kat

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252. How to Stop Tying Your Worthiness to Productivity

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251. Talking About Sex with Your Partner with Jessica

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250. The Compound Effect: Small Steps That Create Lasting Change

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249. Understanding and Healing the Two Sides of Shame with Kat

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248. 4 Practical Steps to Develop Emotional Agility with Hunter

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247. Changing Your Beliefs and Identity

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246. How Being “Mr. Nice Guy” Is Keeping You Stuck with Jessica

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245. Be the Observer: You Are Not Your Thoughts

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244. Healing the Self-Judgmental Voice with Kat

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243. Rebuilding Your Mindset and Confidence with Hunter

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242. Setting Boundaries with Loved Ones and Religious Leaders While Overcoming Porn

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241. Lessons in Life and Porn with Jess, Kat and Mimi

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240. Climbing Out of the Hole of Porn and Choosing a New Path with Kat

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239. Dating while Overcoming Pornography with Jessica

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238. Living with Duality: Embracing the Good and Bad

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237. The Choose Again Method for Shifting Negative Thoughts

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236. Processing Big Emotions Using Jin Shin Jyutsu with Kat

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235. Recognizing Progress When You Feel Stuck with Hunter

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234. Is Watching Porn Considered Cheating?

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233. Grieving the Loss of Porn with Jessica

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232. A Key Piece Missing from the Self-Development World

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231. Understanding Your Window of Tolerance with Hunter

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230. Censorship Isn’t Protection and the Truth About Porn Bans

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229. Intrusive Thoughts

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228. Perfectionism

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227. Inner Critic Plus Holding Yourself Hostage

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226. What's Possible with Nathan

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225. Safety over Salary: Redefining Masculine Power

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224. Finding Daily Wins Using the CTFAR Model with Coach Hunter

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223. How Long Do Uncomfortable Emotions Last?

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222. What's Possible with Tyler

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221. When You Can’t Think Your Way Out of Shame

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220. Ask a Coach: How to Process Urges Pressure-Free

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219. Living in the Future, Not the Past

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218. Rewiring Your Brain for the Life You Want

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217. Discomfort on Purpose

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216. How Healing Shame Can Streamline Your Journey to Quit Porn

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215. What's Possible with Ben

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214. Why Surrendering to Urges Will Give You Control over Them

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213. The Most Important Shift You Can Make When Quitting Porn

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212. What's Possible with Daniel

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211. Expand Your Timeline

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210. What to Do When Relapses Suck

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209. Utilizing Learn and Move On

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208. New Free Program and Hoʻoponopono Prayer

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207. Sustainable Goals for 2025 and Redefining Overcome Pornography for Good

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206. 5 Tips to Make 2025 the Year You Quit Porn

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205. Chronic Shame and Fear of Accountability

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204. What to Do When You’re Overwhelmed

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203. Over-Desire: What to Do About It

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202. It's Not Weakness: The Real Reason Behind Unwanted Pornography Use

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201. The Grip of Shame and Apathy Unraveled

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200. You Are Not Your Thoughts

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199. I’ll Eventually Give In

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198. Thought Suppression

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197. Stop Fearing Feelings (Replay)

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196. Hunter's Story

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195. Heart vs. Head Learning

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194. What's Possible with Gabe

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193. Dead People Goals

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192. 5 Biggest Mistakes When Quitting Porn

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191. What’s Possible with Sam (Replay)

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190. ADHD and Porn Use with Kersti Spjut

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189. No More Band-Aid Solutions

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188. Abusive Attitudes and Behaviors with Lindsay Poelman

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187. Worthiness Wounds Part 2: Protect and Provide

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186. Working Backwards

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185. Shame-Free Commitment

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184. Denial

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183. Worthiness Wounds Part 1: The Conditioning

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182. What to Do When Everyone Around You Takes a Shame Approach

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181. Ask a Coach: The It’s-Not-Working Mentality

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180. Ask a Coach: How to Become Shame-Resilient

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179. Ask a Coach: 5 Tips for Your Learn and Move On Worksheet

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178. Pornography, Sexual Health, Sexuality, & More: Q&A

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177. Ask a Coach: “What if Something Is Seriously Wrong with Me?”

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Q&A Episode: Send in Your Questions!

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176. Ask a Coach: What to Do with Unwanted Thoughts and Images

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175. Masturbation

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174. Fantasy vs Desire, Intrusive Thoughts, and Porn Literacy

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173. Healthy Sexuality Part 2: More Myths About Pornography

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172. Healthy Sexuality Part 1: Using Sexuality for Good

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171. Ask a Coach: Feeling It in Your Body

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170. Announcing Our Rebrand to The Center for Overcoming Pornography

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169. Developing Personal Spiritual Authority

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168. What’s Missing from the Quit Porn Industry & Why It’s Messing You Up

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167. The Power of Prioritizing Nervous System Healing

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166. Interpreting the Scripture: Whosoever Lusteth Committeth Adultery with Dan Purcell

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165. Repetition is Magic

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164. Jenga vs. Super Mario Brothers

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163. Intro to Inner Child Work

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162. What’s Possible with Konstantin

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161. Keep It Simple - Beliefs and Identity

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160. Is Porn Use Infidelity? With Andrea Giles

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159. Keep It Simple - Emotions and Buffering

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158. What’s Possible with Dan

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157. Keep It Simple – Commitment

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156. OCD with Jill Freestone

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155. Keep It Simple – Learn and Move On

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154. Year in Review: A Simple Exercise for Visualizing 2024

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153. Ask a Coach: Why You’re Stuck

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152. Ask a Coach: When You Slip Up

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151. Ask a Coach: Good Shame vs Bad Shame

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150. Ask a Coach: The Reality of Learning New Skills

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149. Ask a Coach: 5 Areas of Self-Care to Focus On

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148. Ask a Coach: All Emotions Have a Shelf Life

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147. Ask a Coach: Rewriting Your Stories

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146. Ask a Coach: Thinking New Thoughts You Don’t Believe Yet

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145. Ask a Coach: Your Compelling Reason

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144. Ask a Coach: Shame vs Guilt

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143. Ask a Coach: The Fear of Missing Out

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142. Ask a Coach: The Shame of Slipping Up

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141. Season Break & Suffering vs Pain

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140. Boundaries with Spouses, Family, and Religious Leaders

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139. A Fresh View on Sin with Tyson Bradley

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138. What’s Possible with Josh

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137. Disclosure Tips with Jessica

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136. What’s Possible with David

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135. Fixing Things Is Exhausting You

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134. Pornography and Parenting with Heather Frazier

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133. Spirituality: Loved, Held, Guided, and Never Alone

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132. What's Possible with Hayden

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131. Using Spirituality When Quitting Porn

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130. Unshaming with David Bedrick

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129. What Does It Mean to Quit for Good?

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128. What's Possible with Steve

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127. Young Women Struggling with Pornography with Madi Davis

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126. Productivity and Worthiness

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125. Belief Plan (Replay)

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124. Loneliness and Dating with Tammy Hill

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123. The River of Misery

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122. What’s Possible with James

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121. Overwhelm

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120. Relationship Spirals with Lindsay Poelman

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119. You Are the Authority

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118. Quitting Porn at Age 75: What’s Possible with Jeff

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117. Should Your Spouse Fulfill Your Sexual Needs? with Amanda Louder

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116. How to Control Your Sexual Urges

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115. What’s Possible with Thomas

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114. The Shame-Blame Trap

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113. Stop Fearing Urges (Replay)

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112. Breathwork with Kat Jenkins

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111. Think In Years

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110. Loopholes That Keep You From Changing with Tina Gosney

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109. Feeling Desensitized

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108. Pink Elephant and Intrusive Thoughts

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107. Anger

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106. Self-Love is Not Indulgence

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105. The Story of You

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104. Year in Review + Visualization

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103. My One Lesson to the World with Michael Anderson

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102. Creating Trust After Betrayal Trauma with Geoff Steurer

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101. What's Possible with Chaz

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100. Top Lessons from 100 Episodes

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99. How to Guarantee Success

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98. Laser Focus

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97. When You Don’t Believe You Can Do It

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96. Emotion Doc: Radical Acceptance

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95. Emotion Doc: Certainty

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94. Nurture vs. Numbing

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93. Out of Control

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92. Retrain Your Brain

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91. Reward System and Over-Desire

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90. Research on Shame with Ryan Hewitt

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89. Research on Moral Incongruence with Ryan Hewitt

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88. Research on Addiction with Ryan Hewitt

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87. Worthiness

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86. You Are Not Your Thoughts

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85. LGBTQ+ and Porn with TJ Thomas

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84. Success Circle with Tina

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83. Top 3 Lessons from Private Coaching

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82. Loneliness

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81. Maybe the Problem Isn’t You

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80. Past vs. Future Focus

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79. Clarifying Confusion About Buffering

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78. Automatic Sexual Thoughts

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77. Neutralize

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76. “I’ll Never Quit” Thoughts

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75. Healing Wounds from Sexual Shame

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74. Pitfalls of Accountability

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73. What’s Possible with Sam

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72. What’s Possible with Logan

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71. What’s Possible with Cannon Goslin

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70. Overcome Your Most Difficult Urge

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69. 3 Things That Keep You Stuck in Porn

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68. Stop Settling

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67. Elephant Limiting Beliefs

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66. How Do I Process an Urge?

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65. 6 Key Lessons with Kat and Tina

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64. Choose Again

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63. How to Make It 10X Easier

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62. Conditional Commitment

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61. Duality: Good AND Bad

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60. Hard vs. Harder

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59. Planning Ahead of Time

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58. Sexuality as a Force for Good with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

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57. Life-Changing Healing Mindset

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56. We Are Sexual Beings

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55. Progressive Failure vs Justification Failure

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54. Failure Tolerance

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53. What’s Possible with Quinn Felix

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52. Realistic Expectations

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51. Betrayal Trauma with Lindsay Poelman

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50. How to Follow Through with Your New Year’s Goals

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49. Pillar Four: Becoming a New Person

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48. Pillar Three: Emotional Regulation

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47. Pillar Two: Mindful Urge Management

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46. Pillar One: Shame-Free Commitment

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45. Overindulgence

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44. Lenses

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43. The Observer

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42. Post-Mission Porn Use

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41. Present vs. Future Desire

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40. Compound Effect

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39. Resist, React, and Allow

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38. Sexual Urges Are Not From Satan

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37. Shame 2.0

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36. Lower vs. Higher Brain

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35. Why We Desire

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34. Belief Plan

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33. The Power of Pain

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32. “I Can’t”

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31. "I Shouldn't Be Here"

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30. The Power of Accepting Yourself

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29. How to Stop Fearing Feelings

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28. Navigating Faith Challenges with Dr. Julie Hanks

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27. The Shame Apathy Trap

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26. The #1 Key to Quitting Pornography

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25. What to Do if Your Partner is Struggling with Porn with Lindsay Poelman

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24. Fear of the Future

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23. Curiosity Vs Judgment

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22. Commitment Vs Motivation

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21. Urge Flow

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20. 50-50

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19. Sexual Shame

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18. Self-Concept and Addiction

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17. What to Do When You Slip Up

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16. Deprivation

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15. For When it's Really Difficult

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14. Iceberg Emotions

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13. Physiology Vs Morality

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12. Sin Vs Weakness

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11. What to Look Out For When You Stop Viewing Porn

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10. Am I Addicted?

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9. Situational Joy

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8. Fact vs Story

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7. Stop Fighting and Start Surrendering

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6. All or Nothing Thinking

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5. Shame Spiral

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4. Stop Fearing Urges

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3. Fixing the Root of the Problem: Identity

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2. Fixing the Root of the Problem: Over-desire

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1. Fixing the Root of the Problem: Escape