All Episodes

Why Don’t We Ever Talk About What We Actually Want in Bed?

SWM 158 – Solo Masturbation – When You Remove the Other Person From Sex

SWM 157 – Why Sex Gets Derailed Right Before It Starts

SWM 156 – Pornography, Erotica, and AI Companions – When You Replace the Person with a Fantasy

SWM 155 – Hookup Culture – When You Take Relationship Out of Sex

SWM 154 – Sex Before Marriage – When You Remove Covenant from Intimacy

SWM 153 – Sex as an Act of Worship

SWM 152 – AQ – Unsexy nightclothes, husbands who won’t initiate, scent and partner selection and more

SWM 151 – AQ – Oral Sex Norms, Fantasy Guilt & Rekindling Passion

SWM 150 – Control, sex and marriage

SWM 149 – My daughter’s speech – Transgenderism is a lie

SWM 148 – 14 red flags your marriage is drifting towards divorce, affairs or lifelong unhappiness

SWM 147 – How do you know if you’re sexually compatible

SWM 146 – Legalistic vs Loving Approach to Marriage – Shifting from Rules to Relationship

SWM 145 – AQ – Handjobs, sex on a full stomach, routines, sex tapes and more

SWM 144 – Why wives have a complicated relationship with sex and what to do about it

SWM 143 – Redefining sex – How to have a thriving sex life despite sexual dysfunction

SWM 142 – AQ – September 2024 – Exhibitionism, no sex in 4 months, rough sex and more

SWM 141 – AQ August 2024 – Transactional sex, no sex due to birth, lube recommendations and more

SWM 140 – AQ – July 2024 – A wife can’t decide if she loves him, someone calls me a Pharisee, positions, outdoor sex and more

SWM 139 – Why won’t my spouse do x – I would do it for them

BDSM Survey Results

SWM 137 – Why we don’t spank our children

SWM 136 – AQ – Wife is mean to kids, another can’t decide if she loves him, and careful who you let teach

SWM 135 – It’s good to try new things

SWM 134 – AQ – Piercings, how not to start a fight, nude photos, nude beaches and more

SWM 133 – Loving your spouse where they are

SWM 132 – Breast implants and body image issues

SWM 131 – Tips to fight more effectively

SWM 130 – Building resiliency in marriage

SWM 129 – AQ – Swingers, chastity devices, sex headaches, uncomfortable conversations, flavoured lubes and more

SWM 128 – Relationships require recalibration

SWM 127 – AQ – Not interested in sex, are men infatuated with ejaculate and many more questions

SWM 126 – Unspoken Nuances of Understanding

SWM 125 – Rethinking “Duty Sex”

SWM 124 – My daughter’s speech – A vaccine against the epidemic of transgenderism

SWM 123 – AQ – Enjoying anal sex, periods and vacation, aging and orgasms, fantasizing, and condoms for handjobs

SWM 122 – How to make your spouse more attractive to you

SWM 121 – Why marriage should be hard work

SWM 120 – How you may be making your birth control methods ineffective

SWM 119 – Vibrators & dildos, roleplay, talking to your kids about sex, and more

SWM 118 – In sickness and in health

SWM 117 – Why do I want sex when I’m sick?

SWM 116 – Why do I always have to tell my husband how to help?

SWM 115 – Strapons, Exes and Foreskins

SWM 114 – Understanding and Navigating Sexual Obligations in a Christian Marriage

SWM 113 – Orgasms and age, calling your spouse daddy, guilt from initiating

SWM 112 – Do men have it harder when it comes to sexual expectations?

SWM 111 – Sex in heaven, oral sex positions, recovering from affairs, wanting to be a mom

SWM 110 – Noticing other women, forgotten anniversary, disconnecting during foreplay and more

SWM 109 – Crossdressing, reframing duty sex, wife gets sex when she wants, but he doesn’t

SWM 108 – What does the Bible say about hell?

SWM 107 – Wife wants too much sex, repeat unproductive fights, boundaries during dating and sexy underwear for men

SWM 106 – Nude pictures, sex toys, asexual wife, wife not in love with me, wish my wife had a bigger butt

SWM 105 – Threesome temptation, aversion to manual and oral, penis size, falling asleep during sex

SWM 104 – Do women control men, beauty vs lusting, playlist for sex, and are men polygamous by nature?

SWM 103 – Phone sex, oral sex to completion, are pictures okay, increasing female libido, toxic wife and more

SWM 102 – Wife conflicted, orgasming during sex, BDSM, wife doesn’t like clitoral stimulation and holding your spouse accountable

SWM 101 – Why does my spouse always push for more during sex?

SWM 100 – My daughter’s speech – The crisis of my generation – transgenderism

SWM 099 – Spouse fell asleep, revealing clothes, public sex, dreams and encouraging your spouse to be healthier

SWM 098 – Energy, mutual masturbation, orgasm struggles, desire type quiz and meeting other couples

SWM 097 – Location, bruises, God’s role vs my role, how to stop faking orgasms, where do I get my “garbage theology”

SWM 096 – Why men being submissive is problematic

SWM 095 – Faking orgasms, diapers, wet and messy/humiliation fetishes, does oral sex equal love, pre-orgasmic wife and more

SWM 094 – Who is more righteous?

SWM 093 – Crossdressing, counseling not working, should I share fantasies, facial hair, Viagra for women and many more

SWM 092 – How do you know if you’ve had an orgasm

SWM 091 – Explaining romance and foreplay, should both spouses enjoy sex, is my wife faking, nipple orgasms and more

SWM 090 – March 2022 Anonymous Questions

SWM 089 – February 2022 Anonymous Questions

SWM 088 – My Vasectomy Experience

SWM 087 – January 2022 Anonymous Questions

SWM 086 – Sex with a well endowed husband

SWM 085 – December 2021 Anonymous Questions

SWM 084 – November 2021 Anonymous Questions – Last post of the year

SWM 083 – What is “feeling naughty”?

SWM 082 – October 2021 Questions – Consensual adultery, caught masturbating, handjobs with condoms and more

SWM 081 – The Limon by Minna – Product Review

SWM 080 – Is premature orgasm a thing for women? How do you last longer?

SWM 079 – September 2021 Questions – Guarding fantasies, low libido, not wanting sex, pain during sex and more

SWM 078 – August 2021 Questions – Catching spouses with porn, birth control, Zoloft and PE and more

SWM 077 – July 2021 Questions – Dealing with PCOS, fantasizing about your fiancee and more

SWM 076 – June 2021 Questions – Boring sex lives, ED and PE troubles and breast play

SWM 075 – May 2021 Questions – How we look at sex, refractory periods, asking about orgasms and more

SWM 074 – Apr 2021 Questions – Friends who grope, postpartum recovery, anxious husbands and more

Is a sexual activity wrong if it was learned from a sinful source?

SWM 072 – Mar 2021 Questions – Should humans be non-monogamous and more

SWM 071 – Is it okay for Christians to have sexual fantasies?

SWM 070 – Feb 2021 Questions – Semi-public sex, squirting, falling asleep during sex and more

SWM 069 – Is it okay to remarry after being divorced?

SWM 068 – Jan 2020 Questions – Nudists, exhibitionism, male lingerie, pet play, ANR and more

SWM 067 – Infatuation, New Relationship Energy, and Love

SWM 066 – Dec 2020 Questions – Shaking legs, wife changed after separation, birth control and more

SWM 065 – Nov 2020 Questions – High sex drives, losing erections, being too loud, vaginismus and more

SWM 064 – Oct 2020 Questions – Body odour, remarriage, doggy style sex and more

SWM 063 – Sermon – It’s all worth it

Black Friday Deals for your Marriage – Save up to 50%

SWM 061 – September 2020 Questions – High Drive Wives, Being Too Wet, Polyamory and more

SWM 060 – Aug 2020 Questions – Negative Self-Talk, Affairs, Manual Sex Troubles and more

SWM 059 – Anonymous Questions from June and July 2020

SWM 058 – Anonymous Questions from May 2020

SWM 057 – Anonymous Questions – April 2020

SWM 056 – How To Feel Connected During Sex

SWM 055 – Anonymous Questions from March 2020

SWM 054 – Anonymous Questions – February 2020

SWM 053 – Anonymous Questions – December 2019 & January 2020

SWM 052 – Are Dominance/Submission Games in the Bedroom OK?

SWM 051 – Anonymous Questions – October & November 2019 – Types of orgasms, sleeping during sex & more

SWM 050 – Anonymous Questions from September 2019 – Deployed Spouses, Passive Sex Partners, Sleep Apnea and How to Boost Attraction for your Spouse

SWM 049 – Focus on your spouse, not the model

SWM 048 – Anonymous Questions from July & August 2019 – Squirting, Anal sex tips & Unreciprocated oral sex

SWM 047 – Spontaneous desire is a blessing

SWM 046 – Responsive desire is a blessing

SWM 045 – Anonymous Questions from May and June 2019

SWM 044 – Anonymous Questions from February and March 2019

SWM 043 – Anonymous Questions from April 2019

SWM042 – God will never leave you

SWM041 – How do you stay interested long term?

SWM 040 – What happens to our souls when we have sex?

SWM 039 – Anonymous Questions from January 2019 – Part 3

SWM 038 – Anonymous Questions January 2019 – Part 2

SWM 037 – Anonymous Questions from January 2019 – Part 1

SWM036 – Sexy Memory Foreplay Game

SWM035 – Anonymous Questions from December 2018

SWM034 – Limited Time offer – Intimacy Advent Calendar

SWM033 – Sermon – Sex: An uncomfortable topic we need to discuss

SWM032 – Is oral sex unsanitary?

SWM031 – How to help your husband be more assertive in bed

SWM030 – Credentials, sex and sickness, falling out of love, self control and how to start leading

SWM029 – Fantasy affairs, anal sex, golden showers and work during sex

SWM028 – Answering questions about oral sex before marriage, joint bank accounts, toys, dirty talking and grooming

Still looking for the perfect Valentine’s Gift?

SWM026: Last Minute Father’s Day Gift Ideas

SWM025: Preparing for Mother’s Day

SWM024: Why Do Men Think Sex is a Reward?

SWM023: It’s all about the relationship

SWM022: Does my spouse find me unattractive

SWM021: Spice Jar

SWM020: 7 Dirty Fighting Techniques That Should Not Exist In Your Marriage

SWM019: How long does a sexual awakening take?

SWM018: Judaism had it right all along

SWM017: 8 Things I don’t want to admit as a Christian Marriage Podcaster

SWM016: What being the head of the household means to me

SWM015: Valentine’s Day Dangers

SWM014: Your sex life has far reaching implications

SWM013: Morning Sex

SWM012: Why do married men masturbate?

SWM011: How to train your spouse

SWM010: All you want is sex

SWM009: How to keep spicing up your sex life

SWM008: Dealing with Christmas in Marriage

SWM007: Spiritual Intimacy – Praying with your spouse

SWM006: The problem with breastfeeding

SWM005: Why your husband can’t tell you what he needs

SWM004: Why your wife can’t tell you what she wants

SWM003: Is sex a need or a want?

SWM002: Getting rid of veto power in the bedroom

SWM001: Welcome to the Sex Within Marriage Podcast