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Train Your Own Horse with Stacy Westfall — 364 episodes

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Episode 364: A Pause While I Become A Student

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Episode 363: Multiple Ways, Deeper Understanding — The Preschool of Horsemanship

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Episode 362: Discomfort Is Part of Learning — The Preschool of Horsemanship

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Episode 361: When Your Horse Hesitates at Halter Pressure—The Preschool of Horsemanship

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Episode 360: How Lightness Gets Lost — The Preschool of Horsemanship

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Episode 359: Bend That Begins in the Body- The Preschool of Horsemanship

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Episode 358: The Preschool of Horsemanship—It Starts with Curiosity

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Episode 357: Aging, Physical Challenges, and the Stories We Choose

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Episode 356: Why Concentrated Moments Teach Lasting Lessons

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Episode 355: Strategy Isn't the Starting Point

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Episode 354: How Support Feels Different Than Correction

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Episode 353: When Cues Become Conversations

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Episode 352: Survival Riding—What It Looks Like and Why It Happens

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Episode 351: Why 'Kind of Working' Feeds Dissatisfaction

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Episode 350: How Does the Training Ever Work to Stop a Spook?

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Episode 349: What Critical Mass Really Looks Like in Riding

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Episode 348: Don't Wait — Prepare Before the Problem

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Episode 347: 'I Just Want to Feel More Confident'—but Which Kind?

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Episode 346: How Can I Reward My Horse Without Stopping the Flow of the Ride?

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Episode 345: 4 Reasons Riders Don't Teach Focus

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Episode 344: Ask December You: The Time Travel Trick for Better Decisions

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Episode 343: Why "Almost Right" Will Bring Less Tension

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Episode 342: Stuck Between Knowing and Doing

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Episode 341: Forward Is a Direction—And a Trained Skill

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Episode 340: Why Your Horse Keeps Falling In—and Leaning on Your Inside Leg

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Episode 339: Training with Energy: Preparing Horses for Real-World Challenges

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Episode 338: The Mind-Body Connection at Tricky Trail Crossings

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Episode 337: Change the Angle, Change the Lesson

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Episode 336: Horsemanship as Art—And the Tension of Teaching It

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Episode 335: The Rider's Body – When Your Body Tells a Different Story (Part 2)

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Episode 334: The Rider's Body – Your Cues vs Your Core (part )

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Episode 333: The Rider's Mind - The Critical Balance Between Knowledge and Meaning

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Episode 332: The Horse's Mind – From Instinct to Intention (Part 2)

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Episode 331: The Horse's Mind: What Their Body Tells You About Their Thinking (Part 1)

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Episode 330: The Horse's Body: Observation vs. Interpretation

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Episode 329: Misdiagnosed? A New Way to Diagnose Riding Challenges

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Episode 328: The Moment is Gone (But That's Not a Problem)

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Episode 327: The Recipe for Success: Balancing Structure and Intuition in Horse Training

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Episode 326: The Physical Expression of Your Dream: Beyond Words Like 'Trust' and 'Enjoy'

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Episode 325: The Missing Link: Why Some Keep Going and Others Burn Out

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Episode 324: Heart and Goal: Your Dreams Made Visible

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Episode 323: "I Feel Behind" - And What To Do About It

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Episode 322: Why Smart People Abandon Good Goals

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Episode 321: The Missing Step: Why Your Goals Need a Theme

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Episode 320: Your Next Chapter: Finding Magic in Your Own Timeline

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Episode 319-The Gift of Seeing: Finding Magic in the Rewatch

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Episode 318-Noticing Progress While Embracing Reality

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Episode 317: Your Horse's Year in Review: Seeing 2024 Through Their Eyes

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Episode 316: Three Revealing Behaviors: When Horses Want to Play

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Episode 315: Why are you thankful for horses? How have horses changed your life?

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Episode 314: New is Always New: Why Experience Doesn't Eliminate Uncertainty

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Episode 313: Preventing Secondary Reactions: Preparing Your Horse for Success

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Episode 312: Is Your Horse Seeing Contradictions? Helping Your Horse Understand

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Episode 311: The Silent Conversation: Three Hidden Challenges in Understanding Horse Language

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Episode 310: When Your Horse Disagrees: Managing Conflicting Viewpoints

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Episode 309: Back to the Basics: The Dance of Internal and External Focus

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Episode 308: Maintaining Momentum: Riding Through Life's Interruptions

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Episode 307: Through Their Eyes: A Horse's View on Group Riding

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Episode 306: Listener Q&A: Enhancing the Relationship between a Novice Rider and a Capable Horse

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Episode 305: Listener Q&A: How Can I Increase My Confidence In My Goals?

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Episode 304: The Anticipation Paradox: When Good Training Creates New Challenges

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Episode 303: Consistency is Key: Transitioning from Arena to Trail

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Episode 302: Words Matter: How Language Shapes Your Equestrian Experience

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Episode 301: Indecisive No More: Conquering Decision Fatigue, and Miserable Maybes

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Episode 300: The Challenge of Choosing Change

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Episode 299: Thematic Thinking: Unlocking New Perspectives

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Episode 298: Mimicry's Limits: How Horses Move Beyond This And You Can Too

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Episode 297: Marking Mistakes: Why Non-Reactivity Matters in Horse Training

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Episode 296: From Theory to Saddle: Building Your Equestrian Toolbox

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Episode 295: Allowing Choices: Empowering Your Horse's Mind

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Episode 294: Predictable vs Unpredictable: From 'Oh This Again' to 'Oh, I See It There!'

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Episode 293: Recalibrating Your Horse Goals: A Step-by-Step Guide

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Episode 292: You are Invited: Two Invitations Horses Offer Riders

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Episode 291- Lessons Learned on the Trail and Foal Update

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Episode 290-The Power of Touch: Building Connection Through Contact

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Episode 289: Recovery Time: The Missing Piece of Your Training Plan

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Episode 288: Dancing with Discomfort: Steps of Faith and Evidence

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Episode 287: Distracted: Should I let my horse stop and look, or keep him moving?

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Episode 286: When Words Fall Short: How You See It vs. How I See It

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Episode 285: Five levels of distraction you can see in a horse.

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Episode 284: How Riders Can Avoid These 3 Self-Created Obstacles

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Episode 283: Switching Gears: Mastering Multiple Roles with Your Horse

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Episode 282-Riding Towards Understanding: the Virtual Tevis Cup Challenge

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Episode 281- Earning Wisdom: Two Stories of Personal Growth

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Episode 280: Gratitude Amidst Adversity: Caring for Orphaned Foals

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Episode 279-The Pitfalls of Regret: Tracing Its Effects on Thought Patterns

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Episode 278: Rushing Forward: Overcoming the temptation to rush

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Episode 277: Two ways you may be disconnecting from your horse

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Episode 276: Resolving Resistance: Believe your horse's feedback

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Episode 275: The biggest relationship mistake I see riders make with their horses.

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Episode 274: From Doubt to Discovery: See your horse more clearly to bring back the wonder and joy

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Episode 273: "From 'I Don't See It' to 'I See It!': Breaking Down the Barrier Between Seeing and Understanding"

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Episode 272: Stuck at the Start: the 5 steps riders use to improve and why many get stuck on step one

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Episode 271: The Unseen Connection: Counting Strides vs. Navigating Emotional States

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Episode 270: The Art of Being: Embracing a Way of Being Approach

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Episode 269: Catalyst for Change: 3 Steps to Shift Your Way of Being

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Episode 268: Seeing your horse dream on a daily basis

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Episode 267- Dream bigger, measure backward, and let things count.

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Episode 266: Red zone, yellow zone, green zone

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Episode 265: Raw reactions vs. rewarded responses

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Episode 264: The hidden cost of how you treat you.

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Episode 263-Messy Middle or normal process: reducing frustration and increasing fun

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Episode 262- Unlocking Potential: Recognizing the layers of training

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Episode 261: Becoming congruent: The skill of shifting your perspective

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Episode 260- Frustration dissolves when you learn to structure and evaluate your rides

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Episode 259- The value of seeing the whole process

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Episode 258: Choosing and Celebrating Success

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Episode 257: Liberty Festival, reining, and bridleless riding

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Episode 256: Bend is your friend, especially when bridleless

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Episode 255: Lessons from Outliers: Horses not on the 'traditional' path

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Episode 254: My horse is so heavy: skillset and mindset changes

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Episode 253: Tack & technique: choosing bits

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Episode 252: What is a finished horse?

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Episode 251: Should I reward the smallest try…or expect more?

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Episode 250: How to use your seat to cue your horse.

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Episode 249: Does your horse have a limiting belief?

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Episode 248: Am I doing this right?

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Episode 247: How do I know it's the cue and not the repetition of the pattern?

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Episode 246: How do I get my horse to keep doing it longer?

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Episode 245: Why does it work one day, then not the next?

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Episode 244: Why ride patterns? (especially boring ones)

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Episode 243: Why should I bend my horse? (and why you avoid asking more questions)

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Episode 242: "But all the doors are closed"….why some horses exhibit resistance.

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Episode 241: Three reasons it can feel like the training process is going slower than you thought it would….

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Episode 240: How to relax your body and communicate clearly when riding.

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Episode 239: Do you have a connection issue or cue system confusion?

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Episode 238: To those who are pursuing their dreams...

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Episode 237: How capable is your horse…really?

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Episode 236: One skill that rules them all…first ride to bridleless

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Episode 235: The challenge of bit-less and bridleless riding.

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Episode 234-Pressure: Do you prefer sensitizing or desensitizing?

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Episode 233- Are you riding reactively or proactively?

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Episode 232-Training bank account and emotional bank account

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Episode 231-Groundwork: earning the right to be in each other's space

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Episode 230: Are your corrections causing more problems?

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Episode 229: "What do you do with your horse goals and dreams when life brings it to a halt?"

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Episode 228: How do I keep my horse from getting bored?

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Episode 227: The two biggest lessons showing has taught me.

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(updated)Episode 226: The trainer, the showman, the judge: ways of thinking that impact your riding.

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Episode 225: Calculated plateaus in training and showing

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Episode 224: Splitting focus, allowing mistakes and growth mentality

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Episode 223: Q&A: "The fear preventing me from showing my horse is…"

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Episode 222: Show environments, routines and insecure horses

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Episode 221: How hard is it to interchange disciplines, and is that frustrating for a horse?

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Episode 220: Showing vs. training and developing the rider's eye

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Episode 219: High-value and Low-value cycles

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Episode 218: Check your confidence in these four areas

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Episode 217: What if the goal IS what helps you develop the relationship?

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Episode 216: The base layer goal that will ensure your progress

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Episode 215: Two things to consider before changing your goal

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Episode 214: Reviewing…without a self-doubt spiral.

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Episode 213: 'How greed' and your success pattern

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Episode 212: The 'gap' in the conversation tells you what your horse is thinking.

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Episode 211: Starting energy vs. Re-starting energy

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Episode 210-Hundreds of reasons to be thankful for horses this Thanksgiving

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Episode 209: The teacher and the student (human or horse)

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Episode 208: Reflecting to reveal your pattern of choices.

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Episode 207: The very real work of changing your mind.

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Episode 206: How riders use planning against themselves or their horse

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Episode 205: Planning transitions and revealing habits

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Episode 204: Your horse experiences your body.

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Episode 203: The Resourceful Rider

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Episode 202: 3 things to do when the next step ISN'T obvious

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Episode 201: The next most obvious step.

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Podcast 200: Can you relate to any of these struggles or success stories?

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Episode 199: The trickiest concept

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Episode 198: The benefits of NOT believing you can.

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Episode 197: The delayed side effects of your habit patterns: desirable or undesirable?

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Episode 196: Teaching, Testing and Micromanaging: The difference is timing

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Episode 195: I don't want my horse to stop meeting me at the gate.

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Episode 194: Which comes first; the head or the body?

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Episode 193: The #1 way to identify if you're trying to skip the messy middle

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Episode 192- Forward is a DIRECTION, not a speed.

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Episode 191: Do you show up strong and clear for your horse?

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Episode 190: Doing less of a 'bad thing' won't work.

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Episode 189-Why I teach with patterns…and how it isn't about the pattern.

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Episode 188: Moving faster or slower than your horse; physically and mentally

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Episode 187: The backward cycle of learning; 'after', 'during', 'before'

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Episode 186- Specific vs. non-specific riding

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Episode 185- How to determine if your self concept is slowing you down.

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Episode 184-The benefits and challenges of learning to evaluate your ride

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Episode 183-Creating building blocks or rearranging the blocks you have to create something new.

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Episode 182-How to deal with a mouthy horse and prevent biting.

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Episode 181- Three reasons it can be challenging to sit a horses lope

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Episode 180: Help, my horse started laying down while riding

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Episode 179: Getting forward motion from a horse without negative tension.

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Episode 178: My mare goes from calm and sweet to disconnected: self awareness, anticipation, and adjustability

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Episode 177- Rein contact: does your horse think support or correction?

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Episode 176: But is this really what my horse likes doing?

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Episode 175: Why horses might put their ears back during work

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Episode 174: Horse bucking while leading: earning the right to be near me

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Episode 173: Teaching a foal to be bold

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Episode 172: What to do with feelings like terrified and scared

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Episode 171: Positive and negative tension in riders

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Episode 170: Can you change the story in your head about a horse or is it time to move on?

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Episode 169: Fearful horses: instinct, training, speed of learning and accidental rewards

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Episode 168: Q&A: 'I need help getting my horse to bend'; groundwork & ridden

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Episode 167: Things to consider when prepping for first big horse show

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Episode 166-Goal Setting & Overcoming Obstacles Starter Kit

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Episode 165: Mastery and the Plateau

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Episode 164- Untangling thoughts with help

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Episode 163- A Year End Review

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Episode 162: Leave room for the magic

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Episode 161: The power of "I don't know how…"

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Episode 160: Yearly theme instead of goal?

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Episode 159: 5 steps to blow your own mind

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Episode 158: An inside-out thankfulness assignment

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Episode 157: What 'they' say…and what I make it mean about me as a rider.

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Episode 156: Three mistakes I nearly made at the AQHA world show

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Episode 155: Abandoning hopes and dreams.

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Episode 154: Creating emotions to benefit you and your horse

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Episode 153: How your thoughts change your results with your horse.

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Episode 152: Stages of thought awareness

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Episode 151: Life coaching and the riders mind

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Episode 150- Should you be playing a never ending game with your horse?

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Episode 149- Three traits I see in riders who reach their goals

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Episode 148- Three situations where horses frequently double check the rules

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Episode 147: This is the awkward, uncomfortable part of the journey.

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Episode 146-Why patterns can help & why riders resist riding patterns

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Episode 145: Skill confidence vs self confidence

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Episode 144: 3 ways riders block their physical awareness

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Episode 143: Prerequisites for flying lead changes

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Episode 142: How can I slow my horse down on a loose rein?

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Episode 141: My horse is on the wrong lead…

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Episode 140: Uncollected- Is that resistance, stiffness and tripping mental or physical?

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Episode 139: Teaching high energy horses to wait and low energy horses to be ready

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Episode 138: 3 reasons people don't develop emotional maturity in horses

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Episode 137: The role of excitement and patience in horse training

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Episode 136: Developing self awareness & independence when riding

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Episode 135: Is mental exhaustion hindering your horse training?

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Episode 134: How do you get that bond and trust with your horses?

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Episode 133: Collection: Western vs Dressage

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Episode 132: When would I start introducing collection to my horse?

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Episode 131- Painful thoughts that hold us back with our horses

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Episode 130: The discomfort of learning new things

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Episode 129: Physical and mental comfort zones for horses

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Episode 128: Dressage vs Reining: Lessons I have Learned

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Episode 127: Survival brain vs rational brain on a trail ride

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Episode 126-Mental games for injured horses, clicker training Q&A

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Episode 125-Retraining older horses vs starting with a clean slate

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Episode 124- Horse scared on the trail: Let them look or keep them busy?

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Episode 123: Help! I'm constantly in my horses mouth too much…

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Episode 122: Feeling overwhelmed while training your own horse.

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Episode 121: Overcoming thoughts that rob joy from your horse adventures.

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Episode 120: My horse is a bully. Where do I start?

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Episode 119: Distracted and overreactive vs responsive and aware, how can I train my horse to respond better?

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Episode 118: How can I STOP my horse from being aggressive towards other horses?!

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Episode 117: Challenging Conversations with Your Horse

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Episode 116: Selling or rehoming an older horse

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Episode 115: Using curiosity, receiving feedback and stages of relationship impact training your horse

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Episode 114- Exercise: coach yourself to coach your horse

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Episode 113: How to calendar your horse goals

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Episode 112- Can you have Relationship AND Results with your horse?

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Episode 111: 3 reasons you're afraid to set big goals with your horse

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Episode 110- Inspired by Man o' War aka Big Red

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Episode 109: Fear around training your own horse

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Ep 108: 3 observations from almost buying a horse.

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Episode 107: Training Cycles: Yearly, weekly, daily

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Episode 106-Make your dreams a reality in 10 minutes

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Episode 105-Older horses and the decision to euthanize

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Episode 104- Western Dressage Test Explained

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Episode 103: Is the phrase, "It's all training"…a useful statement?

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Episode 102: Riding one horse in multiple disciplines

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Reflect, reset, move forward with understanding.

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Episode 100- The horses that have taught me.

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HELP: My horse REALLY connects to other horses when trail riding…

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Teaching your horse to be a thinking participant

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Separating rider issues from horse issues when trail riding

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How can I train my horse to ride safely near traffic?

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Help, my horse has emotional outbursts on the trail

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Reducing anxiety during trail rides

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When horses freak out at the idea of trail riding

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Building a horses confidence on the trails

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The most common MISTAKE people make trail riding

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Trail riding vs arena riding: advantages and disadvantages

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Getting Started in the Horse Industry-a conversation with Molly Wagner

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Western Dressage: a conversation with Lynn Palm

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How much MONEY am I spending on my horse habit? A conversation with Nicole Ross

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The challenge of change - a conversation with Ginny Telego

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The older & wider rider - a conversation with Suzi Vlietstra

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Clicker training horses- a conversation with Mustang Maddy

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Getting started in reining-A conversation with Jesse Westfall

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Ride with Confidence- a conversation with Barbra Schulte

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Leading one horse while riding another, how to teach ponying

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Horse shows: ethics, reining, competition, pitfalls & different cue systems

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My Horse Won't Walk On The Lunge Line & Can I Do Groundwork Without Lunging?

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Discussing quality, quantity, and boredom during horse training

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Add planning and refinement to your riding: circles, straight & cues

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Teaching horses to give to pressure, ground tie & stand quietly

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Ranch Riding Troubles and Electric Fence Issues

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Handling stress when you can't ride your horse.

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Empowering riders, respecting space, finding balance between go & whoa aids

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Why lunging horses? Benefits and warnings.

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Put yourself in the role of the horse

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Using More Leg on Hot Horses

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Training Horses for Others vs Training Your Own.

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How to Teach a Horse to Spook

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Teaching horses tricks...or problems?

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Q&A: 5 tips for trail riding young horses & goals during pregnancy

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The Tipping Point in Horse Training.

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Improving Steering & Teaching Neck Reining, Once in a Lifetime Horses

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Equine Career Q&A, Full Confession and Self Awareness

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Good horse training is boring...

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Why would I look forward to my horse spooking?

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5 Tips for Motivated Riding

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Experiencing A 'Bad' Riding Lesson

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Christmas Morning in the Barn

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Ride with Faith...and Training

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Q&A: Rescue horses, boring riders, why striking & kicking?

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Training aids or gimmicks? Martingales, draw reins, etc.

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Choosing saddle pads, cinch/girth, billets & breast collars

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Saddle Fit and Challenges

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Tack: Bridles, Headstalls, Bits & Reins

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Tack: Halters, Lead Ropes, Lunge Lines

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Finding Work/Life Balance with Stacy Westfall and Ginny Telego

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Q&A: Changing Horse's Habits, Sell or Keep, Hobble Training and Riding Bareback

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Q&A: Are multiple riders good or bad? Training Secrets?

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Locking and Unlocking Traits in Your Horse

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5 Tips for Bringing Up Your Horses Energy

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Whoa! Teaching Your Horse to Stop.

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How Can I Improve My Horse's Lope or Canter?

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Improving Your Horses Steering

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Training HOT Horses

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True Forward Motion in a Horse

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Why I Do Not Disengage My Horse's Hips

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The Two Most Basic Cues When Riding a Horse

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Rewarding Physical and Mental Changes in Your Horse

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Do This During Groundwork With Your Horse

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3 Reasons to Do Groundwork With Your Horse

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The Reason We Are Fascinated With the Horses Body

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Learned Helplessness and Working Horses

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Listener Question: How Do I Peak My Horses Performance for a Show?

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Horse With Mental Issues or Training Issues?

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Listener Question: Untraining a Horse or Adding Layers?

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Correcting Behavior We Dislike In Our Horses

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3 Negative Thoughts Riders Often Have Toward Horses

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Is Your Horse Training Routine Dead?

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Horses Can 'Learn how to Learn'

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Is Your Horse 'Swearing' at You? His Intentions Matter.

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Is Your Horse Anticipating?

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Is Your Horse Being Creative?

342

Your Horse Has Questions

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Beyond Prey vs Predator: You're Underestimating Your Horse

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Your Horse Needs You to Do This

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The Hierarchy of the Riders Aids as the Horse Advances

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Your Weakest Aid When Horseback Riding

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Improving Your Aids When Riding Your Horse

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Are You Helping or Interfering With Your Horse When Riding?

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Riding Horses; Western vs English vs Bareback

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3 methods for improving your horseback riding & breaking the habit of looking down: Episode 15

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Episode 14: Muscle Memory: habits & experience can improve your horseback riding skills

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Episode 13: Make riding easier for your horse; add strength and flexibility

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Episode 12: Is Horseback Riding Dangerous?

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Episode 11: Q & A: Evaluating Horse, Confidence & Desire, Limiting Beliefs

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Episode 10: Riders should make mistakes in the right direction

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Episode 9: How riders view pressure will affect their horses

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Are you failing your horse or disappointed as a rider?

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Setting SMART goals for you and your horse

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The horse's path of learning is NOT the same as the rider

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Riders experience four stages of competency

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Responsibility & accountability between horse and rider

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Responsibility and the stages of learning riders experience with horses

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Leadership vs Getting Along: Horses want to know who is leading, Grandma's rules

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Fear vs Danger: Riders can improve if they know the difference