by monday

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by monday

Join Jill as she navigates intentionally using her free time to unplug from the doom scroll and figures out how to fill her days with wellness, creativity, style, seasonal rituals and goal setting. Every week, Jill shares ideas on making the most of the weekend (or wherever your free time lands), and working towards personal growth “By Monday.” Tune in for practical tips for intentional living and connection and follow along for a peek into her own journey of harnessing her free time.

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    rockin' & rollin'

    A little chat about where I'm at and where the pod is at.We're in it over here ya'll. Hope you get my intended virtual hug out of this. Thanks, as always, for listening. xx,Jillp.s. please don't actually diagnose me lol

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    touching grass

    It's time to touch some grass.. I've been caught in the endless scroll cycle many times before, and breaking free from it takes more than just deleting the app. In my experience, it takes intention, strategy, and some self-honesty. In this episode, I share what’s actually helped me unplug: from setting boundaries and planning low-stimulation offline time, to re-entering the digital world with clarity and purpose. This is war! For reclaiming your time, your mind, and your creativity.Thank you for listening!Talk to your next week...xx, Jillwww.bymonday.comMentioned in the episode:-The Summer I Turned Pretty-Love Island-Modern Love-doomscroll rehab episode

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    you can let this go

    Back from a short, summery break.This week I’m sharing a few things I would gently tell my younger self she’s allowed to let go of; things like constant productivity, needing to know what’s next, or dressing to look small. These are the kind of pressures we tend to carry quietly for years, until we realize we have the power to drop them. I’m also including some snippets from friends and family about the expectations they’ve released as well. It's good to remember we're all collectively letting go of things as we make our way through life. Thank you for listening!Talk to you next week,xx, Jillwww.bymonday.com

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    the second half

    This week, I’m inviting you into a mid-year reset. We're pausing at the halfway point, doing some reflecting, and realigning with what you want the second half of the year to include. I walk through some thought-provoking questions and share some of my own reflections and shifts from the year so far. Whether you’ve been having the best year ever or are just getting by, this episode is your gentle nudge to check-in and move forward with intention.Hope you enjoy and thanks for listening!Talk to you next Friday!xx, Jillwww.bymonday.com

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    channeling euro summer

    In this week's episode, I talk through how I am channeling the dreamy, slow-paced energy of a European/East Coast summer without actually traveling to either. I’m talking about savoring the season through pleasure, simple luxuries, juicy, fresh fruit, espresso, and a wardrobe full of light linen and flip-flops. Let’s make this summer feel like a vacation, no matter where you are.Thank you for listening!xx, Jillwww.bymonday.comMentioned in the episode:-Carrie Rad-Summer Playlist

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    hormone happy hour

    Welcome to Hormone Happy Hour! We’re keeping it simple this week and breaking down what’s actually happening in your body throughout the month (for women) and each day (for men). I walk through the four phases of the menstrual cycle with movement and nutrient tips for each, plus how men can support their daily hormone rhythm with habits and nutrition as well. Whether you're syncing your cycle or just want to feel better in your body, this one’s full of approachable info and good-to-know info for both men and women.Thank you for listening!Talk to you next Friday.xx, Jillwww.bymonday.comMentioned in the episode:-Balanced Beyars-Go As A River book-Saltair Salt Water Vanilla Serum Deodorant-Functional Blood Work Resource

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    not hot

    In this week's episode, I'm discussing what's hot...and what's not. Think: tagging airlines in angry Instagram stories and being rude to people in customer service (not hot). What does it really mean to embody “hot behavior.”? Spoiler: It has way less to do with looks and way more to do with energy, self-awareness, and how you treat people. Hope you enjoy the ep.Thanks for listening!Talk to you next Friday.xx, Jillwww.bymonday.comMentioned in the episode:2000's Country Playlist

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    create! create! create!

    Today's episode is about creativity...for everyone. I talk about unlearning self-consciousness, letting go of perfection, and practicing being seen without performing. I’m working on releasing my grip on certainty and choosing to create, even when it’s messy or incomplete (which is always). This is your sign to stop waiting for the “perfect time” and just start.Thank you for listening!Talk to you next week,xx, Jillwww.bymonday.comMentioned in the episode:-Aspire with Emma Grede and Jay Shetty-new year, new tune

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    no bullsh*t health

    Lately, I’ve been focused on leveling up. Nothing extreme, just showing up with more consistency, structure, and honesty about what’s good for me. In this episode, I talk about simplifying your health because most of us are overcomplicating it and skipping the basics. I’m walking more, eating more real food, and taking ownership of the little things that actually move the needle. It’s not about perfection or even optimization, it’s about doing what you know you need to do, even when it’s not hot.Take what resonates with you on this one! Leave the rest. Thanks for listening!Talk to you next Friday.xx, Jillwww.bymonday.comMentioned in this episode:Malla.co : Functional Medicine resource Magnesium Citrate for regularityMagnesium Glycinate for sleepBristol Stool ChartChia and Flax seedsProbioticsCoconut WaterPink Himalayan and Celtic Sea SaltBlue-light blocking glassesthe ben episode

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    the ben episode

    Heyooo, first guest episode...and with none other than my twin brother, Ben!We talk about what it was like growing up side-by-side, comparison, childhood crush's, how twindom has expanded our perspectives and sooo much more. Plus, we get into a little about where he is at mentally before he steps into fatherhood in the next month.So grateful for the brother and friend that he is to me- and that we've kept giggling throughout our entire lives. Thanks so much for listening and hope you all enjoy! Talk to you next Friday,xx, Jill www.bymonday.com

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    a sunday brief

    Happy Mother's Day to all the amazing moms out there!I took a short break on Friday but still wanted to pop in and share this stream of consciousness that nobody asked for. Hope you all have a nice week, and I'll talk to you Friday!xx, Jillwww.bymonday.com

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    faking it

    I’m deep in my “drafting” era, but that doesn’t mean I’m not keeping clear on the vision I have for my life. This episode is about faking it—not to fool anyone, but to stay connected to the version of me I’m becoming. It’s a little bit delusional, a little bit intentional, and fully part of the process.Thank you for listening!Talk to you next Friday,xx, Jillwww.bymonday.com

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    unfunking

    In this episode, I’m sharing my personal remedy for when life feels a little off—what I'm calling “unfunking.” Going over some of the "tools" I reach for like ashwagandha and clean hair to comfort books, inspiring creators, and lowkey hangs. This is my gentle guide to shifting the vibe. No pressure to bounce back—just small, nourishing things that help me feel a little more like me.Thanks for listening!Talk to you next Friday,xx, Jillwww.bymonday.com

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    chronic beginner

    This week we’re talking about what it’s like living as a chronic beginner. Always exploring new hobbies or ideas, but maybe never mastering them. I share about how I’m learning to find joy in trying new things, letting go of the pressure to be good at everything, and how I practice tuning into when it is worth sticking it out and harnessing discipline. Thank you for listening!Talk to you next Friday-xx, Jillwww.bymonday.com

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    solitude 101

    This week I talk about one of my favorite topics...solitude. I used to be really self-conscious about spending time alone, but I’ve really grown to love it. These days, I genuinely enjoy my own company, from solo movie dates to quiet moments at home, and I've learned that being alone doesn’t equate to being lonely. Embracing solitude has helped me build confidence, get clear on my thoughts, and practice genuine self-acceptance. I hope it helps you with the same and that you feel inspired to plan a solo date this month.Thank you for listening!Talk to you next Friday.xx, Jillwww.bymonday.comLinks from the show:Asparagus Frittatanew year, new tune

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    reimagining community

    Community has changed a lot for me over time—effortless in childhood but something I’ve had to intentionally cultivate as an adult. It’s evolved from being just about friendship to being more about connection, presence, and engaging beyond my immediate circle. Prioritizing it has meant showing up, starting conversations, and creating spaces for togetherness, however that may look.Hope you guys enjoy this chat!Talk to you next Friday,xx, Jillwww.bymonday.comLinks:Epidemic of Loneliness and IsolationSocial Support and DepressionMental Health and CommunitySocial Connections and Longevity

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    well, well, wellness

    Chatty, sleepy, overcast episode today.I talk through a bit of my health story and why I take the time to share about health and wellness on the pod. I also mix in a little theme about listening to your body.Reminder to go watch Mamma Mia! and report back on your happiness levels.Talk to you next Friday!xx, Jillwww.bymonday.com

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    spring equinox

    It's officially Spring.This week marks the start of the season and I’m fully embracing the shift into longer, warmer days. This week, I'm getting in the spirit by discussing al fresco activities, fresh foods, and small rituals like lighting candles or planning get-togethers. I’m focusing on balance, refreshing my space and wardrobe, and making space for creativity while easing into this next season. Hope you enjoy and don't forget to peep all the links below for what was mentioned in the episode.Talk to you next Friday!xx, Jillwww.bymonday.comLinks:MeditationSubstack postAir PurifierMy Spring/Summer Style BoardNancy Meyers PlaylistSeasonal Recipes:Asparagus Goat Cheese FritattaOrange Beet SaladBaked Lemon Herb SalmonHoney Roasted CarrotsChia Seed PuddingGF Lemon Bars

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    locking in

    Surprise Monday episode! Had some tech issues with Spotify last week so thanks for hanging tight on this one.Buckle up, people. We're locking in this week.In today's episode, I talk about how quick the last ten years passed and my plan for getting clear on my goals and making intentional progress. From goal-dumping and removing self-imposed obstacles to staying consistent and sharing with the people in your life, I cover it all.Hope you enjoy this episode!Talk to you this Friday,xx, Jill⁠www.bymonday.com⁠Mentioned in the ep:⁠mini tune up: self-trust⁠⁠mini tune up: gratitude⁠⁠mini tune up: purpose⁠⁠mini tune up: abundance⁠

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    good news

    This week is simply for sharing some good news to combat the frankly overwhelming bad news flooding our screens.Some positive world news mixed with some small, daily wins. I hope you feel a spark of hope hearing these stories and take some time to celebrate women's history month however feels right to you.Talk to you guys next Friday!xx, Jillwww.bymonday.comSources:Totally forgot to save my sources but just google these stories and they will pop up!

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    the monthlies

    This week we're talking through days that you can plan into your month to create structure, fun, and balance (or harmony) in your life.Not all of these will apply! Some months you'll only fit one or two of these in. Planning out what your monthlies are is a great way to include some diversity in your month while still getting your sh*t done.Throwback PlaylistHope you all have a grrrreat weekend and I'll talk to you next Friday!xx, Jillwww.bymonday.comP.s. Pardon the audio fuzziness!

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    doomscroll rehab

    Time for an intervention...we're putting the phones down and heading to doomscroll rehab this week.Let's be honest. Phone addiction and excessive scrolling is a widespread problem that we're all in the midst of navigating. How to stay connected, where to draw the line, and how to keep up with a rapidly changing world without melting our brains. So let's talk about it.Hope you all have a great weekend!xx, Jillwww.bymonday.comSources:Momentous InstituteBoredom is Good For You Psychology for Mental HealthHarvard Medical SchoolPhones and our HealthAverage Screen Time

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    crème brûlée

    Happy Valentine's Day, my loves! In this weeks (unedited) episode, I share my recent simple pleasures and ideas for romanticizing your day-to-day. Hope you all have a love-filled weekend. Thank you so much for listening! I'll talk to you next Friday.xx, Jillwww.bymonday.comLinks/Sources:Cancer Research InstituteScience Behind HouseplantsPlaylists 🎶Sounds Like HoneyMy Life Is A MovieLove Letter

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    breaking up with toxins

    Biggg topic today. We're talking environmental toxins....What are they? How do we start decreasing them in our lives? And why should you even care to?This is a heavy topic and it can be a lot to wrap your head around what this looks like in your life. I hope you take 2 or 3 three things that you can implement out of this episode and leave feeling like you have a better understanding of how to support your health!Let me know your thoughts on ET's and how we're feeling about the affirmations.Enjoy your weekend and I'll talk to you next Friday!xx, Jillwww.bymonday.comSources:Mind Body GreenEarth Justice EcoWatchTulane UniversityEWG

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    the winter uglies

    Game plan for fighting off the winter uglies...let's go.Style creators I’m always inspired by:@caitlynwarakomski@lucywilliams02@jujhavens@megbrackpoolHope you all have a great weekend!xx, Jillwww.bymonday.com

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    mini tune up: purpose

    We made it, honey! The final part of the Mini Tune Up series. This week we finish up on speaking with purpose and a few ways I practice authenticity. Thank you so much for tuning into this first series for by monday! Hope you guys enjoyed it. Back to regularly scheduled Friday posts for now. Hope you guys have a great week! Talk to you Friday. xx, Jill ⁠⁠bymonday.com

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    immune boost

    This week we dive into the basics of immune health and some of my own hacks/tips that help keep my immune system functioning at it's best. Mentioned in the episode: Binaural Beats CitriSafe Agrumax Hope you all have the best weekend! Last episode of the Mini Tune Up series drops Monday. Talk to you then, xx, Jill bymonday.com

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    mini tune up: abundance

    Part 3 of the Mini Tune Up series! This week we talk about practicing abundance and dabble in some visualization. I've shared a few meditations about abundance below as well if you feel like diving in a bit deeper. 5-Minute Meditation 20-Minute Meditation The Mini Tune Up series is a 4-part series where we practice using our words, our voice, + our inner and outer dialogue to honor the power of words in our lives. Practice makes perfect? Nah, but practice definitely makes positive change happen. Each series episode will drop on Mondays throughout January to help you start 2025 off with a healthy mental foundation. Hope you guys enjoy and have a great week! Talk to you Friday. xx, Jill ⁠bymonday.com

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    embracing embarrassing

    Out: Letting your embarrassing moments define your entire life and hold you back from trying new things. In: Leaning into embarrassing and finding the humor in experimenting in life. Hope you guys enjoy these stories and feel invited to be embarrassing with me. <3 Part 3 of the Mini Tune Up series drops Monday- talk to you then! xx, Jill bymonday.com

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    mini tune up: self-trust

    Part 2 of the Mini Tune Up series! This week it's all about Self-Trust and reclaiming your discipline. The Mini Tune Up series is a 4-part series where we practice using our words, our voice, + our inner and outer dialogue to honor the power of words in our lives. Practice makes perfect? Nah, but practice definitely makes positive change happen. Each series episode will drop on Mondays throughout January to help you start 2025 off with a healthy mental foundation. Hope you guys enjoy and have a great week. Talk to you Friday! xx, Jill bymonday.com

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    30 gifts from 30 years

    Sharing 30 of the gifts, lessons, sayings and quotes that I've found to be impactful in my last 30 years of life. Hope you enjoy! xx, Jill p.s. Tune in Monday for the next Mini Tune Up episode bymonday.com

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    mini tune up: gratitude

    Part 1 of the Mini Tune Up series and we're talking about the queen of joy...Gratitude! The Mini Tune Up series is a 4-part series where we practice using our words...our voice...our inner and outer dialogue to honor the power of words in our lives. Practice makes perfect? Nah, but practice definitely makes positive change happen. Each series episode will drop on Mondays throughout January to help you start 2025 off with a healthy mental foundation. Hope you all enjoy, thanks for listening, and watch this space for part 2 coming next Monday! xx, Jill

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    low pressure resolutions

    There's no resolution burnout here, baby! In this weeks episode, I talk through ideas to invite change and inspiration into your routine without giving it all up by February, while being realistic about the challenge of initiating lasting habits in the middle of winter. It's no joke! Reminder that the Mini Tune Up series begins this Monday, January 6th! Join me for short episodes to help hone in your inner (+ outer) dialogue to massively improve your life. Big claims, but I swear it's real. Sharing a few mocktail recipes I love or am excited to try! Let me know if you give one a go. Cantaloupe Mojito Mocktail Virgin Paloma Mocktail Citrus Twist Spritz Mocktail Cheers and thanks for listening! xx, Jill

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    new year, new tune

    Breaking down the science behind affirmations and why words and how you speak to yourself matters. This topic is something I'm genuinely passionate about because it's had such a major impact on my life. Hope you learn something or take away a new perspective on how you speak to yourself. Here's the Winter Solstice meditation that I did from "The Morning Ritual" : https://open.spotify.com/episode/6vai0AeyCmjnMUINOtZSMn?si=Fjf1fl6rSlKJVYHrX1tX4w Hope you all have a fun, safe New Year! Keep your eye out for the mini episodes coming in January.

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    '24 favorites

    Some favorites from this year! Talking through style, habits, food/wellness, and miscellaneous favorites from this year. Hope you all have a wonderful, safe Christmas!

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    eventize your life

    Sharing ideas and tips for eventizing the holidays and even incorporating it into your everyday life and relationships. Reminder to start your 12 days of ______ if you're listening on December 13th!

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    nervous system check-in

    What brings you back down to earth during this time of year? In this episode, I talk through how I check-in on my nervous system and evaluate how I plan to revamp my self care for the next couple of weeks. If you look into Billie's recent album, might I recommend "The Greatest" and "Blue". Some of my favorites. Thanks for listening and happy December, all! Take care and spend some good quality time with your people this holiday season. It will pass before we know it!

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    how to by monday

    A run through of what the making of a by monday list/moment is like....as well as a bit of nice jazz and laundry in the background. Link and credit for music below. Snoopy Jazz eun.yeon via YouTube

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    intro + autumn intentions

    Intro to by monday! And some autumn/fall ideas (I do realize it's November now...). Welcome and thanks for listening!

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    winter survival kit

    Welcome, new listeners! This episode is actually episode 3. I can not for the life of me figure out or change where it is posted so I'm telling you here. If you are a podcast tech genius, please help me lol.Catching up + sharing thoughts from the last few weeks + sharing some must-have's in my winter survival kit.Hope you all enjoyed your Thanksgiving!

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Join Jill as she navigates intentionally using her free time to unplug from the doom scroll and figures out how to fill her days with wellness, creativity, style, seasonal rituals and goal setting. Every week, Jill shares ideas on making the most of the weekend (or wherever your free time lands), and working towards personal growth “By Monday.” Tune in for practical tips for intentional living and connection and follow along for a peek into her own journey of harnessing her free time.

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