Silent Grief Podcast

Don't you wish you could just erase grief with a magic eraser? There's not a parent alive who, if given the option, wouldn't just erase the grief and wish their child back to life. But there is no magic eraser. We all know that grief is a daily part of life. Our children aren't coming back. So how do we move forward with grief? It takes a tremendous amount of love, acceptance, and raw emotion to keep moving forward. In this heart-felt episode, we offer compassion for everyone who is struggling. We hope our words offer comfort to everyone who is struggling. Much love to all of you. Thank you to our newest sponsor, Wright Farm Coffee Roasters! Please help support this podcast by trying some delicious coffee at https://www.wrightfarmcoffeeroasters.com/  Use the code SilentGrief for 10% off your first purchase. Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

Once our child passes away, life will never be the same. The second they are gone, the future is completely different. Grief rewrites our future. It's a harsh reality that all of us grieving parents must cope with. But we have the ability to rewrite part of that future as well. Sure, it will look completely different. Nothing will ever be the same as it was before. Yet we have the ability to make decisions to better ourselves. Grief is a complicated journey. Let this episode offer you some encouragement. Thank you to our newest sponsor, Wright Farm Coffee Roasters! Please help support this podcast by trying some delicious coffee at https://www.wrightfarmcoffeeroasters.com/  Use the code SilentGrief for 10% off your first purchase. Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

Christians often are attacked for grieving. We are told that our faith is weak, that we are bitter, or that God had some marvelous plan for our child and somehow we are supposed to be excited about the fact that our child is no longer with us. Here's an important point: It's okay to grieve! We will shout it from the rooftop: "It's okay to grieve." It's absurd to expect people to not grieve just because they believe in heaven. It's unfair to ask grieving parents to park their sadness and pretend like they are happy after the trauma of child loss. There is no timeline for grief. If parents are still grieving decades after losing their child, that's OK. Grief is something that helps us to process the tremendous loss. Being a Christian doesn't magically take away the sadness. Check out my book Child Loss: The Heartbreak and the Hope at https://amzn.to/49E3tP6Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

The thought of not having our baby with us anymore on Earth is devastating. However, many people find comfort in the thought of the afterlife when we can meet again. People who aren't believers of God can find comfort in different ways too. We believe that we're all walking this Earth together in this fragile thing we call life. We are here to support one another, encourage each other, and help our neighbors along their journey of grief. In this episode, we offer comforting words to the wounded. If you want to read the full chapter, "Rest In Heaven My Dear Child," see my book Child Loss: The Heartbreak and the Hope at https://amzn.to/49E3tP6Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

Finding hope in the midst of grief can seem like an impossibility. When our child dies, our world comes crashing down on us. Accomplishing routine tasks feels mundane at best. Life loses its spark. Finding hope takes time and commitment to move forward little-by-little. The good news is that it IS possible. We can learn to live in that delicate balance between deep loss and hope for what lies ahead. Join us for this important discussion. If you want to read the full chapter, "Working Hard to Find Hope," see my book Child Loss: The Heartbreak and the Hope at https://amzn.to/49E3tP6Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

Is there anything that will help my grief? We've all be there. In fact, you might be there now. Things seem like they will never get better. Grief does that to us. Those of us who are no strangers to it know that it takes a LONG (very long!) time to rebuild our lives and start pulling ourselves out of the funk. The good news is that there is a lot we can be doing to help restore our weary souls. Tune in to hear some of the things that have worked for me. After nearly 11 years, I can finally say that I'm in a much better place emotionally. You will get there. If you want to learn more about "Is there anythig that can help my grief?", see my book, Child Loss: The Heartbreak and the Hope: https://amzn.to/49E3tP6Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

The elephant in the room is that we are not the same after losing a child. NOTHING is the same, nor will it ever be. But there is a point in which we equalize a little bit and we find a place in life when we can breathe again. We call this the "new normal." It's a sort of baseline that we are familiar with. So what is your "new normal?" Maybe it's simply the ability to function day-to-day. Maybe it's feeling physically fit again. Maybe it's taking up crocheting or fishing again. Whatever it is, we can get there. If you want to learn more about finding your new normal, see my book, Child Loss: The Heartbreak and the Hope: https://amzn.to/49E3tP6Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

Do you ever wonder why you family seems to fall apart after the loss of a child? It turns out that you are not alone. When communication breaks down, so can the family. Grief is messy. We all grieve differently, and that can lead to a lot of confusion and hurt feelings within a family. Husbands and wives grieve differntly, and this can lend itself to miscommunication and hurt feelings. In this episode, we talk about ways families can communicate better so they can work through their grief together. If you want to learn more about what is happening to your family, see my book, Child Loss: The Heartbreak and the Hope: https://amzn.to/49E3tP6Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

The hardest part about grief is reaching the moment of KNOWING that it is real. For some of us, getting to the point where we know that our child is no longer coming home can take a long time. There is a very clear connection that has to happen between what our heart knows and what our brain denies. But once we walk through the hardes part of grief, something begins to slowly change. The days begin to get a little bit brighter, color starts to come back into our grey lives, and we begin to live again. Grief is hard. There is no way around that. But we can walk this journey together. Join us as we walk through this journey with you. If you want to learn more about walking through the hardest part, see my book, Child Loss: The Heartbreak and the Hope: https://amzn.to/49E3tP6Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

When grief feels overwhelming, we feel like we just can't go on doing the things that still need done. The reality is that we need to go on. Ideally, someone will come alongside you and say, "You don't need to do this right now because I've got your back." However, many of us don't have a prince charming to come into our lives and do our laundry, cook our meals, and do homework with our kids or grandkids. In this episode, we share ways that we can move forward with our grief, even when it is crippling. If you want to learn more about moving forward when life feels very hard, see chapter 4 of my book, Child Loss: The Heartbreak and the Hope: https://amzn.to/49E3tP6Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

Even years after losing a child, life spins out of control. You feel alone. You might be angry. Empty. Tired. Like there's no relief in sight. Inevitably, we ask ourselves, "Am I going crazy?" I've asked myself this same question a hundred times. There were days when I felt like people were staring at me as if I were an alien with three heads. The reality is that you're not crazy. . . you just happend to go through an unimaginable, life-changing tragedy. In this episode, we talk about what these days might look like to you and how you might just be a lot more normal than you think! If you want to learn more about just how normal you are, see chapter 3 of my book, Child Loss: The Heartbreak and the Hope: https://amzn.to/49E3tP6Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

We all are desperate for the pain and hurt to go away after losing a child. For the longest time we feel "numb," barely able to get by. We desperately want to know when we will turn the corner and start feeling more normal again. What we leaned is that there is no specific time frame. Each of us is different. We think differently, process giref differently, and our child was wildly unique. Grief takes time, plain and simple. In this episode, we talk about gentle ways we can process through our grief on our own time frame. If you want to learn more about navagating YOUR time frame, see chapter 2 of my book, Child Loss: The Heartbreak and the Hope: https://amzn.to/49E3tP6Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

When we lose a child, we often fall into "the foggy abyss," the place where our mind is in a constant fog and emotions are all over the place. I believe this serves to protect our minds, even though it can be unsettling. How long does it last? That depends. We can slip in and out of the fog over the course of years, but that's not all bad news. Once we learn to recognize it, we can navagate and manage our grief better. If you want to learn more about navagating the foggy abyss, see chapter 1 of my book, Child Loss: The Heartbreak and the Hope: https://amzn.to/49E3tP6Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

Grief is never a linear path, but when the loss of a child is met with the absence of a spouse—whether through death or divorce—the mental and emotional strain on the remaining parent can feel insurmountable. Jimmy and Clara break down the unique "trauma triggers" that accompany these major life changes and offer a roadmap for those feeling the heavy pull of isolation.Inside the Episode:The Complexity of Compounded Loss: Understanding how the loss of a spouse dramatically increases the difficulty of navigating child loss.The Weight of the "Remaining Parent": Discussing the mental health strain, emotional overload, and the financial pressures that often follow.Identifying the Triggers: How major life changes spark complex grieving processes and where depression and loneliness often take root.The Support System Checklist: A guide to the five essential pillars for staying grounded:Professional help from therapists.Leaning on friends.Navigating social agencies.Finding solace in books and shared stories.The Most Important Factor: Practicing self-care to remain grounded.Key Takeaway:"Seek help! Don’t delay, and above all, don’t try to do it alone."Clara's book, Child Loss: The Hearbreak and the Hope: https://amzn.to/49E3tP6Jimmy's book, Tithing Your Time, Treasure, and Talent: https://www.amazon.com/Tithing-Your-Time-Treasure-Talent/dp/B0GKYJM3C2 

Grief doesn't just happen to individuals; it happens to relationships. On today's Silent Grief, we uncover why so many marriages and family ties fail in the wake of tragedy. Discover how your pain impacts those around you and learn the "7-7-7 Rule"—a powerful strategy for reconnecting with your partner through dates, getaways, and romantic holidays. Don't let grief isolate you; learn how to safeguard your marriage this week.Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

There are many lies that we repeat to ourselves when we are suffering with survivor's guilt: "If I had done somehting different my child would still be alive. . . I should have been more present. . . If only I would have called more my child would still be here. . ." and on they go. The reality is that, in most cases, there is very little that we could have done to prevent our child from leaving this earth. Life is unfair, but it's unfair to most of us. The good news is that we can start repainting a brighter picture in our lives. Sure, grief will always be present, but we can start focusing on the positive things in life rather than beating ourselves up for a past that we cannot change. Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

Survivor's guilt is something parents face on the daily after losing a child. Why didn't God take me instead? Why am I still here? These are questions we ask as we are left in the wake of tragedy. We'll walk you through the reasons why we feel this guilt. It is not uncommon. This is part of processing our grief. We'll gently walk you through the journey of processing survivor's guilt. Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

Many of us wait in anticipation for the New Year. Goals are set. Maybe we can get a fresh start. Perhaps we can put grief to rest for a minute and learn to live life again. But then the clock strikes midnight and there is still a sadness. What happened? It turns out that grief follows us into the new year. In this episode, we talk about what to expect so that we don't feel like aliens with three heads. What you are experiencing is normal. You are far from alone in this. We'll talk you through it as we share some truths of living with grief. Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

Are you dreading the holiday season because of the gaping hole left by loss? This is the essential second part of our series, specifically designed for those navigating child loss and profound sorrow during what should be a joyful time. If grief consumes you—emotionally, spiritually, and physically—you are not alone, and this episode is your lifeline.Grief is a restless state of being, but you have the power to change that.In this deeply moving episode, we provide actionable, heart-centered strategies to help you control your grief by controlling your thoughts.From Acceptance to Action: We tackle the hardest truth—the acceptance of what cannot be changed ("My child died...")—and pivot to the empowering revelation that you can learn to manage your emotional response.Unlock Inner Peace: Discover the direct link: Gratitude leads to peace. Learn why embracing thankfulness is not an insult to your sorrow, but the ultimate grief management technique to finally silence the turmoil within.We pray that we can help you find a sense of peace during this difficult holiday season. Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

Greif must be controlled or it will control us. But how do we control our grief? There are steps that we can take to control our grief so it doesn't take us captive. In this part 1, we talk about the importance of identifying indicators that grief is getting too difficult for us to handle. A lot of us try to supress grief, but that only masks what we know is already making life difficult. Rather than supress grief, we suggest recognizing and acknowledging that grief is present. Then we know what we are up against and we can use techniques to get our grief under control. Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

Every parent who has lost a child knows the struggle of facing the holidays. With Thanksgiving coming up, we want to share a checklist to ensure that you are not out on a limb by yourself. You will make it through this holiday season, but there has to be some kind of a plan to face the holiday. We hope this will help walk you through the holiday season. Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

Navigating the Holidays After Child LossWhen the world glows with festive lights, the heart of a grieving parent feels only darkness. This holiday season, you might be struggling to find joy, and that is okay.In this tender and honest episode of the Silent Grief Podcast, we acknowledge the stark reality of facing the holidays after the loss of a child. We dive deep into four key truths that can help frame your experience:Nothing Will Ever Be the Same: Accepting that the 'old' way of celebrating is gone and creating space for new, gentle traditions.You Are Different Now: Understanding and validating the profound change grief has wrought in you, and giving yourself permission to show up differently this year.Life Feels 'Flat': We discuss the emotional numbness and exhaustion that often accompany acute grief, especially during times of forced celebration.Set Small, Achievable Goals: Practical, compassionate advice for taking the season one moment, one day, one small step at a time.This episode offers solace and validation, reminding you that grief is the price of deep love, and you don't have to pretend to be okay.Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

Facing the holidays without your child is devastating. As the expression goes--"I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy." It's true. The greif of losing a child is one of the hardest things humans can endure this side of eternity. Yet very little is written or said about the holiday season. We are here to change that. The holidays just plain stink without our child by our side. We will shout that from the rooftops. In this episode, we talk about some of the challenges parents face and how we, as a community of broken people, can help each other get through the holiday season together. We are here to support our Silent Grief community, and we pray that more and more join us! Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

The holidays are extremely hard for parents who've lost children. The holidays, typically filled with joy and laughter, can be a complete source of depression and anxiety for those of us who have lost children. We'll be talking about this over the next few expisodes, but first we want to establish a few helpful pointers from someone who's "been there." We can absolutely make it through the holidays, but we have to be real about the sorrow associated with it. Eventually, we can establish new traditions that will bring us joy again, but the first few years can feel like our Mount Everest. Join us as we talk about this important topic. Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

If you experience fear after child loss, you are not alone. In fact, most people experience high levels of fear after losing a child. We fear things like losing another child, the fear of something else really bad happening, the fear of being happy again, and even the fear of moving forward in life. In this episode, we break down those fears and talk about ways that we can overcome some of life's greatest fears that cripple us. Join us for this important conversation. You are not alone! Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

Trauma--it's a word that is hard to say, let alone admit that we have experienced. Yet millions of people are living in the aftermath of traumatic experiences. Losing a child is a trauma that runs deep. Trauma affects so many aspects of our lives, from health to mental stability, and even how we respond to depression and life challenges. In this episode, we talk about how trauma changes us. But we also offer hope for those who are living with trauma. There is always hope, but we need to have open discussions about it to face these challenges. Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

Brain fog is something that we can go through when we experience grief and it can last a LONG time. There are things that we can and should do to manage it. In this episode, we talk about what brain fog looks like and how we can take steps to care for ourselves because we believe we weren't created to live in a fog all the time. Join us as we talk about self-care and how we can manage that annoying fog that keeps us down. Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

A trauma trigger is any external cue (like a sound, smell, person, or place) or internal experience (like a feeling or thought) that reminds someone of a past traumatic event, causing them to experience intense physical and emotional reactions as if the trauma were happening again. They can happen frequently after losing a child, and they can happen any time. In this episode, we talk about our triggers and how we can respond with grace as we work through those triggers. Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

Parents who lost children are well aware of the sleepless nights, the pounding headaches, the nightmares, depression, and anxiety that can become constants in their lives. What we don't hear a lot about is peace. What in the world is peace and how do we get there? Attaining peace is not the same as never grieving again. We will ALWAYS grieve. But we can live with grief in a way that allows us to sleep again. We can find joy eventually. We can eliminate the fear and anxiety that has gripped us for way too long. Listen in as we encouage you to find peace after loss. We want to encourage you as parents to walk forward with peace in your lives. You deserve it! Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

Everyone who has lost a child knows that we need people to care. That's it. We simply want to know that our child's life mattered and we want to know that people are there for us. In this episode, we break down ways that we can help others. Being there for other people is essential when they are facing the pain of child loss. Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

When tragedy strikes, time freezes in place. We use the expressions, "The world stopped spinning that day" and "A part of me died with my child." It's the best we can do to describe the worst thing imaginable--losing our child.Can there be life after loss? Can we learn to live again? Things certainly will never be the same as they were before. We know this. But we can reclaim a piece of who we used to be prior to our child's death. Join us as we talk about how to pick up the pieces and start living again. Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

To all parents who've lost a child: Your child will ALWAYS be your child! Society wants us to forget and move on. Why is it that, when asked how many children we HAVE, we stumble to find the words to answer? Sometimes we number our children, along with our child who passed away. But then we get defensive and try to explain that we have x number of living children but that our number also includes our child or children who passed away. This is because society wants us to believe that death is the final answer. It is not. Our relationship with our child lives on. We still have converstations with our child. We hold our child in our heart and we dwell on the good memories we have. We want to encourage you in this episode and let you know that you are not alone. We share ways that you can bring your child with you into the future. Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

When I lost my son, I felt like a lost soul in the middle of a dry desert, like I could barely breathe. As people's lives went back to normal, I felt grief settling in. Why were they all so happy when I was so lonely and hurt? We all have our own journey of sorrow. This is the world of grief. But there comes a time when we begin to find our way back--back to a version of the person we once were; back to finding moments of hope and even joy. Join us for a comforting discussion on what it takes to find your way back--to reclaim a part of your life that grief slowly stripped away. Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

In this deeply heartfelt episode of The Silent Grief Podcast, we explore the sacred journey of keeping a child’s memory alive after loss. When a child dies, the world often moves on—but for grieving parents, every memory becomes a lifeline. We share the emotional and healing reasons why remembering and honoring your child is not just important, but vital. From creating traditions and telling their stories to finding meaningful ways to celebrate those special moments, we discuss how memory becomes a bridge between love and loss.Whether you're walking through your own grief or supporting someone who is, this episode offers compassion, connection, and encouragement. Your child’s life matters. Their story matters. And their memory deserves to live on.Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

When you feel the daily pressure of grief, sometimes we just need to take a break from the heaviness of grief. How do we do this without feeling guit? What are some ways that we can take a break from the heaviness of grief? We talk about this and much more in this episode. Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupportAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahinton

The Texas floods on July 4th were a horrific chain of events that led to loss of life and dozens of missing people. One of the hardest hit locations was at Camp Mystic, an all-girls camp with 750 campers located on the Guadalupe River. The camp is grieving the loss of 27 campers and counselors. It's a pain that too many parents are familiar with--the pain of suddenly losing your child. In this episode, we share our compassion and talk about why this story has resonated with all of this nation. Our hearts grieve this deep, deep loss and our prayers are with the many families who are now grieving the death of family members. Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupporthttps://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthorAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahintonhttps://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12

When you've lost a child, the last thing you want to hear about is creating a "new normal." We don't want a new life; we want the one we had with our child. The resistance is real, and the path forward seems impossible. But what if the goal isn't closure, but something quieter and more gentle?In this episode of the Silent Grief Podcast, we talk through the tender and difficult steps of finding a way forward after the unimaginable. We acknowledge that it's up to us to take the first step, but also that our hearts will let us know when it's time.Join us as we discuss the small beginnings of this new normal—from making new friends and slowing down to smell the roses, to reaching out to help others and letting go of anger. We explore the painful but necessary process of learning to accept that our child is no longer here.This journey will never bring you a feeling of closure, but as we share in this episode, it can bring you to a place of quiet peace.Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupporthttps://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthorAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahintonhttps://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12

In this deeply honest episode of The Silent Grief Podcast, we explore what it’s like to live in survival mode after the devastating loss of a child. This conversation reaches into the raw realities of grief that no one talks about—feeling numb, struggling to breathe, pushing through daily tasks while the world keeps moving forward. We talk about the emotional exhaustion and constant effort it takes just to get through the day. For many grieving parents, “thriving” feels like an unreachable idea, and simply surviving is the most they can manage. We also touch on the importance of acknowledging your pain, learning how to function when joy feels out of reach, and recognizing that grief isn’t linear. Whether you’ve experienced this kind of loss or want to better understand someone who has, this episode offers a space of compassion, validation, and truth. You're not alone—and there's no shame in surviving one breath at a time.Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupporthttps://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthorAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahintonhttps://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12

Parents who've lost a child all ask "why?" Why my child? Why now? Why did they pass the way that they did? Is there a purpose for my pain? People sometimes use scriptures to make us "feel better," telling us things like "God works all things for good" or "God has a plan for you." These seem more like cliches than deep thoughts. Can there be purpose in our pain or is the death of our children a meaningless death--in other words, are we just victims of chance? In this episode we talk about how it might not be helpful to tell people that there was a purpose in the death. There may be a better way forward for grieving parents. Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupporthttps://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthorAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahintonhttps://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12

Can there ever be closure after losing a child? The whole world wants us grieving parents to find closure. They are desperate for it. They tell us things like, "It's time to move on." They ask us why we are still "stuck" in our grief years after our child has passed. If this describes your situation, you are not alone. Other people might want us to find closure, but they are not the ones who've lost a child. They aren't the ones picking up the shattered pieces of their own life. You are. Grief is a complicated thing, and maybe we shouldn't be pursuing closure. Instead, we can find ways to honor our child AND our grief that we feel! Tune in to hear just how normal you are in this process we call grief. Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupporthttps://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthorAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahintonhttps://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12

Is it possible to pick up the pieces of your life after losing a child? What if we told you that it IS possible, but it takes time? Our lives are never the same after losing a child, but that doesn't mean that we have to be shattered forever. If we pick up the pieces, one piece at a time, we can begin to rebuild a life where we are put back together again. We will always carry the scars that come from losing our child, but we can be made beautiful again. Join us as we offer hope along your journey. Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupporthttps://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthorAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahintonhttps://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12

Mother's Day is an especially hard time of year for grieving parents. The day that typically celebrates mothers is, for some, a reminder that they no longer have a child to celebrate them as their mother. Many mothers struggle just to make it through Mother's Day because of all the emotions that well up. If you feel that way, you are not alone. Clara breaks down what helps her during Mother's Day and how she helps keep her son's memory alive.  Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupporthttps://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthorAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahintonhttps://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12

How do you hold onto joy when your heart aches with loss? For grieving parents with living children, this question is a daily reality. In this episode of the Silent Grief Podcast, "How Grieving Parents Celebrate Living Children While Grieving the Loss of Another," we explore the delicate and often unspoken ways parents navigate celebrating milestones, nurturing relationships, and finding moments of happiness while still deeply mourning the child they've lost. Join us as we unpack this complex emotional landscape.Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupporthttps://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthorAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahintonhttps://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12

There is a dangerous side of grief that most of us fall into. Namely, we can fall into the trap of comaring our grief or circumstances to that of others. Grief is incredibly unique and we want to avoid falling into this endless pit of comparision. Eventually comparing our level of grief to others will distort our worldview and cause us to sink deeper into depression. We want to avoid this at all costs. Grief is hard enough as it is. In this epsidode, we talk about the dangerous side of grief and how we can become aware that we are migrating towards it. Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupporthttps://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthorAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahintonhttps://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12

When parents lose a child to a crime, medical negligence, or some other reason when someone is a fault, the first question they get asked is, "Will you ever forgive the person who did this?" Why is it that the burden to forgive falls on the parents? Forgiveness should not be the first response. The first response should be compassion and understanding for the parents who experienced unimaginable loss. In this episode, we continue to unpack the idea of forgiveness and the myths surrounding it. Forgiveness is a deeply personal thing, and while there can be healing that takes place under certain conditions, it is not a fix-all solution. Grief is very complex and there is always a lot to unpack. It takes years to come to grips with the reality that our child is gone and is not coming back. Our hearts always go out to parents who lose children and we believe there is a more sensitive way to help each other through the grief journey. Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupporthttps://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthorAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahintonhttps://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12

People who do not forgive are often labeled as bitter, unforgiving, stuck in the past, and even mentally unstable. These are unfortunate assumptions that place blame on innocent people who are victims of abuse, crimes, and even death. We have been taught to believe that unless we forgive others (no matter what) then we won't be forgiven. Parents who've lost a child to a sensless crime are targets of this kind of teaching. They can be ridiculed to the point of bullying. This is why it's important to debunk the myths associated with forgiveness and give clear directives as found in the scriptures. Whether people are believers or not, these principles are important for everyone. Forgiveness is not freely given to everyone. It rests on the foundation of repentance. Oftentimes forgiveness was withheld in the Bible. Join us for an important discussion on what forgiveness is and isn't and hear the things that actually usher in closure. Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupporthttps://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthorAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahintonhttps://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12

Forgiveness is a huge topic and most often the burden to fogive is placed on the innocent person. This is true when a child passes away due to the negligence or direct fault of someone else. For example, a drunk driving event often will claim the life of an innocent person. Do we really need to forgive someone who is at fault and shows no remorse? In this episode, we break down this topic and talk about how forgiveness is often weaponized against innocent people in the name of "healing." We think there is a better way. Join us for this important conversation. Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupporthttps://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthorAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahintonhttps://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12

The loss of a child is a pain no parent should ever have to endure.  When that loss is due to suicide, the grief can be even more complex, layered with guilt, confusion, and unanswered questions. We explore the difficult path towards finding closure, discussing the importance of acknowledging complicated emotions, seeking support, and honoring the memory of their child.This isn't about "getting over" the loss, but about finding a way to live with it, to heal, and to eventually find peace.  Join Clara and Jimmy as they offer their insights, experiences, and hard-won wisdom in the hopes of helping others who are walking a similar path through the darkness of grief after losing a child to suicide.  This episode offers a message of hope, resilience, and the possibility of finding light even in the deepest sorrow.Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupporthttps://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthorAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahintonhttps://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12

Losing a child is an unimaginable pain, but losing a child to suicide carries a unique and devastating weight.  In this episode of The Silent Grief Podcast, we delve into the complex emotional journey of grief after a child's suicide. We understand the whirlwind of emotions – the shock, the guilt, the anger, the profound sadness – and how isolating this experience can feel.  This episode offers a safe space for grieving parents to find comfort and encouragement. We'll explore the unique challenges of this type of loss, discuss healthy coping mechanisms, and share stories of resilience and hope.  If you're navigating this heartbreaking path, know that you are not alone.  Join us as we offer support, understanding, and a glimmer of light in the darkness.Find us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupporthttps://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthorAnd Twitter:https://twitter.com/clarahintonhttps://twitter.com/JimmyHinton12

In the aftermath of a child's suicide, parents are left with unimaginable grief and a profound sense of loss. This week, we delve into the complexities of navigating this unique and devastating experience. Join us as we explore the heaviness of grief that parents may encounter, the challenges they face in coping with their child's death, and the importance of self-compassion during this incredibly difficult time. We'll also discuss how friends, family, and community members can offer support and understanding to grieving parents, and provide resources for those seeking help and healing.Content warning: This episode contains sensitive content related to suicide and may be emotionally triggering for some listeners. If you or someone you know is struggling with suicidal thoughts, please reach out for help. You can call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at1 988 or visit 988lifeline.org.