The OWN IT Podcast with Nicole Hollar

In this last episode of Season 1 of The OWN IT Podcast, I dive into the life-changing effects of keeping a gratitude journal, backed by a powerful study on how gratitude impacts happiness and well-being. I’ll show you how focusing on the positives can make you more optimistic, improve your relationships, and even boost your physical health. I’m challenging you to try a 30-day gratitude journal to see how this simple habit can amplify positivity in your life. Join me as we explore how noticing the good around you can transform your outlook and deepen your connections. - Find out more about me and my coaching programs at NicoleHollar.com, and follow me on social media @NicoleHollarCoaching. -- Check out more episodes: #1 — When New is Scary #4 — Get Clear About What You Want #18 — 8 Principles of Success #19 — The Good in the Shitty #20 — Out of Control? Get Yourself Aligned #21 — This Is What Confidence Looks Like #24 — Find Your Purpose #30 — You Are More Capable Than You Realize     Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions. 

In this episode of The OWN IT Podcast, I’ll show you why self-care isn’t just a luxury—it’s essential for boosting your productivity and well-being. I’ll explain how prioritizing self-care can make you 30% more productive and reduce your stress by 25%, backed by real research. From getting enough sleep to taking short breaks, I’ll share ways to integrate self-care into your routine and show you how it can transform both your work and personal life. Let me help you stay energized and avoid burnout by making time for yourself. - Find out more about Nicole and her coaching programs at NicoleHollar.com, and follow her on social media @NicoleHollarCoaching. -- Check out more episodes:  #2 — My Mind is Too Full. I Can't Focus #13 — Creating Healthy Habits #29 — Reshape Your Habits Today!     Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions. 

In this episode of The OWN IT Podcast, you'll discover just how resourceful and capable you truly are, even in the face of life's unexpected challenges. Using hurricane season as an example, I discuss how fear and panic can cloud judgment, and share how planning and preparation can help you regain control. Whether it's a natural disaster or personal crisis, this episode will remind you that you have the inner strength to handle anything life throws at you. -- Find out more about Nicole and her coaching programs at NicoleHollar.com, and follow her on social media @NicoleHollarCoaching. -- Check out more episodes: #1 — When New is Scary #4 — Get Clear About What You Want #18 — 8 Principles of Success #19 — The Good in the Shitty #20 — Out of Control? Get Yourself Aligned #21 — This Is What Confidence Looks Like #24 — Find Your Purpose #32 — 30 Days to a Happier You!   Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions. 

In this episode of The OWN IT Podcast, you'll learn how to break free from bad habits by understanding and changing your triggers. I explain the habit loop — trigger, behavior, and reward — and how small adjustments in your environment or routine can help you reshape habits. Whether you're trying to quit smoking or stop procrastinating, this episode provides practical advice on how to consciously create lasting change in your life. -- Find out more about Nicole and her coaching programs at NicoleHollar.com, and follow her on social media @NicoleHollarCoaching. -- Check out more episodes:  #2 — My Mind is Too Full. I Can't Focus #13 — Creating Healthy Habits #31 — Self-Care Secrets for High Productivity     Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions. 

In this episode of The OWN IT Podcast, Nicole tackles the issue of how sitting for long periods is negatively impacting your body. You’ll learn about the crucial role the iliopsoas muscle plays and how extended sitting can lead to tightness, back pain, and even emotional drain. Nicole shares simple, actionable tips like using a standing desk, moving every 50 minutes, and stretching key muscle groups to counteract the effects of sitting all day. If you’re working in an office or spending too much time sitting, this episode is packed with advice to help you restore balance and energy. Find out more about Nicole and her coaching programs at NicoleHollar.com, and follow her on social media @NicoleHollarCoaching. -- Check out more episodes:  #3 — Mobility and Flexibility Secrets You Need to Know #26 — 5 Tips for DOMS Recovery     Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions. 

In this episode of The OWN IT Podcast, you'll explore the fascinating science of generational trauma. Nicole dives into how trauma can be passed down through generations, even when you haven’t directly experienced it. Drawing on real-life client stories and research studies, including an experiment with rats that reveals how fear responses can transcend generations, Nicole explains how unresolved emotions like anxiety or guilt can affect your life today. Learn how to break free from inherited trauma and create lasting change in your life. Find out more about Nicole and her coaching programs at NicoleHollar.com, and follow her on social media @NicoleHollarCoaching. -- Check out more episodes: #6 — Why We Chase Happiness Instead of Being Happy #7 — When Sadness Looks Like Anger #9 — Let Go of Envy #12 — Focus On What You Support #16 — The "Card" You Hide Behind Is Holding You Back #17 — The Scar Experiment — How Our Insecurities Shape Our World     Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.  

In this episode of The OWN IT Podcast, you'll learn the best ways to recover from Delayed Onset Muscle Soreness (DOMS) after a workout. Nicole explains the science behind DOMS, why your muscles feel sore 24-48 hours after exercising, and how it helps build strength. She shares practical tips like progressing slowly with weights, staying hydrated, getting enough sleep, and using tools like foam rollers, yoga balls, and ice baths to aid in recovery. If you're looking for effective ways to manage post-workout soreness and boost muscle growth, this episode is for you. Find out more about Nicole and her coaching programs at NicoleHollar.com, and follow her on social media @NicoleHollarCoaching. -- Check out more episodes:  #3 — Mobility and Flexibility Secrets You Need to Know #28 — Sitting Is Hurting You     Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.  

In this episode of The OWN IT Podcast, you'll learn about the fascinating connection between the gut and the brain. Nicole breaks down the powerful communication happening between these two systems and how it affects not just your digestion, but also your mood, energy, sleep, and overall well-being. Your gut's microbiome can influence cravings, emotional states, and even your brain's serotonin and dopamine production. What you eat can dramatically impact how you feel, and small dietary changes can lead to big improvements in your mental and physical health. If you've ever wondered how the food you consume affects your mind and body, this is an episode you don't want to miss. Find out more about Nicole and her coaching programs at NicoleHollar.com, and follow her on social media @NicoleHollarCoaching. -- Check out more episodes: #5 — Stop Dieting & Eat Healthy #23 — Wellness Tips & Tricks     Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.  

Science has proven that people with a sense of purpose are better able to manage stress, and recover from stressful events easier. Plus, it lowers cardiovascular risk, rates of depression, and slows the effects of aging, including loss of mobility & cognition. In this episode I talk about the eight steps to finding your purpose. 1. Self-Awareness and Acceptance  2. Attitude of Gratitude 3. Growth Mindset  4. Self-Care 5. Purpose Statement  6. Stay Inspired 7. Volunteer 8. Pay it Forward -- Check out more episodes: #1 — When New is Scary #4 — Get Clear About What You Want #18 — 8 Principles of Success #19 — The Good in the Shitty #20 — Out of Control? Get Yourself Aligned #21 — This Is What Confidence Looks Like #30 — You Are More Capable Than You Realize #32 — 30 Days to a Happier You!     Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

Stop trying to make huge unsustainable changes when shifting to a healthier mindset and lifestyle. In this episode I will share simple ways to incorporate moderate changes to your life that are easy to achieve, and long-lasting.  -- Check out more episodes: #5 — Stop Dieting & Eat Healthy #25 — How the Gut Controls the Brain     Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

We all have boundaries. From the less significant like not wanting to eat a certain food, to others that are more profound like values. In life, sometimes boundaries are called rules or laws. In this episode you will learn about how confidence impacts your boundaries and the importance of adhering to the four steps of boundary setting.   4 Steps of Boundary Setting 1. Define Your Boundaries 2. Set Your Boundaries 3. Enforce Your Boundaries 4. Respect the Boundaries of Other People   Considerations when creating boundaries: How is it going to affect you? Are you willing to lose a relationship? -- Check out more episodes: #8 — Say What You Need #10 — Stop Saying "I'm Sorry" So Much #11 — It's Time to Stop People Pleasing #14 — Effective Team Communication #15 — You Need a Mentor or Mentee     Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

What does confidence look like to you? In 20+ years of coaching I have narrowed down 10 traits that most confident people share. In this episode, learn how to adopt those same traits and pull yourself into the most confident version of you.   Traits of Confident People 1. They share their opinions, wants, and needs. 2. They accept their mistakes and are open to vulnerability. 3. They are supportive and lift people up. 4. They are genuinely interested in listening. 5. They are open-minded. 6. They believe in themselves and take appropriate risks. 7. They are not arrogant. 8. They do not personalize everything. 9. They take responsibility for their lives. 10. They have and accept personal boundaries. -- Check out more episodes: #1 — When New is Scary #4 — Get Clear About What You Want #18 — 8 Principles of Success #19 — The Good in the Shitty #20 — Out of Control? Get Yourself Aligned #24 — Find Your Purpose #30 — You Are More Capable Than You Realize #32 — 30 Days to a Happier You!     Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.  

There are six main areas of life that we need in alignment to feel grounded and in control. The reality is that most people are not on-point in all six areas all the time, however understanding how they impact each other helps know where to start focusing when making change. In Breakthrough Coaching we always start by ensuring the two foundation sectors are grounded and stable before moving onto the other areas. In this episode, learn how to determine which of the six areas to focus on first, and why getting foundation sectors in order is so important.   Six Sectors of Self: Health & Fitness, Career & Finances, Friends & Family, Spirituality, Personal Growth & Development, and Relationships -- Check out more episodes: #1 — When New is Scary #4 — Get Clear About What You Want #18 — 8 Principles of Success #19 — The Good in the Shitty #21 — This Is What Confidence Looks Like #24 — Find Your Purpose #30 — You Are More Capable Than You Realize #32 — 30 Days to a Happier You!     Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

Obstacles throw us off, cars breakdown, jobs and relationships end. And it is tough. Much like you I've learned through experience how to navigate those tough times, and I am here to tell you that there is something good in the shitty if you can step out of the bad experience for just a moment to realize it. It doesn't take away the tough, but sometimes it leaves you a gift you may not have known you needed. Listen in to learn how to flip the narrative. -- Check out more episodes: #1 — When New is Scary #4 — Get Clear About What You Want #18 — 8 Principles of Success #20 — Out of Control? Get Yourself Aligned #21 — This Is What Confidence Looks Like #24 — Find Your Purpose #30 — You Are More Capable Than You Realize #32 — 30 Days to a Happier You!     Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

On the road to success obstacles are inevitable. They will challenge you to stop, change, and test your resolve. Listen in as I discuss these eight principles to help you navigate challenges and crush your goals.  1. Look beyond your goal.  2. Get out of your own way.  3. Take action. 4.  Know where you are. 5.  Be flexible.  6. Seek quality feedback.  7. Stay determined.  8. Operational excellence. -- Check out more episodes: #1 — When New is Scary #4 — Get Clear About What You Want #19 — The Good in the Shitty #20 — Out of Control? Get Yourself Aligned #21 — This Is What Confidence Looks Like #24 — Find Your Purpose #30 — You Are More Capable Than You Realize #32 — 30 Days to a Happier You!     Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

Have you even KNOWN you were being judged for something, often a physical element? Listen in to hear about the Scar Experiment that validates that we run a predictive processing program in our minds to perceive an experience and act according to what we predict. Life is often defined by what you expect to see, and then you look for it.     Check out more episodes: #6 — Why We Chase Happiness Instead of Being Happy #7 — When Sadness Looks Like Anger #9 — Let Go of Envy #12 — Focus On What You Support #16 — The "Card" You Hide Behind Is Holding You Back #27 — The Science of Generational Trauma     Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

Have you ever found yourself blaming some part of your for your failure to get a job, make a friend, get chosen for a team and so on? What "card" do you hide behind that has become such a part of your identity that you believe the world judges you for it? These cards lie to you, they disempower you, and they let you stay in your safe box even if you claim you want more. So long as you hide behind them you will not be able to see the real reasons holding you back, allowing you to better yourself for positive change. --  Check out more episodes: #6 — Why We Chase Happiness Instead of Being Happy #7 — When Sadness Looks Like Anger #9 — Let Go of Envy #12 — Focus On What You Support #17 — The Scar Experiment — How Our Insecurities Shape Our World #27 — The Science of Generational Trauma     Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

Becoming a mentor or mentee is a terrific, rewarding experience for both people. It sharpens skills, gives a sounding board, develops long-lasting relationships and more. Listen in to find out more. -- Check out more episodes: #8 — Say What You Need #10 — Stop Saying "I'm Sorry" So Much #11 — It's Time to Stop People Pleasing #14 — Effective Team Communication #22 — 4 Steps of Boundary Setting      Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

In this episode I break down the essential elements of effective team communication as I run through the elements from my chapter in the recent anthology, When Work Works. Along with 14 other authors we discuss solutions to creating a quality workplace. Listen in to hear a synopsis from my chapter, "Playing Nice in the Sandbox." I cover topics from understanding and creating respectful and purposeful communication, to the essentials of making a meeting most effective. -- Check out more episodes: #8 — Say What You Need #10 — Stop Saying "I'm Sorry" So Much #11 — It's Time to Stop People Pleasing #15 — You Need a Mentor or Mentee #22 — 4 Steps of Boundary Setting      Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

Are you like most people whose lives are filled with an endless task list? In this episode we'll talk about the importance of establishing positive boundaries and habits for your wellbeing so that you can continue to check off everything on the list and feel good. -- Check out more episodes:  #2 — My Mind is Too Full. I Can't Focus #29 — Reshape Your Habits Today! #31 — Self-Care Secrets for High Productivity     Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

How do you choose to focus your energy? On what you like and support, or on what you don't care for? In this episode we'll explore the importance of creating a mindset of support rather than a focus on things your don't like, or against people or groups that dislike your interests.  -- Check out more episodes: #6 — Why We Chase Happiness Instead of Being Happy #7 — When Sadness Looks Like Anger #9 — Let Go of Envy #16 — The "Card" You Hide Behind Is Holding You Back #17 — The Scar Experiment — How Our Insecurities Shape Our World #27 — The Science of Generational Trauma     Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

Have you heard yourself say "I'm a people pleaser" or know people who are? It's time to stop. Relationships are about creating harmony and collaboration. People pleasers allow their own values and beliefs to get overlooked while attempting to make others happy. Likewise, if people pleasing comes from the desire to be liked, then people are not getting to know the real you anyway. -- Check out more episodes: #8 — Say What You Need #10 — Stop Saying "I'm Sorry" So Much #14 — Effective Team Communication #15 — You Need a Mentor or Mentee #22 — 4 Steps of Boundary Setting      Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

When you say "I'm sorry" too much it robs you of your self-esteem and gives your unconscious mind the belief that you are often at fault. "I'm sorry" implies some form of transgression. So, why are you sorry because someone made an observation about you or because someone had a loss? Do you keep apologizing for the same behavior but don't make effort to correct it? If so, it is empty anyway. In this episode learn how overusing that phrase affects your personal perception and those of others, and what you can do to change your language, and better connect with people, too. -- Check out more episodes: #8 — Say What You Need #11 — It's Time to Stop People Pleasing #14 — Effective Team Communication #15 — You Need a Mentor or Mentee #22 — 4 Steps of Boundary Setting      Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

The ability to have joy for someone who has what you might desire is a transformative mindset. In this episode I talk about shifting your mindset from a place of envy to one of appreciation and possibility. -- Check out more episodes: #6 — Why We Chase Happiness Instead of Being Happy #7 — When Sadness Looks Like Anger #12 — Focus On What You Support #16 — The "Card" You Hide Behind Is Holding You Back #17 — The Scar Experiment — How Our Insecurities Shape Our World #27 — The Science of Generational Trauma     Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

Learning to say what you need rather than being bitter you didn't is so much better. Pro-you is not anti-them, so it is important to learn that and how to communicate it. Living in a state of "I feel bad" helps no one. -- Check out more episodes: #10 — Stop Saying "I'm Sorry" So Much #11 — It's Time to Stop People Pleasing #14 — Effective Team Communication #15 — You Need a Mentor or Mentee #22 — 4 Steps of Boundary Setting      Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

Have you ever known someone who lashes out a lot, pushes buttons, is overly critical, and sometimes downright mean? If you do, there is a good change that those behaviors are a form of protection, rather than an indicator that they are not a good person at heart. It does mean you need to condone the behaviors, however. Unfortunately, the behaviors generally hurt the person who lashes out and the people closest to them, plus, it severs connection, leaving the person in the place they unconsciously fear most - alone.  --  Check out more episodes: #6 — Why We Chase Happiness Instead of Being Happy #9 — Let Go of Envy #12 — Focus On What You Support #16 — The "Card" You Hide Behind Is Holding You Back #17 — The Scar Experiment — How Our Insecurities Shape Our World #27 — The Science of Generational Trauma   Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

Have you ever had a good retail therapy day? It's so common it has a name. There is nothing wrong with having a moment of purchased joy. We do it with food, too. But do you find yourself chasing happiness? Like nothing you do or buy fills that space for very long. I've seen this conflict with couples where one person wants to have a bunch of things to feel happy while the other doesn't care about the stuff, they just want to be happy. It often causes disagreements because HOW they feel joy is misaligned. In this episode I will explain how to find inner peace and joy from the inside rather than trying to create it with things. It is called the Path of Mastery.  -- Check out more episodes: #7 — When Sadness Looks Like Anger #9 — Let Go of Envy #12 — Focus On What You Support #16 — The "Card" You Hide Behind Is Holding You Back #17 — The Scar Experiment — How Our Insecurities Shape Our World #27 — The Science of Generational Trauma     Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

While making stew for my dogs I was inspired to remind everyone of how important it is to get all of your food facts in order. Stop reading headlines, diet highlights and listening to the often misinformed information from your bestie. I'm giving you free access to my Nutrition Essentials Course, too, listen in. I even made it easy to find on my Podcast page.  -- Check out more episodes: #23 — Wellness Tips & Tricks #25 — How the Gut Controls the Brain     Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

Have you even been so focused on what you thought you wanted, but realized you were off? Maybe it is because you were looking for the wrong thing. In this episode, I will explain how to make sure you are crystal clear about what you are really searching for rather than how you think it may look. -- Check out more episodes: #1 — When New is Scary #18 — 8 Principles of Success #19 — The Good in the Shitty #20 — Out of Control? Get Yourself Aligned #21 — This Is What Confidence Looks Like #24 — Find Your Purpose #30 — You Are More Capable Than You Realize #32 — 30 Days to a Happier You!     Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

Feeling mobile makes us feel young, capable, physically motivated, and less vulnerable to injury. In this episode of OWN IT you will learn how muscle and joint pain don't always mean tight, sometimes it means weak. I will explain the basics of what I call "a bar fight" among muscles and give you suggestions about how to become more mobile, flexible and have less pain. Click to learn → Exercises for better mobility from my blog -- Check out more episodes:   #26 — 5 Tips for DOMS Recovery #28 — Sitting Is Hurting You     Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

You have so much to do but so little gets done sometimes. What is distracting you and how can you navigate all of that. In this episode you will discover the importance of: Distraction Awareness Time Blocking TEVS (Thought & Emotion Value Scale) Location Anchoring Reminders -- Check out more episodes: #13 — Creating Healthy Habits #29 — Reshape Your Habits Today! #31 — Self-Care Secrets for High Productivity     Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

Starting something new is uncomfortable and sometimes scary. How many times have you talked yourself out of doing something because you were uncertain? I have plenty. How many times have you been successful at something new? In this episode I will share the 5 Most Important Things you must do to Get Out of Your Way and start moving into the unknown. -- Check out more episodes: #4 — Get Clear About What You Want #18 — 8 Principles of Success #19 — The Good in the Shitty #20 — Out of Control? Get Yourself Aligned #21 — This Is What Confidence Looks Like #24 — Find Your Purpose #30 — You Are More Capable Than You Realize #32 — 30 Days to a Happier You!     Connect with Nicole: Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

I thought I'd give you a brief intro about why I am even doing this podcast.     Connect with Nicole: Nicole's Free 4-Step Plan to More Joy This Year (downloadable to print or fill in online) Watch the episodes on YouTube  Follow Nicole on Instagram  Find Nicole Hollar | Focus Studio on Facebook Nicole's TikTok  Sign up for Nicole’s newsletter      Disclaimer: The Own It Podcast and content posted by Nicole Hollar is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.