All Episodes

Ep. 427: Breast Cancer and Sex: Treatment Impacts, Body Image, and Reclaiming Pleasure

Ep. 426: [Soapbox] The Power of the Stories We Tell Ourselves

Ep. 425: Delayed Ejaculation

Ep. 424: [Soapbox] Relationship Agreements for Difficult Conversations

Ep. 423: Shameless Care - STI testing from home

Ep. 422: [Soapbox] 17 Reasons Your Man May Have Lower Desire

Ep. 421: Vulnerability as Strength

Ep. 420: [Soapbox] Affair Recovery; Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity

Ep. 419: The Formula For Desire in Long Term Relationships

Ep. 418: [Soapbox] Don’t Accept Sex Your Partner Doesn’t Want

Ep. 417: Early Ejaculation is a Shame Pattern

Ep. 416: Negotiating Kinks, Fetishes, and Monogamy

Ep. 415: Poly Parenting: Age-Appropriate Disclosure, Boundaries, and Introducing Partners

Ep. 414: [Soapbox] When She Wants More Sex: Desire Discrepancy in Hetero Couples

Ep. 413: Stigma, Shame, and Sex: How Culture, Religion, Family, and Media Shape Desire

Ep. 412: What couples therapy misses about the body

Ep. 411: The Book of Ecstasy: Finding Joy, Connection, and Transformation Beyond Orgasm

Ep. 410: [Soapbox] Tuesday Is Different Than Thursday: Communicating Pleasure in Sex

Ep. 409: Reclaiming Desire After 50: Nervous System Regulation, Novelty, and Communication

Ep. 408: [Soapbox] When Lower Desire is a Mask

Ep. 407: The Science of Pleasure, Trauma & Longevity

Ep. 406: Gender, Loneliness, and Reconnection

Ep. 405: The Truth About Erectile Dysfunction

Ep. 404: [Soapbox] HRT is not Primarily About Libido

Ep. 403: Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy for Intimacy and Sex

Ep. 402: [Soapbox] Good Faith Communication vs Gaslighting

Ep. 401: Signs You May Be Headed For Divorce

Ep. 400: [Soapbox] Care and Curiosity: The Foundation for Understanding Your Partner

Ep. 399: How Couples Can Rebuild Desire

Ep. 398: Intimate Conversations: Co-creating Authentic Sexual Experiences

Ep. 397: [Soapbox] Not Tonight and the Seven Dwarves

Ep. 396: Using NLP to Improve Intimacy

Ep. 395: [Soapbox] Why the “Devil’s Bargain” Fails: Shared Responsibility for Initiation

Ep. 394: From Resentment to Forgiveness to Love

Ep. 393: Ecstasy/MDMA for helping couples heal and enhance their relationship

Ep. 392 [Soapbox] Afraid to find out it's hopeless

Ep. 391: Healing Sexual Dysfunction Through The Body

Ep. 390: [Soapbox] Easygoing; Hard to Live With

389: Adventures in Polyamory

388: [Soapbox] Comfort and Growth Cycles in Long Term Relationships

387: Bad Marriage Advice

386: [Soapbox] The Plight of the Higher Desire Partner

385: The 5 Love Languages: in the bedroom

384: [Soapbox] Choose to Focus on the Anti-Fear

383: Yoni Mapping with Freya Graf

382: [Soapbox] Activities for connection

381: The Sure Thing - A strategy to prioritize intimacy with Elana Auerbach

380: [Soapbox] The potential for MDMA in coupes work

379: Mindfulness Based Porn Addiction Recovery with Jeremy Lipkowitz

378: [Soapbox] When neither person wants sex

377: Menopause BioType - Individualizing Care with Dr. Jennifer Berman

376: [Soapbox] The lower desire partner feels like they can't win

375: When Money Stress Creates Distance in the Bedroom with Heather Howard

374: [Soapbox] How there is hope even when they close the door

373: Hormonal Optimization, Metabolic Health, and Longevity for Better Sex with Jay Campbell

372: [Soapbox] The three biggest apology mistakes

371: People pleasing is ruining your sex life with Darshana Avila

370: [Soapbox] Choose a more empowering story

369: Protecting Sexual Freedoms with Mandy Salley

368 [Soapbox] The transformative potential of a couples' intensive

367: Supple, Luscious, Fuller Breasts with Jillian Wisborg

366: [Soapbox] Should i tell her about the viagra?

365: Polyagony - Common Mistakes in Ethical Non-Monogamy with Candace Sjogren

364: [Soapbox] Avoid the Quota Trap

363: Anal Sex for Beginners with Dr. Evan Goldstein

362: [Soapbox] What “My Love Language Is Touch” Gets Wrong

361: Navigating Your Sexuality After Losing Your Beloved with Joan Price

360: [Soapbox] They put effort into every other problem

359: [Personal Story] Working through vaginismus with a surrogate partner

358: [Soapbox] We should be talking about sex

357: Brain Health and Trauma with Dr. Hector Rodriguez

356: [Soapbox] The problem with trying to fix your partner's desire

355: Truly Connecting In This Digital Age with Dr. Jacquie Del Rosario

354: The Strategic Keys To Peak Sexual Performance with Mitch Hartwell

353: [Soapbox] We don't have to decide right now

352: Act pregnant now to get pregnant later with Gabriela Rosa

351: [Soapbox] Don't apologize too fast

350: Coming out later in life with Emily Rich

349: [Soapbox] The problem with sensate focus

348: Dealing With Rapid Ejaculation with Andre Lazarus

347: [Soapbox] Are we even watching the same thing?

346: Connection and Intimacy after Addiction and Trauma with Vanessa Carlisle

345: Loving the partner we have with Dr. Corey Allan

344: [Soapbox] What if I have zero desire for sex?

343: Sex after Prostate Cancer Treatment with Dr. Jennifer Valli

342: [Soapbox] The magic key of empathizing with the lower desire partner

341: Liberating the full orgasm reflex with Rob Kancler

340: [Soapbox] Menopause is a destination

339: Sexual Emergence - Surprising Twists in our understanding of ourselves with Jess Levith

338: [Soapbox] The problem with "you're not meeting my needs"

337: From infidelity to full f&ck yes with Britton and Carolee Beckham

336: [Soapbox] What makes a healthy sexual relationship

335: Rewriting sexual scripts with Lauren Elise Rogers

334: [Soapbox] What do you do about the lack of sex in your relationship

333: Writing about sex to explore your sexuality with Tash Doherty

332: [Soapbox] Why do women fake orgasm

331: Should you take HRT? with Dr. Sarah Daccarett

330: [Soapbox] Can a sexless marriage be happy?

329: Sex Attractant Pheromones with Dr. Winnifred Cutler

328: [Soapbox] Change takes practice