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Self Care IRL — 114 episodes

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113. A Guide to Real Connection: 8 Ways to Check In Without Being Weird

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112. My best advice for not crashing out during the holidays

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111. A Brutally Honest Guide For People Who Feel Like They're Faking It

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110. Why Being Nice Is Not Your Superpower

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109. Click here if you're always the one apologizing in your friendships

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108. High-Maintenance vs. Low-Maintenance Friendships: What’s the Difference?

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107. Let’s Talk About Overcoming Unresolved Trauma

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106. Listen to this if you need help managing your emotions

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105. The Hidden Dangers of Silent Anger

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104. IDK who needs to hear this but... (part 3)

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103. What to Do When Someone Doesn't Accept Your Apology

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102. Things you can do to improve your relationship with your siblings

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101. Lemme read you this email I got (it's about depression btw)

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100. Wow we really cleared "a hunnit" episodes + our origin story

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99. These are the 5 manifesting techniques I'm using to create my dream life

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98. My journey to reframing my sadness

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97. Lessons I Learned From The Wendy Williams Docuseries

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96. How to have a relationship with a toxic parent

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95. How To Have A Relationship (Or Not) With Your Emotionally Immature friend

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94. IDK who needs to hear this but... (part 2)

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93. All the reasons you need to start trying new things in 2024

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92. 7 Pieces of Advice That Will Change Your Mentality

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91. What is Toxic Positivity and how can you stop doing it?

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90. All the red flags you might be ignoring in your Friendship

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89. Listen to this to get better at manifesting your dreams

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88. Three things grief does to us all

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87. Life lessons I learned from deejaying NYFW

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86. All the ways you can unlock the potential of your emotional intelligence

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85. IDK who needs to hear this but... (part 1)

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84. All the ways you can support someone without giving suggestions

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83. Nine things you need to do to move forward

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82. What to do when your loved one is transitioning (to death)

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81. Understanding Anxiety: Recognizing Signs and Taking Control

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80. All the ways I’m living a soft life… join me?

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79. Here's what you need to do when your parents' best wasn't good enough.

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78. Ten polite ways to say no to someone

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77. Listen to this episode for realistic work life balance tips

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76. How to build your friendship circle from scratch

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75. Ten ways to tell your friends the truth

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74. Here's what grief sounds like (also you are not alone)

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73. Do these things to make your year different than last year

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72. (Guided Meditation): Visiting your safe space

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71. 8 acts of self respect to start your new year

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70. (Guided Meditation): Letting Go Of Your Day With Gratitude

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69. Ways To Cope With A Terminally Ill Parent

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68. The 8 small steps you need to start your self-improvement journey

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67. This one is for you if you're ever watched a show bubble snot crying

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66. Listen to this if you are a overthinker

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65. Habits you have that you need to break TODAY!

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64. Things that will help battle your seasonal depression, 15 to be exact!

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63. Hysterectomy, one year later.

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62. Everything you need to know about finding the perfect therapist

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61. The best habits you should still hold onto post-pandemic

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60. These 5 things are standing in your way of grief recovery

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59. How you can learn the art of surrender + welcome peace daily

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58. A bunch of steps to texting someone you haven’t talked to in a long time

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57. Reading from my book, Chapter 3: The Art Of Losing

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56. Ways to release the "strong friend" behavior + why you should be checking in on "your" people

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55. Roe vs Wade - We are screwed, now what?

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54. How to protect yourself from energy vampires

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53. Learn Your Emotional Buttons And How To Lessen Their Impact

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52. How this Award Winning Producer is setting boundaries, dating with purpose, and leaning in for help

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51. 11 Things That You Forget Affect Your Mood (In Big Ways)

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50. Life Lessons I've Learned From Podcasting + Happy 50th Episode to Us!

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49. 8 Bedtime Rituals for your Mind & Body

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48. How To Journal Consistently To Fight Off Negative Thoughts & Anxiety

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47. Should You Just Ignore Your Negative Emotions?

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46. The Oscar Night Feud: Gaslighting, Protecting Black Women + More

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45. Healing While Black with Kobe Campbell (LIVE PODCAST)

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44. 6 Ways to Communicate Better with Your Partner

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43. 6 Techniques That Help You Manage Your Emotions

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42. 10 Habits of the Happiest People You Know

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41. All the reasons we need to stop saying, 'I’m sorry for your loss' + 8 Alternatives!

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40. How to choose your beliefs and values over money

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39. 14 Ways to Strengthen Your Friendships

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38. Things your strong friend will never admit

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37. 13 Healing Things to Do When a Friendship Ends

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36. How To Manage Your Mental Chatter

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35. How to Reconnect With a Friend After a Falling Out

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34. The 15 Lies That We Need To Stop Telling Ourselves

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33. 8 Strategies to Help You Choose Happiness in Times of Grief

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32. 13 Secrets to Supporting Someone Who Is Grieving

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31. You Are In Control with Special Guest Actress, Malinda Williams

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30. So I had a hysterectomy and it wasn't what I expected (Part 3)

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29. So I had a hysterectomy and it wasn't what I expected (Part 2)

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28. So I had a hysterectomy and it wasn't what I expected (Part 1)

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27. Listen To This Episode If You Have People-Pleasing Tendencies

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26. Do Your Words Hurt or Heal? The Language of Mending Feelings

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25. How To Deal With Your Needy Friends

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24. Behind The Music Inside Our Wellness with DJ AK47 (LIVE EPISODE)

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23. Waiting for an Apology? Do This Instead!

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22. Where The Healing Resides with Kobe Campbell (LIVE EPISODE)

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21. 6 Habits That Are Preventing Your Happiness

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20. How to Stop Feeling Guilty For Every Damn Thing

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19. Former 'ANTM' Model Eugena Washington on Loving Our Bodies, Healing From Dad Trauma + More

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18. The Unpacking Of Our Black Names

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17. Are You Ashamed of Your Black Girl Name? Me Too..

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16. Quarantine Tips- 10 Things To Do While You're Bored In The House

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15. Can You Recover From Grief

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14. Things Every Mother Should Tell Their Daughter

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13. How to Take Care of Yourself While Being a Caregiver

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12. Learn How to Unpack Your Emotional Suitcase

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11. How to Set Clear MFing Boundaries

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10. A Quick Lesson on How to Not Give a Fcuk

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9. To The Girl Who Can't Seem to Get Her Shit Together

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8. Listen to This When Life Gets Heavy

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7. Some People Won’t Like You and That’s Ok

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6. Ghosting is Not an Acceptable Form of Communication, Even if You Have a Good Reason

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5. Plot twist- Death is Not Optional, However Grief Doesn’t Have to Hurt You

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4. Are You a Kind Person...To Yourself?

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3. Live From the #SelfCareIRL Retreat In Mexico

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2. Listen to This if You Suck at Protecting Your Energy

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1. How to Maintain Your Sanity Despite Your Negative Self-talk

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Coming Soon: Self Care IRL, a Podcast by Ty Alexander