One Percent Woman Podcast

I've been talking about this for over a year — and I finally did it. In this episode, I'm sharing the full story: my birth control history starting at 16, why I chose the copper IUD in 2020, the symptoms that were telling me for a long time that something wasn't right, and what finally pushed me to get it removed.This isn't an anti-birth-control episode. It's the conversation I wish I'd had before I made any of these decisions — honest, personal, and clinically grounded. Whether you're on the pill, a hormonal IUD, the copper IUD, or considering your options, this episode is for you.My birth control backstory — starting the pill at 16 and what I didn't know about withdrawal bleeds vs. real periodsLosing my period through my eating disorder and the years it took to get it backWhy I chose the copper IUD in 2020 and what my doctor told me (and didn't tell me)The 5 symptoms that were my biggest red flags: PMDD, chronic puffiness and inflammation, hormonal acne, short cycles, and luteal phase constipation and bloatingHow the copper IUD actually works — and why 'non-hormonal' doesn't mean 'no systemic effects'Copper vs. hormonal birth control: the real comparison, including what they have in commonPost birth control syndrome — why it happens, what to expect, and how to actually support your body through the transitionHow to protect your body if you're staying on birth control — what to supplement, how to support your gut and liver, and which labs to ask for

Gut health gets talked about a lot, but not like this. In this episode, Gabby pulls back the curtain on her own gut health journey and the innocent mistakes she was making that were creating serious dysfunction underneath the surface. If you've been dealing with acne, brain fog, fatigue, estrogen dominance, thyroid issues, or just feeling like something is off and can't figure out why this episode might be the missing piece you've been looking for.KEY TAKEAWAYSYour gut and your brain have a two-way relationship. When one is struggling, the other one feels it.Estrogen dominance, hypothyroid symptoms, acne, and nutrient deficiencies are often downstream of gut dysfunction — not the root cause itself.Digestion happens in 8 steps. If something is broken in step two, treating step six will never fix the real problem.Under eating is a physiological stressor — it suppresses stomach acid, enzymes, and bile, and starves the beneficial bacteria your gut depends on.Leaky gut turns your immune system against your own food. The food isn't always the problem. The barrier is.You cannot fully digest in a sympathetic state. Rest and digest is not just a saying — it's biology.Define is a 1:1 functional health coaching practice built for high-achieving women who are doing everything right and still not feeling well. Using functional lab testing including the GI Map, DUTCH test, and comprehensive blood panels, Gabby identifies the upstream drivers of your symptoms and builds a protocol specific to your body — not a generic plan.→ Apply to work with Gabby at https://forms.gle/CBpqh4VdQ483b2R48 → Follow along on Instagram: @gabbyvillermaux→ DM Gabby the word "DEFINE" on Instagram to start the conversation

If you've been doing everything "right".. working out consistently, eating clean, trying protocol after protocol and your body still isn't responding, this episode is for you. Gabby breaks down why effort without the right strategy keeps so many high-achieving women stuck, and walks through what actually needs to change to get your body to respond to the work you're already putting in.This episode was built around a real conversation with a real client — a woman who had spent years grinding through workouts, gut health protocols, and nutrition plans, only to feel like her body was working against her. If you've ever looked at someone doing less than you and getting more results, you'll want to listen to this one.What We Cover— Why the most disciplined women are often the most stuck — and why that makes complete sense— The identity gap: what happens when who you know yourself to be isn't being reflected back in your body— Why comparing your results to someone just starting out is keeping you frustrated— The science of what chronic under-eating and high-volume exercise actually does to your metabolism, hormones, and gut— Why so much of what looks like a body composition problem is actually an inflammation problem— The three shifts that change everything: from eating clean to tracking with intention, from working out to training with purpose, and from chasing fat loss to building the internal foundation first— The fear of eating more and why it's usually the fear pointing you toward exactly what you needWork With GabbyIf this episode resonated with you, applications for Define are open. Define is a 12-month, one-on-one functional health coaching program for high-achieving women who are ready to get to the root cause — not just manage symptoms.→ Apply here: https://forms.gle/oKtRSSzNeiQkU6Hz5→ DM Gabby on Instagram: @gabbyvillermaux

APPLY FOR 1:1 COACHING : https://forms.gle/UPwTkPiqUnmGHtVA6You've done the healing work. Your period is back, your gut feels better, you've broken the yo-yo dieting cycle — and your body finally feels like it's on your side. Now you're ready to actually change your body. But you're terrified of going backwards.This episode is for the woman who is caught between wanting results and wanting to protect everything she's worked so hard to build.In this episode, Gabby covers:The "too soft on yourself" traps that are keeping you stuckFrom the forever-healing identity to the permission slip gone too far — if you've been in healing mode so long it's become a comfort zone, this will hit home.What actually wrecks your hormonesIt's not one hard training block or one calorie deficit. It's the chronic stack — chronic dieting, chronic stress, chronic under-recovery — with no end in sight and no recovery built in. Gabby breaks down exactly what that does to your cortisol, thyroid, sex hormones, and why your body holds onto fat as a protective response.Why you might not need a deficit yetThe move that surprises women the most: spending time at maintenance with optimized training first. Gabby explains how body recomposition at maintenance works, why it protects your hormones, and how it sets you up for a more effective deficit down the road.How to run a deficit without dismantling your hormonesWhen a deficit is the right move, here's how to do it strategically:Managing your total stress load — not just your caloriesWhy aggressive cardio on top of heavy lifting during a deficit is a hormonal disasterDiet breaks: what they are, the physiology behind them, and why they're a tool not a failureReading your biofeedback (sleep, mood, cycle, training performance) as real dataReverse dieting out of the deficit — and why skipping this step is why most women end up back where they startedThe bottom line: You are in a better position than you think. But the approach has to match where your body actually is — not where you want to hurry it to be.⁠APPLY FOR 1:1 COACHING : https://forms.gle/UPwTkPiqUnmGHtVA6⁠

You're not stuck because you're lazy. You're not stuck because you don't know enough. You're stuck because of what you believe about your body, about effort, and about what it actually takes to change.In this episode, Im breaking down the five mindsets she sees in almost every high-achieving woman who comes to her after years of doing everything "right" and still not getting results. These aren't surface-level habit fixes. This is the deeper layer, the internal operating system running underneath all of your actions and why changing your behavior without addressing it first is exactly why nothing has worked so far.If you've ever pushed harder and gotten nowhere, told yourself you'll start when life calms down, or convinced yourself that structure equals restriction, this, episode is going to hit.In This Episode:— Why "more is better" is the exact belief destroying your metabolism and your hormones — and what I changed in my own training that proved it wrong— The subtle difference between wanting results fast and believing there's a finish line — and why that belief is keeping you in an endless restart cycle— Why being the most informed woman in the room is sometimes the thing keeping you the most stuck— The honest conversation about "I'm too busy right now" — and what you're actually saying when you keep pushing your health to the back burner— Why structure doesn't equal restriction — and what real restriction actually looks like when you zoom outApply for 1:1 Coaching Here : https://forms.gle/b6ohvop4vyacTAKG6

Everyone is talking about lowering cortisol — but nobody is talking about the fact that low cortisol is just as much of a problem as high cortisol. In today's episode I am giving you the full picture on adrenal health — how your HPA axis actually works, how chronic stress progresses from high cortisol burnout to full adrenal depletion, what each stage looks and feels like in real women's bodies, and the six lifestyle levers that actually move the needle on cortisol regulation. If you are exhausted, hormonally dysregulated, or feel like no matter what you do your body will not cooperate — this episode will change the way you think about stress and recovery.In this episode:Why the goal is healthy cortisol — not low cortisolHow HPA axis dysregulation progresses from high to low cortisol over timeThe high cortisol client — what she looks like, feels like, and why caffeine and intense training make it worseThe low cortisol client — and the cascade of dysfunction that comes with full adrenal depletionThe six needle movers for adrenal health: circadian rhythm, energy availability, parasympathetic state, electrolytes and minerals, environment, and hidden stressorsWhy functional lab testing is often the missing piece when lifestyle changes alone are not enough

Have you ever looked at a woman who seems to effortlessly stay in shape and wondered what she is doing differently? It is not her genetics. It is not her willpower. It is her identity — the beliefs she holds and the behaviors she has built around them. In today's episode I am pulling back the curtain on the five specific traits that separate women who get lasting results from women who stay stuck in the cycle of starting over. This one is equal parts mindset and strategy — and it might be the most important episode I have recorded this month.In this episode:Why automation beats motivation every single timeHow adaptability — not perfection — is what creates consistencyThe difference between moderation and restriction and how to build genuine trust around foodWhy the women who stay lean long term spend more time in maintenance than in a deficitHow boundaries and self respect are non-negotiable traits of women who prioritize their health

I have been in the health and fitness space long enough to have held a lot of opinions that I no longer believe and today I am being honest about all of them. From my bodybuilding days to eating disorder recovery to the functional health space, my views on nutrition, training, metabolism, stress, and wellness culture have shifted significantly. This episode is a raw, honest debrief on what I got wrong, what I have learned, and where I have landed. If you have ever felt confused by conflicting health information then this one is for you.In this episode:Why "everything in moderation" needs a complete reframeWhat I got wrong about meal timing in my calories in calories out eraWhy more lifting is not always better — and what actually moves the needleThe difference between self love and self respect and why it matters for lasting changeWhy metabolism is cellular efficiency — not just calories burnedWhy managed stress is a growth tool — and rest is not lazinessHow the wellness industry is becoming the new diet culture

If you have been eating well, training consistently, and still not seeing the results you want — this episode is for you. Today I am breaking down what it actually means to eat for your metabolism, why a metabolism-first approach produces body recomposition instead of just weight loss, and the four nutritional pillars that support your hormones, gut, liver, and adrenals from the inside out. We also cover the metabolic accelerators that either amplify or completely undermine everything you are doing nutritionally. In this episode:Why losing weight and leaning out are not the same thingThe four pillars of pro-metabolic nutrition and the hormonal systems each one supportsThe truth about meal timing, blood sugar stability, and cortisolWhy your gut, liver, and inflammation levels directly impact your body compositionThe case for all three macronutrients — including carbs and fatThe lifestyle factors that accelerate or destroy your metabolic health

You don't have a discipline problem. You have a direction problem.In this episode, Gabrielle breaks down why discipline stops feeling like a choice and starts feeling like punishment — and what it actually means to build discipline that lasts. She shares her own experience going from bikini competition to burnout, the difference between aesthetic discipline and healing discipline, and the one root-level shift that changes everything: moving from fear-based discipline to self-worth-based discipline.If you've ever felt like you're white-knuckling it, constantly starting over, or doing everything "right" and still feeling like something is off — this one is for you.In this episode:Why discipline feels like punishment and what to do about itThe real definition of discipline — and why most women have it pointed in the wrong directionAesthetic discipline vs. healing discipline and how to know which one you're inFear-based vs. self-worth-based discipline — and why one always falls apartWhat healing discipline actually looks like in practice (the unglamorous, uncelebrated version)

If you've been eating clean, training consistently, and still not seeing results — this episode is the missing piece nobody's talking about.Today I'm sharing something I wish I had understood years ago: the direct connection between your nervous system and your ability to lose fat. Not as a surface-level wellness trend, but as real physiology — and something I've experienced firsthand through my own health journey.I'm sharing the arc of my own story: what happened after my bikini competition in 2021, losing my period, the grief after losing my dad, years of trying to out-discipline a body that was stuck in survival mode, and where I am now — still healing, still in the middle of my own protocol, and learning more about my body than I ever have before.Because you can't out-discipline a dysregulated nervous system. And until your body feels safe, fat loss will always be a fight.

Burnout looks different for everyone — but for high-achieving women, it usually shows up in one of two ways: you've stopped taking care of yourself because life got loud, or you're doing everything right and still not getting anywhere. In this episode, we break down what burnout actually is, why the "do more" approach keeps backfiring, and how to build the kind of capacity that lets you perform at a high level without running yourself into the ground. This is the conversation about ambition and health that doesn't ask you to choose.

I have been in the health and fitness space long enough to have held a lot of opinions that I no longer believe and today I am being honest about all of them. From my bodybuilding days to eating disorder recovery to the functional health space, my views on nutrition, training, metabolism, stress, and wellness culture have shifted significantly. This episode is a raw, honest debrief on what I got wrong, what I have learned, and where I have landed. If you have ever felt confused by conflicting health information , this one is for you.In this episode:Why "everything in moderation" needs a complete reframeWhat I got wrong about meal timing in my calories in calories out eraWhy more lifting is not always better — and what actually moves the needleThe difference between self love and self respect and why it matters for lasting changeWhy metabolism is cellular efficiency — not just calories burnedWhy managed stress is a growth tool — and rest is not lazinessHow the wellness industry is becoming the new diet culture

If you have been eating well, training consistently, and still not seeing the results you want — this episode is for you. Today I am breaking down what it actually means to eat for your metabolism, why a metabolism-first approach produces body recomposition instead of just weight loss, and the four nutritional pillars that support your hormones, gut, liver, and adrenals from the inside out. We also cover the metabolic accelerators that either amplify or completely undermine everything you are doing nutritionally. In this episode:Why losing weight and leaning out are not the same thingThe four pillars of pro-metabolic nutrition and the hormonal systems each one supportsThe truth about meal timing, blood sugar stability, and cortisolWhy your gut, liver, and inflammation levels directly impact your body compositionThe case for all three macronutrients — including carbs and fatThe lifestyle factors that accelerate or destroy your metabolic health

This episode breaks down the six environmental triggers that are quietly disrupting your hormones — and none of them have anything to do with what you're eating. From the structure of your workday to the relationships you're in, your environment may be keeping your nervous system in chronic fight-or-flight and making metabolic and hormonal healing impossible. Topics covered:-- Why your nervous system needs a transition signal between work and rest-- The hormonal cost of overcommitting and tying identity to productivity-- How people-pleasing creates chronic cortisol elevation-- The signs you're emotionally unsafe in your relationships — and what that does to your hormones-- Why constant digital noise keeps cortisol from clearing-- The comparison and performance loop of social media — and how to break it

In This EpisodeMy full personal history with birth control — the pill at 16, losing my period for years, the copper IUD, and why I'm finally having it removedWhat a withdrawal bleed actually is and why it is not the same as a real periodHow the combination pill, hormonal IUD, and copper IUD each workThe 3 red flags every woman on birth control should know about: hormone suppression, inflammation and gut disruption, and metabolic dysfunctionWhy the pill doesn't fix your acne or regulate your cycle — it silences your entire hormonal systemHow the copper IUD drives systemic disruption without containing a single synthetic hormoneThe five ways birth control creates systemic inflammationThe specific nutrient depletions — magnesium, zinc, selenium, B vitamins, CoQ10 — and exactly why each one mattersWhy so many women on birth control can't lose weight — and what's actually driving itHow to support your body if you're choosing to stay on birth controlAPPLY FOR 1:1 COACHING

If you eat well, work out consistently, and genuinely care about your health — but your period is still gone — this episode is for you.Losing your cycle doesn't mean something is permanently wrong with you. It means your body is adapting to its environment. And once you understand what it's adapting to, that's when things can actually start to change.In this episode I'm walking you through the four most common reasons I see health-conscious, high-achieving women lose their cycles — including some causes that almost never get talked about. I'm also sharing a bit of my own story, because I've been here too, and I want you to know this is something that can genuinely be healed.If this resonated with you:I work with women one on one inside my program, Define, to help them heal their metabolism, restore hormonal balance, and build a sustainable approach to their health and body composition — without the restriction and burnout that got them here in the first place.Three of my clients have gotten their periods back this year. If you're ready to actually figure out what's going on and get real support doing something about it, I'd love to work with you.👉 https://forms.gle/eRyEX1qBqeMWT9J27

In This Episode We Cover• Why high-achieving women often struggle the most with fat loss plateaus• The difference between a discipline problem vs a physiology problem• How to perform an honest audit of your habits and adherence• What metabolic adaptation is and why dieting longer isn’t always better• The hormones that commonly stall fat loss: thyroid, insulin, leptin, and cortisol• Signs your body may be operating in a chronic stress response• The hidden role gut health plays in metabolism and fat loss• The biggest gut healing mistakes health-conscious women make• Why fat loss often resumes once internal systems are functioning properly againAPPLY FOR 1:1 COACHING

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There’s more hormone advice online than ever before — and while awareness is powerful, most of what’s being shared is oversimplified, incomplete, or completely out of context.If you’re a high-achieving woman who feels like you’re doing everything — lifting, tracking, eating clean, taking supplements — yet still stuck with fatigue, weight loss resistance, or cycle issues…This episode is your reality check.Inside, I break down the most common hormone advice I disagree with — backed by research — and explain what actually moves the needle from a root-cause, metabolism-first perspective.We cover:Why “just stress less” is lazy advice — and what to do insteadThe truth about birth control and why it doesn’t “balance” hormonesWhy you don’t need to stop lifting to healHow elimination diets can quietly damage your relationship with foodWhy “just eat more” without structure backfiresWhat “normal labs” really mean (and don’t mean)And the biggest reframe of all: hormones aren’t the problem — your environment isIf you’ve been overwhelmed by conflicting advice, frustrated by plateaus, or starting to question your body…This episode will help you zoom out, take back control, and focus on what actually restores hormonal and metabolic resilience.Because your hormones aren’t random.They’re responsive.And when you fix the system — everything gets easier.APPLY FOR 1:1 COACHING

If you’re eating less, training harder, and still feel inflamed, exhausted, and stuck — this episode is for you.You don’t have a discipline problem.You have a misalignment problem.In this episode, I break down:Why your body has become “unresponsive”How chronic stress suppresses your metabolismThe real meaning of mismanaged inputs vs. outputsWhy pushing harder is backfiringHow reverse dieting restores metabolic capacityWhen you’ve actually earned a fat loss phaseIf your effort doesn’t match your ROI, your body isn’t broken — it’s burned out.High-achieving women often live in a constant output state:Overtraining. Overworking. Overthinking. Undereating.Eventually, your body adapts to survive.And survival mode doesn’t prioritize fat loss.Eating more isn’t about giving up on your goals.It’s about rebuilding the foundation so your body feels safe enough to respond again.Increase inputs → restore capacity → earn the cut.You don’t need more effort.You need a smarter strategy.If you’re ready to stop white-knuckling your results and start leading your body properly, this episode will show you where to begin.

Trying to heal your hormones while aggressively chasing fat loss? That’s why you’re stuck. In this episode, I break down why high-achieving women feel torn between “getting healthy” and “getting hot,” how indecision is costing you real progress, and why the solution isn’t more effort — it’s the right order.

You’re not less disciplined. You’re not broken.And you’re definitely not “getting old.”But if you’re between 25–35 and suddenly fat loss feels harder than it used to… there’s a reason.In this episode, I break down:-- Why what worked at 22 won’t necessarily work at 32-- The physiological and nervous system shifts happening in this chapter of life-- The accumulated “stress receipts” your body is now showing you-- Why chronic intensity stops working — even for disciplined women-- The side effects high-performing women experience after years of pushing-- Why health must become a priority (and why that’s not selfish)-- The new tools required for sustainable fat loss in your late 20s and 30sThis is about building a body that can support: your ambition, your leadership, your relationships, your longevityIf this resonated, it’s likely time for a smarter approach — one that supports your metabolism, hormones, and nervous system instead of fighting them.Apply for 1:1 coaching or explore the Define Method at [linked here]

In this episode, I break down the exact skill set that separates high performers from burned-out overachievers, and why real success has nothing to do with intensity — and everything to do with identity, regulation, and alignment.This conversation is rooted in both my personal experience — scaling a business quickly, managing a team, losing myself in the process, and stepping away to heal — and the patterns I see every day in high-achieving women who feel “stuck” in their health, energy, and consistency.If you’re ambitious, disciplined, and capable — but exhausted, inflamed, or constantly starting over — this episode will change how you think about performance forever.The difference between unregulated discipline and self-regulated high performanceWhy burnout isn’t caused by lack of discipline — but by lack of self-regulationWhat a day in the life of a burned-out overachiever vs. a high performer actually looks likeHow to build the skill of self-regulation (this is not a personality trait)Why knowing what to do isn’t enough — and how to close the awareness → action gapHow identity dissonance quietly creates anxiety, inconsistency, and self-sabotageWhy high performers don’t wait for motivation, confidence, or “perfect timing”The role of identity-led execution in sustainable successWhy efficiency beats extremes — especially in health, fitness, and fat lossHow high performers use data as feedback instead of punishmentWhy mental discipline is about not obeying every thoughtHow boundaries are not selfish — they’re strategicThe power of an internal locus of control in building momentum that compoundsThis episode is for you if:You’re successful on paper, but exhausted behind the scenesYou’re disciplined in many areas of life — but stuck in your health or fitnessYou feel like you know what to do, but can’t seem to do it consistentlyYou’ve swung between hustle and healing — and neither feels sustainableYou want to be ambitious without sacrificing your body, energy, or peace

On one side, there’s extreme discipline:rigid tracking, hyper-control, leanness through restriction.On the other, there’s “healing”:listening to your body, food freedom, no rules.And a lot of women — especially high-achieving women — have swung from one extreme straight into the other.If you’ve ever gone from under-eating and over-training…to eating more, gaining weight, feeling inflamed, and being told “this is just part of the healing process” — this episode is for you.Because when chaos is labeled as healing, but your body feels worse, your clothes don’t fit, and your confidence is gone — you start doubting yourself.And yet… you still want structure.You still want to feel strong, lean, and confident.You just don’t want to destroy your hormones or relationship with food again.In this episode, I’m breaking down the grey area —the middle ground where discipline doesn’t mean restriction, and healing doesn’t mean chaos.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:-- Why the pendulum swings so hard after years of restriction-- How chronic under-fueling and stress change your hunger hormones, metabolism, and nervous system-- Why hunger feels amplified and out of control when restriction ends-- The role cortisol, thyroid output, and nervous system dysregulation play in weight gain and inflammation-- Why your body overcorrects — and why that’s actually protection, not failure-- The difference between true physiological hunger and dopamine-seeking “relief hunger”-- Why “just listen to your body” falls apart when your nervous system is dysregulated-- How structure can reduce anxiety instead of creating control-- What healthy structure actually looks like with food, training, and lifestyle-- How to rebuild self-trust without white-knuckling or letting go completely-- Why fat loss and healing are not opposing goals — they just require a different approach🎯 Ready for Support?If this episode hit close to home and you want help figuring out what the “middle” looks like for your body — whether that’s rebuilding your metabolism, stabilizing hormones, or losing fat without blowing everything up again ... Coaching Application link : https://forms.gle/dKucYTJ2KQr99iHH7

Have you ever been told “your labs are normal” — yet you know something isn’t right?You’re functioning.You’re disciplined.You’re doing all the “right” things.And yet… you feel puffy, inflamed, exhausted, anxious, unmotivated, bloated, or stuck despite your efforts.In this episode, I’m breaking down what’s actually being missed in conventional healthcare — not because doctors don’t care, but because the system was never designed to look at health the way high-performing women actually need it to.Most women aren't “sick enough” to be diagnosed — but they’re far from thriving. That gray area between disease and optimal health is where metabolic, hormonal, gut, and nervous system dysfunction quietly develops long before anything crosses a clinical threshold.🔍 What We Cover in This Episode-- Why “normal” lab results don’t equal optimal health-- The massive gray area between not sick and truly well-- How hormone imbalances and metabolic dysfunction start as adaptations, not diseases-- Why most lab reference ranges are too wide to catch early warning signs-- The critical markers that often go untested-- Nervous system and stress adaptation patterns-- Why the body can’t be treated in silos (hormones, gut, metabolism, mental health)-- How stress, under-fueling, poor recovery, and overtraining compound dysfunction-- Why high-achieving women are the most likely to be dismissed-- The role lifestyle plays as either the root cause — or the medicineWhen you stop chasing symptoms and start understanding your body through a different lens, everything shifts.Apply for coaching : https://forms.gle/nWC8BQae3PR7NbEw7Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/gabbyvillermaux/

If you’re disciplined, consistent, and doing “everything right” — but your body isn’t responding the way it used to — this episode will change how you look at your metabolism.I’ve worked with hundreds of high-achieving women who struggle with stalled fat loss, low energy, hormone imbalance, and burnout despite eating clean, training hard, and staying consistent. Over time, I noticed something most people miss:👉 It’s not a motivation problem.👉 It’s not a discipline problem.👉 It’s a metabolic adaptation problem.In this episode, I break down the three metabolism patterns I see most often in high-performing women — and why pushing harder actually makes things worse.You’ll learn:• Why you can’t out-discipline a body stuck in survival mode• The difference between stress-driven, under-fueled, and dysregulated metabolism patterns• How chronic stress, undereating, and overtraining impact hormones, fat loss, and energy• Why your labs can look “normal” while your body feels anything but• What to focus on instead of cutting calories or adding more cardioThis is for women who are driven, structured, and successful — but feel frustrated because the strategies that once worked for their body no longer do.By the end of this episode, you’ll be able to identify which metabolism pattern sounds like you — and understand why your current approach isn’t working and what to do next.🔍 TAKE THE METABOLISM QUIZ (linked here)Find out which metabolism pattern you’re in and what your body actually needs to respond again.

If you’re an ambitious woman with big goals for 2026 — but zero interest in burning yourself out to achieve them — this episode is for you.You’ll learn how to pursue big goals while protecting your energy, nervous system, and long-term health — using standards, systems, and self-awareness. This is the strategy I use personally — and with my high-performing clients — to create success that’s sustainable.Why burnout often starts at the goal-setting phase, not mid-yearHow to set goals that challenge you without putting your body into survival modeThe difference between goals vs. standards — and why standards create consistencyHow systems remove decision fatigue and protect your energyWhy accountability isn’t weakness — it’s leverageHow dopamine and reward systems impact motivation and follow-throughWhy celebrating small wins is a non-negotiable for high performersHow to identify hidden energy leaks like perfectionism, overthinking, and controlWhy self-awareness is one of the most underrated performance tools

Your metabolism doesn’t slow down because you’re lazy or getting older. It slows down because you’ve been surviving on stress, discipline, and under-fueling for too long and your body can’t keep up.We cover the exact metabolic clues women miss — and how your body is communicating that it feels overwhelmed, undernourished, and unsafe.🔥 In This Episode, You’ll Learn:• 8 metabolic red flags women ignore • How stress, under-eating, and overtraining slow metabolism • Why carbs, recovery, and safety are the real fat-loss foundations • Why your body stops responding when it feels unsafe • How to recognize when you’re stuck in survival mode • What your cycle, digestion, and hunger cues reveal about your metabolism • The first steps to rebuilding metabolic capacity💛 If this episode hit home…And if you're ready to rebuild your metabolism, balance your hormones, and finally feel like yourself again… ✨ Apply for 1:1 coaching with DEFINE

If you’re the woman who does everything right — you eat clean, work out, track your habits, listen to every wellness podcast — yet your body still isn’t responding… this episode is about to make everything click.In today’s episode, I’m breaking down the 8 most important hormone hacks for high-achieving women who are unknowingly living in survival mode. These aren’t trendy TikTok hacks, supplements, or “cycle syncing secrets.” These are the free, foundational shifts that tell your body:“You’re safe. You’re nourished. You can heal.”We cover the exact habits that cause hormone chaos — morning stress, low-carb dieting, “clean girl” eating, overtraining, under-recovering, nervous system overload, digestive dysfunction, and trying to outsmart physiology with more optimization.You’ll learn how to: ✨ Support your cortisol curve ✨ Eat for hormone balance (not restriction)✨ Ditch the low-calorie “clean girl” trap ✨ Train smarter instead of harder ✨ Build muscle as a hormone strategy ✨ Regulate your nervous system daily ✨ Improve digestion without supplements ✨ Stop living in survival mode disguised as disciplineAnd if you're ready to get out of survival mode, balance your hormones, rebuild your metabolism, and feel like yourself again → Apply for 1:1 coaching with DEFINE.

For the high-achieving, overworked woman who feels “in control” everywhere… except around food.This is not an episode about discipline. This is not about restriction. This isn’t about “willpower.”This is about understanding why overeating happens — especially for high-achieving women who appear disciplined, put-together, and “healthy”… yet privately struggle with emotional eating, nighttime overeating, or feeling out of control around food.Inside, we explore the REAL reasons women overeat — the psychological, emotional, and physiological roots that diets, macros, and “clean eating” never address.You’ll learn why food becomes your comfort, your reward, your pleasure, your decompression, and your nervous system’s only “off switch”… and how to finally break the cycle without restricting, punishing yourself, or starting another diet.Share it to your stories and tag me @gabbyvillermaux And if you’re ready to heal your metabolism, regulate your nervous system, and build a peaceful relationship with food… you can apply for 1:1 coaching using the link here.

If you’re eating clean, tracking macros, and training consistently but your body still isn’t responding... this episode explains why. We break down the three hormones that control whether you’re in fat-burn or fat-storage mode: cortisol, insulin, and thyroid. Once you understand how they interact, you’ll stop blaming discipline and start adjusting your approach so your body finally feels safe enough to let go.Black Friday bonus: Join Define 1:1 Coaching and get a free GI-MAP (>$400 value). Get real answers, a targeted plan, and coaching to implement—no more guessing.Apply for Define 1:1 Coaching (Black Friday: free GI-MAP) DM DEFINE on Instagram (@gabbyvillermaux) for Black Friday details and the application link.

If you’re constantly bloated, reacting to “healthy” foods, or feel like your digestion is all over the place, you’ve probably been told to “just take a probiotic.” ... gut healing IS NOT that simple. Your gut impacts everything... hormones, mood, metabolism, skin, immune function. In this episode, I walk you through the 5R Gut Health Protocol I use with clients inside Define so you can stop guessing and start healing.We cover:Why gut health matters for more than just digestionSymptoms & patterns to look out for that show signs of compromised gut healthCommon mistakes women make with gut health Foundations for healing your gut that matter mostWhy testing matters & how to get to the root cause:The 5R Protocol (in order)Black Friday bonus: Join Define 1:1 Coaching and get a free GI-MAP (>$400 value). You’ll receive the kit at home, a full analysis with me, a personalized 5R protocol, and 1:1 support to implement—no more guessing.DM me GUT on Instagram (@gabbyvillermaux) or tap the link in the show notes to apply. Limited Black Friday bundles include a free GI-MAP + personalized 5R protocol.

Have you ever been told your labs look “normal,” yet you know something still feels off?In this episode, Gabrielle Villermaux — Functional Diagnostic Nutrition Practitioner and founder of Define Co. — breaks down what traditional bloodwork often misses and why so many high-achieving women feel dismissed by the conventional healthcare system.You’ll learn how to finally uncover the root causes behind your fatigue, bloating, hormone issues, and stubborn weight — and how to use functional testing to get real answers about your body.This episode is your crash course in understanding your health on a deeper level — beyond symptoms, beyond “normal,” and beyond surface-level solutions.1️⃣ What traditional bloodwork misses and why “normal” doesn’t mean optimal.2️⃣ The key differences between the medical model and the functional model.3️⃣ The top 3 functional labs every woman should know about4️⃣ How to advocate for yourself with your doctor and ask for deeper testing.5️⃣ How lifestyle drives your lab results — and what to change if your body feels “stuck.”If you’re ready to stop guessing and finally uncover the root cause of your symptoms, apply for Define VIP Coaching — where you’ll get access to these exact labs, personalized protocols, and 1:1 guidance.👉 Apply for CoachingYou can also connect on Instagram @gabbyvillermaux for daily education on metabolism, hormones, and holistic health.

Your metabolism won’t respond if your body doesn’t feel safe. Learn how nervous system dysregulation drives hormone, gut, and weight issues and the daily habits that restore safety, energy, and fat loss.If you’re “doing everything right” but still feel inflamed, bloated, exhausted, and stuck ... this is your missing link. Today we break down nervous system regulation and why your body won’t heal (or lose fat) if it doesn’t feel safe.We’ll cover:Fight/flight vs. rest/digest (why this ancient survival system now backfires in modern life)How dysregulation changes physiology (HPA axis → thyroid, sex hormones, blood sugar, digestion, immune system)Nine common dysregulators sabotaging high-achieving women (under-eating, over-training, caffeine reliance, digital overload, poor sleep, people-pleasing, perfectionism, unresolved emotions, hidden inflammation)The plan: realistic habits that create physical, emotional, and mental safety so your metabolism can finally respondReady for 1:1 support? Apply for Define Coaching .

You’re doing everything right — tracking your macros, training hard, hitting your steps, doing the biohacks, reading the self-development books.From the outside, you look like the definition of discipline and success.But on the inside? You’re exhausted, anxious, and wondering why your body isn’t responding anymore.This is wellness burnout — when “healthy habits” turn into stressors, and the pursuit of fitter leaves you feeling fatter.In this episode, I breaks down how to reset your body without doing more so you can finally feel good again — mentally, physically, and emotionally.You’ll learn:✨ The subtle signs you’re burnt out (even if you look “healthy”)✨ Why your body stops responding when you keep pushing harder✨ How to audit your habits to see what’s actually serving you vs. draining you✨ The systems that help you put your habits on autopiolet✨ Why rest is the most productive thing you can do for your hormones and metabolismThis isn’t another “self-care is important” pep talk — it’s a reality check for high-achieving women who’ve been sold burnout disguised as wellness.Because real health isn’t about doing more. It’s about doing the right things consistently and sustainably.If this episode hit home and you’re tired of doing more while feeling worse — it’s time to take a different approach.Inside Define Coaching, we rebuild your health from the inside out — balancing your metabolism, hormones, and stress response so your body finally starts responding again.Click the link to apply for coaching and make this the season you star feeling like yourself again!

Eating for fat loss is not the same as eating for hormone health.If you’ve been living in diet mode—cutting calories, skipping meals, fearing carbs or fats—your hormones are probably waving a big red flag. In this episode, I break down a food-first framework to rebalance hormones so your energy, mood, cycle, and metabolism actually respond again.Fat loss vs. hormone balance: why deficits are temporary and how much you should be eating to balance your hormonesWhat happens to thyroid + sex hormones when you chronically under-eat.Type of carbs, fats, and protein that are key for hormonal healthMicronutrient must-haves: B vitamins, D, C, E + minerals (magnesium, zinc, selenium, iron, sodium/potassium) to spark and wire your hormonal system.Gut–hormone connection and simple food habits to support your microbiome.High-achieving women who “do everything right” but feel tired, bloated, moody, and stuck—ready to stop chasing hacks and fix the foundations.Apply for Define Coaching (work with Gabby 1:1) → https://forms.gle/fo9JNcet86242Ev36Follow on IG/TikTok for daily tips → https://www.instagram.com/gabbyvillermaux/If you’re dieting harder and feeling worse, your body doesn’t need more restriction—it needs support. Inside Define Coaching, we rebuild metabolism and hormone health so fat loss becomes possible again.

If your goal right now is to lose fat and build lean muscle — this episode is your roadmap.In this episode, you’ll learn:✨ Why your metabolism slows down after chronic dieting — and how to rebuild it✨ The 4 pillars every woman needs in her foundation phase (macros, movement, metabolism, mindset)✨ What smart, sustainable fat loss actually looks like — and why less is not better✨ How to avoid rebound weight gain by learning to reverse diet and “lock in” your results✨ Why building muscle is the secret to long-term fat loss and a faster metabolism✨ How to finally stop starting over — by playing the long gameThis is not another quick-fix fat loss plan. It’s the science of long-term results — rebuilding your metabolism, redefining your habits, and creating a body that looks good and feels good.APPLY FOR 1:1 COACHING HERE

If gaining weight feels like failure — this episode is for you. Today I am sharing my own experience with weight gain, body image, and identity as a high-achieving woman who built her worth around being “the fit one.” It's easy to talk about the tips and tricks that you can do to fixing your metabolism & getting the weight back off (in a healthy way)... but it's not often that we talk about the mental rollercoaster of a healing journey, so that's what you're getting in todays episode.This episode isn’t about macros or reverse dieting (though that’s part of it) — it’s about the emotional rewiring that has to happen before your body can truly change.Some chats:Why weight gain is often a sign your body is trying to protect you — not punish youThe ego voices that keep you stuck in over-restriction and burnoutWhat real discipline looks like in a healing seasonHow to reframe success when fat loss isn’t the focusPractical mindset tools to rebuild confidence from the inside out💛 Sometimes weight gain isn’t the setback — it’s the setup for your next level of healing, strength, and self-confidence.

For the woman who ...Is struggling to lose weight even though you’re doing everything right , health clean and healthy , track your calories , workout consistently but don’t look like it ... Or maybe you’re not here for weight loss, but instead ...you feel like a zombie , have no energy despite getting enough sleep , hit a wall everyday between 2-3 and have to rely on caffeine to get throughyou’re struggling with digestion, bloating , constipation … you’ve done all of the testing but nothings improved & you feel at a loss for answersyour period is irregular, missing , or PMS symptoms are so bad that they knock you out for an entire week you know that you have hormonal imbalances already (like PCOS, insulin resistance, hypothyroid, etc.) but don’t know what to do about it and you want to learn ways to heal naturallyThis is a conversation about what you need to know about how to balance your hormones without all of the overwhelm or medical gaslighting.APPLY FOR 1:1 COACHING HERE

If you’ve been told to listen to your body, just eat clean, lower your cortisol, or that your bloodwork is normal—but you still feel stuck—this episode is your wake-up call. I’m breaking down five popular pieces of advice that keep high-achieving women spinning, and I’ll show you what to do instead so you can finally change your body composition, balance hormones, and feel like yourself again.What You’ll LearnWhy “structure before intuition” is the path to true intuitive eatingHow clean eating without consistent calories stalls recompositionThe both/and truth about calories vs. hormonesWhy cortisol isn’t the villain—and how to restore a healthy daily rhythmThe difference between “normal” labs and optimal health (and why that matters)

You don’t need more time. You need better systems.If your life is meetings, long shifts, carpool, and 47 tabs open in your brain, your health habits can’t be another full-time job. In this episode I share the exact systems I give my high-achieving clients to remove friction, automate the basics, and make consistency feel stupid-simple—even in your busiest seasons. Health should improve your life, not burn you out.What You’ll LearnHow to use batch prep to automate meals in 1–2 hours/weekWhy PM routines often matter more than AM routines (and how to build both)The bedtime alarm trick that makes mornings effortlessHow to front-load non-negotiables (steps, protein, workout) before 9amHabit stacking to make self-care productive, not extraThe Good / Better / Best fallback so you stay consistent on crazy daysHow to shift identity from “all-or-nothing” to “all-or-something”The Minimal Effective Dose rule so you stop overwhelming yourselfAPPLY FOR COACHING HERE

Of your goal is to look lean and toned, endless cardio and random workouts won’t get you there.In this episode, I’m breaking down:Why fat loss is 80% nutrition and 20% workouts (and why your step count matters just as much as your gym sessions)The science behind endurance vs. strength training — and why one burns calories short-term while the other transforms your body long-termThe top reasons women need to lift weights (spoiler: it’s not about getting “bulky”)How progressive overload actually works — and simple ways to know if you’re training hard enoughThe overlooked role of recovery in building muscle and losing fatHow to use cardio strategically, so it supports your fat loss goals instead of stalling themIf you’ve been grinding in the gym with little to show for it, this episode is going to flip the way you think about workouts — and give you the exact roadmap to start training for fat loss the right way.

In this episode, we dive into how stress — physical, mental, and emotional — impacts fat loss in ways most women never hear about. Stress isn’t just a tough week at work or a busy schedule. It’s also under-eating, over-training, running on caffeine, perfectionism, people-pleasing, and the constant pressure you put on yourself.I’ll break down:The 7 ways stress disrupts fat loss by impacting your hormones, metabolism, digestion, cravings, and recovery.Why “eat less, move more” backfires when your body is in survival mode.How stress changes both sides of the calories in vs. calories out equation (from cravings to thyroid to daily movement).The real reason you’re not losing fat — and why pushing harder is only making it worse.💡 Bottom line: You don’t need more discipline. You need to lower your body’s stress load so it can finally respond the way you want it to.📣 If this episode hit home, and you’re tired of spinning your wheels, I’d love to help you inside Define Coaching. Together, we’ll restore your metabolism, balance your hormones, and actually make your body reflect the effort you’re putting in.👉 Apply for 1:1 coaching here https://forms.gle/PV3U4fcYD9SiXY959👉 Or DM me STRESS on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/gabbyvillermaux/ to learn how we can get your body back on your side.

If you’ve been stuck trying to lose fat and feel like nothing is working — chances are you don’t actually know how much your body needs to eat.Most women I talk to are just guessing. They restrict hard during the week, get frustrated when their body doesn’t change, then end up overeating because they’re starving and burnt out. The result? Constant stress about food, your body, and whether you’re “doing it right.”The truth is, if you don’t know your real maintenance calories, you’ll keep spinning your wheels.In this episode, I walk you through:How to figure out your current maintenance calories with a simple 3–7 day tracking exercise.Why most women are under-eating — and how that stalls metabolism, hormones, and fat loss.A real client example of what happens when your intake is way below your body’s actual needs.What to do if you’re under-eating vs. what to do if you’re closer to maintenance.The other key factors I look at before creating a fat loss plan (biofeedback, food relationship, and mindset).💡 Bottom line: If you’re not seeing results, it’s not because your body is broken — it’s because you’re not consistently eating the right amount for your body’s needs. Once you nail this, fat loss stops feeling like an uphill battle.CHAT GPT PROMPT : "Please calculate my Total Daily Energy Expenditure using an average of the Mifflin St. Jeor & Harris Benedict Equation. Here are my stats Age: __, Height: __, Weight: __, Activity Level: __ (insert your average steps/ day, workouts/ week including the type of workouts that you do, any extracurricular activities, and what you do for work)"📣 Want me to help you figure out your numbers? COMPLETE THIS NUTRITION AUDIT HERE 💪🏼 WATCH THE 4 FAT LOSS FOUNDATIONS VIDEO HERE

You’re not overweight… but you’re not as lean or toned as you should be for how hard you work.You eat clean. You train 5–6 days per week. You’re disciplined and consistent.And yet—your body still feels inflamed, puffy, and resistant to fat loss??👉 Maybe your lower belly won’t lean out.👉 Maybe your face feels full.👉 Maybe you’re bloated no matter how “healthy” you eat.I get it, because I’ve been there too. After years of pushing my body with extreme training and dieting, my health broke down. It was a turning point that forced me to realize a few things that I share in this episode :The real reasons you feel inflamed and stuckWhy overtraining + under eating are the biggest culprits for puffiness, bloating, and weight that won’t budge.How to actually reduce inflammation and shift from “survival mode” into a fat-burning state.The identity shift you must make if you want lasting weight loss without wrecking your health in the process.💡 If you’ve been fighting your body for years and still don’t look or feel the way you want — this episode will show you how to finally decode your symptoms and start working with your body instead of against it.📣 Ready to stop spinning your wheels?Inside Define Coaching, I’ll help you restore your metabolism, balance your hormones, and rebuild your body from the inside out — so you can finally feel confident, toned, and energized again.👉 Apply for 1:1 coaching here https://forms.gle/khk5pVKyTB4YgjKL7👉 Or DM me TONED on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/gabbyvillermaux to chat about what’s keeping you stuck.

You used to be the woman who could do it all — high-achieving, hyper-productive, running on adrenaline, caffeine, and willpower.But now? You're tired. All the time. Even after a full night’s sleep. Even when you’re eating “clean” and doing “everything right.”You’re waking up exhausted, wired at night, relying on caffeine to function, and wondering:“Why don’t I feel like myself anymore?”In this episode, I break down what’s actually going on in your body when you're dealing with chronic fatigue — and how to finally start healing the root cause of your burnout.✨ What You’ll Learn:Why your chronic fatigue isn’t fixed by more sleep or another rest dayHow burnout happens in stages — and what stage you're in nowThe role of cortisol, metabolism, and nervous system dysfunction in fatigueHow adrenal fatigue and HPA axis dysfunction manifest in high performersThe exact 3-phase framework I use to help clients reverse burnout and get their energy back for goodThis episode is for the woman who...Feels like she’s lost her spark and doesn’t recognize herself anymoreCan’t keep pushing but doesn’t know how to slow downWants energy, drive, and mental clarity again — without crashing laterYou don’t just need rest — you need a recovery strategy.Your body isn’t broken. It’s asking you to stop performing health and start practicing it.APPLY FOR COACHING HERE

If you’re eating clean, training hard, tracking your macros — but still feel inflamed, tired, and stuck in your fat loss… this episode is for you.Because fat loss isn't just about what you eat. It's also about when you eat.In this episode, we break down the science of meal timing — and how your eating schedule could be making or breaking your results, especially when it comes to hormone balance, metabolism, and blood sugar stability.👀 Inside this episode:Why skipping breakfast is not the fat loss hack you think it isThe truth behind popular myths like “frequent meals boost metabolism” or “late-night eating causes weight gain”The blood sugar–cortisol–insulin triangle (and how it’s secretly sabotaging your progress)How under-eating and mistimed meals can spike stress, stall fat loss, and lead to cravings, bloating, and muscle lossThe 4 key rules of effective meal timing for womenIf you’ve been doing “everything right” — but still don’t feel like your results reflect your effort — this episode is your wake-up call to look beyond macros and start supporting your metabolism on a deeper level. This episode is perfect for you if…You’ve tried intermittent fasting and felt worse, not betterYou crash mid-afternoon, get “hangry,” or crave sugar in the eveningsYou want sustainable fat loss by working with your body instead of burning out.

Feeling frustrated that you eat clean, work out consistently, and still don’t look the way you want?You’re not alone — and you’re not broken. You’re just stuck in the space between oversimplified “eat less, move more” advice and overcomplicated hormone hacks, supplement stacks, and TikTok trends.In today’s episode, I’m breaking down the real reasons fat loss feels hard — and the 3 foundational habits that will actually move the needle so you can finally lose the 15+ pounds your body’s been holding onto.✨ We’ll cover:Why your body isn’t responding , even when you’re being “disciplined”The problem with both oversimplifying and overcomplicating fat lossThe #1 mistake most women make with nutrition (and what to do instead)How walking can be more effective than your HIIT workoutsWhy your sleep routine is more important than anything else for fat lossIf you're tired of guessing, Googling, and giving up… this episode is your permission to go back to basics — and finally do them right. Let this be your sign to stop chasing hacks — and start mastering habits.APPLY FOR 1:1 COACHING HERE

If your pursuit of health feels like punishment… it’s not health. It’s a coping mechanism dressed up as discipline. And the truth is, the way you speak to yourself is silently shaping your results.In today’s mindset-focused episode, I’m getting real about one of the biggest blocks I see in high-achieving women — the inner dialogue that drains your energy, your confidence, and keeps you stuck in all-or-nothing patterns that sabotage your health progress. You’ll learn how to start aligning with the identity of the woman you actually want to become.We’ll walk through 5 powerful mindset shifts to help you:💭 Dismantle perfectionism that paralyzes your progress📣 Rewire your internal dialogue to create lasting behavior change💪 Replace shame-based habits with identity-driven actions❤️ Build trust with your body and confidence in yourself🧠 Understand how to work with your brain instead of against itBecause you don’t need more discipline.You need a new self-image.Ready to break free from burnout and become the woman who actually feels good in her body again?Apply for 1:1 coaching here or DM me the word DEFINE to start your journey.