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Dear Little Me — 311 episodes

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333. THE SELF CARE SECRET NO-ONE TALKS ABOUT: Letting Go of Your Mother

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332. DITCH THE DRAMA: How to Survive Christmas with Peace and Sanity

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331. I FINALLY FOUND SAFETY From The Demons Of My Past

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330. Unbreakable: WISDOM AND INSPIRATION FROM TRUE SURVIVORS

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329. Unbreakable: THE TRUTH ABOUT TOXIC MOTHER-DAUGHTER RELATIONSHIPS

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328. HOW TO CULTIVATE CALM Amidst Anxiety and Chaos

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327. Unbreakable: I BROKE THE SILENCE OF ABUSE

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324. HERE’S PROOF - Love Truly Heals

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323. WHY YOU FEEL LIKE YOU'RE NEVER ENOUGH (and How to Break Free)

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321. HOW ONE DANCE CLASS SAVED MY LIFE: No Rules, Just Healing

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320. I Fight Every Day To Be NOTHING LIKE MY MOTHER

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319. CONFRONTING MY ABUSER: The Fight To Hold A Perpetrator Accountable

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317. I WON'T QUIT! Battling PTSD in the Wake of Domestic Violence (Part 2)

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316. EATING DISORDERS: It’s Not About Body Image

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315. I WON'T QUIT! Battling PTSD in the Wake of Domestic Violence (Part 1)

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313. TOXIC LOVE: The Heartbreaking Reason We Choose Narcissistic Partners Again and Again

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312. WHY YOU’LL NEVER FIND PEACE Whilst You’re Still Seeking Validation from Others!

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311. SPLIT LIVES: THE SECRET WORLD of Dissociative Identity Disorder

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309. WHAT MADE ME A MAGNET FOR NARCISSISTS? The Surprising Truth and How I Overcame It

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308. DID YOU LEARN TO SHUT DOWN AS A BABY? How Early Trauma Could Be Rewiring Your Brain and Impacting Your Health

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307. TOXIC SIBLINGS: The Hidden Abuse Nobody Talks About and Why You Need To Go No Contact.

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305. DARK SECRETS: How Dysfunctional Families Abandon Their Own

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304 Mini Ep. AUTOIMMUNE NIGHTMARE: Why My Immune System Refuses to Hit the Brakes

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303. THE SHOCKING TRUTH—You Won’t Believe What Trauma Does to Your Body

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301. CAFFEINE, ABANDONMENT And Risky Teen Behavior PART TWO

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300 Mini Ep. MY FATHER ABANDONED ME It Changed My Life

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299. CAFFEINE, ABANDONMENT and Risky Teen Behavior

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297. HOW TO SURVIVE A NARCISSIST

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296 Mini Ep. I HAD TO DISSOCIATE To Survive The Chaos

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295. I THOUGHT MY FATHER'S NARCISSISTIC ABUSE WAS NORMAL - PART TWO

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294 Mini Ep. IF YOU DON'T BOND WITH YOUR MOM - It Changes Who You Are

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292 Mini Ep. I AM NOT PRETTY ENOUGH and Other Debilitating Core Beliefs

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291. I THOUGHT MY FATHER'S NARCISSISTIC ABUSE WAS NORMAL - PART ONE

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290 Mini Ep. CONSTANT CRITICISM Can Lead To Depression

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289 Mini Ep. Seeking Connection: THE JOURNEY TO FIND LOVE AFTER ABANDONMENT

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288. A Strict, Controlling Childhood: BREAKING THROUGH MESSAGES OF FEAR AND SHAME.

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287 Mini Ep. The SIMPLE SECRET TO BREAKING THE CYCLES Of Childhood Trauma

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285 Mini Ep. How DOMESTIC VIOLENCE Trauma Leads To SELF ABANDONMENT

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284. Healing The Trauma of SILENCE AND FAMILY SECRETS

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283. HOW MY PARENTS RAISED ME BECOMES DEAR LITTLE ME

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282 Mini Ep. The Trauma of Responsibility: GROWING UP IN A TOXIC FAMILY

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281 Mini Ep. The Trauma For A DAUGHTER WITH A CONTROLLING FATHER

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280 Mini Ep. Trauma: My Mother’s Secrets BLEW OUR RELATIONSHIP APART

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279. Do You Hear It? THAT'S THE HEARTBEAT OF LITTLE YOU

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278 Mini Ep. My Traumatic Teenage Years Were A SILENT CRY FOR HELP

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277 Mini Ep. The Trauma of KEEPING MY TOXIC FAMILY’S SECRETS

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276 Mini Ep. Trauma Struggles: I BELIEVE I SHOULDN'T ASK FOR HELP

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275. FROM NARCISSISTIC ABUSE TO HEALING: Reclaiming Control Of My Life

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274 Mini Ep. The Trauma Of My Father’s Expectations: People Pleasing, Self Doubt & Fear

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272 Mini Ep. “My Mother Doesn’t Love Me” The Trauma Of This Core Belief

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271. SURVIVING A TOXIC STEPMOTHER and Breaking Free PART 2

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270 Mini Ep. How Can I LEARN TO TRUST MYSELF?

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269 Mini Ep. How Can I Tell If I Was A PARENTIFIED CHILD?

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268. SURVIVING A TOXIC STEPMOTHER And Breaking Free

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267 Mini Ep. The Confusion Of BEING ADOPTED

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265 Mini Ep. My Mother Gave Me CONDITIONAL LOVE

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264. How To Heal From NARCISSISTIC ABUSE AND PTSD

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263 Mini Ep. My Mother’s Trauma Became MY TRAUMA

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262 Mini Ep. The Moment You Realise YOUR MOTHER IS A NARCISSIST

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261. How To HEAL ANXIETY

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260 Mini Ep. GROWING UP POOR Is A Form OF Trauma

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258 Mini Ep. YOUR SENSITIVITY is your SUPER POWER

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257. I AM UNWORTHY OF LOVE, I AM ALL ALONE And Other Debilitating Core Beliefs

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256 Mini Ep. I REALLY NEEDED MY MOM, She Wasn’t There

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255 Mini Ep. I DID NOT HAVE A MOTHER-DAUGHTER BOND With My Mom

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254 Mini Ep. COMPLEX TRAUMA, Is That A Real Thing?

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253 Mini Ep. I THOUGHT IF I COULD BE ENOUGH, My Mother Would Love Me

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251. THE DISAPPEARANCE OF CHRISTI MEEKS: A Sister’s Journey Through Grief

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250 Mini Ep. Are You AUTHENTIC IN YOUR FRIENDSHIPS?

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249 Mini Ep. Finding Compassion For MOTHERS WHO LET US DOWN

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247 Mini Ep. The Reason YOU ARE ALWAYS SICK

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246 Mini Ep. I GREW UP FEELING UNSAFE In My Own Mind

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244. I Was Suicidal AT NINE YEARS OF AGE

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243 Mini Ep. How Does It Feel To Be A PARENTIFIED CHILD?

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242 Mini Ep. I WAS 37 YEARS OLD Before I Could See My Trauma

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241. A Window Into CHILDHOOD EMOTIONAL NEGLECT PART 2

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240 Mini Ep. DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND LIVING IN FEAR

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238 Mini Ep. What Happened To You WAS NOT YOUR FAULT

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237. A Window Into CHILDHOOD EMOTIONAL NEGLECT

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236 Mini Ep. MEAN MOMMY! MEAN MOMMY!

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235 Mini Ep. The Trauma of AN ABUSIVE STEPMOTHER

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234. ATTACHMENT STYLES: Your Emotional Blueprint

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233 Mini Ep. I FEEL UNWANTED By Anyone In My Life

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232 Mini Ep. Breaking The Cycles: GIRLS ARE IMPORTANT TOO!

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230. HOW MY NARCISSISTIC, CONTROLLING FATHER Changed My Life

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229 Mini Ep. CHECK YOUR PEOPLE PLEASING. You Deserve Better

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228 Mini Ep. Are you BEING A TIGER MOM TO YOURSELF?

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227. I WAS BLINDSIDED By My Mother's Lies

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226 Mini Ep: Abuse behind the HAPPY FAMILY FACADE

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225 Mini Ep: PATRIARCHY in our family cult

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223. Broken Bonds NAVIGATING MOTHER-DAUGHTER ESTRANGEMENT

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222 Mini Ep: MY NARCISSISTIC MOTHER could not connect with me

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221 Mini Ep: I WAS GETTING HIGH at 12 YEARS OLD

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220. MY SISTER WAS BEAUTIFUL, I Was The Ugly Duckling

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219 MINI EP: I WAS TERRIFIED OF MY FATHER and Drinking Made Me Not Terrified Of Him

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218 MINI EP: I HAVE A DREAM THAT I'M YELLING and Never Heard

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216. I CAN'T BELIEVE I'M NOT DEAD: How Your Tolerance to Abuse Leads to Chaos

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215 MINI EP: My Narcissistic Mother Never Loved Me

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214 MINI EP: I Cut The Narcissist Out Of My Life

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213. SECRETS and Abandonment In A 'Good' Family Home

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212. A Lifetime of Trauma and A Determination To Be Free PART 2

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211. A Lifetime Of Trauma and a Determination To Be Free PART 1

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210. Say No and Have A Beautiful Holidays

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209. Truth Bombs! Reflecting on 2023. It's a Wrap (Part 2)

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208. Truth Bombs! Reflecting on 2023. It's a Wrap (Part 1)

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207. What Am I Subconsciously Choosing For Myself?

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206. From Breakdown To Breakthrough: Only The Truth Can Heal You

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205. Simple Practices To Overcome Trauma and Addictions

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204. Toxic Mother: The Addict

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203. Shadow Work: You Need To Know Your Unconscious Self

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202. You Must Find The Root Cause Of Trauma To Heal It

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201. I Didn't Feel Safe In My Own Mind

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200. Don't Dump Your Trauma On Your Kids

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199. Are You Scared To Be Amazing?

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198. When Trauma Explodes Into Postpartum Depression

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197. The Profound Effects Of Seemingly Small Traumas

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196. How To Be Authentic

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195. Sometimes I'm Not Okay

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194. The Mother Wound Cuts Deep

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193. Accepting Your Child's Identity

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192. What Makes A Cycle Breaker? with Dr Mariel Buqué

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191. The Power Of Standing Up Against Your Abuser

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190. How To Heal From Emotional Abuse

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189. When Chronic Illness Is Your Trauma

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188. Chasing A 'Normal' Life PART 2 (Anxiety & Panic Attacks)

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187. Healing From Social Rejection

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186. Chasing A 'Normal' Life

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185: Accepting Abuse Because It Is Normal

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184. Were You A Sensitive And Intuitive Child?

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183. My Mother Was Emotionally Abandoning

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182. I Trained My Parents To Love Me

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181. When I Get What I Want I Will Be Happy!

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180. Set Yourself Free From Parental Expectations

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179. Awareness Is Step One In Breaking Generational Patterns

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178. My Mother Sold Meth For The Mob, This Is My Story

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177. My Cruel, Toxic Mother

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176. Transform Your Mindset From What's Wrong To What's Strong

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175: Toxic Masculinity: The Need To Be Vulnerable

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174. Are You Done Talking In Talk Therapy?

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173. The Importance of A Secure Attachment To Your Mother

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172. People Pleasing Is A Trauma Response

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171. Breaking Free From Control To Reclaim My Life

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170. Toxic Mother, Toxic Family

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169. Your Life Is Your Life

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168. Keeping The Secrets Of Childhood Trauma

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167. Trauma Is Passed Down Your Family Line

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166. How To Stop Feeling Worthless

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165. The Signs Your Mother Was A Narcissist

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164. How To Love Your Life After Loss And Grief

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163. My Family Is Abusive

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162. The Trauma Of The Teen Years

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161. Leaving A Narcissistic Mother

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160. Work Through Trauma To Find Your Soul Mate

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159. What Did Your Childhood Teach You About Friendships?

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158. How Trauma Leads To Addiction (PART 2)

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157. The Key Steps To Heal Your Emotional Trauma

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156. How Trauma Leads To Addiction

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155. What Does Child Grooming Look Like?

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154. Overcoming False Beliefs 'I'm Trash, I'm Bad, I'm Unworthy'

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153. Healing The Motherwound Without Talk Therapy

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152. Why Do I Feel Like I Am Not Good Enough?

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151. Self Sabotage and The Nervous System

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150. I Love My Parents But I Hate Them

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149. The Mental & Physical Effects of Childhood Abuse

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148. Healing My Mother Wound & Living Free

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147. I Went No Contact With My Toxic Mom

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146. Finding Your True Self With The Enneagram

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145. Do I Need To Forgive?

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144. Breaking The Cycles Of Generational Trauma

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143. Why Accepting Your LGBTQ+ Child Matters

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142. Making The Decision To Heal

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141. Recovering Memories Of Childhood Abuse

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140. Living In Chaos For Years

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139. Chronic Illness & Childhood Trauma

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138. Choose Your Own Value

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137. Healing from Bullying with Cinesomatics

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136. The Narcissistic Family's Scapegoat

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135. Uncovering A Narcissist

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134. Child Abuse

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133. I Parented Myself

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132. The Generational Cycle Of Toxic Mothers

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131. A Child Victim Of Human Trafficking

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130. This Is Why You Should Never Spank Your Child

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129. How Does A Mentally Ill Parent Affect A Child?

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127. The Beauty Of Healing

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126. Childhood Emotional Neglect

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125. Can Self Love Heal Trauma?

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124. A Toxic Mother and Going No Contact

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123. People Pleasing Is A Trauma Response

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122. What Is Stockholm Syndrome?

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121. Finding Love In An Abusive Family

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120. A Beginner's Guide To Trauma with Dr Reshie Joseph

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119. Christmas Love

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118. Inspiration & Wisdom 2022

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117. Signs Of A Covert Narcissistic Mother

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116. Cult Survivor - I Escaped A Cult

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115. What Is Somatic Experiencing Therapy?

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114. The Secret To Overcoming Trauma and Thriving

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113. Signs Of A Controlling Parent

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112. How Does Trauma Change Your DNA?

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111. Finding Purpose After Hitting Rock Bottom

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110. Walking Away From A Narcissistic Mother

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109. How To Calm Anxiety

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108. Childhood Emotional Abandonment

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107. Generational Trauma In Families

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106. What Are The Signs Of A Narcissistic Relationship?

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105. How To Help A Friend Who Is Struggling

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104. Signs A Friendship Is Over - How To Break Up With Your Friends

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103. What Causes Codependency?

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102. How To Heal From Your Narcissistic Mother's Abuse

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101. What Happens When A Child Doesn't Feel Loved?

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100. Abducted By A Sociopath (Part Two)

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99. Fear of Anger & Avoidance of Conflict

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98. Abducted By A Sociopath (Part One)

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97. Do Narcissists Fake Illness?

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96. When Your Family Turns Against You

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95. Complex PTSD Symptoms, Dissociation & Flashbacks

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94. How Do You Recover From Childhood Abandonment (Part Two)

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93. Is It Okay To Smack My Child?

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92. How Do You Recover From Childhood Abandonment? (Part One)

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91. R U Okay?

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90. How To Heal A Dysregulated Nervous System

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89. How To Let Go Of The Past

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88. Shame and Child Sexual Abuse (Part Two)

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87. What Is A Narcissist?

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86. Shame and Child Sexual Abuse (Part One)

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85. It Shouldn't Hurt To Be A Child

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84. I Stopped Talking To My Mom

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83. Why Do I Crave Something?

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82. What Happens to Fatherless Daughters? (Part Two)

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81. Don't Be Afraid To Talk About Mental Health

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80. What Happens To Fatherless Daughters? (Part One)

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79. How Do You Respond To A Triggered Person?

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78. Childhood Sexual Abuse - Effects in Adulthood (Part Two)

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77. Childhood Sexual Abuse - Effects In Adulthood (Part One)

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76. What Do Narcissistic Mothers Do To Their Daughters? (Part Two)

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75. What Do Narcissistic Mothers Do To Their Daughters? (Part One)

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74. What Childhood Trauma Does To Adults

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73. How Does Trauma Affect The Subconscious Mind?

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72. Can Adoption Cause Trauma?

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71. How To Love Yourself

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70. What Is A Narcissistic Family (Part Two)

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69. What Is A Narcissistic Family? (Part One)

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68. The Reason We Judge Other People

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67. Is Trauma Stored In The Subconscious Mind?

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66. Is My Mom a Psychopath? (Part Two)

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65. Is My Mom A Psychopath? (Part One)

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64. Do You Struggle With Boundaries?

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63. What Does Breaking The Cycle Mean?

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62. How Do Traumatic Events Affect Child Development? (Part Two)

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61. How Do Traumatic Events Affect Child Development? (Part One)

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60. How Do I Build Self Worth?

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59. What Is Generational Narcissism? (Part Two)

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58. What Is Generational Narcissism? (Part One)

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57. All The Wisdom, All The Beauty Of Trauma

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56. How To Deal With An Emotionally Unavailable Mother (Part Two)

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55. How To Deal With An Emotionally Unavailable Mother (Part One)

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54. How Does Childhood Trauma Impact Parenting? (Part Two)

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53. How Does Childhood Trauma Impact Parenting? (Part One)

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52. How To Heal Childhood Abandonment Wounds

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51. The Effects Of Physical Discipline On A Child

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50. Learning To Stand Up For Yourself (Part Two)

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49. Learning To Stand Up For Yourself (Part One)

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48. What Causes Anxiety Disorder?

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47. How Trauma Is Passed Down Through Generations (Part Two)

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46. How Trauma Is Passed Down Through Generations (Part One)

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45. What Is Abandonment Trauma?

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44. How To Spot A 'Vulnerable' Narcissist

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43. What Are The Effects Of Domestic Violence?

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42. How Does A Narcissistic Mother Behave?

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41. How Do You Heal Complex PTSD?

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40. What Is The Mother Wound and How Do You Heal?

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39. Is Perfectionism A Trauma Response?

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38. Energy Healing For Trauma

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37. How Do Narcissists Control You?

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36. Healing After Childhood Sexual Abuse.

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35. What Happens When A Parent Has Unhealed Trauma?

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34. How To Heal Your Inner Child

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33. Domestic Abuse and Coercive Control (Part Two)

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32. Domestic Abuse and Coercive Control (Part One)

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31. Childhood Trauma and Chronic Illness In Adulthood

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30. Mother Wound and Generational Trauma

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29. What Is Childhood Trauma?

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28. What Is The Father Wound?

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27. How Toxic Mothers Affect Their Daughters

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26. Eating Disorders From Childhood Trauma

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25. My Mother Was A Narcissist

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24. The Effects Of Emotionally Unavailable Parents

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23. Childhood Trauma From Growing Up In A Religious Cult.

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22. What Is Good Child Syndrome? (Part Two)

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21. What Is Good Child Syndrome? (Part One)

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20. Do I Have Adopted Child Syndrome?

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19. How Growing Up With Alcoholic Parents Affects Children

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18. Is Alcoholism Caused By Childhood Trauma?

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17. What Does A Codependent Relationship Look Like?

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16. How Does Parental Substance Abuse Affect Kids?

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15. Healing From Childhood Emotional Neglect

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14. Why Am I Not Good Enough For My Mother?

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13. Why Do Teens Turn to Drugs?

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12. What Are The Negative Effects Of An Arranged Marriage?

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11. What Is Conscious Parenting?

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10. How Does A Narcissist Treat Their Child?

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9. How Does Addiction Affect The Entire Family?

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8. My Father Abused Me

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7. How Does Authoritarian Parenting Affect A Child?

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6. What Are The Effects Of Being A Teen Parent?

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5. Why Do I Feel No Connection To My Family?

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4. Growing Up With A Narcissistic Parent

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3. Healing After Childhood Sexual Abuse

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2. How Will My Divorce Affect My Kids?

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1. How Do Our Teens Become So Lonely & Disconnected?