All Episodes
Husband Material — 362 episodes
How Movies Minimize Betrayal
Unhealthy Attachment vs. Healthy Brotherhood
Fourteen Ways To Live Like A Beloved Son
How To Meet Your Unmet Needs (with Shawn Bonneteau)
Try Softer, Not Harder (with Aundi Kolber)
Dear Porn: A Breakup Letter
Promised Land Sexuality (Sermon on Deuteronomy 11:10-12)
How To Outgrow Porn Through IFS (with Patrick Cagle)
How To Stop Fighting Yourself (with Jenna Riemersma)
Why Does Freedom From Porn Feel Impossible?
How To Be A Great Husband & Father (with Dr. Joshua Straub)
Healing For Sexually Betrayed Men (with Adam Nisenson)
Curiosity, Childlike Wonder, and Awe (with Jason Mellard)
Glimmers: The Opposite Of Triggers
Run Toward The Roar (with Davey Blackburn)
Why Your Desires Matter (with Jay Stringer)
How To Take A Redemptive Risk (LIVE)
Why Men Need Men (with Tom Zuniga)
True Freedom From Porn (with Sathiya Sam)
How To Prevent Relapse When You Flop
Faithful Fitness (with Alex VanHouten)
In The Low: Navigating Depression (with Justin McRoberts and Scott Erickson)
All About HMA Triads (with Rich Savoy)
How God Designed Your Brain To Heal Itself
Experience Healing Through Brainspotting (with Dr. David Grand)
K-Pop Demon Hunters: A Story Of Hiding And Healing
When A Leader Relapses (with Nate Larkin)
Revealing The Future Of Husband Material Ministries
How Technology Can Help You Connect And Heal (with Chandler Rogers)
Arousal, Addiction, And Intimacy (with Chris Chandler and Andrew Engstrom)
The Villain, The Victim, and The Hero
D.I.R.E.C.T. Psychodrama (with Dr. Doug Carpenter and Drew Boa)
Sex Education For Adult Men (with Dr. Doug Carpenter)
Ten Ways To Regulate Without Porn (Grounding Techniques)
Healing From Sex Trafficking (with Mike Chapman)
How To Reset Your Brain's Dopamine Levels (with Dr. Anna Lembke)
How To Evaluate Any Sexual Behavior
How To Process Sexualized Emotions (with Jonathan Hernandez)
Como Procesar Tus Emociones Sexualizadas (con Jonathan Hernández)
The Science Of Connection (with Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill)
You Are Not Too Much (Sermon on Mark 6:30-56)
Faith, Fitness, And Freedom From Porn (with Frank Rich)
What If I'm The Betrayed And The Betrayer? (with Ben Wilson)
Top 10 Books For Men Outgrowing Porn
Celebrating Outgrow Porn: Drew Boa Gets Interviewed
Healing Through Theology Of The Body (with Marco Casanova)
Sex Tech, Chatbots, And The Future Of Intimacy (with Dr. Marianne Brandon)
Your Story Of Sexual Arousal (with Rick Manabat)
What's In Your Shadow? (with Roy Wooten)
My Addiction To Screens: HMA Manly Monday Example
Shame & Sexuality (with Dr. Curt Thompson)
How to Safely Process Your Sexual Fantasies
How To Stay Porn-Free During Trips And Vacations (with Jake Kastleman)
Same-Sex Attraction, Porn, Marriage, and Jesus (with Christy and Mark Summers)
The Sexual Development Model (SDM): A New Perspective on Unwanted Sexual Attraction
How Breathwork Can Help You Outgrow Porn (with Burke Atkerson)
Seen, Safe, And Soothed (with Burke Atkerson)
Twenty Benefits Of Running Or Walking
What Does It Mean To Objectify Yourself? (with Sam Jolman)
The Problematic Sexual Behavior Framework (with Bill Herring)
Sexual Symptoms Of Enmeshment
From Shame to Identity in Christ (with Ken Freire)
The Marriage You Want (with Sheila Wray Gregoire)
The Five Circles Of Freedom From Porn
How To Protect Women (with Dr. Andrew Bauman)
Am I An Abusive Man? (with Dr. Andrew Bauman)
How Does God Really Feel About Me? (LIVE)
Building True Intimacy (with Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith)
Why Do I Struggle With Emotional Connection? (with Dr. Eddie Capparucci)
The Power Of First Mention In Sex Education
How To Be Vulnerable: Scratches, Scabs, And Scars (with Henry Brown)
Three Problems With Bouncing Your Eyes
How To Guard Against Sextortion (with Chris McKenna)
What Your Wife Needs When You Relapse (with Tammy Gustafson)
Compassion For My Face: HMA Psychodrama Example
Understanding External & Internal Family Systems To Outgrow Porn
The Guy In The Locker Room: HMA Fantasy Friday Example
How To Face Your Sexual Fantasies: Arousal vs. Desire
New Stats On Porn Use Among Christians (with Nick Stumbo)
Make Sense Of Your Sexual Story (with Adam Young)
Recovering From Purity Culture (with Dr. Camden Morgante)
How To Stop Hiding And Lying
Sexualized Attachment (with Dr. Floyd Godfrey)
The Science Of Attachment (with Michael John Cusick)
Announcing Husband Material Ministries!
Play, Awe, & Porn Addiction: A Polyvagal Perspective
Own Your Identity (with Jason Mellard)
The Fear And Power Of Being Vulnerable (with Trent Dollyhigh)
Inside Out 2 And Porn
How Women Heal From Sexual Betrayal Trauma (with Dr. Barbara Steffens and Lyschel Burket)
When A Wife Discovers Her Husband's Porn (with Dr. Barbara Steffens and Lyschel Burket)
Excluded And Emasculated (Sermon on Acts 8:26-40)
Building Community Beyond Same-Sex Attraction And Opposite-Sex Attraction (with Drew, Henry, Jason, and Jordan)
Same-Sex Attraction Stereotypes (with Jordan Castille)
Opposite-Sex Attraction Stereotypes (with Jason Pidcock)
Why Doesn't God Remove My Sexual Thoughts And Feelings? (LIVE)
How To Develop Empathy For Your Wife (with Nathaniel Gustafson)
How Women Can Help Men Heal (with Britta Eskey)
Three Unhealed Boys Within Every Man
A New Approach To Internet Filtering (with Plucky)
Outgrowing Porn in Marriage (with Rich and Deanna Millentree)
How To Transform Your Triggers: The F.L.O.S.S. Method (Part 2)
How To Transform Your Triggers: The F.L.O.S.S. Method (Part 1)
How I Stopped Getting Into My Husband's Recovery Work Instead Of Doing Mine (with Tera Brown)
Sitting In The Dirt Of Sexual Brokenness (with Jeremy Williamson)
How To Do Experiential Healing Work
Restoration After Porn Relapse (with Rocky Pisor)
It's Good To Be Aroused (with Sam Jolman)
Freedom From Gay Porn (LIVE)
How Childhood Experiences Shape Sexual Development (with Drew, Doug, Eddie, and Matt)
Why We Sexualize Emotions And How To Desexualize Them
Overcoming Sexual Entitlement (with Noah Filipiak)
Hope And Healing For Sexless Marriage (with Adam and Karissa King)
Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: How To Respond To A Story (Part 4)
Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: How To Write A Story (Part 3)
Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: Why We Do Story Work (Part 2)
Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: What Is Story Work? (Part 1)
Porn and Inner Healing Prayer
Porn and Polyvagal Theory (with John Kilmer)
What Is God Doing In My Trauma? (with Matt Wenger)
How To Create Connection In Any Conversation (LIVE)
Why Men Don't Talk About Their Sexual Abuse (with Mike Chapman and Dr. Doug Carpenter)
How To Tell Her About The Porn: Full Disclosure (with Dan Drake and Dr. Janice Caudill)
Healthy Fantasy vs. Unhealthy Fantasy
A Grace-Based Approach To Sexual Recovery (with Jonathan Daugherty)
Singleness & Same-Sex Attraction (with Dr. Greg Coles)
Outgrowing Porn vs. Purity Culture
Outgrowing Porn Through Parts Work (with Dr. Gerry Crete)
What To Do When Your Wife Is Triggered (with Tammy Gustafson)
Healing Through Artwork and Storywork (with Philip Leach and John Kilmer)
12 Reasons To Stop Shaming Yourself
How To Help Your Partner Heal (with Carol Sheets)
Blessing vs. Cursing Yourself & The Story Behind Your Porn (with Chris Bruno)
How To Analyze A Sexual Fantasy (with Dr. Doug Carpenter)
Introduction To Sexual Symbolism
Experience Healing Through The Immanuel Approach (with Cathy Little and Melinda Wilson)
Can Medication Help Me Outgrow Porn? (with Adam O'Neill)
What Is A Pornographic Approach To Recovery?
Helping Men Feel Safe To Open Up And Heal From Trauma (with Dr. James Reeves)
How Porn Recovery Can Transform Your Church (with Sam Black)
How To Escape Creepy Conversations Before Sexting
Healing From Rejection, Racism, And Betrayal (with Roy Kim)
Porn And Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (with Andrew Loyd)
David’s Sexual Story (Sermon)
Reintegrative Therapy (with Dr. Joseph Nicolosi Jr.)
What To Do When You Feel The Urge To Watch Porn (with Dan Johnson)
How To Heal Shame And Self-Contempt
Appropriate Touch Between Men (LIVE)
Healing Your Marriage After Gay Porn (with Tamara Lichfield)
The Inner Child Challenge Workshop (LIVE)
Why You Need A Recovery Action Plan (with Nick Stumbo & Trevor Winsor)
From Rock Bottom To Recovery Coach (with George Morning)
How My Sexual Fetish Shifted Over Time
A Story Of Healing Through Psychodrama (with Rick Carlson and Dr. Doug Carpenter)
Experience Healing Through Psychodrama (with Dr. Doug Carpenter)
I'm Fine Syndrome (with Stephen Thomas)
Secrets Of Sex And Marriage (with Dr. Michael Sytsma)
Making Sense Of Masturbation: Case Studies And Spicy Questions (LIVE)
Making Sense Of Masturbation: Science, Scripture, And My Story (LIVE)
Porn And Third Culture Kids (with John Kilmer)
Porn, Autism, and ADHD: Embracing Neurodiversity (with Candice Christiansen)
How To Confront Parents With Compassion
Healing With My Parents (with Yvonne Boa and Sandy Boa)
Adult Children Of Sex Addicts (with Dr. Ken Adams)
Three Keys To Becoming Husband Material
Introduction To Outgrowing Porn (wth Dr. Robert Masters)
Emotional Abuse (with Dr. Jake Porter)
Directing Sexual Energy In Singleness
How To Use The Body To Outgrow Porn (with Andrew Bauman)
Role Playing Betrayal Trauma (with Dr. Eddie Capparucci)
How Do You Define Pornography?
Healing From Spiritual Abuse (with Chris Inman)
Bullying And Same-Sex Attraction (with Jordan Castille)
Unburdening Sexual Arousal (with Dr. Peter Malinoski)
Guided IFS Experiential Exercise (with Dr. Peter Malinoski)
Experience Healing Through IFS (with Dr. Peter Malinoski)
How Much Does She Need To Know About The Porn? (LIVE)
How Porn Affects Children (with Benji Nolot)
How Porn Fuels Sex Trafficking (with Benji Nolot)
Sexual Fluidity And Sexual Plasticity
What Types Of Change Are Possible? (with Rich Wyler)
Habits That Heal (with Shawn Bonneteau)
Becoming Porn Free In 2023
How Do I Help My Hurting Spouse? (with Dr. Eddie Capparucci)
Emotional Fitness (with Sathiya Sam)
How To Be A Great Lover (with Dr. Keith Gregoire)
Authentic Manhood (with Dr. Joe Martin)
What If I'm Sexually Attracted To Myself?
Male Survivors Of Sexual Abuse (with Mike Chapman and Dr. Doug Carpenter)
Find The Boy Within The Man (with Chris Bruno)
How To Break Up With Porn
Emotional Safety (with Alex Avila)
How Can Fathers And Sons Outgrow Porn Together? (with John Fort and Lucas Fort)
Is Covenant Eyes "Shameware"?
From Pain To Purpose (with Rick Carlson)
Porn, Anxiety, And Depression (with Ben Bennett)
The Beauty Of Brotherhood (Psalm 133)
Wisdom After Sexual Betrayal (with Marnie Ferree)
Healing From Sexual Betrayal (with Dr. Sheri Keffer)
Attunement: The Key To Connection
Bent On Men, Part 2 (with Harrison Bly)
Bent On Men, Part 1 (with Harrison Bly)
What Does The Bible Say About Purity? (LIVE)
How To Track Your Heart (with Josh Glaser)
How To Teach Children About Sexuality (with Adam + Karissa King)
Internal Family Systems And Jesus (with Kim Miller)
Outgrowing Porn From A To Z (Part 2)
Outgrowing Porn From A To Z (Part 1)
Neglect: Hidden Trauma (with Stephen Thomas)
Redeeming Heartache (with Cathy Loerzel)
The Five Types Of Intimacy
Get Your Man Cards (with Henry Brown)
Why Porn Is A Solution (with Matt Dobschuetz)
Long Distance Friendship (with Drew, Stephen, Marcus, and Mike)
Becoming Emotionally Mature (with Dr. Eddie Capparucci)
Sexual Arousal vs. Sexual Desire (with Dr. Doug Carpenter)
Should I Count The Days Since I Last Used Porn?
Porn And Centering Prayer (with Matthew Lyda)
The Gospel And Trauma (with Matt Wenger)
How To Heal Your Inner Child: Older Brother Coaching
The Blessing Of Being Reported (with Rich Moore)
Healing Racial Trauma (with Sheila Wise Rowe)
Why Didn’t I Like Vaginas?
How Does God View My Body? (with Matt Cline)
Toxic Shame vs. Healthy Shame (with Dr. Jake Porter)
Vulnerability 101 (LIVE)
The Power Of Identity (with Sathiya Sam)
Rags To Riches To Ruin To Redemption (with Dr. Joe Martin)
How To Reframe A Porn Relapse
Healing From Sexual Abuse, Part 2 (with Mike Chapman)
Healing From Sexual Abuse, Part 1 (with Mike Chapman)
Was I Sexually Abused? (with Dr. Doug Carpenter)
Introduction To Healing Prayer (with Leslie Weinzettel)
Building A Porn-Free Body: Momentum (with Alex VanHouten)
Building A Porn-Free Body: Motivation (with Alex VanHouten)
The Beauty Of Elephant Seals
How To Make Sex Great (with Sheila Wray Gregoire)
Appropriate Nudity Between Men (LIVE)
Healing Sports Wounds (with Stephen Thomas)
Solutions For Stress (with Marcus Spaur)
Five Truths About Forgiveness
The Orphan Spirit (with Dr. Eddie Capparucci)
The Image Of God In You (with Jenna Riemersma)
How Jesus Reverses The Curse
Why Men Need To Play (with Dr. Michael Crocker)
The Power Of Unfiltered Poetry (with Matthew Ray Lyda)
The Cure For Comparison (with Dr. Michael Tso)
Porn Is An Abusive Teacher
Sexual Discipleship (with Dr. Juli Slattery)
Overcoming Enmeshment (with Dr. Ken Adams)
How To Interpret Sexual Fantasies
Why Attachment Is The Key To Healing (with Dr. Jake Porter)
How To Form A Triad (LIVE)
Healthy Male Friendship (with Drew, Stephen, Marcus, and Doug)
Your Brain Off Porn (with Greg Oliver)
The Pirate & The Monk (with Nate Larkin)
Theology of the Testicles
What Is Spiritual Bypass? (with Dr. Craig Cashwell)
From Crisis To Closeness (with Clinton and Charity Muñoz)
Bullying And The Inner Critic (with Dr. Doug Carpenter)
Master Your Nervous System (LIVE)
Healing Mother Wounds (with Dan Hitz)
Theology of the Penis (with Jeremy Williamson)
Emotional Times And Seasons
Psychology And Spirituality (with Dr. Ken McGill)
How To Measure Freedom From Porn (LIVE)
Porn As Re-Enactment Of Sexual Abuse (with Wendell Moss)
Healing Brother Wounds (with Marcus Spaur)
Unwanted Sexual Attraction
The Truth About Erectile Dysfunction (with Shawn Bonneteau)
Embrace Conflict (with Jay Stringer)
BONUS: Drew's Spiritual Warfare Song
Seven Strategies For Spiritual Warfare (LIVE)
Rebuilding Sexual Intimacy After Porn (with Adam King and Karissa King)
Rebuilding Emotional Intimacy After Porn (with Adam King and Karissa King)
The Art Of Affirmation (with Stephen Thomas)
Healing Father Wounds (with Chris Bruno)
Transform Your Thought Life (with Sathiya Sam)
Nine Tips About Triggers
Holy Sexuality & Singleness (with Dr. Christopher Yuan)
A Pastor Finds Freedom From Porn (with Bernie Anderson)
What Should I Do With My Sexual Desires?
Blind Spots In Relationships (with Eddie Capparucci and Stephen Thomas)
Jesus Is Our Pure Hope (with Jasper Hall)
When Porn Seems Like The Only Option...
What Is A Sexually Healthy Man? (with Andrew Bauman)
Fight The New Drug (with Clay Olsen)
How To Relate Like An Adult
Marnie Ferree: Meet The Three Bears
Greg Oliver: Prepare For A Porn-Free Christmas
Stephen Thomas: Shame Is A Terrible Friend
The Gospel For Sexual Sinners (Live)
Josh Glaser: Lust And Love
How To Fall Asleep Without Porn
Laurie Krieg & Matt Krieg: Same-Sex Attraction In Marriage
Dr. Eddie Capparucci: Porn And The Inner Child
Dr. Doug Carpenter: Trauma And Masculinity
Six Skills To Help Men Outgrow Porn (LIVE)
Rodney & Traci Wright: How To Talk With Your Kids About Sex
Why You Should Treat The Sabbath Like Sex
Crystal Renaud Day: Women Struggle With Porn Too
How To Outgrow Porn (Intro to HMA)
Bless The Boy Within You (LIVE)
Three Proven Power Tools To Prevent Porn Relapse
Healing Sexual Bulimia
Rosie Makinney: Help Your Girlfriend Heal
How To Break The Spell Of Domination & Submission (LIVE)
Why Anger Is A Prophet
Dr. Cameron Staley: Free To Be Present
Guided Meditation with Dr. Cameron Staley
From Distracted To Disciplined
The Secret Behind Sexual Fetishes (LIVE)
Nick Stumbo: Free To Be Known
How To Find A Great Mentor
Guided Meditation by Jenna Riemersma
Jenna Riemersma: Move Toward, Not Against
When You Get An Erection...
The Exact Path To Freedom From Porn
What Does The Bible Say About Porn?
Andrew Bauman: Free To Grieve (Part 2 of 2)
Andrew Bauman: Free For Beauty (Part 1 of 2)
Five Failures of Purity Culture
Sathiya Sam: Free To Choose
Why Porn Is A Pacifier
Why I Bought “Porn For Women”
Should I Delete Instagram?
Shawn Bonneteau: Free For Life
Does Marriage Makes It Easier To Quit Porn?
How to Process Your Past
What's Your Attachment Style?
Trevor Winsor: Free From Secrets
Four Ways To Reparent Yourself
Same-Sex Attraction
Where Do Sexual Fantasies Come From?
Frank Rich: Free From Limits
Should I Tell My Parents I Struggle With Porn?
The Truth About Penis Size
Four Levels Of Freedom From Porn
Rocky Pisor: Free From Shame
How To Handle Overwhelming Sexual Urges
The F.L.O.S.S. Method
Ben Bennett: Free To Be Whole
Ten Reasons To Quit Porn
Your Struggle With Porn Is Not Your Fault
Accountability Is Dead
Cooper Cadle: Free To Be A Father
Three Secrets To Self Control
Thirteen Ideas For Incredible Allies
How To Find Allies (Without Being Awkward)
Sexual Dreams
Six Myths About Masturbation
Why You May Have Lost Your "Streak"
Five Ways Your Phone Can Help You Quit Porn
Redeemed Sexuality (Live at Messiah College)
What To Do When You See Attractive People
Should I Use Accountability Software?
Three Steps To Smartphone Safety
Drew's Story Of Freedom
How Long Does It Take To Quit Porn?
Replace Your New Year's Resolutions
How To Rebound From Relapse (Without Shame, Stress, Or More Relapse)
Introducing: Husband Material