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School of Midlife — 185 episodes

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183. Did You Actually Choose This Life? Or Did You Just Do What Was Expected?

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182. Why Your Cholesterol, Your Weight, and Your Brain Fog May Be Hormone Problems | Conversation with Tammy Hadfield

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181. You Keep Saying "Someday." Here's What That's Actually Costing You

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180. Dream Job, Perfect Life...and Still Feeling Like Something Was Missing. Here's What She Did About It | Conversation with Hillary Dater

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179. There Are Only 15 Summer Weekends. Are You Wasting Them...or Ruining Them Trying Not To?

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178. The Worst Thing a Leader Can Do, According to a Coach Who's Worked With 1,000 of Them | Conversation with Allison Dunn

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177. It's Time to Shoot Your Shot -- Even When You'd Rather Look Away

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176. You Already Know the Answer. So Why Haven't You Made the Decision?

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175. Fewer Years Ahead Than Behind: A Radical Wake-Up Call for High-Achieving Women

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174. Who Am I Now? The Silent Identity Crisis of Midlife Women During Graduation Season

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173. The Vacation Guilt Trap: Why High-Achieving Women Are Afraid to Pause

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172. Bravery in the Pivot: An Honest Conversation with Annie Tevelin About Next Chapters, Personal Sovereignty, and Choosing Purpose over Pressure

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171. Stop Choosing! Why Executive Coaching Is Failing High-Achieving Women

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170. The Post-Retreat Hangover: Why Your New Life Disappears on Monday (and What to Do Instead)

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169. "I Thought It Was Just Me": The Secret Relief of Finding Your People in Midlife

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168. The Missing Link to Your Best Life: Why You Must Claim What You Only Dared to Want

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167. Stop Coasting! The "Sleeper Quarter" Secret to Saving Your Year

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166. Is Your Career More Important Than Your Life? The Hard Truth Every Midlife Woman Needs to Hear

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165. The "Me First" Movement in Midlife: Time to Put Yourself First (And Stop Feeling Guilty About It)

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164. You Might Be 75% to Living Your Best Life (And Not Even Know It)

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163. You Don't Need a New Life. You Need a New Perspective.

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162. Just Because You’re Good at It Doesn’t Mean You Should Keep Doing It

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161. Stop Keeping Score: A Midlife Reset for Your Relationship

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160. The Life You Have vs. The Life You Want

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159. What Got You Here Won't Get You There

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158. From Fear Frequency to Fulfillment: How to Reclaim Your Midlife Power

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157. They Want You Quiet. Why Midlife Is the Time to Get Loud.

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156. If You’re Still Waiting for the Right Time, This Is Your Midlife Wake-Up Call

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155. SMART Goals Are Ruining Your Personal Life—Here's What to Do Instead

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154. Reset Without Burning Out: How to Build a Life You Actually Want This Year

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153. Stop Skipping the Most Important Part: The Year-End Ritual Every Midlife Woman Needs

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152. The Holiday Episode Every Overwhelmed Midlife Woman Needs to Hear

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151. Hope Is Not a Strategy: How to Create a Midlife You Love Now

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150. When You Finally Trust Yourself Enough to Start Living the Life You Actually Want | Conversation with Wendy Harrop

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149. From Dream to Departure: The Midlife Retreat That Changes Everything

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148. Why You Should Treat Midlife As Your Most Important Dress Rehearsal | Conversation with Francine Azel

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147. Modeling Good Midlife Behavior, Including Feeling All the Anxiety and Excitement

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146. From Retirement to Reinvention: How One Woman Unlocked Her Hidden Creativity | Conversation with Kathi Holzer

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145. What Are You Actually Claiming in Midlife? (Because Hoping Isn't Enough)

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144. The Real Reason Diets Don't Work After 40 (And What Actually Does) | with Juliana Leamen

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143. You’re Not Here to Be the Martyr: Reclaiming Your Life in Midlife

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142. From Abuse to Act Three: How One Woman Rebuilt Her Life (and a Business) | Conversation with Megan Hodgdon

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141. What If This Isn’t All There Is? The Real Talk You’ve Been Avoiding

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140. Stronger, Not Smaller: The Midlife Health Reframe You Didn't Know You Needed | A Conversation with Renee Bellinger

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139. Midlife Isn't a Crisis. It's the Opportunity You've Been Waiting for

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138. Don’t Lose Her: Keeping the “Retreat You” in Everyday Life

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137. You Don't Need Their Permission Anymore (Midlife Truth Bomb)

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136. When You Finally Decide to Stop Waiting and Start Living | A Conversation with Judith Balis

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135. Why You Still Feel “Not Enough” in Midlife After Crushing Big Goals—and How to Fix It

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134. What If You Could Stop Feeling Guilty for Doing What's Best for You? | A Conversation with Jessica Frew

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133. No Boys Allowed: Why Midlife Women Need Spaces of Their Own | Replay

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132. Why Smart Women Procrastinate (And What Clutter Is Trying to Tell You) | A Conversation with Dr. Christine Li

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131. Life Lately, Real Talk, and What's Next for the School of Midlife

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130. The Midlife Wake-Up Call You Didn't Know You Needed | Replay

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129. How to Escape the Midlife Achievement Trap | Replay

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128. Stop Waiting for January—Your Midlife Reset Starts Now

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127. What to Do When the Life You Built Isn't the Life You Want? | Replay

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126. The Real Flex in Midlife? Being Able to Say, “I’m Good” and Mean It

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125. The Mountain That Changed Me: A Midlife Woman’s 3-Day Trail Challenge | Part 1 of the 29029 TRAIL Challenge

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124. You Didn't Come This Far to Only Come This Far: Lessons from the Final Climb | Part 2 of the 29029 TRAIL Challenge

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123. The Real Midlife Crisis: Thinking You Have More Time Than You Actually Do

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122. Stop Performing, Start Becoming: Your Midlife Declaration of Freedom

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121. After the Unraveling: How to Reconnect with Who You Really Are in Midlife

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120. Feeling "Off" in Midlife? Maybe You Were Never "That Woman" to Begin With

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119. Midlife Feels Off? It’s Not Your Hormones—It’s Something Deeper

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118. Are You in Midlife? If You're Asking Big Questions, You Already Are

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117. Two Panic Attacks, One Funeral, and Zero Regrets: My Midlife Reboot

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116. Postcards from the Beach: Ass-Sitting and Other Essential Midlife Skills | Replay

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115. The "Me First" Movement: The Revolution for Midlife Women

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114. Closer Than You Think: Why You Might Already Be 75% to Your Best Life

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113. Redefining Success in Midlife: Why Chasing More Won't Make You Happier | Replay

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112. Midlife Confidence in the Bedroom Starts Here—No Intercourse Required | Lee Jagger (Replay)

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111. The Truth About Balance: Why You're Burned Out (And It's Not Your Fault) | Replay

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110. The Career, the House, the Family…and Still Unfulfilled? You’re Not Alone (And Here’s What to Do)

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109. Midlife "Crisis" Is a Lie (Here's What's Actually Going On)

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108. "You've Changed." Why That May Be the Highest Compliment Paid to a Midlife Woman

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107. From Mindset to Motion: How to Move Beyond Thinking and Start Doing

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106. From Midlife Obligation to Opportunity: The Power of Changing Two Words

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105. The Midlife Realization: Are You Living the Life You Truly Want?

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104. No Plane Ticket Required: Creating a Life You Don't Need a Vacation From

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103. 3 Simple Ways to Keep Intimacy Alive in Your Midlife Marriage | Replay

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102. From Crisis to Opportunity: Redefining the Midlife Experience for High-Performing Women

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101. Striving vs. Thriving in Midlife: How to Stop Chasing and Start Living

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100. Take Out the Trash: Why You Need to Change How You Think to Transform Your Life

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99. You're Just One Decision Away from Living the Life You Want in 2025

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98. How You Can Be in Service to Others When "I'm So Sorry" Just Doesn't Seem to Cut It

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97. The Real Reason the "New Year-New Me" Mentality Is Holding You Back (and What to Do Instead)

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96. Want 2025 to Be Your Best Year Yet? Do This Before You Get Started!

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95. The Perfect Gift You Don't Even Need to Wrap: Take a Gap Year

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94. Midlife Gap Year: 12 Months to Figure Out Who You Want to Be When You Grow Up | Moya Dolsby

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93. Why C+ Holidays Are the Best Holidays [Replay]

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92. The One Question to Ask Yourself to Avoid Feeling Overwhelmed by All of the Holiday "To Do's"

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91. Leaving Home to Remember Exactly Who You Are When You Come Back

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90. Boundaries Are the Best Way to Protect Your Sanity This Holiday Season

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89. Healthy Habits Are This Season's Best Gift to Your Future Midlife Self

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88. Election Day Anxiety: 5 Ways to Stay Calm When the World Feels Chaotic

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87. Why SMART Goals Are Ruining Your Life

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86. Masquerading Through Midlife: Removing the Masks We Wear to Show Up as Our Authentic Selves

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85. The Case for New Experiences: Why You Need to Go Away to Remember Who You Are When You Get Back Home

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84. Who Run the World? Why the School of Midlife Is Not Co-Ed

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83. Luxury Travel in Midlife: Leaving on a Jet Plane for the Price of Groceries and Gas | Megan Lanford

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82. The Surprising Reasons Midlife Women Have Emotional Affairs and the Relationship to the Rise in Grey Divorce

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81. When You Accidentally Manifest What You Don't Want: Three Simple Life Lessons Learned from a Health Scare

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80. Clock's Ticking: Time to Stop Waiting to Live Your Best Life

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79. In Our Sandwich Era: Navigating Tricky Conversations with Our Parents

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78. Don't Touch Me! 3 Simple Ways to Avoid Meno-Rage Ruining Intimacy in Your Midlife Marriage

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77. If Loving Yourself Was Easy, We'd All Be Doing It

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76. Beyond Comparison: Creating Your Midlife on Your Own Terms

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75. Best Life Retreat: Why You Deserve a Weekend Away | Monica Sowders

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74. Midlife Beauty: Way Deeper Than Skin-Deep | Annie Tevelin (Part 2)

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73. Beyond Botox: Midlife Skincare to Help You Love the Skin You're In | Annie Tevelin (Part 1)

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72. Mind the Gap: Your Life Can Be Dramatically Different in 1 Year

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71. More Than Hot Flashes: What a Doctor Wants You to Know About Hormonal Impact on Gut and Brain Health | Dr. Laura DeCesaris (Part 2)

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70. Not Just Hot Flashes: What a Doctor Wants You to Know About Hormones | Dr. Laura DeCesaris (Part 1)

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69. Are You Really What You Eat? | Emilee Wise

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68. Dreaming with Your Eyes Wide Open: Creating the Life You Want to Live

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67. Why "Someday" Shouldn't Be Your Retirement Plan

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66. The Best Is Yet to Come! Midlife Reflections on Graduation Season

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65. Stop Going It Alone: Why Midlife Women Need Community | Heather Johnson Durocher (Part 2)

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64. Feel Like Every Part of Your Life Is in Transition? You're Not Alone | Heather Johnson Durocher (Part 1)

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63. The Surprising Connection Between Your Sleep Mindset and Stress Level | Rebecca Vigelius

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62. Back and Better Than Ever!

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61. Want to Love Your Midlife Body? Do This | Jen Bobodzhanov

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60. Rethink Everything You Thought You Knew About Nutrition | Taryn Perry

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59. The #1 Midlife Confidence Booster That You're Not Using | Laura Tully

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58. What No One Tells You About Midlife Relationships | Kellie Resue

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57. Using Human Design to Make Better Midlife Decisions | Lori Lisai (Part 2)

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56. Live More Authentically You Through Human Design | Lori Lisai (Part 1)

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55. Why It's Harder to Parent Your Parents Than Your Own Kids

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54. Feeling Stuck in Midlife? Here's What to Do | Jolene Atkinson-Kruse

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Are You a Midlife Woman in Transition?

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53. Not Your Mother's Midlife

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52. Stop Believing Everything You Think: The Truth About Limiting Beliefs

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51. Dreaming with Your Eyes Wide Open: Creating a Life You Want to Live

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50. Why "Good Enough" Should Be Your New "Perfect"

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49. One-Two Punch: Is it Cold and Flu Season or Constant Stress That's Making You Sick?

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48. Got a Free Weekend? You Can Change Your Life | Monica Sowders

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47. It's Not Your Fault: The Top 3 Reasons You're Not Living the Life You Want

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46. Beyond Dry January: Is Alcohol Serving You? | Jennifer Fox

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45. Want Goals Achieved? Start with Tiny Habits Formed

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44. One Thing at a Time: The Key to Creating Your Best Year Ever

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43. Hoping for Your Best Year Yet? Start With Your Year-End Review

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42. BONUS: Closing Time: The Best 11 Questions for an Effective Year-End Review (Part 3)

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41. BONUS: Closing Time: Initial Impressions of 2023 (Part 2)

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40. BONUS: Closing Time: Why Complete a Year-End Review? (Part 1)

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39. 52 Candles: Hard, Vulnerable + Honest Lessons Learned This Year

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38. Beating the Holiday Blues: When Festive Feels Like a Farce (Part 6 of the Have Yourself a Merry Little Midlife Holiday)

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37. Boundaries to Fight Holiday Burnout with Erica Davis (Part 5 of the Have Yourself a Merry Little Midlife Holiday Series)

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36. Why the Best Holidays Are C+ Holidays (Part 4 of the Have Yourself a Merry Little Midlife Holiday Series)

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35. Enjoy Thanksgiving This Year - Yes, Even With Family Drama (Part 3 of the Have Yourself a Merry Little Midlife Holiday Series)

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34. Saying "No" Won't Land You on the Naughty List (Part 2 of the Have Yourself a Merry Little Midlife Holiday Series)

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33. Healthy Habits Are This Season's Gift to Your Future Self (Part 1 of the Have Yourself a Merry Little Midlife Holiday Series)

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32. Unmasking the Real Me: My Complicated Relationship with Halloween

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31. Big Moves in Midlife: How to Know If It's Time for a Major Life Shift

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30. The Morning 5-10-5: My Secret to an Intentional Morning

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29. Breaking Free: Overcoming Limiting Beliefs in Midlife

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28. Redefining Success: What Does It Mean to You?

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27. Work-Life Balance Is Bullsh*t

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26. When Roles Reverse: Caring for Aging Parents with Compassion

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25. The Trouble with "Someday" Thinking: Why We Assume Our Best Life Is Still Ahead

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24. Time to Move On: Knowing When to Quit

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23. Now What? How to Find Fulfillment in Midlife

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22. The Most Wonderful Time of the Year: Why Fall Is the Best Time for a Reset

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21. Beyond Comparison: 2 Questions Every Midlife Woman Needs to Answer for Herself

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20. Rock the Bedroom: How to Have the Best Sex of Your Life Without Intercourse | Lee Jagger

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19. Write Your Future: Manifesting the Life You Want Through Journaling

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18. Ties That Bind: Exploring the Power of Midlife Friendship at a Personal Wellness Retreat

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17. It's Independence Day: Time to Make Some Personal Declarations

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16. Mid-Year Momentum: How a Look Back at the First 6 Months Will Elevate the Next 6 Months

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15. Beyond the Bucket List: Living Life's Adventures Before Time Runs Out

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14. Peak Perspectives: 15 Ascents and the Mindset Lessons Learned Along the Way

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13. Jet-Set Chic: Stylish Summer Travel with Carry-On Couture | Haley Lamey

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12. More Than the Finisher's Medal: Why I Train for Endurance Events

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11. What Do You Want? How to Go from Profoundly Unfulfilled to Living Your Best Life

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10. BONUS: Riffing on the Emotional Complexities of a Holiday Devoted to Motherhood

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9. Sorry, Not Sorry: Stop Undermining Your Credibility in the Workplace

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8. Starting Your Day Right: The Power of Morning Routines

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7. There Is No Such Thing as Work-Life Balance

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6. Why Setting Healthy Boundaries Is So Hard -- But Important -- for Midlife Women

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5. Love the One You're With (Or Not): Grey Divorce, Midlife Affairs and More

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4. The Best Planning Framework: Accomplish More in Less Time

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3. BONUS: Power of 3

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2. Was I a Job Whore?

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1. My Year of Good Enough

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