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Sober Powered: The Neuroscience of Being Sober — 360 episodes

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E328: Why Dabbling Keeps You Stuck in the Drinking Cycle

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Self-Care is NOT Temporarily Turning Off Your Brain (Replay)

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E327: The “Maybe It’ll Be Different This Time” Fantasy

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E326: Why Alcohol Looks Better in Your Memory Than It Was In Reality

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E325: When the courage to quit shows up, don’t assume it will still be there tomorrow

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Running on Autopilot Mode (Replay)

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E324: Going to a Drinking Party 6 Years Sober: 5 Things I Noticed

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E323: Long Term Sobriety: One Tool to Use & One Trap to Look Out For

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E322: Middle Sobriety: One Tool to Use & One Trap to Look Out For

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E321: Early Sobriety: One Tool to Use & One Trap to Look Out For

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E320: No Rock Bottom? Try This Instead

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E319: Why “Not Right Now” Keeps You Stuck and “Forever” Sets You Free

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The Geographical Cure: If Only X Would Change, Then I Wouldn’t Have to Drink So Much

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ADHD and Alcohol Use Disorder: Understanding the Link (Replay)

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E318: Why Your Commitment to Sobriety Keeps Disappearing

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E317: One Reason Some People Stay Sober and Others Don’t

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E316: The Hidden Pattern Behind Productivity, Procrastination, and People Pleasing

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E315: The “I’ll Deal With It Later” Trap

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E314: Why Emotions Turn Into “I’m Stuck,” “This Will Never Change,” or “I Can’t Handle This”

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E313: The Nervous System in Sobriety: Why You Feel Wired, Exhausted, or Overwhelmed, and How Regulation Returns

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E312: Ambivalence in Early and Long Term Sobriety

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Cravings Increase After Quitting Drinking and Peak Around 60 Days Sober and 6 Months Sober (Replay)

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E311: Sugar Cravings in Sobriety: When Comfort Becomes a Crutch

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E310: Emotional Sobriety: Why Quitting Drinking Isn’t Enough

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E309: Early Sobriety Fatigue: What’s Actually Happening in Your Brain

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E308: Does Dry January Actually Change People’s Drinking Habits? What the Research Says

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How the Brain Recovers After Quitting Drinking From 1 Day to 7 Years (Replay)

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The Witching Hour Without Booze: What’s Happening in the Brain Between 5–9 PM

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Health Benefits of Dry January: What to Expect

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How to do Dry January Differently This Year With Casey Davidson and Suzanne Warye

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E307: 4 Biggest Challenges People Struggle With During Dry January & How to Deal

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E306: The Sobriety Audit: What Changed This Year (And What Didn’t)

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6 Ways to Protect Your Energy During the Holidays

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E305: Why the Holidays Create Tons of Stress & One Helpful Tool to Stay Regulated

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E304: Family Dynamics, the Relapse Mindset, and 7 Drinking Permission Slips We Create to Ease the Tension

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E303: “I Should Be Further Along By Now”

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Non-Alcoholic Drinks: The Pros and Cons (Rebroadcast)

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E302: Feeling Like a Normal Person Again After 8-10 Months

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E301: The Self-Worth Ceiling: How Low Self-Esteem Fuels Self-Sabotage

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E300: How Problem Drinking Develops and Escalates

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E299: Social Drinking: Drinking to Fit In

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E298: Coping Drinking: Drinking to Feel Less

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E297: Enhancement Drinking: Drinking to Feel More

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E296: The Science of Why We Drink: An Overview of Drinking Motives

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I Learned to Swim in My 30's!

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E295: The Feeling of Lost Time From All the Years We Spent Drinking

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E294: Why Stress and Emotions Feel Intolerable Without Alcohol

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Why Shame Blocks Change

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E293: Tolerance and the Disappearing Buzz

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E292: Why One Drink is Never Enough

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E291: Why You May Still Crave Alcohol Long Term, and Why No Cravings Doesn’t Mean You’re “Cured”

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Thinking About Drinking Constantly, Then Thinking About Sobriety Constantly

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E290: How to Quit Drinking Without Hitting Rock Bottom

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The Most Important Thinking Shift I Made in Sobriety

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E289: Emotional Tunnel Vision: When Little Problems are a Big Deal

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E288: How to “Sit With It” Without Avoiding, Suppressing, Ruminating, or Escaping

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E287: Are You “Strong Enough” or Just Stubborn? (Self-Control & Willpower)

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5 Year Podversary Q&A (E286 Part 2)

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E286: How This Podcast Changed My Life (Happy 5 Years to Sober Powered)

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E285: How Exercise Helps Your Brain and Body Heal From Alcohol (and How to Get Started)

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E284: Reward Substitution: Healthy vs. Harmful Replacements for Alcohol

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E283: Alcohol Shortens Your Perception of Time (Instant Gratification)

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E282: Minimizing, Rationalizing, and the Myth of “I Wasn’t That Bad”

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E281: Why Your Brain Makes Drinking Look Better Than It Was

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E280: Romanticizing Alcohol: What’s Going on in Your Brain

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E279: The Pendulum Effect of Healing

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E278: Intrusive Thoughts About Drinking When You’re Already Sober & 3 Ways to Deal

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E277: Being Willing to Start is the Hardest Part (“The Work”)

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E276: A Burst of Mental Clarity at 60 Days Sober (Cognitive Healing)

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E275: 3 Ways Alcohol Damages the Heart and How to Have Good Heart Health in Sobriety

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E274: High Dopamine, Low Effort Behaviors and Making Sobriety Feel Less Hard

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E273: How the Sober Brain Breaks Down Alcohol Associations (But They’ll Build Back Up if You Drink Again)

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E272: 6 Habits That Make My Life Better

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E271: Alcohol, Career Stress, and the Lie of “I Function Just Fine”

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E270: Cravings Increase After Quitting Drinking and Peak Around 60 Days Sober and 6 Months Sober

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E269: Running on Autopilot Mode

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Making Friends After Getting Sober (Mini Coaching Call)

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E268: Is Moderate Drinking Healthier? Here’s Why So Many Studies Say Yes

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E267: Resources vs Support: Are You Setting Yourself Up for Success?

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E266: Can You Drink After Taking a Break?

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E265: Rewiring Your Reward System After Getting Sober

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E264: Here’s Why You Have Mood Swings After Quitting Drinking

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E263: Sugar Cravings After Quitting Drinking

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Alcohol and Cancer Risk (Surgeon General Warning Explained)

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E262: 31 Tips to Quit Drinking in Dry January

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E261: The Psychology of New Year's Resolutions (Willpower and Goal Setting)

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E260: 5 Holiday Mental Health Challenges

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E259: 10 Things You Might Be Doing to Sabotage Your Sobriety During the Holidays

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E258: The Science of Peer Pressure to Drink and 7 Strategies to Resist

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E257: Sober Socializing: Why Alcohol Doesn’t Help

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E256: Dealing With Your Dysfunctional Family Without Drinking

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E255: 6 Strategies For Staying Sober Through the Holidays (and Some Holidays Drinking Statistics)

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I'm 5 Years Sober: Here's How I Reached Acceptance

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E254: Why You Can’t Make Good Decisions About Your Drinking (or Anything Else)

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E253: 5 Common Mistakes in Early Sobriety and How to Avoid Them

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E252: How Many Attempts Does it Take to Quit Drinking for Good

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E251: Here’s Why You’re Emotions Are So Intense

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E250: What Does it Mean to “Be Ready” to Get Sober

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E249: Alcohol and Cortisol: Extra Stress and Extra Cravings

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E248: You Can’t Be Comfortable AND Stay Sober

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E247: Sober Sleep is the Best Sleep, But Not Right Away

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E246: Alcohol and Dementia

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E245: Want to Stay Sober? You Need to Be Consistent

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E244: Boredom in Sobriety

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E243: Emotional Eating After Getting Sober

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E242: The Science of Making Good Habits in Long Term Sobriety

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E241: 6 Theories of Alcohol Cravings

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E240: Post-Acute Withdrawal Syndrome (PAWS) After Quitting Drinking: 8 Tips to Cope

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E0: How Alcohol Affects Your Body: Here's What the Science Says

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E239: How the Brain Heals After Quitting Drinking

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E238: Why Moderation Doesn’t Work

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E237: Why We Forget How Bad It Was

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E236: Why Alcohol Feels Good and Then Feels Really Bad

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E235: Dopamine and Loss of Control

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E234: The Scary Side of How Alcohol Affects the Body

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E233: How Alcohol Affects the Body: A Deep Dive

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E232: The 3am Wake Up of Shame: Alcohol and Anxiety

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E231: Everything You Need to Know About Alcohol Withdrawal

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E230: 11 Tips to Quit Drinking in Dry July

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E229: 5 Mindset Shifts to Help You Stay Sober (That Aren’t Stupid)

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E228: Why Alcohol Automatically Captures and Holds Your Attention

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E227: You Need a Goal (200 lb Deadlift Achieved!)

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E226: Using Alcohol to Escape Your Life

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E225: 5 Strategies for Dealing with Relapses and Getting Back on Track

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E224: Alcohol Makes Your Brain Stop Working

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E223: 6 Common Triggers for Drinking and How to Avoid Them

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E222: 6 Neurotransmitters That Get Messed Up By Alcohol

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E221: 5 Ways to Redefine Fun Without Alcohol

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E220: The Hippocampus and Alcohol: Blackouts, Memory Deficits, and Learned Associations

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E219: 7 Healthy Lifestyle Changes to Support Your Sobriety

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E218: In the Moment Craving vs Constant Craving

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E217: Warm Weather: 3 Reasons We Think Alcohol is Required

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E216: 4 Types of Impulsivity: Which One Are You?

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E215: 5 Different Ways of Thinking About Sobriety

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E214: Self-Medicating with Alcohol

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E213: Self-Care is NOT Temporarily Turning Off Your Brain (Getting "Me Time")

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E212: Why Some People Get Sober and Others Don’t (Resilience and Epigenetics)

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E211: The Anticipation of the Drink

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E210: Good News, Your Brain Heals A LOT After 90 Days Sober… Unless You Relapse

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E209: How Porn Addiction Affects the Brain

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E208: Stress, Depression and Our Eating Habits

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E207: 15 Milestones to Look Forward to in Sobriety (Sober Timeline)

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E206: HALT: Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired

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E205: Kindling in Alcohol Withdrawal

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E204: Can Anyone Get Addicted to Alcohol?

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E203: Why You Still Want Alcohol Even When You Hate It (It’s Dopamine!)

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E202: WTF is “The Work”?

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E201: Your Dysregulated Stress Response

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E200: My Greatest Shame

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E199: Frustration Tolerance

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E198: 5 Ways Anger Management Changed My Life

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My Favorite Things I Learned in February and How to Apply Them to Your Life

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E197: Making the DECISION to Quit Drinking

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Do You Want to be Sober or Do You Want to Drink Without the Consequences? (Replay)

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E196: How the Brain Recovers After Quitting Drinking

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E195: When Does Sobriety Get Better?

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E194: 5 Stupid Coping Skills That Work

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E193: Feeling More Emotional and Anxious? How’s Your Sleep?

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My Favorite Things I Learned in January and How to Apply Them to Your Life

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E192: Do You Need a Drink or Are You Just Hungry? (Alcohol & Ghrelin)

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E191: Going Back and Forth Makes Your Cravings Stronger

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E190: Non-Alcoholic Drinks: The Pros and Cons

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E189: How the Brain Regulates Emotions & Impulses (Rumination & Retaliation)

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E188: Wellness Over Weight Loss

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How Many More Years Do You Want to Spend Thinking "It's Not That Bad?" (Gray Area Drinking)

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E187: How Multiple Cycles of Withdrawal Impacts the Recovery of Your Brain

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E186: Anger Management

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How Nutrition Can Support Your Sobriety with Dr. Brooke Scheller

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E185: Unexpected Things That Happen in Early Sobriety

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E184: Benefits of Dry January: What the Research Says

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Your Guide to Dry January with Casey Davidson, Suzanne Warye, Erinn O'Neill and Michaela Horvathova

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My First Sober Christmas

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E183: To Drink or Not to Drink? How Your Brain Decides

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"But Everyone Drinks Like Me"... No They Don't

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E182: Why You Drink Habitually Without Thinking

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Losing Friends When You Quit Drinking

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E181: Why You Keep Drinking and Expecting it to be Different

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"Why Aren't You Drinking?"

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E180: Why Your Drinking Gets Worse Over Time, Not Better

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Navigating Holiday Parties Sober

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E179: Sober Holiday Tips with Paul Churchill, Casey Davidson, and Veronica Valli

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E178: Why You Lose Your Motivation to Quit Drinking

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E177: 4 Years Sober: Why Did This Happen to Me?

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E176: We Have to Grieve Alcohol (It’s Ok to Miss it)

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E175: Tired After Quitting Drinking? Here’s How to Boost Your Energy Levels

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E174: Why Routine is Important in Sobriety

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E173: What To Do With Your Days After a Slip

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E172: Guide to Your First Week Sober

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E171: Sober October Tips with Casey Davidson, Suzanne Warye and Amanda E. White

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E170: Here’s Why the First Year of Sobriety is So Hard (It’s Dopamine)

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E169: Alcohol and Gut Health

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E168: Is Drinking the Only Way to Meet People? (Dating, Socializing and FOMO)

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E167: What to Expect With Your Anxiety When You Quit Drinking

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E166: Cravings and Staying Stuck in Your Old Life with Angela Pugh

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E165: I Quit Sugar for 30 Days

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E164: How Taking Breaks from Drinking Helped Me Quit For Good

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E163: Can We Learn to Moderate Our Drinking?

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E162: What to Expect Cognitively in Early Sobriety

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E161: What to Expect Emotionally in Early Sobriety

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E160: Reflecting on the Early Days of Our Sobriety with Eric Zimmer, Laura Cathcart Robbins and Paul Churchill

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E159: What to Expect Physically When You Quit Drinking

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E158: Dry July: 7 Things You Need to Know to Get Started

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Q2: How to Answer “Why Aren’t You Drinking?”

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E157: Fatigue and Brain Fog in Early Sobriety

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E156: 55 Tips to Quit Drinking

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How Dopamine Impacts Your Level of Motivation

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E155: My Career Journey (Teaching, Biotech and Working for Myself)

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E154: Keep Coming Back. Relapse is Not the End

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Q1: Do Drinking Dreams Ever Go Away?

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E153: Surviving the Summer Sober: 5 Challenges You Might Face

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E152: Anxiety and Depression Increases Your Risk of Negative Consequences from Your Drinking

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E151: Why Your Attempts to Quit Drinking Aren't Working

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[Bonus] When You Can't Take Stress Off Your Plate

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E150: 15 Moderation Strategies I Tried to Gain Control of My Drinking

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E149: How Alcohol Affects the Nervous System

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E148: 5 Skills That Keep Me Sober

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[Bonus] If You Numb the Bad, Then You Numb the Good Too

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E147: Staying Sober Through Intense Emotional Pain

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E146: Is Alcohol Addiction a Disease?

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E145: ADHD and Alcohol Use Disorder: Understanding the Link

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E144: Why We Self-Sabotage with Alcohol

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E143: How to Stay Accountable in Your Sobriety

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E142: The Pressure of Needing to Hold it All Together with Laura Cathcart Robbins

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E141: It’s Not Your Fault, But it is Your Responsibility with Laura McKowen

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E140: When You Quit Drinking But Don’t Feel Better with Dr. Brooke Scheller, DCN, CNS

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E139: 5 Reasons Why You Can’t Stay Sober

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E138: 5 Ways Problem Drinkers Think Differently

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E136: Why We Think We're Weak-Willed Losers

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E135: Lack of Consequences with Casey Davidson

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E134: Coping with Boredom in Sobriety

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E133: 4 Podcasters Share the Journey from Questioning Our Drinking to Quitting Drinking for Good

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E132: How to Quit Drinking and Get Past the First Week

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E130: Transfer Addiction: Swapping 1 Problem for Another

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E129: Why it’s Critical to Work on Your Perspective

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E128: Why Cravings are So Powerful

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E127: Why You Obsess About Your Drinking

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E126: Sober Nutrition: Extreme Hunger and Cravings

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E125: Why You Can’t Stop Drinking Once You Start

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E124: How Long Does it Take to Fully Recover? (3 Years Sober)

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E123: Recognizing You Need to Quit Drinking with Dr. Matt Glowiak, PhD, LCPC, CAADC, NCC

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E122: How Exercise Can Help Your Recovery

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E121: What if it Never Gets “Bad Enough” to Quit for Good with Eric Zimmer

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E120: How Does Chronic Stress Affect the Brain?

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E119: Why We Can’t Cope With Anything

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E118: Your Guide to Sober Sex With Dr. Nazanin Moali

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E117: Why Sobriety Eventually Just Clicks

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E116: Drinking Envy and Wishing You Could Be “Normal”

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E115: Why You Aren’t Ready to Quit Drinking and How to Get Ready

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E114: Why We Believe Alcohol Helps and How to Break These Beliefs

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E113: Introducing Sober Powered Media

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E112: Drinking More Coffee in Sobriety? Here’s Why

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E111: Drinking Alone Drastically Increases Your Risk of Getting Addicted

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E110: 5 Reasons People Relapse and What To Do About It

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E109: New Study: People Under 40 Shouldn’t Drink Alcohol

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E108: Alcohol and Dynorphin

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E107: 10 Things No One Tells You About Quitting Drinking

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E106: Why You Feel Overwhelmed (The Amygdala Hijack)

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E105: Do We Just Need More Willpower?

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E104: Why Alcohol Doesn’t Help You Cope with Dr. Ashish Bhatt, MD, MRO

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E103: Why We Use Alcohol to Enhance Our Experiences

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E102: Alcohol and Your Dysregulated Nervous System With Beth Bowen, LMSW

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E101: Does Alcohol Really Unlock Creativity?

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E100: Dr. Lembke Returns to Discuss Radical Honesty and Self-Awareness

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E99: Why We Can Never Drink Again (Neuroplasticity and Permanent Changes)

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E98: Emotion Intensity and How to Start Self-Regulating

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E97: Why We Keep Believing it’ll be Different this Time

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E96: Does Craving Sugar Increase Your Risk of Relapse?

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E95: Surprise, Moderate Drinking Isn’t Good for Your Heart (New Study)

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E94: Drinking to Cope or Numb Out Doesn't Help, Here's How to Really Cope

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E93: Alcohol-Related Deaths Increased By 25% in 2020

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E92: Why Don’t We Realize Our Drinking is a Problem?

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E91: Do You Want to be Sober or Do You Want to Drink Without the Consequences?

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E90: New Study Finds Just One Drink Shrinks Your Brain, or Does it?

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E89: How Dopamine Strengthens Our Cravings and Weakens Our Willpower

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E88: Sibling Studies: Why One Develops a Problem and the Other Doesn't

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E87: Why Shame Increases Loss of Control Over Alcohol and How to Manage Shame

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E86: Why Helping Others Helps You Stay Sober

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E85: Biased Alcohol Studies vs Reality

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E84: Does Alcohol Really Taste Good and Feel Pleasurable?

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E83: What to Expect Emotionally in the First 90 Days

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E82: So You Quit Drinking, Now is When the Work Starts with Amanda E. White, LPC

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E81: Why We Drink: Social Drinkers vs Problem Drinkers

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E80: Benefits of a Dry Month

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E79: Why We Romanticize Alcohol

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E77: Are Non-Alcoholic Drinks Okay to Drink?

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E76: Learning the Truth About Your Drinking with Dr. Anna Lembke, Author of Dopamine Nation

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E75: How Sleep Improves from Actively Drinking to Long Term Sobriety

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E74: Resilience Impacts How Much You Drink

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E73: The Obsession May Eventually Even Out (I’m 2 Years Sober)

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E72: Trauma Makes it Even More Difficult to Handle Our Emotions

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E71: Trauma May Make Drugs and Alcohol Feel More Pleasurable

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E70: How the Brain Balances Reward and Consequences

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E69: Alcohol Shrinks the Brain... But What Does That Mean?

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E68: How Heavy Drinking Changes the Way We Make Decisions

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E67: How Alcohol Impacts Cortisol and Causes Cravings

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E66: What Increases Our Risk of Relapse

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E65: What Happens to the Body When You Binge Drink

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E64: Anxiety and Alcohol (Part 2)

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E63: Why Alcohol Causes Depression and Suicidal Thoughts

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E62: Dopamine: Everything You Need to Know

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E61: How Alcohol Memories are Triggered in Sobriety

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E60: How Alcohol Affects Our Cognitive Abilities

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E59: What to Expect When You Stop Drinking

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E58: How Does Alcohol Cause Cancer?

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E57: How Alcohol Affects Our Looks

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E56: High Functioning Alcoholics and Denial

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E55: How to Power Through When You Want to Give Up

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E54: Neuroplasticity and Using Alcohol to Escape or Numb Out

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E53: The Top 5 Things I've Learned in 1 Year of Researching Addiction

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E52: Everything You Need to Know About Cirrhosis and More

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E51: Why We Crave Alcohol and What to do About it

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E50: [Special] Advice From 7 of My Sober Friends

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E49: 5 Consequences of Not Having Boundaries

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E48: Is Addiction Genetic or a Learned Behavior?

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E47: Addiction Treatments From Snake Pits to Modern Medicine

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E46: Neuroplasticity Helps us Recover

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E45: Emotional Overwhelm

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E44: Kevin Bellack on Parenting Before and After Quitting Drinking

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E43: Drinking to Cope

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E42: Is Relapse Part of Recovery?

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E41: Why Sober People Want So Much Sugar

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E40: Why Are We So Angry?

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E39: Getting Sober Improved my Body Image

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E38: What Causes Withdrawal Symptoms?

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E37: Alcohol and Infertility

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E36: Your Sober Pal Tells us What AA is Like

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E35: Emotional Sobriety

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E34: Why Drinking Makes it Hard to Lose Weight

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E33: Why Do We Feel So Tired in Early Sobriety?

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E32: A Conversation with my Husband

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E31: If Alcohol is Toxic, Why Can We Drink it?

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E30: Gray Area Drinkers and Positive Alcohol Expectancies

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E29: The Link Between Drinking as a Teen and Developing an Addiction

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E28: Is it a Bad Habit or a Problem?

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E27: Why We Can’t Just Drink on Special Occasions

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E26: Does the Brain Recover?

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E25: Surviving Your Company Party Sober

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E24: How Addiction Develops

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E23: What Your Blood Can Reveal About Your Liver Health

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E22: Why You Think Alcohol Helps Your Anxiety

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E21: I'm One Year Sober!

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E20: Why is it So Hard to Moderate?

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E19: Alcohol Use Disorder and Other Mental Health Conditions

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E18: My Husband Still Drinks, Here's How We Make it Work

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E17: Alcohol and the Heart

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E16: Signs I was a Problem Drinker (That I Ignored)

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E15: Stigma and Social Death

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E14: Nature vs Nurture

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E13: SSRIs and Alcohol-Induced Aggression

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E12: Why We Blackout From Drinking Alcohol

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E11: Why Alcohol Feels Good (Endorphins and Opioid Receptors)

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E10: Denial and Dry Drunk Syndrome

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E9: From Chronic Day Ones to Forever Sobriety

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E8: What to Expect During Withdrawal

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E7: Shame

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E6: How the Body Processes Alcohol

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E5: Sugar Addiction

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E3: Alcohol, Sleep, and Drinking Dreams

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E2: Alcohol Cravings. Why does our brain tell us to drink?

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E1: Introduction and How Alcohol Causes Anxiety