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1

Don’t Get Divorced Without Reading This Book First: Legally Ending Love [392]

2

Why Do Christians Get So Mad When I Talk About God’s Love? [391]

3

How to Deal with Triggers that Make You Spiral Out [390]

4

Why Do People Get Mad When You Change? [389]

5

"What if I'm the Abuser?" Is There Such a Thing as "Reactive Abuse?" [388]

6

Are You Estranged From a Parent or Adult Child? The Complicated Reasons and Layers of Pain in Parent/Adult-Child Estrangement [387]

7

4 Types of Trauma Bond Withdrawal Symptoms You Need to Know [386]

8

What Is the "Tradwife" Trend Really Selling Christian Women? [385]

9

Is Emotional Neglect Abusive? [384]

10

What's Gaslighting? Part Two: Four More Narcissistic Gaslighting Tactics and How to Unhook

11

What's Gaslighting? How to Spot the Subtle Signs You're Being Manipulated Part One [382]

12

Healing From Religious Trauma: A Survivor's Roadmap with Tia Levings [381]

13

What if “Biblical Womanhood” is Actually a Trauma Response? [380]

14

Is Your Church Actually Safe for Abuse Survivors? Here's How to Find Out [379]

15

The Pastor's Wife Nobody Saw: Jessica's Story [378]

16

Finding Your Freedom, Autonomy, and Independence - High Functioning Women Series Part Four [377]

17

Trusting What You Know is True When Others Gaslight You - High Functioning Women Series Part Three [376]

18

Why Your Empathy is a Superpower (and a TARGET!) - High Functioning Women Series Part Two [375]

19

The Loneliness of the "Perfect" High Functioning Woman - High Functioning Women Series Part One [374]

20

From Deconstructing to Reconstructing: Finding Wonder Again [373]

21

Why Do Your Friends Believe the Person Who Abused You? [372]

22

Navigating Discard, Revenge, and Unsupportive Friends [371]

23

How My Word for 2026 is Playing Out So Far (personal message) [370]

24

If It’s Not "Narcissism," What Is It? (The Answer) - The Narcissism Trap Series Part Four [369]

25

Why Your Lawyer Cringes When You Say “Narcissist” - The Narcissism Trap Series Part Three [368]

26

Narcissist? Or Just Plain Evil? (Know the Difference!) - The Narcissism Trap Series Part Two [367]

27

Stop Calling Him a “Narcissist” (Use This Word Instead) - The Narcissism Trap Series Part One [366]

28

She Stopped Asking for Permission: Jillian's Story [365]

29

Can AI Help Christian Women in Emotionally Abusive Marriages? [364]

30

Breaking the Cycle of Emotional Abuse in a Christian Home - Emotional Abuse 101 | Part 8 [363]

31

How Children are Impacted by Emotional Abuse - Emotional Abuse 101 | Part 7 [362]

32

The Christian Abuser's Favorite Emotional Abuse Weapon (And How to Neutralize It!) - Emotional Abuse 101 | Part 6 [361]

33

How Emotional Abuse in Your Christian Marriage Impacts Your Spiritual Health - Emotional Abuse 101 | Part 5 [360]

34

Why You Keep Second-Guessing Yourself in Your Christian Marriage (And How to Stop) Emotional Abuse 101 | Part 4 [359]

35

Emotional Abuse vs. Healthy Conflict in a Christian Marriage: How to Tell the Difference - Emotional Abuse 101 | Part 3 [358]

36

BONUS: An episode from my PRIVATE podcast about what it takes to change your life

37

The Art of Saying No: Setting Boundaries When You've Been Trained to Say Yes - Emotional Abuse 101 | Part 2 [357]

38

The 10 Most Subtle Signs of Emotional Abuse in a Christian Marriage - Emotional Abuse 101 | Part 1 [356]

39

Do You Need Someone to Rescue You? [355]

40

Breaking the Cycle of Fear, Obligation, and Guilt: Gwendoline’s Story [354]

41

Why Some People Change and Others Don't [353]

42

The Subtle, Insidious Nature of Spiritual Abuse [352]

43

Responding to Abusive Word Salad (the master game player strategy) [351]

44

Understanding Coercive Control and the Harms Inflicted on to Adult and Child Victims [350]

45

Toxic Beliefs That Keep Christian Women From Their True Identity (A Story about a Runner) [349]

46

Beautiful Prisons and Golden Lies [348]

47

Nine Tricks Emotional Abusers Use to Pull Us Back Into the Cycle (and six clever ways to respond!) [347]

48

Gaslighting and Guilt: Why Christian Women Stay Stuck in Toxic Relationships [346]

49

Breaking Free from Narcissistic Moms and Spouses Without the Guilt Bound by Blood or Vows [345]

50

Two Hotel Rooms: One Rescue Mission [344]

51

Out of the Poisoned Pond: Jennie’s Story [343]

52

How to Find Peace When Your Marriage Feels Toxic [342]

53

Your Marriage Abuse Cycle Exercise [341]

54

He Looked Perfect on Paper: Maile's Story [340]

55

Help! I’ve Been Rejected by People I Thought I Could Trust! [339]

56

Could You Be FRAMED in Family Court? [338]

57

Praying for a Miracle—When the Miracle Might Be You Walking Away [337]

58

Military Marriage Abuse: Elizabeth's Story [336]

59

Why Do I Feel Sorry for My Mean Husband? [335]

60

Is Complementarianism Damaging the Mental Health of Christian Women? [334]

61

Legal Separation Vs. Divorce [333]

62

From Trapped to Free in 30 Days [332]

63

Escaping the Man Everyone Admired: Lisa's Story [331]

64

Spiritual Abuse, Scapegoating, and the Mask of Virtue [330]

65

Winning Child Custody & Divorce Battles: Pro Strategies from a Top Attorney [329]

66

How Christian Women Resist Oppression in Their Marriages [328]

67

The Best Worst Decision: Erin’s Story [327]

68

Why You Can’t Stop Thinking About Your Abuser—and When That Changes [326]

69

The Truth About Divorce in Christian Marriages: What They Don’t Tell You From the Pulpit [325]

70

Announcing A New Podcast for Divorced Christian Women! [Flying Higher Moment 020]

71

What Does a Safe Church Really Look Like? [324]

72

Healing Doesn't Just Happen at a Weekend Retreat [Flying Higher Moment 019]

73

What about Addiction-Fueled Abuse? [323]

74

Finding Hope When You Feel Hopeless [Flying Higher Moment 018]

75

Narcissistic Abuse in Christian Relationships [322]

76

The Crushing Cost of Control [Flying Higher Moment 017]

77

Can I Gaslight Myself? Part Two [321]

78

Fear: The Frenemy in Your Head [Flying Higher Moment 016]

79

Am I Gaslighting Myself? Part One [320]

80

How Radical Acceptance Changes Everything [Flying Higher Moment 015]

81

Help! My Kids Are Acting Like Their Dad! [319]

82

Feeling Triggered? [Flying Higher Moment 014]

83

What Do We Do About Wicked People? [318]

84

How Creativity Can Help You Heal from Emotional and Spiritual Abuse [Flying Higher Moment 013]

85

How Do I Deal with His Rage? [317]

86

Feeling Like You Don’t Belong? Here’s Why You Might Be Wrong [Flying Higher Moment 012]

87

How Do I Know if Divorce Is the Right Choice for Me? [316]

88

Messy Rooms: A Flying Higher Moment 011

89

Broken Trust: When Church Hurts You [315]

90

Christianity After Religion: A Flying Higher Moment 010

91

How to Be the Parent Your Child Needs During Divorce [314]

92

Reading the Bible as a Survivor [313]

93

Parallel Parenting Part Two [312]

94

Parallel Parenting Part One [311]

95

Who Can You Trust? A Flying Higher Moment 009

96

What if My Abusive Husband Has Mental Health Issues? [310]

97

This Moment is Your Gift—Unwrap It! A Flying Higher Moment 008

98

The Importance of Empathy for Yourself [309]

99

A Two-Word Exercise to Shift Your World in 2025: A Flying Higher Moment 007

100

What One Year Can Do in the Life of a Woman [308]