All Episodes

#121: Kate and Jordan's Story - Part 3

#120: Kate and Jordan's Story - Part 2

#119: Kate and Jordan's Story - Part 1

#118: When He Thinks Her Anger Is Too Much - Part 2

#117: When He Thinks Her Anger Is Too Much - Part 1

#116: Anchors

#115: Spring Loaded Dynamic

#114: I'm Not Going to Keep Taking From You + A Rubric

#113: Looking for Her to Meet His Needs in Early and Mid-recovery

#112: Integrating Empathy - Part 2

#111: Integrating Empathy - Part 1

#110: Patched Up Hearts

#109: How to Navigate Valentine's Day

#108: One Bad Decision Away

#107: Blocks to Anger - Part 2

#106: Blocks to Anger - Part 1

#105: Criticisms and Comparisons

#104: Using Her in His Addiction

#103: Preliminary Boundary Work

#102: Her Request to Never Notice Others

#101: Why Women Ask Details

#100: Building Blocks of Intimacy - Part 2

#99: Building Blocks of Intimacy - Part 1

#98: The 90/10 Principle

#97: His Processing - Personal Not Private

#96: Lying - Part 2

#95: Lying - Part 1

#94: A Story of Fortitude - Part Two

#93: A Story of Fortitude - Part One

#92: Doing the Work Out of the Wounds

#91: Sure Signs of Progress

#90: Signs He May Be Acting Out

#89: Staying with Dignity

#88: Listener Questions

#87: Do you want to be with me?

#86: "Why" Work Part 3 - What Now?

#85: His Needs Vs Her Needs

#84: Resentment

#83: "Why" Work - Part 2

#82: "Why" Work - Part 1

#81: The Deeper Pain Points

Re-release #65: Navigating the Holidays

Welcome to Season #7 of Redemptive Living Radio!

#80: The Shame She Experiences

#79: Holding Her Hostage

Regrouping + Resources

#78: Going Into Public with Confidence

#77: Making Friends with the Work

#76: The Duality of Hope

#75: Where Empathy Develops

#74: Intimacy Pays Dividends

#73: The Value of Full Disclosure

#72: Frontloading For Her

#71: Frontloading

#70: When She Feels Stuck

#69: In the Dilemma

#68: What exactly IS good work?

#67: Why I Chose to Stay

#66: Dealing with Relapses

#65: Navigating the Holidays

#64: NOT Going Back to the Way it Was

#63: Moving Towards Divorce - Part 2

#62: Moving Towards Divorce - Part 1

#61: Holding Her in High Esteem

#60: A Rubric for Living Out Recovery in Life

#59: Holding the Tension Between Two Truths

#58: God, Where Are You? - Part 2

#57: God, Where Are You? – Part 1

#56: Empower Series - A "Who Knows" of Hope

#55: Empower Series - Reclaiming What Was Lost

#54: Empower Series - Fearing "Attractive" Women

#53: Adversarial Language + Avoiding Conversations

#52: Dropping the Rope

#51: Taking the Blame Versus Taking Ownership - Part 2

#50: Taking the Blame Versus Taking Ownership - Part 1

#49: When Everything Feels Tainted + the Lens We Use

#48: After a Marriage Ends

#47: When He Chooses Not to do the Work

New Episode Coming Next Week

#46: Wondering is Work

#45: Forgiveness - Part Two

#44: Forgiveness - Part One

#43: Pressure to Have Sex

#42: Intimacy Aversion - When He Is Withholding Sex

#41: When He Leaves Her Behind

#40: Mid-Recovery - Making the difference between surviving and thriving

#39: Rebuilding Trust - The Practicalities

#38: Rebuilding Trust - Heart Attitude + Mindset

#37: Sexual Intimacy

#36: Protecting Our Children

#35: Reintegrating the Dark Side

#34: Coming to a Crossroad

#33: Dealing with Intrusive Thoughts

#32: Requests for Reassurance

#31: What to do When He Doesn't Remember

#30: The Heart of Disclosure

#29: More Listener Questions

#28: How to Navigate the Pool or Beach

#27: Pivoting from Resignation to Determination

#26: Healing from Acting In and Gaslighting

#25: Understanding Acting In and Gaslighting

#24: When He is Dragging His Feet

#23: Primary, Secondary and Tertiary Markers in Recovery

#22: Boundaries - The Third and Final (for now) Installment

#21: Boundaries - The Convo Continues

#20: Boundaries - An Introduction

#19: Sexual Abstinence in the Recovery Process

#18: Changing How We See

#17: Check-ins

#16: Sexual Integrity Issues vs. Sexual Addiction

#15: His Early Work

#14: The Early Work for Her

#13: Is it CoDependency? Or Trauma?

#12: Equanimity

#11: Listener Questions

#10: Sitting on Secrets

#9: This Isn't the Whole Story

#8: Anxiety, Women's Intuition and Trust

#7: Toxic Shame and Biblical Shame

#6: The Importance of Empathy (not Sympathy)

#5: When There Is No Good Answer

#4: Why Did He Do This?

#3: Navigating through Triggers in Public

#2: What We Would Have Done Differently

#1: Our Story