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You Are Not A Frog — 303 episodes

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1

Why You Can't Switch Off (And It's Not About Workload)

2

The Occupational Hazard Every High-Achieving Leader Needs to Know About

3

Why Imposter Syndrome Isn't a Confidence Problem

4

Why Your Workload Keeps Growing Without You Agreeing To It

5

What to Do When Your Career Map No Longer Fits

6

How to Break the People-Pleasing Cycle That's Burning You Out

7

How to Stop Doing Everything

8

5 Reasons Your Ideas Keep Getting Overlooked (And How to Fix It)

9

How to Stop Feeling Guilty When It's Impossible to Do Your Job.

10

Why ‘I Have To’ Is Keeping You Stuck (And What To Say Instead)

11

When 'Can You Help' Doesn't Feel Like a Question (Part 2 of The Over-Responsibility Trap)

12

Freelance vs Employed - On Which Side is the Grass Greener?

13

Why Responsibility Keeps Landing on You (Part 1 of The Over-Responsibility Trap)

14

How to Use Clean Language to Stop Rescuing and Really Feel Your Feelings

15

You Can’t Meditate Yourself Out of a 60-Hour Work Week

16

When Speaking Up is Stressful – A Psychology Researcher Tells Us What to Do Instead

17

You Do Not Have to Be Good

18

How to Tell if Your Workplace is Toxic or Just Misaligned to You

19

How to Stop Overthinking at Work (Without Ignoring the Real Problems)

20

The Dangerous Programming That Influences Over-responsible Doctors

21

Why “You Always Have a Choice” Makes Doctors Feel Worse (And What to Say Instead)

22

How to Confront Someone Without Creating Conflict (According to a Conflict Expert)

23

Why You Keep Missing the Stress That’s Draining You

24

The Hidden Shame Spiral That Keeps Us Stuck (Our Most-Watched Episode Ever)

25

The Midlife Career Trap: Why So Many Doctors Feel Stuck After 20 Years — According to a Consultant Surgeon & Decision-Making Scientist

26

Why Women in Healthcare are Exhausted (According to a Burnout Specialist)

27

300 Episodes In… Here’s the Hardest Truth About Burnout No One Says Out Loud

28

Why You Won’t Feel Better Until You Give Yourself These 3 Permissions

29

The Real (Toxic) Reason You’re a People Pleaser

30

How to FINALLY Get on Top of Your Emails

31

“It’s OK Not to Be OK” – And Other Thought Limiting Clichés

32

The Sources of Power That Create Real Change

33

How to Stop Conflict from Turning Ugly

34

The Hidden Tax on Neurodivergent Professionals

35

How to Stay Calm When You Don’t Know What Will Happen Next

36

If I don’t do it, who else will?

37

Clear and Direct is Better than Hinting and Hoping

38

How to Stop Toxic People Pushing All Your Buttons

39

How Bad Does it Have to Get Before You Act?

40

Why “Keep Calm and Carry On” Fuels Burnout

41

Why Doctors Don’t Ask for Help – And How to Do it Right

42

What Do You Want from Work in the Second Half of Life?

43

Why You’re Stressed When Everyone Else is Calm

44

How to Get Better Sleep

45

How to Eat Better and Keep Your Energy Up

46

The 4 Books to Read This Summer to Set Up Your Next 6 Months for Success

47

How to Boost Your Leadership Skills (Even if You Don’t Think You’re a Leader)

48

The Personal Cost of Working in Burnout

49

How to Survive a Complaint from Another Clinician

50

What to Do When You Can’t Fix the System

51

5 Things Holding You Back from Getting the Career You Love

52

Why Wearing the Busy Badge is Burning You Out (And What to Do Instead)

53

How to Stop Money from Being Stressful

54

How to Say Yes When No isn’t an Option

55

What to Do if Someone Challenges YOUR Behaviour

56

Is All-or-Nothing Thinking Pushing You to Burnout?

57

The 5 Different Types of Burnout – And How to Prevent Them

58

What if Your Job Was Just a Job? (And 4 Other Thought Experiments)

59

Is the Grass Greener on the Other Side of Medicine?

60

How to Beat Inbox Overwhelm

61

What to Do BEFORE You Get a Neurodivergence Diagnosis

62

How to Protect Yourself from the Guilt of Saying No

63

How to Listen to Your Intuition

64

11 Ways to Back Your Wise Self

65

Doctors with ADHD

66

The Trouble with Wellbeing

67

How to Be Kind Instead of Nice (and Why it Matters)

68

How to Make Long-term Behaviour Change Stick

69

How to Leave Work on Time

70

How to Choose What Kind of Problem You Want

71

How to Plan Your Year for Peak Performance

72

Are You Amplifying Your Overwhelm? Here’s How to Stop

73

How to Manage Your Energy Instead of Your Time

74

How to Stop a Difficult Conversation Going Bad

75

How to Overcome the Toxic Effects of Shame on Your Team

76

How to be Ridiculously Relaxed

77

How to Survive in a High Stress Job When You’re Neurodivergent

78

How to Stop Turning “You” Problems into “Me” Problems

79

How to Take a Good Long Look at Your Career

80

How to Catch Stress Early Before You Spiral into Burnout

81

How to Change Your Life One Tiny Step at a Time

82

How to avoid guilt on repeat

83

How to Think Past “Right and Wrong” and Find Choices That Work for You

84

How Stories Can Help You Beat Burnout

85

You Can’t Organise Your Way Out of Overwhelm

86

How to Make the Right Choice When You Aren’t Certain

87

The Magic Question to Unlock Your Deep Intuition

88

How to Promote Good Mental Health for You and Your Kids

89

Does the Usual Productivity Advice Work for People Seeing Patients?

90

What’s So Important About Purpose?

91

How to Get What You Need When Even YOU Don’t Know

92

Crafting a Career That Works

93

What to Do With That Nagging Feeling That Something’s Not Right

94

Finding Your Opposite World to Beat Burnout

95

How to Stop Your Inner Critic Hijacking Your Day

96

The Exact Script to Use When a Colleague’s Being Rude

97

"Having it All" as a Woman in Medicine

98

How to Keep Going in a Struggling System

99

What I Learned From My Facebook Haters

100

Why We Need MORE Conflict in Our Teams

101

Is My Attachment Style Causing My Burnout?

102

Are You an Accidental Toxic Leader?

103

What Does High-Performance Look Like?

104

The 3 Lies Which Hold Us Back

105

How to Put Your Team Back Together

106

What to Do When You Don’t Know What to Do

107

What Forgiveness Can Do for You

108

The Biggest Mistakes People Make When They are Heading for Burnout

109

Why Loneliness Can Kill, and What to Do About it

110

How to Set a Boundary No-one Can Break

111

What to Do When a Colleague isn’t Pulling Their Weight

112

Too Busy NOT to Pause

113

How to find your voice

114

Only You Can Choose Your Next Move

115

How to Make a Difficult Decision

116

What Happens When You Stay Too Long

117

How Money Holds Us Back

118

Beware Your Kindest Colleagues

119

Smashing the Gender Pay Gap for Women in Medicine

120

How to Tell People What You REALLY Think

121

Why Setting Goals Alone Won’t Help

122

Life’s Too Short NOT to Love What You Do

123

Finding Your North Star

124

How to get moving again when you feel stuck

125

The Most Powerful Question You Can Ask Yourself About Your Work

126

How to Feel Confident in Any Situation

127

How to Get Out of a Toxic Shame Spiral

128

Getting a Breakthrough by Using Your Right Brain

129

The Three-Step Plan for Getting Your Sh*t Together

130

How to Decide if You Need to Stay or Leave a Difficult Situation

131

What Shame Made Me Do

132

How to Survive the Holiday Season

133

How to Increase Your Confidence and Impact

134

How to Deal With Your Inner Critic

135

How to Escape the Tyranny of the ‘Shoulds’

136

Am I Burning Out?

137

How to Manage Your Energy if You're a Highly Sensitive Person

138

How Do You Say No When Someone Might Die?

139

How to Challenge Upsetting Behaviour

140

The Real Reason Other People's Boundaries Make Us Cross

141

How to Be REALLY Productive... Without Losing the Plot

142

What Will Your Future Self Thank You For?

143

Surprising Ways to Avoid Burnout

144

Stress vs Overwhelm – And Why You Should Know the Difference

145

How to Cope With Your Kids’ Anxiety, Your Colleagues’, and Your Own

146

Don't Wait for Tomorrow to Improve – Take Control Now

147

Is it You - or is it Menopause?

148

Why You Don’t Need to Earn Your Rest

149

Are Your Tiny Traumas Building Up to Burnout?

150

Get Some Air Cover to Help You Set Boundaries

151

What Happens When We’re Really Listened to

152

How to Use Power Language to Keep Your Boundaries Strong

153

How to Thrive in a High-Stress Job When You’re Neurodivergent

154

Why You Should Expect Pushback and What To Do About It

155

Embrace Your Capacity, Not Your Limits

156

How To Influence Without Getting Frustrated

157

What to Do When You Can Never Do Enough as a Working Mum with Corrina Gordon-Barnes

158

Do I Disappoint Myself Or Others?

159

How to Survive a Toxic System - on Both Sides of the Pond

160

How to Avoid Amygdala Hijack Part 2

161

How to Feel Happy, Calm, and Connected

162

How to Avoid Amygdala Hijack Part 1

163

How to Do Something Different in Your Career

164

Why We Become Terrible in a Crisis

165

Are You OK?

166

What’s Your Flight Plan?

167

How to Stay Calm through Complaints (Even When It’s Personal)

168

Why Can’t I Say No

169

How to Stop Making Decisions Based on Fear

170

The Problem with Boundaries

171

How to Avoid Burnout on Repeat

172

How to Have More Impact with Less Effort

173

The Glass Slipper and Other Challenges for Women in Medicine

174

The Power of Pressing Pause

175

How to Change Your Life in 12 Minutes Per Week

176

The One Thing You Can Do For Your Well-being

177

How to Fix Your Broken Meetings

178

Think Differently About Your To-Do List

179

How Perfectionism and Shame Lead to Stress and Burnout

180

Embracing Your Limits in a Limitless System

181

How to Get People to LOVE your Ideas

182

When Working Harder Doesn't Work

183

Best Bits of 2022: Stress and Worry

184

Best Bits of 2022: How to Build Confidence

185

How to Deal with Xmas Disasters and Other Disappointments in Life with Corrina Gordon-Barnes

186

How to Know if You're Being 'Resilience Victim Blamed'

187

Job Crafting for Happiness

188

Is it ‘Normal’ Not to Cope?

189

How to Stop Your Finances Controlling Your Career with Dr Tommy Perkins

190

You Choose

191

How to Stop Emotional Eating, Eat Better and Feel Better with Dr Matthea Rentea and Keri Williams

192

If it Didn’t Hurt, There’d Be Something Wrong

193

How to Balance Life and Work

194

Shark Music

195

How to Choose Joy, Even When Life Sucks

196

How to Escape the Urgency Trap

197

How to Tell People What They Don’t Want to Hear

198

But is it a Tiger?

199

What to Do When You are Overwhelmed with Gerrie Hawes

200

Summer Replay 2022 Episode 5

201

Summer Replay 2022 Episode 4

202

Summer Replay 2022 Episode 3

203

Summer Replay 2022 Episode 2

204

Summer Replay 2022 Episode 1

205

What to Do if You're Stressed AND Bored

206

How to Say F**k it and Become Ridiculously Relaxed (even about stuff that REALLY matters) with John C Parkin

207

How to Cope With Trauma on the Frontline

208

After Burnout: Planning a Working Life You Want with Dr. Katya Miles

209

After Burnout: Going Back to Work with Dr Katya Miles

210

Using Nature to Answer Your Big Questions With Henri Stevenson

211

How to Say No and Deal with Pushback

212

How to Change When Change is Scary

213

How to Live With No Regrets with Georgina Scull

214

How to Be Happy at Work with Sarah Metcalfe

215

How to Be a (Happy) Working Parent with Corrina Gordon Barnes

216

Making Online Meetings Work with John Monks

217

How to Improve Your Mental Health in 10 Minutes with Dr Lee David

218

How to Manage Upwards (and Sideways)

219

The Surprising Power of Self Coaching (and How to Do it Well)

220

What I Got So Wrong About Mindfulness and How it Might Transform Your Life

221

How to Find Peace and Happiness, Even in a Life You Haven't Chosen

222

How to Get an Appraisal That Doesn't Suck

223

What to Do When a Junior is Badmouthing Your Colleagues

224

Why We're Ditching the Term 'Imposter Syndrome'

225

What to Do When You Start to See Red?

226

How to Stop People Pleasing and Absorbing Other People's Angst

227

Is it Possible to Have Fun at Work?

228

What We Wish We'd Learnt at Med School

229

Defining Your Own Success in Life

230

How to Stop Worrying When There’s a Lot to Worry About

231

The Simplest Way to Beat Stress and Work Happier

232

How to Cope With Nightmare Relatives and Colleagues Without Losing the Plot

233

How Not to Settle for the Way it's Always Been Done

234

Why FAIL is Not a 4-Letter Word

235

Making Helpful Habits Stick

236

Dealing With the Guilt of Not Being Okay

237

How to Deal With Criticism When You've Reached Your Limit

238

Why it’s Easier to Talk About Football Than Feelings with Dr Naren Senthil Nathan

239

What to Do When Your Strengths Have Side Effects with Dr Joanna Bircher

240

How to Deal With Difficult Meetings with Jane Gunn

241

3 Conversations Which Will Get You Unstuck with Annie Hanekom

242

How to Reconnect With Your Purpose in Life with Dr Richard Pile

243

How to Delegate, Do it, or Drop it with Anna Dearmon Kornick

244

How to Avoid Becoming the Second Victim with Dr Caraline Wright & Dr Lizzie Sweeting

245

How to Break Up With Your Toxic Relationship With Your Career with Dr Pauline Morris

246

What to Do About Bitching and Backbiting with Dr Edward Pooley

247

Should I Stay or Should I Go? with Corrina Gordon-Barnes

248

Summer Replay Series: The One About Alcohol with Dr. Giles P. Croft

249

Summer Replay Series: Productivity Hacks for a Calm, Effective Life with Dr. Gandalf

250

Summer Replay Series: How to be an adult with Ebonie Allard

251

Summer Replay Series: Treat Others How THEY Would Like to Be Treated with Gitanjali Trevorrow-Seymour

252

Summer Replay Series: How to Do Conflict Well with Jane Gunn

253

Summer Replay Series: Eff-It Living with John C Parkin

254

How to Ditch the Saviour Complex and Feel More Alive with Rob Bell

255

Complaints and How to Survive Them E5: What Should I Do When I Think a Complaint is Unfair? and Other Questions with Drs Sarah Coope, George Wright, Samantha White, and Andrew Tressider

256

Gaslighting and Other Ways We’re Abused at Work: What’s Really Going on? with Dr James Costello

257

How to Have Crucial Conversations with Dr Ed Pooley

258

Complaints and How to Survive Them E4: Creating a Workplace Where it's OK to Fail with Prof Susan Fairlie and Dr Jane Sturgess

259

The Ups and Downs of Being a Man-Frog with Dr Chris Hewitt

260

Complaints and How to Survive Them E3: Surviving the Process

261

When Soft and Fluffy Met Coronavirus with Steve Andrews

262

Complaints and How to Survive Them E2: What to Do When You Make a Mistake with Drs Clare Devlin and Dr John Powell

263

How to Give Yourself Permission to Thrive with Dr Katya Miles

264

Complaints and How to Survive Them E1: Preparing to Fail Well with Drs Sarah Coope, Annalene Weston and Sheila Bloomer

265

Denial, Displacement and Other Ways We Neglect Ourselves with Dr Andrew Tresidder

266

Tech Tips for Happy Hybrid Working with Dr Hussain Gandhi

267

How to Escape the Drama Triangle and Stop Rescuing People

268

Managing Your Time in a System Which Sucks with Dr Ed Pooley

269

EASTER REPLAY: What we're talking about when we talk about compassion fatigue

270

How to Find Your Tribe: The PMGUK Story with Dr Nazia Haider and Dr Katherine Hickman

271

Working Well - From Anywhere! with Dr Katya Miles

272

Create a Career You’ll Love with Dr Claire Kaye

273

How Safe Do You Feel at Work with Scott Chambers

274

Make Time for What Matters with Liz O’Riordan

275

The Revolutionary Art of Breathing with Richard Jamieson

276

Bringing Your Best Self to Work with Dr Sarah Goulding

277

Staying Positive Through COVID – Getting Back to Basics with Dr Amrita Sen Mukherjee

278

Passing the Naughty Monkey Back with Dr Amit Sharma

279

What to Do When You’re Out of Fuel with Dr Jess Harvey

280

How to Survive Even When Times are Tough with Dr. Caroline Walker

281

Self-Coaching for Success with Dr Karen Castille, OBE

282

The Self-Help Book Group on Happiness with Dr. Nik Kendrew

283

Creating a Workplace that Works with Dr. Sonali Kinra

284

A Social Dilemma? with Dr James Thambyrajah

285

Bullying in the Workplace with Dr Adam Harrison

286

Fertiliser for Your Brain with Michael Ledzion

287

Very Nice People and Other Deadly Perils

288

The One About Alcohol

289

How to Work Flexibly, Without the Stress

290

How to Be More Anti-Racist

291

A Year of the Frog

292

How to Stay Calm and Focused in the Face of Uncertainty

293

Freeing Yourself from the Money Trap

294

The Self Help Book Group No 2 with Nik Kendrew

295

Looking After Your People Through COVID and Beyond

296

How to Have a Courageous Conversation

297

Default to Happy

298

Rest. The final frontier

299

How to ACT Instead of Stewing on Your Thoughts

300

COVID-19 Supporting Doctors. COVID boredom – What Should We Do?

301

Ask the Frog – What Will You Stop Start Continue After Lockdown?

302

How to Be a Professional Woman with Dame Jane Dacre

303

Leading With Tough Love with Gary Hughes