Your Breakthrough Blueprint with Becky Aste | for the highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life

This one is for the woman who knows something feels off but can't tell if it's her intuition or her anxiety, the one stuck replaying his tone, doubting her own gut, wondering if she's the problem. I'm getting honest about what these last few weeks of my life have actually looked like, including the things I've avoided for years and what finally got me to take the step. And I want to share what I'm learning about a different kind of courage, the kind your nervous system can actually handle. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ The real reason you can't access your intuition right now ➡️ The freeze response keeping you stuck in "is this nothing or is this something" ➡️ What I avoided for years and the baby steps that finally got me moving ➡️ Why courage isn't built in one big leap but a thousand tiny ones ➡️ Curiosity as the antidote to fear ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: How free is your voice? ⁠⁠http://www.idobreakthrough.com/voice⁠⁠ I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky

My mentor Kate Appleton is back on the podcast, and this conversation is the medicine I think so many of us are desperately seeking right now. We get into why so many women are walking around exhausted, controlling, and disconnected, and how the grief underneath all of it is actually the doorway back to ourselves and our families. Kate gives us such tangible, doable ways to start coming home to each other again, beginning with the simplest rituals at our own dinner tables. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Why I think so many of us have lost the capacity to sit with discomfort and what it's costing our marriages ➡️ The grief I see hiding underneath so many women's anger, numbness, and need to control ➡️ Why softening without collapsing is the most powerful thing I've ever learned to do as a woman ➡️ The simple 20% and 80% check-in I'm taking straight into my marriage tonight ➡️ The bedtime ritual Kate gave us that can change the entire culture of our home starting this week ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: How free is your voice? ⁠http://www.idobreakthrough.com/voice⁠ I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— Connect with Kate Appleton: Kate Appleton offers a rare kind of support, one that blends therapeutic insight, somatic healing, and decades of lived experience. Her work is designed for individuals, families, and practitioners who are ready to move beyond surface-level change and into meaningful transformation. Whether you’re navigating grief, family rupture, generational transition, or a personal crossroads, Kate brings grounded presence, deep listening, and strategic clarity to help you reconnect with what matters most. Through integrative consulting, immersive retreats, and global mentorship, she helps clients restore emotional balance, repair relationships, and reclaim their place in the greater story of their lives. www.kate-appleton.comhttps://www.instagram.com/kate.appleton.consulting/ Attachment + Somatics Practitioner Certification: https://traumaandsomatics.com/attachment-somatics/

In this episode, I'm taking you into one of the most tender and real practices I know: learning to let yourself actually want things again. We've been in survival mode so long that dreaming feels dangerous, and I want to walk you through exactly what it looks like to cross that tiny bridge from who you've had to be to who you already are. This one is a somatic experience as much as it is a conversation, so settle in and let your body come along for the ride. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Why dreaming takes more courage as an adult than it ever did as a kid ➡️ The difference between fixing your life and finally feeling safe enough to become yourself ➡️ How your nervous system keeps you loyal to a familiar hell over an unfamiliar heaven ➡️ A somatic visioning practice to feel into your next identity before it's your reality ➡️ Why courage isn't a long bridge and how one decision can change everything today ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: How free is your voice? http://www.idobreakthrough.com/voice I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky

In this conversation, I sit down with three-time Olympian Shannon Rowbury, and we go deep on what it actually means to rebuild trust with your body after pregnancy, postpartum, and beyond. Shannon shares how years of elite athletic training taught her that the small, overlooked muscles and the quiet moments of recovery are what create sustainable, lasting strength. Whether you've been putting off pelvic floor care for years like I have, or you're just starting to tune back into your body after a season of survival mode, this one is going to hit home. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ The truth about pelvic floor health that most women were never taught and why so many of us wait years to get help ➡️ Why high achievers and go-getters are actually the most at risk for ignoring their body's signals ➡️ How Shannon's Olympic career was shaped by learning to balance pushing hard with genuine recovery and what that taught her about longevity ➡️ The mindset shift that happens when strength stops being about performance and starts being about legacy ➡️ What elite athletes understand about rebuilding after injury that every postpartum woman needs to hear ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  ⁠⁠⁠https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN⁠⁠⁠ I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— Connect with Shannon Rowbury Shannon Rowbury: A three-time Olympian and Olympic medalist, she now helps leaders and teams apply the same mindset beyond sport. Through her Medalist Mindset™ framework, Shannon teaches resilience, clarity, and confidence to perform consistently under pressure. She is also the co-author of Strong as a Mother, a medically grounded pregnancy and postpartum program created by Olympic athletes and pelvic health experts. An Emmy-winning broadcaster, Shannon has partnered with organizations including Abbott, Microsoft, Strava, and NBC Sports. Across every role - as athlete, mother, author, and speaker - her focus remains the same: helping others unlock their potential and build performance that lasts. She lives in San Francisco with her husband and two children. Keynote speaking: https://www.shannonrowbury.com/olympic-speaker Corporate workshops: https://www.shannonrowbury.com/corporate-workshops Books: https://www.shannonrowbury.com/strong-as-a-mother

In my darkest season, I found myself asking if there was any coming back. Drawing on the story of Jesus in the garden of Gethsemane, through betrayal, crucifixion, and resurrection, I'm walking you through the most powerful metaphor for what we go through as women navigating our hardest chapters. Whether you're in the tomb right now or just beginning to emerge, this one is going to meet you exactly where you are. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ What the story of Gethsemane teaches us about surrender, honesty, and asking for what we need ➡️ The nervous system states Jesus moved through... and why all of them were necessary ➡️ Why the "why" question keeps us stuck and what to ask instead ➡️ The butterfly metamorphosis as a map for understanding where you are in your own transformation ➡️ How to stop judging yourself for being in the messy middle and trust the timing of your becoming ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  ⁠⁠https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN⁠⁠ I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky

This episode genuinely had me asking "where has this been all my life?" I sat down with Dr. Perry Nickelston, also known as "The Lymph Doc," to talk about a system most of us have been completely ignoring: the lymphatic system. We broke down how it connects to your nervous system, your immune health, and your body's ability to heal. Plus, Dr. Perry walked us through his simple but powerful "Big Six" technique that you can start doing tonight. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ What the lymphatic system actually does and why it's the missing piece in so many healing journeys ➡️ The surprising connection between your nervous system and lymphatic health ➡️ How unresolved stress and trauma can literally stagnate the fluids in your body ➡️ The "Big Six" lymphatic massage technique and why the order matters ➡️ Simple, at-home ways to start supporting your lymphatic system today ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  ⁠https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN⁠ I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— Connect with Dr. Perry Nickelston Dr. Perry Nickelston, also known as “The Lymph Doc,” is a chiropractor, movement specialist, and founder of Stop Chasing Pain. He’s known for his unique approach to healing that focuses on optimizing the lymphatic and nervous systems to reduce pain, inflammation, and chronic stress. Through his work, Dr. Nickelston teaches simple, practical techniques—like breathwork, movement, and lymphatic stimulation—to help the body heal from the inside out. He’s passionate about shifting people away from chasing symptoms and toward addressing root causes, empowering both practitioners and everyday people with tools to support long-term health and resilience. 🌐 Website: Stop Chasing Pain → https://www.stopchasingpain.com/🎧 Podcast: Stop Chasing Pain Podcast → https://www.stopchasingpain.com/(podcast section)🧠 “Big 6” Lymph Reset: https://www.stopchasingpain.com/the-big-6-tm/📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stopchasingpain🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@stopchasingpain

This episode is a special sneak peek inside my two-day live immersion, Unspoken, where we dove deep into the side of communication that nobody talks about — the nonverbal kind that lives in your body, your nervous system, your energy, and your tone. I brought in expert voices, my husband Sebastian, and even past clients to show you what it actually looks like when women stop fighting to be heard and start learning to be felt instead. If you've been pouring words into your marriage and still feel unseen, this episode is going to reframe everything. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Why the real communication problem in your marriage has nothing to do with what you're saying ➡️ What's actually happening in your husband's body when he shuts down or pulls away ➡️ How getting grounded in yourself changes the dynamic without saying a single word ➡️ What authentic communication really looks like — and what it definitely isn't ➡️ Real stories from women who repaired their relationships by learning to communicate from the body up ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky

In this episode, I'm taking you inside one of my most powerful Root to Rise group coaching calls and it's something I've never done on the podcast before. We go far beyond the surface-level communication advice you've heard a thousand times, diving into the energetic and somatic side of why your voice gets stuck in the first place. If you've ever felt like Ursula stole your voice, this one is for you. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Why I spent years following "communication is key" advice and why it kept me spinning my wheels and what actually changed my marriage ➡️ The truth about the 93% of communication that has nothing to do with the words I say ➡️ How physical symptoms in my throat and neck may be my body sending me a message ➡️ A somatic breathwork and body awareness exercise to locate where my unspoken truth lives ➡️ Practical tools I use to soften and open my voice including humming, earlobe pulls, and the Fairy Spinal Tap meditation ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN Register here for UNSPOKEN!  ⁠⁠https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN⁠⁠ I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky

Dub Paetz spent 80 days completely alone in the sub-zero Arctic as a finalist on Season 11 of Alone, and the parallels to what so many of us experience in our emotional and relational lives are undeniable. What struck me most wasn't just his physical survival skills, but the way extreme isolation forced him to face decades of buried wounds and come out the other side more himself than ever. If you've ever felt like you're navigating your own kind of wilderness, this episode is going to hit different. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ What 80 days alone in the Arctic teaches you about the human spirit ➡️ How childhood wounds resurface under pressure and what to do with them ➡️ The mental battle of a lose-lose decision and how to survive it ➡️ Why tapping out isn't always losing and when following your gut is the real win ➡️ How radical authenticity can heal old wounds and become your greatest superpower ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— 🔗 Connect with Dub: Dub Paetz is a standout survivalist from Season 11 of the hit series Alone - one of the most intense survival competitions on television, watched by millions worldwide. On the show, elite survivalists are dropped completely alone in the wilderness with just a few tools and must survive longer than anyone else for a chance to win a half a million dollars.  Dub, a fifth-generation fly fisherman and former hunting and fly-fishing guide with over 15 years in the Idaho backcountry, proved his wilderness expertise as a finalist on Season 11- facing extreme cold, isolation, and the mental grind of surviving completely off the land. https://www.youtube.com/@dubgonewild https://www.youtube.com/@WildTogetheradventures/shorts

In this episode, I'm sitting down with my dear client and friend Kristi, whose journey through unimaginable loss, a cancer scare, betrayal, and a crumbling marriage led her to one of the most profound transformations I've ever had the privilege of witnessing up close. What she shares about learning to stop controlling everything and finally come back to herself is the kind of raw, hard-fought wisdom that can only come from walking through the fire. If you've ever felt like the ceiling and the floor disappeared out from under you all at once, this conversation was made for you. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Navigating grief, a cancer scare, and betrayal — all at the same time ➡️ How anxiety and control were secretly running the show ➡️ The shift from trying to fix your partner to getting rooted in yourself ➡️ Asking the hard question: "Am I justified, or am I winning?" ➡️ What healing actually looks like when you stop trying to do marriage "the right way" ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky

What if the parenting advice we were handed wasn't actually aligned with how God designed our kids? This week, I'm sitting down with Meaghan Hampton, LPC-Associate and founder of Soul Care for Families, and we are going deep on this topic. If you grew up in the church, were handed certain parenting books, or ever felt that knot in your stomach when a teaching just didn't sit right, this one is for you. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ How developmental psychology and your faith actually work beautifully together ➡️ What the nervous system and attachment science tell us about our kids' behavior ➡️ The real cultural and scriptural context behind "spare the rod" ➡️ Scripts and mantras for sibling conflict, big emotions, and spicy toddler moments ➡️ Why trusting your maternal intuition is part of your healing, not a threat to your faith ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Connect with Meaghan Hampton 🔗 Meaghan Hampton is an LPC-Associate and the founder of Soul Care for Families, where she helps Christian parents raise emotionally healthy, spiritually grounded children through the integration of developmental psychology, nervous-system science, and Christian theology. Her work focuses on attachment, co-regulation, and cycle-breaking parenting, offering a grace-centered alternative to fear- and shame-based approaches. She creates educational resources and content that equip families to parent with both clinical wisdom and faithfulness to Scripture. https://www.instagram.com/soulcareforfamilies/ https://stan.store/soulcareforfamilies

This episode is one of the most personal ones I've recorded in a long time, and I'm so grateful you're here for it. I'm sharing what's really been on my heart — grief, a hospital scare, breathwork, my nervous system, and the quiet courage it takes to keep showing up when life feels this tender. If you've ever wondered what healing actually looks like in real time, this one's for you. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ The poem I wrote for my mom's celebration of life and what it taught me about love and loss ➡️ Why healing rarely looks dramatic, and what those tiny faithful steps actually feel like ➡️ Navigating hypervigilance and fragility when loss keeps showing up all around you ➡️ How authenticity in leadership (and in life) creates more connection than perfection ever could ➡️ Shedding old identities and making room for miracles in this new season ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky

This week I'm joined by one of my Root to Rise clients, and hearing her share how she went from constant hypervigilance and fear of abandonment to genuine peace in her relationship reminded me why I do this work. Sonia's breakthrough wasn't about fixing her partner or finding the perfect relationship strategy, it was about learning to slow down, trust herself, and stop abandoning herself in the name of keeping someone close. Her story is proof that the answers we're frantically searching for outside ourselves have been inside all along. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ How anxiety in relationships shows up even when there's no "obvious" trauma or reason ➡️ The nervous system roots of anxious attachment and hypervigilance in intimacy ➡️ Learning to slow down, be still, and trust yourself instead of over-explaining or seeking permission ➡️ Why suppressing emotions with tools backfires—and how to actually listen to your body's messages ➡️ Breaking free from the healing trap of constantly chasing the next program or coach ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky

In this episode, I share tangible, practical ways to create safety in your mind and nervous system during turbulent personal and political times. With so much collective fear and uncertainty, I invite you to root deeper into your somatic, spiritual, and subconscious safety than ever before. Join me as we cultivate somatic strength and sanity when the world feels scary. ✨ What We Cover In This Episode ➡️ Practical strategies to foster nervous system safety ➡️ Navigating fear and uncertainty with somatic awareness ➡️ Deepening spiritual and subconscious grounding ➡️ Cultivating resilience in challenging times ➡️ Becky’s “Flu Shot” recipe for wellness and immune support Becky’s “Flu Shot” Recipe — Blend 1 squeezed lemon, 1 tbsp Manuka honey, 1 tbsp elderberry, Vitamin C, Vitamin D, Zinc, 1 inch peeled ginger, 1 inch peeled turmeric, ½ cup frozen organic pineapple, 1–2 cups coconut water or filtered water. Pour through a strainer and bottoms up! 💌 Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN Loved this episode? I’d love to hear from you! Come say hello on Instagram! ➡️⁠ instagram.com/becky_aste⁠ and DM me the word “PODCAST” for a free training resource that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgment here ;) Here’s my website! ➡️⁠ www.idobreakthrough.com⁠Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠]

In this episode, I sit down with Elizabeth Scarcella to explore why you might still feel physically depleted even after doing deep emotional and nervous system work. We unpack the biochemistry of betrayal trauma: how cortisol floods your system like a firefighter that won't stop spraying water, dampening your thyroid, draining your progesterone, and throwing your entire hormone cascade into chaos. Elizabeth shares her own story of navigating betrayal while discovering that true healing requires addressing both nervous system regulation and hormonal harmony. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ The cell danger response and why your body stays in defense mode long after trauma ends ➡️ How chronic cortisol creates a domino effect that impacts thyroid, progesterone, estrogen, testosterone, and insulin ➡️ Real-world signs your body is still biochemically stuck in survival mode (sleep issues, brain fog, inflammation, low libido) ➡️ Why emotional healing alone can't restore hormonal balance—and what's missing from most recovery approaches ➡️ A trauma-informed, simplified approach to lab work and supplements that actually supports your nervous system ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Connect with Elizabeth Scarcella 🔗 Elizabeth Grace is a neuroscience and functional medicine practitioner, hormone health expert, and best-selling author of Rise. She helps high-achieving Gen X women heal the root causes of their exhaustion, anxiety, and hormone chaos so they can finally feel calm, clear, and fully themselves again. Her free quiz: https://reveal-the-root.scoreapp.com/ IG & FB: @elizabethscarcella

This week, I'm joined by Christina Lane to talk about something that keeps so many of us stuck: what happens when love has hurt us so deeply that our bodies literally can't tell the difference between intimacy and danger anymore. We explored how triggers aren't proof that something's wrong with us; they're actually invitations for deeper connection if we know how to work with them. Christina shared why men aren't actually "avoidant" (they're just terrified in a different way than we are), how sitting in discomfort beats solution-hunting every time, and what it really takes to rebuild safety after betrayal. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Why love is inherently painful and how to get comfortable with emotional discomfort ➡️ The real reason men shut down (and why labeling them "avoidant" makes everything worse) ➡️ How to tell the difference between a present-moment trigger and an old wound replaying ➡️ Co-creating safety through somatic rituals instead of perpetual compromise ➡️ Why your body, not your mind, gets the final say on whether intimacy feels safe again ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Connect with Christina Lane 🔗 Christina Lane is a Somatic Embodiment Coach and educator whose work centers around nervous-system regulation, emotional safety, and embodied intimacy. Through her coaching containers, group programs, and membership community, she helps individuals reconnect with their bodies, unlearn survival responses, and create relationships rooted in safety instead of fear. Her mission is to help people experience love and connection not by performing or people-pleasing, but by coming home to themselves, where safety, desire, and authenticity can coexist. Website: www.christinalanecoaching.com Instagram: instagram.com/christinalanecoaching/ Medium: https://medium.com/@christinalanecoaching/

I've talked about my mom's Alzheimer's journey on the podcast before, but today I wanted to shine a light on the side of caregiving no one talks about—the guilt, the resentment, the dark thoughts that make you wonder if you're a terrible person. My friend and personal caregiving coach Erin Antroinen joined me to normalize the feelings caregivers are afraid to admit, from wishing it would end faster to jealousy when other people's parents pass away quickly. We're getting real about the emotional chaos, the sibling dynamics, the financial awkwardness, and most importantly, how to find those tiny moments of peace when you feel like you're drowning. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ The dark thoughts caregivers have but are afraid to say out loud ➡️ Navigating guilt, resentment, and the "not enough" spiral ➡️ Why your loved one's confusion or regression isn't suffering the way you think it is ➡️ Micro-moments of self-care when you have zero capacity left ➡️ Finding compassion for yourself in the hardest season of your life ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN Still Face Baby Experiment: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YTTSXc6sARg I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Connect with Erin Antroinen 🔗 Erin Antroinen is a caregiving coach and advocate who supports caregivers in preventing and recovering from burnout, helping them find peace and prioritize self-care amid the challenges of caring for loved ones. With over a decade of firsthand caregiving experience — including caring for both of her parents through serious illness and dementia — she draws on her lived journey to offer practical guidance, encouragement, and community to other caregivers navigating emotional and practical stressors. Erin shares insights, resources, and her signature approaches to help caregivers sustain resilience, embrace joy where possible, and take care of themselves as they care for others.

In this episode, I sit down with Rossana, a past Root to Rise client who represents the often misunderstood avoidant attachment style. We dive into her transformation from shutdown and disconnection to being able to stay present in her relationship, and she shares the specific somatic tools that helped her body feel safe enough to finally process grief. Rossana offers hope that you don't need to wait until you hit rock bottom to get support—you can start your healing journey right now. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Understanding avoidant attachment and the internal battle of wanting connection while feeling overwhelmed by it ➡️ How unprocessed grief blocks your ability to experience joy and stay open-hearted ➡️ Simple somatic tools that create safety in the body (hand on heart, box breathing, body scans) ➡️ Why you don't need to reach rock bottom before getting help for your relationship ➡️ How to talk to the tense parts of your body to release stored emotions and pain ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky

Unlocking Your Inner Peace Superpower Humans naturally crave comfort, and our nervous systems seek familiarity — but real strength comes when life doesn’t go as planned. In today’s episode, I’m exploring the superpower inside all of us: a deep, unshakable inner peace that remains steady no matter what’s happening around us. Whether this power feels dormant or you’ve already uncovered it, this conversation offers a blueprint to find it—or a reminder that you’re absolutely thriving despite the chaos. ✨ Topics Covered in this Episode ➡️ Why comfort and familiarity feel safe (but can limit us) ➡️ How to access anchored inner peace during life’s storms ➡️ The mindset shifts to unlock your superpower ➡️ Recognizing your resilience and strength right now ➡️ Practical ways to cultivate calm and clarity daily 💌 Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN Loved this episode? I’d love to hear from you! Come say hello on Instagram! ➡️⁠ instagram.com/becky_aste⁠ and DM me the word “PODCAST” for a free training resource that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgment here ;) Here’s my website! ➡️⁠ www.idobreakthrough.com⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠]

I had such a powerful conversation with Becky Alfred about something that's been hitting me hard lately - the moments when my kids trigger me the most are actually showing me the parts of myself that need healing. We dove into why our children aren't problems to fix, but mirrors reflecting back what we weren't allowed to be or express as kids. This episode completely reframed how I think about conflict, repair, and what it really means to break generational patterns. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Why your kids' biggest triggers reveal your own childhood wounds ➡️ The difference between anxious and secure attachment in handling conflict ➡️ How to repair after losing your cool (and why it's the secret sauce) ➡️ Rethinking sibling fights as practice opportunities instead of problems ➡️ The CAPS framework for showing up as the parent your kids need ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Connect with Becky Alfred 🔗 Leveraging her two decades of experience as a pediatrician, mom of three, and mental health and wellness advocate, Becky partners with parents to identify their family’s unique values, unpack generational patterns and implement science-backed strategies to build a lasting connection with their children. https://www.beckyalfred.com/ Schedule Your 30-min call here: https://calendly.com/beckyalfred/discovery-call

I recently had the honor of being interviewed by Jessica Hoogendoorn in her wellness community, and this conversation touched me deeply—it was my first appointment after my mom passed. In this episode, I'm sharing how somatic healing helped me rescue my marriage, regulate my nervous system, and finally learn to speak my truth in a way that healed even my physical body. If you've tried everything and still feel stuck, this might be the missing piece. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Why 93% of communication is nonverbal and how your nervous system affects every conversation ➡️ The connection between throat issues, thyroid problems, and suppressed truth ➡️ How perfectionism and people-pleasing keep high-achievers trapped in survival mode ➡️ Recognizing when your body's symptoms are messengers, not threats ➡️ Why you can't hear your intuition when your nervous system is dysregulated ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN To listen to the full conversation of this episode, go to Jessica's FB group - posted on December 9 - https://www.facebook.com/groups/1542545227191844/?ref=share&mibextid=NSMWBT I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Connect with Jessica Hoogendoorn 🔗 https://eat2live.life/https://www.instagram.com/jessicahoogendoorn_nd/ https://www.facebook.com/groups/1542545227191844/?ref=share&mibextid=NSMWBT⁠

I'm grieving right alongside so many of you this holiday season, and this raw conversation with two of my closest friends felt like the only thing that made sense to share right now. We gathered in Palm Springs - Julie processing her divorce anniversary, Erin navigating waves of grief from losing both parents, and me just days after my mom's passing. What unfolded was exactly what we needed: permission to crash out, laugh through tears, and hold space for whatever showed up. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ How grief shows up differently in each of our bodies and why there's no "right" way to feel it ➡️ The untethered feeling of losing a parent and navigating identity without them ➡️ Why fixing grieving people doesn't help—and what actually does ➡️ Cultivating friendships deep enough to hold both joy and sorrow without shame ➡️ Learning that love doesn't end when someone dies; it just transforms ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Meet Julie Brumley & Erin Antroinen 🔗 Julie Brumley is an adoptee coach dedicated to helping adoptees navigate identity, healing, and belonging. Her empathy and insight make her a powerful guide on the adoptee journey. She’s also one of my closest friends, and her wisdom and heart inspire me every day. Erin Antroinen is a caregiving coach who supports caregivers with practical tools, compassion, and encouragement as they balance the demands of caring for others. She is also one of my best friends, and her strength and generosity continue to shape my life in meaningful ways.

This is the most meaningful episode I will ever release. Recorded years ago - shortly after my mom’s Alzheimer’s diagnosis - this conversation was meant to be a time capsule, a tribute to her life and to our relationship. My mom, Diane Lesage, passed away this past Sunday at the age of 75 - and it finally feels like the right moment to share her voice, her stories, and her heart with the world. My mom only needed 30 seconds with you for you to never forget her. Anyone who met her remembers her radical acceptance and her non-judgmental love. She was a safe space for anyone who ever knew her. Some of the messages I received this week said that my mom had a way of healing you without even trying. My hope is that these 30 minutes in your ear do the same - that she reminds you of how unbroken you truly are, that you feel accepted, and that you see life and love a little differently. In this episode, we sit together and talk about her childhood, the challenges she faced, the people who shaped her, and her unique view on the meaning of life. It’s raw, imperfect, honest, emotional, and deeply human - exactly as she was. If this episode touches you, please share it with someone who may need comfort, connection, or permission to preserve their own family stories. Thank you for holding space for my mom. Trigger Warnings• Childhood trauma• Institutionalization of a disabled child• Disordered eating / body image struggles ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN Here is the link for ‘Trust, Trauma + Trying Again’ for only $11 💫 ⁠⁠ https://tinyurl.com/trusttraumatryingagain⁠ The Wisdom of Dissociation in Unthinkable Trauma -  ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-breakthrough-blueprint-with-becky-aste-for-the/id1676348200?i=1000701219455⁠ I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky ————————————————————————

In this week's episode, I'm joined by my dear friend Almira Bardai, a high-frequency mentor and founder of Ascension Sanctuary, to explore what it truly means to reclaim the divine feminine after years of survival mode and masculine hustle. We dive deep into her journey from building a seven-figure business to spending a year binge-watching TV as her body demanded rest, and how that surrender became the portal to her greatest work. This conversation is an invitation to remember that your softness is your superpower and that ascending doesn't require more doing, it requires coming home to yourself. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ The journey from seven-figure success to necessary rest and how binge-watching TV became sacred nervous system healing ➡️ Understanding divine feminine energy as the art of being versus doing, and why softness contains more power than hustle ➡️ Practical embodiment practices like alternate nostril breathing, morning rituals, and sensory pleasure to rewire the nervous system ➡️ The difference between being rich and being wealthy, and why ascending your frequency requires releasing guilt around receiving ➡️ Ascension Sanctuary—a six-month immersion for women ready to reclaim their goddessness, regulate their nervous system, and live a more delicious life ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN Here is the link for ‘Trust, Trauma + Trying Again’ for only $11 💫 ⁠ https://tinyurl.com/trusttraumatryingagain The Wisdom of Dissociation in Unthinkable Trauma -  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-breakthrough-blueprint-with-becky-aste-for-the/id1676348200?i=1000701219455 I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Follow Almira Bardai 🔗 Almira Bardai is a veteran communications strategist and coach, with 20+ years leading PR for global brands like Nike, TELUS, Molson, and Best Buy. She co-founded Jive PR + Digital, then transitioned into high-level coaching for female entrepreneurs, focusing on thought leadership, visibility, and soulful business growth. She also leads a 6-month immersive program called Ascension Sanctuary, where she helps women reconnect with their bodies, regulate their nervous systems, and build businesses from a place of receiving and ease. https://almirabardai.com/business-coaching/https://www.instagram.com/almirab/

I just wrapped up my powerful masterclass "Trust, Trauma, and Trying Again," and this episode gives you a taste of what went down through clips from our two transformative days together. You'll hear from me along with my mentors Kelly Brock and Julie Brumley as we dive deep into building energetic self-trust, understanding the neuroscience of trust through hormones like oxytocin and dopamine, and learning how tiny imperceptible shifts can completely change your relationship with yourself and your partner. The masterclass explored everything from recognizing when your body is telling you the truth to that "Premier League Woman" energy of radical self-acceptance, and if these clips resonate with you, the full two-part workshop is available for just $11. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Building energetic self-trust as the foundation for all relationships ➡️ The neuroscience behind trust and how oxytocin, dopamine, and vasopressin create connection ➡️ How somatic work creates imperceptible shifts that transform your life ➡️ Learning to trust your body's wisdom over hypervigilance and external validation ➡️ The "Premier League Woman" framework for embodying safety, power, and spiritual alignment ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN Here is the link for ‘Trust, Trauma + Trying Again’ for only $11 💫 https://tinyurl.com/trusttraumatryingagain I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky ————————————————————————

This week’s episode is all about shame. It’s universal—we all experience it—and it can become a savage cycle that affects our relationships, our self-worth, and how we show up in the world. In this episode, I’m diving deep into what shame really is, how it functions, and what you can do to break the cycle and start practicing radical empathy, both for yourself and others. ✨ Topics Covered In this Episode ➡️ What shame is and how it operates in the body ➡️ The difference between shame and guilt ➡️ Understanding survival mode and trauma triggers ➡️ Empathy vs. sympathy vs. compassion ➡️ The role of boundaries in shame recovery ➡️ 4 ways to practice radical empathy this week 💌 Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky

In this episode, Noelle Kustas and I are digging into a topic that so many women struggle with: the fear that we've somehow missed our window. Noelle's story of leaving a 20-year teaching career, surviving an abusive marriage, and finding love again in her late thirties proves that our greatest transformations often happen when we think it's "too late." We explore how the unraveling process, though terrifying, is actually the gateway to discovering who we really are beneath all the roles we've played. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Breaking free from the timeline lie that says you're running out of time ➡️ How your body holds trauma even when you think you've moved on ➡️ The power of writing your future self into existence and living it now ➡️ Why forgiveness isn't for them; it's the key to breaking destructive patterns ➡️ Finding love after abuse and creating the relationship you never knew was possible ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN If you loved this episode, check out 'How Curiosity Cures the Client' - https://podcasts.apple.com/nl/podcast/how-curiosity-cures-the-client/id1676348200?i=1000611003337 I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [⁠https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min⁠] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Follow Noelle Kustas 🔗 Noelle Kustas is a Women’s Empowerment Mentor and the founder of Rise2Shine Co. She helps midlife mamas rediscover their purpose, reclaim confidence, and embrace their next chapter. Through her Rise 2 Shine Podcast and Glow Up School, Noelle empowers women to live with joy, step into their power, and create a life they love. Glow Up Blueprint Freebie - rise2shine.co/glowupblueprint IG: https://www.instagram.com/joyful_noelleIG: https://www.instagram.com/cvbusinessandbubblyFB:https://www.facebook.com/noelle.m.johnston/https://bit.ly/Rise2ShinePodcastYouTube

I had a beautiful conversation with Amanda Wilson-Ciocci about overcoming the fear of visibility, finding your voice, and creating meaningful impact in the world. Her journey from thyroid cancer survivor to empowering visionary entrepreneurs is remarkable, and she shares powerful insights about breaking free from people-pleasing patterns and stepping into authentic expression. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ The deep connection between physical health and suppressed truth (Amanda's thyroid cancer story and what it taught her about speaking up) ➡️ Why vulnerability and old conditioning keep so many women from being seen and heard ➡️ The difference between humility and invisibility—and why it's okay to take up space when anchored in your values ➡️ Starting small with your voice (from journaling to speaking publicly) and how tiny steps create massive ripple effects ➡️ Building a strong foundation within yourself so you can pour into relationships, business, and community without losing yourself ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min] Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Follow Amanda Wilson-Ciocci 🔗 Amanda Wilson-Ciocci is a two-time best-selling author, business strategist and proud mama of three. As the Founder of The Monarch & Co., Monarch Momentum Community, and Monarch Publishing House, Amanda has spent over 20 years helping heart-centered visionary entrepreneurs get clear, confident, and deeply connected to their purpose. She’s passionate about guiding visionary leaders to grow their impact, build legacy, and do the work they love—without losing themselves along the way. Her mission? To help you step into your brilliance, expand your influence, and build businesses that leave the world better than you found it. It’s the butterfly effect! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themonarchandco/Website: https://www.themonarchandco.com/

In this episode, I sit down with Seattle-based holistic therapist Casey Stevens to explore how blending traditional psychology with ancient energy practices opens doors that science alone can't reach. We dive into why Western psychology's labels and linear methods can feel claustrophobic, how spirituality offers the expansive freedom our healing requires, and what to do when religious trauma makes the word "God" itself triggering. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ The limitations of Western psychology and what spirituality uniquely offers in the healing journey ➡️ Rebuilding trust with deeper connection after religious trauma or spiritual injury ➡️ Why nervous system regulation must come before any other healing modality can work ➡️ The fascinating science behind near-death experiences and what happens in our final moments ➡️ How to use your body as a compass to discern what's true and safe for you ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min] XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Follow Casey Stevens 🔗 Casey is a Licensed Psychotherapist, Master Certified Consciousness Coach, and Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist with over a decade of clinical practice supporting clients worldwide. Blending behavioral science, psychoeducation, and quantum healing, she integrates traditional psychotherapy with intuitive and holistic approaches to facilitate deep somatic and spiritual transformation. Her work bridges science and spirituality—honoring the multidimensional layers of human experience while guiding clients toward conscious awakening, self-organization, and wholeness. Through her organic process of Invitation, Presence, Attunement, Release, and Restructuring, Casey helps clients dissolve limiting patterns and access their innate potential. Based in Washington State, Casey works globally as a psychotherapist, consultant, mentor, and coach, offering individual and group sessions, immersive healing experiences, and quantum channeled meditations. Website - https://shrinkbigger.com/ Schedule - https://schedulewithcasey-shrinkbigger.as.me/schedule/98bd8b00 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/shrinkbigger/

In this episode, I dive deep into one of the most fragile and precious elements of any relationship: trust. Trust feels harder to come by than ever in 2025, and when it's broken in a relationship, the typical advice (endless talking, couples therapy, or trying to control your partner's behavior) often leaves us spinning our wheels or feeling even more traumatized. I'm sharing the somatic approach that actually works to repair trust after betrayal, including a powerful real-life example from a client who used these exact tools to shift the dynamic in her marriage. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Why trust is so fragile in relationships and what it really means from a somatic perspective ➡️ The three-step framework for rebuilding trust: starting with yourself, reconnecting with God/source, and completing the repair with your partner ➡️ Practical somatic tools to find safety in your own nervous system when you're in a fawn response ➡️ How to communicate boundaries (not requests) in a way that invites respect and curiosity from your partner ➡️ A real client example showing exactly how to use short, clear, kind communication to shift the dance in your relationship ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min] XO Huge Hugs - Becky

I'm thrilled to catch up with Kelly Brock again! After hitting rock bottom with an adrenal crash and losing everything she'd built, Kelly spent two years in what we call a "soul sabbatical," completely stepping away from business to heal and understand the cycles that led to her burnout. Now she's back with hard-won wisdom about money, nervous system regulation, and building sustainable success that doesn't cost you your peace. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Why understanding business seasons (spring, summer, fall, winter) is essential to avoiding burnout and financial collapse ➡️ How Kelly's encounter with money expert Amanda Francis gave her permission to trust herself again after devastating losses ➡️ The surprising truth about debt being neutral - and how shame around money creates toxic relationship patterns ➡️ What an adrenal crash really is (the "flop response") and why it's actually your nervous system's wisdom protecting you ➡️ Building "rooted elevation" - keeping your feet on the ground while reaching for visionary goals without sacrificing relationships or health ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min] Other episodes featuring Kelly: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-breakthrough-blueprint-with-becky-aste-for-the/id1676348200?i=1000606865731 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-breakthrough-blueprint-with-becky-aste-for-the/id1676348200?i=1000651522790 XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Follow Kelly Brock 🔗 Kelly Brock is an entrepreneur and CEO of Kelly Brock Co., a coaching company that empowers women to live out authentic and abundant lives. From self-leadership and intuition development to branding and sales, Kelly coaches women to define the life they desire and equips them with the tools they need to make it their reality. Website: www.kellybrockco.com Personal Instagram: @kellybrock Business Instagram: @kbcollectiveofficial Podcast: Guide Not Guru Work with her: https://www.kellybrockco.com/available-offers

In this powerful conversation with Hope Pedraza, we explore the intersection of physical health, energy work, and human design, diving deep into how our bodies hold the keys to transformation when we stop compartmentalizing ourselves. Hope shares her quantum healing approach that addresses body, mind, and spirit as one interconnected system, revealing why your chronic symptoms might be pointing to patterns far deeper than what conventional medicine can see. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Understanding quantum healing and why we can't separate physical symptoms from emotional and energetic patterns ➡️ How human design reveals your energetic blueprint and connects to physical health issues ➡️ The relationship between emotional processing, detox organs, and chronic inflammation ➡️ Why medical anxiety and health obsession might stem from undefined energy centers in your chart ➡️ Breaking free from dietary restrictions and the bubble-wrap approach to wellness that keeps you stuck ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min] XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Follow Hope Pedraza 🔗 Hope Pedraza is a Functional Diagnostic Nutrition Practitioner, Human Design Guide, Clinical Hypnotherapist, and host of the Hopeful and Wholesome podcast. She helps high-performing, spiritually curious women optimize their energy, rebalance their nervous system, and reconnect with their body’s wisdom so they can scale their business and life without burnout. Her signature method blends functional labs, Human Design embodiment, and subconscious reprogramming to create sustainable radiance from the inside out. Take the FREE Energy Leak Locator quiz to find out where your energy is leaking and how to fix it: https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/67f804c78eec070015ad4d2e facebook.com/thehopepedrazainstagram.com/thehopepedrazahttps://www.youtube.com/@HopePedrazahttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hopeful-and-wholesome/id1514451766https://www.linkedin.com/in/hopepedraza2020/

Today I'm diving deep into the hidden world of synthetic food dyes with filmmakers Brandon and Whitney Cawood, whose personal journey from desperate parents to documentary creators has sparked a nationwide movement. We're exploring how these petroleum-derived chemicals might be affecting our children's behavior, the shocking differences between American and European food standards, and practical steps you can take to protect your family. Their story reveals how one family's crisis became a catalyst for change that's now influencing legislation across multiple states. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ How synthetic dyes transformed their son from aggressive to easygoing in 48 hours ➡️ The shocking truth about American vs European food manufacturing standards ➡️ Why RED3 has been banned in cosmetics since 1990 but still allowed in food ➡️ Practical strategies for navigating dye-free living without overwhelming anxiety ➡️ The current state of food industry pushback and legislative victories across states ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ The Universal, Savage Cycle of Shame: ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-breakthrough-blueprint-with-becky-aste-for-the/id1676348200?i=1000608932388⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min] XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Follow Brandon + Whitney Cawood 🔗 After discovering their child’s sensitivity to synthetic dyes, Brandon and Whitney Cawood, parents-turned-filmmakers, embarked on a journey to uncover the hidden impacts of these additives. Their documentary combines scientific insights and personal stories from affected families, revealing the unseen dangers of synthetic dyes. Through expert interviews and heartfelt narratives, the Cawoods aim to raise awareness of the profound effects these chemicals can have on individuals and families alike. Since beginning this journey, they’ve also become national advocates, working on legislation across the U.S. to help protect children from harmful food additives. Landing Page: https://www.todyeforthedocumentary.com/Resources Page: https://www.todyeforthedocumentary.com/resources Social Media Linkshttps://www.facebook.com/todyeforthedocumentaryhttps://www.instagram.com/todyeforthedocumentary/https://www.facebook.com/groups/1701662223504375

I had this mind-blowing revelation while reading the virgin birth story about how Jesus came from what might be the messiest start to a marriage anyone could imagine. It got me thinking about my own journey from picture-perfect beginnings to a decade of struggle that nearly destroyed everything, and how that pain became the foundation for everything meaningful in my life today. This episode is about surrendering the small teddy bear for the giant one you can't see yet, and why your messiest chapters might actually be your most sacred. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ How the world's greatest miracle came from Mary and Joseph's complicated, messy marriage beginning ➡️ The dangerous foundation of building relationships on perfectionism, people-pleasing, and hyperachieving ➡️ Why accepting painful truths is the first step to healing (plus a powerful client breakthrough story) ➡️ The "teddy bear" metaphor for trusting the process when everything feels like it's being taken away ➡️ Why our nervous systems actually relax with imperfection and why messy can be more sacred than perfect ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ The Universal, Savage Cycle of Shame: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-breakthrough-blueprint-with-becky-aste-for-the/id1676348200?i=1000608932388 Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min] XO Huge Hugs - Becky

Justin Buonomo is back on this week for a refreshingly honest conversation about the intersection of faith, finances, and entrepreneurship. We dive deep into the personal limiting beliefs that nearly derailed his success, explore how to discern when struggles are meant to refine us versus redirect us, and discuss the practical rhythms that help him balance a seven-figure business with being present for his family. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Overcoming the limiting belief that you can control outcomes in entrepreneurship ➡️ Distinguishing between divine discomfort and lack of alignment when facing struggles ➡️ Why running to God before Google, ChatGPT, or mentors transforms decision-making ➡️ Building daily rhythms that prioritize faith while balancing business and family demands ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FREE Higher Self Guided Visualization - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vimeo.com/948846163⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min] XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Follow Justin Buonomo 🔗 Justin Buonomo is the Owner & CEO of JFF. A financial coaching company for the faith based and ambitious. He is also a proud husband and father. JFF - Journey To Financial Freedom: Financial Coaching For The Faith Based & Ambitious. We help people who feel stuck financially create financial peace and progress in a way that aligns with biblical principles without all the restrictions and overwhelm. https://www.instagram.com/justin_buonomo/?hl=en https://journeytofinancialfreedom.co/freeguide

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Jacey Goddard to explore how our very first moments of life can shape our relationships and nervous system patterns for decades to come. We dive deep into the often-overlooked connection between birth experiences and adult attachment styles, revealing how physical tension from birth can manifest as relationship challenges, anxiety, and difficulty with emotional regulation. Dr. Goddard shares her unique approach to healing that empowers people to rewire their own nervous systems through simple, practical techniques that can be used anywhere, anytime. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ How birth experiences (too fast, too slow, C-sections) create physical tension that impacts babies' ability to latch, sleep, and regulate emotions ➡️ The Satisfaction Cycle and how disruptions in early movement patterns shape our adult attachment styles and relationship dynamics ➡️ Why focusing on what feels good in your body rather than trying to "fix" problems creates lasting nervous system changes ➡️ The revolutionary idea that healing doesn't require big breakthroughs - it's found in subtle, simple shifts practiced consistently throughout the day ➡️ Practical techniques for grounding yourself by bringing attention to the lower half of your body to instantly calm anxiety and improve presence in relationships ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FREE Higher Self Guided Visualization - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vimeo.com/948846163⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min] XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Follow Dr. Jacey Goddard 🔗 Dr. Jacey Goddard is a Triple Board-Certified Physician with 3 specialties: Integrative Medicine, Neuromusculoskeletal/Osteopathic Manipulative Medicine, and Family Medicine. Through her own healing journey, work with patients with problems that couldn't be helped or "was all in their head", and extensive study of the autonomic nervous system, hands on healing, and the mind body spirit connection. When she realized that she could feel when the nervous system relaxes, she saw patients heal their relationships, their palpitations, and their panic attacks. Her mission is to empower people to make the simple connection to feel good, and truly integrate Mind, Body & Spirit every day. Email: [email protected] https://www.drjaceygoddard.com/https://www.instagram.com/drjaceygoddard/https://www.facebook.com/drjaceygoddard/https://www.youtube.com/@DrJaceyGoddard/videos

In this episode, I sit down with Nathan Francis, a former teacher turned young men's mentor, who shares his raw journey from a decade of partying and self-destructive behavior to finding his purpose in helping teenagers navigate the challenges of modern masculinity. We dive deep into the biggest issue facing young men today - pornography addiction - and explore how parents can create safe spaces for vulnerable conversations with their sons. Nathan's story is a powerful reminder that our darkest moments can become the foundation for our greatest purpose. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ How Nathan's rock-bottom moment falling through a table became his catalyst for transformation and spiritual awakening ➡️ The destructive impact of pornography on young men's development and how to break free from sexual addiction patterns ➡️ Why semen retention and channeling life force energy can be game-changing for men's confidence, energy, and personal power ➡️ The importance of vulnerability and emotional expression for men, and how to help young men connect authentically with themselves and others ➡️ Practical advice for parents on having age-appropriate conversations about sexuality and creating connection instead of relying on screens and gaming ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FREE Higher Self Guided Visualization - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vimeo.com/948846163⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min] XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Follow Nathan Francis 🔗 Nathan Francis, a former school teacher turned Young Mens mentor, shares his transformative journey. Nathan's story is a testament to the power of self-awareness and spiritual growth, revealing how practices like quantum healing and Reiki mastery have not only reshaped his life but also inspired him to help teenagers discover their true potential Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/OSS.Health.Mind Personal Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nath.francis69 Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nathanfrancis222?_t=8iKxXw8R2ee&_r=1 Telegram: https://t.me/nathf94  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nathanfrancis__/ Email me anytime: [email protected] The Breaking Free Podcast Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1fHxmfbFZwyZPIcOrjw3Hf?si=q42PtUR4Qeu8SvUuWDMrpw Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/breaking-free-podcast/id1657951151 Youtube: https://youtube.com/@nathanfrancis__?si=df69YA7zK-CUeG8-

In this episode, I sit down with former lawyer turned psychedelic facilitator Julie Hagen to explore the world of psilocybin microdosing and its potential for healing anxiety, depression, and trauma. We dive deep into the myths and realities surrounding psychedelics, examining whether they're truly transformative medicine or just another wellness trend. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ What psilocybin actually is and how microdosing differs from "tripping" - including safe dosages and what to expect ➡️ The connection between somatic processing and psychedelics for trauma healing without re-traumatization ➡️ Why intention setting matters and how to approach psychedelics with emotional rather than outcome-based goals ➡️ The concept of "no bad trips" and how challenging experiences can lead to deeper transformation ➡️ Contraindications for psilocybin use and practical steps for someone curious about exploring it therapeutically ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FREE Higher Self Guided Visualization - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vimeo.com/948846163⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min] XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Follow Julie Hagen 🔗 Julie is a former lawyer who finally broke out of 20 years of people pleasing and anxiety through a combination of personal development, somatic processing, thought work, and an intentional psychedelic practice. Using psilocybin at the micro and macro levels combined with her certifications in coaching and breathwork, Julie helps people rediscover their most authentic selves, live unapologetically, and break through plateaus and cycles of anxiety, depression, and unsupportive beliefs and behaviors. Julie is obsessed with both the How and the Why of this process as well understanding and respecting the energetic component as well as indigenous traditions. https://www.juliecyvonne.com/offers/mTWHZACzhttps://www.instagram.com/juliecyvonne/

In this episode, I’m sharing two major secrets to finding safety after trauma: how to seek somatic safety and how to solve subconscious stories. If you're in survival mode, this episode is for you. ✨ Topics Covered In this Episode ➡️ Understanding somatic safety and its role in trauma recovery ➡️ Identifying and addressing subconscious stories that hinder healing ➡️ Practical steps to create a sense of safety in your body ➡️ The importance of nervous system regulation in overcoming trauma ➡️ How to begin the journey from survival mode to thriving⁠Podbay⁠ 💌 Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN Loved this episode? I’d love to hear from you! Come say hello on Instagram! ➡️⁠ instagram.com/becky_aste⁠ and DM me the word “PODCAST” for a free training resource that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgment here ;) Here’s my website! ➡️⁠ www.idobreakthrough.com Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min]

Kyle Spears is back on the podcast and we're diving deep into parts work - exploring how the different voices in your head aren't something to fear, but actually roadmaps to your deepest healing. If you've ever wondered why you have different parts inside of you (think Inside Out the movie), this conversation will blow your mind. Kyle even walks me through a live parts work session on the podcast - it gets real, vulnerable, and incredibly healing as you witness firsthand how parts work can transform shame into compassion. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ What parts work is and how Internal Family Systems (IFS) differs from other healing modalities ➡️ The three types of parts: exiles, managers, and firefighters - and how they develop to protect us ➡️ Why your inner critic isn't the enemy (and how it's actually trying to keep you safe) ➡️ How "firefighter" parts show up when we're overwhelmed - from scrolling to substances to self-sabotage ➡️ A live parts work demonstration where Kyle helps me dialogue with my inner critic and discover what she really wants ➡️ The 8 C's of the core self and why curiosity and compassion are essential for healing ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FREE Higher Self Guided Visualization - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vimeo.com/948846163⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min] If you enjoyed this episode with Kyle, here’s his other one: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-breakthrough-blueprint-with-becky-aste-for-the/id1676348200?i=1000627985444 XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Follow Kyle Spears 🔗 Kyle Spears is a licensed therapist specializing in Internal Family Systems (IFS), dedicated to helping individuals heal through deeper self-understanding and compassion. With a background in faith-based counseling and trauma-informed care, Kyle integrates the transformative principles of IFS to guide clients in reconnecting with their core Self and unburdening wounded inner parts. As a passionate speaker, therapist, and educator, Kyle brings clarity to complex emotional dynamics, offering listeners practical tools for inner healing, emotional regulation, and relational growth. His approach blends clinical insight with spiritual depth, creating space for authentic, soul-centered transformation. Whether he's unpacking the IFS model, exploring the intersection of psychology and faith, or sharing stories from the therapy room, Kyle offers thought-provoking conversations that inspire healing from the inside out. www.youtube.com/@truthtraumatheologywww.truthtraumatheology.com

In this episode, I’m exploring how our bodies respond when we’re faced with big, looming decisions — especially when trauma is in the background. We’ll take a gentle look at how past experiences might be showing up in the present through tension, fear, numbness, or even overthinking. Through a blend of meditation, reflection, guided visualization, and insight, this episode is designed to help you meet those big choices with more clarity and care. ✨ Topics Covered in this Episode ➡️ How trauma lives in the body and influences decision-making ➡️ Common nervous system responses during high-stakes moments ➡️ Tools for recognising your body’s cues before making a big move ➡️ How guided meditation and visualization can support clarity ➡️ Creating safety within yourself when faced with uncertainty 💌 Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN Loved this episode? I’d love to hear from you! Come say hello on Instagram! ➡️⁠ instagram.com/becky_aste⁠ and DM me the word “PODCAST” for a free training resource that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgment here ;) Here’s my website! ➡️⁠ www.idobreakthrough.com Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min]

I knew this conversation with Kristina would be tender, heavy, and potentially triggering - but also desperately needed. We're diving into a topic that's rarely discussed from this perspective: what it's like to be the woman who steps outside of her marriage. Kristina courageously shares her seven-year journey through an affair, the crushing weight of shame that followed, and how she ultimately found healing through radical honesty and somatic work. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ The snowball effect: how disconnection, miscarriages, and unmet emotional needs created the perfect storm for infidelity ➡️ How shame manifests in the body and mind - from compartmentalization to the desperate need to disappear ➡️ The viral Coldplay concert scandal and what it reveals about our collective judgment versus compassion ➡️ Why "judging a tree by its fruit" requires curiosity, not condemnation - and how Jesus modeled radical grace ➡️ Practical rhythms for dissolving shame: radical honesty, somatic practices, and finding safe people to hold your story ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FREE Higher Self Guided Visualization - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vimeo.com/948846163⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min] XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Follow Kristina Robertson 🔗 Intimacy After Infidelity Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/intimacy-after-infidelity-rebuild-connection-emotional/id1691443054 IG- @kristinajoycoaching www.kristinajoycoaching.com

This conversation felt like an exhale—an invitation to reconnect with your body, your rhythm, and the ancestral wisdom that’s been here all along. Harmony Robinson-Stagg brings almost two decades of experience in Ayurveda, Traditional Chinese Medicine, and Western health to help us remember: the way forward is through remembering what we already know. We talk about hormonal harmony, business building, and how ancient practices can support modern women in leadership, motherhood, and nervous system healing. Whether you’re new to Ayurveda or craving a deeper integration, this one will leave you feeling grounded and lit up. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ How Ayurvedic principles apply to the nervous system and feminine cycles ➡️ The connection between rhythm, regulation, and running a sustainable business ➡️ What it looks like to honor your capacity as a season—not a setback ➡️ Why ancient wisdom is the most underrated business strategy out there ➡️ The power of remembering who you were before the world told you to override your body ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FREE Higher Self Guided Visualization - ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vimeo.com/948846163⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min] XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Follow Harmony Robinson-Stagg 🔗 Discover your Dosha: https://bit.ly/doshQizFree 30-minute Clarity Call - https://p.bttr.to/3r0ymHbHarmony's Website - https://www.harmonyinspiredhealth.com.au

Let’s talk about the sneaky, shiny distractions of the healing world and how they might actually be keeping you from real transformation. In this conversation with Keri Ford, we unpack the myths that masquerade as healing (hello breathwork addiction, spiritual bypassing, and the pressure to “manifest better”). Keri shares what it actually means to do nervous system healing in a sustainable, embodied way, without outsourcing your power or numbing with wellness tools. If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the right things and still not feeling better, this one is for you. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Why “healing highs” can be addictive—and how they keep you stuck ➡️ The difference between bypassing and integration ➡️ What it means to earn safety in your nervous system ➡️ How the coaching and personal development industries often confuse stimulus with transformation ➡️ The power of slowing down, staying present, and letting healing feel boring (on purpose) ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN If you loved this episode, listen to our previous one - 'Healing the Hyper-Achiever Within': https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/healing-the-hyper-achiever-within/id1676348200?i=1000631189513 I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FREE Higher Self Guided Visualization - ⁠⁠⁠https://vimeo.com/948846163⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min] XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Follow Keri Ford 🔗 Keri Ford, former award-winning Creative Director, is the CEO & Founder of Elevate with Keri, a global luxury brand transforming leadership for top female founders. As the Holy High Council for women in business, she uses advanced nervous system regulation, somatic strategies, and peak neuroscience performance to help clients achieve unparalleled success. Recognized as a Top 100 Global Visionary, Keri empowers her clients to expand their potential while cultivating greater peace, profit, and productivity. https://www.instagram.com/iamkeriford/http://facebook.com/kerilynn.fordhttp://www.linkedin.com/in/kerifordofficial Champagne Club - https://elevatewithkeri.ticketspice.com/the-champagne-club-by-keri-ford?kuid=231913af-3ccf-4fec-a3c5-15efa90d5661-1740416926&kref=https%3A%2F%2Felevatewithkeri.com%2F Made for More Retreats - https://elevatewithkeri.com/made-for-more/

When I say this conversation is real, raw, and deeply restorative—I mean it. Alex Long returns to the podcast to pull back the curtain on her personal journey through divorce, not as a defeat but as a doorway. As a client in the Root to Rise program, Alex did the deep nervous system and somatic work to move from confusion to clarity, from grasping to grounded. Together, we explore what it means to stay too long, to trust your body’s wisdom, and to do the hard work of becoming someone you deeply respect. This is a masterclass in self-trust, grief, growth, and the sacred rebellion of choosing yourself. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ How to tell the difference between avoidance and intuition ➡️ What happens when your nervous system finally feels safe to leave ➡️ Why doing “everything right” in your relationship doesn’t guarantee alignment ➡️ The surprising beauty of an amicable divorce—and what it actually takes ➡️ Learning to celebrate relief, reclaim creativity, and trust that you’ll be okay—even after everything ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN Loved this episode? I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FREE Higher Self Guided Visualization - ⁠⁠⁠https://vimeo.com/948846163⁠⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min] XO Huge Hugs - Becky

If you’ve ever felt stuck, knowing what you want but struggling to follow through, you are not alone. In this conversation with Master Certified Coach Trista Guertin, we explore the deeper reasons behind self-sabotage, why it’s not a personal flaw, and how to begin gently moving forward. With a compassionate lens and practical tools, we talk about building emotional resilience, understanding your nervous system, and creating lasting change from a place of self-trust. This episode is a safe space to release shame, reconnect with your inner wisdom, and remember that growth is possible—even in the smallest steps. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Why self-sabotage is often a protective response, not a personal failure ➡️ How your nervous system and primitive brain are working behind the scenes—and how to work with them ➡️ The role of self-compassion in breaking old patterns and building confidence ➡️ Real-life strategies for taking action when fear and procrastination show up ➡️ The importance of slowing down, listening inward, and honoring your own pace of change ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN Loved this episode? I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠⁠ Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ FREE Higher Self Guided Visualization - ⁠⁠https://vimeo.com/948846163⁠⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min] XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Follow Trista Guertin 🔗 https://www.tristaguertin.com https://www.instagram.com/tristavguertin

In this deeply personal episode, I’m sharing my money story—the biggest money wounds from childhood into adulthood and all the mistakes I made along the way. This is the most vulnerable I’ve ever been on this podcast, but I wanted to share it all with you, including what I’ve done to turn it all around today. ✨ Topics Covered In this Episode ➡️ My earliest money memories and how they shaped my beliefs ➡️ The shame and self-sabotage that kept me stuck ➡️ How I started healing my relationship with money ➡️ The role of somatic work in financial transformation ➡️ What I wish I’d known sooner about money and self-worth 💌 Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN Loved this episode? I’d love to hear from you! Come say hello on Instagram! ➡️⁠ instagram.com/becky_aste⁠ and DM me the word “PODCAST” for a free training resource that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgment here ;) Here’s my website! ➡️⁠ www.idobreakthrough.com Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min] Justin Buonomo:https://www.instagram.com/justin_buonomo?igsh=cW40ZnRjcTgydGh1 Jerremy Newsome: https://www.instagram.com/jerremynewsome?igsh=MXRrYXZlYXhwcXAzcw== Kelly Brock: https://www.instagram.com/kellybrock?igsh=MTEwd3VqY24wNnJtdA==

Today I'm joined by Elicia Ybarra to tackle one of the most important—and often overlooked—conversations around self-defense and safety for women. Elicia shares her deeply personal story of resilience, healing, and how Pretty Hands, Hard Punches was born out of her own lived experience. We dig into the myths and misconceptions about self-defense, why boundaries are the cornerstone of safety, and how physical, emotional, and mental self-protection all go hand-in-hand. Whether you’ve personally faced abuse, want to feel more empowered, or are raising daughters and wondering how to keep them safe without living in constant fear, this conversation is equal parts sobering and empowering. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ The myths women are taught about self-defense and victim-blaming ➡️ Why boundaries are the foundation of true safety and empowerment ➡️ Practical self-defense tools every woman can learn and use ➡️ How to approach healing from past trauma and reclaim your power ➡️ Parenting strategies to foster safety, awareness, and open communication with kids ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN Loved this episode? I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠⁠ Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠⁠ FREE Higher Self Guided Visualization - ⁠https://vimeo.com/948846163⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min] XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Follow Elicia Ybarra 🔗 www.prettyhandshardpunches.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/prettyhandshardpunches LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/prettyhandshardpunches/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/prettyhandshardpunches/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@PrettyHandsHardPunches PROMO CODE: EmpowerHer 21 Days to Unbreakable is a 21-day women’s self-defense confidence training with video lessons, a guided workbook, practice drills, and community support. Enrollment opens March 2. Use code  IDoBreakthrough2026   for $50 off here: https://www.prettyhandshardpunches.com/unbreakable

In this episode, I’m talking with the brilliant Jessica Papineau, and we’re diving into what it really means to feel confident in your own skin... and in your closet. Jessica shares how our clothing choices are often tied to deep internal beliefs, and how transforming your wardrobe can actually transform your mindset. We explore how body image, identity, and even trauma show up in what we wear and how we shop. This conversation is packed with permission, encouragement, and zero pressure to become someone you’re not. If you’ve ever felt frustrated staring at your closet or wondered if style can be healing, this one’s for you. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ Why confidence isn’t just about what you wear, but how you feel ➡️ Letting go of shame-based shopping and style habits ➡️ How body image and life transitions impact our wardrobe ➡️ Practical ways to dress in alignment with who you’re becoming ➡️ Redefining “put-together” as authentic, not performative ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN Loved this episode? I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠⁠ Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠⁠ FREE Higher Self Guided Visualization - https://vimeo.com/948846163 Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min] XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Follow Jessica Papineau 🔗 https://www.csjstyling.com https://www.instagram.com/thejessicapapineau/ https://www.facebook.com/customizedstylingbyjessica/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/thejessicapapineau Take the Power Presence Index Quiz: https://csjstyling.com/power/

This week, I’m joined by the wise and grounded Jenni Rae for a conversation that’s going to hit home for so many of us—how to break free from the crazy cycle in relationships. You know the one: where the more we try to protect ourselves, the more disconnected and misunderstood we feel. Jenni shares her story of rebuilding after the loss of a child sent ripple effects of trauma that lasted years and nearly ended her marriage...and how recognizing her own patterns helped her stop reacting from fear and start leading with curiosity. We talk about what it means to show up from a place of groundedness, even when your nervous system is freaking out. If you've ever found yourself stuck in the same arguments, miscommunications, or shutdown moments—you’re not alone, and this one’s for you. ✨ Topics Covered ➡️ What the “crazy cycle” actually is and how it forms ➡️ How to repair after emotional shutdowns or blow-ups ➡️ The difference between regulating for connection vs. control ➡️ Grounding tools that actually work mid-conflict ➡️ Rewiring your nervous system so love feels safe again ———————————————————————— Love Note From Becky Aste: Here’s the replay link for UNSPOKEN!  https://tinyurl.com/BeckyAsteUNSPOKEN Loved this episode? I’d love to hear from you! Dm me "PODCAST" on Instagram and I’ll send you a free training that pairs perfectly with this episode 💬 ➡️ ⁠instagram.com/becky_aste⁠ Would rather stalk before we talk? No judgement here ;) Here’s my website!➡️ ⁠www.idobreakthrough.com⁠ Want to learn more about working with Becky? Book a call with her right here: [https://calendly.com/beckyaste/60min] XO Huge Hugs - Becky ———————————————————————— ➡️ Follow Jenni Rae 🔗 Instagram at @jenniraeoates | https://www.instagram.com/jenniraeoates/Facebook @jenni rae oates https://www.facebook.com/thejenniraeoatesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JenniRaeOatesLinked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jenni-rae-oates-7400a7215/ Her e-Book: https://jennirae.com/freefromthecrazy