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PeriMOMopause

Perimenopause? Isn't 40 too young for that? I’m a mom of 3 young humans trying to figure out what this new-found second coming of puberty means for me - mind, body and spirit. Join me through my trials and musings of midlife motherhood.

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    Your Life Might Be Too Full

    What if the problem isn’t you…What if your life is just carrying too much?In midlife, many women are juggling everything—work, kids, aging parents, households, emotional labor—and doing it all while their bodies are changing.And somewhere along the way, overwhelm becomes normal.In this episode, we’re naming that overload—and talking about what it looks like to create space again without guilt, without perfection, and without needing to “burn it all down.”✨ In this episode, we explore:The invisible mental load women carry every dayWhy midlife makes overload harder to sustainHow hormonal shifts impact stress, sleep, and recoveryThe power of simplification (and what that can actually look like)Why creating space is one of the most powerful things you can do💛 Reflection:What is one small way I could create more space in my life this week?

  2. 97

    Why Midlife Makes You Want to Change Everything

    Have you ever looked at your life and thought…Do I want to change everything?In your 40s, that feeling can come out of nowhere—sudden urges to shift your work, your relationships, your routines, even your identity. And it can feel unsettling.But what if it’s not a crisis?What if it’s recalibration?In this episode, we’re unpacking why midlife naturally brings a desire for change—and how to understand that feeling without panicking or blowing up your entire life.✨ In this episode, we talk about:Why reevaluating your life in midlife is developmentally normalHow hormonal and energy shifts influence your tolerance and prioritiesThe difference between wanting to escape vs. needing to realignHow to get curious about change instead of reacting to it💛 Reflection:Where in my life am I feeling the pull toward change—and what might that feeling be trying to teach me?

  3. 96

    My Experience With Wellbutrin and Finally Asking for Help

    This episode is a little more personalWe’re talking about something many women feel… but don’t always say out loud: What happens when you can’t keep carrying everything on your own anymore?In midlife, the emotional load can quietly build—years of responsibility, caregiving, planning, holding it all together. And then one day, it just feels… heavier.In this episode, I’m sharing my experience with starting Wellbutrin—not as advice, but as part of a bigger conversation about mental health, support, and what it means to finally say: I need help.Because asking for support isn’t failure. It’s a turning point.✨ In this episode, we explore:The slow build of emotional overwhelm in midlifeWhy asking for help can feel so uncomfortable (and even shameful)My personal decision to try WellbutrinHow to reframe support as strength—not weaknessWhy more women need to talk about mental health in this stage of life💛 Reflection:What would it look like to treat my mental health with the same care I give everyone else?

  4. 95

    Perimenopause Is Like a Second Puberty

    What if nothing is “going wrong”… and your body is actually going through a transition?In this episode, we’re reframing perimenopause as something most of us were never taught to understand—a second puberty. Because when your skin changes, your energy shifts, or breakouts suddenly return in your 40s, it can feel confusing (and honestly, a little unfair).But these changes aren’t random. They’re hormonal. They’re physiological. And they’re normal.We’ll talk about what’s really happening beneath the surface—from estrogen’s role in skin and hair, to why your body may need different support with food, hydration, and lifestyle in midlife.This episode is your reminder that your body isn’t failing you—it’s evolving.✨ In this episode, we cover:Why perimenopause can feel like puberty all over againHow hormonal shifts impact skin, hair, and breakoutsWhy nutrition and blood sugar matter more nowGentle ways to support your body (and your skin) in midlife💛 Reflection:If my body is going through a transition—not a decline—how might I support it differently?

  5. 94

    Midlife Women Are Changing The Script

    The cultural image of midlife women is changing.For decades, women over 40 were portrayed as fading into the background — caregivers, comic relief, or grandmother roles.Today we are seeing something different.Women in their 40s, 50s, and beyond are remaining visible, powerful, stylish, and vibrant.In this episode we explore:• how media has historically portrayed aging women• why representation matters• the cultural shift happening right now• how midlife women are rewriting the narrative about agingMidlife is no longer a story about disappearance.It’s a story about evolution.

  6. 93

    The Tiny Joys Saving My Midlife Sanity

    Midlife can feel incredibly full — responsibilities, family logistics, work, and the invisible mental load many women carry.In the middle of that busyness, tiny joys can become surprisingly powerful.In this episode we explore how small daily pleasures help regulate the nervous system and make life feel more manageable.We talk about:• why small joys matter more than we think• how stress narrows our attention• examples of simple rituals that bring ease• learning to notice joy again in everyday lifeTiny joys are not frivolous.They’re restorative.

  7. 92

    The Strange Season of Midlife Motherhood

    Midlife motherhood can be an emotional paradox.As our children grow more independent, we often experience a mix of pride, nostalgia, and unexpected grief.In this episode we explore the emotional complexity of parenting older children and how this transition intersects with midlife identity shifts.Topics include:• the bittersweet nature of parenting milestones• watching children grow up while rediscovering yourself• holding pride and nostalgia at the same time• redefining motherhood as children become more independentMidlife motherhood isn’t the end of parenting.It’s the beginning of a new relationship with our children — and ourselves.

  8. 91

    Upping Your Style Game in Midlife

    At some point in midlife, many women look in their closet and think: None of this feels like me anymore.Bodies change.Priorities shift.And the clothes that once worked suddenly feel disconnected from who we are now.In this episode we explore style in midlife — not as pressure to look younger, but as an opportunity to reconnect with self-expression.We talk about:• why many women feel disconnected from their wardrobe in their 40s & 50s• body changes and clothing comfort• the balance between comfort and polish• rebuilding a wardrobe slowly and intentionally• small ways to feel more put together againMidlife style doesn’t require a dramatic makeover.Sometimes it’s simply choosing clothes that say: I’m still here.

  9. 90

    Why Women in Their 40s Suddenly Want More Quiet

    Have you noticed that in your 40s you suddenly crave more quiet?Things that never bothered you before — noise, busy schedules, crowded rooms — can start to feel overwhelming.You’re not imagining it.During perimenopause, hormonal shifts and cumulative life stress can change how our nervous systems process stimulation. Many women find themselves needing more solitude, more recovery time, and more intentional quiet.In this episode we talk about:• why midlife women often feel more overstimulated• how hormonal changes affect stress tolerance• why solitude becomes essential instead of optional• practical ways to protect quiet time without guiltIf you’ve been wondering why you suddenly want less noise and more space, this episode will help you understand what your body is asking for.Your nervous system isn’t failing you — it’s communicating.

  10. 89

    Rebuilding Confidence Without Pressure

    Confidence in midlife often feels different — quieter, more personal, less performative.In this episode, we explore how body changes, identity shifts, and life transitions can impact self-image — and how to rebuild confidence without tying it to weight loss or perfection.You’ll hear about:Why confidence shifts during midlifeThe myth that confidence comes after body changeRebuilding self-trust through comfort and expressionSmall daily choices that help you feel like yourself againThis conversation is about permission, not pressure.

  11. 88

    Inflammation, Puffiness, and Feeling “Off”: Simple Levers That Help

    Feeling puffy, inflamed, heavy, or just… off?This episode explores the vague but very real experience many women have in midlife — when nothing seems clearly wrong, but you don’t quite feel like yourself.We’ll talk about how hormones, stress, and nervous system load contribute to inflammation and fluid retention, and why this is often an adaptive response — not a failure.Inside this episode:Why “feeling off” is so common in midlifeThe connection between stress, cortisol, and inflammationWhy restriction can make symptoms worseSimple, supportive levers that actually help

  12. 87

    The Midlife Belly: The Truth + The Support (Without Diet Culture)

    Let’s talk about the change many women feel but rarely say out loud — the midlife belly.In this episode, we unpack why belly changes happen during perimenopause, why diet culture explanations often fail in midlife, and what actually supports your body without shame or punishment.You’ll hear:The biological reasons belly changes happenHow cortisol, estrogen, and stress influence fat storageWhy restriction and overtraining often backfireSupportive strategies rooted in safety, not controlThis is a conversation about understanding your body — not fighting it.

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    Peri Body Changes: What’s Normal, What’s Not, What Helps

    If your body feels unfamiliar in midlife, you’re not alone — and you’re not doing anything wrong.In this episode, we’re talking about the body changes that often show up during perimenopause: weight shifts, bloating, joint stiffness, sleep changes, digestive changes, and that quiet question so many women carry — is this normal?This conversation is about context, not fear. You’ll learn what changes are common during hormonal transition, what deserves extra support, and how to move from panic into curiosity and collaboration with your body.Inside this episode:Why midlife body changes can feel so alarmingCommon perimenopause symptoms explainedThe difference between “normal” and “needs support”Gentle ways to support your body without turning it into a project

  14. 85

    Nervous System Reset for Moms: 7 Micro-Practices That Actually Work

    If every wellness suggestion feels like it requires more time, energy, or discipline — this episode meets you where you actually are.We’re talking about nervous system regulation for real life, not retreats or perfect routines. These are micro-practices designed to work inside busy, overstimulated days.In this episode, you’ll learn:Why your nervous system feels constantly “on”What regulation actually means (hint: not constant calm)7 simple, body-based practices you can use immediatelyHow to make regulation sustainable instead of another taskYou don’t need all seven.Take what you need, leave the rest.

  15. 84

    Brain Fog & Motivation in Perimenopause: Why Everything Feels Harder (and What Helps)

    If your brain feels slower…If motivation feels like it disappeared overnight…If you’re wondering whether something is wrong with you…This episode is for you.Brain fog in perimenopause is common — and deeply misunderstood. In this conversation, we unpack what’s actually happening in your brain, why motivation drops, and how shame makes everything worse.You’ll learn:What “brain fog” really is (and isn’t)How fluctuating hormones affect focus and motivationWhy pressure backfires when your system is depletedWhat actually helps — without turning life into another projectThis is not about fixing yourself.It’s about understanding what your brain needs right now.

  16. 83

    Rest Is Self-Love: Redefining Valentine’s Day in Midlife

    Valentine’s Day in midlife can feel complicated — especially if you’re exhausted, stretched thin, and carrying more emotional labor than anyone sees.In this episode, we reframe self-love away from performance and toward something far more sustainable: rest.Not collapse.Not checking out.But intentional, protective, chosen rest.We talk about:Why rest feels uncomfortable (and even “wrong”) for so many womenThe difference between rest and burnout-induced collapseHow rest supports relationships, not threatens themWhy boundaries and energy protection are acts of loveThis episode is about permission — and choosing a definition of love that actually fits midlife.

  17. 82

    Burnout vs. Perimenopause: Powerful Questions to Ask Yourself

    Are you burned out — or is this perimenopause?And why does it feel impossible to tell the difference?In this episode, we untangle one of the most confusing (and Googled) questions midlife women ask when exhaustion, overwhelm, and brain fog start taking over. We’ll talk about what burnout actually is, how perimenopause changes your stress tolerance, and why so many women end up blaming themselves when their usual coping tools stop working.This is not a diagnostic episode.It’s a clarity episode.You’ll learn:What burnout really looks like in midlifeHow hormonal shifts remove your stress “buffer”Why pushing harder often backfiresA more helpful way to understand what your body is asking forIf you’ve been wondering, “What’s wrong with me?” — this episode is for you.✨ You are not broken. Your system is overloaded.

  18. 81

    One Month In: How’s 2026 Really Feeling?

    We’ve hit the one-month mark of 2026 — the sparkle of January has dimmed, motivation is wobbling, and the pressure to “be a new woman” is fading fast.This episode is a gentle midwinter reset: a reality check for your energy, routines, and emotional load. No shame. No hustle. Just honest reflection.Inside the episode you’ll explore:• Why motivation dips around week 4–5 of any change• How to know if you need consistency… or compassion• The 5-domain Energy Audit to help you recalibrate• How to choose a February anchor word you can actually live into• Why February is the real beginning of the year for midlife womenPour a tea, grab your notebook, and let’s reset your rhythm — softly.

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    Pelvic Floor 101: Breath, Pressure & Everyday Habits

    No more whispering about vaginas — today we’re talking pelvic floors with clarity, humour, and zero shame.Ash breaks down the pelvic floor in real language: what it is, why so many women experience leaking or heaviness, and why “just do Kegels” isn’t the magic fix we were promised.In this episode you’ll learn:• The anatomy explained simply (no diagrams required)• Why breath + pressure + posture matter more than squeezing• The habits that make leaking worse• How to coordinate your core with daily movement• Five tiny habits that rebuild confidence and supportThis is education every woman deserves — without fear, stigma, or giggles required. Grab your curiosity and let’s meet your foundation.

  20. 79

    Boundaries You Can Say Out Loud (Without Burning Bridges)

    If you’ve ever whispered “sure, no problem” while every cell in your body screamed “absolutely not,” this episode is for you.This week, Ash dives into midlife boundaries — why they feel so hard, why your nervous system panics when you try to set them, and how to say what you actually mean without guilt, drama, or emotional hangovers.Inside the episode you’ll learn:• Why perimenopause actually lowers your tolerance for chaos• How people-pleasing becomes a lifelong reflex• The 4-part “Say It Out Loud” framework you can use today• Scripts for family, work, volunteering, friendships, and partners• How to hold a boundary without collapsing afterwardThis is your permission slip to stop over-functioning and start honouring your capacity. Kindness + clarity = better relationships. Let’s practice together.

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    Sleep, Finally: Fixing the 3 a.m. Wake-Up Club

    If you’re wide awake at 3 a.m. rehearsing tomorrow’s grocery list, your middle-schooler’s permission form, and your entire life’s purpose… welcome. You’re officially a member of the 3 A.M. Wake-Up Club.In this episode, Ash breaks down why perimenopausal sleep gets so weird (hint: it’s not your fault), what’s really happening with estrogen, progesterone, cortisol, and blood sugar overnight, and how to rebuild rest through what she calls your Sleep Scaffolding — five layers of realistic, biology-friendly support.You’ll learn:• Why wake-ups peak between 2–4 a.m.• How hormone shifts disrupt temperature, mood, and REM• The 5 habits that dramatically improve midlife sleep• What to do in the moment at 3 a.m. instead of spiralling• How to train your nervous system to trust rest againThis isn’t a perfection plan — it’s a reclaim-your-sleep plan. Grab a tea and get cozy… your nights are about to feel different.

  22. 77

    The Midlife New Year Debrief: Reflect, Recalibrate & Reset for the Year Ahead

    The new year doesn’t need to be loud or pressured — it can be grounded, gentle, and honest. This episode invites you to reflect on the year that’s passed and step into the next one with clarity and compassion. Through five reflection questions, Ash guides you to recognize what’s worked, what’s weighed you down, and what you truly want to bring forward. ✨ The 5 Reflection Questions:1️⃣ What surprised me this year? 2️⃣ What did I carry that was heavy? 3️⃣ What felt like mine this year? 4️⃣ What rhythms supported me? 5️⃣ What do I want to bring into the new year? Finish the year (or begin the next) not with resolutions, but with reverence — for the woman who made it here.

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    Dear Midlife Me: A Love Letter to Who You’ve Become

    This reflective bonus episode is a love letter to your midlife self — the woman in the middle of it all, doing her best in a world that keeps asking for more. Through poetic storytelling and grounded honesty,Ash speaks directly to the part of you that’s tired, tender, and still showing up. It’s a reminder that growth doesn’t always look glamorous — sometimes it’s just quiet courage. Take a breath, grab a tea, and let yourself be reminded: you’re not behind. You’re becoming.

  24. 75

    Dear Midlife Me: A Love Letter to Who You’ve Become

    This short reflective episode is a love letter to your midlife self — the woman in the middle of it all, doing her best in a world that keeps asking for more. Through poetic storytelling and grounded honesty, Ash speaks directly to the part of you that’s tired, tender, and still showing up. It’s a reminder that growth doesn’t always look glamorous — sometimes it’s just quiet courage. Take a breath, grab a tea, and let yourself be reminded: you’re not behind. You’re becoming.

  25. 74

    Holiday Season on Your Terms: Rituals, Boundaries & Keeping Your Sanity

    The holidays can feel magical — and maddening. In this episode, Ash invites you to reimagine the season through the lens of boundaries, permission, and peace. Learn why midlife makes the holidays uniquely overwhelming, how to say no without guilt, and ways to create rituals that soothe instead of stress. It’s a warm, witty reminder that you don’t have to perform “perfect holidays” to make them meaningful. This year, you get to set the pace — and the peace.

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    The Midlife Menu: Rethinking Food, Fuel & Fullness

    If you’ve ever looked at your plate and wondered, “Why isn’t this working anymore?” — this one’s for you. Ash explores how hormones, metabolism, and mindset shift in perimenopause and why it’s time to ditch diet culture for good. Discover how to build your own “Midlife Menu” that balances blood sugar, energy, and pleasure — without tracking, restriction, or guilt. You’ll learn what your changing body actually needs, how to find a rhythm with food that feels supportive (not stressful), and how to bring joy back to eating. This episode is equal parts science and self-compassion — a gentle re-education on nourishment that fits real midlife women, not diet fads.

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    Midlife Friendships: Making, Mourning & Maintaining Them

    Midlife friendships are complex — sometimes comforting, sometimes heartbreaking. In this episode, Ash dives into the beauty and grief of connection as we evolve. You’ll learn why friendships shift even when no one did anything wrong, how to navigate the ache of distance or disconnection, and what it takes to build and nurture relationships that feel real, safe, and energizing. We’ll unpack why “outgrowing” someone isn’t failure — it’s completion — and explore how to make new friends without feeling awkward or performative. This conversation is equal parts honest, tender, and empowering — a love letter to the women still searching for their people and a gentle reminder that you’re never too old (or too wise) for deep friendship.

  28. 71

    The Midlife Halloween Special: Let That Sh*t Go 🎃

    While the kids are putting on costumes, we’re taking ours off. This Halloween special is all about shedding the roles, shoulds, and guilt that no longer fit.From outdated identities to dead projects we keep reviving, midlife is asking us to release what we’ve outgrown — and step into who we really are.💡 This week’s challenge:Do one letting-go ritual (write, burn, move, or speak).Name one thing you’re done pretending about.Say “no” to something — and mean it.🎧 Because underneath what you’re carrying? Is you.

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    Your Changing Body: What's Normal, What's Not and What's Powerful

    “I don’t recognize my body anymore.” If you’ve whispered this to yourself in the mirror, this episode is for you. We’re breaking down what’s actually normal in perimenopause — from midsection weight gain to night sweats to hair changes — and how to know when to get support.We’ll also reframe the toxic idea of “getting your body back” and instead talk about what it means to live with compassion, strength, and connection in the body you have now.💡 This week’s challenge:Pick one area of your body you’re struggling with — and offer it compassion.Try one sensory or movement-based act of connection.Write a new affirmation: “My body is ________.” (Not what it looks like — what it gives you.)🎧 This is not a before-and-after story. This is your evolution.

  30. 69

    Unmasking Midlife: How We Perform vs. Who We Are

    Ever feel like you’re living on autopilot — performing roles instead of actually being you? In this raw and real episode, we dig into the masks of midlife — the “strong one,” the “perfect mom,” the “cool girl” — and what perimenopause has to do with all of it. We’ll talk about why these masks once served us, why they’re cracking now, and how to start loosening them without burning your whole life down.💡 This week’s challenge:Name one mask you’re ready to loosen.Journal your response to: Who am I underneath this?Say one true thing to someone — even if it feels awkward.🎧 Tune in for tools, prompts, and a whole lot of permission to let the performance go.

  31. 68

    Reclaiming Pleasure (In a Life That Feels Too Full)

    When was the last time you felt real pleasure — in your body, in your day, in your life? In midlife, joy and desire often get buried under to-do lists and fatigue. But pleasure isn’t a luxury. It’s a nervous system reset — and a radical act of self-love. This week, we explore what pleasure actually means, why we’ve been cut off from it, and 5 simple ways to reconnect with joy in your real, messy, beautiful life. This is your reminder: you’re not too tired, too late, or too far gone. Pleasure belongs to you.

  32. 67

    The RAGE is Real: 5 Tips to Ride the Wave Without Losing Yourself

    Ever snapped over crumbs on the counter or socks beside the hamper and thought, “Who even am I right now?” This episode is for you. Perimenopausal rage is real — but it’s not a failure. It’s a signal. This week, we unpack the hormonal, emotional, and cultural roots of midlife anger, and how to move through it without shame. You’ll learn what rage is trying to tell you, how to ride the wave (without losing your sh*t), and how to turn anger into awareness. This one is raw, validating, and full of tools.

  33. 66

    5 Meal Planning Shifts That Work WITH Your Hormones (Not Against Them)

    You want to eat better. But your kids are picky, your partner snacks at 10pm, and dinner feels like a part-time job. Sound familiar? In this episode, we get real about midlife nourishment — what your body actually needs in perimenopause, why meal planning feels so overwhelming, and how to create simple, hormone-friendly systems that work for your household (without perfection or burnout). No more short-order cooking. No more guilt. Just doable food strategies that support your energy and your real life.

  34. 65

    The Productivity Trap: Why You're So Tired (And What to Do About It)

    Do you feel guilty for sitting down? Say “I’m so behind” on repeat? Can’t seem to rest, even when you’re bone tired? You might be stuck in the Productivity Trap — where hustle is a habit and rest feels like failure. In this episode, we unpack how patriarchy, perfectionism, and perimenopause collide to leave you fried. You’ll learn why it’s not your fault you’re exhausted, how to break the cycle, and 3 powerful mindset shifts to help you honor your energy (instead of overriding it). You are not lazy. You’re just done pretending you’re a machine.

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    How to Prepare for the Fall (Without Burning Out by Thanksgiving)

    Feeling the fall overwhelm creeping in already? Let’s prepare differently this year.In this PeriMOMopause podcast episode, I’m sharing how to plan for a grounded, sustainable fall — one that supports your perimenopausal body and mind — without falling into the trap of overcommitment and burnout.You’ll learn:✅ Why fall feels especially full for midlife moms✅ 5 small but mighty fall prep shifts for more ease and energy✅ How to build recovery, nourishment, and nervous system care into your weeks✅ My “soft structure” weekly template to protect your peace✅ This week’s Fall Prep Challenge to start nowYou don’t have to burn out before Thanksgiving. You can protect your energy — and create a season that supports you.

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    Midlife Is Not a Midpoint — It’s a Mirror

    Midlife isn’t the halfway point — it’s a mirror reflecting back what matters most.In this reflective PeriMOMopause podcast episode, we’re exploring why perimenopause often sparks deep questions about identity, purpose, and life direction — and how to respond with self-compassion and courage.You’ll learn:✅ Why midlife invites deep reflection and personal growth✅ Common midlife questions — and how to sit with them✅ A guided mirror reflection practice to reconnect with yourself✅ This week’s Mirror Moment Challenge to begin your reflectionThis season of life is not about rushing forward — it’s about seeing yourself more clearly than ever before. Let’s begin.

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    Back-to-School, Back-to-You: A Midlife Reset You’ll Actually Stick To

    Ready to use the back-to-school season as a gentle midlife reset?In this episode of PeriMOMopause, I’m sharing how to create a sustainable fall routine that supports your hormones, energy, and nervous system — without adding more stress or unrealistic expectations.You’ll learn:✅ How to reset your rhythm without overcommitting✅ 4 pillars of a realistic midlife wellness routine✅ What to release and reclaim this season✅ Fall clarity prompts to guide your next steps✅ This week’s Fall Reset Challenge to beginPerimenopause is the perfect time to reset — not with hustle, but with intention. Let’s make this fall feel like yours.

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    Feeling “Over It” Lately? 4 Ways to Reset Your Nervous System

    Feeling burned out, anxious, or on the edge in perimenopause? Your nervous system might be calling for help.In this PeriMOMopause podcast episode, we’re diving into why your stress response becomes more sensitive during perimenopause — and 4 simple, science-backed ways to reset your nervous system and reclaim calm in your daily life.You’ll learn:✅ How perimenopause affects your nervous system✅ Signs of nervous system dysregulation (beyond just anxiety)✅ 4 nervous system reset tools you can use anytime✅ How to build nervous system support into your midlife wellness routine✅ This week’s Nervous System Reset Challenge to get startedYou don’t have to push through. You can feel grounded, steady, and safe again — even on the hard days.

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    The Truth About Your Cycle in Perimenopause

    Wondering what’s happening to your menstrual cycle in perimenopause? You’re not alone.In this episode of PeriMOMopause, we’re breaking down what’s normal (and what’s not) when it comes to irregular periods, PMS-like symptoms, and hormone shifts during midlife — yes, even during summer vacation.You’ll learn:✅ What’s actually happening with your cycle in perimenopause✅ Why you might feel hormonal even without a period✅ How to track your shifting hormones without obsession✅ Practical cycle-care tips for summer and beyond✅ This week’s Cycle Awareness Challenge to tune into your bodyYour cycle may be unpredictable — but you’re not powerless. Let’s help you feel more steady and supported through it all.

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    How to Say No (Without Guilt) When You’re the Default Parent

    Struggling to set boundaries in midlife motherhood — especially as your bandwidth shrinks in perimenopause? You’re not alone.In this PeriMOMopause podcast episode, we’re talking about why it’s so hard to say no when you’re the default parent — and how to start setting clear, kind boundaries without guilt.You’ll learn:✅ Why saying no feels difficult for so many midlife moms✅ 3 practical strategies to say no clearly and compassionately✅ How boundaries can actually strengthen your relationships and well-being✅ This week’s Boundary-Setting Challenge to practice in real lifeIf you’re navigating perimenopause, motherhood, and the mental load — this episode will help you protect your time and energy (without losing yourself in the process).

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    5 Habits That Changed My Energy in Perimenopause

    Feeling exhausted or depleted in perimenopause? You’re not alone — but small, sustainable habits can make a big difference.In this PeriMOMopause podcast episode, I’m sharing 5 simple but powerful habits that helped me regain my energy, mood, and resilience as a midlife mom.You’ll learn:✅ 5 real-life habits to support energy and stability in perimenopause✅ How to work with your changing body (not against it)✅ Why these midlife wellness habits matter more than any “hack”✅ This week’s Energy Reset Challenge to get startedPerimenopause can be a time of empowerment — not just survival. Let’s build habits that help you thrive.

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    Curating a Well-Lived Midlife: Not a Crisis, But a Reclamation

    Midlife doesn’t have to feel like a crisis. In fact, it can be your greatest opportunity to reclaim your energy, purpose, and joy — especially in perimenopause.In this PeriMOMopause podcast episode, we’re exploring how to curate a life that feels aligned and well-lived, not just well-managed.You’ll learn:✅ Why midlife is the perfect time for reflection and recalibration✅ What truly makes a life well-lived (hint: it’s not productivity)✅ 3 powerful reflection prompts to help you shift from autopilot to aligned✅ This week’s Midlife Reclamation Challenge to put it into actionIf you’re a midlife mom navigating perimenopause and craving more meaning, this episode will inspire your next steps.

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    3 Mindset Shifts to Reclaim Your Midlife Mojo

    Feeling stuck, lost, or like your body and brain aren’t your own? You’re not alone — and you’re not broken.In this PeriMOMopause podcast episode, we’re kicking off my Midlife Motherhood on Purpose series with 3 mindset shifts to help you feel grounded, empowered, and fully yourself during perimenopause.You’ll learn:✅ Why perimenopause isn’t a crisis — it’s a clarifier✅ 3 mindset shifts that will help you reclaim your midlife mojo✅ How to rewrite the outdated midlife story society has handed you✅ This week’s Midlife Mojo Challenge to put it into practicePerimenopause is a powerful time for growth — let’s help you step into it with clarity and confidence.

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    Why Water Matters (and Other Boring-Sounding Things That Save Your Sanity)

    Looking for simple ways to support your body during perimenopause? Start with hydration.In this episode of PeriMOMopause, we’re diving into why water (and a few other underrated basics) can radically improve your perimenopause symptoms — from mood and energy to cravings and hot flashes.You’ll learn:✅ How dehydration impacts perimenopausal hormones and symptoms✅ How to hydrate smarter — not harder✅ Other simple midlife wellness habits that make a big difference✅ This week’s Back-to-Basics Challenge to reset your routineWhether you’re navigating midlife motherhood or simply want to feel better this summer, this episode will help you build a stronger foundation for perimenopause wellness.

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    Easy Summer Eating for Hormone Health (That Your Family Will Eat Too)

    Too hot to cook? Too tired to care? You’re not alone. In this down-to-earth episode, Ashley shares why simple nutrition matters in perimenopause — and how to make it happen without stress. With 5 easy summer meal ideas, snack swaps, and hydration tips, you’ll leave with realistic tools to fuel your mood, energy, and hormones (while still feeding your family).This Week’s Challenge:✅ Try one of the 5 meal ideas.✅ Drink a full glass of water before lunch and dinner.✅ Let someone else figure out a meal — and don’t apologize for it.

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    Hot Flashes & Hot Days: How to Stay Cool and Collected

    Hot flashes + heat waves = the ultimate perimenopause showdown. In this episode, Ash breaks down why your internal thermostat is on the fritz — and what you can do about it. Get practical cooling tips, hydration hacks, and permission to speak up for your comfort. Midlife doesn’t mean melting down — let’s help you stay cool, calm, and collected this summer.This Week’s Challenge:✅ Keep water with you all day (and drink it!).✅ Try a cooling spray, fan, or chilled cloth.✅ Speak up once this week when you’re uncomfortable.

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    5 Ways to Actually Enjoy Summer as a Perimenopausal Mom

    What if you didn’t just survive summer... but actually enjoyed it? In this refreshingly real episode, Ash shares why summer hits differently in perimenopause — and 5 doable, joy-sparking ways to reclaim this season. Ditch the pressure, rewrite your summer story, and show up for yourself in simple, meaningful ways.This Week’s Challenge:✅ Wear something that feels good (not just “flattering”).✅ Schedule a “No Day” — and stick to it.✅ Choose one small joy anchor each day this week.

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    Being Present and Planning Ahead: 4 Tips to Balance Summer for Midlife Moms

    How do you soak up summer while also preparing for what’s next — especially when you’re navigating perimenopause, parenting, and all the invisible labour? Ashley explores the tension between being present and planning ahead with 4 practical strategies, a mindset reset, and a mid-summer reflection challenge to help you make space for your own joy (not just everyone else’s).This Week’s Challenge:✅ Try the “Now/Next” list — brain dump and breathe.✅ Choose one thing that brings you joy and actually schedule it.✅ Tell someone: “I’m making time for myself this week.”

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    Disney Cruise & Disney World: Our Midlife Family Vacation Recap

    What happens when a perimenopausal mom takes her family on a high-sensory, high-fun Disney vacation? In this candid recap, Ash shares the highs, the hormone-fueled lows, and the surprising wins from her Disney World + Cruise adventure. From managing overstimulation and midlife needs to embracing comfort and quiet breaks, this episode is packed with real talk and helpful tips for planning a magical — but manageable — family trip.This Week’s Challenge:✅ Take 5 minutes to reflect on your last vacation (or staycation).✔ What did you love?✔ What drained you?✔ What would make your next trip feel ease-filled and joyful?

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    Midlife Body Confidence: Feeling Good in Your Skin (At Any Size or Stage)

    Your body has changed — maybe a little, maybe a lot — andyou’re not quite sure how to feel about her anymore.In this episode of Perimomopause, host Ashunpacks what body confidence really looks like in midlife — beyond dietculture, bounce-back pressure, or loving every inch. This is about reconnectingwith your body as she is now, and treating her with the respect andcare she deserves.💭 Why perimenopause messes with how youfeel in your skin💪How to shift from criticism to compassion🪞Simple tools to build confidence — without waiting for a “better” bodyYou’ll learn:• Why body image gets harder (and more layered) in midlife• Why neutrality might be more helpful than body love at first• How movement, clothes, and social media can help you reconnect• The power of rewriting your inner dialogue• A 3-step Body Confidence Challenge to start this weekBecause confidence isn’t about shrinking — it’s aboutexpanding into who you really are.🎧Press play and come home to your body.

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Perimenopause? Isn't 40 too young for that? I’m a mom of 3 young humans trying to figure out what this new-found second coming of puberty means for me - mind, body and spirit. Join me through my trials and musings of midlife motherhood.

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Ash Hoath-Murray

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Perimenopause? Isn't 40 too young for that? I’m a mom of 3 young humans trying to figure out what this new-found second coming of puberty means for me - mind, body and spirit. Join me through my trials and musings of midlife motherhood.

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