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Normalize therapy. — 342 episodes
I Ended the Affair. Why Isn't That Enough?
When You Find the Money: Financial Infidelity After Sexual Betrayal
Lonely in Marriage: Why You Can Share a Bed and Still Feel Alone
Betrayal Trauma or PTSD? Why You Can't Just Get Over It
Why the Betrayer Shuts Down: The Shame Collapse Behind the Silence
When Porn Talks Back: AI Companions, Deepfakes, and Why Interactive Porn Hooks Harder
Narcissist or Sex Addict? How a Therapist Reads the Pattern Behind Betrayal
What Does My Husband's Porn Type Say About Me? Healing the Body-Image Wound of Betrayal
Meeting the Needs Porn Was Meeting: How to Rebuild Real Connection in Recovery
Why Does Porn Escalate? Tolerance, Arousal Templates, and the Way Back Down
Intrusive Images During Sex After Betrayal: How to Stay Present Instead of Powering Through
A Relapse Is Not a Reset: Why Counting Days Sets You Up to Binge
Surviving Infidelity When Your Partner Won't Do the Recovery Work
How to Stop Thinking About Porn: The White Bear Effect and Urge Surfing
The Repair Most Couples Skip: How to Reconnect After a Fight
Should I Stay or Leave After an Affair? Why You Don't Have to Decide Yet
Why Am I Attracted to Certain Porn? Reading the Wound Underneath
Hysterical Bonding: Why You Want Him More After Betrayal
Why Discovering Betrayal Feels Like You're Going Crazy
The Year-Two Wall in Betrayal Trauma Recovery: Why You Still Feel Dead Inside
Restitution After Betrayal: The Repair Work an Apology Cannot Do
Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction (PIED): Recovery Beyond Abstinence
Is Your Spouse Using Therapy Language to Gaslight You? The Five Patterns of Weaponized Therapy Speak
Why You Hate Your Porn Use But Still Can't Stop
Why the Betrayer Keeps Hurting Their Partner During Recovery
Trickle Truth and Why Recovery Keeps Restarting
My Spouse Won't Go to Couples Therapy: What to Do When Only One of You Is Ready
Why Your Body Remembers the Betrayal (And 3 Polyvagal Resets That Actually Help)
Is Covenant Eyes Enough for Porn Addiction Recovery?
How to Be a Safe Man: 7 Markers, Seven Counterfeits, and Why Your Words Aren't Landing
The 72-Hour Porn Addiction Relapse Protocol: What Both Partners Need to Do Right Now
Is Watching Porn Cheating? What the Research Says About Betrayal, Fidelity, and Harm
Trauma Bonding: The Chains Keeping You Stuck
Betrayal Trauma and the Brain: Symptoms, Science, and Recovery
12 Hidden Signs of Childhood Trauma ACEs in Adult Life
Understanding and Calming Hypervigilance: Grounding Techniques for Feeling Safe
Marriage Conflict: What Is Your Fighting Style?
Gaslighting Explained: The Ultimate Guide to What It Is, Why It Happens, and How to Stop It
Is My Spouse a Sex Addict? Understanding This Massive Challenge and Reclaiming Your Marriage
Loving a Sexual Abuse Survivor: A Partner’s Practical Guide
Is Past Trauma Affecting Your Singing Voice?
How Do I Know When My Marriage Is Beyond Repair?
Symptoms of Pornography Withdrawal: A Complete Guide to What to Expect
Porn Addiction Recovery: How Long Does It Really Take?
Understanding and Navigating a Controlling Spouse
What Do I Tell My Wife About My Affair? A Guide to Disclosure and Healing
The Truth About Male Desire: Debunking 4 Common Myths
Uncover Truth: Female Desire Beyond Myths
Can Your Brain Recover from Porn Addiction? The Science of Relapse, Shame, and Healing
End The Cycle: Healing Childhood Trauma
Why Do I Keep Attracting Toxic People? Flipping the Script on Relationship Patterns
Navigating the Storm: Initial Steps After Discovering Partner Betrayal
Infidelity vs. Sex Addiction: How to Tell the Difference
The Art of Healthy Boundaries
How to Tell If You Have PTSD – The Signs You Need to Watch For
Five Fundamentals of Good Marriage Communication
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Why Is My Spouse So Controlling?
Defining Emotionally Abusive Behavior
How Do I Know When/If I Can Trust My Spouse After Betrayal?
The 5 Pillars of Attachment
How To Balance Parenting and Marriage (Even During a Pandemic)
How to Confront Your Husband About His Pornography Addiction
Coronavirus and Your Marriage
Infidelity Disclosure: What to Include and How to Prepare
6 Porn Groups To Help Your Recovery
Responding to The Rage of Your Betrayed Spouse
How Self-Compassion Can Help Your Marriage
How Much Detail to Share When Disclosing Infidelity: 4 Things to Avoid
Overwhelmed or Flooded? Here’s How To Calm Down During Conflict
When Your Spouse Is Too Friendly With the Opposite Sex
Why You Might Be Experiencing Pain During Sex (for Husbands)
How Pornography Affects Wives: What Husbands Need to Understand
When Family Visits Are Traumatic
Husband Takes Me for Granted: Why It Happens and What to Do
Why You May Be Experiencing Pain During Sex (for Wives)
Betrayed By Your Wife? 5 Things You Need to Do
Why Physical Touch Matters in Marriage (and How to Rebuild It)
How Retirement Affects Marriage
Attachment Style and Porn Addiction: How They’re Connected
Why You Really Need to Consider Emotional Labour in Your Marriage
Secure Attachment in Marriage
Disorganized Attachment in Marriage: Signs and How to Help
Avoidant Attachment in Marriage
Anxious Attachment in Marriage: What It Looks Like and How to Break the Cycle
How Prayer Impacts Marriage
Pastor Adultery: Why It’s Usually Clergy Sexual Misconduct
Is My Spouse a Sex Addict?
Why People Seek Marriage Counseling & What Approaches They Choose
How Shame Perpetuates Porn Addiction
How to Set Boundaries in a Kind Way
Unpack the Four Horsemen
How to Identify Your Emotions
How To Keep The Romance Alive in Your Marriage
Dealing with Your Shame and Guilt After Betrayal
How To Work With Your Spouse’s Betrayal Trauma Part 2
Betrayal Trauma in Marriage: How to Help Your Spouse Heal (When You Caused It)
Male Privilege in Marriage
How to Forgive Betrayal in Marriage: A Step-by-Step Guide
Why Your Husband Can’t Hear You During Conflict
How Empathy Deepens Intimacy
How Curiosity Deepens Intimacy
How Irreducibility Deepens Intimacy in Marriage
How Vulnerability Deepens Intimacy in Marriage
How Couples Can Grow Spiritually…Together
Cognitive Biases in Marriage: Reactance, Mood and Confirmation
Cognitive Biases in Marriage: Spotlight, Illusion of Transparency & Availability Heuristic
How To Make The Most of an Unhappy Marriage
When Your Spouse Doesn’t Share Your Faith
When Your Spouse Has Let Themselves Go (and You’re Not Attracted)
How Shift Work Impacts Marriage And What To Do About It
Here’s The Best Thing You Can Do After a Fight With Your Spouse
How To Help Your Husband Through His Man Cold
How Losing a Child Impacts Marriage
The Abusive Wife
How Generosity Could Transform Your Marriage
When Others Don’t See Your Spouse as Abusive
When Your Spouse is in Victim Mode
Coming to Terms With Your Unexpected Pregnancy
Relational OCD
Telling Your Wife About Your Porn Addiction: A Therapist’s Guide
Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) and the Impact on Marriage
Couples Living With Extended Family
Working Through Betrayal Trauma
Is Your Own Sexual History Dragging You Down?
Betrayed by Your Husband? 5 Things You Need to Know
How Your Theology Impacts Your Sex Life
Four Ways To Create More Intimacy In Your Marriage
The Top 10 Rules for Fair Fighting
Ejaculatory Control: A Research-Based Guide for Husbands
How To Break Out of The Same Old Arguments
About Showing Honor To Your Wife (1 Peter 3:7)
I Am a Virgin and My Fiancee is Not
Infertility And Its Impact on Marriage
How Working from Home Impacts Your Marriage
Do You Compete With Your Spouse?
Why a Child Centred Family is Bad for Everyone
Figure Out What Your Spouse is Actually Upset About
How To Get Your Husband (or Wife) Into Marriage Counseling
How To Handle Chronic Health Problems in Marriage
The Hidden Costs of Marriage Problems
When Your Spouse Constantly Criticizes: Holding Onto Self Worth
Benefits of Marriage: 5 Research-Backed Benefits of a Happy Marriage
How Much Joy Is in Your Marriage?
What To Do When Your Spouse Has Been Sexually Abused
When Your Spouse Is a Chronic Liar
How to Increase the Love You Feel Towards Your Spouse
The Art and Science of Hugging
What is Love Addiction?
How to Be Assertive With Your Spouse
Is Therapeutic Separation a Good Idea for Your Marriage?
How Your Parent’s Alcoholism Affects Your Marriage
So Your Spouse Has ADHD
How To Get Your Abusive Husband Into Therapy…Safely
Is Your Wife Nagging Too Much? It Could Be Your Fault!
How Admiration Creates a Stable, Happy Marriage
How To Get Your Flirt (Back) On… When You Have 3 Kids, a Dog and a Mortgage
Sarcasm in Marriage: Why It Hurts More Than You Think (and How to Stop)
So Your Husband Ogles Other Women…
Is Your Career Ruining Your Marriage?
Loyalty in Marriage: Why It’s the #2 Predictor of a Lasting Relationship
Defensiveness in Marriage
Don’t Let Resentment Sink Your Marriage
How Marriage Counselling Works
So Your Spouse Has Mental Health Problems
How To Be A More Grateful Spouse
Help! My Spouse is a Narcissist!
What Makes Christmas Merry for Marriages?
Pornography and Sex Trafficking
Loving Your Spouse’s Kids
A Husband’s Guide to Spiritual Leadership
How Pornography Impacts Marriages
Why You Keep Misinterpreting Your Spouse (and How to Stop)
Fighting For Your Military Marriage
Wife Foreplay: How Much Does She Really Need?
What To Do When Your Folks Do Not Like Your Spouse
Long Distance Marriage – Do’s and Do Not’s
How to Beat Empty Nest Syndrome
What is Trauma Bonding?
How Does Wealth Affect Marriage?
Q&A on a Disconnected Marriage and Shared Leisure
Q&A on Boundaries and PISD
Do I Have to Care About My Spouse’s Hobbies?
Coping With Age Gap in Marriage: What Actually Helps
The Purpose of Marriage: How Couples Build Shared Meaning Together
Remarriage After Bereavement
Help! My Spouse is a Perfectionist!
Am I a Sex Addict?
Learn to Date Your Spouse Again
Neuroscience of Love in Marriage: What Brain Science Reveals About Staying in Love
Is Fear Wrecking Your Marriage?
When Introverts Marry Extroverts
How Does Menopause Affect Marriage?
How to Porn-Proof Your Marriage
Is It Even Possible to Have a Happy Marriage?
The Essentials of a Successful Cross-Cultural Marriage
Can You Fix Your Marriage Without Dredging Up The Past?
PDA in Marriage: What Is OK and How to Find Your Balance
Why a Fair Division of Labor is Important in Marriage
A Marriage Survival Guide for Parents with Toddlers
2 Questions To Think About Before You End Your Marriage
My Husband Is Not an Emotional Guy
Why Every Couple Needs to Pray Together
What To Do When You’ve Just Discovered Your Husband’s Porn Habit
The Impact of Trauma on Marital Sexuality
Is Trauma Impacting Your Marriage?
The Best Sex Happens Inside Marriage
Why You’re Using the Love Languages All Wrong
Post Infidelity Stress Disorder: Symptoms, Causes, and Recovery
When to Leave (or Stay In) an Abusive Marriage [3 of 3]
Can Abusive Husbands Change? [2 of 3]
Is My Husband Abusive? [1 of 3]
Stop Bottling Up Stuff In Your Marriage
Emotional Intimacy is the Key to Great Sex
Overcoming Infidelity: 30 Days to Recovery
Why You Can’t Trust Your Spouse
What to Talk About on Your Next Date
How to Appreciate Your Spouse
Your Marriage Needs an Intimacy Checkup
So You Stayed Married Just for the Kids’ Sake, Now What?
I Want To Fix Our Marriage and He Doesn’t. Now What?
My Spouse is Flaunting Him/Herself on Social Media
Extreme Sex Drive and Infidelity From Testosterone Therapy?
After Infidelity, How Do I Trust My Husband Again?
If My Husband is a Sex Addict, Should I Divorce Him?
My Husband’s Sexual History Is Affecting Our Intimacy
My Wife Won’t Stop the Affair. How Do I Save My Marriage?
How Can I Help My Wife Be More Trusting?
Hectic Life + Happily Married: Is It Possible?
If Your Spouse Is Too Jealous
Find Yourself in a Roommate Marriage?
Is My Marriage Beyond Recovery?
Sexless Marriage: Why You’re Not Getting Enough Sex and What To Do About It
10 Sure-Fire Ways To Make Time For Each Other in a Crazy Busy Marriage
How to Create More Intimacy in Your Marriage
Codependency in Marriage: Signs, Causes, and How to Heal
What To Do When Your Spouse Offends You
3 Things To Talk About Every Day
How to Recover From Betrayal
Fight The Problem – Not Each Other!
How to Deal With In-Laws: 3 Principles for a Stronger Marriage
Always Fighting About the Kids?
100 Episodes of The Marriage Podcast for Smart People!
Making Time For Your Spouse: 2 Strategies That Actually Work
Phone Addiction is the New Alcoholism
Do Opposites Attract? Here’s the Research
Why Christian Couples Feel Guilty About Sex
Complementarian vs. Egalitarian Marriage: A Therapist’s Take
The One Thing Every Distressed Marriage is Doing Wrong
Sex Drive – Differences Can Be a Problem
What To Do When Your Spouse Doesn’t Want To Work On The Marriage
How To Support Your Spouse During Hard Times
Social Media is Destroying Your Marriage
How to Ramp Up Positivity in Your Marriage
How Body Image Issues Can Ruin Your Sex Life – Part 2
How Body Image Issues Can Ruin Your Sex Life – Part 1
Self-Care Is Marriage Care
Respect vs. Contempt – Heart of Marriage Series (5 of 5)
Sacrifice vs. Entitlement – Heart of Marriage Series (4 of 5)
Loneliness vs. Intimacy – Heart of Marriage Series (3 of 5)
Acceptance vs. Rejection – Heart of Marriage Series (2 of 5)
Commitment vs. Abandonment – Heart of Marriage Series (1 of 5)
Who Wears The Pants In Your Marriage?
Husband Doesn’t Help With the Kids? Why It Happens (and What Actually Helps)
How To Help Your Spouse’s Anxiety
How To Rebuild Your Marriage After An Affair
Parenting For The Benefit Of Your Marriage
Religiosity Won’t Help Your Marriage
Talk About It Sooner Before It’s a Big Deal
The Three Best Ways to Ruin Your Husband’s Day
The Three Best Ways to Ruin Your Wife’s Day
Don’t Take Your Marriage For Granted: 5 Strategies to Keep Things Fresh
Back to School! What About Your Marriage?
Every Couple Needs a Graffiti Tag
Sticky Notes Are The Best Love Notes
50 Romantic Text Messages to Send to Your Spouse
How To Create and Deliver a Legendary Wedding Speech
Marla Cilley Interview: The FlyLady Helped Our Home and Will Help Yours Too!
How to Rebuild Trust in Your Marriage
Healthy Marriage Without Good Role Models
How to Reduce Debt: Part 5
Budgeting for the Big Stuff (Part 4 of 5)
How To Create Your Family Budget (Part 3 of 4)
How To Negotiate A Budget (Part 2 of 4)
Why You Need To Budget (Part 1 of 4)
Couples That Play Together Stay Together
First Orgasm in Marriage: What Every Wife Needs to Know
Housework: Who Does the Cleaning Up in Your Marriage?
How to Disagree Without Sinking Your Love Boat
How to Court Your Wife: 10 Everyday Ways to Keep Your Marriage Alive
Four Reasons Why You Must Do Pre-Marital Coaching
3 Ways To Support Your Spouse When You Disagree
Marriage After Your First Child
It’s Not Always My Fault!
If I Need You, Does That Make Me Needy?
10 Tips for Closer Connection
Does Money Affect Your Marriage?
Touch Her Heart Before You Touch Her Body
Top 5 Predictors of Marital Success
Let It Go or Confront It?
Valentine’s Day. Love It or Hate It?
Distraction is Killing Your Marriage
Infidelity Starts Long Before The Affair
Four Critical Habits to Deepen Your Love
How Are You Enriching Your Marriage This Year?
Sleep Your Way To A Better Marriage – Shawn Stevenson Interview
Differences in Sexual Desire: A Checklist for Your Marriage
How Jesus Almost Grew Up With A Single Mom
How To Repair After A Fight
Ground Rules For A Good Fight
Why Fighting is Good For Your Marriage
3 Ways To Make Your Marriage Happier Today!
Womanspeak
Two Tips To Manage Your Defensiveness
Have You Tried The Miracle Question?
If You Really Loved Me, You Would…
Triangles — How Trigonometry Impacts Your Marriage!
Does Homeschooling Wreck Marriages?
Hug Your Way To A Better Marriage!
Speaking Well Of Your Spouse Affects Your Health?
Get Out! Real Ultimatums in Marriage!
Interview with Tyler Ward
3 Ways To Affair-Proof Your Marriage
Three Tips For Rocking Your Vacation
3 Types of Negativity That Will Ruin Your Marriage
Why Comparison Makes You A Miserable Spouse
How to Use Your Marriage for Stress Relief!
Listen to Understand
5-for-5! A Quick and Easy Way to Rock Your Marriage!
Is It Ever OK to Say, “If you do XYZ, I’m gonna divorce you?”
What Is the Point of Sex in Marriage? A Clinical Perspective
Stop Hiding From Your Spouse! Fears of Intimacy (Part 3 of 3)
Stop Hiding From Your Spouse! Fears of Intimacy (Part 2 of 3)
Stop Hiding From Your Spouse! Fears of Intimacy (Part 1 of 3)
Eyes-Open Sex — Fully Engaged Intimacy
Six Dynamics That Influence In-Law Relationships, Part 2
Six Dynamics That Influence In-Law Relationships, Part 1
The Strongest Predictor of Divorce Is…
5 Reasons Why You Need to Tell Your Wife You Appreciate Her
Why Receiving Influence is a Skill Every Husband Needs to Learn
When Did You Divorce Your Husband and Marry the Kids?
Introduction to the OnlyYouForever Podcast and Your Hosts, Caleb & Verlynda Simonyi-Gindele