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Overcoming Betrayal & Addiction — 101 episodes
Navigating Sexual Reintegration
Hoovering and the Narcissistic Cycles of Abuse
Why Is Your Spouse Not Your Priority?
Demonstrating Emotional Leadership
Help! I Miss My Betraying Partner
Stop Doomscrolling and Start Hopescrolling
Is Therapeutic Separation Right For My Relationship?
Understanding Disenfranchised Grief and Betrayal Trauma
Why Men Struggle to Show Empathy
5 Practices to Build Resiliency and Healthy Coping Mechanisms
How Long Does Recovery Really Take?
Building Thriving Connection Post Betrayal
Navigating Carried Shame
Betrayal Induced Existential Crisis
Choosing Recovery Every Day
Why Doesn't My Betraying Partner Hate Himself?
Counteractive Change Vs. Transformational Change
Early Recovery Slogans and Mantras
Are You Volunteering Yourself for Pain?
Does Forgiveness Equal Trust?
Is He an Addict or Just an A**hole?
Regaining Trust After Relapse
Healing Attachment Wounds with Troy Love
Rebuilding Trust Through Connection
Betrayal Brain with Debbie McRae
Supporting Your Partner Through Their Recovery Is Not Your Job
Honor Your Boundaries So You Aren't Betraying Yourself
When the Betraying Partner is in Recovery Limbo with Debbie McRae
Should I Stay or Leave?
How Can I Rebuild Trust?
Defining and Meeting Needs and Wants
Recovery On the Spectrum
Attachment Theory and Addiction Recovery
Dopamine Dysregulation in Sex/Porn Addiction
Building a Better Higher Power Relationship with Mark Anthony Lord
Handling Triggers and Fetishes with Erin Snow
Why is Porn So Addictive?
Navigating the Pain Field
Identifying and Stopping the Gaslighting with Debbie McRae
How Can I Prevent Relapse?
Triggers for Addicts and Partners
Setting Internal Boundaries
Am I Really Ready to Forgive?
How and Why to Apologize with Jon Taylor
Lying Will Not Help You Regain Trust
I Want to Leave, But….
How and When Can We Connect Intimately Again?
How Do I Know When It's Time to Get Help?
Is My Sex Addict's Empathy Actually Gaslighting?
Is It My Fault He Cheated On Me?
When Do I Need Help for My Addiction?
I Just Love My Addict Spouse, But Yet They Always Hurt Me
FAQ for 12-Step Programs for Sex Addicts Answered in this Podcast!
My Sex Addict Says It's All My Fault; Is This True?
I Am Married to an Addict and I Don't Want to Break Up My Family
He Betrayed Me And Yet Believes All The Flirting He Does Is Completely Innocent!
He Feels So Uncomfortable In Recovery. Will It Get Better?
I Have a Restraining Order. Is There Any Hope He'll Ever Stop Using?
The Separate Journeys of Couples in Recovery
Am I Just Having Fun, or Is This a Full-Blown Addiction?
My Wife Has a Pattern of Infidelity, but I Love Her
She Cheated on Me! And Yet, I'm the One in Recovery?
Why Should I Write Down All My Anger and Hurt?
Can Harm Reduction Be Considered Sober?
I Really Want to Change but My Empathy is Broken
He Is Super Jealous Despite Being the One Who Cheated on Me!
The 12-Steps Just Don't Work For Me. I Just Don't Fit In
What Are the Triggers of a Midlife Addiction?
Am I Ready to Date Again as a Sex Addict?
He Blames Me for All of His Affairs. What?!
My 9-Year-Old Daughter Found Out About His Affairs and Now She's Self-Harming
No! You Ruined My Life and I Hate You!
I'm Sober But I Still Get Turned On by My Own Body
She Hates My Past. How Can I Support Her?
I'm Not Ready to Tell My Spouse I'm an Addict
My Husband Publicly Exposes Himself for Fun
Why Is My Addict Such a Liar?!
He Just Doesn't Care About Sobriety. Can An Addict Ever Recover?
Can My Children Inherit This Addiction Disease?
If They Really Knew Who I Am, They Would Leave Me
How to Set Healthy Boundaries with Your Addict
Can You Cure Narcissism?
Why Can't I Get Past the 9th Step?
When Do I Know It's Time to Completely Separate from My Addict?
My Addict's Family Blames Me for His Addiction
Can I Learn How to Be Intimate Again?
I'm an Addict and I'm Attracted to My Female Coworker
I'm in Recovery, but My Partner Is in Active Addiction
I'm in Recovery and I Still Have No Empathy
I'm So Hurt. How Do I Even Begin to Process the Betrayal?
My Brother-In-Law Intentionally Triggered My PTSD. Do I Disown the Family?
He Watches Incest Porn. Are My Children Safe?
His Sexual Fantasies are Out of Control and It's Turning into Sexual Abuse
My Addict Doesn't Trust Me! The Audacity. He Thinks I'll Cheat Back.
She Had a Ring On, and He Respected It. Yet He Still Cheated in Our Marriage.
He Cheated. Was My Entire Marriage a Lie?
My Betrayed Spouse Thinks I'm Disgusting. Can We Reconcile?
The Opposite of Addiction Is Healthy Attachment
Help! I Want to Relapse!
One Month Sober and I Want to Flip Tables and End It All
My Boundaries Keep Getting Violated. Do I Need to Just Accept It?