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The Dr. Psych Mom Showwith clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten — 728 episodes
Quitting Porn Does Change The Frequency You Want Sex
When Your Partner Doesn't Do Things Your Way.... It's a Growth Opportunity!
When You're A Know It All
Misery Loves Company: When Talking To Your Friends About Your Marriage Makes It Worse
When You're Raised To Be Very Polite
Being Avoidant Attachment In Marriage Doesn't Make You A Bad Parent
When You Think Your Partner Is The Problem
When You're Scared About Retirement
What I Think About Lindsay Clancy
You'll Be Disappointing People For Your Whole Life
You Can't Change People, And They Hate You Trying
When You Micromanage Your Partner, Your Anxiety Never Goes Away
Do You Overfunction With Your Kids And Partner Because You Can't Tolerate Their Negative Emotions?
Benefits Of An Avoidant Partner!
Is It A Sex Issue Or An Adulting Issue?
You're Allowed To Give Your Kids Advice
"It Doesn't Matter What You Want".... The Philosophy That Can Transform Your Life
When You're Wealthy, You Change From A Wild Animal To A Pet
5 Questions To Ask Yourself To Be A Better Partner
Rewatching/Rereading Shows/Books You Used To Love Can Be A FREE Catalyst of Growth!
Special Guest Lenore Skenazy of Free Range Kids And Let Grow on Our Culture Of Anxious Parenting!
The Professional Victim
Should You Discuss Negative Life Events In Your History With Your Kids?
Histrionic Personality Disorder... When You Live For Drama And Attention
Male Loneliness Epidemic?
Some People Are Lazy And That's Okay
Pursuer-Distancer Dynamics
The Self-Made Woman
When You Say Your Job Is More Important Because It Pays More
Women Who Like Romance Novels/Movies: The Two Types
When Your Wife Is A Teacher
Emotional Hangovers: Why Do You Feel So Terrible After An Argument?
High Achieving Men: The King Midas Problem
Why Trying To Optimize Your Sex Life Doesn't Work
When Your Wife Decides She "Doesn't Have Any More F's To Give"
Are You Interesting To Your Spouse?
Producers Vs Consumers: My New Framework For Understanding Compatibility
Therapists and Money And Taxes With Michael Flax, My Very Own Accountant
What's Your Financial Attachment Style?
Blaming Your Husband For Your Sex Life Is Misguided And In Many Cases, Anti-Feminist
Scheduling Sex Will Not Cure Your Sexless Marriage
"What's The Difference Between Selfish And Avoidant Partners?" Beats Me Man
Stefan Merrill Block: The Author of Homeschooled And A Kindred Spirit
Romantic Love Changes People
Sharing... The Opposite Of Being Self Centered
Cheating Is An Addictive Behavior, Not A Relationship Behavior!
Adult Child Of Dysfunctional Family? Read Homeschooled By Stefan Merrill Block
Stopping Drinking... One Free Way To Improve Your Marriage Immediately
Your Boyfriend Saying He Doesn't Know About Marriage = He Rejected Your Proposal
Weaponized Incompetence? What Happened To Plain Old Incompetence
"Withdrawing Sex Is Abuse"? NO
What's A Midlife Crisis And Why Does It Happen?
Misdiagnosis, The Future Of Psychiatry, And What We Don't Know About Mental Health: With Dr. Marc Lener
With Friends Like Yourself, Do You Need Enemies?
Avoidant Partners Look DOWN On Loved Ones And Preoccupied Partners Look UP!
Romantic Objectification Is No Better Than Sexual Objectification: Are You A Limerent?
Managing Expectations With Your Spouse... Why You Can't And Why That Makes Everything Worse
All About Treating Complex Trauma.... Parts Work, EMDR, Brainspotting and More! With Becca Newkirk!
I'm 45! Here's What I've Learned In 20 Years Since My First Client
Stop Trying To Compete With The Kids For Your Wife's Attention
Did Your "Emotional Harem" Mask Your Avoidant Partner's Limitations?
What's Your Second Mountain At Midlife?
What To Expect When You're Expecting A TEENAGER!!!! Parenting Teenagers with Special Guest Dr. Rebecca Resnik!
When Your Husband Is Depressed
Divorce and Finances With Russell Knight, Divorce Lawyer!
Do People Who Both Work From Home, Or Who Have Kids Every Other Weekend, Or Who Are Retired, Have More Sex?
Real Time Dating Profile Feedback For A 37 Year Old Man!
What To Say When Your Wife Says No To Sex; Two Paths In The Flowchart
Ketamine Assisted Therapy with Meredith Futernick!
Work, Hobbies, Friends: The Avoidant Mantra And Why This Is The Era Of The Avoidant
Renata Ellera on Attachment, Social Media, Anxiously Attached Women, Culture, And Everything Else!
Meredith Masony: An Honest Talk About Being A Woman At Midlife!
Lana Li and I Discuss How Much Of Dating Behavior Predicts How People Will Act In Marriage!
You Are An Unreliable Narrator And So Is Everyone Else... Or, How To Become 100x Wiser In One Minute
"My Husband Came Out After Years Of Sexlessness": Recovering From Betrayal Trauma With Guest Brandi Stupica
Sex and Porn Addiction With Duane Osterlind, LMFT, CSAT of The Addicted Mind Podcast!
If She's The CEO And You're The CFO (Chief F-ing Officer), This Doesn't Count As Division Of Labor
Let Your Wife Take Care Of You Or She Will Feel Unnecessary To You Except For Sex (Which Is Bad)
Laura How Is Still My Spirit Animal, or Part 2 Of Our Thoughts on Marriage And Love!!
Psychoanalytic Therapy: Not What You May Think! With Dr. Amanda Akers!
All About Infidelity... With Tehilla Luttig!
Why Is Your Wife Terrified To Give You Sexual Feedback?
Yes, Many Men Want More Foreplay
When Your Parent Dies And You Become The Oldest Generation
Your Wife Is Four Different Women Over The Course Of The Month...With Alyx Coble-Frakes of The Agenda. App
All About Otroverts Part 2... With The Ultimate Otrovert Dr. Rami Kaminski
Eldest Sons, Especially In Dysfunctional Families, Have Unique Issues
Otroverts! When You Don't Belong And Don't Understand Group Feelings
The Link Between Porn Use In Men And Eating Disordered Behaviors In Women with Special Guest Jackie Aston, LCSW-C
You Can Try New Things Without Compromising Your Core Self
What Is Tantric Sex? With Special Guest Suzanna Mathews
Laura How and I Are Spirit Animals.... Part 1
Reproductive Aged Animals Are Restless! Can You Use This Lens To Understand Yourself Better?
Special Guest: Michelle Dempsey-Multack, Founder of The Moving On Method and Divorce Guru!
If Your Partner Wouldn't Have Loved Your Most Awkward Self, You Will Never Feel Loved By Them
Ten Quick Ways To Show Your Partner You Love Them!
Dr. Marie Land on Overthinkers and Dating!
Low Functioning Normal Person vs High Functioning Person With Depression/Anxiety/Pain/Illness?
All About Anxious Kids... With Dr. Rachel Singer!
Evan Marc Katz, Dating Coach, Discusses When Smart, Successful Women Have Issues Finding The Right Man
What Does Avoidant Attachment Look Like During Dating?
Cat Roebuck and Paula Pate On The Crucible Approach To Couples Therapy!
Three (Actually Four) Concrete Tips To Improve Date Night
Love Isn't Tallying Shit Up
"If You Were A Single Parent You'd Have To Do Everything Yourself" But Wait
When Your Partner's Friends/Family Dislike You
Who Lies In Therapy, And Why?
When Your Defensiveness Stops Sex In Its Tracks
Is Your Relationship Like Chat GPT?
Interview With A Sexologist... Heather Ray!
When You Try And Make Up For Not Having Had Young, Casual Sex Within Your Marital Sex Life
The Two House Solution?
Is It Important For Your Therapist To Have "Lived Experience" In The Area You're Looking To Address?
What Would You Do If You Had Only 30 Years To Live?
Your Legal Divorce Questions Answered: An Interview With Evan Koslow, Family Law Attorney
Normal Privilege
ADHD In Women
Every Minute Counts At Midlife... But Think Before You Act
When Your Wife Loves The Dog (Or Other Pet) More Than You
What's A "Married Single Mom"?
Dr. Christine Vaccaro On Sexual Health In Perimenopause And Beyond: Medical Options To Increase Drive And Wellness
Your Marriage Is The Template For Your Kids' Marriage One Day! Go On Date Night!
When You Are More Similar To Your Opposite Gender Parent, It Impacts Your Perspective On Your Relationship
Are You In Chat GPT Style Therapy?
When There's Never Been Romantic Or Sexual Attraction In Your Marriage
Your Parents May Have Been Depressed, Not Just Angry Or Cold
LOVE vs CHIP Communication To Transform Your Relationships!
When You're Good At Receiving Feedback... Except From Your Wife
Silent Divorce, or Quiet Quitting Your Marriage
Yes, You May Be Able To Repair Estrangement With Your Adult Child
In-Law Issues... A New Perspective
Redo vs. Second Act Vision Of Remarriage
The Transition From A Woman's 30's To Her 40's
In Their 40's, Many Women Stop Being The Preoccupied Attachment/Pursuer Partner
Divorce From Each Attachment Style
The Passive Aggressive "Shock" Reaction To Your Partner Doing Something Nice
Mental Load? Or Depression/Anxiety?
"She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes By The Sink".... Interview With Matthew Fray!
When A Parent Commits Suicide... Or When You Yourself Feel Suicidal
Are You Really An Introvert Or Do You Have Social Anxiety?
How Do Real Women Initiate Sex?
Parentified Children/Surrogate Spouses
"I'm Depressed Because Of My Spouse"
How Do Securely Attached People Feel About The Decrease In Sex/Romance In A Long Relationship?
How To Message On Dating Apps For My Listeners In Their 50's And Up!
Preoccupied Attachment Men: Stop Doing Things That Make Your Relationship Worse
Walking On Eggshells: Who Does It, Why, And How To Get Healthy
How To Recognize An Eating Disorder In Your Partner And How To Support Them To Get Help... With Jen Rollin, LCSW!
The Luteal Phase (The Two Weeks Before Her Period) Sucks
When Your Partner Needs To Walk On Eggshells Around You, They Can't Also Be Romantic Or Sexual
"You Shouldn't Talk About Body Count When Dating" NOPE DISAGREE!
Working On Your Marriage Benefits Your Kids In Ways You've Never Considered
How To Help Your Kids Turn Into Sex Positive Adults
"Why Can't She Just Give Me A Blowjob When She Doesn't Want Sex?"
"Menopause Is Nature's Bait And Switch" NOPE
"Workhorse" Men: Why You Put Work, Service, And Family Above Your Own Happiness
If You Would Skip Work/Anything Else For Sex... This Is Why She Doesn't Want Sex
Your Wife Can't Be Open About Sex/Aging If You Won't Be
Don't Friendzone Your Marriage!
Be An "And" Person, Not An "Or" Person... Especially Not Where It's You Vs The Kids
Emotional Labor vs Anxiety And The ADHD Husband/Anxious Wife....
Stop Saying You Want Words Of Affirmation When You Actually Want Verbal Ability
The Guinea Pig Principle... Or What Does My Guinea Pig Have To Do With Feminine Energy?
Can Attachment Style Change In Different Relationships And At Different Stages?
Monday Morning Quarterbacking Of Sex: Why The Recap Convo Is A Huge Turnoff To Women
If You Suck, You Will Think The Opposite Gender Sucks, Here's Why
Stop Trying To Make Monthly Awesome Sex Into The Norm
Why Your Wife Is Turned Off By You Sitting Around
When You Find Yourself Thinking You're Better Than Your Spouse And They Should Be Grateful
When You Make More Money And Expect Your Wife To Change Her Whole Value System
A Reason Your Spouse Refuses Individual Therapy That You Never Thought Of
You Don't Love Your Husband If You Won't Touch Him
Yes, Your SAHM Wife Should Get 50% Of The Joint Wealth After Divorce
When You're "Scared Of Hard Work"
"What If You Used Porn Before Your Relationship Started, Should You Stop?"
Should You Wait For A Partner Who Is A Perfect Fit?
Responsive Desire Only Kicks In If You Are Enthusiastic About Her
"I Wouldn't Date My Spouse If I Met Them Now!"
Are You Acting With Your Spouse As You Would With Your Next Spouse?
Don't Believe Your Own Bullshit... And A Helpful Hack
If She Just Lays There And You Forge Ahead... You're Risking Being Thought Of As Coercive Later On
When You Are Scared Of Your Wife's Mood
Yes, Therapy Can Help With Standing Up To Your Spouse
Why Some Women Hate Kissing
And The Stupidest Mistake Young Men Make When Dating
The Stupidest Mistake Young Women Make When Dating
Top 4 Female Fantasies
"I Have A Perfect Life... Why Aren't I Happy?"
Having An Orgasm Doesn't Mean It Was Good Sex
Self Compassion And Why You Struggle With It
"If She Needs Foreplay, She's Not Attracted To Me"
Your Sibling Relationships Also Provide A Template For Your Marriage!
Sex As Life Activity vs Sex As Porn Scene
"Highly Sensitive" Doesn't Mean Difficult And Dramatic
What Would Your Most Confident Friend Say To Your Partner In Your Place?
In Your 40's, You're An Old Young Person, And In Your Fifties, You're A Young Old Person!
Red Flags In A Second Marriage!
"You Can Always Have More Kids But A Good Man Is Hard To Find" Hard No
"Masking" Is Also Known As Being Flexible Within Loving Relationships
Do You Ignore Your Wife's Drinking Because It's When You Get Laid?
"I Have A Great Idea"... aka How To Communicate With Enthusiasm So That Your Wife Responds Well
When Your Wife Stops Trying As She Ages
Look At How Your Partner's Parents Treat Each Other To See How They Will Treat You
When You're Trapped In The "Victim-Perpetrator" View Of Your Previous Relationship, You Can't Move On
Each Partner Doing What They Are Best At Separately.... The Commonsensical Approach To Marriage That Has Fallen From Favor
When You Don't Notice Your Partner Isn't A Good Fit Because Of Other Variables
"Good Mom" And "Good Wife" Are Often Opposite
How Porn Influences How You Treat Your Wife
Should You Wait To Leave Your Marriage Until The Kids Are Out Of The House?
Which Guys Hate The Idea Of Responsive Desire?
Little Ways To Connect With Your Partner Every Day
When You Are Wealthy, The Only Meaningful Currency Is Time
Remember, Your Life Would Go On Even If A Bad Thing Happened
The Real Compatibility: Having The Same Idea Of How Important The Relationship Is
Emotional Labor Isn't The Problem
"Nothing Is Only Good" AKA The Anxious Mantra
If You Can't Do Scary Things For You... Do Them For Your Kids!
Your Partner Shouldn't Be Your Only Friend
"Am I Bad In Bed If My Wife Doesn't Want Sex Anymore?"
Expectations... How They Mess Up Your Life
Die With Zero... A Transformative Book For Many At Midlife!
What Was Your Mom Like At Your Wife's Age?
People ALWAYS Have Dating Options... Hitting The Wall Is A Myth
The CCF Method For Reframing Your Marital Issues
3 Reasons That Highly Sensitive Women Are More Likely To Divorce You
Should Your Wife Have Veto Power Over Your Work Schedule?
The "Divide And Conquer" Mindset Is Terrible If Your Wife's Love Language Is Quality Time!
Relationship OCD
Anxiety In Men
When You Get Triggered By Others' Life Choices!
Why Do Moms And Daughters/Sons And Dads Have More Fraught Relationships Than Moms/Sons And Dads/Daughters?
Post Ovulation = Post Nut Clarity!
EMPATHY Makes You Great In Bed (And The Story Of The Dick Pic)
Stop Asking Your Wife So Many Questions Already
Reasons Your Wife Doesn't Want Sex That DO Have To Do With You
Do Something New Once A Week
"You Don't Just Want Me To Agree, Do You?"
The Delusion That You Can Change An Avoidant Man
Sex Isn't A Reward And Which Men And Women Think It Is
Change After The Honeymoon Stage Is Harder For Highly Sensitive People
The Next Question From "Boyfriend Jealous Of Sex Toy" Listener... It's About Erikson's Stages But Is It Really?
What Men Want From Their Wives
What Women Want From Their Husbands
When You're Scared Of Intimacy (Of ALL Kinds)
WAIT FOR HER RESPONSE AT THE END.... "Boyfriend Got Mad That I Used A Sex Toy Without Him"!
Remember ALL Women Can Compare You To Other Partners... You May Be Better Off If They Are Real Vs Imagined
Do Women Like Bad Boys?
What Kind Of Parenting Leads To Low Intimacy Or Sexless Marriages?
Unique Challenges Of Being Married To Veterans/First Responders
How To Connect With Your Spouse In Daily Life... What Is Appropriate In Front Of Kids?
Having Bad Sex Too Often Is Not The Goal Either
You May Need To Remember Being A Younger Age To Empathize With Your Spouse
When Men And Women Don't Have The Same Ideas For Retirement
A Happy Life Vs A Meaningful Life
How Does Marriage Change At Midlife?
Remember, If You Do Everything For Your Child, They Will Turn Into An Underfunctioning Adult
There Is No Amount Of Time Spent With Your Avoidant Husband That Will Be Enough
Make Your Own Money
It's Usually Normal That Your Wife Is Stressed Out... And What To Do When It's Not
What To Do When The Kids Walk All Over Your Wife
The Same Hormones That Made Her Feel Crazy Are Leaving The Building
Of Course Women Are Sad When Their Sex Drives Decrease
5 Things To Say When Your Wife Is Mad
What Motivates My Desire To Help Couples Understand Each Other
COVID Codependence
Working Together: Good Idea Or Terrible For Your Marriage?
Some Guy Equates A Breach Of Contract Between Partners In A Therapy Practice To A Sexless Marriage And My Response
Retroactive Jealousy: When You're Obsessed With Your Partner's Past
The Pros And Cons Of Starting Your Relationship As Friends
Financial Abuse And Control
Nobody "Has The Power" In An Unhappy Marriage
Responsive ROMANCE!
If Your Wife Finds You Attractive It Doesn't Really Matter (In This Sense)
Sex Positive/High Libido Women May Feel MORE Of A Drop Hormonally With Age
Don't "Try To Be More Interesting" To Make People Interested In You
Fighting About Loading The Dishwasher? Listen To This
"I Just Want To Be Alone" Is Now Considered A Healthy Female Ideal
Why Being A Good Stepdad Gets Men A Lot Of Love And How To Approximate This Effect If You're Not A Stepdad
Nostalgia For Your "Prime" And How This Impacts Men And Women
Why Men Nowadays Don't Know That Drive Drops For Men After The Honeymoon Stage And With Age
Yes, Sex Is A Proxy For Connection. But, Connection Shouldn't Be Your Central Obsession Either!
Why You Can't Find A Partner After Divorce
"Gaming" or "Hacking" Your Wife Makes Her Respect You Much, Much Less
Should Your Husband "Be Happy With What He Gets" In Bed?
What To Say To Your Husband When You Don't Want Sex... Instead Of Mean Stuff
Happy Valentine's Day... Here's How To Make It Good!
When in Rome... Have Sex! (The Impact Of Confident Momentum)
The Words To Look Out For To Avoid Women Who Will Stop Liking Sex
What Does It Mean When Women On Dating Apps Don't Share Their Phone Numbers?
Doing Chores Doesn't Turn Women On, But...
Should You Wait To Have Sex With New Partner Because Of Oxytocin Being Released Or Whatever BS Theory You Read Online?
Who Are The Men Who Get Treated Like Kings?
When Your Mental Health Improves... And It Tanks Your Marriage
Does Couples Therapy Really Improve Sex Lives?
When Women Are Scared To Be Alone With Kids
The Empathic Rupture Of Never Getting To Stay Home With Kids
"Spirit Week" And Constant School Emails Are Unfair To Kids And Parents Alike
"Why Can Hookers Do It Multiple Times A Day And Your Wife Can't?"
If Your Husband Takes Over The Emotional And The Physical Labor... Why?
Financial Values And How They Affect Your Relationship
What Depression Looks Like In Men
The More Successful A Guy Is, The More Coachable He Is
Do Cute Parenting Stuff With Your Wife Before It's Too Late!
Younger Working Husbands Are Condescended To The Way Stay At Home Moms Used To Be
What's Your Flexibility Quotient?
Nobody Wants To Be The Asshole.... AKA Why Couples Counseling Works
You May Miss Your Wife Pursuing You To Spend More Time With Her... When She Stops
Why Blowjobs Fall Off In Later Marriage
Benefits Of Perimenopause and Menopause
Wish Lists For Holiday Gifts: Good Idea Or Dumpster Fire?
Having More Sex Can Get You Out Of Doing Shit
The Real Reason Women Don't Respect Preoccupied Attachment Guys
What Does Ovulation Feel Like For Women?
Puberty And Menopause Are Two Normal Stages Of Life
When You Can't Deal With Your Wife's Changed Feelings About Sex
Why Most People Don't Regret Divorce
Why Therapy Hasn't Worked For Your Sexless Marriage
The "Sex Is Special" Philosophy Really Bites Married Couples In The Ass
When You're Successful At Everything Except Relationships
Stop Taking Things Personally
Is Your Partner Asexual?
Why Is Your Wife So Stressed By Teenage Kids?
Why Some Guys Spend Way Less Time With Their Wives Than You Do....But Those Wives Aren't Mad Like Yours Is
Why Your Wife Has No Fantasies... Or None She Will Tell You
What Does Your Highly Sensitive Wife Really Want To Hear?
When Your (Relatively Young) Wife Thinks That A Sexless Marriage Should Be Fine With You
Your Sex Drive Isn't Dependent On Your Wife, So Why Would Hers Be Dependent On Anything You Are Or Do?
When Your "Mr. Perfect" Husband Makes You (The "Crazy Wife") Feel Emotionally Unprotected
What Women Feel About Their Kids Growing Up
You Don't Need To Be Rich Or Super Hot Or Tall To Find Women... Obviously
When You Can't Admit You're Anxious
"Getting Emotionally Closer Will Lead To Sex" Only Works For Preoccupied Attachment Women
"The More Partners A Woman Has, The Less Special She Thinks Sex Is!"
How Divorce Changes Your Self-Concept!
What Does "A Great Sex Life When Dating" Mean?
When Your Partner's Energy Level Changes After Marriage
When One Person Is Always Catching The Other In Little Lies
When You're More Comfortable In The Role Of Being Your Parents' Child Than Being An Adult/Partner
Which Men Have Trouble Empathizing With Women?
Do You Really Love Your Husband?
Happy Wife, Happy Life?
What Issues Arise In Older Woman-Younger Man Couples?
When A Man Remarries A Much Younger Woman, What Issues Come Up?
When You Keep Thinking About An Ex
Can You Really Inoculate Yourself Against Infidelity?
What Dopamine-Releasing Things Are You "Addicted" To In The Way Your Husband Is "Addicted" To Sex?
If You're A Preoccupied Attachment Guy, Here's What To Watch Out For On The Internet
Understand Your Husband Better In 17 Minutes
Should You Ever Marry Someone If Sex Isn't Good When Dating?
Why Women Fake Orgasms
Hysterical Bonding... Or When You Have A Bunch Of Sex Only After There Is A Threat To The Marriage
Think Real Hard Before You Marry A Guy With ADHD
Why Is Your Wife The Only Non-Romantic Woman On Earth?
You Know As Little About What A Fun Date Night Looks Like For Your Wife As She Knows About What Fun Sex Looks Like For You
Be Nicer And Your Wife, If She Is At All Healthy, Will Love You More
If You Think Everyone Is An Idiot... It May Be Depression
Why Do Dates Find You Boring?
How Can You Learn About Healthy Relationships If You Grow Up With A Single Parent?
When You Want To Stay Single After Divorce... Or When You're Ambivalent About Dating So Your Kids End Up Hating Your New Partner
When Your Partner's Happiness Makes You Uncomfortable
Men With Difficult Childhoods Become Either Assholes Or Scaredy-Cats And These Two Groups Don't Understand Each Other
Why Isn't Your Wife Down For A Quickie Anymore?
Do You Deserve A Happy Marriage?
What Does The Post- Honeymoon Stage Look Like For Happy Couples?
Why Do People Increasingly Hate Aging More And More? For My Sociology Fans
When Your Father Out-Alphas You
Are You Too Judgmental To Find Love?
The Hotter You Think Your Wife Is, The Hotter She Gets
If Your Kids Are Running The Show, This Is Related To Marital Issues
Are You Ruining All The Nice Things You Do For Your Wife By Being A Dick About Them?
Women Feel Younger When They Have Playful, Enthusiastic, Cuddly Kids, And Men Feel The Same About A Wife
Does Depression Go Away When You Get Remarried To A More Supportive Spouse?
Do You Think Your Husband Asking, "What Can I Do To Help?" Is A Burden?
The Unique Relationship Issues Of Men In IT
When Your Boyfriend Prioritizes Everything Else Over You But Tells You He Doesn't
When Your Wife Is Only Fun When She Drinks
What Women Think About Angry Men
When Your Wife Keeps Shooting Down Your Dinner Ideas
When You Feel Masculine Because Your Girlfriend Says You Want Sex Too Much Or She's Worn Out
Don't Complain About Doing Stuff That You Would Hope To Keep Doing After Divorce!
Don't Tell Your Husband You're A Good Wife To Him When You Mean You're A Good Mother To The Kids
Should You Merge Finances, And How Do You Make Joint Decisions About Money?
Remember Dating Is Supposed To Be Fun
When Should You Get Divorced?
Sex = Freeze Tag Analogy.... Why She's Not "Getting It Somewhere Else" If She Doesn't Want Sex With You
Lawyers' Relationship Issues: You Know What I'm Going To Say
CEO's/Entrepreneurs: What Unique Relationship Issues Do They Have?
The Mommysphere Can Be As Bad For Marriage As The Manosphere
Divorce Is Priceless, Or, Are You Letting Financial Fear Keep You In A Toxic Situation?
What Kind Of Women Do Rigid/Difficult Men Get?
Why Men Don't Usually Have An Acts Of Service Love Language
When Your Judgmental Attitude Hurts Your Relationships
Let Your Wife Make The Kid Decisions... Unless She Is Consumed By Anxiety
9 Bucket List Sexual Experiences
"Everything Is Fine In Our Marriage Except Sex"
Are Other Married People Having Spontaneous Sex?
Stop Only Doing Stuff You Hate With Your Kids
People Regret Chances Not Taken And People Not Slept With
Age Isn't Just A Number
Highly Sensitive Women Do Not Dislike Sex!
Benefits To Men Of Not Having An Orgasm In Every Encounter
Do Women Want A Partner Or A Servant?
When Your Boyfriend/Husband Won't Do Foreplay.... AND How To Tell If Your Partner Is An Asshole
Are There Really Men Who Do "Everything"?
Why Do You Lose Friends After Divorce?
When Your Partner Is Depressed, What Is "Helping" And What Is "Enabling"?
When You And Your Partner Think Differently About Working From Home Together
Don't Marry A Man That Can't Do Housework
When Your Wife Doesn't Want To Take Hormones To Increase Post-Menopausal Drive
When Your Boyfriend Won't Go Down On You
You Can't Make Your Wife Desire You, But You Can Ask For Her To Try
What Does A Healthy Sex Life Look Like?
Women Can't Be Sexually Open With A Negative, Closed, Critical Guy
There Is No Way To Love Or Respect Your Husband While Dismissing His Desire For Sex
If You Ignore Your Husband For Decades Years While The Kids Are Young, He Will Not Be There To Reconnect With Later; Also, You May Not Care
Feeling Your Spouse Rescued You Is Behind Most Romantic Feelings
Why Your Wife Wants You To Post Pics Of You Two On Social Media
Wait Why Would You Get Laid If You're Not Loving?
Your Husband Wants You To Take Charge In Bed And Here's Why
Why Your Wife Doesn't Want Sex Two Days In A Row
Bare Marriage Episode Review: I Disagree, Sex Actually Should Be A Sexual Yes Space For Men... And Women
Nobody Has To Ask About Your Day
"Trust Your Gut".... Is This Good Advice Or Not?
Does Attachment Style Change In Different Relationships?
Your Refractory Period Can Help You Be Empathic To Your Wife
Tell Your Husband You Can't Do Stuff!
The Elephant In The Room Of Your Relationship: Often, It's That You're Settling For A Lack Of Real Connection
When Guys Don't Call Back After Sex
Your Wife Has No Idea What Turns You On
When You Have No Family To Rely On
Not All "Avoidant Attachment" Is Avoidant Attachment
Figure Out Your Actual Worth In The Dating Marketplace... And Why You May Not Be Doing Well
Your Partner Has No Idea What They Want In Bed
New Self-Indulgence Low: Apparently, Wanting Your Partner To Dress A Certain Way Is "Abusive"!
Isn't It Shallow To Divorce Over Lack Of Sex?
It Can't All Ride On The Penis (Pun Intended)
When Men Get Anxious About When The Next Sexual Encounter Will Be
Choreplay DOES WORK... But Here's The Caveat
When Your Boyfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married
Encouraging Your Husband To Masturbate Is Like Encouraging Your Wife To Get Love Letters From A Romance Robot
Midlife Crises In Women
When Does Frequency Of Sex Change From A Quantitative Problem To A Qualitative One?
Hold On, How Is The Sex Denying Partner The Victim?
Adults Used To Have Sex
Should You Manipulate Your Husband With Sex?
Does Drinking "Not Really" Impact You?
Late Bloomers
Many Avoidant Partners Would Be Relieved If You Initiated Divorce
Is Sex A Need Or A Want?
What Does "Sexual Compatibility" Really Mean?
Should Couples Have Each Other's Email And Phone Passwords?
Is Your Main Problem That You're "Too Nice"?
Sex As Act Of Service
Midlife Crises: Can They And Should They Be Prevented?
"Feminine Energy" Vs Reality
What's The Only Way To Ensure Everyone Likes You?
Some People Value "Stuff" And Some Don't And One Way Isn't Better
Physical Touch Love Language Is NOT The Same Thing As "Sex Drive"!
The Sliding Window Algorithm And Empathic Ruptures!
OMG This Masturbation Article Is Enraging
Marry A Woman Who Adores You!
Can You Have Friends Of The Opposite Sex When Married?
Massage: Women = Sex: Men
Your Kid Doesn't Feel Unsafe When You're Not In The Room (Unless You've Created An Environment Of Fear)
Does Your Wife's Chronic Pain Or Depression Uniquely Impact One Area Of The Marriage Called "Having Any Sex Ever"?
Could You Get Your Wife To Have Sex With You If You Got A Million Bucks To Make It Happen (And If You Weren't Allowed To Tell Her About The Million Bucks)
How To Ensure That Your Son Has A Shitty Sex Life One Day
Erections Wax And Wane, People
Popular Media Aimed Toward Teens Doesn't Show Married Sex Anymore... Why This Matters
The Word To Look Out For If You Want To Avoid Anxious Or Closedminded Women
Don't Overinvest In (Or Guilt-Trip) Your Adult Kids
Should You Stay Together For Adult Children?
The Reality Of Female Sexual Initiation
Do You Love Your Wife Or Do You Love How She Reflects On You?
More Ways To Convince Your Partner To Try Couples Counseling
Realizing Your Wife Doesn't Value Sex = Empathic Rupture
Intimacy Porn On Social Media: Male Vs Female
When One Partner Wants To Move Up In Socioeconomic Class And The Other Doesn't
Female Breadwinners: Are They Still Attracted To Their Husbands?
You Are BOTH Slaves To Your Hormones!
Watching Porn When Your Wife Has A Low Sex Drive Is The Opposite Of Helpful
The Gentleman Eunuch: Why You Attract Women Who Don't Like Sex
Don't Expect Her To Pick You Over The Kids
Is Your Wife Depressed Or Just Lazy?
When You Obsess About An Ex
What Aging Feels Like For Women
Yes You Can Improve Your Partner's Life, Although You Can't Entirely Change Their Personality
Hygiene: What Women Find Gross About You
Why Your Husband Can't Admit He Was Sleeping
Erotic Blueprints: Kinky, Energetic, Sexual, Sensual And Shapeshifter
You Can Always Do Better Than Someone Who Treats You Badly
Yes Men Like Nonsexual Physical Touch!
Don't Lie About Your "Body Count" Or Anything Else
You Can't Get A Woman Obsessed With You That Also Lets You Leave All The Time
"Men Want A Cookie For Doing The Dishes"
Does Your Husband "Not Respond" To More Physical Affection Because It's Still Nowhere Near Enough?
Yes, Narcissists Can Change In Therapy
Are You Teaching Your Kids To Fear The World?
Sex Is Not About Sex
Physical "Types": What Are They And Why Are They Important
Why Your Wife Promises Sex That Doesn't Happen
When You Broke Up With Partners Who Liked You Too Much And Chose To Marry The One Who Didn't
What Do I Think About "Inspiring Dread" Or "Being A Man Of Mystery"?
Politically Liberal Doesn't Mean Sexually Liberal, Or Just Because She's Against Slut Shaming Doesn't Mean She Wants To Be Your Slut
What Do Married Men And Single Women Have In Common? The Inability To Understand That Female Libido Decreases After Marriage And Kids
Signs Your Girlfriend Will Continue Liking Sex After Marriage
Why Won't Your Wife Send You Sexy Pictures?
Infidelity: Doesn't Happen As Often Or For The Reasons You Think
If You Wish Your Partner Was More Romantic, Listen To This
If You Don't Want To Do What Your Husband Wants In Bed Here's A Secret Hack To Make Him Happy Anyway
Can You Change Your Attachment Style?
Yes There Should Be A Sexual Marital Contract
Home Renovations: Creative Outlet Or Waste Of Money?
Femininity And Masculinity: Do These Concepts Help Or Hinder Marital Communication?
The Martyr And The Ice Queen: Couples You Meet In Counseling #2
"Shit Tests" And Other Myths
Avoidant Husbands
Does Your Partner Know How Much Stuff You Do For Them??
Premature Ejaculation And Erectile Dysfunction
"Concern Trolling" or "I'm So Concerned About Why You're Not Like What I Would Prefer You To Be Like"
When Your Wife "Can't Go Back To Work Because Of The (School Aged) Kids' Schedules"
The Difference Between Boundaries And Ultimatums
Do High Libido Monogamous Women Have Spontaneous Desire?
Why Wanting A Woman With Limited Prior Sexual Experience Can Really Bite You In The Ass
You Can Likely Get Laid Once More Per Week If You Try Hard Enough But It Ain't Gonna Change Much
When You Don't Think You Deserve Good Sex
Foolish Ways To Waste Your Time And Money In Therapy
Your Wife Doesn't Care If Your Sex Life Isn't Mindblowing
Fearful-Avoidant Attachment, The One You Get When Your Childhood Was Traumatic
How To Use Direct, Open, Kind Words To Get Laid... OR JUST TO BE A GUY YOU'RE PROUD OF BEING
Scarcity Mindset
Who Ends Up In "Toxic Workplaces"?
Weaponized Confusion
What Predicts Success In Couples Counseling?
The Preoccupied Attachment Husband
Should You Tell Your Kids You Drank/Used Drugs/Had Premarital Sex?
Every Time You Promise Sex You Don't Give, An Angel Dies In Heaven
When Men Are Told What They Do For Their Wives Is Really For Them
Don't Compare Your Post-Divorce Life/Parenting/Etc To A Happy Marriage
Why Does It Bother Men So Much When Their Wives Are Anxious?
Porn Use And Marriage
The HUSBAND Who Wants More (Sexually) And His Annoyingly Satisfied WIFE
"The Lost Daughter": A Movie That Many Moms Will Identify With
When Your Husband Doesn't Want Sex Because You May Be Hot But You're Also Quite Difficult
When Therapy Just Feels Like Chatting With A Friend
When You Can't Recognize Your Anxiety
When You're Not Attracted To Your Husband
Do You Cuddle Enough?
How To Avoid Overparenting "Underachieving" Teens
Birdnesting After Divorce
"Sittervising" And How Moms Are Made Super Anxious By Media
When You Can't Be Open With Your Partner
Why Women Don't Like The "Porn Montage" Position Switch Type Of Sex
What Level Of Marital "Communication" Is Way Too Fucking Much?
Overview Of Female Biology Across The Lifespan
Go To Sleep When Your Wife Goes To Sleep
Get Up When Your Wife Gets Up
When Is It Best To Have Kids Switch Schools (And How To Empathize With Your Kids)
Your Partner Will Change Over Time, Sexually and Overall
Do Some Random Ass Project With Your Wife
How To Immediately Stop Being Judgmental
How To Let Go Of Control
When Your Kids' Positive Emotions Trigger You
When You Don't Notice Your Wife's Haircut/Change Of Appearance/Whatever Else
If You Consider Your Mother/Father Better Than Your Partner, Your Marriage Will Suffer
Women Are Generally Shy In Bed (But Porn Makes You Think That's Unusual/Bad)
Fair Play: When You Don't Want To Admit You're An Overfunctioner
Control Issues In Men
Compliment Rationing And Its Consequences
Tell Your Wife Why Men Find Women Hot
How To Get Genuine Sexual Performance Feedback From Your Wife
Try A Therapist Who Isn't Your Same Gender To Really Heal Your Trust Issues
How To Go On A Family Trip Without Killing Each Other
How To Be Fair When You Prefer One Kid's Interests/Activities To The Other(s)
When Your Husband Says "Nothing Is Ever Good Enough For You"
Your Partner's Personality: There's No Free Lunch
How To Go On A First Date With Someone From A Dating App
How To Stop Giving A Shit What People Think
Of Course You Can And Should Marry The Best Sex You Ever Had
Don't Rewrite History!
Sex In The Dark: Why Turning The Light On May Dim Your Sexual Potential
What About If Your Partner Wants To Do Some Crazy Shit In Bed?
Body Image And Sex
Menopause And When It Leads To The End Of Sex
When Your Partner Refuses To Do Sexual Things That She Used To Do (With You Or With Prior Partners)
When A Parent Doesn't Like You
Do You Pass Down Your Attachment Style?
Couples You Meet In Counseling #7: The CEO And The Resentful Employee
Yes Women Fantasize That Men Will Change After Marriage, But Men Fantasize This Too!
When Your Kids Ignore Your Birthday or Mother's/Father's Day
When Your Partner Plays Favorites, Overtly Picking Their Bio Kids Over Yours
Fake It Till You Make It With Parenting Too
Marry An Intellectual Equal
The Narcissist-Borderline Dynamic (Extreme Preoccupied-Avoidant)
When Acting More Confident And Working Out Actually Gets You Laid LESS
How To Not Fuck Up Father's Day
How To Understand Why Your Wife Won't Exercise
When You Feel Too Smart For Therapy
Can't Buy Me Love: Why Do Your Relationship Problems Feel Worse The More Money You Make?
OCPD: Are You Rigid As Fuck?
How To Stop Fighting With Your Wife
The Cult of Preferences/Boundaries And How They Sabotage Intimacy And Connection
When Others Think You're Not Empathic
Why Your Wife Hates Your Politics And What To Do About It
Do You Know What Foreplay Is?
Devil's Advocate: Use In Case You Are Getting Laid Too Much
When Your Kid Believes In Something You Disagree With
Sexual Codependence Is Great
How To Incorporate Your New Partner Into Your Family Unit
Should You Protect Your Partner From Themselves?
Should You Ever Stay In A Sexually Unfulfilling Relationship If No Kids Are Involved?
How To Convince Your Partner To Try Couples Counseling
When Your Parent Cheats On Your Other Parent
The One Who Got Away
Should You Ever Take A Break From Sexual Intimacy?
What To Do When Your Partner Can't Get It Up
Look At Your Partner's Parenting To See If You Will Ever Be Happy Together
Do Women Like Emotional Men?
The Self Made Man
When Women Are Scared Or Disgusted By Male Sexual Desire
Tween/Teen Attitude And How To Deal
Avoidant Wives: How To Tell If You Have One
Dad Starting Over: My First Podcast Guest!!
Why Isn't Your Wife Happy To See You At The End Of The Day/After You Return From A Work Trip?
Are You Mad At Your Partner For Being What You Chose When You Had Lower Self-Esteem?
You Find Or Create A Partner That Confirms What You Think About The World
Problems That Couples Have When Their Original Relationship Was Long Distance
When Your Wife Thinks You're Defensive, Difficult, Or Argumentative
How Not To F Up Mother's Day
When You And Your Co-Parent Have Very Different Values And Home Environments
Are Soulmates Real?
Men Need To Love Their Wives As Much As Women Love Their Kids
The Moment You Realized You Loved Your Partner, And How This Informs Your Current Relationship
What Do You And Your Partner NEED Each Other For?
The Importance Of Shared Sense Of Humor In A Relationship
When Your Job Leads To Emotional Disconnect And Burnout
What About When Women "Just Stop Trying" To Be Attractive?
Picky Eating In Kids: A Controversial Approach
Does "Fake It Till You Make It" Work To Improve Behavior?
"Inlaws From Hell": Why They Aren't The Problem
The Gray Rock Method For Dealing With Difficult People... With A Cameo By My 12 Year Old
When You Can't Get Over Resentment (Sometimes Even After The Person Who Hurt You Apologized)
What Level Of Marital Conflict Is Healthy For Kids To Witness?
Midlife Career Change And The Meaning Of Life
Being Yourself Around Your Kids: A Novel Idea In Today's Child-Centered Society
Does Your Wife Feel You Would Do Anything For Her?
"You Only Want Sex" Is An Inane Remark Within Marriage
When You're Considering Estrangement/No Contact (or Low Contact) From A Family Member
Female Dating Cynics: Men Don't Only Want Young Supermodels
If You Want A Man To Take Care Of You Don't Offer To Split The Check On The First Date
All About Blowjobs And Why You Didn't Know This Stuff Before
When To Ignore Kids' Bad Behavior Vs Give Consequences... And When You And Your Partner Don't Agree On Parenting
What Is Your Couple And/Or Family Identity?
When Your Partner Has Never Been Attracted To You
How To Respond When You're Offered Unenthusiastic Sex
Ten Things To Look For In A Husband
Why Do People With "Great Lives" Still Suffer From Depression?
Remember There Are Also Men Who Do Nothing And Barely Work And Still Get Women
Why To Work Out With Your Partner
Yes, Women Like Nice Guys!
Two Magic Words To Make Your Conversations Go Better
Plastic Surgery And Self-Love/Acceptance
Masturbation: The Junk Food Of Married Sex
How Do You Keep Momentum Going When Your Marriage Is Improving?
Picky Eating And How It Hurts Your Relationship!
Why To Not Have A Long List Of Requirements In A Partner
When Your Kid Is Super Annoying
What If Physical Intimacy Was The Daily Default In Your Marriage?
Your Husband Doesn't Have To Treat The Kids The Same Way You Do
Do You Deserve The Marriage You Say You Deserve (Or Are You Just Fooling Yourself)?
How To Raise Emotionally Intelligent Kids!
Training Your Partner To Meet Your Needs Is Healthy!
What Happens To Women's Bodies And Brains In Their 40's?
8 Ways To Stop Overparenting Your Kids!
Help-Rejecting Complainers!
Why To Talk About Exes!
As A Divorced Parent, Can You Bring People You're Dating Around Your Kids?
Women Think Way More About The Kids Than Their Husbands Understand!
Codependency: What Does It Mean And How To Work On Interdependence Instead
How To Teach Your Son About Marriage And The Myth Of The Golden Vagina
The 100% Marriage (and Why 50-50 Is Some BS)
Other Reasons Your Libido May Be Low
What Would Your Partner Act Like If They Got All The Physical Affection They Wanted?
Alpha Male or Asshole?
Should You Say You Like Sex In Your Dating Profile?
Four Ways To Get Yourself In The Mood Even If You're Not Feeling Sexy (For Women)
When Your Husband Has ADHD
"My Wife Is Threatened By My Research About How I Can Improve As A Lover"
"I Can't Tell My Wife She's Beautiful Because She's Too Fat"
Clearing Up The Misconception That Women "Withhold" Sex
Is Physical Touch The Most Important Love Language?
Why Women Initiate Divorce
Why Doesn't It Work When You Try To Turn On Your Wife?
Why Men Ask For Divorces
Why Women Can Be Scared Of Making More Money
What If Your Kids Don't Like Seeing You Be Physically Affectionate With Your Partner Post-Divorce?
Is It Wrong To Fantasize About Someone Else During Sex?
Why You Attract "Weird" People (AKA People Without Boundaries)
When Your Parent Won't Listen To Anything About Your Difficult Childhood
When You Don't Like Your Kid
Recovering From Infidelity
How To Talk Openly To Your Partner About Your Sexual Fantasies And Desires!
When You're Never Attracted To Who's Attracted To You
How Do You Teach Your Daughters About Sex Without Focusing On The Fear Factor?
Listener Question About Protect Your Wife Podcast (Listener Is Random Definitely Not My Husband)
How To Protect Your Wife Without Being "Sexist"
How To Get Couple Time When You Have Small Kids
When Scorekeeping Is Positive For The Marriage
When Your Depression Won't Go Away
Men Need To Think Their Wives Are Really Hot For Things To Work (And The Corollary For Women)
How To Deal With Disrespectful Kids
Own It If You're The More Difficult Or Picky Partner!
What Do Women Mean By "Be More Romantic"?
Listener Question! "My Boyfriend Doesn't Want To Help Out"
When Men Don't Take Care Of You
10 Ways To Tell If Your Partner Will Stop Enjoying Sex After Marriage And Kids
When Women Out-Earn Their Husbands
6 Things Men Want In Bed
When Your Anxiety Hurts Your Kids
Key Areas Of Compatibility In First And Second Marriages
Responsive Desire In Women: If You're Never In The Mood, That's Normal
Don't Let Your Child Treat You Like Garbage!
In Your Marriage, Do What You're Good At And/Or What Your Partner Truly Values
Things That Adult Children Of Dysfunctional Families Don't Understand
Overfunctioning and Underfunctioning
When Women Have a Higher Sex Drive Than Their Husbands
Top 10 Ways To Make Your Highly Sensitive Wife Want Sex A Lot More!
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