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Is It A Sex Issue Or An Adulting Issue?

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You're Allowed To Give Your Kids Advice

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"It Doesn't Matter What You Want".... The Philosophy That Can Transform Your Life

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When You're Wealthy, You Change From A Wild Animal To A Pet

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5 Questions To Ask Yourself To Be A Better Partner

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Rewatching/Rereading Shows/Books You Used To Love Can Be A FREE Catalyst of Growth!

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Special Guest Lenore Skenazy of Free Range Kids And Let Grow on Our Culture Of Anxious Parenting!

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The Professional Victim

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Should You Discuss Negative Life Events In Your History With Your Kids?

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Histrionic Personality Disorder... When You Live For Drama And Attention

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Male Loneliness Epidemic?

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Some People Are Lazy And That's Okay

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Pursuer-Distancer Dynamics

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The Self-Made Woman

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When You Say Your Job Is More Important Because It Pays More

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Women Who Like Romance Novels/Movies: The Two Types

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When Your Wife Is A Teacher

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Emotional Hangovers: Why Do You Feel So Terrible After An Argument?

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High Achieving Men: The King Midas Problem

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Why Trying To Optimize Your Sex Life Doesn't Work

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When Your Wife Decides She "Doesn't Have Any More F's To Give"

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Are You Interesting To Your Spouse?

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Producers Vs Consumers: My New Framework For Understanding Compatibility

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Therapists and Money And Taxes With Michael Flax, My Very Own Accountant

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What's Your Financial Attachment Style?

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Blaming Your Husband For Your Sex Life Is Misguided And In Many Cases, Anti-Feminist

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Scheduling Sex Will Not Cure Your Sexless Marriage

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"What's The Difference Between Selfish And Avoidant Partners?" Beats Me Man

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Stefan Merrill Block: The Author of Homeschooled And A Kindred Spirit

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Romantic Love Changes People

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Sharing... The Opposite Of Being Self Centered

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Cheating Is An Addictive Behavior, Not A Relationship Behavior!

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Adult Child Of Dysfunctional Family? Read Homeschooled By Stefan Merrill Block

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Stopping Drinking... One Free Way To Improve Your Marriage Immediately

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Your Boyfriend Saying He Doesn't Know About Marriage = He Rejected Your Proposal

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Weaponized Incompetence? What Happened To Plain Old Incompetence

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"Withdrawing Sex Is Abuse"? NO

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What's A Midlife Crisis And Why Does It Happen?

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Misdiagnosis, The Future Of Psychiatry, And What We Don't Know About Mental Health: With Dr. Marc Lener

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With Friends Like Yourself, Do You Need Enemies?

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Avoidant Partners Look DOWN On Loved Ones And Preoccupied Partners Look UP!

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Romantic Objectification Is No Better Than Sexual Objectification: Are You A Limerent?

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Managing Expectations With Your Spouse... Why You Can't And Why That Makes Everything Worse

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All About Treating Complex Trauma.... Parts Work, EMDR, Brainspotting and More! With Becca Newkirk!

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I'm 45! Here's What I've Learned In 20 Years Since My First Client

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Stop Trying To Compete With The Kids For Your Wife's Attention

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Did Your "Emotional Harem" Mask Your Avoidant Partner's Limitations?

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What's Your Second Mountain At Midlife?

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What To Expect When You're Expecting A TEENAGER!!!! Parenting Teenagers with Special Guest Dr. Rebecca Resnik!

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When Your Husband Is Depressed

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Divorce and Finances With Russell Knight, Divorce Lawyer!

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Do People Who Both Work From Home, Or Who Have Kids Every Other Weekend, Or Who Are Retired, Have More Sex?

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Real Time Dating Profile Feedback For A 37 Year Old Man!

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What To Say When Your Wife Says No To Sex; Two Paths In The Flowchart

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Ketamine Assisted Therapy with Meredith Futernick!

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Work, Hobbies, Friends: The Avoidant Mantra And Why This Is The Era Of The Avoidant

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Renata Ellera on Attachment, Social Media, Anxiously Attached Women, Culture, And Everything Else!

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Meredith Masony: An Honest Talk About Being A Woman At Midlife!

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Lana Li and I Discuss How Much Of Dating Behavior Predicts How People Will Act In Marriage!

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You Are An Unreliable Narrator And So Is Everyone Else... Or, How To Become 100x Wiser In One Minute

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"My Husband Came Out After Years Of Sexlessness": Recovering From Betrayal Trauma With Guest Brandi Stupica

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Sex and Porn Addiction With Duane Osterlind, LMFT, CSAT of The Addicted Mind Podcast!

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If She's The CEO And You're The CFO (Chief F-ing Officer), This Doesn't Count As Division Of Labor

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Let Your Wife Take Care Of You Or She Will Feel Unnecessary To You Except For Sex (Which Is Bad)

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Laura How Is Still My Spirit Animal, or Part 2 Of Our Thoughts on Marriage And Love!!

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Psychoanalytic Therapy: Not What You May Think! With Dr. Amanda Akers!

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All About Infidelity... With Tehilla Luttig!

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Why Is Your Wife Terrified To Give You Sexual Feedback?

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Yes, Many Men Want More Foreplay

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When Your Parent Dies And You Become The Oldest Generation

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Your Wife Is Four Different Women Over The Course Of The Month...With Alyx Coble-Frakes of The Agenda. App

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All About Otroverts Part 2... With The Ultimate Otrovert Dr. Rami Kaminski

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Eldest Sons, Especially In Dysfunctional Families, Have Unique Issues

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Otroverts! When You Don't Belong And Don't Understand Group Feelings

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The Link Between Porn Use In Men And Eating Disordered Behaviors In Women with Special Guest Jackie Aston, LCSW-C

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You Can Try New Things Without Compromising Your Core Self

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What Is Tantric Sex? With Special Guest Suzanna Mathews

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Laura How and I Are Spirit Animals.... Part 1

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Reproductive Aged Animals Are Restless! Can You Use This Lens To Understand Yourself Better?

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Special Guest: Michelle Dempsey-Multack, Founder of The Moving On Method and Divorce Guru!

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If Your Partner Wouldn't Have Loved Your Most Awkward Self, You Will Never Feel Loved By Them

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Ten Quick Ways To Show Your Partner You Love Them!

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Dr. Marie Land on Overthinkers and Dating!

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Low Functioning Normal Person vs High Functioning Person With Depression/Anxiety/Pain/Illness?

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All About Anxious Kids... With Dr. Rachel Singer!

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Evan Marc Katz, Dating Coach, Discusses When Smart, Successful Women Have Issues Finding The Right Man

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What Does Avoidant Attachment Look Like During Dating?

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Cat Roebuck and Paula Pate On The Crucible Approach To Couples Therapy!

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Three (Actually Four) Concrete Tips To Improve Date Night

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Love Isn't Tallying Shit Up

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"If You Were A Single Parent You'd Have To Do Everything Yourself" But Wait

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When Your Partner's Friends/Family Dislike You

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Who Lies In Therapy, And Why?

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When Your Defensiveness Stops Sex In Its Tracks

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Is Your Relationship Like Chat GPT?

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Interview With A Sexologist... Heather Ray!

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When You Try And Make Up For Not Having Had Young, Casual Sex Within Your Marital Sex Life

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The Two House Solution?

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Is It Important For Your Therapist To Have "Lived Experience" In The Area You're Looking To Address?

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What Would You Do If You Had Only 30 Years To Live?

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Your Legal Divorce Questions Answered: An Interview With Evan Koslow, Family Law Attorney

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Normal Privilege

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ADHD In Women

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Every Minute Counts At Midlife... But Think Before You Act

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When Your Wife Loves The Dog (Or Other Pet) More Than You

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What's A "Married Single Mom"?

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Dr. Christine Vaccaro On Sexual Health In Perimenopause And Beyond: Medical Options To Increase Drive And Wellness

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Your Marriage Is The Template For Your Kids' Marriage One Day! Go On Date Night!

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When You Are More Similar To Your Opposite Gender Parent, It Impacts Your Perspective On Your Relationship

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Are You In Chat GPT Style Therapy?

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When There's Never Been Romantic Or Sexual Attraction In Your Marriage

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Your Parents May Have Been Depressed, Not Just Angry Or Cold

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LOVE vs CHIP Communication To Transform Your Relationships!

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When You're Good At Receiving Feedback... Except From Your Wife

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Silent Divorce, or Quiet Quitting Your Marriage

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Yes, You May Be Able To Repair Estrangement With Your Adult Child

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In-Law Issues... A New Perspective

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Redo vs. Second Act Vision Of Remarriage

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The Transition From A Woman's 30's To Her 40's

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In Their 40's, Many Women Stop Being The Preoccupied Attachment/Pursuer Partner

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Divorce From Each Attachment Style

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The Passive Aggressive "Shock" Reaction To Your Partner Doing Something Nice

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Mental Load? Or Depression/Anxiety?

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"She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes By The Sink".... Interview With Matthew Fray!

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When A Parent Commits Suicide... Or When You Yourself Feel Suicidal

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Are You Really An Introvert Or Do You Have Social Anxiety?

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How Do Real Women Initiate Sex?

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Parentified Children/Surrogate Spouses

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"I'm Depressed Because Of My Spouse"

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How Do Securely Attached People Feel About The Decrease In Sex/Romance In A Long Relationship?

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How To Message On Dating Apps For My Listeners In Their 50's And Up!

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Preoccupied Attachment Men: Stop Doing Things That Make Your Relationship Worse

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Walking On Eggshells: Who Does It, Why, And How To Get Healthy

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How To Recognize An Eating Disorder In Your Partner And How To Support Them To Get Help... With Jen Rollin, LCSW!

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The Luteal Phase (The Two Weeks Before Her Period) Sucks

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When Your Partner Needs To Walk On Eggshells Around You, They Can't Also Be Romantic Or Sexual

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"You Shouldn't Talk About Body Count When Dating" NOPE DISAGREE!

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Working On Your Marriage Benefits Your Kids In Ways You've Never Considered

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How To Help Your Kids Turn Into Sex Positive Adults

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"Why Can't She Just Give Me A Blowjob When She Doesn't Want Sex?"

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"Menopause Is Nature's Bait And Switch" NOPE

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"Workhorse" Men: Why You Put Work, Service, And Family Above Your Own Happiness

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If You Would Skip Work/Anything Else For Sex... This Is Why She Doesn't Want Sex

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Your Wife Can't Be Open About Sex/Aging If You Won't Be

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Don't Friendzone Your Marriage!

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Be An "And" Person, Not An "Or" Person... Especially Not Where It's You Vs The Kids

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Emotional Labor vs Anxiety And The ADHD Husband/Anxious Wife....

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Stop Saying You Want Words Of Affirmation When You Actually Want Verbal Ability

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The Guinea Pig Principle... Or What Does My Guinea Pig Have To Do With Feminine Energy?

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Can Attachment Style Change In Different Relationships And At Different Stages?

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Monday Morning Quarterbacking Of Sex: Why The Recap Convo Is A Huge Turnoff To Women

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If You Suck, You Will Think The Opposite Gender Sucks, Here's Why

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Stop Trying To Make Monthly Awesome Sex Into The Norm

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Why Your Wife Is Turned Off By You Sitting Around

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When You Find Yourself Thinking You're Better Than Your Spouse And They Should Be Grateful

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When You Make More Money And Expect Your Wife To Change Her Whole Value System

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A Reason Your Spouse Refuses Individual Therapy That You Never Thought Of

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You Don't Love Your Husband If You Won't Touch Him

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Yes, Your SAHM Wife Should Get 50% Of The Joint Wealth After Divorce

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When You're "Scared Of Hard Work"

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"What If You Used Porn Before Your Relationship Started, Should You Stop?"

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Should You Wait For A Partner Who Is A Perfect Fit?

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Responsive Desire Only Kicks In If You Are Enthusiastic About Her

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"I Wouldn't Date My Spouse If I Met Them Now!"

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Are You Acting With Your Spouse As You Would With Your Next Spouse?

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Don't Believe Your Own Bullshit... And A Helpful Hack

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If She Just Lays There And You Forge Ahead... You're Risking Being Thought Of As Coercive Later On

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When You Are Scared Of Your Wife's Mood

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Yes, Therapy Can Help With Standing Up To Your Spouse

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Why Some Women Hate Kissing

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And The Stupidest Mistake Young Men Make When Dating

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The Stupidest Mistake Young Women Make When Dating

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Top 4 Female Fantasies

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"I Have A Perfect Life... Why Aren't I Happy?"

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Having An Orgasm Doesn't Mean It Was Good Sex

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Self Compassion And Why You Struggle With It

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"If She Needs Foreplay, She's Not Attracted To Me"

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Your Sibling Relationships Also Provide A Template For Your Marriage!

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Sex As Life Activity vs Sex As Porn Scene

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"Highly Sensitive" Doesn't Mean Difficult And Dramatic

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What Would Your Most Confident Friend Say To Your Partner In Your Place?

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In Your 40's, You're An Old Young Person, And In Your Fifties, You're A Young Old Person!

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Red Flags In A Second Marriage!

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"You Can Always Have More Kids But A Good Man Is Hard To Find" Hard No

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"Masking" Is Also Known As Being Flexible Within Loving Relationships

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Do You Ignore Your Wife's Drinking Because It's When You Get Laid?

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"I Have A Great Idea"... aka How To Communicate With Enthusiasm So That Your Wife Responds Well

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When Your Wife Stops Trying As She Ages

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Look At How Your Partner's Parents Treat Each Other To See How They Will Treat You

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When You're Trapped In The "Victim-Perpetrator" View Of Your Previous Relationship, You Can't Move On

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Each Partner Doing What They Are Best At Separately.... The Commonsensical Approach To Marriage That Has Fallen From Favor

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When You Don't Notice Your Partner Isn't A Good Fit Because Of Other Variables

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"Good Mom" And "Good Wife" Are Often Opposite

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How Porn Influences How You Treat Your Wife

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Should You Wait To Leave Your Marriage Until The Kids Are Out Of The House?

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Which Guys Hate The Idea Of Responsive Desire?

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Little Ways To Connect With Your Partner Every Day

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When You Are Wealthy, The Only Meaningful Currency Is Time

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Remember, Your Life Would Go On Even If A Bad Thing Happened

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The Real Compatibility: Having The Same Idea Of How Important The Relationship Is

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Emotional Labor Isn't The Problem

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"Nothing Is Only Good" AKA The Anxious Mantra

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If You Can't Do Scary Things For You... Do Them For Your Kids!

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Your Partner Shouldn't Be Your Only Friend

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"Am I Bad In Bed If My Wife Doesn't Want Sex Anymore?"

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Expectations... How They Mess Up Your Life

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Die With Zero... A Transformative Book For Many At Midlife!

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What Was Your Mom Like At Your Wife's Age?

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People ALWAYS Have Dating Options... Hitting The Wall Is A Myth

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The CCF Method For Reframing Your Marital Issues

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3 Reasons That Highly Sensitive Women Are More Likely To Divorce You

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Should Your Wife Have Veto Power Over Your Work Schedule?

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The "Divide And Conquer" Mindset Is Terrible If Your Wife's Love Language Is Quality Time!

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Relationship OCD

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Anxiety In Men

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When You Get Triggered By Others' Life Choices!

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Why Do Moms And Daughters/Sons And Dads Have More Fraught Relationships Than Moms/Sons And Dads/Daughters?

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Post Ovulation = Post Nut Clarity!

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EMPATHY Makes You Great In Bed (And The Story Of The Dick Pic)

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Stop Asking Your Wife So Many Questions Already

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Reasons Your Wife Doesn't Want Sex That DO Have To Do With You

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Do Something New Once A Week

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"You Don't Just Want Me To Agree, Do You?"

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The Delusion That You Can Change An Avoidant Man

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Sex Isn't A Reward And Which Men And Women Think It Is

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Change After The Honeymoon Stage Is Harder For Highly Sensitive People

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The Next Question From "Boyfriend Jealous Of Sex Toy" Listener... It's About Erikson's Stages But Is It Really?

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What Men Want From Their Wives

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What Women Want From Their Husbands

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When You're Scared Of Intimacy (Of ALL Kinds)

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WAIT FOR HER RESPONSE AT THE END.... "Boyfriend Got Mad That I Used A Sex Toy Without Him"!

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Remember ALL Women Can Compare You To Other Partners... You May Be Better Off If They Are Real Vs Imagined

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Do Women Like Bad Boys?

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What Kind Of Parenting Leads To Low Intimacy Or Sexless Marriages?

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Unique Challenges Of Being Married To Veterans/First Responders

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How To Connect With Your Spouse In Daily Life... What Is Appropriate In Front Of Kids?

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Having Bad Sex Too Often Is Not The Goal Either

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You May Need To Remember Being A Younger Age To Empathize With Your Spouse

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When Men And Women Don't Have The Same Ideas For Retirement

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A Happy Life Vs A Meaningful Life

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How Does Marriage Change At Midlife?

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Remember, If You Do Everything For Your Child, They Will Turn Into An Underfunctioning Adult

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There Is No Amount Of Time Spent With Your Avoidant Husband That Will Be Enough

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Make Your Own Money

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It's Usually Normal That Your Wife Is Stressed Out... And What To Do When It's Not

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What To Do When The Kids Walk All Over Your Wife

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The Same Hormones That Made Her Feel Crazy Are Leaving The Building

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Of Course Women Are Sad When Their Sex Drives Decrease

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5 Things To Say When Your Wife Is Mad

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What Motivates My Desire To Help Couples Understand Each Other

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COVID Codependence

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Working Together: Good Idea Or Terrible For Your Marriage?

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Some Guy Equates A Breach Of Contract Between Partners In A Therapy Practice To A Sexless Marriage And My Response

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Retroactive Jealousy: When You're Obsessed With Your Partner's Past

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The Pros And Cons Of Starting Your Relationship As Friends

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Financial Abuse And Control

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Nobody "Has The Power" In An Unhappy Marriage

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Responsive ROMANCE!

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If Your Wife Finds You Attractive It Doesn't Really Matter (In This Sense)

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Sex Positive/High Libido Women May Feel MORE Of A Drop Hormonally With Age

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Don't "Try To Be More Interesting" To Make People Interested In You

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Fighting About Loading The Dishwasher? Listen To This

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"I Just Want To Be Alone" Is Now Considered A Healthy Female Ideal

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Why Being A Good Stepdad Gets Men A Lot Of Love And How To Approximate This Effect If You're Not A Stepdad

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Nostalgia For Your "Prime" And How This Impacts Men And Women

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Why Men Nowadays Don't Know That Drive Drops For Men After The Honeymoon Stage And With Age

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Yes, Sex Is A Proxy For Connection. But, Connection Shouldn't Be Your Central Obsession Either!

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Why You Can't Find A Partner After Divorce

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"Gaming" or "Hacking" Your Wife Makes Her Respect You Much, Much Less

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Should Your Husband "Be Happy With What He Gets" In Bed?

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What To Say To Your Husband When You Don't Want Sex... Instead Of Mean Stuff

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Happy Valentine's Day... Here's How To Make It Good!

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When in Rome... Have Sex! (The Impact Of Confident Momentum)

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The Words To Look Out For To Avoid Women Who Will Stop Liking Sex

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What Does It Mean When Women On Dating Apps Don't Share Their Phone Numbers?

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Doing Chores Doesn't Turn Women On, But...

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Should You Wait To Have Sex With New Partner Because Of Oxytocin Being Released Or Whatever BS Theory You Read Online?

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Who Are The Men Who Get Treated Like Kings?

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When Your Mental Health Improves... And It Tanks Your Marriage

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Does Couples Therapy Really Improve Sex Lives?

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When Women Are Scared To Be Alone With Kids

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The Empathic Rupture Of Never Getting To Stay Home With Kids

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"Spirit Week" And Constant School Emails Are Unfair To Kids And Parents Alike

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"Why Can Hookers Do It Multiple Times A Day And Your Wife Can't?"

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If Your Husband Takes Over The Emotional And The Physical Labor... Why?

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Financial Values And How They Affect Your Relationship

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What Depression Looks Like In Men

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The More Successful A Guy Is, The More Coachable He Is

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Do Cute Parenting Stuff With Your Wife Before It's Too Late!

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Younger Working Husbands Are Condescended To The Way Stay At Home Moms Used To Be

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What's Your Flexibility Quotient?

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Nobody Wants To Be The Asshole.... AKA Why Couples Counseling Works

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You May Miss Your Wife Pursuing You To Spend More Time With Her... When She Stops

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Why Blowjobs Fall Off In Later Marriage

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Benefits Of Perimenopause and Menopause

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Wish Lists For Holiday Gifts: Good Idea Or Dumpster Fire?

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Having More Sex Can Get You Out Of Doing Shit

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The Real Reason Women Don't Respect Preoccupied Attachment Guys

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What Does Ovulation Feel Like For Women?

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Puberty And Menopause Are Two Normal Stages Of Life

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When You Can't Deal With Your Wife's Changed Feelings About Sex

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Why Most People Don't Regret Divorce

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Why Therapy Hasn't Worked For Your Sexless Marriage

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The "Sex Is Special" Philosophy Really Bites Married Couples In The Ass

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When You're Successful At Everything Except Relationships

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Stop Taking Things Personally

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Is Your Partner Asexual?

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Why Is Your Wife So Stressed By Teenage Kids?

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Why Some Guys Spend Way Less Time With Their Wives Than You Do....But Those Wives Aren't Mad Like Yours Is

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Why Your Wife Has No Fantasies... Or None She Will Tell You

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What Does Your Highly Sensitive Wife Really Want To Hear?

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When Your (Relatively Young) Wife Thinks That A Sexless Marriage Should Be Fine With You

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Your Sex Drive Isn't Dependent On Your Wife, So Why Would Hers Be Dependent On Anything You Are Or Do?

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When Your "Mr. Perfect" Husband Makes You (The "Crazy Wife") Feel Emotionally Unprotected

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What Women Feel About Their Kids Growing Up

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You Don't Need To Be Rich Or Super Hot Or Tall To Find Women... Obviously

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When You Can't Admit You're Anxious

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"Getting Emotionally Closer Will Lead To Sex" Only Works For Preoccupied Attachment Women

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"The More Partners A Woman Has, The Less Special She Thinks Sex Is!"

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How Divorce Changes Your Self-Concept!

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What Does "A Great Sex Life When Dating" Mean?

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When Your Partner's Energy Level Changes After Marriage

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When One Person Is Always Catching The Other In Little Lies

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When You're More Comfortable In The Role Of Being Your Parents' Child Than Being An Adult/Partner

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Which Men Have Trouble Empathizing With Women?

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Do You Really Love Your Husband?

327

Happy Wife, Happy Life?

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What Issues Arise In Older Woman-Younger Man Couples?

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When A Man Remarries A Much Younger Woman, What Issues Come Up?

330

When You Keep Thinking About An Ex

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Can You Really Inoculate Yourself Against Infidelity?

332

What Dopamine-Releasing Things Are You "Addicted" To In The Way Your Husband Is "Addicted" To Sex?

333

If You're A Preoccupied Attachment Guy, Here's What To Watch Out For On The Internet

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Understand Your Husband Better In 17 Minutes

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Should You Ever Marry Someone If Sex Isn't Good When Dating?

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Why Women Fake Orgasms

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Hysterical Bonding... Or When You Have A Bunch Of Sex Only After There Is A Threat To The Marriage

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Think Real Hard Before You Marry A Guy With ADHD

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Why Is Your Wife The Only Non-Romantic Woman On Earth?

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You Know As Little About What A Fun Date Night Looks Like For Your Wife As She Knows About What Fun Sex Looks Like For You

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Be Nicer And Your Wife, If She Is At All Healthy, Will Love You More

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If You Think Everyone Is An Idiot... It May Be Depression

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Why Do Dates Find You Boring?

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How Can You Learn About Healthy Relationships If You Grow Up With A Single Parent?

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When You Want To Stay Single After Divorce... Or When You're Ambivalent About Dating So Your Kids End Up Hating Your New Partner

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When Your Partner's Happiness Makes You Uncomfortable

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Men With Difficult Childhoods Become Either Assholes Or Scaredy-Cats And These Two Groups Don't Understand Each Other

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Why Isn't Your Wife Down For A Quickie Anymore?

349

Do You Deserve A Happy Marriage?

350

What Does The Post- Honeymoon Stage Look Like For Happy Couples?

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Why Do People Increasingly Hate Aging More And More? For My Sociology Fans

352

When Your Father Out-Alphas You

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Are You Too Judgmental To Find Love?

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The Hotter You Think Your Wife Is, The Hotter She Gets

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If Your Kids Are Running The Show, This Is Related To Marital Issues

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Are You Ruining All The Nice Things You Do For Your Wife By Being A Dick About Them?

357

Women Feel Younger When They Have Playful, Enthusiastic, Cuddly Kids, And Men Feel The Same About A Wife

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Does Depression Go Away When You Get Remarried To A More Supportive Spouse?

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Do You Think Your Husband Asking, "What Can I Do To Help?" Is A Burden?

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The Unique Relationship Issues Of Men In IT

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When Your Boyfriend Prioritizes Everything Else Over You But Tells You He Doesn't

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When Your Wife Is Only Fun When She Drinks

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What Women Think About Angry Men

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When Your Wife Keeps Shooting Down Your Dinner Ideas

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When You Feel Masculine Because Your Girlfriend Says You Want Sex Too Much Or She's Worn Out

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Don't Complain About Doing Stuff That You Would Hope To Keep Doing After Divorce!

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Don't Tell Your Husband You're A Good Wife To Him When You Mean You're A Good Mother To The Kids

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Should You Merge Finances, And How Do You Make Joint Decisions About Money?

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Remember Dating Is Supposed To Be Fun

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When Should You Get Divorced?

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Sex = Freeze Tag Analogy.... Why She's Not "Getting It Somewhere Else" If She Doesn't Want Sex With You

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Lawyers' Relationship Issues: You Know What I'm Going To Say

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CEO's/Entrepreneurs: What Unique Relationship Issues Do They Have?

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The Mommysphere Can Be As Bad For Marriage As The Manosphere

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Divorce Is Priceless, Or, Are You Letting Financial Fear Keep You In A Toxic Situation?

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What Kind Of Women Do Rigid/Difficult Men Get?

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Why Men Don't Usually Have An Acts Of Service Love Language

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When Your Judgmental Attitude Hurts Your Relationships

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Let Your Wife Make The Kid Decisions... Unless She Is Consumed By Anxiety

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9 Bucket List Sexual Experiences

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"Everything Is Fine In Our Marriage Except Sex"

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Are Other Married People Having Spontaneous Sex?

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Stop Only Doing Stuff You Hate With Your Kids

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People Regret Chances Not Taken And People Not Slept With

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Age Isn't Just A Number

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Highly Sensitive Women Do Not Dislike Sex!

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Benefits To Men Of Not Having An Orgasm In Every Encounter

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Do Women Want A Partner Or A Servant?

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When Your Boyfriend/Husband Won't Do Foreplay.... AND How To Tell If Your Partner Is An Asshole

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Are There Really Men Who Do "Everything"?

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Why Do You Lose Friends After Divorce?

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When Your Partner Is Depressed, What Is "Helping" And What Is "Enabling"?

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When You And Your Partner Think Differently About Working From Home Together

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Don't Marry A Man That Can't Do Housework

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When Your Wife Doesn't Want To Take Hormones To Increase Post-Menopausal Drive

396

When Your Boyfriend Won't Go Down On You

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You Can't Make Your Wife Desire You, But You Can Ask For Her To Try

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What Does A Healthy Sex Life Look Like?

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Women Can't Be Sexually Open With A Negative, Closed, Critical Guy

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There Is No Way To Love Or Respect Your Husband While Dismissing His Desire For Sex

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If You Ignore Your Husband For Decades Years While The Kids Are Young, He Will Not Be There To Reconnect With Later; Also, You May Not Care

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Feeling Your Spouse Rescued You Is Behind Most Romantic Feelings

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Why Your Wife Wants You To Post Pics Of You Two On Social Media

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Wait Why Would You Get Laid If You're Not Loving?

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Your Husband Wants You To Take Charge In Bed And Here's Why

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Why Your Wife Doesn't Want Sex Two Days In A Row

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Bare Marriage Episode Review: I Disagree, Sex Actually Should Be A Sexual Yes Space For Men... And Women

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Nobody Has To Ask About Your Day

409

"Trust Your Gut".... Is This Good Advice Or Not?

410

Does Attachment Style Change In Different Relationships?

411

Your Refractory Period Can Help You Be Empathic To Your Wife

412

Tell Your Husband You Can't Do Stuff!

413

The Elephant In The Room Of Your Relationship: Often, It's That You're Settling For A Lack Of Real Connection

414

When Guys Don't Call Back After Sex

415

Your Wife Has No Idea What Turns You On

416

When You Have No Family To Rely On

417

Not All "Avoidant Attachment" Is Avoidant Attachment

418

Figure Out Your Actual Worth In The Dating Marketplace... And Why You May Not Be Doing Well

419

Your Partner Has No Idea What They Want In Bed

420

New Self-Indulgence Low: Apparently, Wanting Your Partner To Dress A Certain Way Is "Abusive"!

421

Isn't It Shallow To Divorce Over Lack Of Sex?

422

It Can't All Ride On The Penis (Pun Intended)

423

When Men Get Anxious About When The Next Sexual Encounter Will Be

424

Choreplay DOES WORK... But Here's The Caveat

425

When Your Boyfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married

426

Encouraging Your Husband To Masturbate Is Like Encouraging Your Wife To Get Love Letters From A Romance Robot

427

Midlife Crises In Women

428

When Does Frequency Of Sex Change From A Quantitative Problem To A Qualitative One?

429

Hold On, How Is The Sex Denying Partner The Victim?

430

Adults Used To Have Sex

431

Should You Manipulate Your Husband With Sex?

432

Does Drinking "Not Really" Impact You?

433

Late Bloomers

434

Many Avoidant Partners Would Be Relieved If You Initiated Divorce

435

Is Sex A Need Or A Want?

436

What Does "Sexual Compatibility" Really Mean?

437

Should Couples Have Each Other's Email And Phone Passwords?

438

Is Your Main Problem That You're "Too Nice"?

439

Sex As Act Of Service

440

Midlife Crises: Can They And Should They Be Prevented?

441

"Feminine Energy" Vs Reality

442

What's The Only Way To Ensure Everyone Likes You?

443

Some People Value "Stuff" And Some Don't And One Way Isn't Better

444

Physical Touch Love Language Is NOT The Same Thing As "Sex Drive"!

445

The Sliding Window Algorithm And Empathic Ruptures!

446

OMG This Masturbation Article Is Enraging

447

Marry A Woman Who Adores You!

448

Can You Have Friends Of The Opposite Sex When Married?

449

Massage: Women = Sex: Men

450

Your Kid Doesn't Feel Unsafe When You're Not In The Room (Unless You've Created An Environment Of Fear)

451

Does Your Wife's Chronic Pain Or Depression Uniquely Impact One Area Of The Marriage Called "Having Any Sex Ever"?

452

Could You Get Your Wife To Have Sex With You If You Got A Million Bucks To Make It Happen (And If You Weren't Allowed To Tell Her About The Million Bucks)

453

How To Ensure That Your Son Has A Shitty Sex Life One Day

454

Erections Wax And Wane, People

455

Popular Media Aimed Toward Teens Doesn't Show Married Sex Anymore... Why This Matters

456

The Word To Look Out For If You Want To Avoid Anxious Or Closedminded Women

457

Don't Overinvest In (Or Guilt-Trip) Your Adult Kids

458

Should You Stay Together For Adult Children?

459

The Reality Of Female Sexual Initiation

460

Do You Love Your Wife Or Do You Love How She Reflects On You?

461

More Ways To Convince Your Partner To Try Couples Counseling

462

Realizing Your Wife Doesn't Value Sex = Empathic Rupture

463

Intimacy Porn On Social Media: Male Vs Female

464

When One Partner Wants To Move Up In Socioeconomic Class And The Other Doesn't

465

Female Breadwinners: Are They Still Attracted To Their Husbands?

466

You Are BOTH Slaves To Your Hormones!

467

Watching Porn When Your Wife Has A Low Sex Drive Is The Opposite Of Helpful

468

The Gentleman Eunuch: Why You Attract Women Who Don't Like Sex

469

Don't Expect Her To Pick You Over The Kids

470

Is Your Wife Depressed Or Just Lazy?

471

When You Obsess About An Ex

472

What Aging Feels Like For Women

473

Yes You Can Improve Your Partner's Life, Although You Can't Entirely Change Their Personality

474

Hygiene: What Women Find Gross About You

475

Why Your Husband Can't Admit He Was Sleeping

476

Erotic Blueprints: Kinky, Energetic, Sexual, Sensual And Shapeshifter

477

You Can Always Do Better Than Someone Who Treats You Badly

478

Yes Men Like Nonsexual Physical Touch!

479

Don't Lie About Your "Body Count" Or Anything Else

480

You Can't Get A Woman Obsessed With You That Also Lets You Leave All The Time

481

"Men Want A Cookie For Doing The Dishes"

482

Does Your Husband "Not Respond" To More Physical Affection Because It's Still Nowhere Near Enough?

483

Yes, Narcissists Can Change In Therapy

484

Are You Teaching Your Kids To Fear The World?

485

Sex Is Not About Sex

486

Physical "Types": What Are They And Why Are They Important

487

Why Your Wife Promises Sex That Doesn't Happen

488

When You Broke Up With Partners Who Liked You Too Much And Chose To Marry The One Who Didn't

489

What Do I Think About "Inspiring Dread" Or "Being A Man Of Mystery"?

490

Politically Liberal Doesn't Mean Sexually Liberal, Or Just Because She's Against Slut Shaming Doesn't Mean She Wants To Be Your Slut

491

What Do Married Men And Single Women Have In Common? The Inability To Understand That Female Libido Decreases After Marriage And Kids

492

Signs Your Girlfriend Will Continue Liking Sex After Marriage

493

Why Won't Your Wife Send You Sexy Pictures?

494

Infidelity: Doesn't Happen As Often Or For The Reasons You Think

495

If You Wish Your Partner Was More Romantic, Listen To This

496

If You Don't Want To Do What Your Husband Wants In Bed Here's A Secret Hack To Make Him Happy Anyway

497

Can You Change Your Attachment Style?

498

Yes There Should Be A Sexual Marital Contract

499

Home Renovations: Creative Outlet Or Waste Of Money?

500

Femininity And Masculinity: Do These Concepts Help Or Hinder Marital Communication?

501

The Martyr And The Ice Queen: Couples You Meet In Counseling #2

502

"Shit Tests" And Other Myths

503

Avoidant Husbands

504

Does Your Partner Know How Much Stuff You Do For Them??

505

Premature Ejaculation And Erectile Dysfunction

506

"Concern Trolling" or "I'm So Concerned About Why You're Not Like What I Would Prefer You To Be Like"

507

When Your Wife "Can't Go Back To Work Because Of The (School Aged) Kids' Schedules"

508

The Difference Between Boundaries And Ultimatums

509

Do High Libido Monogamous Women Have Spontaneous Desire?

510

Why Wanting A Woman With Limited Prior Sexual Experience Can Really Bite You In The Ass

511

You Can Likely Get Laid Once More Per Week If You Try Hard Enough But It Ain't Gonna Change Much

512

When You Don't Think You Deserve Good Sex

513

Foolish Ways To Waste Your Time And Money In Therapy

514

Your Wife Doesn't Care If Your Sex Life Isn't Mindblowing

515

Fearful-Avoidant Attachment, The One You Get When Your Childhood Was Traumatic

516

How To Use Direct, Open, Kind Words To Get Laid... OR JUST TO BE A GUY YOU'RE PROUD OF BEING

517

Scarcity Mindset

518

Who Ends Up In "Toxic Workplaces"?

519

Weaponized Confusion

520

What Predicts Success In Couples Counseling?

521

The Preoccupied Attachment Husband

522

Should You Tell Your Kids You Drank/Used Drugs/Had Premarital Sex?

523

Every Time You Promise Sex You Don't Give, An Angel Dies In Heaven

524

When Men Are Told What They Do For Their Wives Is Really For Them

525

Don't Compare Your Post-Divorce Life/Parenting/Etc To A Happy Marriage

526

Why Does It Bother Men So Much When Their Wives Are Anxious?

527

Porn Use And Marriage

528

The HUSBAND Who Wants More (Sexually) And His Annoyingly Satisfied WIFE

529

"The Lost Daughter": A Movie That Many Moms Will Identify With

530

When Your Husband Doesn't Want Sex Because You May Be Hot But You're Also Quite Difficult

531

When Therapy Just Feels Like Chatting With A Friend

532

When You Can't Recognize Your Anxiety

533

When You're Not Attracted To Your Husband

534

Do You Cuddle Enough?

535

How To Avoid Overparenting "Underachieving" Teens

536

Birdnesting After Divorce

537

"Sittervising" And How Moms Are Made Super Anxious By Media

538

When You Can't Be Open With Your Partner

539

Why Women Don't Like The "Porn Montage" Position Switch Type Of Sex

540

What Level Of Marital "Communication" Is Way Too Fucking Much?

541

Overview Of Female Biology Across The Lifespan

542

Go To Sleep When Your Wife Goes To Sleep

543

Get Up When Your Wife Gets Up

544

When Is It Best To Have Kids Switch Schools (And How To Empathize With Your Kids)

545

Your Partner Will Change Over Time, Sexually and Overall

546

Do Some Random Ass Project With Your Wife

547

How To Immediately Stop Being Judgmental

548

How To Let Go Of Control

549

When Your Kids' Positive Emotions Trigger You

550

When You Don't Notice Your Wife's Haircut/Change Of Appearance/Whatever Else

551

If You Consider Your Mother/Father Better Than Your Partner, Your Marriage Will Suffer

552

Women Are Generally Shy In Bed (But Porn Makes You Think That's Unusual/Bad)

553

Fair Play: When You Don't Want To Admit You're An Overfunctioner

554

Control Issues In Men

555

Compliment Rationing And Its Consequences

556

Tell Your Wife Why Men Find Women Hot

557

How To Get Genuine Sexual Performance Feedback From Your Wife

558

Try A Therapist Who Isn't Your Same Gender To Really Heal Your Trust Issues

559

How To Go On A Family Trip Without Killing Each Other

560

How To Be Fair When You Prefer One Kid's Interests/Activities To The Other(s)

561

When Your Husband Says "Nothing Is Ever Good Enough For You"

562

Your Partner's Personality: There's No Free Lunch

563

How To Go On A First Date With Someone From A Dating App

564

How To Stop Giving A Shit What People Think

565

Of Course You Can And Should Marry The Best Sex You Ever Had

566

Don't Rewrite History!

567

Sex In The Dark: Why Turning The Light On May Dim Your Sexual Potential

568

What About If Your Partner Wants To Do Some Crazy Shit In Bed?

569

Body Image And Sex

570

Menopause And When It Leads To The End Of Sex

571

When Your Partner Refuses To Do Sexual Things That She Used To Do (With You Or With Prior Partners)

572

When A Parent Doesn't Like You

573

Do You Pass Down Your Attachment Style?

574

Couples You Meet In Counseling #7: The CEO And The Resentful Employee

575

Yes Women Fantasize That Men Will Change After Marriage, But Men Fantasize This Too!

576

When Your Kids Ignore Your Birthday or Mother's/Father's Day

577

When Your Partner Plays Favorites, Overtly Picking Their Bio Kids Over Yours

578

Fake It Till You Make It With Parenting Too

579

Marry An Intellectual Equal

580

The Narcissist-Borderline Dynamic (Extreme Preoccupied-Avoidant)

581

When Acting More Confident And Working Out Actually Gets You Laid LESS

582

How To Not Fuck Up Father's Day

583

How To Understand Why Your Wife Won't Exercise

584

When You Feel Too Smart For Therapy

585

Can't Buy Me Love: Why Do Your Relationship Problems Feel Worse The More Money You Make?

586

OCPD: Are You Rigid As Fuck?

587

How To Stop Fighting With Your Wife

588

The Cult of Preferences/Boundaries And How They Sabotage Intimacy And Connection

589

When Others Think You're Not Empathic

590

Why Your Wife Hates Your Politics And What To Do About It

591

Do You Know What Foreplay Is?

592

Devil's Advocate: Use In Case You Are Getting Laid Too Much

593

When Your Kid Believes In Something You Disagree With

594

Sexual Codependence Is Great

595

How To Incorporate Your New Partner Into Your Family Unit

596

Should You Protect Your Partner From Themselves?

597

Should You Ever Stay In A Sexually Unfulfilling Relationship If No Kids Are Involved?

598

How To Convince Your Partner To Try Couples Counseling

599

When Your Parent Cheats On Your Other Parent

600

The One Who Got Away

601

Should You Ever Take A Break From Sexual Intimacy?

602

What To Do When Your Partner Can't Get It Up

603

Look At Your Partner's Parenting To See If You Will Ever Be Happy Together

604

Do Women Like Emotional Men?

605

The Self Made Man

606

When Women Are Scared Or Disgusted By Male Sexual Desire

607

Tween/Teen Attitude And How To Deal

608

Avoidant Wives: How To Tell If You Have One

609

Dad Starting Over: My First Podcast Guest!!

610

Why Isn't Your Wife Happy To See You At The End Of The Day/After You Return From A Work Trip?

611

Are You Mad At Your Partner For Being What You Chose When You Had Lower Self-Esteem?

612

You Find Or Create A Partner That Confirms What You Think About The World

613

Problems That Couples Have When Their Original Relationship Was Long Distance

614

When Your Wife Thinks You're Defensive, Difficult, Or Argumentative

615

How Not To F Up Mother's Day

616

When You And Your Co-Parent Have Very Different Values And Home Environments

617

Are Soulmates Real?

618

Men Need To Love Their Wives As Much As Women Love Their Kids

619

The Moment You Realized You Loved Your Partner, And How This Informs Your Current Relationship

620

What Do You And Your Partner NEED Each Other For?

621

The Importance Of Shared Sense Of Humor In A Relationship

622

When Your Job Leads To Emotional Disconnect And Burnout

623

What About When Women "Just Stop Trying" To Be Attractive?

624

Picky Eating In Kids: A Controversial Approach

625

Does "Fake It Till You Make It" Work To Improve Behavior?

626

"Inlaws From Hell": Why They Aren't The Problem

627

The Gray Rock Method For Dealing With Difficult People... With A Cameo By My 12 Year Old

628

When You Can't Get Over Resentment (Sometimes Even After The Person Who Hurt You Apologized)

629

What Level Of Marital Conflict Is Healthy For Kids To Witness?

630

Midlife Career Change And The Meaning Of Life

631

Being Yourself Around Your Kids: A Novel Idea In Today's Child-Centered Society

632

Does Your Wife Feel You Would Do Anything For Her?

633

"You Only Want Sex" Is An Inane Remark Within Marriage

634

When You're Considering Estrangement/No Contact (or Low Contact) From A Family Member

635

Female Dating Cynics: Men Don't Only Want Young Supermodels

636

If You Want A Man To Take Care Of You Don't Offer To Split The Check On The First Date

637

All About Blowjobs And Why You Didn't Know This Stuff Before

638

When To Ignore Kids' Bad Behavior Vs Give Consequences... And When You And Your Partner Don't Agree On Parenting

639

What Is Your Couple And/Or Family Identity?

640

When Your Partner Has Never Been Attracted To You

641

How To Respond When You're Offered Unenthusiastic Sex

642

Ten Things To Look For In A Husband

643

Why Do People With "Great Lives" Still Suffer From Depression?

644

Remember There Are Also Men Who Do Nothing And Barely Work And Still Get Women

645

Why To Work Out With Your Partner

646

Yes, Women Like Nice Guys!

647

Two Magic Words To Make Your Conversations Go Better

648

Plastic Surgery And Self-Love/Acceptance

649

Masturbation: The Junk Food Of Married Sex

650

How Do You Keep Momentum Going When Your Marriage Is Improving?

651

Picky Eating And How It Hurts Your Relationship!

652

Why To Not Have A Long List Of Requirements In A Partner

653

When Your Kid Is Super Annoying

654

What If Physical Intimacy Was The Daily Default In Your Marriage?

655

Your Husband Doesn't Have To Treat The Kids The Same Way You Do

656

Do You Deserve The Marriage You Say You Deserve (Or Are You Just Fooling Yourself)?

657

How To Raise Emotionally Intelligent Kids!

658

Training Your Partner To Meet Your Needs Is Healthy!

659

What Happens To Women's Bodies And Brains In Their 40's?

660

8 Ways To Stop Overparenting Your Kids!

661

Help-Rejecting Complainers!

662

Why To Talk About Exes!

663

As A Divorced Parent, Can You Bring People You're Dating Around Your Kids?

664

Women Think Way More About The Kids Than Their Husbands Understand!

665

Codependency: What Does It Mean And How To Work On Interdependence Instead

666

How To Teach Your Son About Marriage And The Myth Of The Golden Vagina

667

The 100% Marriage (and Why 50-50 Is Some BS)

668

Other Reasons Your Libido May Be Low

669

What Would Your Partner Act Like If They Got All The Physical Affection They Wanted?

670

Alpha Male or Asshole?

671

Should You Say You Like Sex In Your Dating Profile?

672

Four Ways To Get Yourself In The Mood Even If You're Not Feeling Sexy (For Women)

673

When Your Husband Has ADHD

674

"My Wife Is Threatened By My Research About How I Can Improve As A Lover"

675

"I Can't Tell My Wife She's Beautiful Because She's Too Fat"

676

Clearing Up The Misconception That Women "Withhold" Sex

677

Is Physical Touch The Most Important Love Language?

678

Why Women Initiate Divorce

679

Why Doesn't It Work When You Try To Turn On Your Wife?

680

Why Men Ask For Divorces

681

Why Women Can Be Scared Of Making More Money

682

What If Your Kids Don't Like Seeing You Be Physically Affectionate With Your Partner Post-Divorce?

683

Is It Wrong To Fantasize About Someone Else During Sex?

684

Why You Attract "Weird" People (AKA People Without Boundaries)

685

When Your Parent Won't Listen To Anything About Your Difficult Childhood

686

When You Don't Like Your Kid

687

Recovering From Infidelity

688

How To Talk Openly To Your Partner About Your Sexual Fantasies And Desires!

689

When You're Never Attracted To Who's Attracted To You

690

How Do You Teach Your Daughters About Sex Without Focusing On The Fear Factor?

691

Listener Question About Protect Your Wife Podcast (Listener Is Random Definitely Not My Husband)

692

How To Protect Your Wife Without Being "Sexist"

693

How To Get Couple Time When You Have Small Kids

694

When Scorekeeping Is Positive For The Marriage

695

When Your Depression Won't Go Away

696

Men Need To Think Their Wives Are Really Hot For Things To Work (And The Corollary For Women)

697

How To Deal With Disrespectful Kids

698

Own It If You're The More Difficult Or Picky Partner!

699

What Do Women Mean By "Be More Romantic"?

700

Listener Question! "My Boyfriend Doesn't Want To Help Out"

701

When Men Don't Take Care Of You

702

10 Ways To Tell If Your Partner Will Stop Enjoying Sex After Marriage And Kids

703

When Women Out-Earn Their Husbands

704

6 Things Men Want In Bed

705

When Your Anxiety Hurts Your Kids

706

Key Areas Of Compatibility In First And Second Marriages

707

Responsive Desire In Women: If You're Never In The Mood, That's Normal

708

Don't Let Your Child Treat You Like Garbage!

709

In Your Marriage, Do What You're Good At And/Or What Your Partner Truly Values

710

Things That Adult Children Of Dysfunctional Families Don't Understand

711

Overfunctioning and Underfunctioning

712

When Women Have a Higher Sex Drive Than Their Husbands

713

Top 10 Ways To Make Your Highly Sensitive Wife Want Sex A Lot More!

714

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