The Highly Sensitive Return podcast artwork

PODCAST · health

The Highly Sensitive Return

A sensitivity-informed podcast for highly sensitive people learning to stop overriding themselves and return to the body. Through grounded teaching, somatic awareness, nervous system education, visualisation and intuitive guidance, each episode helps you understand your sensitivity, soften old adaptations, and come back to your authentic self.Season 1: One-Off Lessons and Guided MeditationsSeason 2: Beyond the Story SeriesSeason 3: Stabilise with Somatics Series

Publisher-supplied feed metadata · PodParley refreshed Sep 29, 2026 · Source feed

  1. 57

    S1 Ep 16 | SOS | Guided Meditation

    This episode is for the moments when everything feels too much. When you’re crying, panicking, overwhelmed or completely flooded and you can’t even work out what you’re feeling, never mind what to do with it. You don’t need to understand the emotion right now. You don’t need to analyse it, name it or figure anything out. I’ll gently guide you away from the noise in your mind and back into your body using breath, touch, movement and grounding.In This PracticeSlow your breathing when everything feels intenseRelease some of the tension your body is holdingUse touch, movement and tapping to help you reconnect with your bodyMove your attention away from racing or overwhelming thoughtsGround yourself back into the present momentGive the emotion space without needing to understand or fix itThis isn’t about making the feeling disappear. It’s about helping you get through the intensity of the moment, one breath at a time, until you can begin to feel a little more settled and come back to yourself.AfterwardsOnce things feel a little less intense, try to keep supporting your body. Have some water, move gently, step outside if you can and, only when you feel ready, you might begin to reflect on what was happening for you.ReflectionWhat do I notice in my body now?Do I feel any different from when I first pressed play?What do I need in this moment, without needing to understand why?More Helpful Tools for Sensitive Souls🌀 Meet Your Sensitive System: Take the official HSP-R Assessment🌀 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.🌀 Discover the My Linktree

  2. 56

    S3 Ep 16 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Closing Words | Lesson

    You’ve reached the end of Stabilise with Somatics — but this isn’t the end of the work. In this closing episode, I’ll reflect on what you’ve learned and how you can continue returning to these practices as your life, body and nervous system evolve. Healing isn’t a destination; it’s an ongoing process of integration, growth and becoming more fully yourself.Reflection PromptsWhat have I learned about myself, my body and my nervous system through this journey?What is one practice, insight or awareness I want to carry forward with me?When I look back at where I started, what feels different about the way I relate to myself now?Stabilise with Somatics ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 41 | Stabilise with Somatic | Series ExplanationEp 42 | Stabilise with Somatic | Why the Nervous System Responds This Way | LessonEp 43 | Stabilise with Somatic | The Goal of Coherence | LessonPart 2 — Somatic AwarenessEp 44 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Activation | LessonEp 45 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Shut Down | LessonEp 46 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Coherence | LessonEp 47 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Your Nervous System | LessonPart 3 — The Hierarchy of Self-CareEp 48 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Why Self-Care Often Fails | Lesson Ep49 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Foundation | LessonEp 50 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care| Regulation | LessonEp 51 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Meaning | LessonEp 52 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Intuition | LessonEp 53 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Integration | LessonPart 3 — Somatic AttunementEp 54 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | The Witness | Guided MeditationEp 55 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Awakening Intuition | LessonEp 56 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Closing Words | LessonMore Helpful Tools for Sensitive Souls🌀 Meet Your Sensitive System: Take the official HSP-R Assessment🌀 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.🌀 Discover the My Linktree

  3. 55

    S3 Ep 15 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Awakening Intuition | Lesson

    What if the answers you’re looking for are already within you? In this episode, we’ll explore how nervous system regulation and somatic awareness create space for intuition to emerge. This is about learning to listen, trust your body and recognise what feels true for you.Key TakeawaysCreate space to listen: Intuition becomes clearer when the noise of the mind settles.Regulation comes first: A supported nervous system creates space for deeper awareness.Learn to recognise your intuition: It often feels quieter, steadier and more grounded than fear or conditioning.Come back to yourself: Ask what you need, what feels right and what is true for you.ReflectionWhat does intuition feel like in my body?How do I know the difference between intuition, fear and conditioning?What question could I ask myself and create space to listen to the answer?Stabilise with Somatics ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 41 | Stabilise with Somatic | Series ExplanationEp 42 | Stabilise with Somatic | Why the Nervous System Responds This Way | LessonEp 43 | Stabilise with Somatic | The Goal of Coherence | LessonPart 2 — Somatic AwarenessEp 44 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Activation | LessonEp 45 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Shut Down | LessonEp 46 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Coherence | LessonEp 47 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Your Nervous System | LessonPart 3 — The Hierarchy of Self-CareEp 48 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Why Self-Care Often Fails | Lesson Ep49 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Foundation | LessonEp 50 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care| Regulation | LessonEp 51 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Meaning | LessonEp 52 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Intuition | LessonEp 53 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Integration | LessonPart 3 — Somatic AttunementEp 54 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | The Witness | Guided MeditationEp 55 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Awakening Intuition | LessonEp 56 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Closing Words | LessonMore Helpful Tools for Sensitive Souls🌀 Meet Your Sensitive System: Take the official HSP-R Assessment🌀 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.🌀 Discover the My Linktree

  4. 54

    S3 Ep 14 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | The Witness State | Guided Meditation

    Need to reconnect with your nervous system? This is a practice you can return to whenever you need to slow down, check in and reconnect with your body. I’ll guide you into the Witness State, helping you notice your breath, sensations and nervous system state without judgement or trying to change anything. With practice, this becomes a simple way to listen to your body and understand what it needs.Reflection Prompts What did I notice in my body today? Where did I feel most connected, and where felt distant or quiet?What nervous system state do I feel closest to right now — activation, shutdown or coherence?What might my body need from me at this moment?Stabilise with Somatics ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 41 | Stabilise with Somatic | Series ExplanationEp 42 | Stabilise with Somatic | Why the Nervous System Responds This Way | LessonEp 43 | Stabilise with Somatic | The Goal of Coherence | LessonPart 2 — Somatic AwarenessEp 44 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Activation | LessonEp 45 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Shut Down | LessonEp 46 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Coherence | LessonEp 47 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Your Nervous System | LessonPart 3 — The Hierarchy of Self-CareEp 48 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Why Self-Care Often Fails | Lesson Ep49 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Foundation | LessonEp 50 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care| Regulation | LessonEp 51 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Meaning | LessonEp 52 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Intuition | LessonEp 53 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Integration | LessonPart 3 — Somatic AttunementEp 54 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | The Witness | Guided MeditationEp 55 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Awakening Intuition | LessonEp 56 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Closing Words | LessonMore Helpful Tools for Sensitive Souls🌀 Meet Your Sensitive System: Take the official HSP-R Assessment🌀 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.🌀 Discover the My Linktree

  5. 53

    S3 Ep 13 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Integration | Lesson

    In this episode, we’ll bring the layers of Stabilise with Somatics together, exploring how awareness, self-care and nervous system regulation become an ongoing relationship with yourself. We’ll look at finding balance, noticing patterns and creating more choice in how you respond.Key TakeawaysIntegration is lived, not perfected: Stay curious and in relationship with yourself.Balance matters: Notice where you may be over-relying on one layer while neglecting another.Awareness creates choice: Notice the sensations and thoughts behind your patterns before reacting.Keep adapting: What your body needs will change, and your self-care can change with it.Reflection Prompts Where am I spending most of my time, and what might be missing?What triggers my nervous system, and what patterns tend to follow?What could responding rather than reacting look like for me?Stabilise with Somatics ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 41 | Stabilise with Somatic | Series ExplanationEp 42 | Stabilise with Somatic | Why the Nervous System Responds This Way | LessonEp 43 | Stabilise with Somatic | The Goal of Coherence | LessonPart 2 — Somatic AwarenessEp 44 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Activation | LessonEp 45 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Shut Down | LessonEp 46 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Coherence | LessonEp 47 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Your Nervous System | LessonPart 3 — The Hierarchy of Self-CareEp 48 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Why Self-Care Often Fails | Lesson Ep49 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Foundation | LessonEp 50 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care| Regulation | LessonEp 51 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Meaning | LessonEp 52 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Intuition | LessonEp 53 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Integration | LessonPart 3 — Somatic AttunementEp 54 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | The Witness | Guided MeditationEp 55 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Awakening Intuition | LessonEp 56 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Closing Words | LessonMore Helpful Tools for Sensitive Souls🌀 Meet Your Sensitive System: Take the official HSP-R Assessment🌀 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.🌀 Discover the My Linktree

  6. 52

    S3 Ep 12 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Intuition | Lesson

    What happens when self-care becomes less about doing and more about listening? In this episode, we’ll explore intuition, presence and the subtler layers of self-care, and why nervous system safety creates the foundation for deeper awareness.Key TakeawaysIntuition is optional: Explore what feels right for you.Listen, don’t control: Notice and allow your inner experience.Safety comes first: Regulation creates space for deeper awareness.Clarity can emerge: A safer nervous system can make intuition easier to recognise.Explore ThroughMeditation • Emotional expression • Ritual • Energy • Creativity • Inner knowingReflectionWhat comes alive when I feel safe and settled?What happens when I allow rather than force?When do I feel most connected to myself?Stabilise with Somatics ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 41 | Stabilise with Somatic | Series ExplanationEp 42 | Stabilise with Somatic | Why the Nervous System Responds This Way | LessonEp 43 | Stabilise with Somatic | The Goal of Coherence | LessonPart 2 — Somatic AwarenessEp 44 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Activation | LessonEp 45 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Shut Down | LessonEp 46 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Coherence | LessonEp 47 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Your Nervous System | LessonPart 3 — The Hierarchy of Self-CareEp 48 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Why Self-Care Often Fails | Lesson Ep49 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Foundation | LessonEp 50 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care| Regulation | LessonEp 51 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Meaning | LessonEp 52 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Intuition | LessonEp 53 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Integration | LessonPart 3 — Somatic AttunementEp 54 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | The Witness | Guided MeditationEp 55 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Awakening Intuition | LessonEp 56 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Closing Words | LessonMore Helpful Tools for Sensitive Souls🌀 Meet Your Sensitive System: Take the official HSP-R Assessment🌀 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.🌀 Discover the My Linktree

  7. 51

    S3 Ep 11 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Meaning | Lesson

    What happens when the mind becomes a tool for understanding rather than overthinking? In this episode, we’ll explore meaning-making and how reflection, learning and conversation can help us integrate our experiences. We’ll also look at why the mind works best when the body feels supported.Key TakeawaysMeaning creates understanding: Reflection helps turn experiences into self-awareness.Safety comes first: A supported nervous system creates space for clearer reflection.Mind and body work together: Integration happens when we both feel and understand our experiences.Explore ThroughWriting: Journaling and reflective promptsTalking: Therapy, coaching and safe conversationsVoice: Voice notes and speaking aloudLearning: Books, podcasts and frameworksReflection: Self-inquiry and contemplationConnection: Groups, community and sharingSpirituality: Purpose, growth and perspectiveReflectionDoes my thinking support me or keep me stuck?How does dysregulation affect my thinking?What insights arise when I feel settled?Stabilise with Somatics ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 41 | Stabilise with Somatic | Series ExplanationEp 42 | Stabilise with Somatic | Why the Nervous System Responds This Way | LessonEp 43 | Stabilise with Somatic | The Goal of Coherence | LessonPart 2 — Somatic AwarenessEp 44 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Activation | LessonEp 45 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Shut Down | LessonEp 46 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Coherence | LessonEp 47 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Your Nervous System | LessonPart 3 — The Hierarchy of Self-CareEp 48 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Why Self-Care Often Fails | Lesson Ep49 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Foundation | LessonEp 50 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care| Regulation | LessonEp 51 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Meaning | LessonEp 52 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Intuition | LessonEp 53 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Integration | LessonPart 3 — Somatic AttunementEp 54 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | The Witness | Guided MeditationEp 55 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Awakening Intuition | LessonEp 56 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Closing Words | LessonMore Helpful Tools for Sensitive Souls🌀 Meet Your Sensitive System: Take the official HSP-R Assessment🌀 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.🌀 Discover the My Linktree

  8. 50

    S3 Ep 10 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Regulation | Lesson

    What if self-care could become a conversation with your body rather than another routine to follow? In this episode, we’ll explore body-based regulation and how breath, sound, movement, temperature and touch can help your nervous system feel safer and more supported. You’ll learn why the right tool depends on what your body needs in each moment.Key TakeawaysRegulation is about attunement: Different nervous system states need different support.Build a flexible toolkit: Create practices you can draw from rather than following a rigid routine.Your body is the guide: Learn what supports you rather than choosing what feels productive.Body-Based RegulationBreath: Slow breathing, extended exhales, breathworkSound: Humming, sighing, chanting, singingMovement: Walking, yoga, stretching, shaking, dancingTemperature: Warm baths, showers, warm drinks, cold exposureTouch: Hugs, massage, self-touch, tappingReflectionWhich forms of regulation feel most supportive to my body?How does my body respond when I imagine each tool?What might I choose if I focused on what my body needs?Stabilise with Somatics ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 41 | Stabilise with Somatic | Series ExplanationEp 42 | Stabilise with Somatic | Why the Nervous System Responds This Way | LessonEp 43 | Stabilise with Somatic | The Goal of Coherence | LessonPart 2 — Somatic AwarenessEp 44 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Activation | LessonEp 45 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Shut Down | LessonEp 46 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Coherence | LessonEp 47 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Your Nervous System | LessonPart 3 — The Hierarchy of Self-CareEp 48 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Why Self-Care Often Fails | Lesson Ep49 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Foundation | LessonEp 50 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care| Regulation | LessonEp 51 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Meaning | LessonEp 52 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Intuition | LessonEp 53 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Integration | LessonPart 3 — Somatic AttunementEp 54 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | The Witness | Guided MeditationEp 55 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Awakening Intuition | LessonEp 56 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Closing Words | LessonMore Helpful Tools for Sensitive Souls🌀 Meet Your Sensitive System: Take the official HSP-R Assessment🌀 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.🌀 Discover the My Linktree

  9. 49

    S3 Ep 9 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Foundation | Lesson

    What if the most powerful forms of self-care are also the simplest? In this episode, we’ll explore the foundations of self-care and how meeting your body’s basic needs can create greater biological safety. We’ll look at why consistency matters more than intensity, and how these simple foundations can support nervous system regulation and deeper healing.Key TakeawaysBiological safety is essential: Food, water and sleep help create safety in the body.Consistency over intensity: Simple, consistent habits can be more regulating than occasional intense practices.Self-care becomes natural: When your body is resourced, self-care becomes easier rather than something you have to force.The FoundationsFoodWaterSleepReflectionWhich foundation feels least consistent right now — food, hydration or sleep? How does this affect my body?When I’m dysregulated, are my basic needs being met? What might my body be asking for?What is one small, realistic change I could make this week to better support my body?Stabilise with Somatics ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 41 | Stabilise with Somatic | Series ExplanationEp 42 | Stabilise with Somatic | Why the Nervous System Responds This Way | LessonEp 43 | Stabilise with Somatic | The Goal of Coherence | LessonPart 2 — Somatic AwarenessEp 44 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Activation | LessonEp 45 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Shut Down | LessonEp 46 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Coherence | LessonEp 47 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Your Nervous System | LessonPart 3 — The Hierarchy of Self-CareEp 48 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Why Self-Care Often Fails | Lesson Ep49 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Foundation | LessonEp 50 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care| Regulation | LessonEp 51 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Meaning | LessonEp 52 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Intuition | LessonEp 53 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Integration | LessonPart 3 — Somatic AttunementEp 54 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | The Witness | Guided MeditationEp 55 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Awakening Intuition | LessonEp 56 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Closing Words | LessonMore Helpful Tools for Sensitive Souls🌀 Meet Your Sensitive System: Take the official HSP-R Assessment🌀 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.🌀 Discover the My Linktree

  10. 48

    S3 Ep 8 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Why Self-Care Often Fails | Lesson

    Why does self-care sometimes leave you feeling more frustrated than supported? In this episode, we’ll explore why self-care isn’t one-size-fits-all and how the state of your nervous system can change what you need. We’ll look at why timing matters, why foundations come first, and how to move from asking “what should I do?” to listening to what your body is actually asking for.Key TakeawaysIt’s not one-size-fits-all: What helps depends on your current nervous system state.Timing matters: The tool may not be the problem — it may simply be the wrong support at the wrong time.Foundations first: Rest, nourishment and safety create the foundation for deeper work.Shift your questions: Move from “what should I do?” to “what does my nervous system need right now?”Build a flexible toolkit: Self-care becomes more natural when you learn what genuinely supports your body.Reflection PointsWhen has self-care felt like it “didn’t work”? Was I listening to my body or following what I thought I should do?When have I used a tool that didn’t match my state? What state was I in?What does my body need right now to feel supported?Stabilise with Somatics ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 41 | Stabilise with Somatic | Series ExplanationEp 42 | Stabilise with Somatic | Why the Nervous System Responds This Way | LessonEp 43 | Stabilise with Somatic | The Goal of Coherence | LessonPart 2 — Somatic AwarenessEp 44 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Activation | LessonEp 45 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Shut Down | LessonEp 46 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Coherence | LessonEp 47 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Your Nervous System | LessonPart 3 — The Hierarchy of Self-CareEp 48 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Why Self-Care Often Fails | Lesson Ep49 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Foundation | LessonEp 50 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care| Regulation | LessonEp 51 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Meaning | LessonEp 52 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Intuition | LessonEp 53 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Integration | LessonPart 3 — Somatic AttunementEp 54 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | The Witness | Guided MeditationEp 55 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Awakening Intuition | LessonEp 56 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Closing Words | LessonMore Helpful Tools for Sensitive Souls🌀 Meet Your Sensitive System: Take the official HSP-R Assessment🌀 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.🌀 Discover the My Linktree

  11. 47

    S3 Ep 7 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Your Nervous System | Lesson

    What happens when you begin to see your patterns through your body, not just your mind? In this episode, we’ll bring together activation, shutdown and coherence, exploring how your nervous system influences the way you think, feel and respond. We’ll also look at how the ego, inner child, shadow and ancestral conditioning can show up within these states — and how awareness can help you understand what your body needs.Key TakeawaysYour nervous system moves between activation, shutdown and coherence.Your patterns can show up in your body, not just your mind.Different nervous system states can bring different patterns to the surface.Awareness comes before change — you don’t need to fix or analyse everything.Different states need different forms of support.Learning to listen to your body builds trust with your nervous system.Reflection PromptsWhen I’m activated, what patterns show up for me?When I’m in shutdown, what changes in my thoughts, feelings or behaviour?What feels different when I’m coherent or regulated?What does my nervous system need from me right now?Stabilise with Somatics ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 41 | Stabilise with Somatic | Series ExplanationEp 42 | Stabilise with Somatic | Why the Nervous System Responds This Way | LessonEp 43 | Stabilise with Somatic | The Goal of Coherence | LessonPart 2 — Somatic AwarenessEp 44 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Activation | LessonEp 45 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Shut Down | LessonEp 46 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Coherence | LessonEp 47 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Your Nervous System | LessonPart 3 — The Hierarchy of Self-CareEp 48 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Why Self-Care Often Fails | Lesson Ep49 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Foundation | LessonEp 50 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care| Regulation | LessonEp 51 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Meaning | LessonEp 52 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Intuition | LessonEp 53 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Integration | LessonPart 3 — Somatic AttunementEp 54 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | The Witness | Guided MeditationEp 55 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Awakening Intuition | LessonEp 56 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Closing Words | LessonMore Helpful Tools for Sensitive Souls🌀 Meet Your Sensitive System: Take the official HSP-R Assessment🌀 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.🌀 Discover the My Linktree

  12. 46

    S3 Ep 6 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Coherence | Lesson

    What does it feel like when your mind and body are working together? In this episode, we’ll explore coherence — a state where your nervous system has enough safety and resources to settle, connect and respond with greater ease. You’ll learn how coherence affects your body, thoughts and emotions, why calm can feel unfamiliar, and how to build your capacity to return to balance.Key TakeawaysCoherence is balance: Your mind, body and nervous system feel more integrated and at ease.Safety creates steadiness: Coherence emerges when your system feels supported and resourced.You can respond, not react: Your body softens and your thinking becomes clearer.The goal is returning: You don’t need to stay regulated — you’re building your capacity to return.It isn’t forced: Coherence naturally emerges when your body feels safe enough to settle.Reflection Prompts What does coherence feel like in my body?How do I think, relate and move differently when I feel this way?When have I recently experienced coherence, even briefly? What helped my body feel safe enough to settle?Stabilise with Somatics ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 41 | Stabilise with Somatic | Series ExplanationEp 42 | Stabilise with Somatic | Why the Nervous System Responds This Way | LessonEp 43 | Stabilise with Somatic | The Goal of Coherence | LessonPart 2 — Somatic AwarenessEp 44 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Activation | LessonEp 45 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Shut Down | LessonEp 46 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Coherence | LessonEp 47 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Your Nervous System | LessonPart 3 — The Hierarchy of Self-CareEp 48 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Why Self-Care Often Fails | Lesson Ep49 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Foundation | LessonEp 50 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care| Regulation | LessonEp 51 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Meaning | LessonEp 52 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Intuition | LessonEp 53 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Integration | LessonPart 3 — Somatic AttunementEp 54 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | The Witness | Guided MeditationEp 55 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Awakening Intuition | LessonEp 56 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Closing Words | LessonMore Helpful Tools for Sensitive Souls🌀 Meet Your Sensitive System: Take the official HSP-R Assessment🌀 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.🌀 Discover the My Linktree

  13. 45

    S3 Ep 5 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Shut Down | Lesson

    What happens when your nervous system can no longer keep pushing? In this episode, we’ll explore shutdown — the state where your body conserves energy rather than mobilising it. You’ll learn how shutdown can show up as exhaustion, heaviness, numbness, disconnection or feeling stuck, why it can follow prolonged activation or overwhelm, and how your thoughts can change when your system is depleted. Most importantly, we’ll explore how to recognise shutdown without judgement and respond with rest, nourishment and gentle support.Key TakeawaysShutdown is protective: Your nervous system is conserving energy, not failing.It can affect body and mind: You may feel heavy, exhausted, numb, disconnected or unable to act.It often follows prolonged stress: Shutdown can happen when your system becomes depleted.Your thoughts can change: Thinking may feel slower, more negative or hopeless — Support, don’t push: Rest, nourishment, gentleness and meeting your body where it is can helpReflectionHow does shutdown feel in my body? Where do I notice it most?What becomes harder when I’m in shutdown, and how does my inner voice change?What might my body need instead of pressure?Stabilise with Somatics ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 41 | Stabilise with Somatic | Series ExplanationEp 42 | Stabilise with Somatic | Why the Nervous System Responds This Way | LessonEp 43 | Stabilise with Somatic | The Goal of Coherence | LessonPart 2 — Somatic AwarenessEp 44 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Activation | LessonEp 45 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Shut Down | LessonEp 46 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Coherence | LessonEp 47 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Your Nervous System | LessonPart 3 — The Hierarchy of Self-CareEp 48 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Why Self-Care Often Fails | Lesson Ep49 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Foundation | LessonEp 50 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care| Regulation | LessonEp 51 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Meaning | LessonEp 52 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Intuition | LessonEp 53 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Integration | LessonPart 3 — Somatic AttunementEp 54 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | The Witness | Guided MeditationEp 55 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Awakening Intuition | LessonEp 56 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Closing Words | LessonMore Helpful Tools for Sensitive Souls🌀 Meet Your Sensitive System: Take the official HSP-R Assessment🌀 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.🌀 Discover the My Linktree

  14. 44

    S3 Ep 4 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Activation | Lesson

    What happens when your nervous system shifts into action? In this episode, we’ll explore activation — the mobilised state behind fight, flight and fawning. You’ll learn how activation can show up in your body, thoughts and behaviours, why highly sensitive people may experience it more easily, and how to recognise the difference between useful energy and overwhelm. Most importantly, we’ll explore how to notice activation without judgement and gently support your body back towards safety and balance.Key TakeawaysActivation is protective: It’s your nervous system mobilising to prepare for action.It can show up in many ways: Racing thoughts, tension, restlessness, urgency or feeling stuck in your head.Highly sensitive systems may activate more easily: Taking in and processing more information can increase activation.The goal is awareness, not elimination: Notice activation and gently support your body back towards safety and balance.Reflection PromptsHow does activation first show up in my body and thoughts?What does activation feel like in my body — tight, restless, hot, buzzing, heavy or something else?What does my activated system tend to do to feel safe, and what helps me return to my body?Stabilise with Somatics ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 41 | Stabilise with Somatic | Series ExplanationEp 42 | Stabilise with Somatic | Why the Nervous System Responds This Way | LessonEp 43 | Stabilise with Somatic | The Goal of Coherence | LessonPart 2 — Somatic AwarenessEp 44 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Activation | LessonEp 45 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Shut Down | LessonEp 46 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Coherence | LessonEp 47 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Your Nervous System | LessonPart 3 — The Hierarchy of Self-CareEp 48 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Why Self-Care Often Fails | Lesson Ep49 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Foundation | LessonEp 50 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care| Regulation | LessonEp 51 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Meaning | LessonEp 52 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Intuition | LessonEp 53 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Integration | LessonPart 3 — Somatic AttunementEp 54 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | The Witness | Guided MeditationEp 55 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Awakening Intuition | LessonEp 56 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Closing Words | LessonMore Helpful Tools for Sensitive Souls🌀 Meet Your Sensitive System: Take the official HSP-R Assessment🌀 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.🌀 Discover the My Linktree

  15. 43

    S3 Ep 3 | Stabilise with Somatic | The Goal of Coherence | Lesson

    What does it actually feel like to be regulated? In this episode, we’ll explore what nervous system regulation and coherence really mean — and why being regulated doesn’t mean feeling calm all the time. You’ll discover how your nervous system state can influence your thoughts, emotions and perception, and why supporting the body can help the mind settle. We’ll also explore what it means to return to balance and begin building a more supportive relationship with your body.Key TakeawaysRegulation isn’t constant calm: It’s the ability to respond, adapt and return to balance.Your state shapes your experience: Your nervous system influences your thoughts, emotions and perceptions.Safety supports clarity: When your body feels safe, connection and perspective become more accessible.Support the body, not just the mind: When the nervous system settles, the mind often follows.Coherence can be practised: Over time, your system learns to return to balance more easily.ReflectionWhen have I recently felt settled or clear? What did that feel like in my body?When I’m overwhelmed or shut down, how do my thoughts and perceptions change?What does my body need right now to feel even 5% more supported?Stabilise with Somatics ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 41 | Stabilise with Somatic | Series ExplanationEp 42 | Stabilise with Somatic | Why the Nervous System Responds This Way | LessonEp 43 | Stabilise with Somatic | The Goal of Coherence | LessonPart 2 — Somatic AwarenessEp 44 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Activation | LessonEp 45 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Shut Down | LessonEp 46 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Coherence | LessonEp 47 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Your Nervous System | LessonPart 3 — The Hierarchy of Self-CareEp 48 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Why Self-Care Often Fails | Lesson Ep49 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Foundation | LessonEp 50 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care| Regulation | LessonEp 51 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Meaning | LessonEp 52 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Intuition | LessonEp 53 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Integration | LessonPart 3 — Somatic AttunementEp 54 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | The Witness | Guided MeditationEp 55 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Awakening Intuition | LessonEp 56 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Closing Words | LessonMore Helpful Tools for Sensitive Souls🌀 Meet Your Sensitive System: Take the official HSP-R Assessment 🌀 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need. 🌀 Discover the My Linktree

  16. 42

    S3 Ep 2 | Stabilise with Somatic | Why the Nervous System Responds This Way | Lesson

    Why does your body react before you’ve even had time to think? In this episode, we’ll explore the relationship between your nervous system, your experiences and the way you respond to the world. We’ll look at what happens when your body senses danger, why your responses can feel automatic, and how to begin understanding them with more curiosity and compassion.Key TakeawaysYour nervous system is constantly gathering information about safety and danger.Fight, flight, freeze and shutdown are protective responses, not personal flaws.Your nervous system is shaped by your biology, sensitivity and lived experiences.Your body can respond to perceived danger, even when you consciously know you’re safe.Understanding your responses can help you meet your body with less judgement and more compassion.Reflection PromptsCan you recall a recent moment when your body reacted quickly? What did you notice physically?If that reaction wasn’t a flaw but an attempt to protect you, what might your body have been responding to?Where do you feel that response most clearly in your body? Can you notice its shape, weight, temperature or movement?Stabilise with Somatics ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 41 | Stabilise with Somatic | Series ExplanationEp 42 | Stabilise with Somatic | Why the Nervous System Responds This Way | LessonEp 43 | Stabilise with Somatic | The Goal of Coherence | LessonPart 2 — Somatic AwarenessEp 44 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Activation | LessonEp 45 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Shut Down | LessonEp 46 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Coherence | LessonEp 47 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Your Nervous System | LessonPart 3 — The Hierarchy of Self-CareEp 48 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Why Self-Care Often Fails | Lesson Ep49 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Foundation | LessonEp 50 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care| Regulation | LessonEp 51 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Meaning | LessonEp 52 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Intuition | LessonEp 53 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Integration | LessonPart 3 — Somatic AttunementEp 54 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | The Witness | Guided MeditationEp 55 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Awakening Intuition | LessonEp 56 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Closing Words | LessonMore Helpful Tools for Sensitive Souls🌀 Meet Your Sensitive System: Take the official HSP-R Assessment 🌀 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need. 🌀 Discover the My Linktree

  17. 41

    S3 Ep 1 | Stabilise with Somatic | Series Explanation

    Welcome to the next stage of your journey: Stabilise with Somatics.If you’ve explored Beyond the Story, you may already understand your patterns, triggers and the experiences that have shaped you. But you may have also noticed that even when your mind understands something, your body can still react.This season is about bridging that gap.You’ll begin learning to recognise the signals of your nervous system, understand the different states your body moves through, and gently rebuild your relationship with your body.This isn’t about fixing yourself, forcing change or pushing for emotional release. It’s about awareness, curiosity and safety — learning to listen to your body and work with it, rather than against it.We’ll move slowly, building stability and capacity so you can begin to feel safer within yourself and respond to your experiences with greater choice.Reflection PromptsCan I recall a recent moment where my body reacted quickly (anxiety, shutdown, tension)? What did that feel like in my body?If that reaction wasn't a flaw, but an attempt to protect me—what might my body have been responding to? (A person, tone, pressure, memory, expectation.)Where do I feel that response most clearly in my body? Can I notice its shape, weight, temperature, or movement—even just a little?Stabilise with Somatics ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 41 | Stabilise with Somatic | Series ExplanationEp 42 | Stabilise with Somatic | Why the Nervous System Responds This Way | LessonEp 43 | Stabilise with Somatic | The Goal of Coherence | LessonPart 2 — Somatic AwarenessEp 44 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Activation | LessonEp 45 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Shut Down | LessonEp 46 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Coherence | LessonEp 47 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Awareness | Your Nervous System | LessonPart 3 — The Hierarchy of Self-CareEp 48 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Why Self-Care Often Fails | Lesson Ep49 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Foundation | LessonEp 50 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care| Regulation | LessonEp 51 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Meaning | LessonEp 52 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Intuition | LessonEp 53 | Stabilise with Somatic | Hierarchy of Self-Care | Integration | LessonPart 3 — Somatic AttunementEp 54 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | The Witness | Guided MeditationEp 55 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Awakening Intuition | LessonEp 56 | Stabilise with Somatic | Somatic Attunement | Closing Words | LessonMore Helpful Tools for Sensitive Souls🌀 Meet Your Sensitive System: Take the official HSP-R Assessment 🌀 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need. 🌀 Discover the My Linktree

  18. 40

    S2 Ep 25 | Beyond the Story | Integration Lesson

    This episode brings together the work you’ve done throughout Beyond the Story, helping you integrate what you’ve learned about your patterns, protectors and archetypes.This isn’t about finishing the work or making these patterns disappear. The Pleaser, Critic, Worrier, Suppressor and Perfectionist may still show up — especially when you’re stressed, overwhelmed or feeling unsafe. The shift is learning to recognise them sooner, without judgement. Integration is about making this work part of everyday life through small, consistent moments of awareness. You may begin to notice:Your patterns sooner when triggeredMore compassion for the parts trying to protect youLess judgement when old behaviours returnMore choice in how you respondA stronger connection to yourselfThis isn’t another thing you need to get right. It’s an invitation to keep coming back to yourself — especially when you notice yourself spiralling, shutting down, overthinking or slipping into an old pattern. The next episode, you’ll begin Stabilise with Somatics, moving from understanding your patterns in the mind to creating greater safety, regulation and stability within the body.Reflection PromptsWhen you notice yourself slipping into an old pattern, how will you gently return to yourself?What simple rhythm or practice could help you stay connected to this work?What does going "off track" actually look and feel like for you?What tends to pull you out of awareness, and how could you recognise that shift earlier in your body?Which archetype do you most often default to, and how does it shape your thoughts, relationships and sense of self when you're stressed or overwhelmed?Beyond the Story — ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 16 | IntroductionIf you're new to Beyond the Story, start here.Part 2 — The E.M.O.T.E ProtocolEp 17 | The E.M.O.T.E Protocol — LessonEp 18 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 11Ep 19 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 5Part 3 — The WorrierEp 20 | The Worrier — Awareness LessonEp 21 | The Worrier — Attunement LessonEp 22 | The Worrier — Ancestral Explore MeditationEp 23 | The Worrier — Ancestral Heal MeditationPart 4 — The PleaserEp 24 | The Pleaser — Awareness LessonEp 25 | The Pleaser — Child Attunement LessonEp 26 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Explore MeditationEp 27 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Heal MeditationPart 5 — The CriticEp 28 | The Critic — Awareness LessonEp 29 | The Critic — Attunement LessonEp 30 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Explore MeditationEp 31 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Heal MeditationPart 6 — The SuppressorEp 32 | The Suppressor — Awareness LessonEp 33 | The Suppressor — Attunement LessonEp 34 | The Suppressor — Shadow Explore MeditationEp 35 | The Suppressor — Shadow Heal MeditationPart 7 — The PerfectionistEp 36 | The Perfectionist — Awareness LessonEp 37 | The Perfectionist — Attunement LessonEp 38 | The Perfectionist — Ego Explore MeditationEp 39 | The Perfectionist — Ego Heal MeditationPart 8 — IntegrationEp 40 | The Integration — Lesson🌿 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.

  19. 39

    S2 Ep 24 | Beyond the Story | Why Do I Constantly Need To Improve Myself? | The Ego | Heal Meditation

    This meditation takes you deeper into the Ego by gently exploring the protective strategies behind the fear of not being enough — particularly the Perfectionist.Through visualisation, you’ll meet these patterns with compassion, uncover what they’re protecting and reconnect with the qualities beneath them. You’ll also practise responding to a real-life situation from a more grounded, authentic version of yourself.Over time, this can help loosen the belief that you need to be perfect to be enough.You may begin to notice:less pressure to constantly fix or improve yourselfmore ability to act without waiting to feel completely readygreater freedom from perfection and controla growing sense of enoughness and self-acceptanceThis isn't about losing your standards, ambition or desire to grow. It's about learning that you can evolve without constantly rejecting who you are now.Make sure you're somewhere cosy and won't be disturbed, with your headphones and eye mask ready, so you can fully settle into this healing journey.Returning to both the Explore and Heal meditations can continue to support your mind and body as you move through this evolution process.Reflection PromptsWhat protective part of yourself did you meet during this meditation?What did this part seem to be trying to protect you from?What gift or quality did you discover underneath the protective pattern?When you think about a situation where your Perfectionist usually takes over, what would responding from your more authentic self look like?What would it mean to let yourself grow without needing to become someone else first?Beyond the Story — ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 16 | IntroductionIf you're new to Beyond the Story, start here.Part 2 — The E.M.O.T.E ProtocolEp 17 | The E.M.O.T.E Protocol — LessonEp 18 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 11Ep 19 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 5Part 3 — The WorrierEp 20 | The Worrier — Awareness LessonEp 21 | The Worrier — Attunement LessonEp 22 | The Worrier — Ancestral Explore MeditationEp 23 | The Worrier — Ancestral Heal MeditationPart 4 — The PleaserEp 24 | The Pleaser — Awareness LessonEp 25 | The Pleaser — Child Attunement LessonEp 26 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Explore MeditationEp 27 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Heal MeditationPart 5 — The CriticEp 28 | The Critic — Awareness LessonEp 29 | The Critic — Attunement LessonEp 30 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Explore MeditationEp 31 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Heal MeditationPart 6 — The SuppressorEp 32 | The Suppressor — Awareness LessonEp 33 | The Suppressor — Attunement LessonEp 34 | The Suppressor — Shadow Explore MeditationEp 35 | The Suppressor — Shadow Heal MeditationPart 7 — The PerfectionistEp 36 | The Perfectionist — Awareness LessonEp 37 | The Perfectionist — Attunement LessonEp 38 | The Perfectionist — Ego Explore MeditationEp 39 | The Perfectionist — Ego Heal MeditationPart 8 — IntegrationEp 40 | The Integration — Lesson🌿 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.

  20. 38

    S2 Ep 23 | Beyond the Story | Why Do I Constantly Need To Improve Myself? | The Perfectionist | Ego | Explore Meditation

    This episode takes you deeper into the Perfectionist by exploring the ego — the part of you that has created an identity around being safe, acceptable and worthy.Through meditation, you’ll gently explore this identity, what it’s protecting you from and what lies beneath the need to be perfect. You may discover that underneath the perfectionist isn’t a part that needs to try harder, but one longing to feel enough, accepted and safe to simply be.What is the Ego?The ego is the part of you that develops an identity around who you believe you need to be in order to feel safe, valued or accepted.For the Perfectionist, this can become an identity built around achievement, control, being good enough, getting things right or continually improving yourself.Why is it important?When you become overly identified with the Perfectionist, you can lose sight of the difference between who you are and who you have learned you need to be.Exploring the ego allows you to notice the roles and expectations you've taken on, understand what they are protecting you from, and begin creating space for a version of yourself that doesn't need to be perfect in order to feel worthy.Reflection PromptsWhat version of yourself do you feel you need to be in order to feel worthy, accepted or enough?What does your Perfectionist identity help you feel safe from?What do you fear might happen if you stopped trying to be perfect?Where have you confused who you are with who you feel you need to be?If you didn't need to prove, achieve or perfect yourself, what part of you might be waiting to come forward?Beyond the Story — ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 16 | IntroductionIf you're new to Beyond the Story, start here.Part 2 — The E.M.O.T.E ProtocolEp 17 | The E.M.O.T.E Protocol — LessonEp 18 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 11Ep 19 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 5Part 3 — The WorrierEp 20 | The Worrier — Awareness LessonEp 21 | The Worrier — Attunement LessonEp 22 | The Worrier — Ancestral Explore MeditationEp 23 | The Worrier — Ancestral Heal MeditationPart 4 — The PleaserEp 24 | The Pleaser — Awareness LessonEp 25 | The Pleaser — Child Attunement LessonEp 26 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Explore MeditationEp 27 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Heal MeditationPart 5 — The CriticEp 28 | The Critic — Awareness LessonEp 29 | The Critic — Attunement LessonEp 30 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Explore MeditationEp 31 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Heal MeditationPart 6 — The SuppressorEp 32 | The Suppressor — Awareness LessonEp 33 | The Suppressor — Attunement LessonEp 34 | The Suppressor — Shadow Explore MeditationEp 35 | The Suppressor — Shadow Heal MeditationPart 7 — The PerfectionistEp 36 | The Perfectionist — Awareness LessonEp 37 | The Perfectionist — Attunement LessonEp 38 | The Perfectionist — Ego Explore MeditationEp 39 | The Perfectionist — Ego Heal MeditationPart 8 — IntegrationEp 40 | The Integration — Lesson🌿 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.

  21. 37

    S2 Ep 22 | Beyond the Story | Why Do I Constantly Need To Improve Myself? | The Perfectionist | Attunement Lesson

    This lesson explores how to attune to your Perfectionist — the part of you that believes you need to improve, fix or get everything right before you can truly feel okay.Rather than trying to get rid of perfectionism, you’ll learn to meet it with awareness and soften the pressure it places on you. This means noticing when you're trying to fix yourself or your life, pausing the urge to make things better, and allowing yourself to simply be where you are.You’ll explore how perfectionism can lead you to postpone rest, happiness and presence until everything feels sorted. The deeper work is learning that you don't have to wait for certainty or become a better version of yourself before you're allowed to enjoy your life.The evolutionary lesson of the Perfectionist is acceptance — learning that you can grow, change and have ambitions while still accepting yourself exactly as you are today.Reflection PromptsIf you were able to gently turn the volume down on this part of you, what would begin to change?How would you think, feel or respond differently, both internally and in your relationships?What might this part of you actually need from you in those moments? (Not what it does, but what it's trying to protect, seek or feel underneath the surface.)Beyond the Story — ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 16 | IntroductionIf you're new to Beyond the Story, start here.Part 2 — The E.M.O.T.E ProtocolEp 17 | The E.M.O.T.E Protocol — LessonEp 18 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 11Ep 19 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 5Part 3 — The WorrierEp 20 | The Worrier — Awareness LessonEp 21 | The Worrier — Attunement LessonEp 22 | The Worrier — Ancestral Explore MeditationEp 23 | The Worrier — Ancestral Heal MeditationPart 4 — The PleaserEp 24 | The Pleaser — Awareness LessonEp 25 | The Pleaser — Child Attunement LessonEp 26 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Explore MeditationEp 27 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Heal MeditationPart 5 — The CriticEp 28 | The Critic — Awareness LessonEp 29 | The Critic — Attunement LessonEp 30 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Explore MeditationEp 31 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Heal MeditationPart 6 — The SuppressorEp 32 | The Suppressor — Awareness LessonEp 33 | The Suppressor — Attunement LessonEp 34 | The Suppressor — Shadow Explore MeditationEp 35 | The Suppressor — Shadow Heal MeditationPart 7 — The PerfectionistEp 36 | The Perfectionist — Awareness LessonEp 37 | The Perfectionist — Attunement LessonEp 38 | The Perfectionist — Ego Explore MeditationEp 39 | The Perfectionist — Ego Heal MeditationPart 8 — IntegrationEp 40 | The Integration — Lesson🌿 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.

  22. 36

    S2 Ep 21 | Beyond the Story | Why Do I Constantly Need To Improve Myself? | The Perfectionist | Awareness Lesson

    This lesson introduces the Perfectionist archetype and explores the deeper belief that who you are right now isn't quite enough. Rather than simply being about high standards, perfectionism can become a protective strategy that keeps you editing, preparing, delaying and waiting until you feel ready enough to be seen.You’ll explore how the Perfectionist can show up in your thoughts, body, relationships and everyday decisions — from overthinking and procrastinating to constantly working on yourself before allowing yourself to fully live. The lesson helps you recognise that this part of you isn't trying to hold you back; it's trying to protect you from judgement, rejection and the discomfort of getting things wrong.The invitation is to begin noticing when the Perfectionist takes over, without judging or fighting it. Because when you can recognise the pattern, you can start separating your authentic self from the version of you that believes you must be more, better or more prepared before you're allowed to move forward.Reflection PromptsIf this archetype was a separate part of you, how would you see them?What do they look like, how do they hold themselves, and what is their tone of voice?How do they move, speak and show up in your world?When does this part of you show up most strongly?What situations, people or internal states tend to activate it?How does the Perfectionist begin to take over your thoughts, body or behaviour?Where in your life are you waiting for things to be "right" before allowing yourself to fully show up?Beyond the Story — ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 16 | IntroductionIf you're new to Beyond the Story, start here.Part 2 — The E.M.O.T.E ProtocolEp 17 | The E.M.O.T.E Protocol — LessonEp 18 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 11Ep 19 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 5Part 3 — The WorrierEp 20 | The Worrier — Awareness LessonEp 21 | The Worrier — Attunement LessonEp 22 | The Worrier — Ancestral Explore MeditationEp 23 | The Worrier — Ancestral Heal MeditationPart 4 — The PleaserEp 24 | The Pleaser — Awareness LessonEp 25 | The Pleaser — Child Attunement LessonEp 26 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Explore MeditationEp 27 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Heal MeditationPart 5 — The CriticEp 28 | The Critic — Awareness LessonEp 29 | The Critic — Attunement LessonEp 30 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Explore MeditationEp 31 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Heal MeditationPart 6 — The SuppressorEp 32 | The Suppressor — Awareness LessonEp 33 | The Suppressor — Attunement LessonEp 34 | The Suppressor — Shadow Explore MeditationEp 35 | The Suppressor — Shadow Heal MeditationPart 7 — The PerfectionistEp 36 | The Perfectionist — Awareness LessonEp 37 | The Perfectionist — Attunement LessonEp 38 | The Perfectionist — Ego Explore MeditationEp 39 | The Perfectionist — Ego Heal MeditationPart 8 — IntegrationEp 40 | The Integration — Lesson🌿 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.

  23. 35

    S2 Ep 20 | Beyond the Story | Why Do I Struggle To Express How I Feel? | The Suppressor | Shadow Heal Meditation

    This meditation takes you deeper into the Suppressor by gently meeting the emotions, needs and survival patterns that have been pushed beneath the surface.Rather than trying to force anything out, you're guided to create enough safety for these hidden parts to be acknowledged and accepted. Through visualisation, you meet your shadow with compassion, allowing it to become something you can understand and integrate rather than something you need to suppress.You'll also revisit a real-life situation where the Suppressor may usually take over and practise responding from this new, more integrated version of yourself.Over time, this work can help you build trust with your body and create more space for emotional expression — without needing to release everything at once.You may begin to notice:more access to your emotionsmore comfort expressing yourselfless emotional build-up or shutdowna greater sense of wholeness and self-acceptanceThis isn't about becoming more emotional or forcing yourself to open up. It's about creating enough safety for more of you to be felt.Make sure you're somewhere cosy and won't be disturbed, with your headphones and eye mask ready, so you can fully settle into this healing journey.Returning to both the Explore and Heal meditations can continue to support your mind and body as you move through this evolution process.Reflection PromptsWhat part of yourself did you meet during this meditation?What emotions, needs or behaviours became easier to acknowledge?When you think about a situation where you usually suppress yourself, what would responding from this more integrated place look like?Beyond the Story — ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 16 | IntroductionIf you're new to Beyond the Story, start here.Part 2 — The E.M.O.T.E ProtocolEp 17 | The E.M.O.T.E Protocol — LessonEp 18 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 11Ep 19 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 5Part 3 — The WorrierEp 20 | The Worrier — Awareness LessonEp 21 | The Worrier — Attunement LessonEp 22 | The Worrier — Ancestral Explore MeditationEp 23 | The Worrier — Ancestral Heal MeditationPart 4 — The PleaserEp 24 | The Pleaser — Awareness LessonEp 25 | The Pleaser — Child Attunement LessonEp 26 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Explore MeditationEp 27 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Heal MeditationPart 5 — The CriticEp 28 | The Critic — Awareness LessonEp 29 | The Critic — Attunement LessonEp 30 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Explore MeditationEp 31 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Heal MeditationPart 6 — The SuppressorEp 32 | The Suppressor — Awareness LessonEp 33 | The Suppressor — Attunement LessonEp 34 | The Suppressor — Shadow Explore MeditationEp 35 | The Suppressor — Shadow Heal MeditationPart 7 — The PerfectionistEp 36 | The Perfectionist — Awareness LessonEp 37 | The Perfectionist — Attunement LessonEp 38 | The Perfectionist — Ego Explore MeditationEp 39 | The Perfectionist — Ego Heal MeditationPart 8 — IntegrationEp 40 | The Integration — Lesson🌿 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.

  24. 34

    S2 Ep 19 | Beyond the Story | Why Do I Struggle To Express How I Feel? | The Suppressor | Shadow Explore Meditation

    This episode takes you deeper into the Suppressor by exploring the shadow — the parts of yourself that have been pushed down, hidden or made to feel unsafe to express.For the Suppressor, this may include emotions such as anger, sadness, frustration, needs or your truth. When these parts aren't given space to be felt, they don't simply disappear. They can remain beneath the surface, sometimes showing up as numbness, disconnection or an emotional build-up.This meditation invites you to gently meet what has been held beneath the surface without forcing anything to emerge. You don't need to find a specific emotion or uncover your whole story. Instead, you're creating enough safety to notice what your mind and body are ready to show you.There is also strength within your shadow — emotional depth, sensitivity, truth and the capacity to feel deeply.What is the Shadow?The shadow holds the parts of you that were pushed down, hidden or felt too much to express.For the Suppressor, these may be emotions, needs or truths that didn't feel safe to show.Why is it important?Suppressed parts don't disappear. They can remain within your emotional and physical experience until they feel safe enough to be acknowledged.Meeting your shadow helps you recognise that there is nothing inherently wrong with you. There are simply parts of you that haven't yet felt safe enough to be fully experienced.Reflection PromptsWhat emotions, needs or truths do you notice yourself pushing down most often?When you imagine allowing these parts to be seen, what happens in your body?What might these hidden parts of you need in order to feel safe enough to come forward?Where in your life do you feel most disconnected from what you actually feel?Beyond the Story — ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 16 | IntroductionIf you're new to Beyond the Story, start here.Part 2 — The E.M.O.T.E ProtocolEp 17 | The E.M.O.T.E Protocol — LessonEp 18 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 11Ep 19 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 5Part 3 — The WorrierEp 20 | The Worrier — Awareness LessonEp 21 | The Worrier — Attunement LessonEp 22 | The Worrier — Ancestral Explore MeditationEp 23 | The Worrier — Ancestral Heal MeditationPart 4 — The PleaserEp 24 | The Pleaser — Awareness LessonEp 25 | The Pleaser — Child Attunement LessonEp 26 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Explore MeditationEp 27 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Heal MeditationPart 5 — The CriticEp 28 | The Critic — Awareness LessonEp 29 | The Critic — Attunement LessonEp 30 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Explore MeditationEp 31 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Heal MeditationPart 6 — The SuppressorEp 32 | The Suppressor — Awareness LessonEp 33 | The Suppressor — Attunement LessonEp 34 | The Suppressor — Shadow Explore MeditationEp 35 | The Suppressor — Shadow Heal MeditationPart 7 — The PerfectionistEp 36 | The Perfectionist — Awareness LessonEp 37 | The Perfectionist — Attunement LessonEp 38 | The Perfectionist — Ego Explore MeditationEp 39 | The Perfectionist — Ego Heal MeditationPart 8 — IntegrationEp 40 | The Integration — Lesson🌿 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.

  25. 33

    S2 Ep 18 | Beyond the Story | Why Do I Struggle To Express How I Feel? | The Suppressor | Attunement Lesson

    This lesson explores how to attune to the Suppressor — the part of you that learned it was safer to hold emotions in than to express them.Rather than forcing yourself to open up or release everything at once, this lesson focuses on creating enough safety for expression to happen naturally. You begin by noticing what is happening in your body, allowing small moments of emotional honesty, and slowly building your capacity to feel without becoming overwhelmed.Over time, this can help you move from suppressing your emotions to feeling and staying with them, at your own pace. The deeper lesson of the Suppressor is quiet courage — the courage to feel, remain present and allow yourself to exist a little more honestly.You don't need to become more expressive. You need to feel safe enough to let more of yourself be seen.Reflection PromptsIf you were able to gently turn the volume down on this part of you, what would begin to change?How would you think, feel or respond differently, both internally and in your relationships?What might this part of you actually need from you in those moments? Not what it does, but what it's trying to protect, seek or feel underneath the surface.Beyond the Story — ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 16 | IntroductionIf you're new to Beyond the Story, start here.Part 2 — The E.M.O.T.E ProtocolEp 17 | The E.M.O.T.E Protocol — LessonEp 18 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 11Ep 19 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 5Part 3 — The WorrierEp 20 | The Worrier — Awareness LessonEp 21 | The Worrier — Attunement LessonEp 22 | The Worrier — Ancestral Explore MeditationEp 23 | The Worrier — Ancestral Heal MeditationPart 4 — The PleaserEp 24 | The Pleaser — Awareness LessonEp 25 | The Pleaser — Child Attunement LessonEp 26 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Explore MeditationEp 27 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Heal MeditationPart 5 — The CriticEp 28 | The Critic — Awareness LessonEp 29 | The Critic — Attunement LessonEp 30 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Explore MeditationEp 31 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Heal MeditationPart 6 — The SuppressorEp 32 | The Suppressor — Awareness LessonEp 33 | The Suppressor — Attunement LessonEp 34 | The Suppressor — Shadow Explore MeditationEp 35 | The Suppressor — Shadow Heal MeditationPart 7 — The PerfectionistEp 36 | The Perfectionist — Awareness LessonEp 37 | The Perfectionist — Attunement LessonEp 38 | The Perfectionist — Ego Explore MeditationEp 39 | The Perfectionist — Ego Heal MeditationPart 8 — IntegrationEp 40 | The Integration — LessonMore Helpful Tools for Sensitive Souls🌀 Meet Your Sensitive System: Take the official HSP-R Assessment🌀 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.🌀 Discover the My Linktree

  26. 32

    S2 Ep 17 | Beyond the Story | Why Do I Struggle To Express How I Feel? | The Suppressor | Awareness Lesson

    This lesson introduces the Suppressor — the part of you that learned it was safer to hold your emotions in rather than express them.You’ll explore how this can show up as saying “I’m fine” when you’re not, avoiding difficult conversations, struggling to identify what you feel, or holding so much inside that it eventually becomes overwhelming.The Suppressor isn't a lack of emotion. It's a protection strategy. At some point, your system learned that expressing your feelings, needs or truth could lead to conflict, rejection, being misunderstood or feeling like you were “too much”.This lesson helps you begin recognising when the Suppressor is activated, without forcing yourself to open up before you feel ready. The first step is simply noticing what you're holding, understanding why it's there, and creating a little more space for your emotional world to exist.Reflection PromptsIf this archetype was a separate part of you, how would you see them?What do they look like, how do they hold themselves, and what is their tone of voice?How do they move, speak and show up in your world?When does this part of you show up most strongly?What situations, people or internal states tend to activate it, and how does it begin to influence your thoughts, body or behaviour?Beyond the Story — ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 16 | IntroductionIf you're new to Beyond the Story, start here.Part 2 — The E.M.O.T.E ProtocolEp 17 | The E.M.O.T.E Protocol — LessonEp 18 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 11Ep 19 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 5Part 3 — The WorrierEp 20 | The Worrier — Awareness LessonEp 21 | The Worrier — Attunement LessonEp 22 | The Worrier — Ancestral Explore MeditationEp 23 | The Worrier — Ancestral Heal MeditationPart 4 — The PleaserEp 24 | The Pleaser — Awareness LessonEp 25 | The Pleaser — Child Attunement LessonEp 26 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Explore MeditationEp 27 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Heal MeditationPart 5 — The CriticEp 28 | The Critic — Awareness LessonEp 29 | The Critic — Attunement LessonEp 30 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Explore MeditationEp 31 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Heal MeditationPart 6 — The SuppressorEp 32 | The Suppressor — Awareness LessonEp 33 | The Suppressor — Attunement LessonEp 34 | The Suppressor — Shadow Explore MeditationEp 35 | The Suppressor — Shadow Heal MeditationPart 7 — The PerfectionistEp 36 | The Perfectionist — Awareness LessonEp 37 | The Perfectionist — Attunement LessonEp 38 | The Perfectionist — Ego Explore MeditationEp 39 | The Perfectionist — Ego Heal MeditationPart 8 — IntegrationEp 40 | The Integration — Lesson🌿 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.

  27. 31

    S2 Ep 16 | Beyond the Story | Why Am I So Hard On Myself? | The Critic | Yin & Yang Heal Meditation

    This meditation builds on the previous Yin & Yang Explore meditation, moving from awareness into healing and integration.You'll work with an imbalance between doing and being, allowing your body to release some of the pressure, urgency or over-efforting that may be keeping you stuck in constant action. You'll then reconnect with both Yin and Yang, bringing softness and structure together rather than feeling like you have to choose between them.The intention isn't to lose your ambition or stop taking action. It's to create a way of moving through life where you can act without pushing, rest without guilt, and grow without constantly feeling like you're falling short.How to use this meditation | HealThis meditation supports you in restoring balance between doing and being.You're not trying to remove your drive— you're allowing it to be held alongside softness.Over time, you may notice:less pressure to constantly improvemore space to pause and receivea growing sense of enoughness, even as you continue to growAs always, make sure you have your headphones, eye mask and are nice and comfy to get the most out of this deeply healing journey.Returning to both the Explore and Heal meditations can continue to support your mind and body through this evolution process.Beyond the Story — ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 16 | IntroductionIf you're new to Beyond the Story, start here.Part 2 — The E.M.O.T.E ProtocolEp 17 | The E.M.O.T.E Protocol — LessonEp 18 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 11Ep 19 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 5Part 3 — The WorrierEp 20 | The Worrier — Awareness LessonEp 21 | The Worrier — Attunement LessonEp 22 | The Worrier — Ancestral Explore MeditationEp 23 | The Worrier — Ancestral Heal MeditationPart 4 — The PleaserEp 24 | The Pleaser — Awareness LessonEp 25 | The Pleaser — Child Attunement LessonEp 26 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Explore MeditationEp 27 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Heal MeditationPart 5 — The CriticEp 28 | The Critic — Awareness LessonEp 29 | The Critic — Attunement LessonEp 30 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Explore MeditationEp 31 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Heal MeditationPart 6 — The SuppressorEp 32 | The Suppressor — Awareness LessonEp 33 | The Suppressor — Attunement LessonEp 34 | The Suppressor — Shadow Explore MeditationEp 35 | The Suppressor — Shadow Heal MeditationPart 7 — The PerfectionistEp 36 | The Perfectionist — Awareness LessonEp 37 | The Perfectionist — Attunement LessonEp 38 | The Perfectionist — Ego Explore MeditationEp 39 | The Perfectionist — Ego Heal MeditationPart 8 — IntegrationEp 40 | The Integration — Lesson🌿 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.

  28. 30

    S2 Ep 15 | Beyond the Story | Why Am I So Hard On Myself?| The Critic | Yin & Yang Explore Meditation

    This meditation invites you to explore the balance between Yin and Yang energy within you.For the Critic, there can often be too much Yang energy — pushing, striving, fixing and constantly trying to improve. This meditation helps you notice where you're overextended, where you're undernourished, and what your body needs to feel more balanced.Rather than removing your drive or ambition, you're learning how to bring softness alongside it, so effort and ease can exist together.Understanding Yin & YangYin and Yang describe two complementary energies within you.Yang is active, focused, driven and action-oriented. It helps you move forward, create structure, make decisions and take action.Yin is receptive, soft, spacious and grounded in being. It allows you to rest, receive, reflect, slow down and simply be.Neither is better than the other. We need both. The goal is not perfect balance, but learning to recognise which energy you need more of in different moments.Reflection PromptsWhere in your life are you currently overextended or pushing too hard?Where might you be undernourished or not giving yourself enough space to rest and receive?Which energy feels more dominant for you right now — Yin or Yang?What would a healthier balance between doing and being look like for you?What is one small choice you could make this week to create more balance?Beyond the Story — ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 16 | IntroductionIf you're new to Beyond the Story, start here.Part 2 — The E.M.O.T.E ProtocolEp 17 | The E.M.O.T.E Protocol — LessonEp 18 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 11Ep 19 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 5Part 3 — The WorrierEp 20 | The Worrier — Awareness LessonEp 21 | The Worrier — Attunement LessonEp 22 | The Worrier — Ancestral Explore MeditationEp 23 | The Worrier — Ancestral Heal MeditationPart 4 — The PleaserEp 24 | The Pleaser — Awareness LessonEp 25 | The Pleaser — Child Attunement LessonEp 26 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Explore MeditationEp 27 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Heal MeditationPart 5 — The CriticEp 28 | The Critic — Awareness LessonEp 29 | The Critic — Attunement LessonEp 30 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Explore MeditationEp 31 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Heal MeditationPart 6 — The SuppressorEp 32 | The Suppressor — Awareness LessonEp 33 | The Suppressor — Attunement LessonEp 34 | The Suppressor — Shadow Explore MeditationEp 35 | The Suppressor — Shadow Heal MeditationPart 7 — The PerfectionistEp 36 | The Perfectionist — Awareness LessonEp 37 | The Perfectionist — Attunement LessonEp 38 | The Perfectionist — Ego Explore MeditationEp 39 | The Perfectionist — Ego Heal MeditationPart 8 — IntegrationEp 40 | The Integration — Lesson🌿 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.

  29. 29

    S2 Ep 14 | Beyond the Story | Why Am I So Hard On Myself? | The Critic | Attunement Lesson

    In this lesson, we begin to change your relationship with the Critic — the part of you that pushes, corrects and constantly tells you that you need to do better.Rather than trying to silence or get rid of this part, you'll learn to meet it with compassion and begin to separate your worth from achievement, perfection and getting things right.You'll explore how to soften the pressure you place on yourself, recognise when the Critic is activated, and create space for rest, enoughness and self-compassion alongside your ambition.The goal isn't to lower your standards or stop growing. It's to learn that you can grow without constantly feeling like you're falling short.Reflection PromptsIf you could turn the volume down on your inner Critic, what would begin to change?Where in your life are you putting pressure on yourself to get things right?What might this part of you actually need from you in those moments?What would it feel like to believe “I can grow and still be enough”?Where could you practise choosing compassion over criticism this week?Beyond the Story — ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 16 | IntroductionIf you're new to Beyond the Story, start here.Part 2 — The E.M.O.T.E ProtocolEp 17 | The E.M.O.T.E Protocol — LessonEp 18 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 11Ep 19 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 5Part 3 — The WorrierEp 20 | The Worrier — Awareness LessonEp 21 | The Worrier — Attunement LessonEp 22 | The Worrier — Ancestral Explore MeditationEp 23 | The Worrier — Ancestral Heal MeditationPart 4 — The PleaserEp 24 | The Pleaser — Awareness LessonEp 25 | The Pleaser — Child Attunement LessonEp 26 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Explore MeditationEp 27 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Heal MeditationPart 5 — The CriticEp 28 | The Critic — Awareness LessonEp 29 | The Critic — Attunement LessonEp 30 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Explore MeditationEp 31 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Heal MeditationPart 6 — The SuppressorEp 32 | The Suppressor — Awareness LessonEp 33 | The Suppressor — Attunement LessonEp 34 | The Suppressor — Shadow Explore MeditationEp 35 | The Suppressor — Shadow Heal MeditationPart 7 — The PerfectionistEp 36 | The Perfectionist — Awareness LessonEp 37 | The Perfectionist — Attunement LessonEp 38 | The Perfectionist — Ego Explore MeditationEp 39 | The Perfectionist — Ego Heal MeditationPart 8 — IntegrationEp 40 | The Integration — Lesson🌿 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.

  30. 28

    S2 Ep 13 | Beyond the Story | Why Am I So Hard On Myself? | The Critic | Awareness Lesson

    Why am I so hard on myself?This lesson is about understanding The Critic — the part of you that is constantly evaluating, correcting and pushing you to do better.You may notice it as an inner voice telling you that you're not doing enough, you could have done better, or you're not quite where you should be yet. Even when things go well, your attention can quickly move to what needs improving.But The Critic isn't trying to hurt you. It's a protective strategy your system developed to help you avoid mistakes, failure or feeling inadequate. Somewhere along the way, you may have learnt that getting things right, achieving or constantly improving was connected to feeling worthy.In this lesson, you'll begin to recognise when The Critic is activated, understand what sits underneath the pressure, and start separating who you are from the voice telling you that you're not enough yet.What we're meetingThe part of you that learnt your worth felt conditional on getting things right.This part tries to protect you by pushing you to improve, avoid mistakes and stay worthy.What we observeThe Critic may sound like:“This isn't good enough.”“I should be doing better.”“I can't get this wrong.”“There's always more I need to fix.”Notice how this shows up in your thoughts, body and behaviour — without needing to silence it or believe everything it says.ReflectionIf you turned the volume down on The Critic, what would change?How would you think, feel or respond differently?What might this part actually need from you?Beyond the Story — ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 16 | IntroductionIf you're new to Beyond the Story, start here.Part 2 — The E.M.O.T.E ProtocolEp 17 | The E.M.O.T.E Protocol — LessonEp 18 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 11Ep 19 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 5Part 3 — The WorrierEp 20 | The Worrier — Awareness LessonEp 21 | The Worrier — Attunement LessonEp 22 | The Worrier — Ancestral Explore MeditationEp 23 | The Worrier — Ancestral Heal MeditationPart 4 — The PleaserEp 24 | The Pleaser — Awareness LessonEp 25 | The Pleaser — Child Attunement LessonEp 26 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Explore MeditationEp 27 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Heal MeditationPart 5 — The CriticEp 28 | The Critic — Awareness LessonEp 29 | The Critic — Attunement LessonEp 30 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Explore MeditationEp 31 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Heal MeditationPart 6 — The SuppressorEp 32 | The Suppressor — Awareness LessonEp 33 | The Suppressor — Attunement LessonEp 34 | The Suppressor — Shadow Explore MeditationEp 35 | The Suppressor — Shadow Heal MeditationPart 7 — The PerfectionistEp 36 | The Perfectionist — Awareness LessonEp 37 | The Perfectionist — Attunement LessonEp 38 | The Perfectionist — Ego Explore MeditationEp 39 | The Perfectionist — Ego Heal MeditationPart 8 — IntegrationEp 40 | The Integration — Lesson🌿 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.

  31. 27

    S2 Ep 12 | Beyond the Story | Why Can't I Say No? | The Pleaser | Inner Child Heal Meditation

    How to use this meditation | HealThis meditation invites you to gently meet your inner child, release patterns that no longer serve you, and begin creating a new internal experience of safety, self-trust and connection.You don't need to force anything or make anything happen. Simply allow yourself to be guided and stay connected to your body as much as feels comfortable.You may notice:old emotions or beliefs coming to the surfacea sense of releasing what you've been carryinggreater compassion for your younger selfnew ways of responding to familiar situationsMake sure you're somewhere comfortable where you won't be disturbed. Headphones and an eye mask can help you drop in more deeply.This is not about changing who you are. It's about helping the younger parts of you feel safe enough to stop running the show.Returning to both the Explore and Heal meditations can continue to support your mind and body as this pattern evolves.Beyond the Story — ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 16 | IntroductionIf you're new to Beyond the Story, start here.Part 2 — The E.M.O.T.E ProtocolEp 17 | The E.M.O.T.E Protocol — LessonEp 18 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 11Ep 19 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 5Part 3 — The WorrierEp 20 | The Worrier — Awareness LessonEp 21 | The Worrier — Attunement LessonEp 22 | The Worrier — Ancestral Explore MeditationEp 23 | The Worrier — Ancestral Heal MeditationPart 4 — The PleaserEp 24 | The Pleaser — Awareness LessonEp 25 | The Pleaser — Child Attunement LessonEp 26 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Explore MeditationEp 27 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Heal MeditationPart 5 — The CriticEp 28 | The Critic — Awareness LessonEp 29 | The Critic — Attunement LessonEp 30 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Explore MeditationEp 31 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Heal MeditationPart 6 — The SuppressorEp 32 | The Suppressor — Awareness LessonEp 33 | The Suppressor — Attunement LessonEp 34 | The Suppressor — Shadow Explore MeditationEp 35 | The Suppressor — Shadow Heal MeditationPart 7 — The PerfectionistEp 36 | The Perfectionist — Awareness LessonEp 37 | The Perfectionist — Attunement LessonEp 38 | The Perfectionist — Ego Explore MeditationEp 39 | The Perfectionist — Ego Heal MeditationPart 8 — IntegrationEp 40 | The Integration — Lesson🌿 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.

  32. 26

    S2 Ep 11 | Beyond the Story | Why Can't I Say No? | The Pleaser | Inner Child Explore Meditation

    What is the Inner Child?The inner child represents the younger parts of you that learned how to receive love, safety and connection.For The Pleaser, this part often learned that love came from being good, helpful or easy to be around.Why is it important?When this part is activated, you're not just responding to the present moment — you're responding from a younger place that learned love had to be earned.Recognising this brings compassion. It also helps you reconnect with the strengths within this part of you — your care, empathy and ability to connect — without needing to lose yourself in others.How to use this meditation | ExploreThis meditation is an invitation to gently connect with your inner child and explore where these patterns began.Try to listen somewhere you won't be disturbed. Headphones can help, and getting physically comfortable will allow you to drop in more easily.As you move through it, allow yourself to connect to:imagery in the mindsensations in the bodymemories, emotions or inner knowingThere's no need to force anything or expect a big emotional experience.Some days may feel subtle, while others may bring more clarity or emotion. The more you return to this work, the easier it can become to access your intuition and the deeper parts of yourself.Beyond the Story — ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 16 | IntroductionIf you're new to Beyond the Story, start here.Part 2 — The E.M.O.T.E ProtocolEp 17 | The E.M.O.T.E Protocol — LessonEp 18 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 11Ep 19 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 5Part 3 — The WorrierEp 20 | The Worrier — Awareness LessonEp 21 | The Worrier — Attunement LessonEp 22 | The Worrier — Ancestral Explore MeditationEp 23 | The Worrier — Ancestral Heal MeditationPart 4 — The PleaserEp 24 | The Pleaser — Awareness LessonEp 25 | The Pleaser — Child Attunement LessonEp 26 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Explore MeditationEp 27 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Heal MeditationPart 5 — The CriticEp 28 | The Critic — Awareness LessonEp 29 | The Critic — Attunement LessonEp 30 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Explore MeditationEp 31 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Heal MeditationPart 6 — The SuppressorEp 32 | The Suppressor — Awareness LessonEp 33 | The Suppressor — Attunement LessonEp 34 | The Suppressor — Shadow Explore MeditationEp 35 | The Suppressor — Shadow Heal MeditationPart 7 — The PerfectionistEp 36 | The Perfectionist — Awareness LessonEp 37 | The Perfectionist — Attunement LessonEp 38 | The Perfectionist — Ego Explore MeditationEp 39 | The Perfectionist — Ego Heal MeditationPart 8 — IntegrationEp 40 | The Integration — Lesson🌿 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.

  33. 25

    S2 Ep 10 | Beyond the Story | Why Can't I Say No? | The Pleaser | Attunement Lesson

    This lesson helps you begin to attune to The Pleaser and understand what this part of you actually needs.You'll learn to pause before automatically saying yes, reconnect with your own needs and begin building the safety to express them — without losing the part of you that genuinely cares for others.The deeper lesson here is discernment: learning the difference between genuine giving and abandoning yourself to maintain connection.Reflection PromptsIf you turned the volume down on The Pleaser, what would change?How would you think, feel or respond differently?What does this part actually need from you?Beyond the Story — ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 16 | IntroductionIf you're new to Beyond the Story, start here.Part 2 — The E.M.O.T.E ProtocolEp 17 | The E.M.O.T.E Protocol — LessonEp 18 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 11Ep 19 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 5Part 3 — The WorrierEp 20 | The Worrier — Awareness LessonEp 21 | The Worrier — Attunement LessonEp 22 | The Worrier — Ancestral Explore MeditationEp 23 | The Worrier — Ancestral Heal MeditationPart 4 — The PleaserEp 24 | The Pleaser — Awareness LessonEp 25 | The Pleaser — Child Attunement LessonEp 26 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Explore MeditationEp 27 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Heal MeditationPart 5 — The CriticEp 28 | The Critic — Awareness LessonEp 29 | The Critic — Attunement LessonEp 30 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Explore MeditationEp 31 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Heal MeditationPart 6 — The SuppressorEp 32 | The Suppressor — Awareness LessonEp 33 | The Suppressor — Attunement LessonEp 34 | The Suppressor — Shadow Explore MeditationEp 35 | The Suppressor — Shadow Heal MeditationPart 7 — The PerfectionistEp 36 | The Perfectionist — Awareness LessonEp 37 | The Perfectionist — Attunement LessonEp 38 | The Perfectionist — Ego Explore MeditationEp 39 | The Perfectionist — Ego Heal MeditationPart 8 — IntegrationEp 40 | The Integration — Lesson🌿 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.

  34. 24

    S2 Ep 9 | Beyond the Story | Why Can't I Say No? | The Pleaser | Awareness Lesson

    Why can't I say no? This lesson helps you recognise The Pleaser — the part of you that learned to prioritise others to feel safe, loved and connected.You'll learn to recognise when this pattern is active, understand what sits beneath it, and begin creating space between keeping others happy and staying connected to yourself.Core ExperienceSaying yes when you mean noPutting others' needs before your ownAvoiding conflictWorrying about disappointing othersStruggling to know what you actually wantWhat We Are MeetingThe part of you that learned that connection could depend on what you give.What We ObserveNotice when The Pleaser is activated and the stories underneath it:"I don't want to let them down.""It's easier if I just do it.""What if they think badly of me?""I need to make sure they're okay."Reflection PromptsWhat does The Pleaser look and feel like for you?When does this part show up most strongly?What situations, people or feelings activate it?How does it take over your thoughts, body or behaviour?Beyond the Story — ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 16 | IntroductionIf you're new to Beyond the Story, start here.Part 2 — The E.M.O.T.E ProtocolEp 17 | The E.M.O.T.E Protocol — LessonEp 18 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 11Ep 19 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 5Part 3 — The WorrierEp 20 | The Worrier — Awareness LessonEp 21 | The Worrier — Attunement LessonEp 22 | The Worrier — Ancestral Explore MeditationEp 23 | The Worrier — Ancestral Heal MeditationPart 4 — The PleaserEp 24 | The Pleaser — Awareness LessonEp 25 | The Pleaser — Child Attunement LessonEp 26 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Explore MeditationEp 27 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Heal MeditationPart 5 — The CriticEp 28 | The Critic — Awareness LessonEp 29 | The Critic — Attunement LessonEp 30 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Explore MeditationEp 31 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Heal MeditationPart 6 — The SuppressorEp 32 | The Suppressor — Awareness LessonEp 33 | The Suppressor — Attunement LessonEp 34 | The Suppressor — Shadow Explore MeditationEp 35 | The Suppressor — Shadow Heal MeditationPart 7 — The PerfectionistEp 36 | The Perfectionist — Awareness LessonEp 37 | The Perfectionist — Attunement LessonEp 38 | The Perfectionist — Ego Explore MeditationEp 39 | The Perfectionist — Ego Heal MeditationPart 8 — IntegrationEp 40 | The Integration — Lesson🌿 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.

  35. 23

    S2 Ep 8 | Beyond the Story | Why Am I Always Overthinking? | The Worrier | Ancestral Heal Meditation

    This meditation is about healing and integrating the deeper ancestral patterns connected to The Worrier.Use it when you're ready to move beyond understanding the pattern and begin gently releasing what your system may still be carrying, while reconnecting with the strengths and wisdom within your lineage.How to Use This Meditation | HealThis meditation is about integration — gently updating what your system has been holding.You don't need to "do it perfectly." Just let yourself be guided, staying connected to your body as much as feels comfortable.This isn't about removing The Worrier or your ancestral trauma. That part of you may still show up.But what changes is your relationship to it.Over time, you begin to recognise the pattern more quickly, hold it more lightly and respond with more ease.There's often a quiet moment where you notice it arise and think, "Ah, there you are" — without the same weight or urgency.That's the shift.Returning to the Explore and Heal meditations can support your mind and body through this evolution process.Beyond the Story — ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 16 | IntroductionIf you're new to Beyond the Story, start here.Part 2 — The E.M.O.T.E ProtocolEp 17 | The E.M.O.T.E Protocol — LessonEp 18 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 11Ep 19 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 5Part 3 — The WorrierEp 20 | The Worrier — Awareness LessonEp 21 | The Worrier — Attunement LessonEp 22 | The Worrier — Ancestral Explore MeditationEp 23 | The Worrier — Ancestral Heal MeditationPart 4 — The PleaserEp 24 | The Pleaser — Awareness LessonEp 25 | The Pleaser — Child Attunement LessonEp 26 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Explore MeditationEp 27 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Heal MeditationPart 5 — The CriticEp 28 | The Critic — Awareness LessonEp 29 | The Critic — Attunement LessonEp 30 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Explore MeditationEp 31 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Heal MeditationPart 6 — The SuppressorEp 32 | The Suppressor — Awareness LessonEp 33 | The Suppressor — Attunement LessonEp 34 | The Suppressor — Shadow Explore MeditationEp 35 | The Suppressor — Shadow Heal MeditationPart 7 — The PerfectionistEp 36 | The Perfectionist — Awareness LessonEp 37 | The Perfectionist — Attunement LessonEp 38 | The Perfectionist — Ego Explore MeditationEp 39 | The Perfectionist — Ego Heal MeditationPart 8 — IntegrationEp 40 | The Integration — LessonMore Helpful Tools for Sensitive Souls🌀 Meet Your Sensitive System: Take the official HSP-R Assessment🌀 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.🌀 Discover the My Linktree

  36. 22

    S2 Ep 7 | Beyond the Story | Why Am I Always Overthinking? | The Worrier | Ancestral Explore Meditation

    This meditation is an invitation to go deeper with The Worrier and gently connect with what sits beneath the pattern. It explores the ancestral patterns, beliefs and emotional experiences that may be connected to your experience of worry, helping you explore what you may be carrying that isn't yours to hold.What is Ancestral Trauma?Ancestral trauma is when patterns of fear, stress or hypervigilance are passed down through generations. Your system may carry a sense that the world isn't fully safe — even if your current reality is different.For The Worrier, this can show up as overthinking, scanning for danger or feeling like you always need to be prepared.Why Is It Important?When you recognise that a pattern didn't necessarily start with you, it can soften the pressure. You're not "too anxious" — your system learned to stay alert for a reason.It can also help you recognise the strengths within your lineage — awareness, intuition and the ability to sense what others might miss — without needing to remain in constant tension.How to Use This Meditation | ExploreThis meditation is an invitation to gently connect with what sits beneath the pattern.Try to listen somewhere you won't be disturbed. Headphones and an eye mask can help you drop in more deeply, and getting physically comfortable really matters here.As you move through it, allow yourself to connect to:imagery in the mindsensations in the bodyemotions or memories that arisewords, feelings or inner knowing that come throughThere's no need to force anything or expect a big experience. Some days it may feel subtle, other days deeper.Over time, this is what helps you access your intuition and subconscious more naturally.Beyond the Story — ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 16 | IntroductionIf you're new to Beyond the Story, start here.Part 2 — The E.M.O.T.E ProtocolEp 17 | The E.M.O.T.E Protocol — LessonEp 18 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 11Ep 19 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 5Part 3 — The WorrierEp 20 | The Worrier — Awareness LessonEp 21 | The Worrier — Attunement LessonEp 22 | The Worrier — Ancestral Explore MeditationEp 23 | The Worrier — Ancestral Heal MeditationPart 4 — The PleaserEp 24 | The Pleaser — Awareness LessonEp 25 | The Pleaser — Child Attunement LessonEp 26 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Explore MeditationEp 27 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Heal MeditationPart 5 — The CriticEp 28 | The Critic — Awareness LessonEp 29 | The Critic — Attunement LessonEp 30 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Explore MeditationEp 31 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Heal MeditationPart 6 — The SuppressorEp 32 | The Suppressor — Awareness LessonEp 33 | The Suppressor — Attunement LessonEp 34 | The Suppressor — Shadow Explore MeditationEp 35 | The Suppressor — Shadow Heal MeditationPart 7 — The PerfectionistEp 36 | The Perfectionist — Awareness LessonEp 37 | The Perfectionist — Attunement LessonEp 38 | The Perfectionist — Ego Explore MeditationEp 39 | The Perfectionist — Ego Heal MeditationPart 8 — IntegrationEp 40 | The Integration — Lesson🌿 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.

  37. 21

    S2 Ep 6 | Beyond the Story | Why Am I Always Overthinking? | The Worrier | Attunement Lesson

    In this episode, we move from awareness into attunement with The Worrier.Rather than trying to stop worrying or fix this part of you, I’ll show you how to change your relationship with worry by bringing your attention back to your body, the present moment and a sense of safety.You’ll learn how to recognise when worry is beginning to take over, create a pause and respond with reassurance rather than getting pulled further into your thoughts.We’ll also explore the deeper lesson of The Worrier: trust — trusting the present moment, your body and your ability to handle whatever life brings.If you feel called to explore this pattern more deeply, you can also use the Ancestral Explore and Heal Meditations that follow this lesson.Reflection PointsTending This PartGently return to your body and the present momentOrient to what feels safe right nowRemind yourself safety is here, not in future controlSoften the need to figure everything outLet your body settle before your mind tries to solveEvolutionary LessonTrust a felt sense of safety in the present moment, without needing to control or predict what comes next.Reflection PromptsIf you were able to gently turn the volume down on this part of you, what would begin to change?How would you think, feel, or respond differently, both internally and in your relationships?What might this part of you actually need from you in those moments? (Not what it does, but what it's trying to protect, seek or feel underneath the surface.)Beyond the Story — ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 16 | IntroductionIf you're new to Beyond the Story, start here.Part 2 — The E.M.O.T.E ProtocolEp 17 | The E.M.O.T.E Protocol — LessonEp 18 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 11Ep 19 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 5Part 3 — The WorrierEp 20 | The Worrier — Awareness LessonEp 21 | The Worrier — Attunement LessonEp 22 | The Worrier — Ancestral Explore MeditationEp 23 | The Worrier — Ancestral Heal MeditationPart 4 — The PleaserEp 24 | The Pleaser — Awareness LessonEp 25 | The Pleaser — Child Attunement LessonEp 26 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Explore MeditationEp 27 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Heal MeditationPart 5 — The CriticEp 28 | The Critic — Awareness LessonEp 29 | The Critic — Attunement LessonEp 30 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Explore MeditationEp 31 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Heal MeditationPart 6 — The SuppressorEp 32 | The Suppressor — Awareness LessonEp 33 | The Suppressor — Attunement LessonEp 34 | The Suppressor — Shadow Explore MeditationEp 35 | The Suppressor — Shadow Heal MeditationPart 7 — The PerfectionistEp 36 | The Perfectionist — Awareness LessonEp 37 | The Perfectionist — Attunement LessonEp 38 | The Perfectionist — Ego Explore MeditationEp 39 | The Perfectionist — Ego Heal MeditationPart 8 — IntegrationEp 40 | The Integration — Lesson🌿 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.

  38. 20

    S2 Ep 5 | Beyond the Story | Why Am I Always Overthinking? | The Worrier | Awareness Lesson

    The Worrier is the first HSP Archetype we explore in Beyond the Story. In this episode, I’ll help you recognise how the Worrier shows up through overthinking, scanning, planning ahead, replaying conversations and struggling to switch off.What We Are MeetingSomething in you learned the world isn't fully safe.This part tries to protect you by staying alert, thinking ahead and keeping control.Meeting it isn't about stopping it, but allowing these patterns to be here.What We ObserveStep back and notice when The Worrier is activated. You might notice:"Something could go wrong.""I need to figure this out.""I won't be able to handle it if I don't stay on top of this.""I need to be prepared."Reflection PromptsIf this archetype was a separate part of you, how would you see them?What do they look like, and how do they hold themselves?How do they move, speak and show up in your world?When does this part show up most strongly?Beyond the Story — ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 16 | IntroductionIf you're new to Beyond the Story, start here.Part 2 — The E.M.O.T.E ProtocolEp 17 | The E.M.O.T.E Protocol — LessonEp 18 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 11Ep 19 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 5Part 3 — The WorrierEp 20 | The Worrier — Awareness LessonEp 21 | The Worrier — Attunement LessonEp 22 | The Worrier — Ancestral Explore MeditationEp 23 | The Worrier — Ancestral Heal MeditationPart 4 — The PleaserEp 24 | The Pleaser — Awareness LessonEp 25 | The Pleaser — Child Attunement LessonEp 26 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Explore MeditationEp 27 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Heal MeditationPart 5 — The CriticEp 28 | The Critic — Awareness LessonEp 29 | The Critic — Attunement LessonEp 30 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Explore MeditationEp 31 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Heal MeditationPart 6 — The SuppressorEp 32 | The Suppressor — Awareness LessonEp 33 | The Suppressor — Attunement LessonEp 34 | The Suppressor — Shadow Explore MeditationEp 35 | The Suppressor — Shadow Heal MeditationPart 7 — The PerfectionistEp 36 | The Perfectionist — Awareness LessonEp 37 | The Perfectionist — Attunement LessonEp 38 | The Perfectionist — Ego Explore MeditationEp 39 | The Perfectionist — Ego Heal MeditationPart 8 — IntegrationEp 40 | The Integration — LessonMore Helpful Tools for Sensitive Souls 🌀 Meet Your Sensitive System: Take the official HSP-R Assessment 🌀 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.🌀 Discover the My Linktree

  39. 19

    S2 Ep 4 | Beyond the Story | The E.M.O.T.E | Meditation 5

    This is a shorter version of the E.M.O.T.E meditation, created for those moments when something is coming up and you need a little space to pause, ground yourself and explore what's happening in real time.Use this meditation when you notice a trigger, emotion or familiar pattern beginning to take over. It will guide you through the E.M.O.T.E Protocol in just a few minutes, helping you step out of the experience, gently observe what's happening and tend to what you need in that moment.You don't need to know exactly what's going on or have time to go deeply into it. Sometimes, creating a little space is enough to help you feel more grounded and choose how you want to respond.Your E.M.O.T.E ReminderExperience — What am I experiencing right now?Meet — Can I meet this without pushing it away or becoming it?Observe — What's happening in my thoughts, emotions and body?Tend — What do I need right now?Evolve — How do I want to respond?Beyond the Story — ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 16 | IntroductionIf you're new to Beyond the Story, start here. This introduction will help you understand what to expect from the series and how to get the most from the work.Part 2 — The E.M.O.T.E ProtocolEp 17 | The E.M.O.T.E Protocol — LessonEp 18 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 11Ep 19 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 5Part 3 — The WorrierEp 20 | The Worrier — Awareness LessonEp 21 | The Worrier — Attunement LessonEp 22 | The Worrier — Ancestral Explore MeditationEp 23 | The Worrier — Ancestral Heal MeditationPart 4 — The PleaserEp 24 | The Pleaser — Awareness LessonEp 25 | The Pleaser — Child Attunement LessonEp 26 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Explore MeditationEp 27 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Heal MeditationPart 5 — The CriticEp 28 | The Critic — Awareness LessonEp 29 | The Critic — Attunement LessonEp 30 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Explore MeditationEp 31 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Heal MeditationPart 6 — The SuppressorEp 32 | The Suppressor — Awareness LessonEp 33 | The Suppressor — Attunement LessonEp 34 | The Suppressor — Shadow Explore MeditationEp 35 | The Suppressor — Shadow Heal MeditationPart 7 — The PerfectionistEp 36 | The Perfectionist — Awareness LessonEp 37 | The Perfectionist — Attunement LessonEp 38 | The Perfectionist — Ego Explore MeditationEp 39 | The Perfectionist — Ego Heal MeditationPart 8 — IntegrationEp 40 | The Integration — LessonMore Helpful Tools for Sensitive Souls 🌀 Meet Your Sensitive System: Take the official HSP-R Assessment 🌀 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.🌀 Discover the My Linktree

  40. 18

    S2 Ep 3 | Beyond the Story | The E.M.O.T.E | Meditation 11

    This meditation is here for the moments when you need to pause and explore what’s happening for you in real time.When you notice an emotion, trigger or pattern coming up, this guided practice will take you through the E.M.O.T.E Protocol — helping you create some space around your experience, gently observe what's happening and listen to what you need.You don't need to have everything figured out before you press play. You can simply arrive with whatever is here and allow yourself to be guided through it.Reflection PromptsThe EMOTE Protocol A simple way to move through patterns or triggers in real time.E — Experience M — Meet O — ObserveT — Tend E — Evolve Remember: You're not trying to get rid of anything. You're learning how to meet yourself in a way that creates change.Beyond the Story — ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 16 | IntroductionIf you're new to Beyond the Story, start here. This introduction will help you understand what to expect from the series and how to get the most from the work.Part 2 — The E.M.O.T.E ProtocolEp 17 | The E.M.O.T.E Protocol — LessonEp 18 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 11Ep 19 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 5Part 3 — The WorrierEp 20 | The Worrier — Awareness LessonEp 21 | The Worrier — Attunement LessonEp 22 | The Worrier — Ancestral Explore MeditationEp 23 | The Worrier — Ancestral Heal MeditationPart 4 — The PleaserEp 24 | The Pleaser — Awareness LessonEp 25 | The Pleaser — Child Attunement LessonEp 26 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Explore MeditationEp 27 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Heal MeditationPart 5 — The CriticEp 28 | The Critic — Awareness LessonEp 29 | The Critic — Attunement LessonEp 30 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Explore MeditationEp 31 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Heal MeditationPart 6 — The SuppressorEp 32 | The Suppressor — Awareness LessonEp 33 | The Suppressor — Attunement LessonEp 34 | The Suppressor — Shadow Explore MeditationEp 35 | The Suppressor — Shadow Heal MeditationPart 7 — The PerfectionistEp 36 | The Perfectionist — Awareness LessonEp 37 | The Perfectionist — Attunement LessonEp 38 | The Perfectionist — Ego Explore MeditationEp 39 | The Perfectionist — Ego Heal MeditationPart 8 — IntegrationEp 40 | The Integration — LessonMore Helpful Tools for Sensitive Souls 🌀 Meet Your Sensitive System: Take the official HSP-R Assessment 🌀 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.🌀 Discover the My Linktree

  41. 17

    S2 Ep 2 | Beyond the Story | The E.M.O.T.E Protocol | Lesson

    The E.M.O.T.E Protocol — a simple framework you can use to process your emotions, patterns and triggers in real time.I’ll walk you through each part of the protocol and show you how it can help you create space around what you're experiencing, understand what's happening beneath the surface and begin to respond differently.🫶 Reflection PromptsThe EMOTE Protocol E — Experience Bringing the unconscious into the conscious. Notice what's here, without trying to change it.M — Meet Stay with it. Don't run, suppress, or obsess. This is the moment of the "handshake" — allowing the experience to be there.O — Observe Get curious. What archetype is here? What is it trying to protect? What stories is it telling you that keep this pattern in place?T — Tend Respond with care. What does this part of you need right now? Support, reassurance, boundaries, rest, expression?E — Evolve Zoom out gently. What can you do to support this part of you long term? Or the next time this trigger arises?Beyond the Story — ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 16 | IntroductionIf you're new to Beyond the Story, start here. This introduction will help you understand what to expect from the series and how to get the most from the work.Part 2 — The E.M.O.T.E ProtocolEp 17 | The E.M.O.T.E Protocol — LessonEp 18 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 11Ep 19 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 5Part 3 — The WorrierEp 20 | The Worrier — Awareness LessonEp 21 | The Worrier — Attunement LessonEp 22 | The Worrier — Ancestral Explore MeditationEp 23 | The Worrier — Ancestral Heal MeditationPart 4 — The PleaserEp 24 | The Pleaser — Awareness LessonEp 25 | The Pleaser — Child Attunement LessonEp 26 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Explore MeditationEp 27 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Heal MeditationPart 5 — The CriticEp 28 | The Critic — Awareness LessonEp 29 | The Critic — Attunement LessonEp 30 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Explore MeditationEp 31 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Heal MeditationPart 6 — The SuppressorEp 32 | The Suppressor — Awareness LessonEp 33 | The Suppressor — Attunement LessonEp 34 | The Suppressor — Shadow Explore MeditationEp 35 | The Suppressor — Shadow Heal MeditationPart 7 — The PerfectionistEp 36 | The Perfectionist — Awareness LessonEp 37 | The Perfectionist — Attunement LessonEp 38 | The Perfectionist — Ego Explore MeditationEp 39 | The Perfectionist — Ego Heal MeditationPart 8 — IntegrationEp 40 | The Integration — LessonMore Helpful Tools for Sensitive Souls 🌀 Meet Your Sensitive System: Take the official HSP-R Assessment 🌀 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.🌀 Discover the My Linktree

  42. 16

    S2 Ep 1 | Beyond the Story | Series Explanation

    Beyond the Story is here to help you understand yourself, your patterns and your story on a deeper level.The E.M.O.T.E Protocol gives you a framework you can use in the moment to help you process emotions as they arise — so you can meet what you're feeling rather than getting stuck in it.The HSP Archetypes help you recognise the patterns you may have developed over time and understand how they show up in your thoughts, emotions, behaviours and relationships. Once you become aware of a pattern, you'll learn how to attune to it and begin to heal it, rather than simply repeating it.Each archetype also has two powerful meditations: an Explore Meditation to help you go deeper when something feels unresolved or a deeper issue comes up, and a Heal Meditation to support you in working with what you've uncovered.These are resources you can return to whenever you need them. Healing isn't always linear — something may come up months or even years later, and you can come back to the archetype, explore what's underneath it and give yourself the space to heal.Beyond the Story — ContentsPart 1 — IntroductionEp 16 | IntroductionIf you're new to Beyond the Story, start here. This introduction will help you understand what to expect from the series and how to get the most from the work.Part 2 — The E.M.O.T.E ProtocolEp 17 | The E.M.O.T.E Protocol — LessonEp 18 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 11Ep 19 | The E.M.O.T.E — Meditation 5Part 3 — The WorrierEp 20 | The Worrier — Awareness LessonEp 21 | The Worrier — Attunement LessonEp 22 | The Worrier — Ancestral Explore MeditationEp 23 | The Worrier — Ancestral Heal MeditationPart 4 — The PleaserEp 24 | The Pleaser — Awareness LessonEp 25 | The Pleaser — Child Attunement LessonEp 26 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Explore MeditationEp 27 | The Pleaser — Inner Child Heal MeditationPart 5 — The CriticEp 28 | The Critic — Awareness LessonEp 29 | The Critic — Attunement LessonEp 30 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Explore MeditationEp 31 | The Critic — Yin & Yang Heal MeditationPart 6 — The SuppressorEp 32 | The Suppressor — Awareness LessonEp 33 | The Suppressor — Attunement LessonEp 34 | The Suppressor — Shadow Explore MeditationEp 35 | The Suppressor — Shadow Heal MeditationPart 7 — The PerfectionistEp 36 | The Perfectionist — Awareness LessonEp 37 | The Perfectionist — Attunement LessonEp 38 | The Perfectionist — Ego Explore MeditationEp 39 | The Perfectionist — Ego Heal MeditationPart 8 — IntegrationEp 40 | The Integration — LessonMore Helpful Tools for Sensitive Souls 🌀 Meet Your Sensitive System: Take the official HSP-R Assessment 🌀 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.🌀 Discover the My Linktree

  43. 15

    S1 Ep 15 | Your Inner Temple | Guided Meditation

    In this meditation, I’m inviting you to journey inward and discover your own Inner Temple — a safe space within you that you can return to whenever you need to feel grounded, connected and at home in yourself.I’ll guide you beyond the roles, expectations and armour you carry in everyday life, and into a deeper connection with your authentic self.Together, we’ll explore the different parts of your internal world: your emotions, ancestral patterns, inner child, shadow and manifestations. You don’t need to fix or change anything. Instead, I invite you to simply notice what your body, subconscious and intuition bring to your awareness.From there, we’ll move into a sacred space of light, creating an opportunity to release what no longer needs to be carried and make space for healing, clarity and integration.Your Inner Temple is always available to you — a place to rest, explore, reconnect and heal whenever you need to come home to yourself.Take your time with this meditation. There is nothing to force, fix or figure out. Simply notice what arises.Reflection Prompts1. What did your Inner Temple look and feel like? What might this space represent for you?2. As you explored your Inner Temple, was there anything you noticed that surprised you, comforted you or felt like it needed your attention?3. How can you return to your Inner Temple in everyday life, and what would you like to receive from this space when you do?More Helpful Tools for Sensitive Souls 🌀 Meet Your Sensitive System: Take the official HSP-R Assessment 🌀 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.🌀 Discover the My Linktree

  44. 14

    S1 Ep 14 | Feeling Drained | Guided Meditation

    In this episode, I’m gently guiding you through a practice for those moments when your sensitive system feels completely drained.When even one small task feels too much, it doesn’t mean you’re lazy, incapable or failing. It might simply mean your capacity is low. As highly sensitive people, we can run out of energy more quickly because we are perceiving more, processing more, and carrying more than we often realise.So this is a soft space to pause, rest, and recharge.I’ll guide you through breath, a gentle melting body scan, and grounding energy work to help you move out of the thinking mind and back into the feeling body.Come back to this episode whenever you feel drained, low capacity, or in need of being gently topped back upMore Helpful Tools for Sensitive Souls 🌀 Meet Your Sensitive System: Take the official HSP-R Assessment 🌀 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.🌀 Discover the My Linktree

  45. 13

    S1 Ep 13 | The Sensitive System: Part 2 – Your System | Lesson

    🎙️ A Special Double-Feature Teaching SeriesWelcome to Part 2 of this special teaching series.In Part 1, we explored the science behind the highly sensitive nervous system. Now it's time to make it personal.In this lesson, I'll guide you through the official HSP-R (Highly Sensitive Person Scale-Revised) Assessment and help you understand what your results actually mean.Because being highly sensitive isn't one-size-fits-all.Your sensitivity has its own unique profile, and understanding how it shows up for you can help you stop asking, "What's wrong with me?" and start asking, "What does my sensitive system need?"Together, we'll explore:• What the HSP-R Assessment measures• The six different areas of sensitivity• How to understand your sensitivity profile• Why two highly sensitive people can experience life very differently• How your results can help you better support your nervous system• The first steps towards sensitivity-informed livingThis isn't about putting yourself into a box or giving yourself another label. It's about building a more honest, compassionate relationship with the way your nervous system experiences the world.🌀 Meet Your Sensitive System: Take the official HSP-R Assessment 🌀 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.🌀 Discover the My Linktree

  46. 12

    S1 Ep 12 | The Sensitive System: Part 1 – The Science | Lesson

    🎙️ A Special Double-Feature Teaching SeriesThis episode is a little different from my usual meditations. It is the first of two teaching episodes created to help you understand your sensitive system more deeply.In Part 1, I’m taking you into the science behind high sensitivity—what it actually means, why your nervous system may experience the world differently, and why your sensitivity is not a weakness or personality flaw.If you’ve ever wondered why you feel everything so deeply, why busy environments leave you exhausted, or why you seem to notice things that others don’t, this lesson is for you.Together, we’ll explore:• What high sensitivity actually is• The science behind Sensory Processing Sensitivity• Why your nervous system may process more information• Why sensitive people can become overwhelmed more easily• The evolutionary purpose of sensitivity• What brain research tells us about the sensitive systemUnderstanding your sensitivity can be the beginning of letting go of the belief that there is something wrong with you—and learning to see that your system may simply need a different kind of support.In Part 2: Meet Your Sensitive System, I’ll guide you through the HSP-R Assessment and help you understand the six different areas in which your sensitivity may express itself.More Helpful Tools for Sensitive Souls 🌀 Meet Your Sensitive System: Take the official HSP-R Assessment 🌀 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.🌀 Discover the My Linktree

  47. 11

    S1 Ep 11 | Overstimulated | Guided Meditation

    In this episode, I’m gently guiding you through a practice for those moments when your sensitive system feels overstimulated.When there has been too much noise, too many messages, too many emotions, too many jobs, too much life — it can start to build in the body. You might feel irritable, buzzy, tense, tired, distracted, or like you just want to cancel everything and be alone for a while.So this is a soft space to pause, breathe, and come back into your body.I’ll guide you through breath, grounding, touch and gentle sensory awareness to help you create less input and feel a little more held.Come back to this episode whenever you feel overstimulated and need to return home to yourself.More Helpful Tools for Sensitive Souls 🌀 Meet Your Sensitive System: Take the official HSP-R Assessment 🌀 Looking for more 1:1 support with me? Book a free 30-minute call and let’s talk about what you need.🌀 Discover the My Linktree

Type above to search every episode's transcript for a word or phrase. Matches are scoped to this podcast.

Searching…

We're indexing this podcast's transcripts for the first time — this can take a minute or two. We'll show results as soon as they're ready.

No matches for "" in this podcast's transcripts.

Showing of matches

No topics indexed yet for this podcast.

Loading reviews...

ABOUT THIS SHOW

A sensitivity-informed podcast for highly sensitive people learning to stop overriding themselves and return to the body. Through grounded teaching, somatic awareness, nervous system education, visualisation and intuitive guidance, each episode helps you understand your sensitivity, soften old adaptations, and come back to your authentic self.Season 1: One-Off Lessons and Guided MeditationsSeason 2: Beyond the Story SeriesSeason 3: Stabilise with Somatics Series

HOSTED BY

At Peace Healing

CATEGORIES

Frequently Asked Questions

How many episodes does The Highly Sensitive Return have?

The Highly Sensitive Return currently has 47 episodes available on PodParley. New episodes are automatically indexed when they're published to the podcast feed.

What is The Highly Sensitive Return about?

A sensitivity-informed podcast for highly sensitive people learning to stop overriding themselves and return to the body. Through grounded teaching, somatic awareness, nervous system education, visualisation and intuitive guidance, each episode helps you understand your sensitivity, soften old...

How often does The Highly Sensitive Return release new episodes?

The Highly Sensitive Return has 47 episodes. Check the episode list to see recent publication dates and frequency.

Where can I listen to The Highly Sensitive Return?

You can listen to The Highly Sensitive Return on PodParley by clicking any episode. We provide an embedded audio player for direct listening, and you can also subscribe via your preferred podcast app using the RSS feed.

Who hosts The Highly Sensitive Return?

The Highly Sensitive Return is created and hosted by At Peace Healing.
URL copied to clipboard!